How to Shoot Your Shot | Approach

Hi loves! FELLAS Y'ALL NEED TO HEAR THIS! Make sure you tune is as we continue this series next week! Forgive me for the inconsistency, my resources are very limited at the moment. But, as soon as I get alllll the way right there will be a new video up every Wednesday. I love y'all for the support and still being there for me through everything. (:
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[@jabir_mohamed]

Never ask a fish how to catch other fishes, ask the fisherman.

[@akawohlisaquui2144]

4real bruh

[@darkskineffect]

@@akawohlisaquui2144 facts

[@ty3unice]

Wow that makes so much sense 👍

[@timferris1478]

Jay Mohamed exactly 💯💯

[@onlinesavant]

"fish", is the plural.

[@zachfulwood3234]

That Donell jones background music got me.

[@BlueFlame_l.o.g]

It's so crazy that females say everything they hate in a man and end up wit him Everytime lol

[@khambrelmathis6101]

@J Dolo this is absolute FAX... Chicks have rules for dudes that they're not really physically attracted to, and they break these rules for dudes that they are attracted to. Women who I have attracted have shown me this. My best advice is to be unpredictable with Women. It engages their emotions and keeps them interested. We all know Women are emotional AF and they get bored easy so this keeps her engaged. Remember Women don't really know wtf they want 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@lilrodd20032003]

Legit. The psychology of pickup from behind the scenes. Every comment is also true. What she said that is the most truth regardless of what anyone says...its a game..because everything matter and has to align at the right moment..yet one variable can change the whole game..only way to know how to place which variable where is thri practice and getting a feel for women, knowing what you want most importantly knowing whi you are so you can build your own self confidence and comfort. Self confidence is the lack of insecurity...if your secure with yourself...you approach women and conversate different. Not needy, or desperate dont need anything but a good vibe...which actually leads to what you really want.

[@MikeJones-bn7mw]

I feel like it’s all about looks nowadays

[@donteajones2638]

Mike Jones physical attraction is a lot of it let’s be honest a guy can have the best approach of all time but if the girl doesn’t think he’s attractive she not going to fall for him but at the same time you never know

[@thepro3643]

Sadly it is. Im a pretty goodlookin dude but not no celebrty polished ass insta nigga and theres some top tier bitches that even the looks i got dont be enough therefore i try to improve my looks and maybe you should to incase your not that attractive. BUT FUN FACT most dudes are pussies when it comes to girls and therefore looks dont really get them chick. Moral of the story, Looks is highly important but it IS NOT THE ONLT THiNG! Always remember that

[@skylerstroh5958]

its more of a personality over looks but looks play a part in it

[@maclee713]

Looks miiight get her like that but depth keeps her

[@Hawkkaii-ih2ps]

Yep looks matter

[@thepro3643]

Just go up to a girl and tell it how it is. Ive done this a billion times. Either a girl likes your vibe and your looks and automatically lets you get at her or she simply rejects you because in her opinion you arent appealing in whatever aspect it may be. Ive gotten more rejections than acceptances but those acceptances are a numerous amount of acceptances. Im not even joking it just comes down if she find you appealing or not. On a good day im a solid 8 or 9 and ive gotten accepted by 3 10’s, 1 9, 2 8’s and 6 7’s/6’s in a span of 3 years. Some i went along way and with some i just failed to maintain them. If it makes things easier for any dude at the club, get buzzed or mild drunk and go up to a girl, that fear is hidden but obviously make sure that you eventually build up confidence to approach a female when you arent high off of beer. Ive hollered at my waitresses, female classmates, store workers like cashiers and club chicks. It also surprises me sometimes when some fineass females are very chill and usually those arent expecting a perfect justin bieber looking dude. This has definitely changed my life on the outlook and now i just try and get better each time. By no means am i an expert or anywhere near but this has definitely made me come a longassss and successful way.

