How Vibrators Can Improve Your Sex Life, According To A Urologist

[@feliciawillson3345]

We’ve used one for years. My husband bought it. It really has ramped up our sex life.

[@londongirly88]

Oh yeah, toys definitely upgrade bedroom life. Especially when its something you can use while being intimate with your partner like tor, tiani or zalos c0ckrings. 😊

[@SWOTHDRA]

It actually doesnt and it makes you less sensitive for the real thing, but keep falling for the marketing 😂

[@SWOTHDRA]

​@@londongirly88it doesnt tho, its a cheap and lazy way to get to the highlight

[@2livenoob]

Your dependence on it means you aren't really intimate with your partner @@londongirly88

[@akashvyas5070]

i really appreciate the ammount of content you have been putting out and all high quality content as well, thank you

[@BigDad200]

I find it extremely hot to see my wife enjoy her toys!

[@pasco1337]

yeah I also like seeing your wife that way

[@astalavista5328]

What's her favourite then Barbie 😂

[@mjchecksfield914]

You bet, I am getting excited just imaging her doing it, without having a clue who either of you are! LOL

[@SicarioGary]

Mee too.

[@josephantony9475]

ie are you a nishkkunnan ?

[@mattarndt4452]

Wonderful topic Rena! Maybe have some toys out to talk about them next time…how to use them.

[@fawdfire]

Thanks!

[@4stringz.]

I love Dr Rena's videos. So cool that Sal Governale sought your advice!!!!

[@duanechenette36]

Your channel and content are amazing. I would definitely sign up for some studies you mentioned.

[@genemical4496]

Love 💘 your Chanel !!!!!!! It is the Best !!!!!!!

[@256shadesofgrey]

Me and my ex had a c-shaped vibrator like you described. It was better than no vibrator at all, but it never actually worked "hands free", she always had to adjust it, so there was no advantage over a regular, much cheaper one. Also yeah, it was a bit uncomfortable "getting in" with that weird vibrator in the way, but not an issue once I was in.

[@LeviW2892w]

I introduced vibrators to our love making a couple years ago. My wife was a little skeptical at first but, together we have found a value to them and there are a couple we use regularly. She does not masturbate and I have gently encouraged her to try it by herself to see what feels best for her but she prefers to wait for me to use it with her and that's o.k. For me, they help with my E.D and just plain feel good.

[@TheModernMidas]

Thanks for the info you provide and all that you do!

[@ufsta]

You should do a video on vibrators and clitoral/vaginal desensitization

[@Martin_Priesthood]

"c shaped" "hands free" 😂🤣🥺🙊. 👌 nice analysis. ❤️🌹.

[@resourcefulqueen]

What is the name of the vibrator used during the study?

[@calledoff58]

My exwife never used one . After i was divorced with my girlfriend we used them a lot she sold them at toy parties . She had a wide assortment of them we had a lot of fun with them

[@jerryoshea3116]

Rena Malik, M.D. U know what I like to hear u explain about is 'female Genital Mutilation'.I know it's a terrible procedure, but i'm sure u can explain it better than me!

[@SicarioGary]

My wife is an independent selling consultant that sells products via live in home parties but she really made bank during the pandemic via virtual parties. The company also sells bath, health and beauty products also.

[@wildman318]

What’s her website?

[@jackburton4892]

​@@wildman318😂 Yes give random KZbinr "wild" man her website. Ha

[@H...9346]

Hi Rena, could you please talk more about Lichen sclerosus tks

[@rubinbrown8142]

Hi rena!😊

[@richardpauly1635]

I have one but have not used it yet with a partner

[@_negentropy_]

Yes. Level sharknado please. Thank you for normalizing pairing.

[@MrFredlthomasiii]

Thanks as always Doc!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have a great weekend Doc!!!!!!!!!!❤❤

[@TavitaIese]

I like it

[@edgreen8140]

People can do what they like. No judgment.

[@NikonF5user]

Love the bird songs!

[@PhelanEric87]

I recommend the rabbit c ring

[@3DJapan]

As a guy I found they do absolutely nothing for me and after a few minutes I just go numb so I can't feel anything at all.

