How To Stop Being Too Nice To Your Boyfriend?

[@knightyknight5399]

When your too nice they take the piss ...They always say your such a nice girl, this means their going to try to take advantage ...Do not, I repeat , do not be a people pleaser for a man...Thx for the upload...😊

[@patty8945]

You are right

[@vm6796]

I feel like as long as I have your channel I don't need anyone else. Others might explain a lot of reasons why people act the way they do and how to overcome it. But I don't see many yt channels telling women how to act in a high value way, which also helps to complement a man's love interests. Thank you for all your content xx

[@bb88106]

If he canceled the plan at last min: next If he is being rude to me: next If he takes me for granted: next Better off alone than being with guy behave like this..

[@CherrellMishelle]

Li Xiao People deserve a second chance as long as the offense isn’t severe.

[@ishotuknok]

@Mekah L Lets say there is a guy, that this female is seriously interested in, as this guy is something special. He might be clever, good looking or even rich - you desire him because you know that you cant always have a man like that. Now he treads you a little bit too rough. So whats your plan now? He has more options than you on the dating market and doesnt really need you. Dump him and get a more basic guy? Well good luck with that, you wont feel any attraction to that loser because you know what else is out there. If you want something to last forever you may need to lower your standards or wait for an idiot to come around.

[@seekingenlightenment2026]

MaxZurek’s attitude is exactly why women need to watch Greta’s videos. If you have to reduce yourself in any way to be with a potential partner, then they are not enough for you, no matter how much they seem to be physically and materially. What matters in matters of love and relationships is how they treat you and how you feel with them. Don’t compromise yourself to have someone you think is great. You will ultimately regret it. Expect others to treat you as you would lovingly and respectfully treat yourself and them. That’s Greta’s message to us, ladies!! These guys need to go away and quit looking after what women are saying to help one another. 😃👏 And by the way, there’s always another great one, an even greater one!! You just need to be high value enough to attract him!

[@Bert_de_Wit]

@@ishotuknok It's interesting that you use superlatives like "clever, good looking or rich" to describe what is attractive in a man, and that a man who is none of these things is a loser / basic guy. Then you come on youtube to watch Greta's video's on how to not be too nice to a guy. I believe you already have the "not niceness" under control. I guess women will always look down on us average guys who are sweet and respectful, just not clever, good looking or rich.

[@justhereforthe_comments8994]

Whether it’s my man or a stranger I’d give the other person the “better” omelette. Just the way I was raised

[@siboneypeltier2307]

Exactly, only a narcissist would feel they deserved the 'better' omelette!

[@elizabetdanova3219]

So do I

[@ianradcliffe2319]

Exactly, i would give the better one to literally anyone, feels decent. I dont have a problem with taking the ugly one, as i know i still made it perfectly fine to eat :D In reality I just make one and we split it equally. And sometimes he makes it. He always wants me to take the better pieces so why shouldn't I do the same for him? Nice advice though, I've been binge watching your videos all afternoon

[@Nokss87]

I know 🙄 we were raised wrong

[@phoenixrising8007]

Chlarie Peace I would say it Matters how you were raised but your upbringing does not define you unless you allow it. We can change once we become aware and willing to do the work.

[@phoenixrising8007]

I over tolerated his rudeness little by little as he kept pushing, bending and breaking my boundaries. It happened slowly over time without my awareness until it was too late and the damage was done. Epic wake up call, never again!

[@Amysbiblereads]

You have no idea how much this is helping me keep my date. !! 8 dates in!

[@Bert_de_Wit]

Yes!!! Stop being so nice to us men. Please start treating us worse. We hate love and niceness. You truly capture our hearts by treating us like dirt...

[@stanteacher943]

LADIES! I'm a guy, and Greta is right. I don't care how my omelette looks like, I'm hungry and just want to EAT! lol

[@GretaBereisaite]

Stan Teacher 🤣

[@anadebeljak9528]

1. Don’t accept cancellations. 2. Don’t accept last minute dates. 3. Don’t clean, don’t cook for him and buy him expensive gifts . 3. Don’t let him be rude to you, not even a little.

