How to spot a gaslighter on Love is Blind Season 7 Reunion | Recap x Review

[@suras8984]

A whole man abandoned 3 of his kids but they stayed focused on Nick for calling Hannah unattractive smh I just cant....

[@kye447]

And that’s probably why the sxx wasn’t good because he wasn’t attracted to her like come on.

[@OctoberGirl16]

@@suras8984 exactly.. also Hannah wasn’t exactly complimentary about Nick’s looks.

[@laurad324]

This was filmed prior to the interviews with mother and the ex. She he didn’t have all info . So frustrating

[@sam11297]

@@kye447I thought the same thing.

[@sam11297]

Totally agree!! Amazing part is he was respectful enough to not say anything negative about her looks on the camera. So what if he told the guys he wasn’t initially attracted to her. That was annoying and they spent so much time on it!

[@Frogylover1998]

When someone says the thing I love about my partner is that they love me unconditionally and always stand beside me… 🚩

[@shireenkhan4747]

Tyler is going to push so many buttons..

[@CallmeQuayZ]

💯💯he’s undeserving and he knows it

[@Noddysims]

It's that ride or die her dad was talking about. No matter what he does she will stay SMH

[@kittyhazes5741]

Yes, that was the wrong answer. He loves how much she loves him, basically.😼

[@Daniela-Christianson]

Well, she made her own bed here ​@@Noddysims

[@suras8984]

I feel like Love is Blind has gaslighted all of us the way they were so soft on a man that abandoned his 3 kids but had so much smoke for Nick for saying Hannah is a grenade and then went so soft on Hannah the abuser turning her into a victim. Vanessa had tears in her eyes asking Hannah if she loves herself. I hate how we are presented with a reality; hard evidence comes to the surface but they still recreate their own narrative as if objective reality doesn't exist.

[@krismarshall3803]

This is what sold me off on the show for good. Last season I watched it, this season I could only stomach past the pods and just watched 3 different people go over it.....this reunion was a mess like last seasons. They purposely give certain "public enemy" contestants slack and just completely focus on the most pointless of crap.

[@Shortmusings]

@@suras8984 he didn’t abandons his kids y’all don’t listen

[@Gumche.]

@@Shortmusings lol you mean "those kids?"

[@Shortmusings]

@@Gumche. yes lmao

[@parkerisles7256]

I was neutral about the Lachey’s until their tv shows aired, they focus on the most unimportant aspects of their insanely flawed “social experiment” and yell at the wrong people.

[@PrettyPolyInPink]

Ashley said F them kids! She’s complicit with him neglecting his own children bc she thinks she/her kids will get a different man. Her daddy told yall she was ride or die. She ain’t never leaving!!

[@jayjanzee9059]

Until he leaves her and her kids 🤷🏾🤷🏾

[@Mikagvinagiva]

Such a pick me! I can't!! Like I'm better than that woman and those kids cos I'm married to him... the fuck! 😳😳😳

[@annie_charcheologist]

I think she’ll be singing a different song about him down the track. But who cares, she’s an enabler, going along with an inaccurate narrative (the friends wife left her and now she’s a single mum, oh what a hero he is - he actually is a martyr - this self sacrificing stand up guy - leaving out that the wife left after the first baby - the twins came after that 😂).

[@nicole4779]

Yeah she turned her comments off on Instagram

[@Mikagvinagiva]

@nicole4779 I saw this yes! She deserves everything she'll get tbh. Cinderella step mom could take notes from her. Those poor innocent children, heartbreaking.

[@chickychickist]

Really hate how Ashley talks about ‘social media’ as if it’s not the kids’ mother, her ex wife, Tyler’s mom, multiple of Tyler’s exes, and court documents with evidence on there💀

[@Dionne1061]

@@chickychickist she’s delusional

[@Aussiegirl8300]

Right

[@amandadosanjos3994]

She is the actual delulu this season 😂

[@lealeak7458]

But social media is throwing their opinion on what she should do with her life and calling her “dumb”. That’s different

[@tiffanybarefield1227]

​@lealeak7458 that's a select few. The overwhelming majority are advocating for her because they feel she deserves better.

[@OctoberGirl16]

These reunions aren’t worth having as long as the Lachey’s are hell bent on presenting us with a happy ending… instead of the truth.

[@valeriejohnson8771]

And what do you think is the truth? What are the Lacheys supposed to do? Hit them all over the head with a hammer?

[@littleeva]

That is the point of the reunions. No one wants to be depressed after a reunion. Netflix is about "happy, happy, happy."

[@CARATMom]

Reunions are supposed to be blood baths. You can’t be messy all season and then in the end sweep everything under the bed with a smile.

[@thunter10709]

Exactly! I wanted some clips and questions example montage of Hannah incl her saying she made Nick into a man, the duck lady didn't call her.a B* to name a couple. Did Hannah find Nick attractive? Monica asking Stephen to let her talk then proceeds to say nothing and those stupid flowers...they got off easy. Theres so many things that weren't addressed and no accountability.

[@JaNeeDiahann1225]

And the ppl from previous seasons can go to . We have enough drama with the current cast🤦🏾‍♀️🍿

[@femdivinemind7777]

Tim was ALL OVER THE PLACE. I LOVE how Brittany called out his nonverbal disrespect too!!

[@PackPrepChat]

I think the fact that they never had any conversation prior was the problem

[@femdivinemind7777]

@PackPrepChat nah he was just chatting shit and trying to gaslight the situation and the women handled it.

[@mayalynn1]

when he said he felt like the victim and alex spoke for 3 seconds had me screaming at the tv!!! tim is def the villian!!

[@femdivinemind7777]

@mayalynn1 he's a narcissistic pussy ass bitch 😒🙄 Alex probably sat being ranted at for AGES over something so small before she eventually called him that cs he WAS being a bitch . He can behave any way he wants , be disrespectful and unreasonable and antagonistic , got to have a long ass bullshit rant (he definitely realized halfway through he had nothing to go on btw)but as soon as she starts to speak he's cutting her off , showing so much disrespectful behavior then calling himself a victim 😂. My ex just like this I stg. I saw it in Tim from EARLY .

