How to Stop Dog Barking! (Cesar911 Shorts)

How To Stop Dog Barking
In this Cesar911 Episode, Cesar helps a family whose dog barks at everything!
The mom's son, Mason, is scared to even enter the house because the dog makes him feel uncomfortable. He is afraid that the dog, Buddy, will lash out.
This video focuses on when to give affection at the right time and to make sure you are not rewarding the wrong behavior!
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[@markrothenberg9867]

The more I watch Cesar’s shows; which is about a decade, the more I am convinced humans need to get trained before they acquire a dog.

[@MsArtemis01]

Always was the case.

[@RyanOConnel]

True

[@K9_Queen]

😂 how can we make that a law

[@hypnotourist]

Absolutely. And the core can be quite simple and quick.

[@SueProst]

Yes.

[@cw6167]

What a polite and intelligent young man! Love watching Cesar not only helping dogs but helps the whole family.

[@lsabelcochofel6318]

The problem is not the dog but the owner who must be corrected . Thanks Cesar for your excellent work.

[@imlateagain22]

I have to laugh. Look at his grey hair! Now I’m quite sure he is younger than I, but yeah he’s a good man. His sons work for him so they learn a trade and can support themselves. Cesar looks at a dog’s world and their point of view, and figuring out what needs to be done. PS, it’s always the owner’s fault! LoL. My dog barks too much if someone gets off the elevator, a package delivery etc. So I talk to her in full sentences, she seems to understand. “Nope, I told you, you get ONE BARK and after that, I will nag on you as only a woman can!” She gets too carried away but not nearly so much as she once did. My son brought his worst barking dog to me for three weeks. First day she went half on, half off the puppy pad. We walked past the pad, I stopped and said, in a chilling voice, “I think you can do better than that.” I raised that one from a pup then he took over, so she knew me well (she watched TV with me, loves FaceTime with her). Not one more “half on, half off” episodes. She learned not to bark, in a short period of time. But she’s back home and barks the most, again. It’s pack mentality. If I come to visit, I call when I get in the driveway so he can let them out to the back yard, so the barking won’t wake the sleeping baby. Not sure how to cure that problem but it’s their problem, not mine.

[@cw6167]

@@lsabelcochofel6318 Yes, I agree. The owner is the one that has to be taught but it usually starts by showing the dog the correct way & then getting the owner to follow the rules next

[@cw6167]

@@imlateagain22 Lol. By young man I meant the lady's grandson but Cesar is and has always been an incredibly smart and handsome man at any age 😊

[@sandraoaks7887]

C W, couldn’t agree w/ u more.

[@mefford67]

Dog ‘training’ is truly for their owners.

[@SK-nd7db]

I think half of them are not fit to own a dog!!

[@elainerobertson7329]

I totally understand your pain of losing your husband. Im happy Cesar is helping you.

[@CesarMillanOfficial]

Thank you all for watching! Let me know what type of videos you would like to see next! Peace and Love

[@well_as_an_expert_id_say]

Peace and love Cesar, thanks man ✌️

[@marylevin9262]

u r amazing

[@boraiken9112]

My friends dog acts exactly like this, After seeing this video maybe we could do something about it.

[@frankendoll1455]

I have a question, I have a male corgi who only barks at female dogs....why? I can't figure this one out since he's been neutered before 6 months of age.

[@luisfernandoquesadaramirez5658]

More dog/human psychology videos, please!

[@pakkycs1]

The boy is so polite, very well manner and smart. Sweet family, glad that Cesar helped them.

[@devsinha8683]

But he looks like an meth addict

[@DomusC]

@@devsinha8683 ???

[@samgroen3412]

@@devsinha8683 lmfao

[@weantoine]

@@someonesgottapostit In life, we compare things to what we know. If a little boy that has been on earth for 9 years looks like a meth head to you- Damn what in the world do your family members LOOK LIKE

[@brittanymoye4439]

@@devsinha8683 your mom

[@Lindableching]

“Dogs are not human” they need confident leaders. That was great!

[@rogermetzger7335]

That's how the majority of people in the "third world" get sucked into situations where their politicians tell the what to do and not do - instead of the people telling the politicians what to do and not do. They (the people) think they will be safer with "strong leaders".

[@Natchler]

Don’t forget to praise the dog each time it does something you want, such as stopping and doing nothing.Then it will eventually be happy and know what you WANT as well as what you don’t want. Remember, dogs want to be appreciated for doing something, not just told off.

[@michaellawrence1978]

"Hi, Mister Cesar"... this adorable little boy just stole the show! What great manners!

[@kaibil7244]

Exactly what I thought 👍🏽

[@kemamack3625]

So true OMG I love this kid!!!!

[@chupatelotumismo7677]

But grandma so useless 🙄 Why having a dog ,if you don't know shit.

[@Pfirtzer]

Lucky he wasn't brought up in the hood, imagine how he would turn out to be....

[@bimron3910]

I love that Cesar said "treat him like a dog, not like a human."

[@daisysfarmsonnotalottaacre4895]

Truths. Most humans don’t realize dogs think differently and need people to think differently

[@ericcartman1745]

Exactly humans love their dogs more than they love other humans lol

[@debahern7101]

Absolutely, dogs need to be treated like dogs. Treating them like 'a human child' is disrespectful to the dog.

[@tiffanyq.6004]

That is a major problem in the human/animal world these days. Humans need to stop treating animals like people or using animals to fullfill a human role. They don't understand being treated as a human and usually it actually sucks for the animal.