[@WynaKatili]

Ouuuuch!! I’ve done all of them! Ok... what a wake up call ❤️ thank you Greta

[@stephanieramlogan4167]

Me too lol

[@ndyndy2785]

😀😀😀

[@CoRiNaRoSe917]

Greta I used to give the best omelet/piece of meat/desert to my ex and he was always such a big complainer about my food... Saying that oh you didn't cook the meat long enough, let me burn it, and always come and interrupt me while I'm cooking and checking inside the pots what I'm doing if it's cooking at the right temperature. He was always so rude about my food that I planned on cooking and worked hard for, I used to hate him so much for this.... But now 9 yrs after I left him I'm dating again and I'm sooooo thankful to you for all the great advise. I'm watching all your videos and I feel so good to learn these things from you! 🤗💃🏼 Greatings from Canada xoxo 💐

[@mimimimi377]

Nine months ago I would’ve gave him the perfect omelette. Today I would not even cook for him he’d have to take me out to breakfast

[@cheriberri3494]

Yesss! Agreed!!

[@ayat9051]

Chlarie Peace your right under some circumstances it’s better

[@Bert_de_Wit]

Thats right, ladies. Don't be nice to your man. Don't do ANY friendly little things for him! In fact, why do anything for him at all, right? Men love women who do nothing for them. Great advice!

[@jasjuaquin140]

Yaaass girl

[@kiuura1189]

At the beginning of the relationship, I was too nice with him. He tested me to see if I was serious for a relationship, he talked about his needs, his past relationships, what he disliked, and told me that we should communicated. But at that time, I didn't make my place because I was afraid of loosing him. He said to me not really nices things. After months he felt more confortable with me. But after nearly two years of relationship, he always make coffee to him but never some tea for me, I came only the week end and tidy his home, made cooking. And one day I gave up. I realized I was taken as granted. I never tidy his home again. I am independent, I earn money, I have my own home. He told me I was his wife I said no because we are not married. Me who was afraid loosing him, I choose an another role. And he never quit.

[@jasjuaquin140]

😮😆 when she said "because you made it". Wow. Mind blown. Yes ladies you get the nice omelette. Love it

[@bellachristinekinnin6116]

My answer to the omlet question is...I switch it up from time to time. The first time I may keep the nice omlet while the next time or maybe the third or fourth time I will let him have the nice omlet just to show that I care and feel that he deserves nice things too.

[@felicitygrace5113]

The one that fell apart!!! 😂😂😂 Tho I confess it has been the other way around sometimes... but hardly! 😂👌 Love it!! Your examples are priceless! Still laughing! 😂❤

[@EbonyEyes00]

I’ll give him the better omelette on a disposable plate with disposable utensils. 😂 I put mine on one of my prettiest plates and drink my orange juice out of a champagne glass.

[@CherrellMishelle]

LOL, imagine his face! 😂

[@phoenixrising8007]

I was too understanding, too forgiving, too accommodating. I over gave little ways bcuz that was my love language but it wasn’t his and he did not appreciate it, lol. He actually resented it which I could never get my head around until now.

[@RosaliaMartinezRM]

Although one could say I'm back to square one, I like to think of it as a clean slate, and I have to thank you so much for this process of realizing how doormatty I've been on different aspects of my life. Last realization I had about this was a week ago, I was been too nice to an ex...I mean I don't even want to be back with him and here I was holding on to some belongings, that were supposedly his treasures, he had left at my place "for safekeeping" that he was too lazy to come pickup. Every single time I mentioned it he would be like oh yes one of this days I'll go or he was like I'll call you when I go pick it up ...and he was keeping me in suspence with this excuse for too long. So last Monday I decided this had gone for too long already. At lunchbreak I had to run some errands at a supermarket that has lockers with electronic passcodes, so I left the package there. Sent him a picture of the number of the locker and the code, told him if he didn't want his things to be lost or that the night guard took his stuff to lost objects he should go pick his things because I couldn't keep them at home any more. I was not mean about it, just firm. Sure thing, within an hour he picked his things and told me so. Right then I unfollowed him on the last social media I had him on because there was no more need to keep comunication...and just right then and there I felt a strong sense of relief and happiness I haven't felt in a long time. Now I truly felt confident and free to move on.

[@ayat9051]

Rosalia Martinez I’m proud of u

[@louisetaylor6952]

Rosalia, I am divorced so I experienced what you are describing...this is a very, very big deal...what you did took a lot of strength and I know you grew so very much from this...I congratulate you so much and be so proud of yourself...you deserve real love and happiness and I know there are wonderful things in your future!

[@petitpimentglace7063]

Both omelettes are mine. He can Cook his own.

[@Marisa-xu9pn]

😂

[@gad6347]

I brought food for my man and he asked if I was going to serve him... I told him he can serve himself cuz this way he can pick how much he wants. 😆 so he did😉

[@monnymatz7602]

Just to be nicer I’ll make both look ugly 😂😂 in purpose!!

[@lucidwyer-joyce3229]

If u're watching this video ure worrying too much , just relax and let things happen. If it doesn't work, it doesn't , next.

