How to stay positive & take charge! You Have a LOT to Live For!

[@laniesider2586]

Prayers to everyone that is suffering from Cancer. God is good, believe in him, anything is possible. Wishing you the best to recovery.

[@BigValleyLiving]

You are so kind! I completely agree with you about our relationship with God. I hope you have a beautiful and blessed day.

[@laniesider2586]

@@BigValleyLiving you as well, thank you 😊 God is good, pray everything day, his listening to our prayers.

[@TreeOfWisdom2]

We're going home, Halleluyah.

[@janetstryczek3311]

Walk with God. My immunotherapy damaged my kidneys, so my treatments stopped. Kidneys have come back up to stage 3 & my nodules are not growing. Everyone reacts differently to treatment. Unfortunately after 4 years, my fantastic onocologist left the area... but, I have outlived the predicted life expectancy for stage 4 by 2 yrs so far. My mother had cancer 4 times. She never ever gave up. Thank you for sharing.

[@ooolala53]

Your videos are a gift. Thank you. My mother had colon cancer, but she was older, she had a resection, and beat it. Then she got Lymphoma, beat it. Then it came back. She was in her 90's. She finally passed at 95, but it wasn't the cancer. She went peacefully in her sleep, her heart just wore out. You have a lot of years to look forward too!

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thanks for the insight!

[@joanneclark8256]

Can you share the foods and things your mama did to get well I'm sorry of her passing

[@carlenevasseur]

Michelle I am sitting here bawling. This subject hits to close to home. All I can say is I love you and I am praying for you. God is in control.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Carlene, I sure didn't want to make you cry! It is an emotional journey, for sure. I hope you and yours are well, and I will keep you in my prayers. Keep that positive outlook, because that, positive thoughts, and great friends/family are key to remaining strong.

[@jaes2994]

I’m stage 3. My six month check is next week. I’m not going to lie. I’m a nervous wreck. Thank you for your videos. ❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Oh, I'm going in for my blood tests next week, CT the following week, and results the week after that. I TOTALLY get it! Prayers to you and positive thoughts to the universe for good news! Send us an email to [e-mail] to keep us posted. We really want to know that you're doing well. ~ Michelle

[@VancouverIslandHippieChick]

🙏 praying for you❤

[@IntheKitchenwithKaren]

Hi Michelle....First thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing your cancer journey with us. It really touched my heart as I was diagnosed with endometrial Cancer about a year ago. Luckily it was stage 1 and and hadnt spread to my lymph nodes. It was such a stressful time as I had to have few different surgeries. I so agree to have a postivie outlook. And I will always be keeping you in my prayers

[@BigValleyLiving]

Karen, thank YOU for sharing. I'm so happy they caught yours early on! Yes, that positive attitude really makes a world of difference. I appreciate being in your prayers, and I will also keep you in mine. Have a blessed day!

[@cindysquirrelloffgrid9514]

There are people out there that really need to hear this video thank you so much for posting. Prayers

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you, Cindy! That's what ultimately drove my (our) decision to release it. This was years in the making...I also appreciate your prayers. They are SO powerful!

[@deborahgeels5395]

I was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in 2019. Just started a treatment that the doctor has said is the "last option". I've been able to be positive until now. Your video has helped to get through today. Thanks for being raw and honest.Prayers for you and your husband.

[@BigValleyLiving]

One day at a time! Find the good in the day wherever you can find it. Thank you so much!

[@lenarddonohoe51]

Thank You so so so very much for sharing inspiring as encouraging us also my tears flowed with you ma'am you as yours r in all my prayer's.. God bless you as yours in every area of you life's 😊 much Love Hugs ❤️ I am in the hospital for stage 4 Colon Cancer

[@BigValleyLiving]

God bless you, and I really hope your surgery/treatment turn out well. Let's keep on moving forward, friend. Many prayers for you, as well.

[@TOMGARVEYtheKETOCOOK]

Michelle DON`T GIVE UP......DON`T EVER GIVE UP........

[@BigValleyLiving]

Tom, never! I'm too stubborn for that and I have a LOT more living to do. You, friend, are an inspiration. Can't wait to play you on Tony's game tomorrow afternoon. It's going to be a hoot!

[@michellepadilla2097]

I hate cancer my mom passed away 3years ago today that is why I watch all these videos she suffered so much and I wanted to learn more about this awful disease every one is different I hope you beat that crap it's awful pray for you 🙏

[@BigValleyLiving]

I’m so sorry about your mom. It is an insidious disease, but every time I go through treatment, I work towards never having to go through it again, and be one of the people who say,”I HAD cancer “x” years ago. Ya know?

[@KettleKitchen]

My sista! You had me bawling less than 2 minutes I to this! So proud of you for sharing and lending to the possibility to "Life Is Not Over" thought process. You got this and Thank You for being you and sharing! Beautiful scenery by the way. Looks like a great place to live! 😂❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you, Tony! Thank you also, for introducing me to all of the wonderful friends I have made since October 2022! Didn't mean to make you cry, but it is touching that you watched. Yes, that would be a great place to live if it wasn't as hot as Northern California, lol! Seriously, I've never kayaked before, but if I ever do, that's where I'm going!

[@VSThibodeau]

Thank you for sharing. I especially appreciated your advice to accept help when it is offered. Many years ago, I was in a situation where people were giving me money to get school clothes for my kids. It made me feel uncomfortable and I wanted to decline. A wise friend told me that by saying no, I would rob the givers of a blessing. Once I understood it was for them instead of for me, I could graciously accept their offers.

[@BigValleyLiving]

That is a great lesson, and I'm so glad you shared your story! It is very true that we deny those who wish to help when we refuse their offers. May God bless you. Your children are very lucky to have such a wise parent.

[@G.W.H.]