[@TammyTalks]

@@mayalynn1that was crazy! He was trying hard to make himself cry too

[@Preah3]

The look on Marissa’s mom’s face when she said they were hooking up after the show 😅😂😂 Also, I believe everything Alex said because even Tim’s body language at the reunion was tense and authoritative so I can only imagine how was speaking to her behind the scenes. I’m not saying Alex is perfect…at all but Tim is a lot lol

[@teeahrahahnet]

Her mom was looking like EXCUSE ME

[@suras8984]

Tim gets so seething its so weird. Alex was right with the way he treated her in their breakup was as if she killed his dog or something. I always thought it was more going on behind the scenes but he didnt reveal anything crazy to justify his anger.

[@sophiajordan7118]

alex is a gaslighter

[@TayReneeTips]

Preach

[@annie_charcheologist]

@@suras8984for me it’s him talking through gritted teeth. The men that I’ve known that speak like that are seething, controlling, angry humans. It’s how they talk to the abuse victim in social situations - then explode at home… which sounds like what happened in the bathroom during that argument.

[@misstinab8175]

Ashley is the epitome of a “pick-me”. She was on that stage stunting for that man, I was appalled. She is part of the problem.

[@happygardener2921]

I don’t know that I would call her a “pick-me”. I don’t really get what’s wrong with wanting to be picked by someone. What I WILL say is Ashley is desperate and has low standards. She has accepted anything and basically nothing from this man and I’m ashamed for her. I expected more.

[@Chemchem444]

Carrying all his problems on her shoulder..all the while he looked well rested 🙃 honestly I hope the utmost best for her. Hoping he is in fact the good she sees and not just holding on to the clearance find (her words) just because. No one can convince me to not to trust my gut on what I feel about Tyler 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Chemchem444]

@@happygardener2921I agree, I don’t think the term “pick me” fits at all.

[@Nicole-jm6tk]

She was my favorite most of the season but she really threw that cape on at the reunion 😕

[@Younggal1]

An enabler just to have a man

[@mimineren8787]

Marissa’s Mom obviously didn’t know she was sleeping with Ramses after the show. This girl is ridiculous.

[@Daniela-Christianson]

Her face said it all 😆 Now we know why Mom was so militant about Ramses. She's probably tired of her daughter dating losers.

[@TammyTalks]

Marissa made her mom look stupid 😭😭

[@mimineren8787]

@@Daniela-Christianson she looks like she hasn’t learned a thing

[@lovejones1897]

She doesn’t love herself. After her first failed marriage being devastated you are supposed to grow period

[@Legalcurls]

I’m not sure if she meant she was sleeping with him when they were together, which she thought was stupid. Or was she saying after the breakup. Not very clear to me.

[@itsmevivi_]

I was really taken aback by Marisa's stance on the Hannah and Nick situation. She was much more passionate about their situation than she was about her own and when she threw out how Hannah has been rude to her too (but is her "BEST FRIEND" 🙄) was even more baffling to me. She said it as if it should be accepted/overlooked simply because that person holds a specific title in your life. She is willing to put up with any mistreatment for the sake of acceptance from literally anyone.

[@krismarshall3803]

Like she really should be the last person trying to defend anyone or be a character witness when she herself said she would rather be miserable for 5-7 years with the guy she married then divorced, than not be married. She's projecting onto Nick for not trying harder and sticking with Hannah and working with her.

[@highlightme1205]

Marissa was very dramatic about the breakup, playing victim..if someone dumps you you wanna pick yourself off the flor Quick, at least in front of them..and she over played the devastated part way too much😮😮😮. She put on a show, imagine how she would react if she was dumped on the altar???? He had a lucky ascape if u ask me

[@MyLifeBeLike23655]

@@itsmevivi_ Marissa doesn’t have personality

[@Sistagirltay]

I truly believe rams seen this side of Marissa that we didn’t at all I was appalled at her attacking Nick. She isn’t as innocent at all.

[@lara1208-b1p]

I thought it was in character. Marisa turns a blind-eye to unloving behavior in the people she loves - her mom, Ramses, and Hannah. I hated that both she and Hannah used the b-word instead of focusing on Hannah becoming a more loving and less critical person.

[@nicole4779]

Marissa telling on herself while defending Hannah was BONKERS!! Like girl WHAT?!?

[@VenusRayne]

I audibly screeched!!! -like Marissa hunny, you didn't need to blow yourself up to defend Hannah like she wouldn't and in fact didn't (cf earlier during Ramses and Marissa section) defend you Marissa 😬😣

[@Daniela-Christianson]

That's what she gets for showing more vitriol toward Nick than Ramses. A little instant karma!

[@lorrainemounts2416]

Marissa should have kept quiet instead of being a flying monkey for Hannah. After all, she admitted that at one point Hannah attacked her too. Hannah is a cruel Narcissist and never really accepted accountability for her actions towards Nick.

[@jenayrandall9358]

Ashley is a reminder for all women: YOU DO NOT get an award for being a doormat, ride or die, placeholder, holy step-mother , a “rock” or a 50/50. In the short-term you get something that to you, resembles love. In the long-term YOU.GET.NOTHING. In the best case of scenarios. We all know what happened in the worst of cases.

[@shay789]

Yeah Ashley will learn in time.I don't think Tyler would be able to keep up the act after a while.

[@caseyw.6550]

Period. In fact, you usually get the opposite of an award.

[@happygardener2921]

@@jenayrandall9358 Preach!

[@Daniela-Christianson]

Whoa! Perfectly stated. ❤️

[@pheoliasmith4325]

Hannah thought that the internets was gonna be on her side for being direct but she got what she actually deserved!

[@magomago_e]

When Vanessa was basically beeegggging Hannah to apologize to Nick I started hollering and yelling at the TV, "GIRL! Apologize! They're telling you to fucking apologize!" lmaooooo but all she kept saying was "I'm direct. I'm direct."...I'm direct"

[@VanshayMurdock]

CANT BELIEVE HOW MUCH I LIKE MARISSA’S MOM NOW💀

[@ArshaOnay]

Same. I wanted her to curse Tim out too lol 😂

[@Shortmusings]

@@VanshayMurdock that’s the part that shocked me about myself fr

[@melinatedthinka8210]

Sameee ig her mom has been clocked Ramses shady self and may had a sneaking suspicion..explains her rude introduction to him anyways. She has more experience with men and can tell off their vibes or intuition so I’m not surprised.

