How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend

[@howtosnatch]

"When you keep hanging out with somebody you want but can't have, it keeps you from meeting somebody you can have." That is powerful.

[@TotallyRadCars]

You younger guys that are in high school or college especially need to listen to this one. I don't know why, buy we men do tend to get fixated on one girl and pursue her relentlessly... in vain. It sucks, but apparently that's just how we're wired. I spent 10 years chasing one girl... it fucking sucks! I wish youtube had been around back then and that I could've gotten good advice like this.

[@Trustn01718]

VintageGamer.com 👍🏼

[@marko514]

I had the same situation with one girl.. Basically a girl from bus station I almost never talked to and who I liked secretly, I added her on FB and spent literally my every second of the day thinking about her, replying instantly, watching her likes, her comments, her photos.. I was a weird motherfucker. Anyway, aftet she rejected me after I asked her out.. 4th time, I just gave up. My life ended, I cried like a fucking baby.. 3 years wasted on a girl that was never interested in me.. Well, she was, but I chased her away.. With my stalker-virgin needy behavior. I just stopped texting, stopped everything and she even texted me 2 years later and I asked her "so you still don't want to go out with me?!" after that I hadn't heard from her lmao.. Back then I wasn't familiar with this god Corey

[@bluerabbit1236]

VintageGamer.com Come on man, stop fooling yourself. Your buddies have probably told you a thousand times that there are other girls out there.

[@50wearethebest]

10 years is WILD

[@Celicni]

​@@bluerabbit1236 Taking advice from just anyone is not a good idea

[@heae90]

Just asked my friend out, and she said she just wants to be friends. So I gave her the "I dont want to be just friends, I love hanging out with you, but I want something more romantic with you. So if you change your mind lemme know" Thanks coach!

[@AngelGarcia-oy3yj]

What'd she say?

[@heae90]

@@AngelGarcia-oy3yj She's a friend now, nothing more. Moved on from the idea of her

[@AngelGarcia-oy3yj]

@@heae90If you have read it, what do you think of Coach Wayne's book?

[@TeacherJoey123]

It’s facts so read it and don’t waste your time like I did. It took a bad rejection for me to finally take advantage of this material. You might need that too but if you commit now you will be better off sooner

[@AngelGarcia-oy3yj]

@@TeacherJoey123 Thanks, will do

[@matthewkriha4624]

Cory your content changed my life. I'm part of a book club and I brought you book to it and the guys are going bonkers over it! Grateful that your mission was to create this and share it with us. I'm going to set a meeting with you just to share with you my gratitude. Masterful work Corey.

[@Ironside-fz9vd]

Corey knows his shit. This shit really does work. I asked a girl out on a date and she rejected me. I accepted it and said if she changed her mind call me. and left it at that , as Corey said. I just walked away and meant it. Guess what, I ended out dating her after she reached out to me. She is hot and isn't used to guys doing that as most guys get butt hurt and continue chasing her. I didn't. I was different to all the other guys. I only know this because I've been reading 'How To Be A 3% man', that's how I know this shit works.

[@louio]

W

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Focus on building attraction by highlighting your romantic side. Small gestures, like planning thoughtful outings or complimenting her in a way that feels different from typical friendship interactions, can spark a shift in dynamic.*

[@BlakeHerth]

I'm pretty close to just saying are you in or are you out these days LOL

[@IsabellGreen]

Out

[@justinoiler9749]

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[@NateSoRoyal]

Blake DEAD ASS LOLL

[@jakeoswald8017]

I’ve done it

[@mattttwalker18]

Same 😂

[@Tag6488]

“ just a lonnngggggg hug “ 😂

[@jakesneakeearthquake]

I would definitely recommend buying his book, over the years I've studied women on and off and went from being not good with them to having abundance of them. But I still made sloppy mistakes/still do, I bought his book and have been reading it diligently and it's helped tremendously. For years I watched his videos on and off and I finally made the purchase. It was well worth it

[@hellwithit]

It’s easy. Remember these things. 1/. They are people too. Go about it like they are the same as you. Don’t treat them any differently than one of your male friends but be respectful!!!2/. They want it just as bad as you do always keep that in mind. 3/no stupid remarks like you fell out of heaven or crap like that. Be sincere and be yourself

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

When a girl "friend" says something like that, your response should be: "Great! I think you need to get it over with and kiss me now!"

