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@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
Any of the guys have the guts enough to expose how a girl can tell you like them publicly in Yapa238?? 🤔🤔😏 #WillYou #AcceptTheChallenge?? 👇🏼 Ps. If this comment gets 15 likes, I’ll tell you PERSONALLY what I do to let her know! 🙈😬🔥 - - - - - (2 Days Later...) So y'all came tru with the likes I see... 😏 So this is how I'd personally let a girl know that I liked her. #1. Show Interest Assuming that we had already met before and I decided she would be someone I'd like to pursue, I'd make it obvious to her that I liked her in a subtle way. Maybe a few "prolonged glances" to let her know that, "Hey. I see you. I think you're someone worth pursuing." #2. Showing Up Obviously, if I think she's someone worth pursuing I'd engage her as quickly as possible. Not in a rush, awkward, or nervous way, but I'll definitely do my best to show up around her. Maybe hang with her friends, be in her vicinity (close around where she hangs), and definitely make sure I "found" (😂) myself around her as often as possible. Not stalkerish - friendly in fact -but because of point #1, she'd hopefully know that I'm showing up like a friend, just with a more than a friend interest. Lol #3. Being There The socials are a great way to connect and vet. I'd follow her on her socials and watch what she posts, likes, and comments on with interest. Why? Because if she's liking ungodliness or worldly things in excess and is not showing a tendency towards the things of God I can count her off the list. What your social media activity tells about you is important to me so I'd like to see her socials be as Godly as she portrayed herself to be when I first saw her (taking in the fact that I wouldn't go for someone, no matter HOW stunningly attractive they are, if I couldn't pick up a heart towards God from them from our first few interactions). There are a few other things I'd consider applying to my "Let Me Let You Know I Like You" arsenal of things to do, but I'll save that for a later video or blog post! 😉 *Disclaimer:* This is how I would do things. I've spoken with my spiritual authority and they're completely fine with my approach. NOW, that doesn't mean yours would, but that's the beauty of individualism and Jesus placing you under the spiritual authority He intends for your life. Obviously not everyone's approach will be the same, but as long as the end result and His will is accomplished, you've scored BIG! *WOULD YOU ROLL THIS WAY FELLAS? LET ME KNOW IN A COMMENT IF YOU WOULD OR NOT!* 👍🏼
@usuariodesconocido5666 жыл бұрын
Yapa238 that's 15 likes
@annadavis23996 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if it’s only me, but I think it’s better when guys are clear and intentional with girls, instead of JUST showing signs of interest. That’s cool for awhile, but ultimately the relationship won’t go anywhere serious until you speak up. Just my opinion...😜😊 Great video! All of your stuff is spot on!👍🏼
@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
I can agree! But it does ROCK a guy’s world when the girl he’s interested in shows signs back to him that, “Yeah, I kinda like you... ☺️” 😂 Like seriously, it’ll put him on cloud 9 faster than you could blink. So ladies, if you could go ahead and show some signs back, that’ll be great... 😂🤪 Also, fellas. The ladies want us to speak up!! They’re waiting for you... 😏😏😉😝 Thanks for the insights!! 👍🏼👍🏼
@annadavis23996 жыл бұрын
Yapa238 Very true, great point!😊👍🏼
@lisahenigan45686 жыл бұрын
Anna Davis yes Anna!!! Preach!!! Also, I didn't know you were Yapafam too!!!! Miss you!!! ❤😂
@annadavis23996 жыл бұрын
Lisa Deaver aww Lisa! I miss you too!💗💗
@jessicabeard51726 жыл бұрын
Anna Davis amen sister
@JeanelleDavisASL6 жыл бұрын
*adds to favorites for reference material* 😂🤗
@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
😂👍🏼I need one for the ladies! Lol
@JeanelleDavisASL6 жыл бұрын
Yapa238 🤣 good luck with that... That'd probably need to be a 3 part series 😂🙊
@autolynn6 жыл бұрын
Jeanelle Davis seriously possibly a 5 part series
@brooklyncrabtree75205 жыл бұрын
I think the look is definitely true for girls too. That and always trying to secretly-but-not-so-secretly position themselves near the guy.
@HolyRollerDannyBoy6 жыл бұрын
Sliding into the Dm's 😂
@lisahenigan45686 жыл бұрын
HolyRoller2388 DannyBoy That's impossible for those of us who don't have Insta 😂
@usuariodesconocido5666 жыл бұрын
Lisa Deaver Very True
@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
😂👍🏼
@futurekillerful6 жыл бұрын
I think the look is the biggest indicator tbh. Like i believe one thing us guys do is simply look at the girl we like more.
@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
True, true. It’s kinda in our nature! 😂🙈
@futurekillerful6 жыл бұрын
MOMO S CURLS unless you have a specific gift of the Spirit that enables you to see more into a persons personality and attributes just off a glance. Then the first impression or outside appearance is what starts the whole yeah.
@futurekillerful6 жыл бұрын
MOMO S CURLS but even with discernment at that level physical attraction is still important I agree personality is important too but yeah Eros Love is a thing. We are human.