[@Alicia-rn8bg]

I was in a relationship with an usless man, no value at all as a person who mistreated me and left me for a b*tch after all I give him. I RUINED MY LIFE FOR HIM.

[@bilget9260]

Thanks Greta! You really made me realize my greatest mistakes with men

[@Bert_de_Wit]

Yep. Never be nice to men. They are only men.

[@dinahmite425]

oh no you made this for me lmao🤣🤣🤣 but I improved soooo much but I'm still nice but nothing like before

[@KJxxoo]

Give him the crap one! I cooked I deserve the better one 🤣

[@hadafoxer9563]

1_ You are putting him first (canceling your dates with friends just because he asks you out in a date at the last minute...). 2_ You are pleasing him too much. 3_ You are really understanding when he cancels on you. 4_ You are giving him a lot of gifts. 5_ You let him be rude. 💓💓

[@CherrellMishelle]

He gets the dusty looking omelette and he better not complain or that’d be his last. 😄

[@HiKasandra]

Omg..the test..that actually happened to me in a previous relationship. I had two sets of cutlery. We were eating outside. I used the nice cutlery for myself and gave him the not so nice cutlery. He complained and tried to make me feel guilty. Fast forward in the end...due to differences, I broke up with him while he did not want to break up. Fast forward..now I am being too nice and single..doing all the things you said were too nice, even giving little gifts. :-( X

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Same damn thing happened to me. I was bitchy. Then he made me feel guilty so I "niced up" and boom ! He sat on my head.

[@dearandwild]

If my grandmother saw me give the not-so-nice omelette to my bf she would disown me

[@phoenixrising8007]

I was an over giver I was the under receiver I was resentful and confused Never again!

[@Eberethelma]

where do you draw the line between putting yourself first and being selfish?

[@dinahmite425]

join her group on Facebook you will get all these answers

[@mahdavimail]

EBERE MARY-THELMA best question but they never answer this because they just repeat what the have heard. If you find the answer let me Kno w pls

[@dinahmite425]

you mirror him.. always give less.. if he didnt buy a gift for ur bday then u know where to draw the line u dont buy him one if he buys a 10 dollar gift u buy a 5 dollar one so u follow his lead u give less always thsts how u gave where to cut it

[@mahdavimail]

dinahmite425 Is that qll about buying and selling?! You gold digger s😏

[@Bert_de_Wit]

@@dinahmite425 Always give him less? Have you seriously ever been in a loving relationship? Horrible advice! You cheap fool! I am so fortunate to be married to an equal woman. We earn the same amount of money and spend the same as well. Been together for nearly 20 years. I really hope no-one will follow your lousy, golddigging advice!

[@florad629]

Thats a very good question but my problem is, I ll always give the perfect omellete to the other person, no matter if they are friend, family any guest coz in my mind its good etiquete of hosting plus the broken one is good too. I know your question has clearly told me that I dont put myself first, I ll work on it. Give me tips.

[@keniasharpe1610]

I can’t wait till he ask me out so I can turn him down 😂😂😂

[@FM-zg5hz]

Chlarie Peace You sound desperate to have a man. No thanks!

[@theelizardqueen]

@Chlarie Peace its not. I just went thru this. Even when they make plans these types still make me cry by the end of the date. Its lame

[@viviho4099]

@Chlarie Peace no sist, just told my bf couple days ago that i am not open for last minute date and im not last minute girl. Then he pick me up the 1D earlier than the plan just in the right time. If he wants to see you, he should make an effort. You can educate him btw

[@EbonyEyes00]

There is not a lot of men like this to choose from. It’s like they want you to chase them. I’m not gonna chase a man period . Especially bc he is the one who peruses me. I’m single because of this.

[@dr.triggerd222]

this is so so so important

[@Magnoliasdiary]

I was like this before, and when pmsing I struggle to manage my emotions so I re watch your videos.

[@karenpaige1186]

I was way too nice, is it fixable?

[@tintunath35]

Ans- fabulous one. I was mistaken greta. Thanks for the correction

[@smurph4959]

Oops I'd give him the nice one ... yikes! Lesson learned. I grew up like that though i.e. man first.

[@he5583]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻😊so good advice really must learn from you 🙏

[@dsandoval2059]

Both of my omelettes would look bad so I got nothing

[@tiamaria1581]

Wowww...being the people pleaser I am...I wud give him the better one...thinking he's my guest

[@pepizify]

Treat them mean keeps them keen...