First, I would like to thank you for sharing your journey. You'll continually be in my prayers. You're are an inspiration to us and whoever is going through a similar situation. Blessings my friend!!! That background is priceless!!!

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you SO much. It was a long time in the making, because it is difficult to say out loud at first. Crazy, I know, but once that ice is broken, it is easier. I appreciate your prayers, and hope that this crazy disease can be conquered once and for all. The background? Goodness, I have never been in such a quiet place in my life.

[@The_Purringlady]

♥️🙏🏼 Life gives you 10%… 90% is what YOU do with it! 🙏🏼♥️ Thank You Michelle for sharing your inspirational story. I’ve had a serious chronic illness for over 10 years. And, you hit upon the same life strategies that have helped me. ~ Be your own Advocate ~ Be GRATEFUL for the little things ~ Be Kind to Yourself I’ll keep you in my prayers 🥰

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you SO much! I'm so sorry that you have a chronic illness. It's not easy, and it certainly isn't for wimps. I'm so glad you get the message and take it to heart. You are also in my prayers. We'll support each other. Deal? See you soon, and thank you for being here. All the time - it's such a neat community!

[@KrisAndLarry]

You are an AMAZING and STRONG person, Michelle. You are a inspiration to so many and I am thankful that I know you.

[@KrisAndLarry]

I am so glad that you released this to everyone!

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you SO much, Kris! I know you have been struggling with life issues, too. Side note: I scored a 124 year-old gem pan, of all places, in an antique store in Kettle Falls, WA! Gem recipe from your book coming sooner than you think. Prayers to your family, as well!

[@dorindafulton]

I have been battling breast cancer for almost a year. I'm still on chemo. I hope everything works out for you 🙏🙏🤞😊🤗

[@BigValleyLiving]

Dorinda, I found your channel (and you!) through @Tube Buddy, and instantly saw you as a peaceful warrior. I think about seeing you hooked up for infusion, remembering my own journey. Your garden perks my spirit up, and your strength and courage give my soul the same. Continued blessings. 💕🙏🏼💕

[@joannpignataro4813]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@myrnajoven9339]

Prayers are powerful and stay positive. Trust and Believe In Jesus healing hands. Praying for you too . I’m also a cancer patient like you but still I stay happy and blessed.

[@megwaller252]

I just came upon your video today. What a beautiful, uplifting woman you are! Thank you so much for sharing your story with the world. You stated "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". What a wonderful quote. That is one thing I remember my grandmother always saying, and I love by it to this day. Much love to you and your loved ones. Hugs from South Carolina. ❤❤❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for watching and offering such kind words! Yes, we should always consider treating others how we'd like to be treated. Our family was big on that! One of the things I learned as a teenager was to treat everyone as you would treat your grandmother. Great advice, I think. Also, never serve anything to someone that you would not serve to your grandmother. Thank you for the hugs and love! Same to you. Have a beautiful day!

[@kerrieleonard66]

Prayers to everyone that is suffering from Cancer. God is good, believe in him, anything is possible. Wishing you the best to recovery.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much, Kerrie, on behalf of me and all cancer patients (as well as their families and friends.) God IS good, for sure!

[@kerrieleonard66]

your welcome

[@MouseToes]

Oh I like that "embrace the Grace" I have always said it takes more grace to receive than give. Letting people help is a gift to you both. I love the team work you and JJ have and how you now have it with your medical team.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Oh, Mouse Toes...You're the bestest! When you called me "Michellinator" months ago without knowing about this, you boosted my armor of strength. I so enjoy your encouragement, friendship, mentorship...and the fact that you like JJ, lol. He's a keeper. Just like Vern.

[@locasiare]

I want to cry with you 😢❤ you are such a strong and beautiful Soul you will be ok 🥰Thank you for Sharing and letting us know the signs even while you yourself are going through this difficult time 🙏🏼❤️

[@lorraineophoff4984]

Thank you for sharing, yes your posts DO help others.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much!

[@MuddMascaraHomestead]

Michelle!!! This is an Amazing Video - your positivity is the Key that has kept you surviving - every time we talk or I see you in a collab or in a live I admire your tenacity to stay strong with everything that has come up against you! I remember when we first met you were starting treatments a year ago and I was just in shock but, I have watched you consistently keep a smile on your face! I love you girl! I think this video was made for EVERYONE - because we ALL need to hear the words BE KIND! What an amazing story!!! 💙💜💙

[@BigValleyLiving]

Tiffany, you are so sweet! I know when I first met you that we would be lifelong friends, like so many others. I think we all need to go on that Alaskan cruise in 2025! Hugs, and love to you and James.

[@megsmysteries8968]

Support from family and friends does so much for you.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Absolutely. And family is sometimes the friends we meet in other communities. I so enjoy your stories and Tom's lives and meals. You are both bright spots in my day.

[@robertlindahill]

So sorry to hear. I just finished resection colon cancer surgery. Sending prayers for you Michelle.

[@BigValleyLiving]

I hope you have a successful healing phase. Please keep us updated as to how you're doing. Recovery is difficult at first, but it truly gets easier. Keep moving!!! Please feel free to email updates to your condition, if you're up to it. Best wishes and prayers to you and your family. ~ Michelle

[@robertlindahill]

@BigValleyLiving thank you for your prayers Michelle. I have decided no Chemo. I have healed quickly. I will keep you updated. Continued prayers for you Michelle.

[@KarenShady-l4b]

Wow…. You are so incredibly strong for sharing youre story. Thank you.. being positive is so powerful. I wish you health, and happiness.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you SO much! May God bless you!!

[@barbarameehan113]

Oh my...what a journey...thank you for sharing. Our daughter was 39 when she was dx with st. 3 colon cancer. It was a rough journey but she is doing very well. It was so scary for me as a mom. Again thank you for sharing and reminding us to stay positive.💟

[@BigValleyLiving]

Oh, my! I'm so glad she's doing well now! Yes, every parent's nightmare, for sure. It was very difficult to tell my mom. I hope to be having a lot of fun 10 years from now!