@futurekillerful6 жыл бұрын
MOMO S CURLS I see what you mean ok about that
@futurekillerful6 жыл бұрын
MOMO S CURLS that explains it I’m 21 so around my age you know how hormones can be haha also never had intercourse or the sensational pleasures yet. But when an apostolic is 35 let’s say and they divorced someone or their spouse passed away they’ve had those sensational moments/made love all that before. They’ve gotten past the hormones as well so not as into physical appearance
@alisahall20986 жыл бұрын
There are NO apostolic guys where I live so I guess this video doesn't apply to me lol! Great video!
@alisahall20985 жыл бұрын
@Lucas Hendrickson in the country side of N.C.
@itsalaza66825 жыл бұрын
alisa Hall what city in nc lol I live in Nc
@JujuE206 жыл бұрын
YAPA MERCH IS THE BEST!!!!👌🏽👌🏽
@Cassie_Rae126 жыл бұрын
The dude that like me always follows me but in a secret-kind-of-obvious way.
@isaacm61065 жыл бұрын
I am naturally a nice person. I treat everyone the same. If I am interested in you, I will just eye ball you until you look at me. I will lock eye contact for about 2 seconds. I know this is pretty specific, but it has landed me quite a few dates.
@JujuE206 жыл бұрын
BROTHERS AND SISTERS.... I BOUGHT A REPENT YAPA HAT. SOOO COOL!!!
@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!! 😉👍🏼
@usuariodesconocido5666 жыл бұрын
Jujubean 😂 lol Jr
@seanferrebee97006 жыл бұрын
You should definitely do another one of these with gender roles reversed! 👀🙈😂
@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
That would be awesome!! If I could only get in a girls head?? 🤔🤔
@leahreed63226 жыл бұрын
Yapa238 Good luck with that... girls can’t even get inside a girl’s head🤦🏼♀️😂👏🏼
@inspiretolaugh85555 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. Planning on becoming a KZbinr, myself. It just seems like a really fun thing to do. What I love most is how you've made it your ministry. That is great, and I know that God will bless you greatly for it.
@freakman7076 жыл бұрын
Personally I don’t know ANYTHING about this subject 😂 But YAPA ladies- a key way to tell that a guy likes you is by giving a little bit extra time, a bit of extra interest in you. He tryna put some investment in to see if he could cash out! 😏 I know this because of my wonderful older brother, not from experience. 🙄
@guerlineguerrier23926 жыл бұрын
Thanks !!!!!
@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
I hope it helped! 😂😏👍🏼
@athonyhiggins31172 жыл бұрын
This young man is talking too much ,more is less and less is more.
@alexandrabates79986 жыл бұрын
I think these indicators sound great.... I just want to add something, as a lady.... That I think on...to make sure you know which lady or guy you're focused on. Personally I am cautious about liking pictures on Instagram... We're supposed to be married to Christ first... and if we're going around liking every guy or girls picture who we think is cute... What makes us think we're going to stop when we start dating? So while it might seem like a nice way to let someone know you're interested... anyone would like someone that isn't interested in everyone else first. Let me know @yapa if this is alright
@Yapa2386 жыл бұрын
This is a phenomenal point! The things we've covered in this video MUST be taken with the right intent and boundaries. Guys, it'll be best for us to remember that the more focused we can get on liking, dating, and marrying ONLY ONE, the more aligned we are with God's will and purpose in our lives. Plus, the more spiritual you are, the less likely you are to go haywire liking a bunch of girls on IG. Yeah, not the best thing in my opinion. Discipline of the flesh in every area of life if right and applies to our social media liking and following girls we're interested in. Be focused on one and it'll pay dividends in the future, trust me! 👍🏼 Great point Alexandra! Thanks for bringing it up!! 👍🏼👍🏼
@jondailey1684 жыл бұрын
Waby chat
@jondailey1684 жыл бұрын
Want to chat
@Abbyonice6 жыл бұрын
Idk why, but for some reason this school year I've had 3 school boys ask me to be their girlfriend THREE and ZERO church boys. I don't get it. I mean I told them all no of course and I kinda plan on being single until I'm like 25, but still. Why does this happen? I don't dress seductively I wear loose ankle length skirts and I act modestly too so idk why I attract school boys and not church boys. I only know why one of them wanted me to be his girl and that's because he's a little on the strange side and doesn't really have friends and I was the only person who was nice to him, but I have no hypothesis about the other two.
@juanagarcia6476 жыл бұрын
Vessel maybe the reasons is bc, many of these church guys are the ones that you grow up with and they feel a little awkward. In school, it’s usually just a distraction
@victoriaengland88705 жыл бұрын
Vessel okay. You have to put it into Gods hands. If you don’t want a relationship until 25 God may have a different plan. Try to look at some of the young men at youth congress. God may want you to start a relationship younger to prepare you for marriage.
@inspiretolaugh85555 жыл бұрын
It's because of the deceiver (the devil) will try to get you to walk away from God. And he will use a relationship with a worldly young man to do so. So, just be aware of that.
@jondailey1684 жыл бұрын
Want chat
@Abbyonice6 жыл бұрын
This makes me laugh :P
@brenicolepopwell92955 жыл бұрын
To text or not to text that is the question?.?
@Miri874 жыл бұрын
How do u show a guy interest? Lol 🤭
@michelleandrews93552 жыл бұрын
yo I'm an introveterd guy and i do all of this but idk really how to tell if my crush likes me back this is my first year being a teen so i has no clue what im doin