How To Stay High Value When a Man Pulls Away or Becomes Distant

[@CassieTranthesuperfitbabe]

A good example of staying high value when he pulls away: In SATC, both Samantha and Carrie were interested in Mr. Big. Samantha found that Mr. Big didn't feel the same way and moved on for the rest of the show. Carrie chased Mr. Big until the very end when he left her at the altar. Be like Samantha. ♥

[@jadexx1]

So true!

[@simonep1104]

Carrie was the biggest slave. She literally gives me the ICK

[@60wwediva]

Yes. I hate women who dont admit this about carrie. She chased, forced and groomed him into tolerating her. She was never his type. Samantha was already wealthy, had her ideal men and didnt need Big. Carrie was a golddigger and used her pussy to keep big interested

[@Ellie-i8c]

Diamonds don't chase anyone✨️💎✨️ Let's shine!

[@celestiakock7207]

Your presence increases a man’s value. Treat yourself like a queen even if others don’t.

[@Ivorybennett-h1o]

Just because some people are to low to pay the price doesn't change the fact that I'm expensive.💅high quality people, will pay for high quality.

[@Lisaglamour]

@@Ivorybennett-h1o Yes! Exactly ❤️ Some people don’t understand the price of a diamond or try to negociate to get a lower price, but it does not change its value. You are that expensive diamond 💎

[@Ellie-i8c]

Facts!💯

[@joylindadichamounix]

When I find myself being interested in a man but he is cooling off, I say a mantra for moving forward. I di it twice for 40 days. By that time that the 40 days are finished, either he and I have moved forward or I will have moved on. Don't give men too much time. I have learned that one the hard way and found a new way to cope with that factor.

[@user-rn5qo3pp7c]

What mantras have helped you most?

[@joylindadichamounix]

@@user-rn5qo3pp7c I have usually found them in meditation books. Most are in Sanskrit. "Om Ah Hum Vajra Guru Padma Siddhi Hum" is the one that I was discussing here.

[@lustforlife777]

great advice !! I woud also like to know which mantras do you use ?

[@joylindadichamounix]

@@lustforlife777 Learn more … “Om Ah Hum Vajra Guru Padma Siddhi Hum”

[@joylindadichamounix]

@@user-rn5qo3pp7c Learn more … “Om Ah Hum Vajra Guru Padma Siddhi Hum”

[@leenaheist]

This came at the right time. After a month he called me this morning. I already had your video pulled up in a tab, but just watched it and I feel very equipped with my next approach. Thank you

[@Space_Invader11]

Great timing I needed this 😩

[@duchy13]

Hope you are okay 💝

[@quantiadhana331]

Me too! We truly are not alone

[@Feel_My_Ubiquity]

Me too Omg 😢

[@manishachoudhary5249]

Same

[@TaliaK99]

You have no idea how much the Mona Lisa analogy just helped me❤

[@BristiSom]

This is the reason why I believe in devine timing ❤❤❤

[@vivalafrance9547]

Yes, he was cold, distant and indifferent, after being hot and cold keeping me in his orbit, so ambiguos as to whether or not he liked me... and his went on for a very long time. Meanwhile I became limerent over him and depressed. Now finally, after a month of no contact, I am f free of his stupid games.

[@thegardener3650]

Omg! This is a good topic that no one talks about! Thank you! 🙏 ❤

[@synergy4119]

Thank you, Lisa, your precious advice, as always, on the right timing and so close to my heart ❤

[@J-Nelll]

Thanks for sharing your divine feminine wisdom ❤

[@ArshdeepKaurSainj]

You Are a Queen Creator ❤❤

[@greywestminster]

I wish that someone like you could save me time. Now I learned what is gosthing (low value) of a person who wants just attention. Thanks to bring this advise for all woman.❤

[@XYZ-qu4yq]

Thank you for your honesty and wisdom, Lisa!

[@rachelmcclain5367]

Very needed Lisa, I love you and your channel so much!

[@whatsthat2486]

Perfect timing

[@CherieChrist]

Wow Lisa, thank you for this advice and you look very beautiful. Your Aura, your Mindset, Your Looks! Thank you very much

[@teri11452]

LOOOVE THIS VIDEO, thank you ❤️‍🔥

[@LindsayGrandberry]

Hey hey Lisa!!! I always love listening to you!!! You have great messages!!!! Thank-you for your work!!! Wonderful tips!!!! xoxoxo love from Canada!!!!

[@btp156]

Awhh, watching this video makes me feel better and more confident of myself. Thanks Lisa!

[@rosangelrivera9285]

Thank you. I actually just had a man pull away suddenly. I didn’t text him I actually spoke to him on the phone and I admit I came on strong. I was very forward when and I told him if I am not priority in someone life then they don’t deserve to be priority in mine. How could I have handled that better? What could I have said or done differently?