[@megsmysteries8968]

Yes you have to do what is right for you, stay strong, and question it all if you are not sure. You know your own body and know how you feel.

[@BigValleyLiving]

YES! I know you and Tom get it...

[@AnneMarieBibby1966]

Michelle, I'm a few yrs older then you. You tube suggested your channel because i follow Jenny Apple. Ive listen to a few of your videos and you are very inspiring girl! I don't have cancer but ive lost my father his mother, and sister. In 18months time to all different cancers. I am a smoker since 1985. Since watching Jenny and your videos I'm seriously thinking about quitting now. I have watched others who never smoked dealing with cancer. Im also going to check out your other videos i love cooking and i also garen, pressure can, and just started raising chicken's May you continue to be blessed and experience beautiful memories forever imprinted on your heart.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Anne, thank you SO much for your kind comments! It is never, EVER too late to quit smoking. I smoked for so long, had quit a few times for over a year at a shot, slowed down a lot, but couldn't kick the habit until I made that promise to my doctor. Everything in our home smells better, and I think the dogs like it, too. Glad you like the same types of things as we do. Come along and enjoy the journey. Welcome! Prayers and blessings to you. It is so hard to lose our family members. We have also lost our parents, and it's so very hard. 💕🙏🏼🌷

[@myrnajoven9339]

Thank you for sharing your journey to colon cancer stage 4. I do agree with you just stay positive for I’m one of you suffering from this cancer.God is Good all the time and just Trust and Believe In His healing and prayers help a lot.

[@lj9524]

Michelle, I am so sorry you have cancer. Thank you for making this video. I am a cancer survivor too. I can only imagine all you are going through. I get colonoscopies every 3 years for screening as I am high risk. My Dad died of colon cancer and my Mom of uterine cancer. I pray for your healing…there is always hope ((HUG))❤️🙏🌷

[@BigValleyLiving]

LJ, thank you for your kind words. I'm so sorry you lost both of your parents to cancer. Good for you to get those regular colonoscopies! Treatment improves greatly every year, which is encouraging. Thank you for your prayers - there IS always hope!

[@G.W.H.]

Sending hugs!! Still watching but wanted to send a squeeze 🥰🥰🥰

[@BigValleyLiving]

Awww, thank you! I have been canning with the hubby all afternoon, and spending a little time with family. I popped in to see comments from time to time, and have been overwhelmed with the kindness. Have a super day!

[@Kat.Williams]

Hello Michelle. I live in Sacramento, use to have a cabin in Pinecrest and had to drive through Jackson & Sonora all the time. I was diagnosed with breast cancer 9 years ago, had a single mastectomy (stage 2) and lymph nodes that were cancerous (stage 3) and then after having a PET scan it showed many, many spots in my lungs that, after a biopsy, were cancerous (stage 4). I had been prepped for chemo and radiation but after the lung biopsy, those were taken off the table....no cure for me......AND I THANK GOD EVERY DAY THAT THEY WERE. My oncologist said in her experience 10 years...again, I am in year nine, it will be 10 in November. I have CT Scans twice a year and God's grace is keeping the biggest nodes to 8mm and 9mm. He has a plan for me and that diagnosis was a wake up call to Jesus for me. I am blessed that I did not have to go through those treatments (I am on a small dose hormone blocker only) and I believe positive living and not doom and gloom are definitely the answer. Hang in there, keep the faith and I hope to meet you in person some day.

[@BigValleyLiving]

WOW! What a story, Kat! Well, here we are in the same area, too! I am so inspired by your story - nine years!!! YEA!!!

[@TheInquisitiveFarmwife]

Oh Michelle…. I love you… I am so proud of you for sharing your story! You are SUCH an inspiration for others! You have been such a true an genuine friend to me, and so many others. You are so brave! ❤ God sent me a gift when he blessed me with our friendship. Your positivity is nothing less than contagious 🥰

[@BigValleyLiving]

OK, I had to wait until this morning to respond to this extremely kind comment. I have really enjoyed collaborating with you, but more than that, the friendship that has developed. It means the world to me, and keeps my spirits high!

[@darlenepietzak9847]

Thank you Michelle for telling us your story. People today are living much longer with terminal cancer. My father was diagnosed with colon cancer in January of 1994 which had already metastasized to his liver. He went through chemo after chemo and radiation, but died 8 months later. My grandfather also had colon cancer. Please, please please...GET A REGULAR COLONOSCOPY! It can save your life, especially with the newer treatments. I am adding you to my prayers, you are a remarkable and courageous woman. Sending hugs. ❤🙏❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Darlene, thank you for your kind words. I’m very sorry for your loss. Treatment and earlier diagnoses seem to be key. Every time I go through a round, I hope that within the next couple of years, a better method will come around. God bless.

[@darlenepietzak9847]

@@BigValleyLiving I pray for the same for you. You've been through so much. I went through breast cancer treatments, but am stage 2B and NED at this time. 🙏❤️🌷

[@megsmysteries8968]

So sorry to hear this, we will be praying for you.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you, Marie! It's a way of life now, and I don't intend to give in to this silly "disease..." Your support means the world to me.

[@graceandfire]

What a beautiful and strong story. A great reminder for all. I had to switch orthopedic oncologists myself. So important to have the right team. I’m glad you switched oncologists too!!!

[@BigValleyLiving]

Glenda, thank you. I wasn't aware of you needing an orthopedic oncologist. That sounds painful in itself. We must advocate for ourselves. You are a true inspiration with all you and your husband have been through. I'm so happy we have been able to connect through the KZbin community. Prayers for you, and continued blessings.