[@bellamoments5908]

I disagree to an extent. Treat a dog as it is...theres enough of hours in the day to treat our animals as our baby!

[@jesterday2222]

Be rational people! Would you rather have your dog live through some 'uncomfortable' moments OR live in fear for the rest of his life? (this dog was not hurt in anyway by the way but you get my point) You are helping your dog to lead a happier live. Always keep that in mind.

[@user-gy4xp2tu6f]

agreed. even laws protect dogs more than people. it's stupid

[@TimothyBrake]

This should be obligatory learning before buying a dog…. The world is a better place with Cesar teaching dogs and dog owners 🏆

[@EtreTocsin]

Man that kid’s EQ and IQ are off the charts! That mom must se so proud of her kid. What a little gift.

[@evren0328]

I’d like to see a video on dog constantly barks on a walk when he see people’s or other dogs. Thanks!

[@alfrednicholas5503]

Wow intelligent Cesar hi there are things going with you over there 🐶

[@alextimson9745]

Your dog thinks he's on pack leader duty. When he barks at other dogs and people, that's him going into protection mode. You need to switch the dynamic and become the pack leader yourself. This will allow him to relax and keep him in a calm state. There's a really good post on this if you Google: 'Blogger 123 Recall' - Hope this helps.

[@evren0328]

@@alextimson9745 thank you for your reply and reference. I need all the help I can get!

[@BROKENDEMON]

There's a video! Scroll through his channel and you'll find it.

[@sandranewman5067]

I would too.

[@shielaaposaga2394]

I wish I could train my dog like this

[@Cantocourse]

You can!

[@Tan_Z]

Such a sweet family and Cesar Millan is an amazing man!

[@rickmontanaro458]

calmly hold her slowly very slowly.

[@laurateaho-white9654]

That kid is smart, really smart. I hope that his gift of recognizing behavior will lead him to success..

[@fredjohn6064]

Hi I sew this comment of yours under this nice post that caught my attention. we are not friends on KZbin here but if you don't mind, let's be friends here.. 🙏🙏

[@robinmorales5365]

You’re right, not gonna lie, him recognizing the dog backing down as a sign of fear was very smart for a 9 year old.

[@melissasigalas2154]

No. It's more that most people are not smart

[@justglenn1037]

The kid is smart but the mother is too soft. The kid's reaction is not normal. Someone needs to toughen that kid up! I realize being a "man" is very unpopular, but he's growing up to be a scared mama's boy.

[@NazanFennell1111]

He is the only one who understands the situation. Lovely boy!

[@QueenTaj7]

Such a respectful kid. Way to go Mom! I felt so bad for him.

[@tottart56]

@Sunrise Boy I hope you don't have any dogs.

[@tottart56]

@Sunrise Boy People who have dogs and love them, treat them with respect, because that is what they deserve. You obviously have an issue with treating anything with respect. If you don't like dogs, why are you watching these videos ?

[@VeganRiotgrrrl]

@jefferey johnson That's animal abuse!

[@seanainohearcai3860]

@@VeganRiotgrrrl It’s necessary. When a wild wolf disrespects the alpha or challenges him, what happens? He gets bit, sometimes there’s blood, the alpha can’t discourage that behaviour by just barking. And getting bit is a lot worse than getting a slap. If you don’t assert dominance over the pack one of your dogs will, that’s when they start disobeying and that’s when shit hits the fan.

[@seanainohearcai3860]

@jefferey johnson Agreed, I grew up in a hunting family and we used dogs to collect shot birds and the like. You need complete control over dogs in those situations lest it gets shot by accident.

[@brianmitchell4957]

Your'e the man...love to watch your shows ..please Cesar don't stop. 😊 You are helping millions of dogs and owners..Your'e talent is God given my friend ❤

[@Anew1008]

That's amazing! Your amazing ceaser!

[@gwynt909]

It is far easier to train dogs than to train their owners.

[@sortathesame8701]

Dogs rarely need training, it is their owners that need to be trained how to treat a dog like a dog, not their spoiled child!

[@knowledge1366]

​@@sortathesame8701 now u just sound dumb.. ''dogs dont need training'', yeaa keep on dreaming..

[@jeanettefox8807]

That is a Big Amen

[@pilotmom9755]

Petting him to comfort him is encouraging that behavior

[@WhatheFIsgoingon]

The kid or dog 🤣

[@joincoffee9383]

Selfish owners

[@diggysmom8199]

Bingo

[@IbelongtoJesus.]

​@@joincoffee9383not selfish, needy

[@jimx45]

People pet animals for themselves not for the dog

[@Ukepa]

I always pick up at least one good idea with each time I watch Cesar

[@fergie-kx3us]

How not to train a dog?

[@perssontm1628]

@@fergie-kx3us Is that why he gets results? Because he knows how not to train dogs? No...

[@fergie-kx3us]

@@perssontm1628 It depends on what you consider a "result". You can intimidate a dog into submission, sure... or you can train a dog with kindness to adopt a certain behaviour because it knows good things will come its way until the behaviour becomes second nature, rather than adopting a behaviour because it's afraid of the consequences. Which way a person chooses says a lot about them not just as a dog trainer, but as a human being.

[@perssontm1628]

@@fergie-kx3us You think that’s what hes doing??? Have you ever seen him hurt a dog? Have you ever seen dogs scared around him? Because that’s not at all what hes doing and it’s laughable that you see it that way. Hes confident, calm and loving in all his encounters with dogs, and the dogs are always calm around him, it’s really wierd how that is scaring them. All hes doing is correcting bad behavour. Dogs NEED an alpha, they need someone to be in charge. Just because you give them that doesn’t mean you scare them into submission… If what you see in his videos is scaring dogs into submission, then by your logic, you can’t ever change a behavour of a dog without abusing it..

