How to VALIDATE YOURSELF : Stop Seeking External Validation & Be Ready to Walk Away

[@haram4l]

As a man I can say your videos are important towards growth for a lot of younger woman and it's nice to see a female teach others to embrace their femininity!

[@Lisaglamour]

Happy to see a gentleman that appreciate my content 🙏☺️

[@neshmalifestyletv2737]

* Women not female.

[@auhbreykumming4429]

@@neshmalifestyletv2737 why are you micromanaging someone's positive comment? You're the exact type of woman men don't want to be around.

[@honeymoonavenue97]

@@irinaivanovic9792If men did this in a way that didn’t encourage violence it would be so helpful.

[@estherharing7430]

​@@neshmalifestyletv2737masculine energy to correct.

[@xzuajkgka3479]

"they value the things they worked hard for. and when they work hard for a woman, they value it"

[@blancheb3533]

I grew up with a narcissistic mom. She just kept criticizing me and made me feel like I had to prove and work on something to be worthy, but it was never enough. It took me a long time to work on my feminine energy and self-esteem. Before my self-love journey I attracted unavailable men where I needed to prove many things for them to love me, ignoring red flags, and them never giving me the commitment I want. Now everytime my parents say something bad to me, undue criticism, shaming me, I no longer internalize it and repel with my positive thoughts and validating my own worth. Thank you Lisa for channels like this

[@Jenniferrr818]

oh gawdd same. i always love to be glamoruous and my mom always crticized me so badly that i stopped being myself but i slowly learned that shes narcisstcst . i need to avoid her

[@ametrineambrosia4929]

Having autism, don't wanna change it. I think I'm awesome. I WANT a king. But even without, I'm still a goddess 👑

[@vanessavasquez1099]

Self validation is the key to unbothered mindset, it's like removing a burden off your shoulders.

[@Lisaglamour]

Yes yes exactly 👑

[@BellaStella-cb1rl]

The same is my situation.

[@DeshaunExitRealty]

At age 53, a lot of younger women lose me during communication. Your videos are relaxing and relatable - so I actually learn. Thanks for being who you are. You are important and needed.

[@Sarahhenderson11]

Lisa lots of femininity channels out there, but yours is the most invaluable. Truly, your energy is absolutely beautiful.

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much 🙏❤️

[@Vixenventures]

I grew up in a really abusive family and as an adult was constantly second guessing myself in every way, unknowingly seeking validation from others to make sure I was handling things the right way or best way. After doing the work and starting to relearn how healthy people behave, I don't seek validation anymore. Being confident shows up as very steadfast and not easily shaken. I love your videos so much, Lisa. You're such an amazing person.

[@annemuller4499]

Same here, hugs from Germany dear sister and all the best! 🥰

[@Vixenventures]

@@annemuller4499 Thank you! 💜

[@jeanniepetrov9934]

I had he same Story and issue . Its beautiful to grow out of this and being confident and happy . Much love ❤

[@withlovechristine3378]

I wish I had access to this type of wisdom when I was younger. I was raised by a single mom, she loved us and raised us as best as she could, but she herself lacked confidence and didn't have a high self worth. I allowed myself to be used by men who saw my desperate need to be loved and was constantly seeking validation/approval from other. I'm almost 50 and just starting to figure this out. Thank you for your content, it will be invaluable to young women.

[@itsaghosttown]

3:27 she said it so sweetly

[@Scranton0]

She is a confident woman encouraging Other women to have a positive attitude She has one and it is really great to have Wearing the finest dresses that she has In this video walking along in much beauty Wearing only her dress and nothing more

[@carmencarmenatti]

I've never had a problem with being who I am.Don't need no one validation but my own.I always listen to my silence💕

[@hristina436]

I would like to see a dressing feminine video another one with beautiful dresses and everything! 👗👒💅🥿

[@LOADING...o.o.o]

This is very true. I didn’t love myself and didn’t value myself. I accepted bare minimum and trying to chase the guy. At the end he didn’t even want me back after I broke up with him once I reached my limit.