[@t.j.giroux5936]

Can we please give marisas mom her own show or let her host the reunions from now on. Marissa's mom had the best body language throughout, she reminded Hannah's "friend" about how Hannah's treated her. Marissa's mom' BS meter was on point last night. Even a blind person could see that.

[@88Roshan]

Omg facts 😂😂😂😂

[@lovelymo6183]

They have to stop bringing all these old cast members on reunions. Like have a special or something.

[@cassandraramos8658]

Exactly! Why Are They Doing That!

[@ohthatdickens69]

It was cool seeing A.D. cuz I always liked her and live to see her doing well. But Nick & Vanessa got nerve parading the happy couples from former seasons when the current season is an absolute shitshow of dysfunction.

[@MiJaCool]

Right! I don’t care about Zack and Bliss! Focus on the damn season we just watched!

[@kelzway2405]

Thank you!!! I fast forward every seen. Who cares about them?

[@destinyn63]

Like Idgaf what’s going with AD and she was annoying sitting up there defending Hannah. They both birds

[@care-a-lot1051]

I stopped watching after Tyler said “those kids” INSANE

[@vanessao8711]

Chile...I had to pause out of FURY every other syllable out of that lying liar's mouth!

[@jayjanzee9059]

Oh!!! I am even more pissed that Ashley is standing TEN TOES DOWN on supporting his deadbeat behavior.

[@suras8984]

He legit says those kids and that family. It was so deplorable.

[@Youraveragemillenial]

Crazy considering how her dad left her too 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@teattime]

​@Youraveragemillenial well he went to jail

[@AerrinT80]

Tim and Hannah had me heated. Fr fr. Meanwhile, Ashley out here making it okay to accept a dusty with a dozen red flags.

[@MsIonie]

I was shocked how they manage to turn this whole thing around on Nick. Hannah has been expressing her disappointment with Nick’s looks the whole season. Or am I missing something?

[@berenic90]

That's what I am saying. She did not shut up about it and more and she has the nerve and the rest of the cast to attack him that shit pissed me off

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

And that he don't eat cat 😒 but whatever stay on a grenade lol

[@mags2847]

Two wrongs don’t make a right. She was indeed disrespectful, but Nick sharing that information with the guys isn’t a good look either.

[@JAMILA2400]

I could be wrong but it seems their issue with Nick was him being Fake. Even loser a$$ 2 braids lowkey told him to accept accountability & move on. The fact that Hannah owned up to being a bytch, the smoke was then directed to Nick. Gotta learn how to play the game on these reality shows 😩

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

@JAMILA2400 to be fair EVERYONE was being fake on this show

[@meikiyab2332]

Marisa proved Rames point. Watching her take up for Hannah and dog pile on Nick was exhausting 😂.

[@ShaylaVie87]

Hannah is probably the least self aware person that’s been on the show. She was practically hyperventilating while chomping at the bit to get out her little spiel about Nick’s “goals” to take the heat off her

[@artistbabexo]

& here comes Marissa gaining up on Nick when she should be worried about Ramses. 😂 it looked like a high school argument.

[@Nicole-jm6tk]

It’s sad because it seemed like he was trying to defend her in that moment before she threw that out there 😅

[@hollyfabiani]

No. Nick is a man child. If you research the term, it's rooted in narcissism. The whole cast understood with the exception of Garrett. She went easy on him IMO

[@hollyfabiani]

Yeah that's not sad. I wouldn't care for his apology at all. ​@@Nicole-jm6tk

[@lindaw66]

The ladies piled on Nick. They talked over him just like they did for Tim. The women ganged up talking faster and louder. Unreasonable and mean.

[@emwantaosifo4179]

Marrissa had so much energy for Nick but was mute the whole time with Ramzies.

[@tonimartin8547]

She seemed too emotional to go there with him. She hasn't healed yet.

[@emwantaosifo4179]

@@tonimartin8547 then she should have let Hannah handle her issues herself, it looked liked they planned the whole Nick attack. I might be looking at it wrong though but I didn't see Hanna inserting when Marissa was talking to Ramzies.

[@quimaniharris]

It’s the way you’re spelling his name for me 😂😂😂

[@JAMILA2400]

Mr No Longer 2 Braids, accepted accountability. Nick did not.

[@rainrain7936]

I was crying how the girls made Hannah the victim.😂😂😂😂. Tim was dead wrong. Alex needed some sleep because she was out there hustling.

[@suras8984]

Even Marissa and Ashley admitting that Hannah was even rude to them and they had to check her and they still had the audacity to cape for her like what?!!!

[@MoonMoon-fx1op]

​@@suras8984 they caped for authenticity. At least Hannah owns up to it. Remember, Nick is a smooth talker.

[@sophiajordan7118]

tim is a victim all that woman did is eat and sleep these shows are so emasculating women are always portrayed as victims

[@Olivetree144]

She was in the club the night prior until 4am! She never did clear that up.

[@misschains]

@@rainrain7936 it's was me or I've felt only Taylor like rolling her eyes when the girls ganged up on Nick?? Taking in consideration that Garrett was firmly defending him I believe she got his back too instead of joining the mean girls club.

[@KimaD.]

Ashley is literally ok with this man disowning his children. She gone get her happy ending by any means necessary. She said f$&k them kids.

[@shireenkhan4747]

Yes!! That's my issue as well, you put it into words for me. Ashley forgiving him isn't my issue personally; she just needs to remember that there are 3 little humans who need him and she doesn't wanna support him to be there for them. I don't wanna judge her so I won't say anymore. I just think she has to deal with him having kids and to work with that if she wants to stay with him. This isn't some Garrett and Taylor issue where his long ago ex sent a friendly message and probably just heard about him being on a reality show and wanted to be courteous (just going with the benefit of the doubt). Having 3 children is a way bigger thing to forgive as this affects Ashley's life!!!

[@misssunshine8469]

I don’t even think she gave him the option to see the kids. He lied and now he’s In a mess because of something he chose to lie on and this woman is no good either.

