How to Stop Caring What Anyone Thinks

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TopThink

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To be happy in life, you need to learn how to stop caring what anyone thinks. You need to start loving yourself, and that means blocking out the noise. Everyone has something to say, and sometimes it is important to listen. But in order to succeed, you need to stop caring what others think.
Sources:
Ways to Stop Worrying What Other People Think
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
Mental Shifts to Stop Caring What People Think
psychcentral.com/blog/5-menta...
How to Stop Worrying About What Other People Think of You
hbr.org/2019/05/how-to-stop-w...
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@stevecrane8763
@stevecrane8763 2 жыл бұрын
I stand my ground and don't let anyone walk all over me!
@nestorrfortuna1
@nestorrfortuna1 2 жыл бұрын
Well done. Do not hurt yourself in the process.
@DJWarmCookies1
@DJWarmCookies1 2 жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@georgeconavay5187
@georgeconavay5187 2 жыл бұрын
You sound angry. Someone must have done that to you. Not everybody is alike.
@kingkoverz3080
@kingkoverz3080 2 жыл бұрын
@@georgeconavay5187 sounds like you’re projecting…you don’t have to be angry to be strong and firm.
@georgeconavay5187
@georgeconavay5187 2 жыл бұрын
You're right, I've been there. It won't happen again. I put that behind me and moved on, but I'm smart enough now not to let it happen again. I'm not angry I'm just smarter and more experienced now. Confucius say, 'Man who stumble over sane Stone twice deserves to fall'
@theworldsmostinterestingma7592
@theworldsmostinterestingma7592 2 жыл бұрын
1. Emotional projection (Be secure.) 2. Valuable bonds (Value opinions of good friends who really know and understand you, not strangers.) 3. Cultivating passions (doing what you like will grow and help you discover your true passion.) 4. Your personal philosophy (Use motto as a guide of who you really are. One of my personal mottos is "Don't be lazy, get it done or it will never get done.") 5. The impossible truth (Make change if necessary.)
@maiaallman4635
@maiaallman4635 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@derrrick7759
@derrrick7759 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Sir. 🙏
@sand4463
@sand4463 2 жыл бұрын
Gracias ❤
@miawu6340
@miawu6340 2 жыл бұрын
thanks a lot
@sacdaabdurhman
@sacdaabdurhman 2 жыл бұрын
“No one lives long enough to learn everything they need to learn starting from scratch. To be successful, we absolutely, positively have to find people who have already paid the price to learn the things that we need to learn to achieve our goals.” Sharing some love and positivity with ya all
@highliving-animatedvideos5831
@highliving-animatedvideos5831 2 жыл бұрын
0:13 - Emotional projection 2:10 - Valuable bonds 3:53 - Cultivating passions 6:15 - Your personal philosophy 8:50 - The impossible truth
@derrrick7759
@derrrick7759 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. 🙏
@EM-ny4dx
@EM-ny4dx 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. I struggle with this at times. We can't always be a people pleaser. We sometimes take others negative criticism to an extreme. Which is not good. But I believe that positive constructive criticism is a good thing. Because it draws attention to a good or positive aspect of something that is being ignored, disregarded or overlooked. The term "Positive Constructive Criticism" is also used in the sense that the criticism is "well-meant" or "well-intentioned." For example: "I meant it in a positive way." We need discernment on what is being said. Reject the negative and receive the positive. There has to be balance in the right way. Without any condemnation...
@Arbeedubya
@Arbeedubya 2 жыл бұрын
A little late. I stopped caring what people thought of me long ago. It's one of the benefits of pushing 70. I don't deliberately offend but I don't guilt trip if somebody takes offense to me, figuring the offense is in their perception, not mine. And I figure some people are just too insecure to deal with anyone who's different, which I readily admit to being.
@cindyd2956
@cindyd2956 2 жыл бұрын
Funny how youth is wasted on the young. Rock on gramps 👏
@jenniferhcsmith-5586
@jenniferhcsmith-5586 2 жыл бұрын
@@cindyd2956 truth
@danielcarrillo2669
@danielcarrillo2669 2 жыл бұрын
I stand my ground and don't let anyone walk all over me.
@brettwebb7252
@brettwebb7252 2 жыл бұрын
I sometimes struggle to stop caring what people think about me because... if I don't care what they think they get really aggressive with me.
@georgeconavay5187
@georgeconavay5187 2 жыл бұрын
Walk away, and stay away from those people.