[@travis72fair]

I'm not BSing right now....this actually worked

[@Nkgnightmare]

Travis Fair it did bro 👀👀

[@OwolabbyAzeez]

Good points and more girls definitely should holla and at the very least give MORE compliments to guys lol. With regards to Dming the Key to a successful DM with the highest shooting percentage or likelihood of getting a response is to like about 2-3 pictures and wait for him/her to like a couple back and/or follow you as well. If you just send a DM without any kind of flirting beforehand you’re shooting percentage is a lot lower lol. This approach isn't full proof by no means because there's so many reasons why a guy/girl may reject you that have nothing to do with you. However, if they are in a state of mind to accept your romantic advances and actually like you then you're pretty much guaranteed that when you DM her/him you'll be able to get them off Instagram and ultimately meet up with them in person.

[@silveriohernandez8761]

@@OwolabbyAzeez yo I don't think anyone read that long are paragraph but me but yea sane

[@OwolabbyAzeez]

Silverio Hernandez lol 😂 true you a real one still

[@MikeJones-bn7mw]

Silverio Hernandez lmaoo Hell yeah, I was like nopeee

[@Bluecollarrealtor]

When a woman turns you down and you “Thank you for your time and have a nice day” she will be relieved that you were mature and didn’t get curse her out.

[@Godedu1]

Just pay for it fellas. Dont go through all this. Smh

[@khambrelmathis6101]

😂😂🤔😂

[@jhariz7387]

Lol!

[@zachonpif2]

muahhahahahahahahahahahhahahhaahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahhahaahhahahahahahahahahahhhaaaaaaaaa..... (drinks water) mmmmmmmmmmmmuahhahahahahaahhahahahahahhaahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhaahahhahahahahaa yo you made my day

[@larrygaskins23]

It's cheaper

[@Godedu1]

@@larrygaskins23 Good luck with that.

[@atmtwo7sel334]

Oooo say what , say what , say what.?? You know that I like it baby... I like that song playing in the baccground

[@thatonedreamsomeonecrushed1912]

I be shooting shots like Shaquille O'NEAL at the free throw line I don't need advice

[@MattGarcyaDC]

💀💀

[@DAReed-ps1gx]

100%

[@freshtoast4674]

Rahhhh

[@mordecai8707]

I need this confidence 💀 eat this niggas ass straight up

[@tuxedomechanic6019]

Walks up: You are very beautiful, it's a shame I'm too late because you have a ring on your wedding finger. Walks away.

[@coreywilliams5418]

Single forever....I’m tired of trying,tired of rejection,tired of shallow females,I’m tired of no effort in y’all

[@timferris1478]

Corey Williams bet you gotta gf now lol

[@butterscotchlolly3744]

It's simple bros. Don't do anything at all. Focus on your purpose and the ladies will come. Girls have all of theses requirements that they themselves don't know what they want. Just have comon sense and treat yourself and the girl with respect. Otherwise, I can care less about what a women want, it's all what I want.

[@theletimenoeffect2160]

This advice is way better then this dumb as video the advice she gave will put u in the friend zone or just a waist of time I'm like wen she said I'm glad a dude didn't ask me for my number I'm like so ur a advice is fake as hell

[@charlestinewilliams3999]

Hair poppin oh and Facts!

[@Lilrocfamily]

Good tips and shooting your shot lol but I’m old fashion and approach. New follower here 👋 great video and everything

[@KaylaPrice]

I love yall

[@katieschultz6109]

First video, been watching for 30 seconds, and I’m subscribed 😂

[@cliffordkarma538]

Didn’t want to watch it at first cause I thought it would be the same as others but trust me you made some very very valid points ..

[@christophersmith9683]

Lol when she said "BUT I'M NOT" 🤣😂

[@iceberg1chaincoop516]

I don't pay attention to them or look at em in the first place ignoring them completely 😂😂 that's the safe way to be fellas just don't give them attention that's rule number 1 ignore them in don't look they way 😭💯

[@treybryantstyle]

Haha I love it Kayla ! You are amazing !