[@pikecreekfarm]

My dear friend. I love you and am so proud of you. You are amazing and I so treasure our friendship. You and Natasha are two peas in a pod! You both have an amazing attitude and fully live life!!!❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Oh, Renee...you are so sweet! We have been able to have so many meaningful conversations, and hearing about Natasha's story is inspirational for me. To think she got an aggressive cancer at such a young age, but went through college and living a truly fulfilling life. THAT is amazing!

[@notfornothinghomestead]

Michelle I am so grateful 🙏 to know you! You are an example of living for the day!! And so many positive messages we love you so much! Always here for you my friend!!❤❤😊😊😊

[@BigValleyLiving]

I'm crying...so many kind comments. I am so honored to be considered your friend. Hugs, my friend! I love you!

[@donnadoble-brown338]

Hey Michelle - Donna from RI. THANKS so much for sharing your story. I think it’s so important for us to hear and you to tell - right? Cancer no longer has to be a death sentence. Wonderful strides are being made and I hope they continue so lovely people like you can benefit! I had thyroid cancer (misdiagnosed) over 20 years ago. I did EXACTLY what you said. I advocated for my self and went to Brigham and Women’s Hospital for a 2nd opinion and a 2nd surgery. I truly believe if I had done what the original doc had said (which was nothing) I wouldn’t be here. I continue to see my Endocrinologist at Brigham yearly. The Universe provides what you need when you need it. I have a great story about how I got my Endo’s name . . . Synchronicities. Stay well. And keep spreading your wonderful message. Much Love.💚

[@BigValleyLiving]

What a story! YES!!! If you ever would be interested in sharing your story in a live chat, I would be honored. We must spread this message of strength, courage, and hope…Many many blessings to you!

[@cynthiapierce4184]

God Bless you and your family on your life journey.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you, Cynthia. We are blessed with a great support system. I'm blessed with love, kindness, and positive prayers/thoughts!

[@hardnackfarms1736]

I was crying with you and I know you have shared with me about your journey. I love your positivity and amazing personality you are so much fun. I am so honored to be your friend and compete with you on Tony’s channel it was fun. I remember something I said I will visit with you some time about that. I love the place you chose to share it’s absolutely gorgeous and peaceful. I think you will be an advocate for others in such a positive way! I love you friend. And I will see you online soon. Wendy❤🐞

[@kathygillman5450]

Hi Michele oh my dear, how I needed to hear this today. I have state 4 liver cancer which metastasis from Colin. 3 surgeries later and some ridiculous txment I don't trust. Anyway I ended up w an Illeostomy bag which has been my biggest problem. It is almost a year since diagnosis and I have gone to MAYO in Rochester as thry couldn't help me here. So am praying for a reversal surgery September 19th. Then on to different protocol. I am not comfortable w my team here at home so will have to travel 600 miles each way but it's worth it I too have the most amazing friends and my son and family in Alaska which is tough but he comes home and granddaughter and her husband 4 beautiful great grandchildren . I needed to hear everything you said from advocating,to allow friends to help to showing myself grace. I Tha k you from the bottom of my heart as I cry and smile thru listening to you and writing to you. We are Warriors that need aliitke help from our friends,now and again. That lake is stunning. Enjoy!!¡ Kathy

[@BigValleyLiving]

Kathy - I have no words to express how your message and story touched my heart. I am so sorry that you didn't have the "dream team" from the start, but it is NEVER too late. Let your family and friends be your rock, and thank goodness you looked outside of your immediate area to find a medical team that you trust. My husband and I were moved to tears reading your message. We will be praying that your new team will be able to bring you the stabilization you need to live a much more fulfilled life. I was very lucky not to have had an ileostomy, and thank my lucky stars every day. However, if it would have been the only option, it would have been a part of my story, as it has for you. We will be praying every day that you will have the procedure to restore you to a more comfortable place on September 19. PLEASE send us an email to: [e-mail] to keep us posted. Please share this with your son and family, so they can also keep us posted when you recuperate. I am so moved and pleased that my story has provided you with hope and courage. That's all I wanted when I recorded this video. To help ONE person. God bless you. PLEASE stay in touch. You will forever be in my thoughts. ~ Michelle

[@Mr.SLovesTheSacredHeartofJesus]

Your post came in my feed. I have never watched your channel. But wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to you. You know, when we suffer any pain or misfortune. It automatically unites us closer to Jesus. Apply your suffering, to his on the cross. Don't waste this opportunity, or your pain. God bless you, my friend.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you! I agree 100%. Thank you for your well-wishes and sage advice. I hope you have a blessed day.

[@suburbanhillbilly2999]

You are a strong woman. You’ve been through a lot and I think you have an amazing outlook. I’m so glad you have such a wonderful support network. You are loved. ❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you SO much! It means a lot coming from such a kind, caring, and generous soul such as you. Keep on being the great woman that you are, as well!

[@DinkTank369]

Hello Michelle, prayers up 🙏 for you dear.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you! Always appreciated.

[@kimberleybarrett6485]

Blimey Michelle…you are an absolute inspiration….I’m sat here at 50 listening to you and I’m in awe of your positivity….i recently lost my mum,dad,and stepdad…….i also lost my best friend from school to suicide…..my life feels like doom the majority of the time but blimey you really made me sit up and take a look at how i start each day….i love your attitude i love the way you speak…and i love you as such a positive person ❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Kimberley, I saw this message yesterday, and had to reflect before responding. How much you have lost in the recent past! Your words are so kind, and I'm really glad that this video touched your heart at the right time. There are going to be down days, but just finding that special something that sparks joy can turn the whole thing around! Hugs to you.