@28MUSE
@28MUSE 2 жыл бұрын
Be Neutral like water or music.. Don't care if you think good of me, don't care if you think bad of me... There's nothing wrong with being the baddest butch if you are not harming anyone 💕
@kimsmith819
@kimsmith819 2 жыл бұрын
Amen to that 💖💖💖
@azeezulhakimzarif9614
@azeezulhakimzarif9614 2 жыл бұрын
you just realized me that i am like water!
@Danny-1875
@Danny-1875 2 жыл бұрын
Be yourself.
@SuperBlessedKing
@SuperBlessedKing 2 жыл бұрын
I’m very young, I’m a generation Z baby and I’m always very confident in myself. I stay strong. ♥️
@DougMarv
@DougMarv 2 жыл бұрын
You are what God thinks about you. Just imagine how good thoughts a saint like him has.
@Kamo766
@Kamo766 2 жыл бұрын
Stop caring about what others think about you 🙂 be happy love yourself self-efficacy belief in your abilities. Love ❤️ Pule
@Perfectlykiki
@Perfectlykiki 2 жыл бұрын
Great tips!! We all think about what others think at some point. It’s good to challenge yourself for happiness!
@chrisrobin409
@chrisrobin409 2 жыл бұрын
This is something I needed! Thank You 😊💕
@skj068
@skj068 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Meaningful and concise recommendations without the fluff.
@plyoung97
@plyoung97 2 жыл бұрын
The last tip is the most important tip out of all. Great video!
@stevendorn1736
@stevendorn1736 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate and respect this video.. for the simple fact I had issues with self-esteem because a few years ago I was worried about with some people were thinking about me.. because I didn't see my own self value only with those thought of me.... one day I told myself fuck with anyone thinks about me... its what I think about myself.. not to be self-centered but to be in control of my own emotional well-being and every since then I've been feeling really good about myself .. and if you don't like this comment.. it's okay because I do.
@mhamedmoussabenlahrech6320
@mhamedmoussabenlahrech6320 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this amazing content.
@MrEbmanii
@MrEbmanii 2 жыл бұрын
Even when you know this, it's great to hear to reinforce. Great work TopThink.
@maxmenor8733
@maxmenor8733 2 жыл бұрын
Just what I need. Thank you Top think!🙏
@GsnaGs
@GsnaGs 2 жыл бұрын
this was a great video would recommend to anybody struggling with themself
@marjutpaech
@marjutpaech 2 жыл бұрын
To be happy in life, you need to learn how to stop caring what anyone thinks. You need to start loving yourself, and that means blocking out the noise. Everyone has something to say, and sometimes it is important to listen. But in order to succeed, you need to stop caring what others think.
@kimsmith819
@kimsmith819 2 жыл бұрын
Great information 👍. Thanks a bunch 💝💝💝
@treyhallmark5418
@treyhallmark5418 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice I needed this!
@BRUNO36185
@BRUNO36185 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the tips
@jeenumewada3966
@jeenumewada3966 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for motivating us 💮
@choonguanquek4180
@choonguanquek4180 2 жыл бұрын
I find your opinions presented in these video very informational and valuable. I often try to please others, though I am not in good mood on all occasions, but there will always be people that challenge me and be hostile towards me for unknown reasons. After seeing your video, I became more mature and understand how human beings behave. Thanks a lot Topthink advisors.
@rheaalmaras6579
@rheaalmaras6579 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this inspiring video ❤❤ always watching here!
@tracierendell4422
@tracierendell4422 2 жыл бұрын
This is the best advice I've come across on the internet EVER. Immerse yourself with love and treat othes with love and well-being in mind.
@thedaughterofalmightygod2345
@thedaughterofalmightygod2345 2 жыл бұрын
Practice makes one Perfected but, Not PERFECT. Thanks to everyone for your valuable information and Especially Video Management. Amen.
@flowerpower4944
@flowerpower4944 2 жыл бұрын
I m busy and meet my standards.and carry on with passion and purpose in all I do , stay positive , and always ready to take on challenges, and learn new things,it's never too late no matter how old you are.😃😃💗💗
@cindyd2956
@cindyd2956 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome content tyvm.
