How to stop being a people pleaser forever

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I hope you enjoyed today's video about learning how to stop seeking validation. Everyday, I want you to remember how valuable you are. You are worthy! You are enough! People's validation is just a plus. I love you!🌸
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[@HeyImLin]

"And now you bully yourself" Okay, that hit HARD

[@ChelseaWambui]

🥺we really do be the worst to ourselves

[@merrindouglas9624]

I watched one of your other videos on Saturday and it inspired me to start making changes so thank you ❤️ I'm starting to realise that I spend far too much time focusing on the negative and create negative beliefs in my head and I need to actually put in the work to change that. So this morning I told myself I deserve good things, did some journalling and I've had such a nice day so far! I'm also a massive people pleaser and I need to stop so this video is really useful. Thank you so much Chelsea, you are amazing ❤️

[@ChelseaWambui]

Aaaaw sweeetie I love that you’re coming to that realisation. It’s a delicious journey so don’t judge yourself for traits you had to learn to protect yourself. Remember to improve from a place of love🥹❤️. I love you!

[@flojo8274]

I needed this im a recovering people pleaser too its a struggle 😅

[@ChelseaWambui]

I’m glad I could help ❤️

[@imanindaba]

WE ARE WORTHY ASF!

[@ChelseaWambui]

Yes we are❤️

[@moniquengugi3914]

i see a lot of influence from the book you recommended 'Breaking the Habit of Yourself' and that book was a life changer! it explains how powerful the mind is in influencing our personalities and self-concept. To change ourselves/lives we must change our thoughts.

[@ChelseaWambui]

Definitely changed my life honestly ❤️

[@thehealtrix]

This is a whole free therapy session! I resonate so much with your struggles it’s crazy. Im defenitly applying these gems to my life… It’s time to be more conscious & positively change my perspective 🤍 I’m also happy to see your channel growing fast✨

[@ChelseaWambui]

Aaww I’m so glad I could help🥹❤️wish you all the best in your growth!

[@mercy8649]

Asante kwa kunigombanisha❤😂😂😂 ..This is MASSIVE 🎉🎉🎉

[@ChelseaWambui]

Karibu🥹❤️

[@teefox4136]

Girllll... you’re so articulate ❤.

[@ChelseaWambui]

Aaaww🥹thank you so much!

[@Pash60087]

Before I say anything,that hair ❤❤you stunning 😍. Am a recovering people pleaser to and lemme tell you that such a worse place to be

[@ChelseaWambui]

Thank you so much 🥹❤️

[@massiemwikali1906]

The part you said sometimes we need to be rude to just protect our boundaries hit hard..😅😅I have been fighting the guilt that came with me being utterly rude to someone who was narcissist who brought my heart to it's knees but low key I know I shouldn't be ..😮I feel sometimes they are still humans and should be classy always..well I believe I am classy af but if I have to be rude to keep a narcissist out of my life..I am doing it again..I am that bish coz am that bish😅😅 totally love your videos

[@ChelseaWambui]

Unfortunately people mistake kindness for stupidity or lack of self respect. Sometimes you really do have to be rude to let people know you’re not to be played with❤️

[@imanindaba]

you being so honest is what we need, its going to be hard..you can't just jump into the action and it's going to feel uncomfortable. THIS IS MY NEW HOME

[@ChelseaWambui]

Welcome home baby girl🥹❤️

[@hepzibahrealtors]

Girl the way i love you, you dont even know 💕every single word make sense, spot on 👌🌸🌸

[@ChelseaWambui]

Girl! I love you toooo🥹❤️

[@utilityfreight8379]

ARE YOU TALKING TO ME. HOW DO YOU KNOW ME THIS MUCH AM CRYING .