[@kimberleybarrett6485]

@@BigValleyLiving oh my goodness i cant even believe you replied….you really are a ⭐️….I’m sending all my healing prayers to you……all those amazing people i mentioned all passed in the last 2 years….its a daily struggle…..along with the passing of my first son Jed 24yrs ago…….i still have my moments……my mum though, really was my bestest friend in the whole wide world……(in tears here) on top of all that my mother in law was diagnosed with bowel cancer a few years ago now……but thank the lord she’s still here….she’s my mum no.2……i say she’s still here but she’s constantly in pain….can’t be anywhere but home from mid afternoon on as she goes super downhill towards the end of the day…..it absolutely breaks my heart…..i don’t know if this is a sign but my best friend from school was called Michelle……..we should become penpals…..I’m from the UK xx

[@susanlizottealbert3825]

Sorry to hear your cancer. Will keep you in my prayers for your health recovery. My father in law never survived this. Good choice of doctor. Glad you are still her with us. Keep taking good care of yourself. Thanks for your story and advice.❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much. I am sorry for the loss of your father-in-law. Prayers.

[@pamelapfitzer595]

Great job Michelle! Thanks for being vulnerable! I’m so proud of how well you’ve managed your life during this very difficult journey (with JJs help)

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you, Pamela! We couldn’t have done it without your continued support.

[@lj9524]

Michelle, Your thoughts about fighting cancer are spot on with my fight for survival against cancer back in 2009. I hope you had genetic testing for Lynch Syndrome. Having cancer during Covid pandemic must have been the absolute worst! Please keep posting. I agree 100% that nature around us is amazing! Living with cancer doesn’t look tge same way for all of us, that’s for sure❤️

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for this message, LJ. I hope that in 14 years, I'm saying the same thing to someone about "having cancer in 2023..." Your words encourage me! Actually, I loved COVID. Sounds strange...but where we live, everyone had to mask up, people were hired to keep surfaces clean, and I was able to go to the grocery store and other places knowing that I was safer than non-pandemic times. Also, I got to work from home. Less germs, more normal life!

[@DiggingForHealth]

Thank you for sharing with us, I know how hard it was to share your story, you are so strong! It can really help others going through the same experience to know that they're not alone and that there's hope. I know it must not feel like it, but you seem absolutely vibrant for someone going through all of this and I think it's absolutely because of your positive outlook. Positivity and gratefulness has gotten us through so much too! 🥰 The location you picked is so beautiful and healing! 🙏 Today I'm grateful that you found my channel so that I can now follow you on your journey as well! 💕

[@BigValleyLiving]

Oh, you are a joy. Thank you. I took the first dose for this round (hopefully my last one EVER). 27 doses to go (2 per day.) The main thing is being tired and super forgetful. But my hubby helps me with memory issues until I get through it. That’s what our life partners do, right?

[@DiggingForHealth]

@@BigValleyLiving Absolutely! We're so blessed to have loving partners and family to help us through these times. 🥰🙏💕

[@DawnRaeB]

Thank you for sharing your story. It is so very hard to find specialists like your 2nd oncologists. I don't have cancer but I have a health issue and finding good treatment teams is so difficult and defeating when you spend time with the not-so-good treatment teams. Thank you for helping give people permission to find a good doc. I agree... every day you wake up, find something to be happy about or something to enjoy. It's a lesson I've just recently noticed as important and am still trying to learn.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Oh, Dawn. I just appreciate everything you've shared with us, and I adore your calming videos. Every time I am hot, uncomfortable or irritable, I put on your thunderstorm video and center my being...

[@kittykins4070]

My husband was diagnosed with colon cancer , he’s had 6 scans including a pet scan, today we find out the staging and treatment plan

[@BigValleyLiving]

I’m praying for you and your husband right now…please let us know how things turn out. I sincerely hope it isn’t too bad - but no matter what, with the right mindset, medical team, and a loving group of family and friends, he can do this!

[@derekherbert5701]

Prayers for your husband 🙏

[@jamiescountryliving]

Prayers 🙏 Michelle. Crying with you.😢 Thank you very much for sharing your journey with us. You truly are an inspiration to so many, myself included! Thoughts and prayers always, I have big shoulders and ears for you. This hits hard. Agreed, if I was closer, I'd be there and give you a big ole Bear 🐻 hug and a kiss on your cheek. I'm glad you have found a great medical staff, those are few. Will be praying for you and JJ!! You are a strong woman, that Truly is a beautiful place, for a beautiful woman ❤🙏🤗

[@BigValleyLiving]

Jamie, thank you SO much! I had to take a few hours to do some canning, and came back to amazing messages of love, friendship, and kindness. I probably cried a gallon of happy tears. I promised myself that I would respond to 10 comments tonight. My heart is happy AND full. Wasn't sure how this would go.

[@robby9710]

May God wrap you with a complete healing, amen. 🙏

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you SO much! Prayers work miracles! May God bless you and yours.

[@angelavaughan9477]

Thank you for sharing this journey. Our son found out a year ago that he has stage 4 cancer. It is not curable. The oncologists have been honest with him and are "trying to buy him time". He is not positive. He has never married nor has children so he feels alone. He is 43. I cannot get him out of his negative head space. I don't know what to do. Hugs to you as you put out positive vibes. Thank you.

[@DawnMCdn]

Praying for you and your son. My son is 40 and your story touched my heart. I wish you all the best.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Angela, I'm so sorry that, as a mother, you have to see this. It's a helpless feeling to simply have your child go through something like this, but for them have a negative headspace, it must be *that* much harder to see. I truly hope he finds some joy...it really is all around us! Praying your situation turns around and your son is able to feel better.

[@BigValleyLiving]

I love your support! I can't imagine having to see my child go through this. I just can't. Telling my mom was the hardest thing I ever had to do.

[@NannyTam]

Thank you, Michelle for sharing your story. I am praying for you from the bottom of my heart. You are so strong. I’m so glad you have such a supportive team of doctors. Your attitude is so positive. I’m happy you have such a wonderful family. Stay strong! Sending healing prayers for you. 💞🙏🏻💞

[@BigValleyLiving]

Aww, Nanny Tam, thank you so much! I have struggled with whether to share or not, but it is going to be so nice to talk about a lot of "why" we do what we do here at our home. My doctors are nothing short of amazing, and our huge extended family is so loving and supportive. I honestly pray for those who are not as truly blessed.