[@fergie-kx3us]

@@perssontm1628 There are many videos in which he physically harms dogs. In this particular video the harm is mainly psychological. He acknowledges that the dog's behaviour is due to fear. Instead of creating conditions in which the dog understands there is nothing to fear he admonishes the dog for expressing it's fear by prodding, poking, shhting and depriving him of access to a space where he feels safe by yanking him off the sofa when the boy enters, without the dog actually having done anything wrong at that point. He instructs the dog's owner to withdraw affection and reassurance. Instead of helping the dog to understand that when the boy enters the room good things happen, he signals to the fearful dog that he's right to fear the boy's presence as the boy's very presence means that bad things will happen to the dog. It's psychologically damaging and doomed to fail. Your understanding of dogs and alphas is flawed. Dogs in the wild actually live cooperatively. I'd be interested to know where you got that information from. Milan, right?

[@carolharvey8631]

All of the owner’s anxiety is being passed on to the dog. It’s not easy, but she needs to be ‘in control’, for his sake. ❤

[@yanishameesh7965]

Exactly 100000% zero tenths 0 scaresness only confidence no fear

[@noifsorbuts]

Dog needs a leader. It’s her, not the dog. I wondered if the message was going in.

[@SirViving]

That young man is extremely polite and well mannered. 👍🏻

[@ncode03]

Grandma is a sweet lady. I appreciate how she's trying hard to understand Cesar and learn to communicate with her dog.

[@lawofattractionc61]

dont think that is what is happening

[@sandraoaks7887]

@@lawofattractionc61 what do u think she’s doing then?

[@sandraoaks7887]

I do too, ncode03! 👍 She appears 2 b an emotional & sensitive person & her loss is a sensitive area 4 her. She also appears 2 take on others hurt /fear & try’s 2 help them which is find 4 humans but only 2 a point as well. Dogs need 2 b approached differently, I hope this will help her, her dog & daughter & grandson. 😎

[@abelflores5976]

The lady is an emotional wreck and she’s causing the dog to want to constantly protect her. The dog needs a leader and someone who can discipline. I don’t understand why she just won’t put him in a dog crate or out on the yard if spending time with her grandson was so important. I don’t see her hugging her grandkid as much as she hugs her dog...Lol

[@michele-33]

@@lawofattractionc61 that's exactly what is happening. I've seen this complete episode - happy ending!

[@learnfacts101]

Probably the kid being fearful an backing away from the door is what reinforces the behaviour too, having someone that isn't confident/shy around dogs can drive them to bark.

[@user-he7xz2gh9b]

Cesar I see you as a true professional when it comes to to dogs and I would love your opinion. When a dog is in heat, what can be immediately done to ease the distress? Thank you kindly.

[@jondo9919]

As Caesar always said, the things dogs need most are; exercise, discipline and affection, in that order. We only want to give affection because we are humans and we love our dogs. But, we must give our dogs what THEY need instead of what WE need more often. Great vid.

[@LoveDanielColin]

Great summary thanks

[@tonydenial1485]

Totally agree !

[@rebeccamenzone6101]

Yes! 🏃‍♀️📏🤗 = 🐕

[@dibui7438]

9lv

[@tumbel99]

I just love Cesar,he is truly remarkable in what he does in helping people and their dogs.I used to have a Labrador,her name was KC and I truly miss her so much ❤️😢❤️

[@karansena]

Labro is the easiest breed to train

[@vijendrakhobragade8399]

Cesar.. The Great Magician 🙏❤🙏

[@paulinenolan7979]

Watching for years and never seen anyone better at understanding dogs and training people

[@BigBoyCochise]

It all starts with better humans. Thanks Ceasar 👊🏽🐾🐾

[@Pegaseus]

I needed this for my two Maltese/Chihuahua dogs.

[@legorclfactory611]

@cesarmillan ? Maybe you can help

[@tts283]

@@legorclfactory611 he literally just saw a video on how to solve his problem provided by cesar.

[@Icheasea_T]

Lol that’s what you get for having a chihuahua mix XD

[@babyzizi1]

@@Icheasea_T don't you think that was rude? So are you breed shaming now??? Chihuahua lives matter💜

[@Finn-yt2ph]

@@Icheasea_T not all chihuahuas are mean. They are just defensive. Remember that :)

[@civic2980]

Youre never to old to stay at grandmas house. Im glad I speant nearly every summer with them. I miss them all daily.

[@marrchaney9206]

Yeah. I'd give almost anything for just one more day with my grandparents

[@user-dq6bj8kp9g]

Потрясающе талантливый ЧЕЛОВЕК!! С любовью и уважением из Казахстана. ❤❤❤

[@Kiki-wi7px]

✔ This Man Is Really TEACHING the Owner.

[@Shywer]

jeah teach them to choke their dog to stop barking because the dog does not want to get choked again for barking....... low level animal cruelty.....

