How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people

[@KR-ou2qo]

Let's not forget that with age the pool of avoidant people available for dating increases, and also their ability to show as secure. So, it's not always our trauma that attracts them but it's also our conscious willingness to make it work when we know that is hard to find someone without baggage

[@ElPlan1414]

Valuable video, it has to be said. I've been attracting emotionally unavailable people since I remember and I want to change it. Thank you for your work.

[@louisefitzgeraldmindfulness]

@@ElPlan1414 thanks so much for sharing. You’re certainly not alone in that, and the good news is you can shift it. Hopefully this video is a great start, and I’ve got others you might like to explore too. If you have other topics you’d like me to cover, just let me know :)

[@merteazy]

oh some people are very emotionally available. available to* shove their own emotions down your throat lmao

[@KR-ou2qo]

2:30 If we unconsciously attract the avoidant people in order to heal a pattern, what is that attracts them to us? If they also want to heal a pattern, how are they going to do it by pulling away?

[@neroow2258]

The cat ❤

[@louisefitzgeraldmindfulness]

@@neroow2258 you’re the first to notice ! I can’t keep him away 😊😻

[@erichminkle1167]

Stop dating… problem solved