[@jackburton4892]

It's all in the reflexes.

[@jjpp3301]

lovense, that’s all I’m gonna say ;)

[@TavitaIese]

How much

[@renedecquir1931]

I don't know if this is allowed, but it would be nice for to feature the most popular vibrators available . As biased free as possible 😉😉

[@myfantasy4u296]

Almost every lady I met over the years in the Lifestyle used the Hitachi Magic Wand as their go to vibrator. My wife prefers the cordless and says the battery last a long time.

[@ProSanityMan-gr7sq]

Well, I guess I’m in the 10%

[@fuzzybiscuit-mp5xb]

Exactly what is a “c” shaped vibrator ?

[@michaeldautel7568]

Listen at 6.38.🤔👍

[@arunbeckham8384]

Alright men of culture let's gather around. Even though we are late here. 😎 this channel is pretty fun 😂

[@martin4basis]

i think it is based on need to release any liquids we have in body

[@hyperlapseguy8390]

I’m interested in that C shaped vibrating toy that was used. Where can I get that.

[@256shadesofgrey]

Me and my ex used to have one of those, but it never actually worked "hands free", because it was never vibrating the right spot for her, so she had to hold it in place. And for me it only made it somewhat uncomfortable "getting in". So be aware that it might be a huge disappointment and waste of money considering that normal vibrators are about 4x cheaper.

[@astalavista5328]

I don't use one because i don't have a partner its looking lije a viable option right now tho😂

[@sousay2000]

Had a girl who used toys. It was quite fun while it lasted. Looking for a woman like that again.

[@SWOTHDRA]

You dont , trust

[@Andres64B]

Could you do a video about vibrators for men? There are two that I really like, one is the "Pivot" vibrating c-ring from We-Vibe, the other is the "Manta“ vibe by Fun Factory. I absolutely love both of these.

[@Hafezakhtatr]

Like. Good

[@DrewBaye]

Couples that don’t at least give it a try are missing out.

[@likearollingstone007]

My problem with it is most of the women I met using it get dépendant of it. Meaning that they can’t come without it, witch becomes boring with time.

[@tcb5141]

Bring out the toys!!!!

[@goby1000]

We have now a lot of toys in the house. But my partner is totally against it, cos she say they are all "filled" with all kinds bacterias. So nothing like that is getting close to her netheryaya. But i hope that one day she will change her mind and enjoy the whole thing. I love using them to spice it up cos i like to rollplay so the toys are a part of that.

[@FreeforallPerez]

Matthew

[@sebastiangruffydd2765]

I have yet to see a video on urology health or bladder heath by this doctor. So far, all the topics have on sex and Gynecology.

[@Megidramon]

You haven't checked out a lot of her older videos then. Fact of the matter is, she's a content creator that deals in all kinds of sexual health and wellness, on all sides of the sex spectrum.

[@Pault3788]

I never had a sex life

[@thecardclosetcanada5443]

I couldn't get past the point where you said the couples did it 10 times in 4 weeks. When me and the mrs's were courting, ya it was like everyday. Married 13 yrs and 3 kids. I'd be happy with 10 times a year.

[@JohnDoe-fi8kc]

Seen they never talked about. They never asked them in about it but yet they ask women about penis size

[@lxportugal9343]

Why some of your videos have a Brazilian robot voice instead of your voice?!?!?!?! I prefere your voice

[@mtower235]

I’m the one who brings them in to the wife and we enjoy several. Some we didn’t but hey we tried and I just trash them. It’s still hot giving new things a whirl. The rose 🌹 is a top player

[@robertgwinn8406]

I have 1 and I'm single 😮

[@jeffdo9195]

Need the real thing let me know ha ha

[@ccrowson13]

How does a couple become part of one of these free toy studies???

[@stuarthowarth2972]

We both use toys, it is super hot fir both of us❤

[@christophersterling6788]

💕💕💕

[@michaelfedora5630]

I tried so hard to get my wife at the time when we were together to try 1 and she went ballistic with me because I wanted to use it on her and she absolutely refused and I looked at her and walked away saying to myself what a dead fish she was in bed. Glad I'm not with her now she was dead in the bed horrible to have sex with. A dead fish for sure not at all fun in bed.