[@NannyTam]

@@BigValleyLiving Your story touched me deep in my heart. Wish I could give you a big hugs…praying without ceasing 💞🙏🏻💞

[@holliethomson6147]

Hi Michelle ❤ this is such a beautiful place, absolutely stunning, calm and peaceful. Im sending you so much love and healing prayers 🙏 ❤️ xxx

[@BigValleyLiving]

Hollie, thank you so much! We all need that peaceful place and the positivity from one another. Thank you for your kind words and prayers! 💕🙏🏼💕

[@leilani8262]

God Bless you from your head to your toe...Love 30:40 Be nice - No backbiting, nastiness, don't bring anybody down with you

[@inalikika2007]

Oh no! Im bawling !! I love you so much my dear cousin! My prayers are with you!

[@BigValleyLiving]

I love you, too! We did that the Sunday that everyone was leaving the reunion. It was a good reflective time. Glad you made it home safely. Hugs!

[@gregmiller3134]

One of the bravest people I have the pleasure to know! Held the tears all the way to the end. Life's to short, you've got to enjoy it! Celebrate all parts. Fridays are just another day of the week....until you compare it to Mondays..lol.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Well, thank you, Mr. Miller! You know what life can deal to you, and you and Mrs. Miller handle it with grace. Wait until JJ makes his video about being the partner of someone with something that's life altering. You'll likely identify with that position. Thanks for watching, friend.

[@Sepidaryf]

I absolutely loved your outlook, “living with cancer” and the fact that you kept up with so many activities! My mom was currently diagnosed and we are all terrified but both my parents have been so positive and peaceful about it, and I’m hoping that she’ll be able to continue with her daily activities to some extent as well. It was lovely watching your video, thank you

[@elkewarner4206]

Such beautiful area, thank you for sharing your story, i wish you quick recovery. Prayers sent.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much! I really do appreciate it. If I get more good news, there may be another trip up there for an update!

[@katieliaciddo5656]

I just came across this video and I absolutely love that you advocated for yourself and immediately knew you needed a different doctor that would work with you. It is so important to have confidence in your care team and know that you are heard and seen! I appreciate how educated you are on your diagnosis and you are your best advocate. Thank you for this. I am going through health concerns myself and I canceled a follow-up with the gastroenterologist knowing my next step is a colonoscopy but I know I need to reschedule now. Thank you so much for this video, I wish you all the best.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for your kind thoughts. I'm SO glad you were moved to make another appointment. This is exactly why I started sharing such a personal and somewhat embarrassing story. Now that I know how prevalent it is, I just want one person at a time to get the courage to make an appointment, speak up, or whatever it takes. Please let me know how your visit turns out, and know that I'll pray for a good outcome for you every single day.

[@terrycote8879]

Thank you for sharing your deeply personal story. You make many important points, especially about finding a doctor or team that is a partnership in your care. Wishing you many more years of life. Thank you also for all the resources you listed.

[@janetlee9915]

Thank you for sharing your powerful story ❤ I continue to keep you in my prayers 🙏🏻

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for the prayers, and thank you for listening. It means more than you'll know.

[@KoniB.]

Identical journey and the KEY to all of this is the statement you made, "he's KIND", and "understand that this is not for a few months". Blessings, prayers, and strength. God and You, Girl. God and You.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Koni, thank you for your message! You obviously get the challenges faced, and I'm happy to "meet" someone who understands the power of being positive. Blessings, prayersm and strength to you, as well!

[@adammick3306]

Michelle!!! This is Danielle, your old oncology nurse in Rocklin. Love your video, so well done, I wish you all the best in the future, tell everyone at Rocklin hi for me!💕💕💕

[@BigValleyLiving]

Danielle!!! We talked about you and the other infusion nurses on our livestream last Wednesday. Without all of you, none of this would have been as easy. You all have provided information, handouts when necessary, and always have compassion in your hearts. I sure miss you! I'll tell the Rocklin team hello for you. Let me know the next time you come down the hill. Or maybe I need to drive UP the hill! 💕🐝🌷💕🌻

[@Howdidy]

Hey! Your video somehow appeared in my video feed.I tend to ignore much of what I see that isn't relevant to what I normally view.I decided to click on it and once I did I couldn't look away.I don't know if it's correct in telling you how sorry I am for what you're going through,but I am.You seem like one of the kindest people ever.I think you're incredibly brave and undoubtedly a Godsend,blessing and inspiration to anyone and everyone who views your message regardless of their situation.I hope you'll be alright and I'm going to pray to our father that he shields you from this cancer.Get and stay well kind lady.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Hi. Thank you so very much for such kind words. I have always tried to treat others as I would like to be treated. Your comment really humbles me, and I appreciate YOUR kindness. May God bless you. Thanks again. Your comment absolutely touched my heart and soul.

[@carolinefrechette9526]

Dont give Up, keep on smiling, you inspire me, you are an exemple of courage!!!! Thank you to Share! Slowly but surely!! ❤ Caroline from CANADA

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you SO much, Caroline! You are very kind. We have to have hope and we need to support each other in the thing called "Life." Yes - slowly but surely, we keep on keepin' on!

[@michaelsadventures4261]

I lost both my parents to cancer. My prayers are with you.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Sorry for your loss. Getting a screening is super important and letting our medical folks know when something is not right is important. Thanks so much.

[@dsgardenadventures]

Hey. New friend here. I just saw you on Kettle Kitchen. Prayers for you.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for joining! I love the fact that you come to us with a professional caregiver’s perspective. Welcome!

