How to spot psychopaths

[@michaelmessenger5742]

After a lifetime of treachery & betrayals Trust is sacred to be proven and gained

[@joyearls735]

I totally agree, life is a learning process, especially if surrounded by dangerous people.The spectrum of , sociopathic, narcissistic and psychopathic.

[@michaelmessenger5742]

@@joyearls735 I agree with you entirely wiser woman 🙂 How to navigate and avoid such crazies Is my question.

[@joyearls735]

@@michaelmessenger5742 . Trust intuition, watch for red flags , keep toxic people away and when someone shows you who they are , don’t walk run. In other words always have radar on , too many in my own family, limited or no contact .

[@irinakushnir8338]

Thank you for the wisdom שבוע טוב ומבורך לכולם 😊

[@valereehansen4378]

Question: Even after the Holocaust when people have argued how can you trust God anymore after what has happened? Answer: I only have God now. It's human beings who can't be trusted. This is the most meaningful, thought-provoking statement I've heard in a very very long time.

[@susanparker767]

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[@starros1]

Beautifully done, Rabbi Jacobson. Thank you. Eric Erickson in Life Cycles says that Basic Trust is formed in the first year of life when the child receives love and caring from the mother. In Attachment Theory the child will either learn to approach or avoid, neurological affecting the social right side of our brain. You may also want to change the topic of this video from Spotting Psychopaths to Developing Basic Trust. It is so refreshing to listen to you. Thank you.

[@chaudaryali3989]

Sometimes accountability becomes totally irrelevant as a huge damage has already been done 😊❤

[@johnmcfetridge3974]

Thanks from the devalued. Your the best.

[@bethhart131]

You are my moat favorite Rabbi I have ever had the pleasure of crossing paths with. I'm so glad your videos are a part of my life and how open and honest you are. A huge thank you to you sir ❤

[@akai.christo]

Thank you Rabbi Jacobson!! Shavua Tov!! 💪✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶

[@catherinem4130]

Mr. Simon, I wouldn't trade having been married to the same man for 53 years for anything. I like that you said Trust has to be earned. Through many experiences we had to "trust that we could trust." In all the different scenes of life, Trust was simply there.... perfection wasn't and that was ok because of love. Thank you for your wonderful teaching on Trust.

[@doricetimko5403]

You have been blessed.

[@blueorangeblossom]

Thx for this Ive never heard such a discussion about trust.

[@persiamotorman]

I'm amazed at how many promises people make to me, and how few times they actually follow through with them. It always signals the end of my desire to deal with them.

[@aeaf123]

Hey Rabbi SJ, Thank you for every talk. You are always tuned into the heart of every matter. A wonderful ear to the heartbeat of our collective and ongoing circumstances. Just wanted to say. Thank you for your voice and aid :)

[@valariesusan52]

I sent this song to the only one.keeping me here. Now I have many. Ive been brought to life with your words of wisdom and the comments of your beautiful people.

[@BarnabyBarry]

Always good info-It is usually a spectrum-from mild to severe-be careful/pray and look within-then get out-then stop blaming and move on!

[@KimberlyGraham-q2l]

Hi and good Sunday afternoon to you Rabbi...and Shalom. Glad I listened in - even though I have been quite distracted this morning regarding the happenings currently in Israel/Lebanon and as concerns Hezbollah.....but in any event - excellent point here - we are all prone to sin and mistakes against one another and there is no perfection in any mortal man...but to me, since there is no perfection in man, all the more reason to cease placing so much trust in "man" and therefore eliminating the "fear" of betrayal and disappointment. The greater concern should be in placing our trust and our hope in the LORD our God. I remember one video of a teaching that you posted in which you made mention that none of us are victims. I believe we are not meant to be or created to be victims, but it seems we cannot help but always make ourselves "victims". Never learning our lessons and always trying to elevate ourselves and others (whether, Kings, Princes, Presidents, Leaders, or "other gods") into being our all-knowing, all-wise "saviors". ..... “I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. “You shall have no other gods before me." ~ Exodus 20:3. It seems to me no way out other than repentance, and the turning around to go back to the beginning.....God forgive us, inspire us anew!.... Make me to know your ways, O LORD; teach me your paths. Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all the day long.~ Psalm 25:4-5 ❤🙏❤

[@divinegrackle]

Accountability is my favorite word

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

What do YOU like about "accountability"..... ..... TAKING it or GIVING it?? Think carefully before answering (assuming you CHOOSE to answer).👹🙉🙈🙊

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

Is it now..... (Your favorite word).... Do you like TAKING it or GIVING it more??? 🙄

[@johnmcfetridge3974]

Your thoughts have made me to believe. There the most beneficial to being human. Thank you. You can. But don't understand how you've helped me. Thank you.