[@Homynum]

Thaannkk yoooouuuuuu !!! Smh smh

[@winifredokonkwo2329]

That incessant,non stop barking is so irritating and stressful..I really felt for the young boy

[@alessandromorelli5866]

@@Shywer amazingly ignorant

[@christinehuber8318]

Always😁😁

[@fuz721]

What a well mannered, polite and clever young man Mason is. He’s very savvy even compared to a lot of adults 💙

[@Fluid36]

yes smart and well spoken kid

[@nickmyers3065]

Typically well spoken is a dog whistle for well spoken for a black kid lol but I'm sure you guys aren't doing some kind of micro agressio lol I remember when McCain i think said how well spoke Obama is. Hahahahaha its Joe Biden Americans will be pissed fucking tards "I mean, you got the first mainstream African-American who is articulate and bright and clean and a nice-looking guy. I mean, that's a storybook, man." - Joe Biden

[@Fluid36]

@@nickmyers3065 Don't know what the f@ck you're talking about mate but this has nothing to do with race, don't bring you insecurities into this conversation.

[@nickmyers3065]

@@Fluid36 wHY SO TRIGGEREd:P

[@yuliyapalkina3976]

@@Fluid36 Did you watch that video? The kid did not say a word!!!

[@angiestokes7362]

Thanks!

[@anandsharma7430]

That grandma needs to adopt me. What a gentle soul.

[@swineherd608]

I think she's annoying

[@elizabethr4107]

​@@swineherd608 💯💯💯

[@Akshay-08]

I know right.

[@kidsloveyoga6768]

@@swineherd608 she needs a therapy

[@rkmuggsy]

She would smother anyone she got involved with. Too emotionally needy right now. After one week with her, she'd have you barking every time someone knocked.

[@josephlafferty2971]

What a young gentleman well done mother

[@autumnconway3642]

Right?

[@stolearovigor281]

Growing a professional victim. Karen's wrecked a Labrador. Karens wrecked this young man.

[@1Skorpia]

"Hello Mr Cesar.." 🥺❤🥰 my heart melted.

[@harryscott2662]

Hello friend... I like your comment...How are you doing. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@louieperryanderson5751]

Same here

[@fredjohn6064]

Hello skorpia....

[@beautifuldurian]

One of the most beautiful grandma in the world!

[@bicelisGeopolitics]

min 12:10 Treat a dog like a dog. Couldn't be more agree!

[@kaceyfreinfelt6511]

Anybody else dealing with a dog that barks incessantly? I could really do with Cesar's magic right now. She's a rescue and I've only had her for 2 weeks so I've slowly tried to gain her trust each day. I've seen amazing improvement in terms of her demeanor towards me. However, the one thing that hasn't changed is the incessant barking. She'll go from 1 to 10 in an instant. Any ideas? I would really appreciate any replies.

[@dennisvictor9504]

Firstly, well done and keep doing what you're doing. Secondly, there are many reasons why a dog barks, but 9 times out of 10 it's because they're territorial / protective (or just scared) - This is why leadership is so essential. When you establish leadership, she will no longer feel the need to be protective or scared. Why? Because she 100% trusts you to take control of any given situation. It's like you're taking that job off her if that makes sense. G,oogIe the phrase - RecaII 123 BIog

[@dennisvictor9504]

As long as you're applying the correct principles, it's just a matter of consistency.

[@mariaerminiavesconi2412]

Maybe she doesn’t want to be left alone

[@lalune59]

Rubbish

[@GrandmaKof3]

My one year old Shichon and 5 year old Shichon barks a lot too and drives me crazy. I just yell. I put penny’s in an empty water bottle and shake it. They hate that noise. They bark at each other playing, and the older barks at us to give him food at dinner. I ignore the behavior, I do not respond to it depending on my mood. They do not bark at other dogs or people walking by outdoors. I am grateful for that.

[@maggiemay7040]

I have 3 pommies that bark at everything. When one barks they all join in. I have had them for 10 years now. Is it too late to fix this problem? What can I do?

[@getmoney1st312]

Do they know the word no? A lot of these small breeds have no boundaries. They’re in “your” bed, couch, lap etc. They see themselves as equal in the pack. You have to set boundaries. It’s normal for them to bark when they hear car doors slam or commotion outside. It’s the non stop barking that’s the problem. Start by saying no in a firm, loud voice so they know you mean it, maybe block off the triggered area. But start with the main one who starts barking and work your way down. Like ENOUGH MILO !! ENOUGH LULU !! ENOUGH FOXY !! Show your displeased for 15 mins.

[@getmoney1st312]

@D M Not true. And I never said to use the word no, I like to use OUT. But no is fine. You’re saying any attention is good attention to a dog, we all know that’s not true. A dog has to be taught commands. Just like sit.

[@getmoney1st312]

@D M A shepherd barking at the fence is doing his job.

[@irw4350]

hey I'm a Pommie and I dont bark at nuthin.... where are you cobber ?

[@difusionpau9898]

Where is the next part? 😢

[@anniesimborios3751]

Cesar Milan teeth is more brighter than my future 😅❤

[@mailywong9612]

Same with me

[@HeavyLikesSandwich]

Grandma is a very lonely woman and it seems like her dog is the only companion she has. I do feel sorry for her but I hope she can step up and be a leader to her beloved dog.

[@KrolKaz]

Thankfully these days there's less stigma of grandamas having sexual relationships and there are many online resoucreses for her to get sexusl and emotional relief

[@NoneRain_]

@@KrolKaz wtf lol

[@AchillesWrath1]

Hahahha

[@EuphoriaPiana]

@@KrolKaz Yuckh. 😨😰😱🤢😫🤮

[@paddlefar9175]

@@KrolKaz Women that age rarely want sexual relief, they want companionship. He grandson’s company is worth way more than a Dog’s.

[@statick160]

i liked how the boy was smart enough to realise why the dog was barking by simply watching his behavior. i'm sure that with time and effort he'll be able to overcome his fear and communicate properly with dogs

[@bobtexan592]

And hopefully Gma will gain the control of the dog she should have.