[@janicehedley1006]

thank you for sharing. Please keep us updated. Hugs.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for watching! Working on an update this weekend!

[@debbiiesiken2686]

Just came across this...thanks for posting this as I am going through a bit of a rough patch with insomnia, part-time job and helping with my Mom who has dementia. Love your positive attitude. I'm a colon cancer survivor...11 years out now, got breast cancer 1 1/2 years ago. I have been very, very luck that both times I have been able to do other treatments besides chemo. Just surgery and radiation. But now trying to figure out if my insomnia is because of the estrogen blocker I'm on for the breast cancer...or is it stress from dealing with my Mom's dementia as she has been very difficult to deal with and it's only going to get worse. Positive always helps as there is always someone worse off than we are. I will also encourage everyone to get their colonoscopy...I was late getting mine because I never had any problems and I was always more worried about getting breast cancer since my Mom had had it. Only symptom I had was I had gotten very tired and was diagnosed with anemia, even though I never saw any signs of blood. My GP finally convinced me to get my colonoscopy to rule it out...sure enough. It was a total shock. I was lucky that my tumor had gone through the colon wall, but it was encased in fat so that saved me from being a stage 3. Every day is a gift...Thank-you for sharing your journey...and praying that you keep on kicking cancer to the curb!

[@BigValleyLiving]

Debbie, thank you so much for sharing your story. Isn't it amazing how the body can react and protect you? I'm glad your doctor convinced you to get that colonoscopy! I have a few friends who have undergone treatment for breast cancer, and they are doing well. I will pray that your cancer heals and you continue to live a happy, fulfilled life. I'm terribly sorry about your mom. Unfortunately, it is the person who has to make their own life choices, whether it is good for them or not. It's a good thing that you're there to help her. That is a true blessing for her.

[@ML..]

Thank you for telling us your story. May the good Lord keep & bless you.❤️🙏❤️

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for listening/watching. I sure appreciate the prayers.

[@mnkochoa]

Love you Michelle. Our prayers are with you.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you M & K. We miss you, and love you both. Prayers always appreciated. I think that is also a part of being strong.

[@loiscampbell3510]

Your video popped up in my "suggestions" that appear on the right side of the screen while watching one of my favorite channels. I don't know you and had never seen any of your videos before but after watching this one I can truly say, I love you from the bottom of my heart. I love the way you shared your journey (thus far); tears and all. You are doing a wonderful service. I'm one of the people you're speaking directly to. Your message got through to me, Michelle. I already have an appointment scheduled with my primary physician for September 7th. I have celiac and have been blaming everything on THAT but things have gone too far. I'm afraid to eat (or drink) for fear of the ramifications. I can't make plans or appointments for the am for the same reason. This might be TMI for a lot of people but I've had hemorrhoids since having my first child at the age of 20. I brought the topic up to the gastroenterologist but he didn't think they needed to be removed. Easy for HIM to say; he doesn't have to live with them. There are times I can't make it to the bathroom...little to no warning. Having a BM now means about 20-30 minutes of "clean up" and I never feel clean afterwards. I have subscribed to your channel and will watch your older videos as well as stay current with your updates. Thank you for the kick in the pants.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Lois, thank YOU for such kind, heartfelt words. I'm so sorry about your health. I also tried to blame my symptoms on other things, so I understand. I am so thankful that this video gave you the push you needed to look further into your symptoms! I feel you on the trips to the loo. I'm always tempted to jump into the shower and start all over...but that's not always an option. Thank you for subscribing, and I would be most interested to hear from you when you get good news from your doctor. Prayers and blessings.

[@preppedforeternityhomestea2848]

Great message!! Thanks for sharing it!

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thanks for watching!

[@margarethassler5559]

Thank you for your message. It was very uplifting🙏🙏🙏❤️💖

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for watching and for such a warm and thoughtful comment!

[@debranestlen567]

Bless your beautiful heart!🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼 Your words are an inspiration to many, and your gratefulness is overflowing.♥️ My hats off to you, you're walking a humble and gracious path.🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼💫

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much. It was a struggle to decide whether to share or not, but so many people need to know that there is hope and happiness...I appreciate your kind words. Have a blessed day.

[@ADRCATS]

I just came across your channel Michelle and I am so grateful that I did….I love your message of love, kindness and hope!….Thank you🙏🏻❤️🦋🌸

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank YOU, Kathy! We are finding that a lot of people needed to hear a message of love, kindness and (most of all!) hope. Hugs to you! 🌻🐝💕🌻

[@ADRCATS]

@@BigValleyLiving ❤️🙏🏻

[@marcellejacob5516]

Thank you❤❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

You’re welcome.☺️

[@mehdikhider1891]

You are such a nice person.... You always make me feel better when I watch your videos ..thanks a lot.A

[@BigValleyLiving]

So nice of you to say. I hope I provide insight and inspiration. Your comments are humbling.

[@billiejones-iw1ov]

Everyone around you are is so awesome is because you are so awesome. Wishing you great success in your recovery journey. I’m going through mine as well and I will not give up. I’m happy to wake-up each day. Thank you for sharing. Sending love and light. 💞

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much!

[@kathymurach5125]

my mom went through alot with her colon cancer... Prayers for you and your family

[@BigValleyLiving]

Kathy, thank you. It's not easy, but I'm happy to wake up every day! Prayers to you, as well. I hope you have a blessed day.

[@RenayFortenberry]

You are such a strong person Michelle. The video was great. Thanks for sharing your journey. I look forward to seeing you soon.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much. I hope it helps those who are struggling...

[@anikam.b.3957]

You look like such a real and wonderful person. I haven’t even started watching and fell in love with your personality for some reason. Some beautiful aura about you sweetheart. I will for sure watch this as I feel it’s very important.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much!!