[@ShaniOnSinai]

Yes! Validation is self authorized. We respect ourselves through discipline and it should be reciprocated. Ever the gracious, ready to turn the cheek and walk away from disgrace.

[@p1111f]

Thank you for your wonderful energy and teachings!! ❤

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much for your support ❤❤

[@p1111f]

@@Lisaglamour❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@EternalWanderer-it4uf]

Every time I see you, you look better than the last. A true level up princess. BY THE WAY!!!! Keep the thumbnail formula it’s so unique and glamorous

[@lou15176]

“Talk to yourself - I know it’s weird” 😂😂 Been talking to myself for 49 years, it’s probably the one thing that’s kept me sane 😊

[@jessicadah-mk8up]

I have a similar style to you Lisa and seeing you makes me happy bc so many girls my age ( I’m 23 ) don’t really care too much about glamour

[@adrianamelendez5335]

The timing on this is perfect! A person I really cared for recently walked away without much of an explanation or reason. Thank you for the reminder that their reasons why don’t matter.

[@soumayahassan5040]

Omg same here!

[@Meesha612]

I love the way she talks

[@diyab1056]

It's so nice that you empower women!

[@andreatorluemke4982]

That cut of dress is so beautiful on you! I love it!!❤❤❤

[@gulmillart375]

Ohhhh myyyy myyyy what can i say .hattss offf to ur confidence and strenght.

[@inarijm]

This came right on time for me 🙏🏽❤️

[@dehsimao6409]

same

[@newfavs]

When the student is ready, the teacher appears. 😊

[@hegyesialexa7617]

Dear Lisa, Love your accent, and I learned Italian, I am in love with italian people :) :)

[@mojyoqueen350]

High five! Shakira was my childhood role model too. Actually little me learned how to belly dance and I still do it when I'm cooking or cleaning.

[@ViintageVoyage]

This is my favorite video you've made, ever!. I really needed to hear what you have to say. It came just at the right time! You are completely right! Thank you, Lisa

[@LieingCostsYourSoulTellElders]

Globally no more being human

[@LieingCostsYourSoulTellElders]

Drooling for this

[@vikm1341]

thank you for this video! I love the way you dress. alot of people would laugh at me for wearing pink or liking barbie type style but it makes me happy.

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Oh my gosh. This is such a good reminder for a woman of any age. I am making my well being and safety and health in every way top priority. Clothes are important and so is grooming. I finally feel I am pursuing my dreams and art and painting and design. My grandma and dad used to tell me to pursue my dreams and clothes do make the person. It's not good for anyone to have jealous sneaky belittlers around, especially if they are relatives. It is so important to dump those that don't hold your similar values, or lift you up but put you down and cause harm. It's so much better to pursue your own dreams instead of doing time with Dana anrd Danny downers. Blessings. I am signing up.

[@pratitijoshi4231]

OMG LISA YOU LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL.

[@Lisaglamour]

thank you 🥰

[@katarzyna2901]

You look beautiful ✨Greetings from Poland

[@taboquinha4i20]

Your dresses are perfect ❤ one more beautiful than the other

[@Annababe333]

Thank you for all of your wisdom. I have really been trying to step into that true feminine essence within. Sometimes I can still feel the walls up but I’m trying, learning and growing.

[@therosaceous404]

I love these long explanation videos, this was a real treat, Madame, merci! 😘💓💓

[@daniellecharming]

This is my favorite video of yours to date, Lisa! I have recently been talking to myself like a second person- my own best friend!