[@ChelseaWambui]

Because I know me baby! We are one consciousness 🥹❤️

[@banaelkolyapma3536]

i feel really energetic and whole after watching this video

[@ChelseaWambui]

Aaaw that makes me so happy🥹❤️

[@Calonpersonal]

Every word is you've said is spot on for me! New subscriber ♥️

[@puritywangari7523]

This is me...I needed this its so therapeutic thanks Chelsea💖

[@jennythegymnast6150]

I love your channel! thanks for the advice ❦ 😊

[@cynthiaalwosi-fl1lz]

Thiss what hv been looking for,, glad you talked about it gworl,, love you ♥️

[@_sidneytarus]

This whole video was just amazing,I learnt so much❤

[@_linlin_]

Queen delivering on time as always. Would love to see what you have for an insecure people-pleaser that has the looks, smarts, and personality to be confident in herself but isn't. "The only person that is standing in your way is you" You are your own enemy and biggest bully. omg.

[@ChelseaWambui]

Girl you just described me a year agoooooo😭

[@vickyyct]

I really needed this girl 😭, thank you ❤❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome my love🥹❤️

[@jojochep4024]

You vids are everything❤,I keep preaching your channel to my friends

[@ChelseaWambui]

Aaaw thank you so much 🥹❤️

[@Kageni956]

Have learnt enough from this episode..Thanx Wambo❤

[@jacintanyawira3373]

Struggled with this but now trying so much to stop . Thanks to you for these videos ♥️♥️♥️ you're amazing

[@ChelseaWambui]

Thank you so much !🥹❤️I’m glad I could help

[@user-vx8wp5so7o]

Giiiirrrrl first time in your channel but I'm loving this❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome here🥹❤️we love you!

[@nantaleelizabeth2702]

Not me going into everyone’s KZbin in my family just to like this video again and again♥️♥️♥️

[@princesspeach37]

you’re so beautiful and i appreciate your videos so much

[@ChelseaWambui]

Thank you so much 🥹❤️

[@sarahseleyian]

Listening to you,I thought I was the same anxious and insecure girl I was a few years ago. I'm doing some of the shadow work already and I didn't realise it. Purr😂

[@ChelseaWambui]

Puuuurrrrr🥹❤️

[@haisesaski-mg6dq]

Thank you sister, may God help us become the sweetest to ourselves and may He bless all of us who are struggling ❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

Amen🥹❤️

[@rynekiiru8455]

Every girl needs to watch your content honestly..and you look stunning 😍 ❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

Thank you so much 🥹❤️

[@aibafofana2044]

Wauw thank you for this video, the way how you talked at the end of the vid really hits me. I know that I am the only person in my way and I have to do the inner work, but it kinda scares me. But I also know that I have a better life ahead of me, where my higherself is living in, with every freedom and manifestation. But in order to get there, I have to do the inner work. And you are shaking me in to doing it, moving forward. So thank you for that. Bless you and keep on doing the good work❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

Baby a beautiful life awaits you! It’s on the other end of that fear❤️. You’re on the right track! Keep going!

[@indieanne3932]

Dear Chelsea, Thank you so much. You are like the older sister I’ve never had, and I wanted the video to go on forever and take it all in and listen to your voice. I am only 14 with such little self confidence and I’m a HUGE people pleaser, but I want to change. I’m so happy to be apart of this journey with you and everyone, I’m so excited to become the best version of myself 🩷❤️

[@ChelseaWambui]

Hey my love🥹❤️ You’ve started your journey earlier than most people do! Congratulations for that! Remember to do it from a place of love and compassion especially because you’re still very young and your brain and body are still developing . Love you!

[@Debbywachira]

i really love this video so much esp the content creation part that had me shouting 'tell them 😂i believe that i am loved that 🥰

[@ChelseaWambui]

Telll eeeeemmm🤣thank you girl

[@iamkaywinter]

The way I keep checking your channel 😂❤thanks for showing up!!!

