How We Saved Our Marriage After A Rough Time…

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[@hildaperez7684]

I've never liked the phrase "Happy Wife, Happy Life".... That's all wrong in so many levels... It's "Happy Spouse, Happy House" God bless you guys.. Never ever stop Communicating to me that's the main ingredient in a marriage... Luv you guys ❤❤❤ Marriage is beautiful thing when done right...Remember you guys were boyfriend/ girlfriend before y'all were husband/wife and the kids will get older and leave the house to start their own families and you'll just have eachother so keep it live, go out on dates alone no Koa.. spice it up.. when we start a family sometimes we're consumed by everyday work and kids and put our spouse on the back burner, don't do that this is our FOREVER PERSON.. Stay lit fr fr... ok enough I'm talking too much 😂

[@xoMrsWentzxo]

Yes, Happy Wife, Happy Life irritates is so selfish. And the fact that women and some men use it seriously irritates me to no end!

[@mamatyalia]

Destiny is so gorgeous ❤ Marriage is never 50/50. It's 100/100. You wake up daily and choose to stay married, to love, hell sometimes just to put up with your partner. You give everything you have every single time. Some days your 100 won't cover it and your partner will have to make up the difference. And that's fine. Both of you having the desire to serve each other daily is what will get you through. All my love 💓

[@hildaperez7684]

👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@itsiss83]

you mean destiny ?

[@mamatyalia]

@@itsiss83 haha yes but he's fine too 😆

[@Catherineann413]

Des, get Julius for Christmas an electric mini chain saw. It works great and it’s safer then that Axe🫣 He will love it. Love you guys, wish you the best always 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@munchkinlove23sc]

It’s never 100/100 either sometimes it’ll 80/20 or 40/60

[@jocee6784]

Des , don’t forget you guys married at a young age. The truth is us woman we don’t find our true selfs into we turn 30. Put God first into your marriage and watch how your hard times will fade away with the power of your union and love to one another .

[@chawnjones]

Finding ourselves at 30 is real. I found myself at 33!

[@IKnowSomeToughGirls]

Yes, everything about this!!!

[@therealchenell]

Amen

[@Naiki29]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@yeseniacastro4424]

This comment makes me so emotional bc it’s so true. I just turned 30 this weekend i went on a solo date all dolled up with red lips just to go to an art class lol ❤ i was sipping on my cocktail and painting ❤❤ such a beautiful and whole moment for me

[@MsCarlaaa]

Moving… moving out of state.. having a baby, no family around…. Takes a toll on a marriage. I’ve been there and it’s all about giving it your all. 😊 love you guys ❤

[@JessicaDanielleT]

Baby marriage is WORK!!!! The thing is finding someone you want to put the work in with. Destiny it’s really unfair how freaking stunning you are inside and out🥺 ❤one thing I Love about my girl , Des be like we got restaurant food at home sis stay creating gourmet meals. 😮‍💨 I’m with Koa I’d be stealing strawberries too that baby don’t play about his mama’s food. 😂This vlog was toooo good! Food looked delicious 1000/10 🔥I love y’all 🫶🏾

[@rubiolove10]

Love how open you guys are about marriage ❤️ it’s one thing just being couple but once kids and marriage happens, everything changes! Key is not to give up on your love and family ❤️

[@Bellaavii]

Destiny girl you made me cry. I’m going through something with the man I love and wanted to spend my life with. He’s also my Daughter’s father. He’s just not on the same page as me and it looks like it’s over for us. You have been blessed with a beautiful Son and a great Man who loves and respects you. You are amazing and you deserve it. I say that from the bottom of my heart💜

[@michellefalcon176]

You are not alone. I'm going through the samething ❤

[@erikabullock6642]

i’m going through the same thing love 💕

[@breannaali-trusty8068]

I was then I said fck him

[@blancadiaz1279]

😢😢😢 I'm sorry girly, keep ypur head up foe your Lil ones,,, putting god first has helped alot in our marriage we have ups a downs but having a good convo with your partner and having time as a couple also helps.