[@Sarahhenderson11]

It's not what you say - it's how U say it almost always. So it's tone and energy vibes almost always. Nothing wrong with what U said - however the way you said it may have come across a bit demanding or full on - I think it was your tone. If U had said casually and nicely - "I definitely love and need to feel a priority to someone " without implying pressure or neediness it goes down better. It's psych 101- what we say to others needs to come from a positive place, not a jaded place. I myself have said some truths to people in the past - but I know how to phrase things in a way that's non judgmental and non confrontational. This automatically diffuses people's defences - and the difference in their reaction is astounding! PS with this guy what you said may or may not be the reason for his pulling away - but what I said can work for future reference. Sometimes men will use any excuse to pull away for any number of reasons that aren't even personal - but to us women it just FEELS personal.

[@rosangelrivera9285]

@ thank you for responding. I appreciate the advice and yes it wil definitely help me. If I should end up in this situation again. Thank you again 🤍

[@spidermuffin1596]

Why did this come at the best time

[@Andreita483]

This is the best video I've seen of you so far. I love it. Thank you ❤

[@nishamalik8135]

My boyfriend is always so distant, we've deemed him the avoidant type, i only get to see him once a week, lucky if it two but it seems more mandatory rather than him wanting to actually see me, and during the week i don't get a reply for hours and sometimes even a whole day which pisses me off and makes me want to leave - the only thing holding me in is that we've met each other's families so now he's all nonchalant cause "im not going anywhere", i feel pathetic chasing and begging for basic love from him 😥

[@Lisaglamour]

You are way too valuable to chase after someone who doesn't appreciate you. If he does not appreciate you, an other one will! Learn to value yourself and see that you deserve better 😘

[@ElizabethBrown-dz4wc]

So sorry you are enought hold your head up stay cute on to the next❤

[@ilariamasullo3353]

You're not going anywhere? That's what HE thinks. You've got shoes and you can walk away anytime girl ❤

[@sparrowwilson4514]

Girl, RUN. I spent 3 years with a man like that and it won’t get better. In fact, it got even worse for me as he put more and more distance between us (despite insisting he loved me). You might love him, he might love you, but the truth is he is an unhealed person and he will make your life MISERABLE. There are so many healthier men / men who have worked on themselves out there. Do not waste your life on a guy who can’t love you properly. It’s not worth it.

[@Missy-sp1wx]

You are amazing, beautiful and I love the reminders you give all of us. Thank you so much!!

[@salyglamour]

In right time … thank you Liza ❤

[@aidak3341]

Lisa, can you make a video of what beauty treatments you’ve had or recommend? It’s so hard in todays day and age to know what is worth it. Love your videos ❤

[@tristenbuchanan5262]

Thank you for your valuable advice ❤

[@GFM77710]

Hello Miss Lisa 😊 💐Bravo on yet another exquisitely divine, wonderful video 👏🏻 You would consider it I would love to see a video of you talking about actress Natalie Wood. I think it would be most interesting to hear what you have to say about her😉 Thank you and have a blessed day☺️💕

[@theclassyconsultant.]

Am I mistaken or did I just see Misha Collins at 12:11? I love the Mona Lisa analogy so much, I'm going to be telling it to all my friends if they have this type of issue❤

[@rubymarroquin3876]

At the best time !!!!! Wow ❤😊

[@marinazhang6965]

Very wise advice ❤

[@rhythmicelegance4670]

Have you spoken about making up with a high-value person after a misunderstanding or other sort of argument, loss of temper, etc.? Sometimes good people are not so well-developed in articulating their emotions or thought-processes. Some may be carrying trauma from their parents or guardians, or other situations which have made communication and regulating emotions 24/7 difficult. Or is everyone always perfect in High-Value World?

[@tashatooshla7151]

gems!!

[@JesusLightsYourPath]

Yep, I think this just happened.

[@patitolindo]

I see where your values are

[@queenofheaventarot_1144]

I did deal with that

[@micheleliguori3469]

This is easy for me early on or in the talking phase. But in long term relationships, I need help on this please

[@BenmihoubSonia]

Hi Lisa! I hope You're doing well, we would really like it if you made a video about Jessica Rabbit being CUT by Disney! The audacity! Thank you very much 🌹

[@aylininci1535]

Lisa nice dress if only it was denim I reckon but it’s still blue

[@CharliesgabriellaRafanantenant]

OMG you are sooo beautiful ❤❤❤❤

[@Avoid_Low_Frequency]

Thank you my dear!! You keep me classy

[@brindarikachoudhury3986]

My bf is so distant sometimes he keeps me at seen n don't msg me for days until I msg him back...after I asked what happened he be always like I was busy n stuff...like i understand ur busy but it's not the way but I love him that's why it's kinda hard to accept the fact that we r not that close anymore n that my future with him that I dreamed is not possible

[@isabellachong614]

I’m sorry to hear this darling. When I was doing long distance with my boyfriend (10 hours difference) he still updates me about the things the he is doing. A man who truly loves you will not let his woman go to bed confused or frustrated!

