How to Truly Forgive - Part 2 | Joyce Meyer | Enjoying Everyday Life

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

2:20 - Choosing to do the right thing, no matter what anybody else does.

[@LEM19284]

Let’s be clear-eyed that psychological abuse and manipulation causing personality disorders, leads to terrible behavior of infidelity, including the worse hurts. Know that whirlwind marriages after divorce, are “red flags” pointing to far more seriously focused conversations, post-trauma therapy, self-reflection, education and an even deeper God intimacy. 🙏🏾♥️

[@duniamaisha7695]

I forgive completely and i don't carry hate-only love But forgiveness does not really mean going back to the toxic

[@NolaMarieSings01]

I love the story of the woman with the ex getting married. The feelings don’t leave but you are able to choose to be mature and when you can pray for them and bless them is a sign you have stepped into forgiveness. God bless you my sister .

[@krystalgardiner5591]

This is the toughest thing I’ve had to do. I’m still living in the past, I’m tired of carrying old hurts with me 😞 now I’m angry all the time. I really don’t want to be this way, but what can I do about the hurt when the behavior still comes up from the other person that hurts me. That’s what I struggle with

[@amirahsimage9314]

It’s very difficult I feel the same way and deal with this as well Just keep asking god to give you the strength to continue to forgive the people who hurt you and continue to pray for them that’s all we can do we can’t necessarily change the way we feel about the person who hurt us only god can do that just keep doing your part and trust god to do his

[@tyslenebryant5258]

Krystal Gardiner, my name is tyslene I have the same problem like you. I don’t know how to get through the past.

[@patricetheauthor6535]

I deal with this on a daily basis and I am now trying to listen to sermons and immerse myself in all things about forgiveness. Hearing the word and immersing yourself daily will make it get a lot easier. This is what I am doing. It is not easy at all but we must keep on and make the decision to forgive! God's got us! ❤

[@2476222]

I am in that same place. First all I did was cry for a year then I cried and became froward in speach to the person, then I became angry breaking things out of frustration. Now I'm behaving better but when I feel happy, I get depressed..

[@SneakySteaks-lz8zy]

You have to repent, or change your mind. You have to refuse to dwell on the past. And I wanna ask, do you have the Holy Spirit?

[@brendahickssimmons7452]

Praying for all 🙏

[@cathimm]

Journaling has helped me so much! When I'm triggered by a bad memory and I'm out and about, I've learned to duck into a corner or go into the bathroom and I "journal " by sending myself an email. This has been my greatest tool to help process the pain and I found it does get a little better one day at a time (Matt 6:25-33)

[@2cshanno]

Great session! I can certainly attest to Jai. I broke off an engagement to my ex in 2015; the following year I found out he was getting married. Really believed this guy was dating someone else all along so I was hurt and questioning how this guy can get married, again!? But needless to say, once I was able to pray and pray and pray some more, God healed my heart, strengthen me to forgive him and eventually a prayer to bless his marriage. God bless everyone 🙏

[@kathysanchez5945]

Great video...Please remember to also forgive yourself to move forward in our journey in living a joyful peaceful life... Thank you for sharing!!!

[@neroonose4585]

This is so relatable. Thank you❤️

[@dermanydelgado9043]

yes praying for the person that hurt you is better for you

[@lovelygirl1532]

We love you Joyce thankful for every blessing. Praying for my husband‘s healing.

[@SongbirdforJesus101]

By his stripes he is healed in the band if Jesus I pray amen 🙏 praying for your husband and coming into agreement with you sister!

[@duniamaisha7695]

Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. I ask to forgive anyone whom i consider my greatest enemy,the one who is the hardest to forgive or the one whom i said i would never forgive.

[@robertamaynes311]

Forgiveness is forgetting as well because if you’re not forgetting that’s holding a record of wrongdoing and holding a record is not walking in love which is the second most important thing we should be doing. Love God and love others.

[@JayJay-sm8zy]

Choose to do right thing God wants us to do so. Amen🙏

[@evelynekapuire4232]

Thank you soo much for this great teaching, I believe God direct me to your page this morning. After long years of unforgiveness for my father and those who hurt me, i fill so release of the unforgiveness grudge that was holding me back and destroying me from inside. Thank you so much Joyce and team. I start a new page in my life and keep them in my prayers. I am free indeed.

[@comforturiel9095]

Thank you very much for this teaching, Pastor Joyce, Ginger and the other ladies!