@reshmasuresh3161
@reshmasuresh3161 2 жыл бұрын
From ur videos I can able to understand myself more💓😇Thank u so much
@brianbrino4310
@brianbrino4310 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your advice 🙏🙏🙏 articles are really outstanding and always very interesting and applicable to our daily life. Thank you thank you thank you and God bless you guys always stop 👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍✅✅✅✅✅
@iqbalamiri4017
@iqbalamiri4017 2 жыл бұрын
🥰❤
@kinzosat9871
@kinzosat9871 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys today I was gonna sing a song I was so afraid want people will think about me after watching this I became so brave
@thisisme3238
@thisisme3238 2 жыл бұрын
Most people are strictly acquaintances in your life, and really don't care enough to get to know you. Seek God and he will reveal your "gifts" to you in his time and in his way...you will then be shown your passions in life as well as your compassion for others.🙏
@georgianagheorghe8848
@georgianagheorghe8848 2 жыл бұрын
Your video is inspiring and encouraging. Thanks for sharing! 😊
@lauii17
@lauii17 2 жыл бұрын
Topthink you’re a savior!
@JAZZY2REALZ
@JAZZY2REALZ 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice.
@teenmichael3931
@teenmichael3931 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting me understand it 'cause I really have that projection thinking this is a really good content it's helpful👍
@roughroadrunner88
@roughroadrunner88 2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful.thanks
@johannaparada4069
@johannaparada4069 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent information
@kimanhchung8372
@kimanhchung8372 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙂
@itz_me_kpv
@itz_me_kpv 2 жыл бұрын
I really wanted this video
@politicsreporter4247
@politicsreporter4247 2 жыл бұрын
in the beginning I was like How can I not care about my friends and family then I got my answer during the video.
@coding_vlsi_vietnam
@coding_vlsi_vietnam 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderfull channel.
@CommandYourConfidence
@CommandYourConfidence 2 жыл бұрын
People need to stop caring what others think and be more authentic.
@justjay8165
@justjay8165 2 жыл бұрын
I know tooooo many people that avoid the tiniest task strictly due to what others will think it’s so sad
@InfoVibesAndBeyond
@InfoVibesAndBeyond 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video
@sheriff_817___
@sheriff_817___ 2 жыл бұрын
YES 🙌🏾
@thedragon2299
@thedragon2299 2 жыл бұрын
I say I don't give a shit what people think of me, but truth is I often worry about it.
@haitham5084
@haitham5084 2 жыл бұрын
perfect
@user-lq7ye3cm9c
@user-lq7ye3cm9c 2 жыл бұрын
The REAL question is Why do the people who criticize you want you to care what they think of YOU? Is it a form of manipulation to feel like you're the "puppeteer" pulling on the "strings" of SAID victim?
@0XI22
@0XI22 2 жыл бұрын
Trying to do this in Puerto Rico 🤣
@cindyd2956
@cindyd2956 2 жыл бұрын
How is everyone after the storm? Best wishes from Canada 🇨🇦
@mathewerven9
@mathewerven9 2 жыл бұрын
To care about everyone yet not care what anyone thinks about you...
@DougMarv
@DougMarv 2 жыл бұрын
It's all about it!
@chrislawson1988
@chrislawson1988 2 жыл бұрын
Even people that know me don't really know me . They just assume stuff. And sU this and that. And sometimes they right but other times they wring. And like you said don't matter if you say no that's nit true. I never stand that . They think they're right and won't listen lol.
@sonder3519
@sonder3519 2 жыл бұрын
So...stop caring what they think because of what I think that they think that I think? Makes sense.
@cindyd2956
@cindyd2956 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@smartsignals3311
@smartsignals3311 2 жыл бұрын
please tell me how to get those transitions 😥
@SanDmaNTheFreakTrucker
@SanDmaNTheFreakTrucker 2 жыл бұрын
This is new age thought. We always have to care a little bit what people think about us. We can’t go to a job interview with an attitude like “I don’t give a damn,” or speak to people disrespectfully. Be yourself and stand up for yourself, but don’t forget we live around others and the less people care the worse society becomes. Think about how many times you pull up to a red light and the ass hat beside you is blaring their rap music for the world to hear. That’s a person who don’t care or cares too much. Find a middle ground.
@urmibora
@urmibora 2 жыл бұрын
*Does 'Anyone' in the title include family and friends also???*
@100koolaidguy
@100koolaidguy 2 жыл бұрын
Every time he says "look inward" I hear "look n word" lol
@funeralhymn666
@funeralhymn666 2 жыл бұрын
You can't please everybody as the olé' idiom goes...
@justinbruce8074
@justinbruce8074 2 жыл бұрын
Like I told my son why do you care what they think
@georgeconavay5187
@georgeconavay5187 2 жыл бұрын
You are what people think of you, what you think of yourself, and who you really are. considering the other two variableswh understand more than anything that we are what God created us to be. Careful you don't over emphasize any of these, Be balanced.