[@sitifarhanafajrinadnan]

Thank you Greta ;)

[@blancarosasmusica]

I was thinking 🤔 that too I should keep the better one for myself 😎but I figure he should be happy I give him something at all. Also I had a guy insult me while we were dating, he apologized and try to call me again, I told him I didn’t like the way he makes me feel, if that man doesn’t make you feel like you are a princess or his queen. Say goodbye to him. Insulting someone is never right nor nice.

[@vera7299]

My guy had just cancelled on me because his family came through and I was upset and I called him to tell him I was upset. I wasn't upset at the fact that he choose his family over me but that he didn't mention that he would make it up to me. He said he will so we will see. I'm going to wait on him to plan the date.

[@BlessedEnergy_]

Wow this confirms my situation about moving on from my cheating abusive x

[@CherrellMishelle]

Good for you! Abusive men suck!

[@GoldChocobo77]

You cracked me up with the omelette example 😆

[@antoinettegorman8833]

Give him none. Make his own. Even better get him to make one for us ladies .put the feet up 😂😂😂😂😂 tks amillion greta another great video xx

[@Bert_de_Wit]

Exactly. Why do anything nice for a man, right? He's only a man.

[@AS-wb5le]

If i try to be nice to him. Ill give the perfect omelet and if i love myself for my efforts i ll eat the perfect one and give the broken one to my pet dog.. Coz his love is unconditional..

[@lorriekelly964]

You're so rite !

[@Calida2308]

Should have watched this before getting dumbed by him 😂😬

[@phoenixrising8007]

Being yourself weeds out the flowers from the shrubs 😉

[@patriciaburtescu]

This video will cost millions of dollars one day✨💌🐾🌱🌳

[@carolynmcdowell65]

I do not have healthy boundaries in my relationship

[@yumbrella1]

I'm too nice,, I get it Now. I can stop......

[@Anythingiseeinlife]

Please please please make a video on long distance relationship ❤️

[@kwclove7623]

I wouldn’t be making breakfast I the first place.

[@rosenuptiale]

Been honest here of course will give him the best omelette, but I’m spotting the mistakes now.. I kind of know what your answer will be at the end. Ohhh thankssss for waking us up Greta!!!

[@Sweetgirl420]

So Greta are you saying don’t do anything nice for him? That’s my understanding. I nurture men. Mayb I am too nice.. it just feels good to do something nice for him. He pampers me! So I treat him like I don’t care? I’m mixed up. So I just do small things occasionally for him??

[@Bert_de_Wit]

Please don't listen to Greta's feminist garbage. All a man wants in life is a sweet, loving woman by his side who is nice to him. He should be just as nice to his lady. If he isn't, you're simply with the wrong guy. Problem is, many ladies go for the sexy jerk and afterwards they complain he's a jerk. Not all men are like that, and a good man only wants a nice lady.

[@xScarlingx]

What if your boyfriend texts you , you text him back and he ignores it but posts on WhatsApp status. Is this a test I should ignore?

[@SR77736]

Great content.

[@lax2469]

Thank you

[@alwaysattractinggreatthings]

Regarding the omelette., it’s funny because I just made my man an omelette the other day and I almost burned the first one and it felt apart because I couldn’t find the spatula , so I gave him that one lol and believe it or not he still ate it and said it was good lol 😂 The second omelette I made came out just perfect and I ate it 😊

[@Nokss87]

It's gonna take forever to be not nice 😢😢😢😢

[@sandraborrego6065]

How can i get my husband to ask me out on a date? He never takes me out and then complains that I'm always in cleaning clothes and pajamas

[@creativebeauty100]

Sandra Borrego spend less time cleaning and more time dressed up and taking yourself out on that town, call up some friends and make it a habit to get out of the house . Create some hobbies and dive into them .. live and laugh darling .. you don’t have to wait for your husband to go on a date

[@Glamyougirl17]

Sandra Borrego dress up sexy and when he gets home to see u maybe he’ll ask you out

[@he5583]

It applied to treating ppl too nice either-is the same- can u teach me not to be too nice 😆

[@sandraborrego6065]

I always buy him expenssive gifts for his birthday and Christmas

[@komalkoul6486]

i am not able to say no to a guy to comeover , he calls me and says can i cm and i say no. and then i call him back and say come ... ughhh... n regret immediately. i am crying what do i doooo😖😖😖😖😖

[@christincook4197]

Im giving him the messed up omelet

[@Bert_de_Wit]

What a sweet and loving gesture (not)!

[@ieishaobsessions1769]

The nice omelette for me!

[@judy4139]

The nice big omelette is for me...He can eat the bad one and do the dishes for me afterwards

[@Bert_de_Wit]

That's right. He will definitely love a woman who thinks like you.

