Kitni Girhain Baqi Hain - Episode 20 - First Position - 21st Sep 2023 - HUM TV

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Kitni Girhain Baqi Hain - Episode 20 - First Position - 21st Sep 2023 - HUM TV
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Are we pushing our kids too far 'First Position' on Kitni Girhain Baqi Hain explores this topic.
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[@shaff11]

please add subtitles on kitni girhain baqi hain dramas n other reuploaded dramas. thanks

[@kiranfayyaz3235]

Isse kehte hain parhai K peeche pagal maa baap aulad ko marr Dia

[@minaco2772]

this episode actaully made me realise how lucky i am that my parents never forced me to score a position, always going easy one me and always appreciated me for my grades which were sometimes bad and good, sometimes even i failed they always uplifted and supported me. They are the biggest and most precious two people in my laugh i pray to Allah that may he make their full of Barakah and that they live long healthy and happy

[@yasmintajuddin3949]

Aameen

[@humabatool6216]

Same my parents, I was not a position holder but on result day our dad always took us to toy shop and buy us our favourite and treats.

[@sepvirgo._]

Samee!! Aameen✨

[@Sesiddiqui93]

Being harsh with kids in term of educational point of views is not bad now in my thirty in am realising that my parents were right thanks God I listened to them and took higher education because current generation in Pakistan is ignoring the facts and now suffering I am living in abroad and mashallah earning handsome amount Being lady education is blessing thanks to my parents that they disciplined me

[@zarishhassankhan]

😊

[@aqeelmeraj2839]

Finally we are raising social issues in the dramas.

[@sadiakhanrecipesandvlogs4903]

my parents never forced me or pressurized me. Still i became a doctor Alhamdolillah. this is all luck and written in fate. please never ever pressurize your kids like this. life is not just about getting positions. its about being happpy in whatever you do.

[@shahinnasir959]

Bachhi ki halat dekhkar meri ankho me pani aagaya she was so helpless 😢

[@remyjaorawala2804]

These parents r too much , they r not well wisher of children but well wisher of their ego n status

[@zainnaseem1069]

i had faced the same pressure from my family.This drama make me cried hardly. I was even unable to select the subjects of my choice

[@komalnd]

I used to get first position in all exams.. Became doctor.. Marries off in not so educated family.. Today I am working hard day and night.. The in laws have rendered all responsibilities on me and all are sitting at home . my parents used to say work hard now and you will get benefits in future.. I question their belief

[@younusafzalafzal6212]

INN SHA ALLAH YOU WILL GET RELIEF

[@minahilmisbah-gm7hi]

Zbrdst.... Beautiful msg for strict parents and society... Jinko sirf khud ki bat mnwana Aati h bchon ko koi b activity nhi krny dety.....

[@amnazafar8591]

This is heart wrenching and a perfect short film. It depicts what is happening these days. This competition in schools and families has ruined lifes of thousands of children. Parents do work hard to give good education but they should take care of children's mental health too. Children should be given time for other activities too. And this film is an awareness👏

[@muhammadmaaz3409]

Bss parenting karna nahi Athi unko

[@hirabatool2719]

Fortunately my parents never ever forced me for anything!

[@aishafazalk]

My parents actually were so chilled out! They would be so happy if I missed school if van didn’t come! They would encourage me positively and this inculcated in me a strong work ethic and career orientation. This level of stress for a kid is useless. Each child is number one in his own way. A very good message.

[@toobakhan9744]

Soaking her feet in ice Mom is insane 😮

[@kamranahmad7480]

Hmary parents ne to kabhi prhny ka ni kaha tha hum khud hi first position le aty they phir b unhy koi khas khushi ni hoti thi 😂😂

[@asmasiddiqui793]

right😂😂😂hmary parents ko pta e ni th kon c clas me h

[@user-wm7ib7np5s]

@@asmasiddiqui793😂😂😂😂

[@AfaanaliAfaanali-bi8ev]

Haha same here😂

[@lubnamehboob3261]

Anaya is so pretty masha Allah

[@bsc_bts7]

I just cried after watching this...😢😢😢😢😢

[@erumnew5481]

Sab bachon ki acting bhit achi thi school ki others student ki b 👍👍👍

[@shehylamir516]

Great message for those parents who force and pressurize their kids for position and toppers” let ur kids breath please 🙏 gave them their space.

[@rafaykubar6089]

Right @

[@mohdarshkarimi5362]

Abnormaal parents😢we can’t force our kids . Her Bacche ki apni capacity hoti hai padhne ki

[@wardajunaid1137]

Brother is so supportive

[@peacefultvbyaashi7789]

Feeling sad . Position doesn't matter to achieve success😢 life is a name of luck

[@sabashahid9405]

Exactly

[@47_gangstersgaming42]

😢😢😢

[@shabanaazhar3293]

Not luck, it's Allah's will.