[@015cn]

Hell ya Coach! Also, CAN'T YOU LOWER YOUR PRICE Just a little...1,000 is something college students can't afford! XD

[@dustinhatch4658]

How do you do all this as a trucker????

[@acharich]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mikeavram7202]

Seeing this late but better than never.

[@goncalolago197]

I confess that when i found your channel i first thought that you were Just another youtuber. Then i read your book 3% man. I gotta admit. This is not only a great book about the subject, but one of the greatest books of all time! Thank you. I am grateful

[@timothyswindler3397]

Dude: *ask girl out* *gets rejected* Pornhub: you could not live with your own failure, where did that bring you? Back to me

[@4agony777]

LOL

[@koketsorakomane1795]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@acharich]

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@justTful]

Bruhh Post nut clarity hitting different after getting rejected 💀

[@Chuck_N0rris]

Happened to me twice and probably wasted 10 years of my life. Go for it. It is better to get properly rejected than to waste years on someone it could have worked out with but you never dared to asj out.

[@chelseytyler88]

If you are a friend.... You will always be a friend if she is married or with her baby daddy. So you better make sure she is single for one and make sure that you aren't lame.

[@davidmichaels4285]

Right I will testify that if you're being too nice he's going to play you as a chump and not even respect you when you do the honorable things at least that's my experience of someone who in my heart for 4 years! Right now I feel disrespected on love and played

[@davidmichaels4285]

It meant to say she will take advantage of you or at least leave you feeling like a champ some women are just cold and heartless and selfish to all you guys having a hard time out there snap out of it you can do it

[@sodahead0]

Oneitis is a real drag. Suffered from it for a long time, never get too intense too quick.

[@DBAViking]

I have been listening to these videos for a couple a days now and this guy makes a ton of sense a lot of damage has been done to men over the years and Im sick of the feminization of men in North American society thanks for fighting it!

[@rayedwards3652]

Dude that feminism bullshit is even bigger in UK. I say Fuck that....team Alpha all the way!

[@TonyPproduction]

Get the fucking book. You’re basically still flying blind

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

And to think - your comment was published 9 years ago…now look at where we’re currently at with the feminization of men in North America!

[@droc6927]

Just started your book today. On page 20 now for this video.

[@jacksoaresjr5718]

Why is this so accurate, this is legitimately so accurate it's ridiculous.

[@moved9095]

i recently recommended your work to a friend who was really struggling with getting hung up on a girl. your work really opened his eyes. he just finished reading the first time recently. thanks corey :)

[@marshallkeesee8188]

I am 56 single. This is the best thing I ever heard about dating and I have heard a lot.

[@natthapatkhumim5726]

When I meet someone. I'll think of her as friend. But before that, the very first time I saw her. She was so pretty! Every time we chat one on one. We both starting to get closer and closer. But then it did'nt work out!!

[@acharich]

Why do u think it didn't work out..? 💭

[@robhingston]

This is one of your greatest videos ,

[@Danmasterx19]

I replied, yes, I´m just tired. She asked me again, so I simply said: I like you. (You know, I didn´t say I love you, cause this would have been destroying even the slightest chance of turning her into my girlfriend. My brother gave her some hints I´m interested in her.) Then she told me kind of trivialized about the kiss and that in the course of time it´ll turn out who will be her boyfriend. So I hugged her for a while and finally I got back to the dance floor. *to be continued*

[@ForTehNguyen]

there is the friend zone, and the girlfriend zone

[@marthawhite3353]

Awesome video, very true. And I am a woman! this goes both ways - for men and women. You really get it. Thanks -

[@thereverendgypsy]

U always talk like u are my smart brother man to man. Regardless of what u r saying here. I love you man & God bless your holiday season

[@jimandersch5364]

Reading the book for the 3rd time, listeninging to videos you reference. Thanks for everything!

[@joshuaboryer6433]

YOU ARE GREAT!! I love the humour that you put in these videos. You make them so interesting and entertaining so I actually watch the full 12 minutes!!!