[@faithmakwiranzou8422]

Thank you so much for this, so so helpful in this walk of life. I especially love how we can choose to stop our minds from taking us back and fueling the anger . God bless you ladies

[@joycemeyer]

We're grateful to hear that this blessed you today! We know that forgiving those who hurt us can at times be a long and difficult process. We encourage you to check out bit.ly/2wGRyvn. We hope it can be a blessing to you as you journey through forgiveness. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@traceyhenton4261]

Needed That, thank you

[@joycemeyer]

We're so glad to hear that this blessed you today. We also encourage you to check out bit.ly/2wGRyvn. -Team JMM

[@vishwasjawle8537]

Praise The Lord and God Bless You, Madam Joyce Meyer, pls pray for me, that I could serve LORD once again, I had told You my whole story, pls pray for me that I could serve LORD once again,i trust in Lord Jesus Christ He will help me, Just Pray for me, that I could get Car 🚗 and I could serve LORD once again,i trust in Lord He will help me,and I will serve LORD once again

[@jennym268]

I am so grateful for these honest discussions. I am searching my heart to know if I have any more unforgiveness.

[@gmblessedeagle7836]

Hi Joyce: My Mom and I really enjoy listening to your sermons and applying God's principles. You have given us a better understanding of the Bible. Practical principles of how to become a better Christian. Forgiveness is not easy to do, but it will set us free of bondage from various areas in our lives. The sooner I forgive the better I feel. Thanks for the step by step process to forgive someone. It has really helped me tremendously. It gives me peace. God bless you and your family.

[@melindaz.garcia350]

Hi Joyce Meyer and Women Of God! This has been my life. Abandon by my birth mom 1 yr. of age. But was blessed with a Wonderful Loving Respectful Daddy. He remarried when I was 6 yrs. old. Step mom was nice to me around my dad. But there were forms of Abuse. But I would never say anything to my dad. Til I turned 15 I finally opened my mouth and told my dad of the Abuse. He got furiously mad at my step mom. And me never seeing this side of my daddy. He made a fist and told my step mom. If you ever hurt her again I will hit you! I could not believe it. I was'nt raised in an abusive family. Other then by my stepmom. I ran away with a guy from high school. We eventually stayed together. Had a beautiful family. But throughout our 27 years of marriage he was unfaithful and bore babies with the mistresses he was involved with. By the 27th year of our marriage. I didnt feel for my husband anymore. I wanted out of my marriage. I started desiring the arms of another man. Which I didnt know anyone. Caus I was a home mom n house wife. But at Church... Yes fell into adultery.. As much as I hated adultery.. I fell into it. I would cry.. And told God this is not me. I want out. I eventually was out of the adultery within a year. Husband filed for divorce accusing me of divorce.. When he himself was in adultery. After 6 years of divorce my husband an I have been able to talk right to each other. He continues living his unfaithful life cheating on his girl he now lives with. Me... Thank GOD.. I keep going forward Walking with My LORD JESUS. There is alot more to my life. Alot of Hurt!! God Bless Beautiful Women Of GOD!

[@melindaz.garcia350]

He accused me of adultery... When my husband himself was in adultery... Correcting what i wrote.

[@PuertaAbierta2012]

This has been such a blessing! I really needed this badly.

[@elaineharper7722]

Thank you so much. With all your transparency I now know my feelings are normal. I thought there was something wrong with me because I still felt pain every once in a while after I forgave someone . This talk has so set me free from guilt and wrong thinking . Thank you!

[@traya.2743]

This videos were shared by an online boyfriend who really hurt me by being abusive and very toxic (even from a distance). One day, I made the decision to end the abuse. I cut him off and took back my strength and life because I was spiraling down a black hole fast. So after the fact he's being trying to get me back and preaching forgiveness, which is why he shared these videos. My appreciation to pst Joyce and the rest of the team sharing and helping us learn from their experiences. Now my own position which I've also told him is that I've forgiven him but can ever let him into my space ever again. My question is: Is that not forgiveness enough?

[@1beachygurl]

Online boyfriend? Be careful of the company you keep, even if it is online. May God give you wisdom. ❤

[@duniamaisha7695]

...daily i pray for the divine gift to forgive and forget all....it takes time, Yes ginger step by step

[@godsgrace2124]

Thank you all for sharing, Jay you are a strong woman, God bless you all!

[@jamiebrown301]

When I asked God to help me to forgive and give me peace.. and the first thing God said to me was-“ pray for them like I was praying for yourself”..

[@chichis7768]

Awesome, so helpful. Thank you beautiful ladies. Love you my beautiful Joyce😊😍😘💕💕💕

[@Sarah-mv8nt]

I forgave my mom thankyouxx

[@elisabetgrill1788]

Thank you for all your labor of love to all of us . Thank you for not holding back . You have really helped me . Specially in my marriage. God bless you and keep you going.