[@peacefultvbyaashi7789]

Of course but luck is also made by Allah

[@MiraDesai]

Bilkul.

[@user-sz8yw3jr6c]

Outstanding message for our society actually mess society,😔

[@englishtaleshub]

Last scene was really disturbing but acting was superb

[@All-In-One-Shoe]

Parents make their kids life worse or Great .. 😢 either what's the situation, decision,grade or etc .. Who agree 💯

[@aroobaskitchenvlogs]

Anaya is so beautiful and innocent

[@shahzadiasma8801]

آ نکھوں میں آ نسو آ گئے ،دل پھٹ گیا

[@user-ri8ps7qu7f]

ONE OF THE BEST EPISODE ..AMONG I SEE EPISODES..

[@manorana6830]

I can't control my tears

[@uzmaali5303]

Plz koi nadia khan ki acting pr b comment kry jaise ye madam dosron ki acting pr remarks pass krti hain

[@samaakhan8966]

nadia acted very well. only comment u can do is to praise her

[@fatimasafdar6487]

Competition should be healthy one if it is healthy you can enjoy it. The behaviour shown by parents in this episode effects children mental health . They are always under the pressure of scoring first position and they develop fear of failure. Every child has different IQ level . Even if children work hard and get 70 percent marks instead of scolding and punishing them elder must try to praise motivate them. By this children will work more hard for next exam and can improve there marks as well. There should balance between stuides and enjoyment. Literally while watching this episode I felt bad for anaya she always was worried that if she didn't fulfil her parents wish of getting first position . She had anxiety of loosing marks and at end she just died due to panic attack. The word fail is a small word consisting of four letters but it carries a large meaning which is First attempt in learning

[@ankitadas7767]

Ab usi 1st position ka acchar daalo..😂 By da way all the actors acted really well.. Loved it.. One of the best episodes in ds series..

[@mint1580]

This is so accurate Parents want their children to become trophies for them in every way from taking 1st position to becoming a dr or engineer to getting married with someone of high status Just for the sake of praising their ego

[@shoyalkhatri6482]

Comments pdh kar to lagta hai jaise moulana log hi bs drama dekhate hai...😅😂

[@mydivinejourney2975]

😂

[@user-ls4uy2iz8k]

Hahahahahahah😅

[@mukarrmaamir]

Literraly this is bitter really of every middle class family SOO trueee

[@werdahbatool]

Alhamdulillah, I'm grateful that my parents never pressurised me. They always support me. ❤️

[@amnakhan7135]

Broked my heart into pieces....😢

[@saharansari7898]

😢 ending was so emotional 😭😭😭😭😭

[@nazirahmad24434]

بچوں پہ نظر رکھے لیکن ان سے دوست بن کے رہے نہ کہ حاکم بن کے ، کیونکہ پرورش کرنا ذمہ داری ہے نہ کہ مجبوری ۔۔۔

[@user-rz5gv9rp5r]

Zabardast sabk diya hai UN maa bap ko Jo bachon pay pressure daltay hain

[@hanjee2]

Best episode ....this is one of the most stressful point for students...when we were students we face same sort of pressure but not from my parents,from my tuition tutor...she used to hit us on head ,face... bruises on our body gave less pain but the pressure she gave us was insane....Allah hidayat day

[@adibaiqbal8581]

Sounds like a bully, (The tutor lady)

[@hanjee2]

@@adibaiqbal8581 yes ...she was almost psycho

[@hrahman5506]

Almost made me cry. The shit parents put their kids through because of competition with family.

[@Sesiddiqui93]

Being harsh with kids in term of educational point of views is not bad now in my thirty in am realising that my parents were right thanks God I listened to them and took higher education because current generation in Pakistan is ignoring the facts and now suffering I am living in abroad and mashallah earning handsome Being lady education is blessing thanks to my parents that they were disciplined me and now I am successful professional

[@hrahman5506]

@@Sesiddiqui93 being somewhat hard with children is not a bad thing but being abusive is wrong. The parents were only thinking of themselves. You don’t sleep deprive your kid. I’m sure u know if u keep staring at the same thing for hours it will get blurred. Teach the kids to work hard with good resources, get good rest. If they don’t make 90-100% it’s not the end of the world. Good to hear you got your education. It counts in getting a good job.

