How To Stop Feeling Broken After A Breakup | Part 1

[@susanleonard1621]

Thank you. We have to learn to love and appreciate ourselves and not rely on others for our happiness. We have to learn self growth in order to be the better version of ourselves.

[@andyoneill_lifecoach]

100% Susan, couldnt agree more 😊

[@susanleonard1621]

@ We are good enough. That’s why they chose us in the first place. When they got comfortable and they felt good about themselves, we were no longer needed. We are good hearted people who love and trusted mean, spiteful individuals. When we learn to love ourselves, others will love us.

[@treenacope5806]

Brilliant video Andy Thankyou

[@andyoneill_lifecoach]

Thank you Treena, really glad you enjoyed it 😊

[@johnAcDaniels]

Great video... Can you pls do a video on how to handle Break up when you have to see your ex everyday..i.e you work together at the same job

[@andyoneill_lifecoach]

@@johnAcDaniels yes mate no problem. Its exactly what happened with me. Together 4 years, broke up, and almost overnight went from being together to just saying 'morning' when we passed each other in the office. Happy to do a video talking about it mate 👍

[@johnAcDaniels]

​@@andyoneill_lifecoachthanks so much, i can't wait to watch that video❤

[@bettytiruneh5834]

This is an interesting video. I went through a breakup 4.5 months ago that I’m still in so much pain from. It’s been really hard, I’ve been doing no contact for 2 months but I still feel such a pull towards him. He was my first love so it adds to the pain. It’s like he became a completely different person that wants nothing to do with me and it’s wounded me deeply. When I was with him I felt safe/secure, appreciated, understood, supported. Now I feel lost, insecure, misunderstood, and unsupported through life’s challenges. The logical thing to do now I think is to satisfy these needs from within and from my friends and family

[@andyoneill_lifecoach]

@@bettytiruneh5834 Sorry to hear you have been through a difficult time, but the decision to now look for those things from within is 100% whats needed now. You can learn to feel all those things yourself, and when you do, it can completely change your life for the better. Trust me. It doesnt mean you will never want a relationship again, but you wont NEED one to feel good about yourself. Make sure you check out part 2 of the video, and let me know how you're getting on. Keep your head high and keep moving forwards. You got this 😊