[@MsMojo014]

Marissa really pissed me off and so did Hannah🙄

[@j.l.howlett6843]

@@MsMojo014 Hannah saying she called nick to have sex with him one more time, and she says she did it to see if sex with him just as bad she thought ??? Nobody said nothing to that absolute insult

[@MsMojo014]

@ Ridiculous and the fact he still was being respectful was crazy to me cause would have went off on her…🤦🏾‍♀️

[@j.l.howlett6843]

@@MsMojo014 hopefully she gets even more insult and hate for the rest of her white trash lige

[@happygardener2921]

“The AUDACITY, the GALL, the NERVE, the TEMERITY!’ One of my favorite lines from @TammyTalks ❤

[@SummerRonbins]

It’s now apart of my vocabulary, genius wording, her mind (@TammyTalks) ✨✨✨😍

[@qi6kq]

read this comment just as she said it lol

[@oekmama]

It‘s gall. 😂😂😂 Gaul is an old word for the people who used to live in France around the time of the ancient Romans.😂😂😂

[@quimaniharris]

We need this on a t-shirt! 😅

[@lalala51ful]

Literally 😂😂😂

[@misschains]

Marissa being Hannah's little puppy guard lol girl stop. Even if Nick talked sh*t about her looks she did since they fist met! Marissa shoulda been outta of it.

[@MsMojo014]

@@misschains The audacity of Marissa to have all this smoke for Nick and have none for Ramses…😒

[@MoonMoon-fx1op]

To be fair, she did call Hannah out for all of that. She was just telling Nick stop portraying yourself as a puppy when you're not....which is fair

[@misschains]

@@MsMojo014 yes! That and we can clearly see Hannah is nobody's friend, everybody is her "bestie" fake b 😂😂😂😂 im disappointed with Marissa, I only like Taylor and Alex

[@Shortmusings]

@@misschains Marissa got on my nerves

[@anastassiyali140]

Also aired their sex life💀

[@theeclecticaries1159]

Honnnnney Tim saying “y’all want men to talk y’all seriously…, told me everything thing I needed to know.. Alex was Right!

[@femdivinemind7777]

😂 💯 I was watching like " THIS 🤌🏾MUTHAFUCKA 🤌🏾" LOL

[@lane6216]

My mouth dropped open!

[@destinyschild5768]

I know what was up with that !!??? Who’s y’all and how did they enter the conversation 🙄 when men like Tim has an issue with one woman all of sudden he makes it into a “all you women do this” type of argument 🙄

[@veethesepiascholar3114]

He's a redpill incel

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

I called the dust from the promo. A true dusty who THOUGHT he was gonna play in a bw face. Alex still got off blessed 🙏🏿

[@NYCDemonDiva]

Girl ashley couldn’t breathe in that corset let alone relax 😂

[@marinalabelle1347]

@@NYCDemonDiva omg I thought it wad just me. My girl couldn't even turn properly to look at Tyler.

[@rubiirae]

Seeing Marissa's attitude when she was gunning for Nick, all screaming, fake giggling, and back to screaming again, I believe Ramses when he said her energy (negative) is too much. She's such a doormat and people pleaser in the most toxic way.

[@jasminet6124]

omg no one from this season is likeable, how do they expect to get brand deals LOL. Taylor and Garett are the most mature and level-headed, rooting for them.

[@gloriam.6853]

Nope Garrett was talking a little too much for me

[@shireenkhan4747]

Garrett going golfing with Taylor's dad is pretty wholesome. Hope he keeps getting along with her family

[@Waters..]

This! The men were wack (except Garrett). The women were wack (except Taylor) they can all go

[@cringeLoop]

Something about Garrets energy was condescending in my opinion

[@KyraKennedyHughes]

@@cringeLoopI felt like Garrett was over everything. Everybody was wrong and nobody wanted to take accountability. They kept using that word but dancing around actually taking accountability and it’s dragging the reunion.

[@viciouslaura1]

Tammy, you are 100% correct in calling Hannah out! She's ridiculously delulu!

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

Taylor and Garrett are the only sane ones this season. Garrett saying "this conversation is immature and im counting the seconds til its over" about Hannah and nick and i was with him lol. Taylor looks like she doesnt associate with the other ladies and i dont blame her

[@pearlosibu]

Yeah, she needs to separate herself

[@EvolvingEb]

That man said basically he loves how she sticks by him. Every man’s dream is to be loved unconditionally through his BS.

[@melinatedthinka8210]

It’s Marissa having more smoke for random Nick than the man that rejected, embarrassed, and broke her heart on TV in front of millions for me 💀 She lost her credibility from that point on. She a pick-me weirdo.

[@berenic90]

I have to agree..... I was like, where was this energy for her man??

[@no.7-ot9yc]

Same. The fact she was acting so upset for watching the episodes but she still laying in that man bed smh

[@saigie3908]

Heck even the man who publicly disowned his children

[@TammyTalks]

Marissa made a fool of herself

[@tamirabanks426]

@@TammyTalksyes she did

[@ejimenez881]

In done with these grown ass women talking about my “best friend this and my best friends that”

[@Just_Visiting316]

It’s so damn annoying!!

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

YALL DONT KNOW THESE WOMEN!! 😅 Did they not remember Micah and Irina? I swear, it's either they are focused on their relationships or the drama/friends and no inbetween....

[@rediettadesse2828]

😂😂😂

[@jayjanzee9059]

People like Hannah, and now Marissa, are soooooo triggering! Such a lack of accountability

[@hollywont9447]

Triggering? For you, personally?

[@krismarshall3803]

​@@hollywont9447uh yes

[@emhu2594]

Hannah is a charismatic abuser.

[@Waters..]

Both of them always lacked accountability and played victim throughout the whole season. Crazy that it took the reunion for people to see it in Marissa but im glad people are catching on nonetheless.

[@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND]

Ashley and Tyler: "Those kids" Tyler a couple years ago: *In court fighting for custody*

[@lizziepumpkin92]

THIS!!! Like make it make sense

[@nessasvo4307]

Tim looks like the type to take his shoe off and give you a beating just coz you told him to "shush." He is a typical narcissist and constantly displays his narcissistic rage at the slightest offence. Good ridance, he did that girl a favour!

[@rediettadesse2828]

Yes definitely

[@jayneanthony5652]

That's extremely harsh. You might not like him but to call him a domestic abuser is insane

[@AllBoffum]

The way you all talk about black men is disturbing. That man expressed himself with words and was called a bytch.. she also put her hands on him. But you people are here calling him a domestic abuser and a narcissist. Unbelievable

[@TammyTalks]

@AllBoffum she did not put her hands on him.