[@cafe.cedarbeard]

Thanks again Rabbi, this has been a great Sunday morning dharma talk. Dharma to me is the energy to live as though the world depends on your input, or to engage in deliberate practice daily. The lineage! Whatever language wisdom speaks the current of a wide swath of society wants to chuck it all overboard, and voila! They act out the part of screaming babies and violent rebels. It's a blatant picture to anyone with integrity on how the Church of Pure Reason really just continued the murder spree of the royals they were so keen on beheading, but without a heart center, thus the pollution and mayhem. The current blue politician in the lead loves to chant her rant about being unburdened by the past; this is the tactic of every tyrant ever to erase the input of elders who know better. No nuance in the screen swipe shorties.

[@DineseBeckert]

ACK, I have forgiven him, but after the grief, (November of last year!) I am now in the anger phase. Thank you Rabbi.

[@jacovawernett3077]

Dinese, I love you. I can relate. I am a Lou Gehrigs widow from Christmas Eve 2005 with a 25 year old son in Tel Aviv. My all my heart and soul I hug you. My Hebrew name Jacova is the female form of Jacob. I was born March 11th in Bethlehem decades ago. I just look young. In Aramaic Khubba means love. Khubba to you and yours. Baruch Hashem

[@judithyork6401]

Thank you Rabbi as always I learn something new and vailuable....

[@u.s.family9279]

Thank you Rabbi.

[@lvi8957]

Thank you professor. May God grant us understanding

[@johnmcfetridge3974]

Love this guy so much.

[@robertbruno2501]

best psychology to a human .great educational informative. Thank you..😊

[@mcmentalmusicmakers3219]

Thanks once again Rabbi Jacobson

[@j.lsantos9106]

❤ thank you rabbi helping save lives.

[@cappykarma1754]

Thank you for these nuggets of wisdom. Lol fickle is the word of the day. 🍎👍🕊

[@London-Lad]

They are 20%. It goes much higher in the medical, charity and religious sectors; wherever you find the vulnerable en masse, you'll find predators in numbers too; those who have no conscience.

[@mrs.d6149]

Be accountable, rather than perfect - very instructive, dear Rabbi!

[@MichaelPrytherch]

Thank you simon for helping me heal

[@improvisedsurvival5967]

Accountability is non existent nowadays.

[@lindaabraham8715]

Here is a major problem trusting others... You think someone is your friend, you spend a lot of time with them in various activities alone and with others. When you cook for them or go out, you compensate for their various likes and dislikes, sacrificing your own preferences. You make things for them, repair things, in the natural way of friendship. And then after years, you hear the malicious gossip about you that they have been spreading, the mocking. That person has been false with you from the very beginning. You feel that you have wasted those years, they are spoiled for you, and you question your judgments or ability to know anyone.

[@mariekormendy8795]

Excellent. Thank you.

[@mars4free]

AI Rabi with a "green screen" background lecturing on trust. This is gold good, go God ! 🙏😇

[@MissMiriamSpeaks]

Most Rabbis have a lot of books. Those are probably real 😂

[@maryw4609]

Trust in god he is always there even when we can’t see his face ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ thank you rabbi Jacobson a little trust goes long way

[@fancybotpaints]

You are great! Thank you Rabbi! ❤

[@junkettarp8942]

Thanks Rabbi Jacobson.

[@ginmcg3514]

Beautiful ❤

[@honoraryamerica5943]

Oh the stories.I could share. Indeed, trust among other qualities is critical. Be a Mensch yourself and seek out the same, wherever they are. It is difficult to recover and trust another again when one has experienced.this sacred bond being broken.

[@stepanromanov]

Thank you Rabbi

[@donaldhbramwell]

Love u rabbi.