[@jbug308]

Some are that way - there seems to be a shame some women have about having sex.

[@jackburton4892]

Friend I grew up with that tells me everything said his wife of 15 years squirted once and freaked out, changed the sheets and made him feel guilty for making her squirt...

[@DanGuarino-t7b]

is it true that boxers use semen retention for focus?

[@richardpauly1635]

You don't want tight underwear you can still wear briefs

[@256shadesofgrey]

@@richardpauly1635 I don't think that's what he's talking about. I think he's talking about those boxers that are fist fighting in a ring, not the underwear. There is a story I heard a few years back that some boxer went celebate for a few weeks before a fight to supposedly increase his performance. But I didn't think that this was a thing among boxers in general.

[@jackburton4892]

Yes and they still do. But it's more of a superstition than something actual neurological going on.

[@GHOST3123]

where can i buy online in India? is there any reliable website? Kindly suggest

[@darwinvillaroel9396]

I was thinking to buy one to my wife, the one that is controlled by bluetooth. anyone have used one of those?

[@Samson-qs8oy]

I never used the toys with a partner. My question is: you mentioned that its uncommon to orgasm at the same time while using the toy. So whats the best way? Use it on a female first till they finish or you finish first and help them if the didn't finish? I am uncomfortable introducing this so i am curious how others use them. What if she likes the toy more than my banana? It may sound funny but its a concern for older generation.

[@CornPopsDude]

Chances are she has used a toy on her own. Sex toys don't bring the same level of intimacy that your banana brings. Also, you never know until you try. You're not getting any younger so make experiment and make the most of it while you can.

[@jjpp3301]

you’ll never be replaced, specially if you’re the one operating it. And as with anything with sex… talk to her about your insecurity.

[@BigDad200]

As long as you treat her like your queen outside of the bedroom then a toy will never be able to replace you! We’ve bought her three present toys together. Nothing really kinky just different vibrating toys that she loves during the four-play stage but honestly it’s made our sex life better even though it was good before we bought them. The real reason why I think is my wife knows I’m head over heels in love with her and we spend quality time together outside the bedroom.

[@Megidramon]

Long-time male user of toys in multiple relationships here. The longest relationship I've had is my current one, 11 years next month. From personal experience, treating your partner like they are the most special thing in your life, which they should be anyway, is the best thing you can do to assure that your partner doesn't like the toys more than your "banana." Realstically speaking, a toy isn't as intimate as the real thing, so that should help your apprehension of purchasing one. As far as the best way to use it, there is no 1 good way. Every person is different, after all. That being said, what has worked best for me is to use an external vibrating device during foreplay, and, if my partner enjoys any form of anal play, placing an vibrator in her rectum during vaginal intercourse. Of course, your mileage may vary. Truth be told, the only way to introduce toys into the bedroom with a partner is to do so with confidence and excitement. They will feel that positivity from you and will, hopefully, replicate that positivity. If they don't, no big deal. It was a fun experiment. If they do, congratulations, you can help your partner have even more fulfilling sex than they already do. EDIT: One last thing to note. Don't feel insecure about being part of "the older generation." Life is all about learning from others after all, right? The best thing you can do for yourself and your relationship, in and out of the bedroom, is to continue learning and improving every day.

[@NeighborTom]

@@jjpp3301 It’s not an insecurity. It’s a concern. Don’t gaslight the dude.

[@jeanjuniorjacques9772]

I was order the other one. They told me between 20 to 25 I'll get it. Can you verify if they make the delivery yet?❤

[@themagnifique11]

❤👍

[@ethanmaloney7377]

real quick for the young dudes. toys are our friends just trust me makes things fun

[@shafimuhammad3124]

👍🏼

[@MdAbbas-wx9kz]

Please make video on sti and std multiple partners how to prevent sti std

[@Megidramon]

Condoms, dental dams, and talking with your doctor, preferably a Urologist or OB/GYN, depending on your sex. Those are the 3 things you need to use to prevent the spread of sti's.

