How To Stop Thinking About Your EX?!

[@nsesites]

Hey Jason, I thought the same way but once I had a kid, I realized that not eating sushi & drinking when your wife cant, is because carrying a baby for 9 months is very difficult/stressful/emotional/risky to health. Men dont have to go through that, so its just courteosy and care for your wife. Its an unwritten rule dude. Youll get there once you have a kid my brother. I understand you though.

[@kiku-h7r]

Nah, this idea that it's an unwritten rule or should be this way is this weird group think devoid of reason. People who don't know "couple a" who think they know better and want to force their values onto others. Superiority complex? Emotional support does not have to equal forgoing sushi & alcohol (provided moderation). Ukrainian husbands are risking their limbs/lives, "so it's just courtesy" for the wives to also go? And you can also look at is as men don't get to experience the joy of carrying a baby & giving birth.

[@SunsetofMana]

Jesus christ “unwritten rule” for relationships? Relationships are built on COMMUNICATION so this entire convo is so silly. Just communicate with your partner and avoid getting married if you can’t agree on this in advance.

[@squidmilker6311]

Yo Paul is a solid dude. I definitely wasn’t that mature at his age and it’s impressive to witness. You can tell when someone is destined to do big things in life and with Paul’s mindset, he for sure is.

[@R23ayy]

paul be saving us from ww3 💀

[@kevinlai374]

Paul def has a lot of maturity with his mindsets

[@deleted5339]

jen is so right about paul. cus having sisters n being in a long term relationship definitely has an impact on pauls opinions on these type of questions😅❤(which is great btw)

[@gwu08]

paul should become a firefighter for all the fires he be putting out on the pod

[@sn10344]

paul is 100% on the mindset in that jason comes from a place of always assuming the wife's point of view stems from him thinking she wants to make him suffer/sacrifice. and because of that, i can truly understand why he feels the way he does and so strongly about not wanting to do it. however, i do think that's some sort of trauma to work out in and of itself because in a truly loving and healthy relationship, you shouldn't feel like your partner wants you to suffer or comes from a viewpoint of wanting to hold you back. it seems to be a pattern even thinking about that episode where he expects his wife to follow his lead and sacrifice her career for his (and not vice versa) because there was a tone that he didn't want her to hold him back in his career. it's possible that he'll find a girl who aligns with his views, but any woman with self-respect and who knows her worth will see through the imbalance (especially when it comes to having and delivering a baby where women already have to make a fuckton of sacrifices on their bodies, careers, etc that the man doesn’t). it’ll be hard to (happily) stay in a relationship where your partner always assumes your thoughts and feelings hold them back/cause them to suffer, and jason, you deserve to be in a relationship where you genuinely feel like your partner is looking out for you, your relationship, and family. just food for thought! but I will say, i respect alla yall for running this conversation back to clarify and expand on your viewpoints. It did get a little heated but it speaks to how close yall have gotten and how much more experienced yall have gotten in podcasting to be able to ride the discussion out. also megan, you're not just emotional. you showed a lot of logical thinking in this conversation... you just need to own it! you're smart and introspective. also loving the jen + megan seating combo. You can tell they’ve really gotten closer and I love it. keep it up yall!

[@antoinette5329]

PR Paul is back for the win

[@deleted5339]

I think jason will realize once he’s older because since he’s still in his 20s and partying. so staying sober and not going out seems a crazy thing but once ur in ur 30s, working a 9-5, having a pregnant wife, you’ll realize its not the end of the world ❤

[@assassin7250]

This is why you should use condom..

[@needum9212]

He can party in the weekends with the boys tho if he wants

[@Wiichh-w4f]

“prime years, appa’s not there” 💀💀😭😭 PAUL that was diabolical 😭😂😂

[@freddiemarien]

We all need a friend like Paul

[@MaeilYogurt]

no one ever needs to 100% agree on anything and there's always details/context for each situation, but if its always a 3v1 maybe its for a reason idk. yall are still young, and "we love the progressiveness; we love the improvement". putting yourself and your opinions out to the masses isnt easy, props to everyone for sticking with it and continuing to grow.