[@Bellaavii]

@@blancadiaz1279 well said. Thank you!!! 🤍

[@vanessamendoza7050]

His eyes say it all,he smiles but you can see he has a lot going on he’s usually so happy and hyping everything up 😢❤❤❤

[@AmbreBreanna07]

Men feel down too, it’s nice for them to feel appreciated & loved on even if they don’t make it seem like they need it .. deep down they do! ❤

[@Loves_Garden]

Someone you can be this vulnerable and soft with, who receives your love and reciprocates it AND yall elevating it, learning new ways to love each other, communicate and make money together….Definitely a blessing! Prayers up for your family 🙏🏽💗 KEEP GROWING ✨ #keepfighting

[@caseyaquino5222]

Des you have this energy about you that feels so bright, love yall🥹🤍

[@savannahwilliams9024]

What I LOVE so much about you guys is how real and vulnerable you guys are. I am a newly wed and we had a period of also feeling disconnected. This point of view is so real. Im praying that your marriage continues to grow and you guys are able to flourish together. Also, don't forget to keep God as the center of your marriage

[@pinaxolada]

Thank you for sharing your private experience in your relationship with us. When we always watch people at their best on social media and here, it can give a false sense of how everybody is doing well in their marriage/relationship and how you are like the only one going through tough paths. It can give a sense of like how your own relationship is not okay because everybody only shows themselves as they are always happy with butterflies around. So, it means a lot for me. I remember your video back in the time where you opened up about how you argued with him and how you wanted to make things right because things happen and you should not give up, it gave me so much inspiration back then, it made me realize that I mostly expect but I don’t give apology. So, I changed my ways and it worked like a charm with my now hubby❤️❤️❤️ You are such a special soul, I believe in your sincerity amongst everyone else. I wish you guys and myself and everyone who is in love a long and happy married life🎉🎉🎉

[@hildaperez7684]

For the record I saw it in both your eyes when y'all were going thru it... We can't hid it... I'm glad y'all found your way back it's not easy you gotta work at it and stay working on it 😊

[@chupamelo69]

Liar 😂

[@AbigailFimbres]

Girl I saw it too! I’m so happy that they worked on it. I love them together 🥰

[@ashleymnunes91]

Desssss your such a chef, you need to make a cook book! ❤such a beautiful family 😅

[@PatriciaChavez-v6i]

Living alone and far away from family friends will either makenyou or break you , thankfully for us it made us waaaay closer because we only had eachother to depend on, and there was nomore bad influence around us aka as toxic friends/family members , it does get lonely at times but i can say our relationship/marriage became so much stronger

[@yvetteisthefuture]

Thank you for sharing that. I know it’s hard especially online for so many people to see. But it made me feel less alone. No relationship is perfect and you’re 1000% right that all marriage is work from both sides. So happy you guys are such an exemplary couple and I look up to yall so much. Keep loving each other because love conquers all!!

[@anag329]

I love the dark hair on Destiny! ❤ Blessings to you two as you navigate through the ups and downs of marriage.

[@SWEETLILLY2]

Awww Des seeing you get emotional was beautiful. You and Julius truly love each other. Love/marriage could never exist without challenges and that just reminds us of why we fell in love with that person in the first place. My husband grinds my gears sometimes but I couldn't live without him❤❤❤❤

[@rxy1486]

destiny is so gorgeous inside and out omg!!! she is sooo sweet and caters to her man and i love that im this day and age yall so things to make it work. everyone gives up now

[@Jlbda3rd]

I’ve been watching you guys for so long and it’s amazing to see the progression you two have had through the years. Thank you for showing us some of this side of your relationship! Marriage is not easy and love to see an example of a couple putting in the work.

[@tizzytrades6060]

Yall give me hope that real love is always alive !!! I love yall fr ❤

[@reyeslua1991]

Des you’re amazing for your thoughts of cheering up your husband. Losing a friend let alone a best friend is very heart breaking, the grieving never stops.

[@Chique867]

Marriage does have its highs and lows and is hard work, but you guys are a great team and work well together. Saving time for each other and being open about how you both feel is very important. I hope that things stay ok with u both, plus I love watching your vlogs!😊

[@kylmj]

Yes it does! Especially after kids.

[@brooksdowns7357]

I have been watching y’all for over 6 years and I am genuinely so happy for you guys and every single milestone. Relationships are 100% about showing up for each other every day and sometimes we all fall short. Everything about your dinner was precious. God gave you two a beautiful family; cherish each other forever❤️

[@amazinglyjay2747]

I’ve been married since 2019 been with my husband since 2017 & I can understand 100% it’s not easy specially when we are together 24/7 it’s like a roller coaster,marriages are not all unicorns and rainbows,we’re growing together,we are changing together,communication is key and most important of it Respect we need to respect each other and speak to each other like grown ups,like I told my husband we are two different people I will not always like what he likes and he won’t like what I like and just come together to an agreement,But I love this man with all my soul,and yes is important to show each other how much we care for each other,This video is so beautiful Dess may God continue blessing your beautiful family and thank you for being so real with us.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@AlejandraRodríguez-c9o]

Des would love an in depth video of how you both came into terms with you both weren’t happy and decided to change. What did you 2 do to fall in love all over again? Love you guys!!!!