[@anthonyfigueroa9643]

In school back in the day we didn't need them or talk about them . I'm lady didn't like them.

[@chucklesm2391]

As a guy, i found vibrators are like crack, I don't know about girls, but I a vibrator is too addictive and I could waste 12 hours a day every day with my eyes rolled back in my head. I had to quit cold turkey for my own sanity. My wife used one for a while, but we prefer the old fashioned method... lol

[@SWOTHDRA]

You sound 🏳️‍🌈

[@biscuit119]

Wrong channel bro😂 you're using it on yourself

[@wesmattimore2895]

Tie each other up, use your imagination.. nothing wrong with spicing up the sex life..

[@kenc2257]

If BOTH of you are "tied up," you'll probably be limited to ONLY using your imagination (because you're tied up...).

[@sebastiangruffydd2765]

How about a cattle prod? That should really be stimulating!

[@oneofthegoodonesok]

😂😂😂

[@Megidramon]

You joke, but there are actually people that are into that kind of pain. What matters is to do things safely.

[@pynsandamediengdoh722]

Thanks for your teaching us .... But what about you ?have you usevibratot?

[@crazykev6491]

She’s not gonna say. That’s her business

[@durango8rifles]

Duh !!!! Of course she has. Most women have.

[@paxanimi3896]

Sexless marriage? Is there another kind?

[@AltonG-hs7nb]

Thanks for the advice, And yes, I tried what I read the other day and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest by Greyzar Drinbo and now she keeps dragging me back lol

[@biscuit119]

Read what

[@FreeforallPerez]

Why did it blow I'm just carrying it?

[@FreeforallPerez]

Oh the size 🎉 anyo

[@NewLife-qj9mx]

No partner, no need And ☝️ I just saved a bunch of money by switching to Geico 😏

[@dlbracer56]

Suffering in silence.. the American pass time.

[@mykalmatters8322]

The 7% that got one from a family member reside in the mountains of West Virginia.

[@BigDad200]

Hilarious!

[@Megidramon]

Okay, great joke, but you'd actually be surprised how often people ages 18-30 tend to buy sex toys for their underage family members. Women tend to do that alot for their younger sisters/cousins, from what I understand about sales data.

[@skip123davis]

"backslash appointments" is not true: it's slash, like /. backslash is this: \

[@alanzamora6504]

With my highest respect to everyone * i love toys _ no vibration ( but ) i do watch porn very frequently and using toys is just great for me * to watch someone using a toy or vibrator is fantastic _ whether male or female _ toys are a helpful sex booster ❤

[@Velo1010]

It’s practicing safe sex

[@michaellonnee5824]

I agree toys are nice especially when she is not interested

[@alanzamora6504]

@@michaellonnee5824 surely toys are not just a big help in those moments when lacking the push * just to push the interest and spice the moment _ to provoke the lustful trance from not interested to desire not the generic toy but the real thing * toys are simply the ingredient for the prelude to the meaty substance _ enjoy 💦

[@blueberryalmound1472]

I fly solo .. becuase I don't let anyone help me. Maybe , it's nothing . Anyways , happy Hispanic heritage month

[@omardcastrod]

I never liked them. I never found it to be an enjoyable addition to the experience, but rather something that just got in the way; but I never minded if any woman I’ve ever been in a committed relationship with wanted to use one on her own time.

[@maigonis.elleris]

But how it affects womans sensitivity? I have read that vibrator might be "too exiting", that after use mens "instrument" does not feel as good.

[@Megidramon]

This usually happens in relationships that already have a lot of other issues. Maybe the man doesn't understand what the woman enjoys. Maybe the woman is too shy to divulge that information and the man doesn't take it upon himself to figure it out. Maybe the man's "instrument" never actually was able to satisfy the partner in the first place. There's too many variables to let that stop you from trying it out. As for the whole idea of the woman not enjoying the partner's "instrument," that tends to happen with relationships that don't understand how to actually buy toys for partnered sex. Oftentimes they buy oversized insertion vibrators, when that isn't necessarily what they want to achieve. The only way to avoid all of the above is to actually do your research into the sex toys and into your partner. Ask them what they like.