[@kasday369]

The problem is not the boy's fear! The problem is the DOG'S fear! Watch again.

[@KrolKaz]

Dogs can smell fear, the kid has to learn how to act around aminals

[@feliciasanders2066]

@@KrolKaz the dog has to be taught how to act around children. That child had every right to be fearful, so don't put the blame on him. It's up to the grandparent to make sure her dog behaves because her grandchild is more important. 🤡😒

[@mikejackson274]

@@feliciasanders2066 he had every right to be afraid of course but then again he has to learn him flinching is gonna make it worse

[@heathercoll5407]

When I look at his face and I see he's so scared I just want to hug him. Funny how she said that about her dog and not her grandson. Some ppl care about their dogs more than their kids or grandkids because her grandson was so scared I felt so bad that she didn't care

[@alexgrandizer2185]

Exactly this is what I was thinking, it is either you reinforce your dogs bad behavior and say Goodbye to your grandson or you just fix the problem and have both together without your dog being scared or your grand child being terrified. It is funny how things are prioritized .

[@crazylector]

Bro, the grandson has his mother to cuddle him and the dog is cuddled by grandma. They are all somewhat sweet but complete pushovers 😅

[@katiehouse6502]

wym she didn't care? at one point she was crying saying he doesn't come in her house. i can sympathize with her, honestly it's hard to pay attention to anything except calming your dog when they're going crazy like that. kiddo has his mom to stay with him in that situation at least

[@KR8810]

This lady takes it to another level … sheeesssshhhh

[@yvonneanderson2680]

Cesar has helped me more in these videos than in 15+ professional dog training sessions. Hallelujah for Cesar !!

[@markjordan7625]

Cesar is the MAN /energy!!!!

[@DemonsterousD]

"After every knock, he gets calmer and calmer"...well obviously. The dog sees the woman knocking lol.

[@lemon-parker]

Thanks for being such an awesome person Cesar❤️❤️

[@faivyoukay]

"They say old dogs cant learn new tricks.. it goes for old ladies too" that took me out LOOOL!!!!

[@AnandaSea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥰😍😇

[@shakalakaboomboom1]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jj-bp3fr]

Cessr makes dogs learn new tricks, never too old to learn even for humans.

[@bellavita3097]

Cesar the king. Like someone said here it’s a people problem not a dog problem.

[@tobymcgroby8967]

I notice that some of the lonelier people(like myself) actually enjoy calming them down & babying them. Not just for the dog, but for themselves. They want to feel needed. I still do it to this day, so me knowing that I have that habit isn't enough, I still act it out when I know I shouldn't. But I'm trying to change, like this lady is.

[@Carinae226]

This is me all day!

[@J_Willis58]

Yes I’m guilty of this too. Im lonely and treated my dogs like I wanted to be treated but I recognise this isn’t fair on them. I’m getting some professional help and I’m learning to stop doing it.

[@denisehoose5162]

Im the same😭. I have a 6 lb yorkie and she is the baby. I also know yet still do it. She is this way with my 6 yr old grandson. We got her 6 yrs before he came into this world. I had no idea the monster i was creating babying her that way! Im def trying this esp the nudge in the certain spot! I had no idea about that.

[@dv2033]

I'll say it since no one else has, y'all are terrible owners. Probably great people but not good owners, and to repeat the behavior after knowing your mistakes is crazy.

[@tobymcgroby8967]

@@J_Willis58 did you end up getting any help? I did. They teach ME, instead of my doggo, a "Teach a man to fish" type deal, thankfully. It's working out exactly as I was told it would👍 By the way, I have a tiny, 7 lb Miniature Yorkie, just like Denise's doggo ;) ...Anyways, I've taught her almost every trick I've taught all my dogs in the past, but I never thought the "Leave it" trick would be the key to proper communication between us & our dogs.. ..If you need help yourself, my trainer says that "Leave it" command is what matters most to start. It'll turn into something I can use to snap her out of her barking fits, by communicating to her that I've noticed what she's showing me, & that I've decided it's not a threat. It's a long ways away, but it's helpful to know there's a clear path to the goal.. That goal: To get her to STOP THE SCREAM-BARKING!🙉

[@missanthropy5808]

Buddy has become a living manifestation of her grief and pain. Sad

[@ellalynkhayeslcsw1914]

That is so true. Great insight for my Berevement group!

[@lorettamontiero2057]

I have watched Cesar “the dog whisperer“ since his very first time on TV many many years ago and I love him. He has taught me so many things to help me with my dogs, Plus I just totally enjoy watching his techniques and now he has his ranch and has gone so far I thank God for him and pray for his continued success.

[@irw4350]

the dog whisperer..... that's my pet name for my little .22

[@dmlaughlin76]

i know he was so popular then i think someone made up some rumors that his technique's weren't ethical (it's always some neo radical movement that don't know what they are talking about ) and then he was just gone from primetime. i don't know what happened.

[@LivingWithCancer101]

I LOVe this short video clearly defining leadership! This can be especially difficult for many women I think, including me! So I appreciate seeing it defined and modeled like Cesar does.

[@coleman19878]

what do i do withg 2 female dogs want to be alpha dog

[@JosetteBadger]

I love that kid and he’s so smart!

[@TmoneyBagz1]

Yes! Very observant and understands psychology

[@Robbie-mw5uu]

The kid is super smart and he speaks so eloquently.

[@anntann2]

Cesar is so good at what he does because is a brilliant shrink! His psycho-analysis of owners is what does the trick! He understands the issues so well.