[@confusedbugger]

While I enjoyed the message on trust today, I TRUSTED that the title of this video "how to spot a psychopath" would be brought up, and having watched all 37 minutes now, I don't believe this was mentioned. I think the closest this video came to addressing this was talking about arrogant people. There is content on KZbin for criminal psychology majors, where they analyze interviews and interrogations with various types of horrible criminals and psychopaths. It can be scary to watch, but if you are in the business of taking down these types of criminals, you do have to calcify your psyche to these kinds of things. Psychopaths do not naturally feel empathy or shame, and they will take great measures to fake trust. You may have heard the term "love bombing," and "gaslighting." In order to be protected from these types of people, you have to have a firm trust in yourself and a moral code. Trusting ourselves is not a blank check we should give ourselves either, lest we wander down a path of narcissm. Interestingly, this is where I see psychology and spirituality/religion needing to develop a symbiotic relationship with one another. We put our trust in a moral code that helps us live in harmony for the advancement of the species, and we employ psychology in the defense of that moral code. I believe this is necessary because there are psychopaths who will invoke the moral authority of God to manipulate people who trust God into doing the bidding of the shameless psychopath.

[@melissaklemm9976]

I trust my Father's teaching ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ he sent his son❤❤❤

[@johnmcfetridge3974]

Meaning full

[@Mary-s9s2x]

❤Great 👍 research!

[@sachalebabe]

My big mistake was believing I can trust family. Don't trust people! Test them out, wait, see if you can realky trust them!

[@jordanfalkowski6924]

I think maybe a heart of gold and trust issues conflict multiple paradigms

[@4945three]

Thank you.

[@Mary-s9s2x]

Trust is almost absent in society.

[@rajgurung7982]

Yes sir i got u.

[@christinleetmaa8259]

People usually expect accountability, not perfectionism. But it is a great era for psychopaths, cause in the end we find flaws everywhere and fix everybody, except psycopaths, cause you can not fix them anyway.

[@jacovawernett3077]

I am a Jewish soccer mom. I am very proud of Israel. I pray the rest of the world will understand we are defending them against Islamic Nazism

[@dungeonsdumbbells]

Eventually you become a jaded old horse 🐴, & trust needs to be earned.

[@Stevieray55]

There's Absolutely Zero worry about psychopaths if U can't merge with Unity Mother Sophia's Immeasurable Love & Wisdom with Father's Knowledge that so called psychopath is outta here period.

[@mutahhararif1137]

We made a covenant with the Israelites and sent Messengers to them. Whenever a Messenger came to them with a message which did not suit their desires, they would reject some of the Messengers and kill others

[@VLM03]

I saw my first psychopath in the mirror, I was born deaf My first artist exposure was Van Gogh and his pipe on a chair, wondering where his ear was, had he even done it yet, and why was there no blood on the hankerchief? Grandad, a survivor of Bomber Command, 1 of 40%< said he was mad

[@ValentinBrutusBura]

When one has the Torah, they have the Torah!!

[@BensonBenji]

War breeds psychopaths.

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

Hmm.... Your comment here reminds me of the "chicken/egg" conundrum... Does war breed psychopaths or do psychopaths breed war? 👹🙉🙈🙊🤣

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

"Ain't war Hell?!?" ---Helicopter door gunner in Full Metal Jacket

[@BensonBenji]

Don't mock this situation. I'm a product of a military complex beyond your wildest imagination. Yet here we are stand up comedy night. Now witness the prophecy.

[@improvisedsurvival5967]

I look at it like this can you trust a thief to work at a bank. No but you can trust a thief to work at McDonald’s. Trust is earned and lost Same thing with respect. In my life there is associates and members. To become a member it’s gonna cost them something. Most people fall into associate category. I find if someone lies even if it’s not to me they will lie to me when it suits them. Lying is a pattern like stealing the more they get away with it the more they do it and bigger the crimes get. Every person is self interested and does what’s best for themself in the end.

[@Lesser302]

Memory 2:04 Is the key to trust To forget is to fall victim once more. Some chose to not remember. Some can’t remember. most simply do not see on purpose. Tied up in focus with in action like work Sleep gambling or activities to reduce cognitive abilities. Most chose to be blind, to get through daily life and the Great wide world of lies deceit and history 6:36

[@Staying_aliveforwomen]

I was told Ididnt trust anyone pre verbal stage.Explore what t might be. We not born trusting everyone

[@sandancer45]

Did i miss something, the title said how to spot a Psychopath. No mention of how to spot a psychopath?