[@amxndacheung]

TLDR: to some girls, it just feels like we might not be as important as drinking or sushi no matter how ridiculous it may sound. its just the principle of wanting to feel prioritized and considered esp when physically strained and pregnant for your baby, its not even about not having sushi ! (could be applicable for any situation) its not at all that we want to force our husbands to not drink and eat sushi to make them suffer or smth just because our life is harder. its more that we would hope our partner would want to themselves, and have no problem doing so because we're more important than not having sushi or drinking, even if it doesn't make sense to them, (not about wanting to cut out sushi cuz nobody wants that obvi). in our heads, it shows how much they prioritize us over these things, or how thoughtful they are, and shows their understanding and empathy in how much we'll suffer physically and mentally throughout the pregnancy which is for BOTH of us. in our heads, if our partner loved n considered n prioritized us, we'd hope something small like that isn't more important than us and how we feel going thru smth like pregnancy which a guy would never understand. we want to be number 1 ykwim, not only when its necessary like emergencies or convenient for the guy, we want to feel it all the time. especially when compared to just not drinking or wtv. and ofc we understand if the guy is making money for the family, and that's not to discredit that. but when you love somebody IMO, its not always a 50/50, nobody should be counting "oh i did this for you, so you should do this for me or cut me some slack". its not about being "fair". and i would also hope the opposite is true if the husband went through stuff and asked for wife to make changes the way HE likes it, which IMO shouldnt rly feel like a sacrifice in comparison to him and how he feels if he were a priority. if it feels inconvenient and restricting to prioritize your partner's feelings n wishes over minimal things, they might not be the one for you, (doesn't mean that you never loved them though). i just think you have to find someone who is worth it to you, for the sacrifices and changes you might need to make in a relationship, to be a little more selfless. bc i think its always needed since nobody is perfect. (obvi theres a line and if wife is controlling and saying "NO u cant go out ever u have to take care of me!!" and its abusive/damaging for the guys mental health then thats not ok) BUT i do also understand Jason's perspective, and i do agree its the mindset and everyone's different. i just thought to explain our thought process better as to why a girl may feel hurt if her partner says no esp if she asks. i hope this makes sense! n sorry for the long comment

[@SunsetofMana]

Imo this was very well articulated and deserves to be pinned! But by the way some friendly advice - it would be easier to read if you added more line breaks for paragraphs

[@needum9212]

It’s not even that deep tho. If he wants a little break from the wife and hang with the boys every once in a while it should be okay.

[@MaeilYogurt]

@@needum9212 ur here in every other comment saying the same thing bro doesnt need u to defend him. if a majority of the viewers have something to say, its probably for a good reason lmao.

[@needum9212]

@@MaeilYogurt just cause a majority of people say something doesn't mean its right lmao

[@MaeilYogurt]

​@@needum9212 obviously were gonna agree to disagree, but if jason continues to put his foot down on topics like this, he's going to alienate a majority of the women watching the pod. if thats what he wants, then fine thats his choice its his podcast after all. however, if even men are calling him out, his fellow co-host even, maybe its time to do some self-reflecting on why they may be doing so.

[@lalafairytales]

I completely agree with Jen about how Megan and Jason have different ways of showing love, and neither are wrong. Similar to how a lot of girls are emotional, there’s a lot of guys who are logical (like how Megan said most of her guy friends answered the way Jason did - although his approach could’ve been better). In terms of compatibility some would match more with one approach more than the other. Honestly, sometimes too much of one is bad and balance is needed. Similar to how Jason can broaden his perspective into the emotional side more, I think Megan can do the same for the logical side. I used to be more of an emotional woman to be honest and after some experience I genuinely think that sometimes leading with emotions too much is not a good thing. I think people need to stop saying that Jason wouldn’t be successful in a relationship, etc. As a girl, personally the answer to the question wasn’t that big of a deal to me because I wouldn’t make that request. That’s just because it’s not a big deal to me but it can be to other women and that’s totally cool, so definitely case by case. I think it’s valid for women to make the request given they’re carrying your baby and have to refrain from drinking. Also, I think sometimes people fall into the trap of correlating things - like just because he wouldn’t do this means he also wouldn’t do this. Understandable that people do these correlations to prove a point but in reality it’s not that black or white and it’s very subjective.