[@shuntizamoore4805]

Thank you I really needed to hear that

[@rubyfullglam]

I love it when you say 'so what, and? I dont care' it makes me laugh and feel better about myself. Great video because this is the area I struggle with ❤

[@klezzaa8957]

I really needed to hear this. I have no sister and not a good feminine relationship with my mother. Im trying to be more feminine again and be in surrender. This was really good advice. Thank you. You also delivered it with kindness and empathy and it just made it better.❤️

[@hristina436]

Omg your dress is stunning haha! Nice Lisa sister you look so beautiful! 🥳💛👗💅👒👠

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much 🥰🥰

[@cyndiapasillas1137]

This video is soooo Amazing ❤ Kisses Lisa 😘

[@kurthalover]

I will be honest, I felt your positive energy throughout this whole video and it gave me that positive boost. I used to think so much of other people's opinions but there comes a time, and experience, where it is just not worth it anymore. As you said, the only opinion that matters is yourself. Also validating yourself is also a from of self-care both physically and mentally. At the end of the day, the only person that's with you will always be you and it is important to see yourself as a best friend. As you said, and I loved that you mentioned it, about how you treat your family and friends with kindness, you should also treat yourself that way too. Looking forward to your next video!

[@nolongerhumannnn]

Lisa is amazing and gorgeous as always. Thank you so much for the inspiring video 💕

[@Knowledgeispower276]

I love you and I’m so grateful for everything you pour into this channel! ❤

[@dafnneperez9577]

I love All your videos and I’m so grateful I found your channel. This one is one of my favorites!! It resonates with me specially about men validation. I learned that when a man don’t put a lot of effort I need to let him go and move on. The right one will come along and Universe timing is always perfect. I will like to see a video about Divine timing in relationship and in life.

[@ElaBliss]

Girl, just wanted to say thank you for showing up. You are really such a great role model and you should be proud of yourself 🥰 Love watching your videos

[@kellyolson602]

You are my inspiration ❤

[@israelisongsabram4796]

Absolutely adore you and your videos. Thank you so much for the wisdom you impart on others. You are amazing and we are blessed to have you

[@Lisaglamour]

Oh thank you 🥰🙏

[@margaretgallo914]

Love the dress ❤, I hope you are doing well. ❤️ love you Lisa. Thank you for what you do.

[@veronicacarrillocaceres5938]

My favorite video by far this 2023 💖Thanks for doing this video, it comes along in the right time 😊

[@mansoor3159]

Lisa you're too too too too inspiring for me 💕💫😭 and you're looking too pretty

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you very much darling 🙏🥰

[@YK.Naturo]

Bravo ma chère ! Thank you for this reminder 🙏🏿✨

[@rachelmcclain5367]

Hi Lisa! Once again, I love your content! ❤

[@Yulia.ambika]

Wow this woman is more gorgeous day by day! Very valuable video it helped a lot. I would love if she would make a video of how to combine colors I think she is so good on choosing the best colors for her, red golden... so beautiful. Sorry if the comment seems superficial 🙏 I also think her message is wise and psychologicaly empowering and healing

[@bernices6311]

So much value in this video Lisa! Thank you for what you provide to our community ❤

[@cleoknight8536]

This was really helpful Lisa. Much love to you xxx

[@glowuphandbook]

I love this video! Super helpful topic.

[@stefilane]

Thank you for this video ❤

[@marilynmcgaha3957]

WOW! Lisa I needed to hear this so badly! Thank you ❤️

[@spoonfullofdream]

Tu es resplendissante ❤️

[@Lisaglamour]

Oh merci 🥰

[@rinamaya8858]

Thank you! Perfect timing 🥰❤️

[@klaudiawitek5300]

Amazing content, right now I really needed to hear your message and remind myself of who I am. Hope to spread this positivity. I’ve got 3 jobs opportunities all at once and I got to choose which one I like most and it’s for me. I’ve chosen the one where from beginning I was treated with respect and admiration. When it comes to relationship I realised that it’s ok if it’s not going to work out with the person I was attracted to because I’m the queen and many people treat me accordingly so it’s my job to only see me that way and be unbothered by those who doesn’t value me.

[@liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984]

Love it.

[@victoriavaughan8362]

Love the dress😍

[@danielajocelyn]

Love this video! We have a similar taste in artists :) I think it’s important to nurture those things you have interest in or that you identify with, so it solidifies your confidence even further because of your familiarity with the subject. Plus I think starting with learning about one or two subjects thoroughly gives you the skill to learn another more easily.