[@KCCappa]

I love everything about this video

[@gnik7791]

I think i'm the only guy commenting here but i'll say a lot of what you're saying is true. I mean i've never been to America and didn't know people actually say "hey ma" i thought that was a myth lol. I agree with what you've said, apart from 2 things. You don't want guys to come talk to you with the whole "you look cute" thing coz it's just surface value, and you don't want them asking for your number. If i don't let you know my intentions, i.e i've seen you as someone attractive so i've come to tell you that i think you're attractive, chances are you won't really know why i've come to talk to you, so i'll just be another guy. I used to use this method, but changed it up to let the girl know she's beautiful, and saw a lot more positive results. Lots, and i mean LOTS of guys have fallen in the friendzone coz they haven't made their intentions clear. As for asking for your number on the first interaction, what if i don't see you again? That's a chance wasted of course i want your number so i can get to know you better. I'd rather deal with oh well than if. Oh well she didn't text back, oh well it was a fake number, rather than "what if i did ask for her number and she texted back and we met for a date?"

[@raheemcamal998]

gnik amen

[@christianpena9598]

All of this that you are saying is true but you have to look at how not every girl is the same they might not like if you take the extra step or if you ask for the number on the first time you see her they may like it better if you slow it down.

[@TheGhostVillain]

WHAT DO WOMEN HAVE 2 OFFER?

[@darkskineffect]

Great question!

[@ramalellison9205]

you've been hurt

[@TheGhostVillain]

@@ramalellison9205 because I asked a question that no woman has ever answered 4 me?

[@ramalellison9205]

@@TheGhostVillain ok so what can men or you offer?

[@akawohlisaquui2144]

😂😂😂

[@frederickwilliams955]

It's so funny to me when women talk about rejection men and boys live their whole life with rejection trying to talk to women

[@crimsonite1524]

and theyll tell us how we overreact and fear rejection. they group normal men with the few douche bags who insult them when they reject

[@ScaryToRemarry]

I slid in my Wife DM on Instagram and we married 6 months later. So glad I took my shot. I liked a bunch of her pics and we went back and fourth with the likes. She got me with her beauty and conversation

[@SacredDiety]

That’s pretty quick brotha, I wish you luck 🙏🏽

[@ScaryToRemarry]

Stephan Lefty thank you! Everything is well with us

[@BpoBpo24]

Shon Hyneman But why were you watching this video? 😳You already married.🤣🤣🤣

[@Shiny_J]

Apologies if this is a bit strong, but I must admit, you are absolutely gorgeous. The world's most exotic flower can only pale in likeness to your beauty. *sighs and smiles nervously* and apologies for the cheesiness lol. But definitely love your video. Even the rejection part. I have learned not to blow up over the rejection, I actually came to realize that even if I get rejected, that is a lesson learned, helps me to better myself actually. And you're totally right with it all. But gonna stop blabbering lol. Loved the video though. You definitely got a new sub. 😊

[@demetriushorne2536]

Love the skin shes in and her teeth are very pretty

[@adamab157]

It has not even been 5 seconds in & I'm already into the song just by your beauty & the song

[@dijonaekerr-goodin182]

She’s so beautiful😩😍

[@louisw4390]

Courtesy rocks!! Absolutely. Always has. Always will. These commentators whose views are rooted in the privileges afforded them by a "looks obsessed" society will be clueless and conspicuously silent as the decades pass by. If every guy on the planet had movie star looks, she would not have content for this video. She is tacitly judging books solely by the appearance of their covers. I'm in my 6th decade of life. I know. Please. Always be kind. You never know who any person "is" or "may become" to you.

[@EsteeCoako28]

Glad you're back, looking great!!!

[@quietbeest]

What you just described was how to shoot your shot with 'you'. Some good advice, but women of all facets are different. What will work with you may not work with the next girl. But again, some good advice. 👌

[@jenspyck]

A number? All I want is a reply #fml

[@3l520]

Good looks sis 💗

[@OwolabbyAzeez]

Good points and more girls definitely should holla and at the very least give MORE compliments to guys lol. With regards to Dming the Key to a successful DM with the highest shooting percentage or likelihood of getting a response is to like about 2-3 pictures and wait for him/her to like a couple back and/or follow you as well. If you just send a DM without any kind of flirting beforehand you’re shooting percentage is a lot lower lol. This approach isn't full proof by no means because there's so many reasons why a guy/girl may reject you that have nothing to do with you. However, if they are in a state of mind to accept your romantic advances and actually like you then you're pretty much guaranteed that when you DM her/him you'll be able to get them off Instagram and ultimately meet up with them in person.