[@AllBoffum]

@TammyTalks she literally put her hand over his mouth to silence him. They spoke on it. It wasn't in a violent way, but you and I both know if it were him that did that, it would not be ok.

[@melinatedthinka8210]

Am I the only one that feels like Hannah still had no rights to disrespect and violate Nick’s right of privacy for digging into his personal belongings. It doesn’t matter what she found or thought was shocking she still disrespected his privacy and it never justified doing that. Nick honestly should’ve told her he doesn’t owe her an explanation considering she looked into his stuff without consent. He would be right to call her out that what she did was wrong regardless because it was, doing something that disrespectful is owed an apology because it’s rude and a violation. I feel like if you look into someone’s stuff and violate heir privacy you don’t have the right to antagonize them because doing that makes you no better than the person you’re trying to accuse. Also I don’t think they owe you anything (explanation/etc) because again- that’s THEIR belongings and business that they’re entitled to because they have the RIGHTS to their own privacy. Nick didn’t have to entertain her “gatcha moment” because she violated his privacy and business that he has the right to have and not share if he so pleases.

[@Daniela-Christianson]

I hate he left his writings for that viper and friends to find

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Agreed. She still disrespected his boundaries regarding discussing sex on camera. She did it several times to be spiteful

[@aidak3341]

Yes I’m shocked they didn’t address this! What a disregard for his lack of privacy.

[@Shortmusings]

Tim ain’t isht ain’t ever been isht the whole internet was coming for Alex but I saw the demon in Tim EARLY

[@lumensapace]

Same! Preseason when he said he likes direct conversation and he doesn’t believe in lying I was like 😬 because that to me screams “I’m going to be rude to you and then tell you I’m just being honest”

[@inyourkittylitter]

The same demon that took oluwaStephen? 😂😂

[@suras8984]

There were a small group of people that saw it. I was not one of them I will admit it. The hand over his mouth and not seeing the fight made me want to give him the benefit of the doubt. I know the hand thing is now explained. But good on you guys for spotting it.

[@Shortmusings]

@@lumensapace right! I felt that too

[@Shortmusings]

@@suras8984 yes if you’ve ever been around a baby Man U know what Tim is and it’s dangerous because he will twist the narrative to cater to his victim hood … love that u see it not for being right but because men like Tim are emotionally dangerous

[@femdivinemind7777]

Tim is the kind of person who thinks he has the right to be willfully disrespectful, unreasonable and abusive to people and get not a lick of pushback ....

[@veethesepiascholar3114]

This!

[@Seshane1]

@@femdivinemind7777 You could also lowkey tell that he’s a misogynist. When he said “why do y’all women…” and “what’s with the attitude “? I just knew he was doing everything in his power not to call her “This female”.

[@femdivinemind7777]

@@Seshane1 YUP - as soon as he said it I said THERE IT IS!! that's why he was so pissed at serving the family and cleaning up. He sees his presence as a gift and has deep down issues against women...and probably fckn his dog lol jk JK kk 🤐👀

[@lindaw66]

@@femdivinemind7777 You can put your blinders on and refuse to see that he ALSO was not respected. Both people in that interaction showed disrespect. When having a disagreement, people lash out in self defense or in retribution. You have to step back from biases and see that he was not in the right but also not the only one not heard, not respected, and hurt by words.

[@femdivinemind7777]

@lindaw66 He CONSTANTLY is disrespectful though. That's the point. From what it sounds like no he wasn't disrespected . He was told things he didn't want to hear based on his unreasonable actions. He was told to calm tf down . He FELT disrespected because he couldn't completely control her and make her completely forget her needs or behave like a performing robot . Men with personalities like that often think autonomy is disrespectful and that's a PROBLEM.

[@jasonadventist5226]

Tim is dead behind the eyes. No one will ever convince me hes not a narcissist

[@misssunshine8469]

Yup he sure is and a gaslighting abuser

[@Lamya0910]

please look up the definition of narcissist

[@tiffanybarefield1227]

The reason I don't think Nick was using the show to become famous is because out of all the people on that stage, he hasn't been all over TikTok, Instagram, interviews..NOTHING. He has been quiet since the show.

[@pearlosibu]

Even on the show he didn’t give trying to be famous

[@Daniela-Christianson]

Whereas Hannah... I'm convinced she Ozempic-ed and surgeried in hopes of being on Perfect Match. Makes me sick to think of her fame continuing.

[@tiffanybarefield1227]

@@pearlosibu At all!

[@jayneanthony5652]

Exactly. Even Garrett, the scientist, is going for a modeling career 🙄. He was my favorite of the whole season

[@summerintherockies9530]

Nicky said on a recent podcast he wants to model in GQ and in Vogue, and he’s very happy with those who are reaching out to him now. He played this game the best! And yes, Hanna was too much, for sure

[@victoriaj1908]

AD was annoying AF! I was embarrassed for her.

[@ejimenez881]

Tim seems very aggressive, scary and defensive. I don’t like his energy.

[@KJ-4-Chiefs]

Right. Did he miss out on hugs or something? Too much expectation on his part and too little accountability.

[@caseyw.6550]

​​@@KJ-4-ChiefsThe baby of the family and the only boy. Probably never had any accountability.

[@AllBoffum]

Lol, that man was calm and expressed himself without getting physical or name calling. If he had put his hands on her or called her a B because he "felt disrespected" you'd all be calling him an abuser..

[@TammyTalks]

@AllBoffum he was not calm at the reunion

[@AllBoffum]

@TammyTalks the way you all are talking about him is disturbing. You'd think he was the one calling her a B. And he is right about the perception of being big and black. Nobody is calling Alex scary, aggressive, and defensive. Yet SHE was the one that covered his mouth to silence him. SHE admitted she was out of line and apologized the next day. SHE was the one that called him out his name..

[@Dynamitemama]

Marshall's facial expressions the whole episode was hilarious

[@laurab5849]

He’s so cute and funny to me

[@crissyjayfae]

16:17 exactly. Just because Nick did wrong does not mean what Hannah did was ok. They can both be wrong.