[@felicechang280]

I think Jason hasn’t reached the point of maturity where it does not matter HOW someone delivers the message, it’s the message itself. Young people have egos that tend to care a lot about the way someone speaks to them, their tone of voice, if they are being respected, if they feel they are being restricted…etc but when you mature you look past all of that and try to see WHY they want what they want and focus on doing what’s best for THEM first before thinking of yourself. And this just comes with time and love experience and the commitment to putting someone else’s needs first. Right now he just needs to not be restricted or controlled (for the sake of it) and that’s probably fine for his age but would definitely not be green flag for adult relationships 😅 I also think for women it makes us feel like we’re on the same team! Like we do it together , through the hard times together. Not that we want you to suffer with us, but it doesn’t feel like we’re playing on the same team if you are enjoying yourself while we are not!

[@jacquelineldl9636]

FR 1000%

[@needum9212]

Nothing wrong with wanting to take a break from the wife every now and then even if she’s pregnant. She’s probably wanna go hang with her friends to

[@ekim9579]

Best way to have a healthy discussion is to not use the word “YOU.” The word can come off super strong and accusatory and causes the other person to get defensive. Good discussion though from Megan and Jason, and I see your point brotha and Megan as well.

[@edgarmartinezBAY2MELB]

take a shot every time Jen says "honestly" and "that's crazy". Its a lot easier said than done to speak for an hour without using soo many filler words...props to all 4

[@TheJonbonesjones]

This dude Jason doesn’t learn and doubles down 💀

[@needum9212]

Cause he said nothing wrong

[@ph57pe03]

I really like Paul in this episode!!!

[@jeromerueda8484]

Paul’s skin looking mad good

[@rheanslcs]

dude ya just noticed that paul what r u doing???

[@imocha22222]

Jason needs to listen to Paul. What Megan is saying is not even extreme.

[@needum9212]

Jason didn’t even say anything wrong

[@jelanster848]

u listening w ur ears closed

[@needum9212]

@@jelanster848 who me?

[@Emily-b5k]

i was literally losing brain cells listening to Jason try to defend wanting to come home drunk to his pregnant wife because not doing so would "make his life harder" 😭i had to skip the whole section

[@imocha22222]

Jason is the type to think that if he provides financially for his family, he has a free pass to do whatever he wants 😢

[@kenneseyl2819]

IKR😢😅

[@RizzAdobo]

yea its hard for him to relate because probably none of his friends have kids at the moment, he doesn't seem to understand the burden of having children is not just on the mother.

[@jaylaa.rianaa]

i just dont agree with jason, LOL STILL STANDING ON MEGAN'S DECISION. jennifer's right. thats the end. grow up jason 🤭

[@kristynlopez8887]

Coming from someone 6 months pregnant - I’ve never expected my man to stop eating sushi or have A drink. He provides for me in so many other ways, that I don’t feel like since I can’t do something, he shouldn’t either. I agree that if the drinking is a problem then that’s a diff story. But I srsly don’t see the harm in him having sushi or a drink or two once in awhile 😂 exactly what Paul said, take the extremes out. It’s not even that serious lol. I totally hear Jason’s side. And the other side seems a bit emotional…but as a husband/partner if your girl is THAT pressed about it and you truly care about her then maybe compromise and not be a quick “HELL NAH”

[@JoeAversion]

You guys the only pod I can watch start to finish.

[@hexbug9171]

not him doubling down 😭 ty paul

[@nicopaduamusic]

And jason wonders why megan dont want him like that

[@RickyTheCoolCat]

Jason's energy just doesnt match his own stage of life yet

[@Wiichh-w4f]

anyone else think megan would be really good for love island 😂😂 MEGAN send an application for 2025 i think u would be a great islander 👀

[@kidtevy]

omg so true megan ik u see this CONSIDER ITTT LOLL

[@Wiichh-w4f]

@@kidtevyfrr we need some more asian representation on reality tv

[@KristenNeri-u1h]

YESSS

[@kenneseyl2819]

so disappointed seeing Jason change the question and situation blaming turning tables to Jen and Megan to feel bad for literally asking for the minimum, Jen and Megan are so patient and kind. Jason is the perfect ex of immature and victim mentality. It was a simple would you be sober for your wife and CHILD. they didn’t try to manipulate or anything. Also Jen is spot on, it’s clear he never loved someone truly, because this isn’t a normal reaction . Jen and Megan, please don’t let him affect you girls on what a REAL MAN would do 💕

[@WingsHorns]

No that's just your opinion. Don't try to villify others because you don't agree with their point of view. This has nothing to do with maturity. You are not the arbiter of what's right or wrong so don't act holier than thou.