[@samorioussealey8267]

woman be so picky just be grateful you look good enough for a dude to treat you right

[@JuiceJettski]

Can’t believe I’m actually looking at this video. Followed all these points and I’m still single. 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@christianpena9598]

Maybe she wasn't the one...

[@luvsscii7871]

Email: [e-mail] I have some powerful information for you that a change your life on this subject. Hit me up

[@angeljimenez-hc4eu]

Nice tips, imma try this on some girl named Kayla Price 👍🏽

[@slimwavetv6702]

1st i just wanna say your one of the most prettiest girls I ever seen I attract a lot of girls but I get left on read cuz I got no game 😅😶

[@ryancummings5621]

It’s genus that you made this video because men need to see it from a women’s perspective.

[@theletimenoeffect2160]

She basically saying if your not like a Chad or a pookie a day day or a tyrone don't bother talking to mw

[@timferris1478]

the letimeno effect bra chill out this ain’t that type of channel

[@hansolodolo92]

its something about you that give me throwback vibes...not just the Donell jones in the background

[@nuwbootz3586]

I needed this ... thank you so much ... I got this ☺️🙌🏻

[@cellotf1321]

Will this work on you ??😏

[@benfrankdalist2709]

She gotta beautiful smile

[@dbenjamin1967]

BEN FRANKDALIST yes she do, she is very beautiful!!!

[@seetruth8775]

key word playing the game cause it's all a game that men will lose everytime this is a Manuel to keep you doing what they want

[@luvsscii7871]

I'm not knocking her video. Some of the stuff she says are great points. But the problem with videos like this is one that it comes from a female and did point to tell you the things that they are attracted to. And what would work on them. But not every female in the world is like the person that's talking in the video. In fact there are thousands maybe tens or even hundreds of thousands of women that are not like her. So if you just followed the way she's telling you to do it you're going to find out that you missed out on a lot of opportunities. The next thing is it's hard to take advice on how to get women from a strange woman that you don't know. One of the reasons why is because a lot of women are not going to tell you what really works. It's like a secret society and that not going to teach you the real tricks or techniques. And secondly, maybe even most importantly, most females don't even know themselves well enough or are not honest with themselves. they'll be with the bad boy that's mistreating them and say they want a good guy. The good guy come along and give them everything they want and have been looking for and build up the good guy and go back to the bad guy. Theyll abused and dog out the good guy and leave, then the next guy they get will be like the bad guy.

[@luvsscii7871]

That's the most honest thing she said in this whole video that it's all a game. The difference is for women it's a game and they know it's a game. But for most men they don't know it's a game Saudi or playing a game as if it's life and death. And that's why the women have the advantage

[@zachonpif2]

the way to shoot your shot is: not shoot my shot, walk away, don't look thirsty, know more about you and wait for you to hit me and be a robot when speaking avoiding normal conversation, not be real and also get rejected by you multiple times? word fam sounds like I'm ready to go to the friend zone.

[@alvinmims3069]

If a dude compliment a female and walk away is that female going tell him to wait and give him their number how is it thirsty for a guy to compliment a female and ask for their number im asking respectively

[@shawnsta7779]

I fuck with the video cuz of the Donnell Jones song instrumental 🔥

[@ShermtaF]

This wig sis where did you get it from

[@ZoyaKatrice]

TEACH THEM sis 👏🏾🤦🏾‍♀️

[@gregm6022]

The coming up complimenting you but not asking for your number means he liked what he saw but nothing more than that its simple ladies. If he really was interested he wouldn’t leave without trying to get do something from you that can keep you 2 connected. If I really like a girl and know i wont possibly see her again i will ask for her ig/phone number period.

[@victorbenjamin9908]

8:31 if she's not reciprocating the same type of energy. I Like that sentence 🙌👍

[@laronr19]

How old are you?

