How We Handle Conflicts and Cultural Differences | AMBW VEGAN Couple 🇰🇷🇱🇺

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@herstorylives7405 9 ай бұрын

Ben is a deep thinker/introspective. He knows when to "hold 'em" and when to "fold 'em". Maybe that's maturity, and it comes with age and living. (I lOVE Ben's hair).

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for your lovely comment~ Really appreciate it 😍🥰❤

@ateol 9 ай бұрын

Ben is sooooooo handsome, he's really a 10/10

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

😂😂 Thanks a lot~ 😍🥰❤

@Mimlou 9 ай бұрын

True! When I was in my 20s I was such a hot tempered person. Now that I’m older I don’t let the little things bother me and I’ve become a lot more patient.

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for your comforting words~ It's very true~ 🌱🕊🌷❤🥰

@margaret3661 9 ай бұрын

Ben is so handsome. ❤❤❤❤

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Thanks~ 😍😍😍

@morinereid9277 9 ай бұрын

In regards to the Subway incident, please remember he is a little older than you, and him needs to go to the bathroom right away. It should be a priority . I am glad you guys talked about your differences. Sending love from the US. 🙏🏿❤️ 🇺🇸

@maryryan 9 ай бұрын

True 👍🏻

@Plum_bird 9 ай бұрын

I really think it’s a man thing. My husband is the say way, they can’t hold pee. He says once it starts he can’t stop. We have had similar disagreements. It gets annoying and inconvenient at times but I tell myself he does it for me during a certain time of the month when I can’t wait to go to the restroom.

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story~🥰❤ It feels it's all about mutual understanding which really matters in a couple relationship~ 🌱🕊❤

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for your sweet comment~ 🥰❤🙏

@johanfrancois62 9 ай бұрын

My mom was with my dad since she was 13 years old. They married for 56 years they had nine kids. I am the oldest daughter I experienced the ups and downs, but my mom loves my dad with everything she had and I can see that with the two of you one thing I can tell you never go to bed angry always make up before you go to bed.

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

What a lovely family and mom~ 🥰❤ Thanks so much for your kind advice~ 😍 We will keep it in our heart~ 🌱🕊🌷

@alfonsowillock5801 9 ай бұрын

As a person who have been married for thirty six years yes communication is the key. But u have to pick ur battles don’t knit pick about everything. Always take the time and reflect on ur self see if a being selfish and make a change don’t control each other no adult wants to be controlled. When ur partner is angry if he or she ask for time respect that. Love is the key and it’s an action word. Love is kind, love gentle, love,don’t get it own way.take ur pride out of it sometimes we a very prideful and that can be a big issue in relationships. I pray God will bless both of you.

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot for your warm advice~ 🥰❤ We will keep your loving advice in our heart~ Wish you all the Love and Blessing~ 🌱🕊🌷❤🙏

@carmencruzado4746 9 ай бұрын

I enjoyed this video you guys are a beautiful couple 🙏🏻😊

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much always for your lovely comments~ 🌱🕊🌷❤

@lifeofmariam3225 9 ай бұрын

Love the transparency rooting for you both ❤️❤️

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot always for your lovely comments~ 🥰❤❤

@pinkypilot 9 ай бұрын

When you're already agitated/anxious, the worst thing to hear is someone telling you to calm down. It riles you up even more. So I totally understand your situation. It used to drive my husband crazy when I said that. I've since learned to keep quiet and just let him chill out or walk away.

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

It's very comforting to hear your story~ It feels we are not the only one~ Thanks so much~!!! 🥰❤

@hazeleyez819 9 ай бұрын

I love seeing you as a couple. I see a lot of comments mentioning the age gap. However, I dont think that is the case 😅 Maturity depends on life experiences, in my opinion.... No relationship is perfect. It's all about finding the right person to fight for... As long as you keep communication alive and try to be considerate of eachothers feelings, the disagreements are a learning process. Good luck and I wish you two a lifetime of happiness 😊

@hazeleyez819 9 ай бұрын

BTW, I am 42 yo and I am speaking my opinion based off my experiences.

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for your warm advice~ 🥰❤ Totally agree with what you say~ Wish you all the Love, Blessing and Happiness~ 🌱🕊🌷❤🙏

@carlethiastreet7596 5 ай бұрын

I enjoyed your video .Relationships is a learning and growing process to maturity and it is wonderful when the two of you do it together. By the way Ben, your hair beautiful. 🙏🙏🌹🌹❤❤

@vegan.blasian 5 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right~ 🥰👍 And thanks for the compliment~ 😍❤❤

@Plum_bird 9 ай бұрын

Sounds like a genuine relationship. I’ve been married a while and learning to respect how your partner process things that bother them and giving them space to do it is the best thing. Also understanding your not perfect and had a part in the issue is affirming for the other person. You guys have great conflict resolution which is essential for a healthy relationship.