[@emhu2594]

He is a useless bum who lives in his mom's basement, but Hannah is a literal abuser. Not the same.

[@Daniela-Christianson]

Hannah's wrongs far exceeded Nick's

[@Briball19]

Stephen needs to understand that when he literally is trying to apologize he needs to actually act sincere instead of just saying yea you are right I messed up like twenty million times. And then he wonders y ppl aren’t buying his sincerity

[@Whit2legit]

While I agree with being sincere, I think his point is what else do you want the man to do? He apologized, they talked it out, and she doesn’t want him anymore. There’s not much more to do. Monica seems very tense for their situation to have ended a while ago and at the party, she said they had a good conversation and ended things cordially. I see this as Monica girl move on. Clearly Stephen wasn’t a good fit for you and it was better for you to find out earlier in the process than later. Find a new love and get some therapy to process this all.

[@Briball19]

@ while that is true I just didn’t feel like he was taking it seriously as he was making jokes. As for Monica she is probably just still mad she didn’t leave married as she is a little older she was expecting to leave married and is still upset she didn’t get that

[@Whit2legit]

@@Briball19 agreed! He seems off to me. I can’t put my finger on it, but he is strange. Monica definitely has a right to be upset, but I just want her to boss up! She always seems so bothered and Stephen is nothing to be bothered about 😕

[@happygardener2921]

It was clear Ramses had some coaching before the reunion. His responses were rehearsed - no “likes” in the whole soliloquy from him 😂

[@mariim6245]

It was refreshing. I thought he did well explaining himself

[@shireenkhan4747]

He advised Nick to just take accountability, man. Ramses seemed like he just wanted shit to be overwith

[@apersonwiththoughts]

@@shireenkhan4747I liked how he handled the Nick thing. Intelligent approach.

[@twillias4714]

@shireenkhan4747 It's True and the Scientists..Garrett and Taylor.They we're both above it all and generally unbothered.

[@heathertjaden756]

😂😂 like totally!

[@JustJohnda]

Ashley and Tyler will stay together a little longer than others would under the same circumstances because she is determined not to be wrong. Also, I wouldn't be surprised if they get pregnant.

[@caseyw.6550]

Of course they will. I think tyler has a breeding kink. 😬

[@PrettyPolyInPink]

Oh, he’s gonna knock her up! He needs somewhere to live!

[@JustJohnda]

@PrettyPolyInPink LMAO!

[@jackeeB]

These women are getting out of order bc the way Marissa, AD, Vanesss, and Monica supported Hannah being abusive is disturbing. It also mirrors how men don't call out other men's bad behavior. I wish Nick had the balls to cuss all their arses out, especially that crybaby Marissa and why the hell is AD piping up?🤔🤨

[@jas1565]

One of the most frustrating parts is how Nick didn't properly articulate or defend himself. So much he could've said and didn't.

[@Livybgood452]

Think this is just Nick's personality. He's kind in a weird sort of way. AD had a look of horror on her face about Hannah. She wasn't supportive. She was just like, 'Girl if that's the way you playin' it, I'm not in that'. Marissa needed to butt out. Hannah is nasty enough for everyone else. She didn't need any help.

[@COURTNEYwthaK]

It’s a reason Hannah’s family don’t F with her like that… And she can save those tears! She STILL can’t confidently say she likes herself and none of this has anything to do with Nick!

[@mellymel6447]

the way I cackled when you sald, "...hold on, 3/5 n*&&@" lmfao i cant with youuuuuu

[@CARATMom]

Tyler lied to us and Ashley co-signed. At the end of the day, I have been saying, the only people that I am concerned about is dem kids. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Hannah standing by everything she said is sad. She didn’t learn a dang thing.

[@lalala51ful]

Once again NOT surprised by what happened with Hannah. The fact that her disrespect to Nick was not fully addressed but yet they turned around and attacked him was ridiculous. Because if it was the other way around Nick would have been dragged even more. It’s really unfair. I do not agree with the comments that Nick said about Hannah’s looks, he should have taken accountability. However, Hannah should not have been taken off the spotlight and all she said was I’m “direct.” Like girl we get it … and these women defending her while also saying she’s a bitch to them.. like I can’t. And ridiculous that these old cast members were there. FOR NOTHING

[@Daniela-Christianson]

If Nick had said something truly disparaging I'd agree. He didn't body shame her which he SURELY could have. She flung all kinds of insults about his looks but he can't call her a 4/5.

[@Daniela-Christianson]

And doing it OFF camera is far kinder...he denied calling her a grenade. Saying he's underwhelmed is no big deal among "friends".

[@lalala51ful]

@@Daniela-Christianson yup agree as well!!! Good point

[@welcometorissaworld4447]

I was thinking Taylor dad didn’t want to be on camera to waste his time if they wouldn’t even make it to the wedding. He probably was thinking yea they not gone get married. But after spending time with them and probably seeing his daughter serious then he changed his mind about being on the show

[@apersonwiththoughts]

Right? Not sure how that wasn’t obvious….

[@alnsubuga]

I assumed the same thing.

[@ThatTravelingAhhNurse]

Marissa didn’t even go hard on Ramses like she did Nick! Like, girl! This is not your fight! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jayneanthony5652]

I think Marissa went easy on Ramses because she's still sleeping with him

[@CrystalM1917]

She still want that man that's why. 😂

[@ThatTravelingAhhNurse]

@@jayneanthony5652 I didn’t even think of that!!!! You’re right!

[@artistbabexo]

This entire season is a mess & the Reunion is a HOTT MESS! when Vanessa asked Ashley & Tyler about the kids, I rolled my eyes because I knew he was going to lie through his teeth & give a teary eyed story. Ashley was like 😸 yes, yes, yes! I'm going to stick beside him.

[@selomesintayehu1069]

Thank you so much for calling out Hannah, it was irritating watching the Lachey's try to villainize Nick. They never hold the women accountable on this show. Same thing happened with Chelsea last season, they never addressed how manipulative and unkind she was to Jimmy.

[@bongihill2780]

Watching Tyler and Ashley was so hard. Where are the children in this whole situation?! 😢😭😣

[@summerintherockies9530]

Driven right over, in Trashley’s ride or die car

[@happygardener2921]

And WHY was Ashley’s Mama sitting there nodding the whole time?

