How To Stop Being A People-pleaser (Do Whats Right For You)

[@VeronicaDiPolo]

And the tough part is that some people think that we are selfish for thinking about ourselves first, but is not like that, we have to take care of ourselves more

[@KristenChittock]

love the idea of working on the relationship with yourself first and foremost!

[@ScottSwalwell]

Oh yeah totally. It starts there right?

[@SocialConfidenceMastery]

This is such an important topic!

[@ScottSwalwell]

Absolutely brother

[@ElizabethSampson]

I can so relate to this story! Finally I’m doing what I love!

[@ScottSwalwell]

I happy to hear that. How do you feel now?

[@ElizabethSampson]

Scott Swalwell 😃 happy

[@keepupwithliv]

This use to be me but thankfully I am getting better

[@ScottSwalwell]

Have you been doing anything in particular to get better?

[@AboodCohen]

can relate indeed, thanks bro

[@ScottSwalwell]

No problem brother. Are you doing okay in this area now?

[@AboodCohen]

@@ScottSwalwell yep, I've been more aware lately of those tendencies.

[@SelfMadeMillennial]

I love this video. Such a great reminder to think about yourself and your passion before pleasing other people.

[@ScottSwalwell]

Yes! Alignment first

[@NenaLavonne]

Great job addressing this important topic! People pleasing is a very toxic behavior.. Great tips!!! 😊✨

[@ScottSwalwell]

Glad you got some value

[@VictoriaVivesKhuong]

Love it! Beautiful storytelling and tips. Thank you for sharing this :)

[@ScottSwalwell]

Thank you and no problem at all.

[@ScottSwalwell]

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[@MOVEfitnesswellnesslifestyle]

So relatable! Thank you for sharing

[@ScottSwalwell]

Anytime. Thanks for taking the time to share your comment

[@DalDhaliwalOfficial]

Great video Scott. Really interesting topic. I use to be a people pleaser...so this really resonated with me. Thanks for sharing 😊

[@ScottSwalwell]

Yes same here. Glad you liked the video Dal

[@IWantYoutoBeHappy4Ever]

What you're saying in this video is so important. Former people pleaser here! 🙋‍♀️I know all about depression due to taking on roles based on approval of others. No more!

[@ScottSwalwell]

Im happy to hear you're doing whats right for you 🙂

[@theswcoaching]

This is such a great video Scott. I feel like you and I have a lot in common, in terms of our thinking!

[@ScottSwalwell]

Cheers Steve. Yes, I like your videos Steve

[@emilyhammel-shaver7481]

Such a valuable message. I have struggled with this and it does not serve us!

[@ScottSwalwell]

Glad you found value in it. How are you going with it all now?

[@KrishanPatel]

Yes I try everyday not to be a people pleaser, but I can be hard at times because you don't want to offend others who think they are helping you. Great advice none the less.

[@ScottSwalwell]

Thanks Krishan. Are you doing it because you want to help them or is it purely for them to like you more?

[@KrishanPatel]

Scott Swalwell To help them.