[@Wandertheworldwithme]

Thank you so much for these lovely reminders ❤💃🏼

[@harmainaltaf3753]

Sis can you make a video for teenager girls , that how to develop our personality😅

[@fluffy8718]

Thank u lovely Lisa 💜

[@HaninSindi]

Thank you looove ur Video and this beautiful message u made me realize even so much more and Ur style is also beautiful love whn people show and just are their induviduality ❤

[@Tessybriggs]

This is the best video i have seen so far ❤❤

[@nehasable8347]

Thank u Lisa I am changing

[@AminaOud-vc7ph]

Giiiirl you are gorgeous 😍

[@philippagrimoire5968]

I found when I did treat myself like a Queen I had so many men and women try and tear me down or call me a narcissist or just generally not like me because I wasn’t being a people pleaser anymore. I got abused a lot and it wore me down over time til I felt unworthy. I have cptsd which is a brain injury as well so it’s easy to slip back into feeling unworthy. It’s so frustrating dealing with tall poppy syndrome in my country Australia 🇦🇺

[@lou15176]

Reverting back to people pleasing to suit others is not the answer…I am not saying isolate yourself, but if it’s possible - remove yourself from those people/situations and start to to build new connections with the people who value you ❤ x

[@jocelin5957]

Thank you Lisa😘😘

[@hiruhiru5998]

Can you explain how to show vulnerability in a relationship?

[@terraiznajem105]

Thank you

[@zdravaistoria]

I love your videos, thank you!

[@plottwist1541]

thank you for that!!

[@ElaBliss]

Dear, could you do a youtube video on how to overcome the discomfort on starting a youtube chanel or showing up online? Would be nice 😊

[@frankyavery]

There is a meme you would love. I went something like "It's okay if you don't like me. Not every can have good taste."

[@laurengeorges3705]

Merci pour cette vidéo !

[@beluasmr]

Excelente

[@breh9243]

Great video idea

[@sasukiopah7145]

Thank you ❤

[@shinystar-w5j]

you’re god in orange 🧡

[@aparnapremkumar395]

U r simply lovely :)

[@florinmcf7340]

Hello I’m a man and find this helpful

[@annemuller4499]

How can somebody your age can be so wise? I agree with all you say, but I have to warn you guys as well: nowadays there is too much jealousy arround, don't listen too much to feedback, even men will try to push you down, because they think they are not your level, even more stay careful with other women. *I never had a friend who hadn't a grain of jelousy in her*

[@pallinagialla97]

Hi! What's the name of the actress at 9:58? Such a good video!!! Thank you, Lisa!!!

[@bobinaleigh]

@pallinagialla97, It's Jayne Mansfield

[@pallinagialla97]

@@bobinaleigh thank you!

[@annemuller4499]

I hate the modern feedback culture as people are so brazen and give unrequested feedback, using it to push you down hard (your pants are too tight, naked shoulders are vulgar, you show too much leg). All my live I had just one or two feedbacks which were helpful and millions of feedbacks just targeting to push me down! Even with a toxic partner this can happen to you, he is feeling bad and is jelous of your good mood or thinks he is not as attractive as you.

[@sskksshjigg9767]

Can you do a roomtour❤

[@JogoBelIa]

"I know you care a lot what people think when you are a teenager" - crying in my 30s

[@claudiokabanata3325]

❤❤❤

[@DJSTOEK]

❤❤

[@bankpoaspirant5250]

I am too judgemental towards me , tell me what to do

[@aj__love5919]

Learn to love yourself and improve the flaws you got this💃🏻

[@sunflowersseeds_]

🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@kevinrobles3203]

Hi Lisa can you visit liverpool fc YNWA we you Jurgen klopp

[@antevenio8303]

when does it turn to pure selfishness

[@daniellecharming]

Do you have a Facebook group?

[@pragmaticpersonhere]

I know she has a discord

[@claracinde7913]

I really need to hear this. Thank u for your reminding, I've learned a lot about femininity from you