[@emilyagundez6529]

You had me crying! I love how open you are in showing us the real side of you guys. It gives us all a sense of connection and hope! Also, PLEASE give us the recipe for this meal!!! Had my mouth watering 🤤🤤

[@La9y3u9]

I can remember the video Destiny mentioned when JuJu said that was his last year not being a dad. He was correct. You all have came a long ways and I’m very proud of you all. 💙💙

[@iannalewis9202]

i love how real you are des! relationships arent for the weak. I have been in-love with my partner for 6 years. we have a son as well at a young age. Everyone goes through bumps just no one wants to talk about it. You both got this!!

[@dreamyreemee]

How sweet. I’m pretty sure the video you’re referencing is the first video on your channel I ever saw. Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable ❤

[@ChemineM93]

Love how natural yall are.... Doesn't feel forced ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@naomipetersen1913]

I love this family and Destiny to such a beautiful person inside out. Keep loving one another, put God first in your life and be blessed. I love how vulnerable you guys are , life has ups and downs and its refreshing to see you guys let us share everything with you

[@Marieee0608]

Loveeee this! Thank you for being raw des! Many don’t like sharing the deep/raw/realistic parts of their life so for you’s to choose to share it means a lot especially cause many can relate! I for one know for sure I do! I’m proud of you proud of you both! God bless your unity & your growing family ! ❤❤❤

[@wezziezgurll]

When she said “I’ll love you forever Julius. “ 😢 marriages really go through alot especially when you add a toddler into the mix. (My current situation) thank you for being so extremely valuable girl . We’re all human & we all go through our ups & downs. 🫶🏼💕

[@kylmj]

YES! My daughter was born a few days after Koa and I’m just now starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Life with littles is exhausting and hard but times flies and things get better ❤

[@M.Bryn3]

Love the authenticity of this video, keeping it raw 🫶🏻

[@minenhlemkhabela7541]

The fact that I remember the video she’s talking about shows me how long I’ve been watching them 😮❤ so cute 🥰

[@Naisha3z]

Des it doesnt matter how fancy the smile across his face you can tell he felt loved and special you are an extraordinary mother/ wife girly you are goals to me always remember the only way out the fire is through it TOGETHER

[@RabienaPersaud]

The fact that I been watching you guys since the donut review in your studio to when des decided to quit hooters ❤ I love that u guys made it ❤

[@angryken]

Dez I feel like you two have grown closer and are more genuine with your viewers since your move to Texas. Life in Cali can be very fast and it can be exhausting trying to keep up with that lifestyle. I hope you both find yourselves, wishing you both success and that you both grow more in love every day!

[@lamsksk8fam897]

Lill mans hair looks so cute. I can already see u 3 swimming in ur new pool having a blast ❤❤

[@itsmriaa2486]

Such a beautiful couple, there’s something “childlike” about how they love each other & it’s so sweet😢❤ Destiny you’re really 1 of 1 - you’re such a gentle soul & it shows.

[@andrewnehemiah3467]

What i love about dess she has always been consistantly her she loves hard her family comes naturally given she doesn't look to fit someone else space just her own. A little to negative but other that beautiful but who of us dont have things we need to work on work through to change. Just love this young couple!

[@edithsgrandbaby9371]

I have been watching yall since the studio days. I love yall so much like truly! I remember that date night Des. You had said you all had hit a rough batch so you wanted Julius to know you were sorry and loved him still. ❤❤❤❤ I wish you both so a long lasting marriage. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@taylorlust]

I had to circle back with a comment ! The strawberries, when I say I was laughing sooooo hard!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 " Do it how you do me!" highlight of the video!! Relationships are hard but as long as you try to connect and find new ways to love one another is growth! Having Children play apart in a relationship as well. You both are doing great!

[@AmyPrettyinpink]

Destiny you have a beautiful soul and I hope Julius sees this and appreciates it.

[@rahrah97]

This is the first time you guys have popped up on my homepage in forever despite being subscribed from the very beginning..this video made me emotional 😭😭😭

[@angelinaortiz393]

“Do it how you do me” omggg u guys are funny 😂😂😂😂 I was cracking up !!!😂😂😂😂

[@hibabenkhelifa4332]

I love you guys so much and the fact that we are growing up together is just beautiful...like I remember watching you guys in the small studio of juju and now like you I'm married with a baby boy..life is crazy 😅 thank you guys for all the videos you shared with us I get it it's your job! But you're doing it well 🥹🤍

[@lindasprunk5164]

I’m so glad you guys worked it out old school way “fix it instead of throw it.

