Humberto's Friend Died

[@OkiChick302]

Sorry for your loss, Humberto.

[@phonuz]

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[@confusedpuppy1]

Sorry for your loss Humberto 😞❤️ and for your loss as well Kirk

[@lauralarosa.]

Humberto, you are a legend and your rawness and self-honesty is admirable. Condolences to you both for this immense loss.

[@phonuz]

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[@Mila-Sapphire]

Alcoholism is so rough to watch. I'm a nurse and we just had a 28 yo told he likely would die in the next 2-3 months from alcoholic liver failure. The very end of this podcast choked me up. Peace be with you both. Loss is always more difficult around the holidays too. 🕊

[@phonuz]

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[@lannaintajak80]

1:29:11 I can't hold back my tears no more at this point. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@phonuz]

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[@slinkyboo-boo]

Sorry for your loss. I am dealing with my son's addiction ... maybe I can listen later.

[@phonuz]

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[@justmarshdwellin]

I’m so sorry for your loss, Berto

[@phonuz]

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[@AnnKristinArt]

I’m so sorry for your loss, Humberto ❤️‍🩹

[@phonuz]

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[@emilyhardage3996]

I'm so sorry for your loss Humberto and Dr Kirk. I hope you guys can rest and take care of yourselves because you deserve it

[@soclose2her]

I wasn’t going to play this episode because honestly didn’t think I could get invested. But boy, you guys hit a lot of very pertinent topics. Humberto’s discussion about being honest about how he was doing is something that I too have started to do since recently going through an unexpected separation, and I have several close family member who although are not addicted to drugs/alcohol are in a downward medical spiral and are not willing/ready to get help to get better. And like Dr. Honda and Humberto, life has been kind to me and I’ve had no major losses in my family since my grandmother passed when I was in elementary school (I’m now in my 40’s). I’ve got uncles that I’m very close to that are in their 80’s and my parents are in their early 70’s. It’s getting close to that time. Thank you both so much for sharing these deep personal moments. They help us all in unexpected ways. Wishing you both the best

[@NeccoWecco]

I'm so sorry for your loss Humberto

[@phonuz]

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[@danielkarmy4893]

Humberto - this helped. So sorry for your loss.

[@phonuz]

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[@sunnypie2]

Thank you both for talking about this. I totally get the behavior of searching for something. You lost someone and you are behaviorally searching. For me it feels good to do something like that too. So sad. Sorry for your lost.

[@phonuz]

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[@hannahaguirre2972]

It is so inspiring to listen to Humberto and to see his internal growth . That came from hard work on his side and I’m truly impressed. It makes me want to work even harder on myself in my therapy . Thanks so much for sharing this with the audience. I personally relate to so much of this discussion and it gave me alot of hope and also made me feel “normal” as I go through my own grief , losing my dad this year .

[@hannahaguirre2972]

For some reason my first comment got deleted . I wanted to wish you an easy time through the grieving process and to give you my sympathies. I’m sorry for your loss Humberto. It’s tough to lose people that are close to us.

[@phonuz]

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[@lizmatthei3424]

Thank you for sharing this with us; it will help a lot of people. I’m very sorry for your loss. Both of you .

[@phonuz]

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[@haileyoslund]

1:03:50 it sounds like the “apology” Berto was really hoping for was changed behavior from his friend. 💔 So sorry, Berto. I’m only 32 but have lost multiple friends to drugs and alcohol and it hurts a lot. It’s a very helpless feeling. Wishing you the best. 💜

[@phonuz]

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[@jennyrx13]

Hugs to Humberto ❤

[@phonuz]

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[@UncontrolledFalculties]

I'm sorry for your loss Berto :(

[@phonuz]

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[@tomburns5231]

That sucks, Humberto. Really related to the thing about not wanting to eat something (especially bad). Recently had that feeling, too.

[@phonuz]

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[@srm0520]

Such a great conversation about the complexity of grief. Thank you, both and so sorry for your loss ❤

[@SHUTUPx3abby]

sending lots of love to both of you

[@LindaR-xh5hf]

💔😪 So sorry Berto. RIP Ron

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

I feel very conflicted with 'drinking' as a tribute to someone, I can love the lost person, but not all their maladaptive habits, and I just see no upside to drinking culture.

[@MS-mq8xj]

Sending so much love your way Humberto🥺💔❤️‍🩹

[@phonuz]

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[@muellerfm3868]

What is that outro song? So fitting and beautiful.

[@lannaintajak80]

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[@AurorasWindow]

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[@phonuz]

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[@lannaintajak80]

1:55:37 Please do❤

[@dariasmeh]

free spirited people? rather than obnoxious people perhaps?