[@saraphilip83]

A guy I'm seeing was going through something annoying at work and personal, I told him I'm here if he needs to talk about it , and he kind of seemed to pull away after that and not texting me as much or following through on plans to see me ..was it because I came across as too nice by saying that , he's always there for me when I need to vent and I just wanted to be there for him as well ?

[@miskasykor]

Men dont need to talk about their problems like women do...they want to solve them...

[@Ammatullah-j6u]

"Guys eat anything and everything" hahahaha 😂😂😂😂

[@rivkaruthgolan]

I’ll give him the broken one 😆

[@tiamaria1581]

Quite an eye opening experience fr me

[@gabobee3390]

Make a " signs your man might be gay" video please.....

[@CherrellMishelle]

If you have to ask then...

[@mykohburse8129]

relatable

[@EngPMgt]

Omg 😱 i do this all the time 6:12 🙈 I wish i watch this video before 💔

[@LisaNEdwards]

hahahaha I would so give him the not so nice one hahahaha

[@simplymarilyn5295]

It is all so funny but TRUE😄!

[@bibianakwaya3295]

But Greta,I already show him how nice I am,what if I change being too nice to him,will it work?

[@julial.2956]

It's never too late to start changing yourself and teaching your guy to respect you :) I was also super nice with this one guy for the past years and recently I set boundaries and showed how I am not so nice anymore. His behavior towards me changed a bit. But I'm still a bit too nice :/

[@superwoman6963]

the nice one omelet is for me 😅

[@phoenixrising8007]

So ...a selfless act of kindness is misperceived as not putting yourself first 🤔 Interesting.... I’m not concerned with eating the best looking omelette as long as it tastes good, lol

[@susandowling8172]

I would give him the nice one. I would have given the nice one away as a child. Though I still expect the car door to be opened for me ! He has more money so will spend more on me. I feel I can be there for him. Even just too listen

[@Bert_de_Wit]

You are a women who is not afraid to give and take. You sound like a good woman. Bless you.

[@lauradove]

does anyone have any advice for me ? i’m too nice. to everyone. i’m a chronic people pleaser & i want to be liked by everyone. it’s exhausting being overly nice & being too afraid to share my true self & opinions. i want to break the cycle, how do i do this ?

[@dinahmite425]

go on Facebook join her group it's free or her paid group... you mirror the guy... never ever do more than him.. text less call less never ask him out on a date dint ever pay for dates he needs to see u as a queen if he wont do these things kick him to the curb.. dont act jealous ever never question nag if he isnt what u want dont date him dint change him u dont have the right.. but Greta is the real deal join her groups

[@antoinettegorman8833]

Put your needs first. Self love .just look at your self as being a young girl who needs someone to look after her your inner child .say to yourself how are you today. What would you like me to do to help you today.maybe we.ll need to go for a walk. Or maybe go for something to eat. Maybe you could do with a rest put all that lovely love back to yourself .and give yourself a big hug .

[@rosered3919]

My mother always taught me as a child, It dosnt matter who likes you or not. It only matter who YOU like , or do not like.

[@nicolenelson3063]

I would give him the nice one

[@heidiavena8161]

Hello, is it okay to give him an expensive gift for his b-day?

[@krisztina_google9019]

Do something fun and crazy together instead, if he suggests some activity, agree to do it, it's his birthday. Split the bill if it's too expensive. 😊

[@ivyaquila9136]

i would not even make the omlette lol

[@angelinarachel6960]

The perfect omelette 😂👌🏾

[@manalisadas28]

I will give him 50% of both the omlettes nd I will have other 50% of both omlettes 😊

[@Bert_de_Wit]

Creative and sweet answer. I could totally live with that :).

[@westindiesgalfruits2335]

Not gonna give him neither egg.

[@carolynmcdowell65]

I’m too nice to my boyfriend

[@sandraborrego6065]

I always give him the perfect omlette and i ear the messed up one

[@alessandramata4902]

I would give him the nicer omelette as I would with anyone I would be cooking for whether it be my mom, friend, anybody. It’s how I was raised (my mom would always do this). However, if he cooks for me I’ll notice to see what he does as well and he always gives me the nicer plate. I think it’s purely out of respect.. maybe a Hispanic thing? I never saw it as bad they both taste good and you always want your hard work to look nice 😋

[@Bert_de_Wit]

You are a good woman. Thank you for speaking up.

[@carolynmcdowell65]

So truu

[@mykohburse8129]

i'd give my girlfriend half of the good omelette & half of the shit one lol

[@carolynmcdowell65]

The one that looks very perfectly cooked