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome 🥹❤️

[@user-ho1pf2zd7v]

gurlll i love youu

[@ChelseaWambui]

Love you tooo!🥹❤️

[@user-vw6wy4uo5h]

this vid is so good i am gonna be coming back to this plus you look so beautiful i love you chelsea

[@ChelseaWambui]

Love you right back! Thank you so much 🥹❤️

[@imnotwhoithinkiam5018]

Thank you so much 4 new video 😢❤❤❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome 🥹❤️

[@nimfii]

AGHHHHHH I HAVE SCHOOL BUT IVE BEEN WAITINGGG!!!!!!! I have been rewatching the last vid just so excited for this to come out!!!!!! Will watch later thank you!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

Aaaaw love you babe🥹❤️

[@nimfii]

@@ChelseaWambui ugh i love u more queen!! U r so loved and so appreciated!! This vid was TOO GOOD! Reminding myself to stay conscious of my thoughts every day!!🥹

[@ashleyjayden4706]

Thank you ❤ I learnt alot today

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome hunnie🥹❤️

[@joemuragu4587]

im here ju ya leila and i can say hii channel its just a big thing to me

[@EccentricKE]

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[@user-ho1pf2zd7v]

looking good as always

[@ChelseaWambui]

Thank you so much 🥹❤️

[@cindyatuhaire]

Loveee it ❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

Love you!🥹❤️

[@Linah_M2]

So deep.🥺❤️

[@ChelseaWambui]

Thank you🥹❤️

[@danielaccm7510]

queen

[@ChelseaWambui]

Both of us babe 🥹

[@queem5682]

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[@ChelseaWambui]

Aaaw thank you so much for watching 🥹❤️love you!

[@patriciakibor792]

I love you❤, thank you soo much

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome! I love you tooo🥹❤️

[@Ikaanikki]

Thank you for the useful information 😊

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome 🥹❤️

[@Ikmanu]

Absolutely true

[@ChelseaWambui]

Glad I could help❤️

[@ruthmusengya]

Thank you ❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

You're welcome 🥹❤️

[@aliahsofierce]

a guy i used to date asked me how i felt about him n i told him that I loved him n cared about him then i asked him how he felt about me he tells me i dont know how i feel about myself n now what he said has been in my mind

[@_nabwile25]

❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

🥹❤️

[@user-rr7bi1de9g]

Girl thanks for your message ive been harrased and recorded in my bathroom creepy 😡

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome babe❤️so sorry for that experience

[@user-rr7bi1de9g]

@@ChelseaWambui yes girl there's so much more but I wouldn't say more cause people git there own lives and stuff to do but I would certainly live to express myself with someone

[@tevinkimani1]

Much love babes receive greetings from a true bro

[@ChelseaWambui]

We love a true bro🥹❤️

[@therealteresia]

Eckhart Tolle is a good place to begin from. He guides on consciousness so well.

[@ChelseaWambui]

Will definitely check him out🥰

[@ruqayasrulez]

hi :) where can we find the the meditations u were talking abt? i cant find any, maybe im spelling the creator’s name wrong?

[@ChelseaWambui]

Ooh get mine from Joe Dispenza’s website. But you can get free ones on youtube babe❤️

[@user-rx5ht6db7c]

Know that Chelsea is that type of girl with no love for men at all but this is actually a good vid

[@ChelseaWambui]

What😭😭I mean, thank you But I do like men (maybe not love, you’re right lmaooo)

[@hollywoodsfavoriteitgirl]

This wig please post❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

Got it from Unice 🥹❤️it’s on my Instagram feed

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Marilyn ❤

[@ChelseaWambui]

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Road to 100k subs💃💃

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[@StrawberryPeach707]

Does anyone know any shadow work resources? (free) ? Im gonna try to change my mind and the negative beliefs that I dont know about.

[@ChelseaWambui]

You could start by checking some shadow work questions on google. Also watch some TikToks that break it down better then you can move from there ❤️

[@Teeeeekkkk]

From Leila's channel

[@ChelseaWambui]

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Exxciittedd as per ussuaall

[@ChelseaWambui]

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[@ChelseaWambui]

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The intro introed

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Correction, the whole video VIDEOED !!!!!

[@ChelseaWambui]

🥰I had to get your attention

[@ChelseaWambui]

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[@jlbeauty.reviews]

Needed this this morning. 💕 Thank you.

[@rachellexox]

same here !

[@ChelseaWambui]

You’re welcome my love🥹❤️

[@ChelseaWambui]

Glad i delivered 🥹❤️

[@tevinkimani1]

@@ChelseaWambui as always

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[@ChelseaWambui]

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[@ChelseaWambui]

And I love you!🥹❤️

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[@ChelseaWambui]

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