[@vanessao8711]

Hate to say it but birds learn bird behavior from somewhere.

[@LeesaLilHop]

Didnt you hear what her dad said to her at the wedding? Ashley learned everything from her mama

[@pearlosibu]

Ikr?!!!

[@lizziepumpkin92]

Talmbou “I’ve learned so much from them” 🙄🙄🙄

[@relaxlibrary4249]

Tyler lost me when he tried to claim he stepped in to help out. Like sir, was creating more kids part of the helping out? "Those kids, that family?" Boy gone somewhere with that. Tyler has no incentive to change with Ashley riding for this man. I wish the best for her, but Tyler will play her just like he played the rest of the women in his life.

[@thickthickly]

I maintained empathy for Ashley up until the very last moment and now I don't care. Here's to a life full of suffering and lies to Ashley and she better not EVER complain. Just keep that marriage in tact sis.

[@Daniela-Christianson]

My friend and I were talking about Ashley asking Tyler if the kids had ever seen him or knew what he looked like, and he answered, "I don't think so", and that being the basis of ANOTHER lie to her. Next thing we knew she brought that up saying of course she knew that wasn't true and he was saying it to protect the kids 🙄. I'm not sure who I like least at this point.

[@whitney4299]

The friend groups are very telling while watching them up there.

[@TammyTalks]

Very interesting, but not shocking how the girls are split.

[@jovanbercey8507]

Tim is a narc, and no I am not a medical professional to diagnose him, I said what I said cause I know what I know

[@michelelynn5698]

@jovanbercey8507 i agree...but there were a couple on this season. I am a mental health professional. Lol

[@deannajones983]

Iykyk

[@znssjee]

Not a fan of calling men out their name, but i 100% see why Alex called tim a b*tch.😅

[@corinneamany6632]

When he starting whining, I also was like, ' Oh wait, he is a lil 🐕!😂😂

[@bouchest]

Nah out of line

[@StellaDeeCoder]

I’m not calling my man a female dog then continue to attempt to get married. If I’m going that low I’m leaving. Tim can’t forgive Alex then cry about it afterwards . They both full of 💩.

[@ToniTannerScott]

I knew exactly what she called him before she said it!

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Crazy he wanted to be a dog and call hr a mutt but when she call him one.... 😅

[@Nataura1]

When you said “Tim, come here. All three of you.” I hollered because yessss that mf is nuts!

[@bosse1092]

😂😂 me too

[@lumensapace]

THANK YOU FOR POSTING SO QUICK!!!

[@growingandcooking7278]

Y’all peep Marissa’s mom leaning over to Katie and whispering, “She made you feel like shit for a whole year…”?👀💀

[@mi6438]

Loved it😂!

[@CremeBrulee-qm8wi]

😂😂😂😂

[@tamirabanks426]

Yes I had rewind to make sure i heard her right 😂

[@AnimalsDressedasHumans]

Hannah deserved to be called worse than a “grenade.” I’m with Garrett. It did feel immature of them to gang up on him over gossip. Her behavior was 99% unwarranted & she latched on to one thing that made her feel vindicated or less of the villain, and I think that is just toxic if you ever have dealt with that in a relationship. It’s manipulative. Take the L. Even if he was rude about it, who cares if he wasn’t attracted to you. You didn’t redeem yourself and make up for it with charm. And maybe i am just anti-social and uptight, but these “bonds” these ppl form is the darndest thing bc they barely know each other! You’ve seen ppl jump the gun in the past on the show & end up with egg on their face. And you know what Marissa, YOU DO HAVE TOO MUCH ENERGY

[@jayneanthony5652]

Hannah is a grenade, her explosive personality is disgusting. And Marissa's energy was all negative

[@amythomas8945]

I am so glad this is over. None of them are likable at this point. I'm not rooting for anyone. Garrett and Taylor are fine I guess but the rest of them, ew.

[@vanessao8711]

Garrett...I guess is right. You know his momma is the reason he had "a hard time" moving to Seattle. I hate this for Taylor. She signed on to marriage with a puppet master as a mother in law.

[@Daniela-Christianson]

I like Nick

[@ihavelargepores]

Possibly the worst season

[@pearlosibu]

@@vanessao8711thatvis really unfair. Taylor should have gone to LIB San Diego. Garret is independently close to his family and that is a good and beautiful thing. Glad they found a compromise.

[@kerencorner]

Girl you have me cracking up every time you call Ashley dumba** 🤣

[@nicole4779]

“So you just gonna die?” Took me all the way out 😂😂😂😂

[@roseboogie75]

Woo, as soon as the episode ended I started the wait for THIS. 🎉

[@stargazer_stacey7415]

Saaaaame👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@dharmaboy75]

@26:10 Man Tammy Gives it to you straight. I agree fully. Tammy is one of the ladies you want in your life to give you brutally honest advice. Good stuff.

[@smilie7133]

Marissa’s mom wasn’t lying 😩 I couldn’t stand her but I get it! I freakin get it!

[@bosse1092]

😂😂😂😂 she comes on way too strong

[@Daniela-Christianson]

I didn't like her in the beginning either but it makes me wonder if she's used to seeing her daughter pick men who don't wanna earn money. She wants to shut it down.

[@CremeBrulee-qm8wi]

I judged her at first, but she was right.

[@jeeither]

"you weren't self aware enough to not cook in a leather coat" made me laugh but then "you weren't self aware enough to not hold your dog while you ate" took me out

[@welcometorissaworld4447]

Hannah kept talking about this glow up and like she a different person. Girl yea your looks glowed up but you still the same person. You still don’t feel like you did anything wrong. And we still don’t like you. When your brother said you treat him mean too and when you didn’t tell your mom you love her back when she said it. That’s when I didn’t like you cause look how you treat your family

[@parkerisles7256]

I’m confused about the glow up comments because she looks the same even with the weightloss and fillers. It’s great she achieved her goals but glow up implies an improvement and I don’t see hers neither in body, mind, nor spirit.

[@MyLifeBeLike23655]

Ozempic glow up

[@Sistagirltay]

She was be even more on demon time now

[@bosse1092]

More importantly she still doesn’t like herself

[@tspfull]

The way Marissa behaved with Hannah, like the mean girls in the back of the class, makes me feel for Ramses. lol. i don’t know if i could have done that for the rest of my life either. and, break ups only need one party consent. it doesn’t need both to agree.