[@kNowFixx]

yessir

[@gazriley624]

i like the way you straight talk Coach! and you are spot on

[@V43xV1CT15]

Coach Corey Wayne your the man dude!

[@coltongraffam3014]

thanks bro this helped a lot actually

[@porschedriver06]

good work.. thats the BEST way to let em go and use your time more wisely meeting other just as great women as she may have been..

[@lucertola260]

Great advice. And it's not just a situation for young people. I'm fit but pretty old and am currently discreetly backing away because I can't see any credible evidence that she's interested in me sexually, as opposed to understandable wishing thinking on my part. in my experience a female wil always l find a way to let you know she wants more without putting herself in too vulnerable position. And there's always a lot more fish in our great big human sea.

[@fredrikb343]

" Giving myself blue balls" HAHAHHAH

[@dexeterdaprime2887]

fbatay pk ...?

[@natthapatkhumim5726]

That day when I know that she think of me as friend! I walk away sadly and I locked my self in my room! Crying over her for 2 weeks!!!

[@UnknownGamer-gd6kh]

Go to the gym

[@TheLastHairBender420]

Bro swear this dude has a video for everything 😂

[@soulofachristian8704]

Damn the first 4mins and 30 something seconds was GOLD!!

[@ryandonatien3513]

Im from TRINIDAD AND TOBAGO I just orded the book cant wait to read it

[@victor0039]

I love the fact that you’re very forward

[@rwp-artartinthedark3538]

I've been following your videos for quite some time now and I'm going to buy your book, I fucken need it!

[@jeffpliskin]

Yep better to make clear to any potential straight from the get go are you in this for love or not. Friendship is such vague concept from the opposite sex, so anything less than love or relationship is waste of time fully agree especially important intention to get right from the get go with those you meet online. If the potential is honest as and has the right intention they will appreciate your up front honesty about intentions and goals and only dishonest players will think you are rude or too pushy for putting it all online at the start. Life is too short for lukewarm time wasters.

[@valamolamb]

I needed this so bad! Thank you! 🙌

[@wolfie8171]

I wasted 7 years of my life on one girl, fuckin’ hurts man.😔

[@mikee3458]

I wasted 6 bro... You gotta pick yourself up and move on.. 💪 his book and vids will help

[@EMPIRETV11]

Girls just want to have fun!!!! Be fun and youll have her plus doing what Corey says. don't call, don't initiate, don't say sorry, BE a fucken MAN and create some objectives in life and Goals. A women shouldn't be your Goal!!!!

[@Phoenixmagnus]

Bought your book. Reading it now. Oh boy that explains a lot of the things I've been doing wrong. I was stuck on a girl but I realize that I just need to move on. Thanks for writing the book. I'll have read it 15 times like you recommend.

[@iamfrankcaceres]

I’m in a situation and I need to move on from this one girl

[@championboy4782]

@@iamfrankcaceres find something else you can obsess over. For me, I now spend 2+ hours a day on martial arts. My friend focusses on his work. Trust me, whatever your obsession is it clears your mind and might even lead to outward attraction .

[@Savvynomad225]

It's logic...you have to stay in your lane and find women with mutual attraction. If that's not there, it's not a good use of time to try and chase her.

[@JoyRideStudio]

I was thinking more like going to a girl and saying. -I like ya and I want ya.Now we can do this the easy way,or we can do it the hard way.The choice is yours.

[@acharich]

💀🤣💀 have u tried it yet..?

[@crumman4299]

275k people know this stuff... let that sink in that’s less than 2/100s and maybe 1/100 naturally know this stuff

[@therater2008]

It's best to move on.

[@jellyfishofjericho]

What if you are actually friends (not just from her end) and after a few years you develop romantic interest? Is there a way to change the dynamic without damaging what was otherwise a good friendship?

[@nickstrapko7549]

Depends on the woman. Could ruin things, If you think its worth it go for it

[@fargeeks]

@@nickstrapko7549 I once had a taken mother take interests in me

[@jeffpliskin]

Lame put it on the line. What good is friendship with opposite sex if their no benefits to be had.