[@RizzAdobo]

I think we need to understand is he's giving that explanation of his current situation right now, he's fresh out of college and still in that party mindset. I'm sure if he found out his girl/wife was pregnant his priorities would change and so would his mindset. It's a very maturing situation and he would even realize going out with the boys when you have a pregnant wife at home is a bit selfish.

[@frankyng4159]

@@kenneseyl2819 it was simple he said no respect his opinion. It was a dumb question anyways

[@kenneseyl2819]

@@WingsHorns i’m speaking my opinion. everyone is sharing opinions? if anyone it’s jason vilifying Megan and Jen by questioning and pointing fingers at them saying “You want your man to suffer”… if anyone it’s him vilifying 2 girls who calmly expressed their sadness over his outlook on his own wife and baby 🤷‍♀️

[@kenneseyl2819]

@@frankyng4159 i think everyone is having a conversation about their opinions. i do respect his, but showing how others will react when hearing it, as he did to Jen and Megan, and us viewers . i don’t think it’s a dumb questions as every couple will face this situation when becoming pregnant and speaks very loud on their morals and mindsets. 😊

[@bxrbiedxll]

This episode is exactly why I prefer this podcast over others

[@davidho9275]

jasons takin fat Ls these 2 eps

[@WimpyKid4567]

Timestamp where he does?

[@TheJonbonesjones]

@@WimpyKid4567it’s in the description bruh

[@LCC85]

Love the passionate debates, as gives us food for thought. No clear right or wrong, so Jason, ignore the hate comments, you can't please everyone in life. You'll find someone who can deal with your style, and that's it.

[@T1-1oc]

Agreeing to disagree is an art mastered by few, but when done shows maturity. Megan makes a great point that this type of discussion answers the toughest questions that many don't even ask their friends. These questions are the ones that make this podcast lit! But I also agree with Jason that asking a husband to restrict/limit his diet based on a pregnant wife's diet is an excessive expectation, I'm 100 on that. Marriage is a commitment and is a 2 way street, the needs of the wife definitely matter but so do the needs of a husband. So this debate seems like a want rather than a need/necessity tbh, hope some could empathize with that.

[@tyayalilt2541]

Paul a legend ong😂

[@egodrunk]

Paul high key seems like the coolest mfer to have as a friend.

[@chillaesthetics7587]

It’s ok to be different, because that’s what makes the podcast more interesting because if everyone agrees then it’ll be boring, it doesn’t mentally challenge your brains. At the end of the of the day just hug it out and respect each other. ❤ to all the people hating on Jason, just chill like not everyone’s gonna be the same.

[@Aspiremealpreps]

I’ve had many friends like Jason I’m 37yrs old people like Jason will make not much money will be alone living with his parents at 35yrs old not married no kids no wife no gf no friends…. You actions your choices and your character will show as life goes on and when you mature and get older every decision on who you are as a person as a man will result in a consequence if your stubborn and have no compassion for women you will be alone..

[@davidshin289]

ight bro chill with that 😂😂 ur taking it too far g

[@jacquelineldl9636]

Your SPEAKING FACTS. Im 39 and still at his age , Us Men knew to refrain and RESPECT our women with OUR CHILDS

[@needum9212]

Bro what lol

[@Andrajv186]

FRFR

[@johnpham2000]

😂😂😂 ur taking it too seriously, relax bud

[@liyinchong4493]

I strongly believe both Megan and Jason will meet partner that suit their perspective. 😊

[@mtownz6215]

I'm with Jason. Equal rights, equal fights.