[@helenbailey8419]

Stems the chaos of grief,fear and not knowing how to move forward.

[@naps3386]

Far too many LAZY dog owners. Cesar’s books and videos have been out for decades now.

[@coachbronco]

@@naps3386 Wrong type of animal pets. None of the animals fits into my interest, except horses. I knew it beforehand. I still am in love with horses for decades. My best therapy is a horse. Dog or cat or other pet does not work with me.

[@beth8401]

Sure, because if someone brought your biggest fear into the room and you started to react, nothing would help like a jab in the ribs and a "shht" 🥴

[@LoveDanielColin]

@@beth8401 yes because the fear is irrational

[@cathyolague9408]

We adopted a feral German shepard mix that was afraid of EVERYTHING!! We adopted your wise techniques to help her become a safe, calm, confident awesome companion. We even used her to help us foster greyhounds right off the race tracks, her calm energy helped them to make the adjustment from being a race hound to being a pet. Thank you Cesar. My Bailey is now an old girl and has seen me through some really tough times. We are both stronger because of you! God bless you!

[@gwendolynl.bowers9168]

Love me some Cesar...

[@MG-ww9rf]

Her son is amazing!

[@chriskennedy7534]

The way the kid was watching Cesar's lead was brilliant He could grow up to follow in his footsteps Well done mum on raising a great young man

[@m_christine1070]

That would be so great. He would be a "natural".

[@MorningNapalm]

Amazing, that is great!

[@OmegaWolf747]

It's nice to realize that the dog isn't the problem.

[@MarshmilloJB]

Mason has manners + good instincts. He knows Buddy is insecure because Buddy backs up after barking. That grandma is still grieving + her poor dog is scared, protecting the house from “strangers breaking in” and coming toward his weak pack leader. I love these videos. Cesar is king 👑

[@TheOneanjel]

I think Caesar had it right, the dog was just scared and the owner was rewarding his behavior.

[@MarshmilloJB]

@@TheOneanjel true, she was petting him while he was being fear aggressive

[@mikewilton4872]

It's almost like the dog feels the need to be the pack leader but only because it has to and in a normal pack would be the least likely candidate to be leader due to its personality. It might be while its fearful, because being a pack leader is the last thing it wants to do, even more so than other individual dogs. Basically feeling forced to do something it doesn't want to do at all where other dogs may just make it work.

[@MarshmilloJB]

@@mikewilton4872 Yes, great point. As Cesar says, most dogs were not born to be alphas, so they're uncomfortable in that position. The poor dog in the video is so stressed by his role as the pack leader, a role he's clearly not born to occupy. Thanks for commenting :)

[@heatherd9340]

I would love to see some videos talking about breed specific traits/problems to look out for from Caesar's perspective. I love how you interact with all the creatures!

[@samanthastubberfield8975]

Im pretty sure ceaser would say its not the breed ever. Its always the ppl who raise them.

[@lexburen5932]

he always says what the breed is doesn't matter, its the human misunderstanding of the breed and misinterpretation. you know a Chihuahua would never be a quard dog. its examples like this

[@mickw.4912]

Where does Cesar visit?

[@MariaFlores-qw2lm]

Love your show,,faithful follower

[@RubenDan-bg5xz]

Hello Maria, how are you doing today.

[@mnaao6110]

"Treat dogs like a dog and not like a human" - Bingo!!! Cesar Millan

[@sachinisg]

Keep the dog out of the house... simple

[@paddlefar9175]

@@sachinisg Ha, you don’t need to go that far. Just take charge and demand manners from your dog. It’s not a newborn human baby.

[@sachinisg]

@@paddlefar9175 I have seen people building a seperate house for the dog, even we have done the same.along with a small playground for the dogs in front of the house 👍

[@Lacroix999]

@@sachinisg it’s not that simple if you don’t also solve the dogs issues and correct them. That won’t stop them from barking at every little thing, it only stops them from doing so in the house if they’re not in the house to bark. At the end of the day, a dog is still a dog, but I have a hard time trying to picture this woman just ditching her dog for a outside dog house especially since she feels so close to him. That dog, even though he’s not properly trained is probably treated a lot better than most people who get a dog and ditch them as they get older for the back yard on a chain. Her emotional attachment to him shows she’s not that kind of pet owner. She definitely needs to work more with the dog to get him to behave better. Doing so is just hard, I’m sure, in her type of situation where she’s to attached to him to fill that emotional void from losing her husband. She seems like a very sweet and lovely woman, however, it takes more than just feeding, grooming and caring for a dog to have them be ‘good’. Most people don’t understand how complex ’pets’ are and how each individual animal has their own way of being on how to care for them in a way that we can understand how their brains work. It’s a bit more than ‘I want a dog to make me feel better’ type of thing and even then more than likely the dog is there to fulfill the humans needs over the animals and I mean no disrespect when I say this, but most people don’t realize that this is a bit on the selfish level. Humans, as intelligent as they are, don’t always get it right even as well intentioned as they may be. Back to my original point, while dogs may be animals, but banishing them to the back yard is not the answer and won’t solve this issue even if you have a really cool set up. So, no, it’s not as “simple” as you may think. Also, what’s the point of having a dog if you just keep them outside all the time especially if you’re going to be ‘lazy’ and not train them? To do so is very irresponsible as a pet ‘owner’ and doesn’t make up for not doing right by your dog thinking you are able to ‘simply’ get off the hook in the much needed training department.

[@sachinisg]

@@Lacroix999 I appreciate your insights and I thank you for taking your time 👍.