[@hollyharte7831]

Noticed that too

[@astridbiram2776]

Psychopaths are not just people, you think they are,Psychopaths are yr Very EDUCATED PEOPLE AS WELL ,I smile with many Don t trust any,the human being will always let u down. I hv more RESPECT for animals than humans.😮

[@dwightnix893]

Met both Ted Bundy and Timothy McVeigh. They were smiling so hard that it was a giant red flag.

[@astridbiram2776]

People think people that are on drugs,poor ,no education are pchopaths,not true, please Don t judge a human being on what there standing is in life Thank you Rabbi, unfortunately my trust has been violated by human beings also,lm one of the lucky ones,l hv very strong intuition 🙏, l smell Danger and feel it,l can defend myself.

[@sashacottier9581]

Thats paranoid personality which i have. Psychopathy is something else.

[@AftreGaol]

The more my trust is tested the more the " testers" just look ridiculous and not worth my time

[@lynetterowberry2]

Rabbi ... so how does one spot a psycho?

[@Nikola__K]

That was just clickbait, he likes to do that sometimes 😂😂😂

[@lynetterowberry2]

@@Nikola__K 😂 I knew that ... I was calling him out😂

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

As Jeff Foxworthy would have said: " If one has several hundred rounds of ammunition wrapped around their body and is also carrying an M-60 and shows up by themselves in the middle of an indoor shopping mall.... .... They might just be a redneck..... Er, UH.... "psycho" 🙄🤣

[@Nikola__K]

@@lynetterowberry2 What do you think, does he do it intentionally for the clickbait? Or does he himself forget what he actually talked about, and then just titles the video what he thinks he talked about? Or maybe he titles it what lesson he got out of it talking and remembered before uploading.

[@ricardopb794]

✌️ 🪨 🔥 ✊️. Thank you.

[@EstherMordecai-iv2tx]

Title: How to spot psychopaths? When the lecture is about trust…

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

I think he was perhaps subtly saying that those with trust issues might have a detectable level of psychopathy.... Those who LACK trust as well as those frequent violators of it??? Just a theory. (Otherwise a decent question about a questionable title. 😶)

[@stevenwalter1255]

No trust anyone at work 😊

[@VLM03]

Trust is only guaranteed through mortal fear when the lawless rule. Hellfire trumps mortal fear, except in Japan, lol

[@JesterMax24]

What does the talmud say about non jews, rabbi?

[@Robert-jh7yi]

All we have as humans is our integrity, when you die that is all you will carry to the other side. This is why prophet's said liars will not inherit the kingdom of god. Since were on the topic once cleansed of a sin this sin must never be repeated because that would make you a liar Your only forgiven once. This is why it was said few people make it into heaven. People think a lie can be forgiven are in for a real surprise.

[@justin2221]

I disagree with the opening statement, zero-trust environment are much more secure and are much less exploitable

[@astrogumbo]

I listen to a lady Gew Priests who says the rebbes are done

[@astrogumbo]

She says y'all don't know Torah

[@sarahharris2729]

No soul is created a psychopath but psychopathy traits have been seen in children as young as 5 years old. It's clearly multiple lifetimes over centuries of a pseudo-personality created by the person that rebels against the very foundation and purpose of life. There is a nature, pre- nurture aspect. Look at Dahmer, his brother was normal and raised the same but Jeffrey became fascinated with dead animals or killing them. I've worked in schools and have seen traits in children that are innate, there's absence of affective empathy or cognitive empathy and no amount of reward systems change it. There's dysfunctional children from rearing, by psychopathy isn't caused by external factors.

[@kenrowland7864]

What's this video have to do with Psychopaths?

[@김태희-x8q]

Rabbi, could you please someday deal with the development of representation(vorstellung) of divine presence (shechinah) throughout history? In babylonian talmud megillah 29, shechinah went into exiles with the knesset israel. And then in eichah rabbah 1:33 and 3:20, the divine presence/divine spirit is depicted as sharing pain of the jewish people in exile. and then finally in the book of zohar, the lower shechinah(malchut,nukva) is finally identified with knesset israel. And malchut even ends up becoming offering for hashem. I do not grasp how the whole theory developed.