[@Josh-sh6oy]

Youre with jason. Ego first, pregnant wife second

[@missashleylon]

🧑‍🍳 Paul cookin

[@Nahimgood3]

Jason Tate ! The Matrix

[@aryansachdeva7551]

PAUL THE GOAT 🐐

[@bxrbiedxll]

38:32 we understand it, we feel it and we love it

[@Mr.Llaves]

Confessions was kinda lit😂

[@sLeepy1004]

Fun pod. Secret confession 😂😂🔥🔥🔥

[@gunpwner]

Ayyy Paul I remember you were talking about quitting weed recently. How you holding up? Did you deal with any depression / night sweats from quitting?

[@BowlofPeaSoup]

That was a good example of the five love languages and what each person prioritizes 👌 then how you have to learn how show fulfill your partner’s love language.

[@sotangan]

this jason debate got me dead lmaooo cant grow without some controversy tho keep it pushin guys !!

[@mlin]

who's tryna be my papi is crazy Jen 🤣

[@Matthew-jg6ni]

This title is exactly what I need rn 😭

[@busteryeet]

nah literally 😭😭

[@Matthew-jg6ni]

@@timhuang148idek tbh lool

[@deleted5339]

@@timhuang148they dont😅

[@kevinphan2015]

if only I got a penny every time Jennifer says “honestly” 😅

[@blizzard4386]

my guy jason getting revived by paul💀💀, but lowkey i understand where jason coming from. Also the confession segment is so funny and entertaining. Keep it up yall

[@blade-edge]

Poor Jason brah.....its all about maturity, like everyone said as he gets older he'll adjust. Paul and Jen are the most mature of the group. Megan I think she even mentioned before she used to be a people pleaser. And that makes you little bitter after a while, once you come into your own. After that you're set in your opinions.

[@stanleyn86]

That Olympic ice sport is called CURLING lol

[@TrueWin352]

Long-term relationship got Paul all refined and shiii 🫡

[@jaysupreme7867]

Finishing in the movie theater sounds like end credits💀

[@mhudson20]

team jason here🫡

[@rogeyo]

insert michael jackson popcorn meme

[@TheEtherable]

shooting range would be fun, and maybe volleyball?

[@methusharavi5136]

craaaazzzzyyyy segment

[@Nicksnollies]

honestly everyone on this pod really young, but shii we can all grow

[@p1nkxbebe]

megan is awesome as well as jennifer :)

[@daydreamer9249]

I will same Jason's mindset is different but I understand him cos he still kinda has the same opinions as the others but the way he puts it is kinda like a red flag

[@jacquelineldl9636]

... listen to Jason words. He keeps clarifying that hes ONLY regrets saying the "Hell no " because "no one listens to him after saying that"... hes not even rethinking his views after hearing others opinions. What kind of person is he LMAO. What a sad person that contributes nothing to society and women and CHILDREN. PFF frfr

[@needum9212]

He didn’t even say I anything wrong in the first place

[@jacquelineldl9636]

@@needum9212 good luck in life with your sad mindset on your wife and child and see how it goes being alone forever lol

[@Andrajv186]

@@needum9212BRO your crazy in love with jason ?? why you defend so hard 😂😂

[@needum9212]

@@jacquelineldl9636 so he cant go hang with his friends once a month and go out and drink? I'm sure hiss wife will go hangout with her friends but he cant?

[@needum9212]

@@Andrajv186 because people attacking him for no reason. so imma defend and I don't even know the guy.

[@Choompam]

Damn Jenn in heat haha

[@techgiantfan7014]

It’s obvious that Jason did not learn anything from the comments, just poured gas on the fire, sad =(

[@aarondk74]

Hands down , Jennifer misses her ex.

[@MVPKeeN]

Badminton or ping pong would be fun to watch

[@tonglee3137]

Megan is cute AND wild!? Lol that’s awesome. 🤩

[@needum9212]

Y’all need to start streaming

[@Chickenwingchickenwing320]

Wait a min… y’all did this again… where the title has nothing to do w the video LOLLLL got bamboozled

[@tonyvongkhamchanh3158]

So when you guys coming to a WA show ? The gorge??😊

[@yasmeennassar704]

Hi 949 👋🏻

[@spacekid6785]

The rave talks are lowkey annoying asf. Yall should add a timestamp label for the audience to skip over.