[@dalerobinson3184]

Mason is a bright littel man. Just love him.

[@ushakaur2587]

Fantastic. Thank you very much. 🙏🏽

[@lakieshasciarra2445]

I love how she had no control of her dog but she felt confident he wouldn’t hurt her grand child if you can’t even calm down your dog or properly read their behavior you should not be convincing others that he won’t hurt them

[@dcwatashi]

Yes, she is definitely a clueless homeowner

[@datmanbrooksiehd875]

That’s a well mannered young mind. You can tell Mum raised him well

[@SusanHopkinson]

Leslie is the one who is afraid and vulnerable and she’s projecting it onto the dog. When she heals herself her dog will relax too!

[@susmita15169]

Great job 👍🏻 sir

[@debbiethibault9846]

Wow, he trained the dog in all of 30 seconds

[@debbiethibault9846]

I work in rescue with terrified dogs and it takes about 30 days not 30 seconds

[@bryceharper446]

The dog is her husband replacement, hence the emotions.

[@tarot-karma-online]

Yes, but thats animal abuse. It is NOT the husband or a child. Its a dog who needs a loving home not be burdened in such a way with the grief of a person. She should go into bereavement classes, which would help her.

[@Rachel_Love.]

@@tarot-karma-online Animal abuse? Wtf are you talking about, she clearly loves the dog and clearly trying to solve the barking problem. So where is the abuse? She brought the dog in as a companion it's not like she's going home laying on the couch and treating him like a therapist.

[@RaiseTheBar4Truth]

@@tarot-karma-online Sorry, but there isn't the slightest abuse going on here at all. It's more of a problem of ignorance by the dog owner and it's not just her. The majority of dog owners assume their dogs can relate to humans in a human way, but they cannot. The majority of dog owners biggest problem comes from how they respond when they don't approve of their dogs behavior inside or outside the home. This lady, clearly wants what's best for her dog, herself and her family. She has developed an emotional attachment to the dog from the void created by her loss. But due to her emotional instability and her misunderstanding of how she relates to her dog, has created unnecessary conflicts and also the unwanted behavior from the dog! A dog will never understand human behavior or emotions, no matter how much we would want that or how often it's portrayed in movies and through the process of conditional interactions! A dog's behavior is based on their instinctive behavioral responses to it's environment. Their instincts are triggered by their environment (that including humans) which leads many dogs to be reactive by the situational conditions within their environment. Instinctive responses can be altered through the use of conditioning, by changing their environmental situations using what each dog instinctively wants or desires. Using the reward process to achieve a particular response and or behavior, conditions their instincts to perform or respond to their instinctive wants or desires! This is by far the most successful method of dog training that is known as the use of conditioning. Very simple, do not give your dog what it wants or desires when it performs behaviors that are unwanted, that includes any affectional acceptance. A dog can sense acceptance, as it's part of their instincts as pack animals. When a dogs behavior is that of what you seek, reward the dog, then repeat, over and over again. It will become conditioned to respond in the same way every time. Once the conditioning has been achieved, you'll no longer have to continue the reward process. The dogs environmental instinctive behavior will have been altered with no harm to the dog or the human! The human doesn't need conditioning, just the understanding of how conditioning works with our domesticated and beloved pack animal, the dog! A warning to all new dog owners, never allow your dog to assume to be the alpha leader of the pack withing your home! They must understand the human is always the alpha at all times. It begins immediately after you bring your new dog home... never allow the dog to do whatever it chooses. Set the boundaries early and stick to them. Otherwise, it will make it very difficult to condition your dogs behavior. Once the dog has asserted itself as the alpha within your home, it will always show a dominant behavior! That's one of the biggest reasons why so many dogs owners give up and give them away to shelters. Remember, dogs will always follow their instincts until you have established the conditional behaviors you seek. As we all know, not every dog is the same, though their instincts basically are, their breed, temperament and disposition are not! That is were Cesar Millan's expertise has risen to a very highly regarded status! As we all know, there are times when any dogs behavior can become unpredictable, the same applies to humans as well!!!

[@joshipp761]

I pick up on that too.

[@susanleitch8649]

Basically...the dog is not a person. You do the animal no favours by treating him like one. Cesar sure knows his stuff.

[@webmastermail8]

Mirror, mirror - the dog is 4 legged version of Grandma, full of nervous energy. How nice to see a well mannered young man in Mason that can speak with eye contact, respect and confidence and not look at his shoes and communicate with "like" and "in it".

[@littleme3597]

All the video's are great. Thank you Cesar.

[@aurorabuenavista438]

This is a nice content....how about on how to calm down those digs fighting ...

[@heyitsmarie5304]

It's such a beautiful family!! I'm glad Cesar can help them!!! They are so sweet!!

[@kpepperl319]

Grandma needs a lot of work. I get it... I'm an anxious person and I can see the anxiety oozing out of her. It's not easy. But the end of the day, it's all for the dog.

[@wilfdarr]

Not just for the dog, it's for the whole family, but most importantly for herself!

[@gypsygirl9999]

And for everyone really.

[@laurayoung8001]

Cats are better at absorbing anxiety. When do am feeling crappy my cat will always cuddle. Other times he's a normal cat additude.

[@KP-vl1to]

"He doesn't need for somebody to say he's a good boy, when he's not [being] a good boy.''

