HOW WE MANAGE TO BE OK WITH EACH OTHER

[@tamlynn81]

We will NEVER ask you to stop talking about it! It is necessary! And those of us strangers that have stuck around, are HERE for it!

[@thatgirllindsey07]

Thank you guys, this might’ve felt all over the place for you to record but I understood every single word & emotion even the ones you didn’t say. It makes sense that nothing about grief makes sense. Don’t feel bad about constantly talking Abel…. You’re helping me, & a bunch of over people who are going through the same thing. My husband keeps himself busy as well, he’s never not doing anything & I feel like I need to sit with my feelings for a while but then I feel like I need to move on or stop being selfish. I get y’all 100% what I’m saying probably doesn’t make sense either lol but hey welcome to grief right? I’m with y’all. 🤍 thanks again! 🤍🙏🏻

[@fernandaxo959]

Yesss i agree with you 🥺🥺

[@Marlies-Eva]

this quote helped me in my grief: a.w. tozer once said: “When I understand that everything happening to me is to make me more Christlike, it resolves a great deal of anxiety.” may god bless you guys and help you through!!

[@ashleyzawadzki7967]

Everyone griefs differently. I personally think we will all grief for the rest of our lives. We just figure out ways to live around the grief, but it’s still there. You guys went through a lot. I mean his birth itself was pretty traumatic for you guys. Then losing him. Don’t let anyone try and pressure you guys into thinking there is a way to grieve because there isn’t a way to grieve. We all do it differently. The way I see it is just like children when they’re growing up they all learn and grow at different speeds but in the end they all still get there. Same thing with grief, it may take you guys longer to feel okay , or just to be able to breathe but you will get there❤ There is always a light at the end of the tunnel.

[@tamlynn81]

I am not receiving notifications, and I am not happy about it! No matter what happens, I need yall to keep moving forward, and posting whenever you're able because it does my heart so good to see yall and hear your story. I only use KZbin, I am anti social media aside from here, but as a momma who has lost a child, and a cousin of someone who is in the nicu experience right now with a 26 week micro-preemie who is now at 38 weeks gestational age and is still struggling to breathe and eat, I am so happy yall are here to keep us moving forward in this journey. Soooo much love and prayer extended out to yall!

[@sheriturner6118]

Grief is hard, grief is a individual process, and grief is not about time limits. Although I have never lost a child other that through miscarriage. I have been through grief. My Dad passed away when I was 5. Death has been a part of my life since that age. I was use to death for years I just had SO much of it in my life. I became numb to it, it was an attitude of "it's a part of life". Then I lost my Momma. And even though I knew the day would come because of her health. It hit me like a Mack truck. And the grief lasted for 3 years. I got a puppy just to make sure I had something new to take care of to give me a reason to live. It has been a few years now and although I miss my Momma. I wouldn't want her back on earth going through the health issues she had. She has seen the face of Jesus and is whole. That became my thought and then the hope of one day I will see her again that healed my heart and mindset. Some people say time heals. I don't agree with that, Jesus heals. But, we have to let the trial of grief do the work. And then when the time is right, we use the gift of what we have learn to help others. That is God's gift of grace. I encourage both of you to continue holding onto Christ Jesus and each other as He holds onto you as well. Grief share programs although I didn't go to any. My cousin did when she lost her husband. She said it was a lot of help. Maybe check to see if you have one that meets in your area. And who knows maybe you are to lead in something like it some day. God bless!!

[@brandiebigham5959]

God bless both of you. I started watching your videos a few weeks ago and watched older ones . God is always by our side in good times and in bad.

[@Vegavega94]

Like mentioned sometimes with boundaries specially when grieving it looks like I built a tent from the outside but people can't see that I wasn't I was hurt so to protect my sanity boundaries had to be put up

[@Vegavega94]

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