[@Theelxirstore]

How to apply these techniques if you have trauma bond with him ?

[@espectro5676]

Please tell something more about long relationship ❤ How arouse love again

[@ARJ-v6s]

i claim it 330

[@The_NonDescript]

Someone explain how to give off the vibe that you're desired and have options when that is 100% false, please?

[@lou15176]

Yes, someone please answer this ☝️ question x

[@whatsthat2486]

Fake it until you make it. Better to be mysterious and confident and let their mind wander than try to get them to see what you want them to

[@Lisaglamour]

It is not something you can fake, you need to embody that mindset of becoming the price! I have more videos and my femme fatale course that will help you embody this 🥰😘

[@The_NonDescript]

@@Lisaglamour Thanks, Lisa!

[@lou15176]

@@Lisaglamour Very good Lisa ❤️ yes embodying it for real, not the “fake it till you make it” x

[@ghazalrad5554]

Love love love❤❤❤❤giirrlll

[@cherryrosestar6050]

But he never chases me... How dare he say he's in love with me? It's been 2 years

[@shivangeeshukla]

❤

[@monomer97]

18:56 😭😭😭

[@cherryrosestar6050]

He insults me if I talk to any other men, so these tactics don't work on narcissists

[@mansoor3159]

Lisa you are so so so kind hearted and you never ever disappoint me with your Videos and I will always always be your biggest supportive🥹🥹💖💖

[@cherryrosestar6050]

But it shows I do have self respect if I send lots of messages as to why he's upset me.

[@viktoriaschweizer8724]

🎉

[@mgarteaga03]

Is this applicable to single women only?

[@ONLYmindYourBusiness]

Can, you film a day in The Life??

[@inroosee]

What if you are married and he suddenly changes after 3 years of relationship and a year of marriage ?

[@Alhamd_laka_rabi100]

Try to search for the reason and you will know it through the behavior that has changed in him. For example, if he spends nights away from home, perhaps he is now finding pleasure outside. Try to make your life with him more enjoyable. The relationship of two friends cannot be compared to a married couple because marriage is sacred and is a contract between two people that results in children that are not It is easy to destroy a relationship just because of a small mistake. Rather, you must try to fix it. The situation is different with two friends because they are in a stage of choosing and testing each other

[@ii-wt9qp]

👏👏👏

[@abundantlifestyle1508]

I e been trying to join ur course but it won’t let me get past the link😢am I doing something wrong?

[@Lisaglamour]

I am so sorry to hear that! You can send me a message on my website or by email at [e-mail] and explain to me what is the issue exactly and my team will help you 😘

[@ShadowofLyf3]

Oh no too late for me. Its ok

[@PaigeComaduran]

Do you sleep with a man before marriage?

[@marinazhang6965]

No 🚫 Thanks God 🙏🏼 Sleeping with creates energy bond for few years. Only after marriage which best at believer community . God bless you

[@byjul5488]

Hey Lisa! 😊 I still have a few questions regarding this topic. In your opinion, how long should I wait before blocking someone if they haven’t reached out? Right now, I have adopted a 3 day rule, if they don't say anything within 3 days I leave. Also, you mentioned that if they do get in touch, I shouldn’t give it much attention or acknowledgment. My worry is that he might think I’m okay with this kind of behavior-and I’m definitely not. Should I just act like I didn’t notice, and if it happens again, leave? If I do decide to leave, would it be better to say something first before blocking him?

[@Discovering_world-jj1yj]

I guess depends on how long you’re seeing each other. Honestly having the need to block someone shows that you care way too much. Try to develop the minds where you just don’t even remember who replied or not.

[@lou15176]

Yes, I agree with the other reply. Calm down with the blocking and learn to maybe not respond. I don’t always strive for ignoring people UNLESS it’s a situation where they don’t deserve a response from me. This is not just men, this is everyone. But as the other comment said….blocking shows you care. Blocking is actually a response. And finally it doesn’t make sense to block non existent communication x

[@Jash5911]

w

[@ayyyejesterdazed]

Gosh I don’t like the cat and mouse thing but whatever. Apparently there’s no other way to find a lifelong partner so I’m forced to play these silly games

[@nikoletanomikou329]

Perfect timing ❤ please make more videos about this subject 🩷💗 you are the only true woman that I admire 👑

[@vivianna9281]

Thank you, Lisa. ❤️ I really needed this.🥲

[@hightreestess]

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