[@rubenhumbertopascualantoni6402]

Great words sir! It’s helped me very much.

[@coreyjones4763]

I don't have the money to send you or I would! But I knew already about the truth of the subject you spoke upon on the video! I knew better then to keep trying to talk to a women that just wants to be friends! But I kept trying anyway! Very depressing to say the least! I stored this video to remind me not to get caught up or waste my time on this types of situations! Plenty of women or should I say Ladies out there! GOD BLESS!

[@Mackstatus_86]

I'm not so sure about that one. I was friends with a girl for a few months and eventually went for the kiss one night and got it (five times!). You have to look at your situation for what it is. Coach Corey Wayne is more of a catalyst than the ultimate truth. He just gave you some good pointers to use should you find yourself in such a situation. It's like I tell my martial arts students when they ask me "What technique is best?" I always respond with "Whatever f*cking works!"

[@vincentgambino546]

What would you have done if she rejected your advance what was the plan there?? Serious question as it would be helpful to know

[@georgerelax7302]

i really thought that there is no coming back..

[@qohi]

no defeat is final

[@dadamagens5897]

Sir,my friend about 1 and half year ago he had started being friends with her..after 6 months he proposed him.. she told no and he asked her she sure about future that she will not love him..she told not sure..then they came back to frndsship but i cant belive now she loves him .its after he got mbbs seat in collage .. and he again asked her still friends? She said she thinks she is in love with him..now they both had register marriage as they are inter relegious marriage ..so family prblms...so i think if u truly love her..never give up..she will be yours..and pray to GOD..

[@thefinnjamins1759]

great work man keep it up

[@JGendron1983]

Every time I pull back and stop talking to my crush friend as much she always hits me with are you mad question or the ok I will give you your space....I don't know how to respond to the second one...

[@victorlima570]

You don’t. That’s a sign of needy behavior. If the tables were turned, and you were doing that, she would dump you like a sack of manure.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

@homedoggmute thanks man.

[@InfiniteSonic-hr6lj]

In school I ask a girl to go out with me she says she was just friend with me.😥

[@onelastkast3]

I been friends w a girl for 20 years like legit friends. About a week ago we chilled and it went down. In the back of my mind I always wanted her. I’m at a cross road. We already were intimate and we talk on a regular basis. Not sure what to do next lol. Im stepping back cuz I feel that’s all I can do. I hope that’s the right choice. Any help is appreciated.

[@MattiaManzini]

Shoot your shot! Be veryyyyyy honest and direct. If it doesn’t work at least you’ll be proud of the courage you showed

[@jeffpliskin]

Lame put it on the line. What good is friendship with opposite sex if their no benefits to be had.

[@phoenixxtriumph]

Corey.... I'm in love With My Friend... But she says That we Are best Friends..... 😥😥😥😥

[@Danmasterx19]

Man, I´m so f***ed. Met a girl some 1,5 or 2 months ago in a club. She really likes me and appreciates my kind of humor. She readily gave me her number when I spoke to her the first time. I tried to ask her for a dance before, but it was way more easy to introduce my self to her with talking to her friends at her table. So, we began to meet once or twice a week and talked together. *to be continued*

[@mattsimpson1753]

You were way ahead of your time! Keep sharing 👍

[@Landofsensi]

You have so right masterchef! =))))

[@sailorjerry7282]

A colleague I met 30 years ago & whom I really ‘clicked’ with then has suddenly 're-appeared'. Twelve years ago we changed jobs and states so lost contact but recently got in touch again through social media. There was a special spark between us back then but due to me being engaged since way before I met her nothing between us ever happened. I’m now divorced & I'd love to get 'romantic' but have been out of the 'ring' 4 too long, any hints? Obviously I can't do most of the stuff in Corey's tutes.

[@rushhinton1083]

Corey has some good points.. but so does Brad Browning.. im tryn to get my ex back.. im tryn to do no contact.. then text her something.. I think its ok.. and not texting anything needy.. just texting something tht makes her wonder

[@tylerlevy5298]

At what point is it the right time to say “I don’t want to be just friends” to her? Because if you always want her to chase and for the relationship to be her idea, then aren’t you breaking that rule by admitting you want more?