[@aliayasin3206]

I remember my frd she was always in stress coz of her father pressure she was only child I hope she is fine

[@lifewithanayasweety1823]

Dill phat gaya mera 😢😢😢

[@sunshine...9090]

Shukar hai mere parents aise nhi hai 😢

[@Samina_Rasheed]

🥺🥺🥺🥺Astaghgar litterly i am crying 😢😢😢😢

[@aleezazaid9901]

Anaya is so beautiful

[@user-pp2nw5me3k]

Ye hmari society ka rivaj hy. Na sirf position hr chez pr dosro k parents jtlaty hain or kuch bacho ko sehna prta hy... Na sirf prhai acha rishta ho jana km umr m shadi ho jana bety peda hoan or bhi bohat kuch hy jo logo k parents brh chr kr btaty hain jska nateja yhi niklta hy hyper tension anxiety stress

[@guddolucky181]

❤ Ever drama is best by Hum TV ❤️

[@user-jl6iz1tj8x]

This is the motivation for all parents out there that don't put an extreme pressure on your children to achieve something at any coast either it's in our fate or not...This excessive pressure without any happiness always leads to depression or death😢😢

[@Urwah-co8ck]

Excellent message for those parents who are actually harsh on their kids...good job

[@Sesiddiqui93]

Being harsh with kids in term of educational point of views is not bad now in my thirty in am realising that my parents were right thanks God I listened to them and took higher education because current generation in Pakistan is ignoring the facts and now suffering I am living in abroad and mashallah earning handsome Being lady education is blessing thanks to my parents that they were disciplined me

[@themagicisreal9910]

​@@Sesiddiqui93there should be a balance and child should not be pressurized to this extent...

[@bulbuls5223]

Never pressurize ur children to be on the top...good marks can also work

[@marryamkhalid8856]

Great!

[@Mimisbhai]

Anaya cute h ❤

[@KnowledgeHub579]

I really love this series

[@huriaasghar4167]

lesson for parents bacho ki zindagi sy ziada zaruri kch ni

[@winterbear521]

Atleast Anaya made it to the top .. but why i am crying so much .. anaya framed my half childhood here .. and you all know what.. I didn't made it to the top in matric and my parents thought of me as a failure especially my father cuz he told everyone that i was going to be a topper but no I didn't reached his expectations.. and it broke me so much that i hardly passed my intermediate.. and now trying my best to atleast get to the top in bachelor to regain their pride for me .

[@amnazafar8591]

You can gain their pride by having a good character and becoming the person who helps people in their tough times and never degrades anyone. If you're thinking about your parents then you already are a pure soul. They're going to be proud of you one day for the person you are and not for your grades only!🌸

[@winterbear521]

@@amnazafar8591 thank you for your beautiful words and yes i am already working on myself to make them proud and although i have chosen psychology as a subject in bachelor to help those who suffer with any kind of mental pain since i can feel their pain .

[@winterbear521]

@@shizatahir5390 In Sha ALLAH ❤️ thanks for your kind words ❤️

[@hrahman5506]

@@amnazafar8591no if winterbear does not get the marks the father is going to continue bringing up the past failure also. It’s better to do the best you can while putting that extra pressure of parents expectations to the side. In this story the mother did not have a brain; how do u study all day and night with no sleep no eating right. The body can only take so much.

[@winterbear521]

@@hrahman5506 well yes you are right. He still brings the topic of my failure whenever someone else's child achieves the position my father wanted me to .. so yeah i still have to do my best which is i am doing 🙏

[@saralicious_786]

Never ever force and pressurize ur kids to get positions Allah aisy parents kisi ko na dey

[@Faryalkhurram]

Beautiful episode 💗

[@sarwarawan2367]

Boht zabardast acting Ki ha Anaya nay..

[@safanaeem4341]

Is ka real namekyaha

[@user-md6km7se1o]

Such a good lesson for all parents 😢😢😢😢😢😢 position he sab Kuch nahe hota......ulad se barke Kuch nahe ....logo ko dekhane ke liye ap khud ko bhe waisa nahe bana sakte....😢😢😢😢😢

[@rabiarizwan9751]

Kitni cute bachi hy

[@hafsa4653]

Aese. Maa 💣baap. Ko. Jeene❌ ka. Koyi. Haq. Nahi. H. Astagfirullah 🤲

[@kidslearningwithfun6656]

Ufff speechless

[@yasmeenafridi7547]

Good job good message to stubborn parents

[@aliheider3861]

I like so much episode 20😢😮

[@khanicreations5863]

The urge to send this to your parents 💔

[@hrahman5506]

This can be sent to other parents but people that are doing wrong don’t see themselves as doing anything wrong. They are perfect.

[@explorewithus4738]

Superb drama, i also got position in board but my parents never ever put any pressure. I worked hard on my own and they just encouraged and prayed for me. A lot of time, my mother asked me to take rest and don't exhaust yourself. I also enjoyed my family gatherings as well.