[@jonriechman9903]

U r the most alive, courageous, loving, thoughtful, KIND person!!!! It has been a joy walking with u on this journey. Every Ethel needs a Michelle!!!!❤❤❤❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Aww, Ethel, I just adore you! Thank you for being there in my happy days, my dark days, and for teaching me how to bake amazing cookies! YOU are an inspiration to me.

[@sarradjedidi416]

Your words are precious ❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you. I hope it helps a lot of people to know they're not alone in their fight...whatever the fight might be.

[@SunshineGarden-9B]

Just came across your channel, I'm sorry to hear about what you are going through. Please stay strong, God bless you!

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for your kind words! I wholly intend to continue my journey with the most positive attitude ever!

[@barbaradw9969]

Your lucky to have such kind people in your life, I took care of my husband for 3 years, by myself. Not one visitor came to see him. Not one person volunteered to help me or him. He passed away June of 2022 from Multiple Myeloma Cancer. It is now just over a year that he is gone. Not one person has been here since he is gone, nor have they said anything about him. Now I am waiting to get a bi lateral biopsy for possible breast cancer, I guess I will be alone again.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Oh, Barbara, I am SO sorry! I think it is such a scary thing for those not going through it, that they might not know how to act, what to say, and how much you need them and their help. I can't imagine caring for my husband and watching him decline. Of course, in a marriage, that's what we do, right? And we never know who is going to be the caregiver and who needs care. I will pray for you to have peace in your heart. What you did for your husband was the ultimate gift of love, and you will always have that knowledge of being his best friend and helper. Praying that you have an excellent outcome with your biospy, and nothing progresses. People will come around. Maybe call someone to re-connect. I hope things turn around for you. Hugs. 🌷🌻🌷

[@lynndinovo3500]

You are blessed to be living and loving life with stage IV for this length of time. You are a blessing to share your experiences . Please everyone get tested when age appropriate or with symptoms. It will save your life. The early testing saved mine.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Lynn, thank YOU for your kind words. I'm so happy to hear that you chose to be tested and that the early test saved your life. That's the whole point of my messages! Blessings to you and yours. 🙏🏼🌻🌷🙏🏼🐝

[@lynndinovo3500]

@@BigValleyLiving And to you as well. 💞

[@sheilacarter7875]

Hi Michelle l just subscribed ,what a beautiful place so peaceful.l came across your channel by accident here in Wales UK. I followed a U Tuber who had cancer she was called Sarah she passed away on Aug lst. She was a beautiful soul only 36 she ended her videos with the words Be kind, and make good choices.She had a beautiful voice and left a video called On the Loose where she sings.Her channel was the POG family.Listening to you reminded me of her how she used to speak.I hope all goes well for you Michelle glad l found your channel you seem like a lovely person.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Sheila, thank you for watching and subscribing. I'm sorry to hear about Sarah. Only 36...that is SO sad. Is this her? kzbin.info/www/bejne/jZWwdKCXnL1_oqc&start_radio=1 If it is, you are correct...what a voice! Thank you for telling me about her, and I hope to bring content to you that you'll enjoy. I'm listening to her singing now, and it is absolutely beautiful. 💕🙏🏼💕

[@sheilacarter7875]

@@BigValleyLiving Yes that's beautiful Sarah l never met her but felt such affection for her. Her husband Josh gave us all the privilege of letting us see her at the funeral home she looked so peaceful,free of fear and pain.She left behind a 3 year old Rayla qnd an 11 year old Braedon and a foster daughter 20.l tell everyone about her she was such a beautiful soul and her words right up to the end were Be kind and make good choices.If you want to see her videos they are called the POG family.I look forward to seeing your video's Michelle.l found Sarah by accident and found you the same way. Love from Wales.

[@Garden_sunshine]

Michelle, thank you. Thank you for sharing this incredible perspective. It has touched my soul. I'm praying that The Lord of all Creation, The Alpha & Omega would give you strength, continuous joy & healing. May His Name be glorified in your story & during your fight. Such wisdom you've blessed all of us with.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Garden_sunshine, your message has brightened my morning! Thank you so very much for the positive message and vibes. It means the world to me!

[@sallythibodeaux7992]

Thank you for sharing! It’s so important to be or have an advocate for your health care.😊

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank YOU, Sally. I hope it helps people!

[@gainestruk1]

Keep the port, my wife has had her's since 2009 and it still works fine, she uses it monthly for infusion for lupus She had breast cancer in 2009, it came back in 2018, then double mastectomy, luckey it was stage 2, no lymph nodes involved. I have to say you have a wonderful attitude, keep your head up keep fighting, my wife is now 14 years since the first cancer round !

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for the information. I will keep my port, for sure. It makes tests easier, as well as blood draws. Even when I beat this thing, it will make life easier, because we always have blood tests. I will keep you and your wife in my prayers. May God bless you both. Being a supportive partner is not easy.

[@evadanielsson3894]

Thank you Michelle for sharing your journey! You are so positive and strong and i need that .Like Sarah say! Be kind make good choice! Love and Hugs from Eva in Sweden

[@BigValleyLiving]

Eva, thank you for your kind words! We all need to know we're not alone in this fight. And it doesn't matter what the fight is. Hugs and love right on back to you in Sweden!

[@psrwhite]

I love your message. Thank you so much!! I am a breast cancer survivor and you have reassured me so so much!❤❤❤

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you for your kind comment!

[@JoanTrukafka-Kenehan]

I found your video to be very ulifting, thank you. You are an inspiration to me and I'm sure to so many others. May God bless you and keep you strong in this journey. St. Jude has always helped me through my tribulations.

[@BigValleyLiving]

Thank you so much. I want to bring hope and awareness to everyone I possibly can. I appreciate you watching. I want to BEAT this disease this time...

[@jellybean8261]

Thank You for sharing. You have great courage!!! Feel your best!!

[@BigValleyLiving]

Well, thank YOU for your kind words.