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing how you handle and your kind words~ 🥰❤ We always appreciate your lovely comments~ 🌱🕊🌷

@constancewashington9019 9 ай бұрын

Lucy and Ben, you make such a beautiful couple. Bless you both. Lucy, I know your channel is vegan based, but can you please do a make up tutorial, please.

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for your lovely comment~ 🥰❤ Let us think about it~ 🙏🙏 Bless your beautiful heart~ 🌱🕊🌷

@RosecSee 9 ай бұрын

From your video it’s clear that you’re both in love with each other. It filled me up and I got quite emotional. No one is perfect so no couple will be perfect. As long as you keep trying to understand each other, set aside time each day if possible to discuss what’s on your minds and how it makes you feel. Giving each other time to understand how the other feels, keep showing love, respect and consideration then with time your disagreements will be less and they will resolve much quicker. Love you both🥰🥰🥰

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

What a touching and heartwarming advice~ 😍❤❤ It really touches our heart~ Thanks so much and wish you all the Love, Blessing and Grace~ 🌱🕊🌷❤🥰 With Lots of ❤ Lucy and Ben~

@angelamarquez9052 9 ай бұрын

Siete una bella coppia certo la differenza culturale e caratteriale può creare delle incomprensioni ....con l'amore e l'accettazione dei difetti dell'altro si risolve tutto. Un saluto da Roma

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Wow from Rome~ 🥰 Thanks so much for your lovely advice~ 😍❤

@RacquelTBrooks 8 ай бұрын

I am loving your channel

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

So sweet to hear that~ 😍❤ Thanks so much~ 🌱🕊❤🌷🙏

@jerrywong7943 7 ай бұрын

I❤Lucy & Ben💘

@vegan.blasian 7 ай бұрын

❤ u back~ 💖💝

@oliviafelix4765 9 ай бұрын

The solution is communication and also to understand the other in its difference. No one should keep urine, because it puts pressure on the bladder and it’s not good. It’s better to relieve yourself and then take the train. An incident can happen and the train stops what do we do then if we can no longer restrain ourselves. I think you need to continue to communicate better and understand each other. Plz Lucy try to calm you down lol. Ben continue to love your Lucy ❤

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Thanks so much~ 🥰❤

@Jean-t5n 9 ай бұрын

I love this couple, but I think she overwhelmed him , her personality is over the top, but then he is too reserved. Lovely couple though.

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

She overwhelms me with lots of love~ And we are still working on it and it's getting better~ Thanks for your lovely words~ 🥰❤

@johanfrancois62 9 ай бұрын

I was with the father of my kids since I was 20 years old. I wanted that relationship that my parents had that love because like my mom I love with every breath of my being I give 100% or nothing at all but he cheated the entire 20 something years with multiple women not one and I try everything to make it workat the end of the day I packed my stuff and leave. I wish I had that love my mom had with my dad but I can see it in the two of you. Communication is key give 100% or nothing at all take care of you.

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear your heartbreaking story 🥺 We do wish all the love, blessing and happiness 🌱🕊🌷❤🙏🙏🙏

@moonbaby5317 8 ай бұрын

Why are the comments so negative towards her her obviously likes her so shut up

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

Appreciate your support~!!! 🌱🕊

@Earthlove-bc 9 ай бұрын

The age difference .. is part of the reason. .. patience versus hurry hurry get get etc

@RosecSee 9 ай бұрын

I don’t believe that it’s an age gap. More off a personality issue. Still I love that they are communicating and trying to understand what’s making each other angry. It will get better as their relationship grows.

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

It seems to be more of personality difference~ Thanks for your comment~

@vegan.blasian 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for your kind and understanding words~ 🌱🕊

@JBonniwell100 9 ай бұрын

get counsel dear with your anger issue, that's how people divorce seriously.

@natachanunes6293 9 ай бұрын

Having a temper doesn’t mean necessarily that we need to seek therapy, temper and anger issues are two completely different things. Everyone is different and having someone calmer when you have a temper is a balance. But most important communication and working thru the issues is the ultimate way for a successful relationship ❤️ Thank you Lucy and Ben for sharing this, and Lucy honey I’m also a wild horse and guess what ? Pretty proud of it ❤️ It’s beautiful to see your love ❤️

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for your loving concern~ 🌱🕊🙏 It's not an anger issue~ No worries~ 🥰

@vegan.blasian 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for your insightful words~ 🥰❤