[@berineayala4767]

Such good advice thank ya!!!

[@asimsiddiq7480]

I've had an ex school friend, who added me on Facebook around 2 years ago. She has said to me again and again that we will be just friends and nothing more and never will be more than friends. I really want to be more than friends, don't know how to make her more than that. She was happy taking my money to buy a nice new car, but still insistent that we will never be more than friends, just don't understand 🙄

[@petrosk7789]

those "friendly hugs" are confusing!

[@GhostsInSpace_]

I love this guy

[@natthapatkhumim5726]

Yha! I get that a lot! Once I was in high school and I know this beauty full teenage girl for the hall year that I've been there. When it was a time to tell

[@titop6152]

You make a whole lot of sense bro 😃👍

[@Devlins10]

I'm close friends with a hot mess that has been wishy washy. She has said she has been interested but scared to destroy the friendship. I wanna take a leap of faith . what do I do ? How I take the next step?

[@gigamesh780]

RUN

[@KingdomCitizen1988]

Some of the titles are misleading, Corey. You don't actually teach how to change a friend into a girlfriend here, you just tell guys to be honest about their interest and stop pursuing 😉 Where's the jedi mindtricks? 😄

[@brothadj194]

So I have a friend we are gunna hang out soon but I want to it be more than a friendship, but she does not know I like her like that how do I get her to like me like that back?

[@tctwbros8203]

But what if you like a girl and that girl likes you but doesn't want to date yet

[@matteoquintavalle2869]

Fun Noddle move on...you don't have time for this bullshit! Tell her to call you when she really wants to hangout with you

[@TitusKingdom]

continue to date other women don't be chained down. let her know (just like what Cory said) hey, I like you but I'm interested in dating. you're gorgeous, let me know when you want to. and just leave it like that. I did this with a girl who was in a relationship (didn't know she was at the time) well she hit me up 5 months later and I had totally forgot forgot about her. works like a charm!

[@hellwithit]

Tctw Bros patience

[@franciscomoralesmusic]

Blue balls 😂😂😂

[@natthapatkhumim5726]

Great example there man. I understand exactly everything.

[@sunset33533]

Have you read the book "30 Days to Stop Being a Crazy Girlfriend" by Logan Tindell? It takes a mindfulness approach with some humor.

[@samuelwebster2769]

We kissed on date 2 and 3 then she friend zoned me.. So there was attraction.. I've been in no contact two months now.. As it hurt as I did accept the friendship for 3 months..

[@anuragsharma65622]

Legend!

[@jaimearredondo787]

What about if you're short 5'4"? I had a medical illness where I just couldn't get enough nutrition (childhood cancer) and my dad is 5'6" and my mom is 5'1". I have dated a 5'9" woman who is model type quality twice but one time I was needy and the second time I didn't commit and didn't have a car and I was so focused with school I took her for granted and after the 4th date it went south.

[@wargpack3195]

aaaaaaaaaaa sould have taken that chanche coach tere was a girl ho i loved and she broke up with me and i felt lonely so i looked for another and that girl ho broke up with me wants me back what do i do

[@bobbyhendrix5399]

Corey for president

[@beansbrian1986]

I met this girl and we talked for a month before we met. During this time she was obsessed with me texting,calling me all the time.then after meeting and on our first date she said this felt real, I want a long term relationship with you, I'm all yours, I am falling really hard for you and making out in her car all night.The next day she still is obsessed with me until she talks to her father and now she needs time to think about something's and her opinions are the exact opposite of what she has bee telling me for a month now. What do I do?

[@ajunps10]

hey coach..... can u help me i hav similar problem but she always talks to me. so i can't do anything rather the being a jackass :(

[@dustinshier9555]

+vava kuttan kiss her mid sentence and say "talk to you later" that way if you get rejected at least you kissed her.

[@ajunps10]

Dustin Cherrypopper but i can't lose her

[@vdubxyz]

+vava kuttan You should try emailing him directly or at the least posting to one of his most recent videos, that would prolly grab his attention more man.