[@amberdavis6375]

Great video as always! 😊

[@kutzoffdchain]

IS it appropriate to shoot your shot. through KZbin ❤

[@smoke7792]

No online dating

[@blvntgobl1n82]

Nah bro

[@luvsscii7871]

May as well

[@fallingforward3080]

Should the compliments be daily?

[@SIXTHREEONEFOURTHREENIONEOOSEV]

beautiful eyes happpppppppppppppy easter ;---) ;-)

[@toppa4504]

Shes really cute its hard to look away haha

[@victorguillory5976]

They wanna know how to get any women they want not just the women that want them back.

[@drewdabs4214]

I shot 1000 shoots missed everyone of them 😪

[@smokidibear6359]

Where can one find one of these lady creatures you speak of?

[@subzrodagr8689]

This lady is simply beautiful.

[@grhaytnessmusicgroup1381]

good advice Queen

[@boywithcumstains7719]

I’m here for a reason..

[@beautifulsoulb975]

I love watching your videos...

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

You stand on the ground you walk on

[@tatyanawhite5179]

I love this! Great advice!

[@legendsnowsk3139]

How old you have to be to shoot?

[@rocketfatts7769]

Is that a Hoosier sweater????

[@ambitiousvisionaire1954]

How you like what you see, compliment her but don’t ask for her number. If that’s the case the exchange should’ve never happened

[@tylerheard3982]

But I mean, what if I want to shoot my shot in a KZbin comment?

[@KCCappa]

😂😂

[@jabbarjd5731]

I would rather step into and read proverbs 31:10 to the end! That ends the spineless and nefarious advice given by uncover feminist and #metro folks; so I vote for advice from the fisherman and mostly from the Bible. Trust me, there's a phrase from king Solomon that gets all women captivated and wet! Have a gr8 day!!!

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

You answering soon right. O

[@ma.riahlashay]

LOVE YOU SO MUCCCHHHHH

[@rozlynjones4122]

Watching this to help find good standards!

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

But Damm I just want to party.

[@scorpionpam]

Are you from Indiana?

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

Is this your diario, or an opinion channel?

[@JOEL31785]

Less games when you study a(broad) pun intended. Take a guys trip to Brazil or Spain. Black men are cherished everywhere but home and there are Black women everywhere else...

[@khambrelmathis6101]

Big FAX.... Especially in Africa

[@timferris1478]

Joel Leach facts

[@giannamahoney9905]

Pause. She is so pretty wowww

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

What kind of light you have in front of you. They make your eyes glossy and sparkly. And streight up do you smell like vanilla cream. I'm sorry to ask all these questions but I seem to have fallen in love with you and I can't get out. Long story short,do you think of getting married sometime soon ?

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

Some do and some don't my Queen

[@flyhigh1847]

Sooo I just realized I act exactly like this and the only reason I don’t have a woman in my life is because I’m stuck in my own head

[@gotronnight]

Good looking out Queen, appreciate the advice 🙏🏼

[@blahaaaaaaan]

You know what's sad, she is super cute, comes off like the kinda woman you would want to take a long road trip with and share life with. But I bet she only likes dirt bags who play Call of Duty in their moms basement and eat cereal outta pasta bowls. Bet she also put a lot of her money into dudes that have potential. To bad the girls who sound cool and look sweet help dirt bags pay child support. In any event she spoke the truth, but I can't get passed the pain in her eyes.

[@brianjohnson755]

Thank You Very helpful

[@str8shoota745]

aka stop being real if you want the cheeks act like you don't if you want a relationship act like you want to be friends

[@Ineptsaint44]

What’s does shoot yo shot even mean?

[@jackysmith8165]

So pretty

[@carmikereid]

Straight up info.

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

So wear you stay aaat.

[@smoke7792]

My rejection is to much

[@ravenn2930]

welcome to sad zone ;))

[@furiousstylez1113]

Lies lol my emoji flex game strong AF.......

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

What social club is that ??. A

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

Fuck it I fell for you. Give me your Autograph

[@mgtowsocialcuntstruction_w101]

Girly girly

[@ethanmarquez2851]

She beautiful 😍😍😍