[@davidshin289]

Stop hating on Jason guys please my man just trying to say he finna have a drink once in a while 😂😂

[@BoSFTank]

rip jegan

[@Marks_Visualss]

Que lil uzi the way life goes

[@sLeepy1004]

😅😅 lol maybe need some super bonsai for drinking times. No hangover ? ❤❤❤❤❤

[@seempl3]

Damn, y'all talk bout raves wayyyyyy too much. I don't think y'all ever had an episode were ya guys never talked bout raves. Just sayin

[@bobb.2260]

it's not even about the music, they're just trying to ho around at raves

[@theelitelifeee]

Yall still popping molly in this economy? Wild

[@nelycasas3035]

Yall back of Jason. That’s his point of view and yall don’t have to agree with him.his wife in his time will love the man he is. I do believe he will be a soft guy to the woman he loves. When the time comes he will mature.

[@davidshin289]

ay jason i got yo back brudda

[@jay-sk3pc]

아우 메간 너무 귀여워ㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓㅓ

[@urbanlights]

jason just been listening to too much andrew tate to replace his father

[@condiwashere19]

Megan r u going to BTSM?!!

[@frankyng4159]

Megan with the trap questions 😅 I respect Jason opinion .

[@Choompam]

Also you guys should sit like this more often, yall basically forgot the camera was there

[@JCProductionz]

I cannot listen to Jason speak man

[@needum9212]

Then don’t watch lol

[@JCProductionz]

@@needum9212 nah I just watch for the other people, they talk a lot more so I just skipped over the part I didn’t want to listen to, no biggie

[@needum9212]

@@JCProductionz oh lol honestly good thing you did skip it they were hanging up on Jason for no reason

[@Andrajv186]

@@needum9212are you Jason why you glazing him so hard lol

[@needum9212]

@@Andrajv186 im just sticking up for an opinion I agree with.

[@WayyyUpThere]

All I’m saying is opposites attract 🤷🏻 #JEGAN

[@ReedJacobs]

Megan still want him to say “yes I won’t drink when you’re pregnant”

[@needum9212]

I agree with Jason tho he should be able to go out with the boys if he wants to. If he actually ends up wanting to when he has a kid who knows. But he’s not in the wrong for wanting to hang with his friends and go out every know and then if he wants.

[@subak9265]

35k subs

[@bobb.2260]

Team Jason Paul's just trying to appease the girls and too scared to get canceled again

[@davidshin289]

I dont know why you guys are hating on Jason for this. Hes saying that if he goes out with his boys then hes most likely gonna drink but if not he wont 😂😂. I dont see anything wrong and my gf doesnt see anything wrong either so. I think the way he said it just came out really extreme but I know my man just tryna get his argument thru. I got yo back Jason

[@needum9212]

I agree with him to. I’m sure his wife in the future would wanna have a girls night and Jason will have a guys night. There not gonna be together 24/7 lol

[@Andrajv186]

because he’s not acting like a good moral and honest man to his wife and child ? lmao. not that hard bro

[@needum9212]

@@Andrajv186 first of all he doesnt have a wife or kid. and there's nothing wrong with him wanting to hang with friends every now and then and go out and drink. I'm sure his hypothetical wife would wanna hangout with her friends to. so whats wrong with him hanging out with his friends. its obviously not an every week thing. probably like once a month.

[@EdwinTheGreat337]

Jennifer is my future wife. Jennifer sorry about the ugly profile picture. I will show you what I look like next month because I'm waiting for the wounds to heal. They don't call me "Edwin the great anymore." Just scar face Edwin. Jennifer I ❤ you.

[@mex_kirito4671]

jen saying she likes hispanic guys all hispanic men including me : we have a chance!!!!!!

[@kevinsong5063]

What is their body count to be giving these advice ?

[@gettmonnnie]

megan is just as in the wrong as jason when it comes to their use of words. he clearly said he’s not about to be partying everyday or even every weekend. pregnancy is 9 months. i think it would be perfectly fine if he were to go out for a special occasion for example a friends birthday or any milestone within reason. people are so sensitive and take things to such extremes without paying attention to what’s ACTUALLY being said. they both are valid to feel the way they feel. my god.

[@russellko]

first 🎉

[@liamh6686]

Good job! what an accomplishment 😂😂

[@russellko]

@@liamh6686 ur mad

[@liamh6686]

@@russellko I'm proud of you mate 😍

[@yasmeennassar704]

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