[@NinthBoss]

your videos helped me leave my bitch ass wife and now I'm with my best friend Jennifer (she's my sisters friend I love older ladies) thanks man you're the best!

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

+Jose Guzman (Jay) Awesome, good job dude. I happy for you

[@mariopalenzuela4618]

See when I stop all contact with this girl I like she doesn't text me to tell me she is sorry for whatever she did and she hasn't heard from me, she will tell my friends to tell me. And I heard her do it once before.

[@burtmanindustries]

Mario Palenzuela She may be narcasisstic

[@acharich]

🤔

[@YungGotenks]

I started treating her like a priority and she told me she wants to be friends but I’ve learned from you and I’m just gonna treat her like whatever’s because when I did ignore her she would look for me. I did cut her off but I got drunk and told her I loved her. Just gonna go back to being a player instead of a simp

[@acharich]

Ironically they don't want to be our #1 priority, that seems to turn them off.. 😬

[@7etiennelandman87]

Can someone maybe help me on this one, maybe you coach. So I have been seeing this girl for over a year now, I messed up a lot to be honest, she even told me straight she isn't romatically interested in me. But she agrees to go on dates, we have an amazing time and then come home I give her the flesh rocket 😼 . So I don't know if I should still try. I mean, I messed up a lot, which in my head according to the information is why I may still be stuck and because I don't act like a man, it doesn't go any further or I am just blind to the truth that it is just what it is. Any advice?

[@7etiennelandman87]

To add on she always comes on dates, sometimes even telling me I am hot and touches me a lot.

[@Danmasterx19]

After that, we didn´t have contact for 3 days, when I finally wanted to text her again. So we decided to hang out together today. The weather was nice, but sadly she was a little tired. I wanted to take her to a isolated, but romantic place with no people nearby, but she just wanted to sit down near me and talk a bit, which we did. Now that she knows I want something from her (I just said that I like her, but I think she kinda knows I must have seen her kissing another guy) *to be continued*

[@rayedwards3652]

Coach what do i do with new chicks who are over eager? Yes its a nice position to be in, but i really find overly eager girls a turn off! Should i use them for practice or just get rid?

[@acharich]

No good stringing them along, it may sting but they'll respect ur honesty.. 💎

[@ps3acr]

You just make so much sense its easy to remember and apply all this. Thanks Mr. Wayne.

[@romesrepublic]

Oneitis strikes again! Bruh, make a list of all the qualities you like about this girl, and start talking to every other woman who shares the same qualities. Dating and getting laid is a numbers game. The more women you talk to, the higher your chances of finding the right one and getting laid are.

[@richard10754]

I know this video’s old but may I ask we’re supposed to give up on a girl when she says we are just friends? Don’t relationships start as friendships? Also if we’re talking at work or at all and we hang out as friends to get her to want me is ignore her?

[@acharich]

Depends, some prefer to build on friendship (which is the best foundation imo) but others seem to have the #friendzone mentality.. 🤔

[@jeffpliskin]

Nope thats why there are dating sites and match making services so from the get go women know and you know the intentions should be about love. The problem is you get trouble makers scammers on dating sites especially that are on them for others reasons and they just wasting time or scamming, if they want friends only on dating site then 9/10 times they are scammers looking for $$ nothing else, asian women do it all the time.

[@jeffpliskin]

​@@acharichfriendzone lol is this some asian cultural concept, doesnt exist in westetn culture?

[@aleturr]

so how about college? i see this girl that rejected me every fucking day and its awkard. too much shit happended, i fucked up couse i had a chance before. but really im triying to move on, but I SEE HER EVERYDAY!!!

[@ramadaniljaz1323]

Hell yeah , you are right , i got friendzoned i was needy and weak for like 4 months , i started watching videos and i pulled back i decided to not text her anymore for atleast 2 months , after 2 weeks she texted me like where u at why u dont text me anymore and we kept texting for a hour or so , after 4 days i asked her out and she agreed , tomorrow we are going on a date but im not quite sure what should i do

[@modernexistence4206]

How did it go

[@ramadaniljaz1323]

@@modernexistence4206 we are in a relationship for 3 years

[@petrosk7789]

respect your friendships and dont do it