[@michaelwells2536]

I'm not a dog expert, but it seems to me Ceaser is saying that both Grandma and her dog were fearful when a visitor came to her house, though for different reasons. They were both sensing thst fear in the other and effectively reinforcing that fear in each other. Sensing fear, grandma treated the dog like she would a child by trying to give comfort to the dog, which in reality was reinforcing the fear rather than calming the fear. Until grandma could feel calm, the dog couldn't feed off her calm energy. Grandma didn't understand she was reinforcing bad behavior by her response to the dog's bad behavior. As Ceasar said, it is more about training the human. Grandma was reacting to the dog's fear, not its bad behavior. Until she could react first to the dog's bad behavior she couldn't help the dog with its fears. The dog needs to feed on the owner's calm energy rather than the owner's fearful energy. By not showing the dog that she, grandma, was mastering the situation, the dog took the lead and acted aggressively which is how a dog will try and master the situation, which in turn unfortunately in this situation heightened grandma's fears and everything then spiralled down from there. Putting a leash on the dog was the start of telling the dog it was not the pack leader. Reminding the dog through a touch, or verbal command that you, grandma here, are the leader reinforced follower behavior in the dog, which was in effect telling the dog to be calm which would work only as far as the new pack leader, grandma, was asserting calmness. The lesson of the leash was lost as soon as grandma showed the dog she was not the master of the situation, ie the pack leader, and the fearful dog tried to take back control through aggressive behavior despite the leash. A fascinating lesson by Ceaser. While teaching grandma and the dog new behaviors is the start of the solution for the grandson, teaching the grandson new responses was, unfortunately not revealed in this all but too short of a video. After all, I would love to know how does one teach a ten-year-old not to feel afraid around an aggressive dog? How does one teach a ten-year-old to be a calm assertive pack leader? It would seem to be unnatural for this ten-year-old who, though perceptive, is not confident by nature.

[@lynrundberg9752]

I’ve been watching your videos for years! We’ve had Shih Tzus through that time..I’m 77 and hope to be around a long time. Would it be unfair to take another Shih Tzu?

[@fernandomigjorres4677]

Dog owners should take examination before getting one dog. Cesar doing right 👍🤝

[@ProvingJesus]

"You need to treat a dog like a dog - not like a human" ~ Cesar Millan

[@GisselleBamBam]

He's training the owners more than the dog lol

[@dabulyoshb4111]

I am dealing with this exact problem. Where is the full episode?

[@jeanettelillo-stenberg9880]

Its so clear that the grandmum is letting her fear go over to her dog. I think many parents also do this to the children. Its so many things we can learn about our self thrue our dogs. Dogs are angels in discise.😘Cæsar is amazing.

[@fredjohn6064]

Hi I sew this comment of yours under this nice post that caught my attention. we are not friends on KZbin here but if you don't mind, let's be friends here.. 🙏🙏

[@sortathesame8701]

The boys mom was allowing her fear of the dog to be translated to her child too! It was very interesting to watch, without Cesar saying a word, the mom and her son both start to relax, which translated to the dog relaxing instead of watching them every second!

[@tarot-karma-online]

She is not a dog person, she uses the dog as a social comforter and putting all her fears and tears into the dog and then wonders, why he behaves like that, and even then she is putting more negative energy into the poor dog, under the name of comforting the dog, not realising, that she is creating the whole situation. At least thats my opinion. I learned from Cesars TV shows, u have to be the stron person to make the dog feel strong and trust you in your decisions.

[@darrenmiles-morland8038]

She (Leslie) should have gotten herself a quieter pet such as a guinea pig or a cat. Those pets would have given her the affection that she is looking for, and would have been far less noisy. Her grandson wouldn't have felt scared stiff every time that he visited his grandmother either. She is clearly not equipped to handle looking after a dog.

[@gypsygirl9999]

@@darrenmiles-morland8038 i wouldn't go that far...i know many dog people who provide everything they should for their dogs and then some. Just not all dog people can handle certain behavior problems. Depending on what's required to remedy the situation, some people just aren't capable. Doesn't mean they can't handle any dog.

[@gato0082]

She probably needs therapy,🤔🤓👀🙏😮😕🤔🤓 poor dog is stressed out trying to be her everything... 🐕TBH .... Wish her the best, but what about poor puppy, & grand son the puppy & grandson CD probably live togther better grandma a mess emotionally . 😕😮☹️❣️🙊Sorry 🙏 ✝️

[@milcotto4153]

@@gato0082 She is in morning. Have you never met anyone in morning?

[@hayatorpg3896]

@@milcotto4153 Ah someone with empathy. Refreshing! You get it!

[@patachon3044]

Now, how can you stop your neighbor’s dog from barking constantly.

[@dave6199]

Yes this can be a pain we try real hard to make friends with them but sometimes this doesnt work as they dont respect you so to show them some disaplyn I have used the garden hose with a straight jet of water obviously only when they wont listen usually with the word shut up. Its not really the dogs fault they are just bored home all alone but make sure you are good with the neighbour. But I am no dog whisperer.. good luck

[@stargazer7644]

Use these same techniques on the owner.

[@dcwatashi]

I don’t know what it’s called, but there is some device that you can trigger, but only the dog can hear and supposed to stop them barking

[@patachon3044]

@@dcwatashi thank you. Indeed I have just bought one. It seems to work.

[@dcwatashi]

@@patachon3044 tell me what it’s called because my neighbors dog barks a little too much for my liking

[@sandyksam841]

❤ Cesar always find the right words...

[@siamsurf]

"My Mission: Better Humans, Better Planet"...and still most people think he is there to fix the dog.

[@joincoffee9383]

Exactly

[@shmevanriceballz2857]

Well it is the dog and the owner

[@becciroutledge1146]

Cesar is so in tune with dogs, I have learned so much from him 🙏