[@joycemeyer]

We're so grateful to hear that! We will keep you lifted up in our prayers. -Team JMM

[@tieraBK]

I so needed to hear this especially the part about praying for someone who wronged you and thinking God is gonna bless them as far as rewards but more so God opening their eyes. Thank you. 🙏🏾

[@joycemeyer]

We're so glad to hear that this blessed you! Check out Joyce's new online study at joycemeyer.org/NewStudy. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@Cecilia_K]

Thank you all of you 💞!!!needed hear all that amazing conversation!!!!

[@TinaTina-xo8yh]

Forgiveness is the best gift one can give to self. My question is, how can you help the same person you have forgiven, when the help they need requires giving information that they once they misused.

[@anilrannavare3281]

I'm so grateful. This massage today nice. Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏

[@joycemeyer]

We encourage you to check out this teaching from Joyce at bit.ly/2wGRyvn. We pray it blesses you as well! -Team JMM

[@dermanydelgado9043]

so proud of Jai I know you touch and help a lot of people

[@samanthatermizi]

Thank you

[@mariahhernandez6073]

Amen

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

23:50 - God using your pain

[@anacleto6610]

Beloved Sr Joyce Meyer , Ginger and my other two sisters- what a wonderful talk, it's truly exciting, inspiring and encouraging us to lead a good Christian Life , with the word of our Lord Jesus 🙏 Christ is healing us , thanks a million, God Bless you all and all our listening Brothers Sisters whole over the world ❤️ Anacleto De Souza of Soncrem Shiroda Ponda Goa-India.

[@atinlongho1957]

Amen ❤️

[@dominiquepantoja5133]

Needed to hear this

[@jeromejackson3632]

I forgive my cousin Shanta for the years she hurt me but I got to move on with my life and keep keeping on sky is the limit look up to heaven

[@joycemeyer]

We also encourage you to check out Joyce's new online study at joycemeyer.org/NewStudy. God bless you! -Team JMM

[@martinmorando9928]

Love you jinger

[@jahknows7176]

Thank sunshine love you God bless sister 🙏 ❤

[@MM-ty8cm]

If you haven't accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior then please comment back. I'd love to speak with you. God bless and much love ❤ Keeping everyone in my prayers 🙏❤

[@oseoteze4579]

Amen🙏💯

[@dermanydelgado9043]

yes own your stuff own your mess clean it up God grace is there I'm doing it not easy

[@MM-ty8cm]

You are loved, you are precious in God's eyes. You are His Beloved. You belong on this Earth. If you are breathing now.... God has a purpose for your life now...... There is Hope and Love which can only be found in Jesus. God has a purpose for you now. He sees, knows and understands the pain from your past. God doesn't see your scars from your past, whether you made mistakes or decisions where made for you. What God sees is your Beauty. He sees you as fearfully and wonderfully made. He sees His Child made out of His own image. He sees you as His Beloved, apple of His eye. If you are contemplating suicide, then please comment back. You are important! God loves you and so do I. God bless and much love ❤ Keeping you in my prayers 🙏❤

[@comforturiel9095]

Please Ma, how do you get to trust and relate with a loved one who hurt you deeply after forgiving him/her?

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

10:50 - "Most men in your position would've killed me"

[@suzannethrash3866]

JOYCE ! you have HELP ME GROW SO MUCH My Grandma used to say Suzie watch Joyce I would say ok Grandma IVE been watching you seems like Forever Im from st louist oo and shed say go on down to JOYCES CHIRCH Lol LOVE LOVE LOVE so im cpming to yoir womens conferance in sepyember 21 22 23 24 cant wair !🤩

[@tarakangal6550]

Very very very nice beautiful a tremendously bless msg a msg i am sure will be a truly big big blessing god bless you and your family and all at JMM and their families love tara devi ❤ 💛 🤍 ✌ 🤟 🙏 ❤

[@melitajurca1581]

Dear lady with black hair: congratulations, you are the best!! 😊 But you'll see: this marriage won't be successful. Wait and see.

[@christineMaccallum-uo3qx]

🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@dermanydelgado9043]

yes no hard heart not healthy at all you don't want that

[@santinomiceli3180]

This is good but when the blonde lady says to Joyce you can forgive but you can't forget, if you can't forgive and forget completely, then that really is not true genuine forgiveness so whoever that blonde lady is talking to Joyce I disagree with her about what she said

[@reg8297]

She prob felt the opposite

[@LEM19284]

Self reflection is key. I live the trajectory Jai the s on. Learn what you’ve lived through, get the expert counseling and care you deserve. (Check out Dr. Ramani. She’s on the top of this matter) 🙏🏾♥️ I’m sad for these women who are dealing with the same thing I am in marriage.

[@dawnbaker536]

Amen