@khalilovalisher
@khalilovalisher 2 жыл бұрын
"Sharing is caring" guys
@DWPersianExcursion
@DWPersianExcursion 2 жыл бұрын
Ok
@averagecitykid
@averagecitykid 2 жыл бұрын
S2. S2.
@nikad9205
@nikad9205 2 жыл бұрын
Happened to me before but not any more thanks to my teraphy
@jacquesvanderlinden8852
@jacquesvanderlinden8852 2 жыл бұрын
I wish everybody a kindly weirdness, just like myself
@mrliam303
@mrliam303 2 жыл бұрын
"The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness. For he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know I am the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon you."
@coconutpineapple2489
@coconutpineapple2489 2 жыл бұрын
It's good to not to try to change others. But it's not good to try to be changed from others all the time as well. Sometimes people get a good input from others.
@jamiewilliams829
@jamiewilliams829 2 жыл бұрын
When someone puts food on your table then you can start to worry but otherwise don't give a damn.
@centeguahan3760
@centeguahan3760 2 жыл бұрын
Personal philosophy: "I can't do this."
@vizeath
@vizeath 2 жыл бұрын
I don't care about other people, why should they care about me? We're not even close.
@missmetamorphic7971
@missmetamorphic7971 2 жыл бұрын
Dang I’ve been trying to impress myself all this time 😧
@happycool138
@happycool138 2 жыл бұрын
Add English subtitles
@kystarwalker3295
@kystarwalker3295 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@briansalazar7397
@briansalazar7397 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone has their bad points, we can’t always see them. Cultivating a balanced healthy self image is a lifelong project. God is the one who matters most. Friendship with the world is enmity towards God. Remembering this has helped me countless times.
@laxminarayanlala6850
@laxminarayanlala6850 2 жыл бұрын
This problem is mostly common but i don't think this vedio will help them to recover .
@joedejesus1747
@joedejesus1747 2 жыл бұрын
I hate everybody!🤷🏻‍♂️ 😂
@aaronreysegundino9632
@aaronreysegundino9632 2 жыл бұрын
How about verbal abuse from your clients? With negative feeding from my subordinate? I’m try to be good with our only client but because of negative feeding about me my reputation is affected to the point that the client evaluates my wish poor performance.
@user-uq9dc8cr3c
@user-uq9dc8cr3c 2 жыл бұрын
Nobody: This guy: *n-WoRd eXpIrIeNcE*
@iqbalamiri4017
@iqbalamiri4017 2 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍❤❤❤
@Leo-mr1qz
@Leo-mr1qz 2 жыл бұрын
Haters gonna hate! Players gonna play. 🤣
@gitoyatyndale4639
@gitoyatyndale4639 2 жыл бұрын
-that blue dress wha ur seeing is still there
@gitoyatyndale4639
@gitoyatyndale4639 2 жыл бұрын
being a designer, good for the soul
@gitoyatyndale4639
@gitoyatyndale4639 2 жыл бұрын
Today we meet those challenges
@noelkinz
@noelkinz 2 жыл бұрын
Why should I care about how people think or feel about my actions toward them if they don't give me nothing or provide any value in my life? It's completely irrational behavior.
@damariuswingfield2144
@damariuswingfield2144 2 жыл бұрын
Do we really need a video for this? Anyone who has read Mark Manson's books would already know.
@sastaganja1518
@sastaganja1518 2 жыл бұрын
I dont let anybody's opinion bother me
@noit1049
@noit1049 2 жыл бұрын
# 1, it happened to me. But I am not insecure, so I didn't care what my new job thought. Only 1 person was criticizing me, everyone was cool. I think he is jealous!!
@adarshyadav6706
@adarshyadav6706 2 жыл бұрын
Second
@farhiafarah6954
@farhiafarah6954 Жыл бұрын
Nobody ever familyyyyy and one of farhias systemsss but
@farhiafarah6954
@farhiafarah6954 Жыл бұрын
Generationsssssssssss
@ruweydaabdiaziz4153
@ruweydaabdiaziz4153 2 жыл бұрын
Second😍
@dinosaurgood537
@dinosaurgood537 2 жыл бұрын
It’s never to late to turn to Jesus
@raphacooljohnson3469
@raphacooljohnson3469 2 жыл бұрын
Jj
@free-birdrocker8809
@free-birdrocker8809 2 жыл бұрын
Caring about what folks think is one thing, be-smirching ones character is another. I stopped caring when obummer took office. Folks, what ever somebody says about you is either true or false. Dont care, because folks will talk smack reguardless. It aint worth yer time.
@rougegorge3192
@rougegorge3192 2 жыл бұрын
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