[@1snakebob]

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[@jamilacharles5485]

Listen Rabbi you trust bible not afraid anyone

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

"You WILL be.... You WILL be." ---Yoda

[@illuminationgoddess3]

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[@patriciakuzmicz4456]

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[@papadizastr]

Turn on a television?

[@Good_Luck_8619]

Everybody is a bit of psychopath if u ain’t a little bit u don’t survive in this mad world ! Simple !

[@los_rubos]

I spot Netanyahu

[@rtisleo]

So trust is how to spot psychopaths?

[@LMNOmic1234]

Moralism.

[@jamescastro2037]

We define the word. If you take a psychopath is it a violent one, one that has already been paved or do you know the psych enough to say, path why you lay down? O, for me? To follow the mind is the (psych)opath. And it is revelatory. Can you trust your mind to lay down a path for you. Knowing it takes a body to apply the thought.We are a mindfeild, hoping nobody adds enough pressure or tension and triggering an explosion of? This is where the path starts, knowing you were formed from an explosion, why must we be willing to go and find a source of your blowing up? You didn't go anywhere but crazy.

[@astrogumbo]

Saturn Mars conjunctivitis.....

[@astrogumbo]

Mercury moon thangs

[@StalkedHuman]

That is not biblical teaching, which is to be expected from someone calling themselves "rabbi"

[@rudeb7]

I'm halfway through this talk, and I believe that the title is horrible.

[@astridbiram2776]

God has nothing to do with trusting People, or bad things that happen in life,you should be blaming people's evil,NOT GOD🙏

[@infiniti28160]

Psychopaths have a severe lack of Empathy. The Mishnah interprets the Biblical command to love God "with all your heart" to mean "with your two inclinations - good inclination and evil inclination" Now understand that the ideological doctrine allows what the world would consider as evil, to be acceptable. The question from this is why is this not allowed to happen in others that are not from the indoctrination. Christ is King of kings. Do unto others as you would allow them to do unto yourself, is the torahs main teaching, the rest is explanation of why this is so. Now go read your holy book. Psalm 146:3-7 The major characteristic of all dissociative phenomena involves a detachment from reality, rather than a false perception of reality as in psychosis. Schizophrenia

[@egyur]

אנחנו סובלים קי אנחנו א מצליחים ליתפוס את הדבר נה פשות-אתם בואו אלי תיבקו אצלי אל קתפי -בתי קנת כי שם אני שומעת ויכול =כול חבר חבר קונגרס חבר כולשהוא לא יכול לעזור אב אני יכול אני יכול לחולל ניסים ולעזור ולהציל אותכם מי כול צרה ואני מבקש רק נעמנות תודה קטנה מי כול הלב ולא מבקש דברים אחרים וכול שקשה לכם יאלם רק ביביל זה וגם לא יתחשב לכם כרחילות או רוע או...כי זה מה שביקשתי את כאב שבליבכם ואני אתקן כול מי נחש עד מחלה מי דמעות לשימחה כי זה אני ואין אחר שיכול לתקן כמוני כי אני יודעה עם אזה פגמימברתי אותכם ולכן אני יכול את הכול עבורכם כי אין כאהבתי אלכם ....זה אני !!!

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

"Trust but verify"....A lie....Or something slick or sly???🙄👹🙉🙈🙊

[@kodiak8525]

You lecture about psycopaths from the seat of an evil crusader state.

[@Avicena-tf5uj]

The crusaders where Christians who had no right to the holy land, just as Muslims have no right to the holy land. Israel is a Jewish state, for the Jewish people, based on Jewish history!! It will become true spiritual capital of all humanity under them, not just for one religious group. I say this as a Muslim!

[@SteveSmith-kd9if]

IF I TRUST IN ANYBODY I WOULD BE TRUSTING IN SATAN, "SO I GIVE THAT TRUSTING IN MAN A NO THANK YOU"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@infinidimensionalinfinitie5021]

how to spot a psychopath; look in the mirror;

[@DarkHorse-ri3nt]

Blah blah why does Simon always focus on the childhood trauma? Before the creation of the world G-d knew everything. He knew the fallen angels would corrupt the spirit of man and yet allowed it. So who’s at fault? G-d or us? Who cares one way or another Solomon said all is meaningless so we appear as a mist for awhile and disappear. Forget it. The yamakah needs to be made of the shells or the husks of the past in Kabbalah. Wear it on your head because like the ain soph you are above it. I’m just spit balling here and making it up.