[@Bree5three]

Yea lol, that’s the only part where she lost me. If I don’t want you, I don’t need to consult with you. But I guess she means they’d done multiple check-ins and each time he responded he was 100% when he should’ve brought up his doubts earlier, so they could work on it, and/or she could at least see the potential of a no coming. Plus he didn’t even entertain the idea of them dating on the outside instead to give them more time to make it work, and that comes across far more like he held no feelings for her whatsoever. Now, you absolutely feel led on

[@OppholdsvaerX]

Hannah has some nerves...so she mocked his hight, his game, his maturity, called him unequal and was disrespectful in so many ways...but calls him out for not liking her looks and still staying? This girl...like isn't that the whole point: to love somebody dispite looks? Also, if Ashley is fine with all of Tylers shit...ok. I really hope for her she doesnt experience the same thing once she has kids. A woman who can live with a man who acts like this towards his kids...oh gosh.

[@Alkhemy84]

I'm okay with AD and marshall being there because I'm certain Netflix brought them back just for their facial reactions. Jessica, Zack, and Bliss were only there so Vanessa could go off about here baby fever

[@izzyjordan8998]

My main take on this is 🚩Tim. He himself said during the episodes, when he wants his space, give him space, he would talk when he is ready, his mom said the same exact thing, it was confirmed. Now if he realised something was wrong with Alex and she said she needed space, just wanted to take a shower and get some rest, talk it out the next day, why couldn't he extend that same courtesy to her? Imma say this one more time, when they had the reveal, he knew in that instant, he didn't want her. The emotional connection died there and then, cause there was no physical attraction at all. So he found every excuse to end the relationship cause truly these little miscommunications could have been fixed had both parties put in the work. He basically used her as a therapist in the pods for his heartache. Bro she was dealing with a lot to but i guess it was mainly about you. To deal with both of her parents having the same disease is a lot and she possibly was struggling and should not have even entered the show. But you Tim, i can't even say I'm disappointed cause there are a lot of you out there, Mr " can i talk?"

[@berenic90]

Marrisa defending Hannah trying to make nick the villian and brushing away Hannah disgusting behavior pissed me off. Hannah behavior was not addressed ones

[@JinaChantil]

Marissa had more smoke for Nick than she did for Ramses at this reunion 🤣

[@karapinksen3755]

I just discovered you. I never subscribe to anyone, mostly because I’m 50…but I am laughing out loud and loving your style 😂 You’re fantastic 🎉

[@brunobakes9056]

Tammy, I wish you could do the interviews at the LIB reunion. You would ask all the right questions.

[@emmjay22]

I swear my jaw hit the floor when they showed Ashley and Tyler wearing matching Christmas Pyjama's 🤮

[@oncebitebysquirrel]

Right minus those babies😢

[@apersonwiththoughts]

Idk how she can take anything with him seriously.

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

That is the moves of a petty nasty "new girl" 🤮 that is something off bet or pettytok.....shameful

[@misssunshine8469]

I was looking for this comment, it was so disgusting because he had those Christmas Pajama family photos with his kids. Honestly, he looks ashamed. I think he’s made a huge mistake and Ashley it’s not a good woman for sticking by and just allowing this behaviour and furthermore probably not even making it a viable option that he be involved. She probably just shut that option off. It’s his responsibility at the end of the day but she’s desperate as hell

[@Laflaca_5232]

I forced myself to watch this season’s reunion and during that I thought to myself: “Man I can’t wait to hear what Tammy gotta say!” What a mess! Delulu claims she’s been working on herself. Moments later that proved to be false. Nick was more mature in this situation and was more respectful as usual. Marissa may as well have gotten a pat and a treat cuz she was literally Hannah’s puppy dog. Then to come and find out she still went back for seconds with what’s his face?? Girl…smh even her mama was appalled. Tim & Alex…I just don’t get why they’re still so upset about everything. I wish the show had given us more insight because we had very little information to go off of when they had their spats. Baby daddy and Ashley….Lord have mercy. Why is that beautiful woman so blinded and acting like Tyler is the best she can do? For shame smh Love your videos Tammy!!! Always have me laughing 😂

[@esmepack]

I about choked on my drink when you said coming to America!😂😂😂😂😂

[@keina2121]

“Your insides are still full of shit” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Hannah made herself more unlikeable on the reunion and i didn’t think that was possible

[@scribzscribbles]

Also not surprised all the broken up couples tried to keep hooking up. Marissa said she had asked Ramses to get back together after they broke up , I want better for her but she’s okay with dating trump supporters so, and Hannah hitting nick up again and then saying I just wanted to remember if the sex was that bad… she thinks she can say yeah I’m mean I’m working on it is enough? Cuz that wasn’t it

[@Kessylayssa]

This reunion made me SO uncomfortable

[@twilliams7264]

“mama tongue ring” kills me😭😭

[@khai4202]

Hannah and Marissa was THE ABSOLUTE WORST

[@RedBunni1024]

I thought you were calling Ashley Delulu in the intro. She is queen delulu imo.

[@yx5991]

The way I interpreted the Tyler and Ashley conversation is they made it seem they had this whole conversation about if off camera and she actually knew all the details. She wanted it on camera and he didn’t but they said still had to shoot the scenes as if she didn’t know and he’s telling it to her like that on purpose. I don’t like how production allowed this to transpire the way it did. I don’t like how none of the women were held accountable. And I don’t like all the extra people at the reunion.

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

Keep in mind this was also filmed before Bri’s tiktok and Deshon’s interview. Sonthe twins are still being cobbled in as if they were a sperm donation.

[@yx5991]

@ there’s just no way to make any sense of it! Because if she was really asking questions off camera-- it still wouldn’t make sense even without BRI and Deshawn

[@no.7-ot9yc]

Marissa blind slides her mother when she openly said her and ramses still knocking boots while arguing with Nick 😂 and when Marissa mother says to hanna bestie "and she made you feel like shie for a year" 😂😂

[@Poeticfloetic]

*sides

[@kalisue6573]

Yesssss Tammy glad you didn’t hold back! They went way to easy on Ashley and Tyler and so hard on others?? You’re not fooling us.