[@CARZAR]

this is so important to share the truth it’s so helpful for newly weds to see this side of “growing” in marriage

[@esmeralda3056]

Awww this is so thoughtful of her to do 🥹

[@c-re-yb2ki]

U2 are the best couple on youtube! Keep up the entertaining videos also!! Fan of Diggy and Doodle as well:)

[@emmilywoods5781]

Thanks for being open. From one mom to another. Koa seems to be able to feed himself. You may want to let him go for it. I was the mom that hated messes but I think I fed them too long. Love y'all ❤️

[@akbelb8165]

Its not easy at all. We have been through some really hard times but fought through it. Going on 10 years now🎉 Its good to take an honest look and make changes in how you do things. Also i love that you guys are always real and didnt become show offs like a lot of the others

[@JesssGO1723]

I felt this Des! Your such a good person/wife/mommy! I did everything for my husband but it wasn’t enough with his drug addiction his violence was out of control I tierd to be there as a wife going to therapy but if someone doesn’t want ti change they want no matter how much I begged. I’m so happy y’all got to save y’all’s marriage!! You deserve your baby boy deserve a happy mom and dad! ❤ God bless

[@gettingtoknowthegrimes]

Love that you two are in a happier place 🤍🤍

[@Mbb895]

He talks about it because he wants more of that lol he’s giving you hints des 😅 Love this! Keep spreading this wonderful advice and experiences! Bless you guys 🙏🏼

[@melanieGates74]

Put God First and the center of your marriage ✝️🙏 He will bless you abundantly and protect you always ♥️ I watched you guys both when you first started off your channel and Des was working at Hooters! I got mad love for you Dess and your family! Sending you Blessings girl ! 💜😘

[@butterfIiess]

Destiny looks so beautiful without make up! Koa is getting soo big!! So happy to see this family thriving! They have a fun life! 🙏🙏💜💜

[@allyramirez9091]

I got married at 20 to my partner of now 5 years it’s been a little over 1 year since we got married. It definitely is hard but when you have god in the center of your marriage giving up or ‘divorce’ is not even in your thoughts.

[@daisyjzminee9455]

This video was so sweet. I love how you both are about eachother & your little family ❤ I also love seeing you cook more n more Des 😊

[@JessicaDanielleT]

The end KoKo said y’all not turning up without him 😂 he’s so handsome and grown eating that ice cream like a lil grown man I can’t 🥺😭❤️

[@ashbaybay100]

Julius plays too much lol Great video folks. Just remember you will go through growing individually and need to find a way to grow together throughout your marriage. Date each other still, communicate even if it's ugly with love, do not go to bed angry ever, always tell one another you love each other, and maintain true friendship with one another. You'll be fine.

[@sandrafernandez6578]

Dayummmm DES that food looks DELICIOUS!!!!!!!! That was so sweet for doing that for ur husband! I’m glad u guys worked ur situation out, u guys love eachother so much and have a beautiful family together and u guys are young.. u guys should always communicate what’s on ur minds whether bad or good! He knows he has a beautiful wife just like u have a handsome husband so always talk when needed and show everyone that u guys GOT THIS!!!!! Best of love and light to u all! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@shellarain]

Awe 🦋🫶🏼 I just adore y’all so much. I know God has his hands on your marriage and family as always. Wishing y’all nothing but the best, keep doing what you’re doing. Beautiful family. ✨💖

[@cynthiasmittle1347]

I’m glad you guys worked it out. Most couples now in days just give up bc they don’t want to put in the effort or simply don’t love each other enough to work things out. Marriage is hard and a full time job but with the right attitude and companion it can be beautiful and peaceful ❤marriage is being there for each other, showing acts of love, but also being friends ❤

[@NaturallyDesi]

I seen a quote that love is like a melody sometimes high sometimes low but always a beautiful song or something like that♥️♥️

[@AmbesiweMajavu]

Wow, I have never been so happy... the spark has rekindled for real🥺

[@AmaliaWebberStudio]

Life is hard but when you have love it’s worth fighting for. Make the choice every day

[@TeeGeeBee83]

Des still just as humble as it gets. lol she has been doing KZbin for years and is still embarrassed by ppl possibly looking at her while doing a video. lol Don’t be embarrassed for doing your job Dess because them ppl still do their jobs everyday. Next time think of it as you are on FaceTime with us. Lol

[@amanda_4544]

🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹I’m so happy you guys are going through the good/bad times and I’m genuinely so happy with you guys.