[@dexcal8009]

This video has a lot of percent in it😅

[@AdrianColley]

10:50 "backslash appointments" This is a slash: / This is a backslash: \

[@TavitaIese]

Need loe toys

[@GideonFX-d3v]

Yep, after go’ogling around I didn't realize that Simmy Krotiel's Bigger Blueprint was updated and you can make it bigger even faster, yep, what Simmy suggested before was pretty good, but now it can grow up to 4 ins, I managed 3 ins myself and I feel like a monster lol

[@sebastiangruffydd2765]

I cannot wait until we have genuine pleasure robots, and can dispense with all the male-female bullshit.

[@biscuit119]

Bro go get some help.....

[@sebastiangruffydd2765]

She never gets around to her title topic, "How Vibrators Help Improve Sex Life, Explained by a Urologist."

[@Megidramon]

Did you not watch until the end? The last few minutes of the video were exclusively on that, explaining the findings of the study, and what she understood from those findings.

[@thistexanspov6337]

I like to use them with the wife. She don't. So ya we're doing great 😂

[@biscuit119]

????

[@margarita8442]

wont work darlinks

[@michaelfedora5630]

Glad I didn't waist any money on her anymore and glad we are not together. Her lover can discover the grandma he married in her.

[@Juice421fs]

As long as it's not bigger than me! I don't want my house stretched out.

[@judyperri9496]

“Your house” doesn’t get stretched out Men don’t get as hard as they age and get smaller😂😂

[@jeanjuniorjacques9772]

Yes, I'll use it. Anytime my friends want it. But, I think his problems is the environment. He told me that's his dealing with any types of microbes might caused his weakness in his cellular and others organs. That's what's I heard from him. I'll let's him know that the vibrators might help for the first 3 to 6 days. But, the next day after. The shadow suppose to be clean enough for a better fonctionement like a machine himself!🤭 I'm a Men too. I know how that's worked. Take my words for true. But, give him that chance to show you the best of him. Don't be suspicious before he shows you!👂👌🤝💑

[@firstnamelastname1538]

I'm sorry my friend, but as a native English speaker, I can't understand what you are trying to say.

[@jackburton4892]

Type this using your native language then we'll use the translation function.

[@oneofthegoodonesok]

I'm single and not even interested 😂 Much rather play my guitar and go to the beach or something.

[@oneofthegoodonesok]

​@loudsparx that's actually true 👍

[@pasco1337]

RIP libido😢

[@valarmorghulis118]

it's a pleasure to read someone commenting with sense

[@oneofthegoodonesok]

​@valarmorghulis118 it's like they make sex their top priority in life. I have kids and hobbies and a life. You'd think more people would go and figure that out and kinda grow up.

[@oneofthegoodonesok]

​@@pasco1337😂😂 Nope. Just don't think of sex as a goal.

[@valarmorghulis118]

in my humble opinion anything not natural can't help at all , it just make you dependant to material plastic stuff and ruin your sexual Natural and normal life with any men keept it natural and normal otherwise you outdo yourself or fall into overbidding and end up not reaching any pleasure without parking a rocking chair or a huge taser in yourself . as i said it's my humble opinion based on a long experience so don't bark at me please peace.

[@oneofthegoodonesok]

And a partner who isn't in a rush and knows that the other person isn't their just for their pleasure.

[@Megidramon]

Tbh, this only works for people who take their time to discover what their partner enjoys. Unfortunately, there's a LOT of people, both men and women, who don't take their partner into account, and only care about their own pleasure. I'm glad that you seem to have found someone who cares about your sexual pleasure. I, on the other hand as a man, love using toys on my S.O., because it allows me to see her in ways that I have a difficult time getting her to myself. Different strokes for different folks, as the saying goes, right?

[@SWOTHDRA]

You are 100% correct

[@SWOTHDRA]

​@@Megidramonso ur lazy.....

[@biscuit119]

​@@MegidramonBro put the toys away and get to know her body

[@TavitaIese]

I like it

[@javedjutt660]

❤❤❤❤