[@edithsgrandbaby9371]

Destiny you have really been there every step of the way for Julius after the passing of Cairie. (Im so sorry if i spelled it wrong) Im pretty sure the 1st 3 letters are Cai since that's kokos middle name after your late best friend. ❤ losing a friend especially a very close one and unexpectedly is hard.

[@leanngilmer2540]

Omg KOA is such a cute little boy. You both have a very special thing going on don’t ever let the little things get in the way of ruining that.

[@jenipherreyes7425]

“That’s what I like to seee” 😭😂🤣🤣🤣 when you throws down the branch

[@MakeupbyEty]

Des you’re a beautiful person inside and out 💖you made juju that day special! You are truly blessed! You have a beautiful family ! Your love 💕 is very strong 💪!

[@taqualasanders1131]

This is why I love Destiny! When she talks about her relationship and family she shows true emotion and sincerity. You’re truly an amazing wife and mother❤❤❤ Juju loves you unconditionally! Stay blessed

[@onefunhouse.4798]

Everything about this video is beautiful ❤❤❤ Your marriage is already blessed. Keep loving and communicating easily and may God keep your family in love always.🎉

[@kylmj]

I love you guys! You can see Julius energy has shifted for the better, he seems much happier now!

[@BevanEllis_Prolific_B]

one of the best videos from J & D, our fav couple to watch..... Love you C❤

[@VanessaJazminRodriguez]

You guys are such beautiful people inside and out! My favorite KZbin couple and I love how real and genuine you guys are! ♥️ May God continue to bless you guys and your family !

[@annettealmodovar4987]

God Almighty makes it all possible with honor and thanksgiving and praises be given to our Heavenly Father Glory to Him forever 🙏 God bless y'all 🕊️ marriage 💝

[@stephaniedaniels1849]

I love y’all content and destiny that was really sweet what u did and the sharing just keep God first and many blessings to u both and your family and Julius don’t ever say that to your wife again in front of us that’s your business what y’all do behind closed doors! Other than that y’all such a vibe hey koi 💙💞💙

[@LaVidaDeVal]

Love this! 😍 this was so special! I needed to see this! Also girl you need to share how to make that lasagna🔥

[@ashleymnunes91]

Desssss your such a chef, you need to make a cook book! ❤

[@catherinivargas]

YES !!

[@jesss7007]

love seeing you guys all thriving youre an amazing mommy !!!

[@kendra7403]

I love how open you guys are !!! I would never stop watching y’all legit the most genuine couple ❤❤❤❤❤

[@jessicagarcia9116]

Girl you have me tearing up on a Monday afternoon alone in my car 😭 loved this video

[@jaquelinetorres7766]

This was so cute, I'm so happy yall was able to stay strong Des your an amazing women and it shows that you love your family ❤️

[@Gingerdesiree_]

The work you all put into your marriage shows! Love yall 🩷💙

[@GLAMLIFEMOVIE]

They Make Such a beautiful couple 💘😍 and I could tell by the pranks they were going through a rough patch when she kept throwing his food at him and he did the Disrespectful questions Q&A prank 😂. Sending love and positivity ❤️❤️

[@abisolaolayinka4028]

Without you saying you looking so fresh and beautiful when your videos pop up is and evidence of a loving and enjoying relationship with juju love watching you guys ❤

[@MaricelaRodriguez-j8v]

We're all human ,it's good to keep some things private,.you got this girl Keep fighting

[@MansfieldKirkland]

I'm very proud of both of you guys it's working and your husband is spending time with your kids and everything keep up the good work may God bless you has many more to come

[@jesmarygonzalez6623]

Absolutely love this! I really enjoyed this video love to see a genuine real marriage 🤍God Bless Your Marriage and Your Family!

[@mapulytmonica6393]

If I don’t see y’all’s videos I become anxious, I just love you guys🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️ Des always looking her best🌺

[@tiffany7401]

You guys seemed happier in California. You had support you really needed, and it seems from the Washington video, Julius misses his family.

[@Jewls.]

Love this! Thank you🌹 I know you guys have date nights/ spa days and wanted to share with you, there’s a new spa that just opened in North Texas- Worldsprings in The Colony!

[@elizabethdefreest3550]

Always remember a relationship is always better with God in it .

[@Jazmine-hr4yv]

Love yall so much. I been watching yall since day 1! Love all your content. Yall grown so much into the cutest little family ever!!