[@jawariasiddiquie7101]

Nadia khan always comments on others acting look at hers

[@Wajeeha143]

Agree

[@israbanu9096]

Arrey she’s paid for trolling acting skills it’s her job to do so

[@lubnamehboob3261]

first scene hi farigh Tha kese pagalo ki tarah dialog phaink k chali gai😅

[@fari887]

😂

[@sonikhan9485]

Right

[@ahsanali2600]

Itna possessive nahi hona chayay parents ko study ko ly kr apny bachoun ki,,, aisa krny sy bachy depression mai ajaty hain thora social gathering fun and entertainment b hona chayay har cheez ka time table hona chayay har waqt ki parhai ko le kr bacha physcho and Rebel hojata hay

[@muhammadmaaz3409]

Ye bachpan sy Meray parents kar rahay Hain. Ye dramay Jo SB Kuch khandan main competition and everything ,I have been thru this and believe me it sucks. And abhi Bhi Meray father yahi boltay ky zyada marks Lou 💔💔💔💔

[@MickleHurts-]

@@muhammadmaaz3409 mere sth b esaa hi hrrhaa

[@zuriafatima]

Emaanay slayed

[@aleezazaid9901]

Bina soye kese koi parhyga?

[@rubinasarang1773]

Superb story hurt touch.

[@Peakyblindersstatus]

Bhaut aache story

[@rafay9996]

This is the reality of society to run over the marks😢

[@sameeraofficial850]

Bohat hi emotional video Hai isiliye parents mein se koi ek ka bachu ko darr rahe ek se Nahi ma bap mein Har koi ek choot dete Hai agar donu aise hojaie toh bache khatam Hai Allah taala sab parents ko nek taufeekh ATA famaiye Aameen

[@AtiyaWamiq-gb6rz]

Itna stress nhi dena chiye bachon pr

[@MohammadShabrezPHB]

I'm highly thankful and grateful to my parents and siblings for they never forced me to get a position in class or good marks, however I got positioned many times. And always being supportive for me and motivating me, for knowing mental conditions and caring about it, though they both are uneducated but for me they are best and I think they are better than many educated parents, the only thing they want from their children is position.❤ Alhumdulillah I cleared the NEET exam and I'm doing MBBS in a government medical College.

[@KHANSANSARI-nd9my]

1st position...😢😢😡😡stressed situation.

[@prayeronthego1375]

My daughter is in grade 10th, she is doing great with the assignments but she does miss school once a week. She is amazing in creative arts like animation and website designing but not that great in maths and chemistry. Her projects are to be showcased in front of the school. I am ok with whatever my daughter is. I am just happy that she is happy and a healthy child. Our dog has helped us to cope with our lives in such stressful time.

[@azkakitchen]

uff Allah

[@najmakhan5254]

Very very. Good serial Esa hi krte h log hame dsbav nhi dlna chahye kisi pr bhi wrna anjam khtaranak hota h end m

[@zaidimran4897]

First any ka mtlb har giz ye nahi k apka bucha intelligent hy

[@prabhakarpallavi]

Very nice👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@anitasingh2698]

Bachche maa-baap ki property nhi hote.......!!

[@aleezazaid9901]

Mene toh kbi itna seriously ni lia position ko

[@asmakhattak4348]

واقعی کچھ والدین فرسٹ پوزیشن کے لیے بچوں کا جینا حرام کردیتے ہیں۔

[@faabmu1769]

Good subject... nadia did perfect...

[@FarheenKhan-xs8im]

Jo maa baap apne bache pe padhai ke liye itna zor dete hai unke liye ek sabk hai bache ka khana khelna sona bhi bhut zaroori hai

[@Multisthetix]

This pressure on kids is very wrong, the more the pressure the worse the result, but As a student i also believe if my parents are working hard to ensure my good education and go to every extent for it, Their efforts should be rewarded with a good result, Though If i fail to achieve that certain record some time, Parents should just encourage their kids to do better and not pressurise them, I am very grateful that my parents never pressurise me for any position or stuff, they are happy if i get good results but never demotivate me when i get a bad one too, Alhamdullilah❤

[@saimachoudhry1596]

Abnormal treatment to get rid of being sleepy. Maan tou nahi ker saktee aisay. Yeah a devil can perform such a cruel activity. How can these kids remain normal in life ? 🤔

[@noorshaista1800]

Aaj K bacho Ki ...Kal Ki experienced Nadia se achi acting Thi🤔

[@My-Life-s7v]

Never pressurised your children.always support them.they onky have too much burdennised due to over loaded syllabus

[@falaknaaz7569]

Sad reality of parents

[@emantanvir8951]

This is so toxic🫠

[@ifraasim22]

Me very worried to see this drama Allah hum about parents ko hadayt thay...

[@user-nl5io8ct4i]

Haye Allah, toba.. 😕

[@ateebali7371]

You need to keep moderate pressure on kids but never over pressure it can be extremely dangerous if a child doesn't achieve with moderate pressure then look for another carrier for him rather than doctors or engineers because these two professions are only for the smartest ones 😊

[@hassanaziz2622]

Doesn't this girl look like arfa Karim?!

[@aleezazaid9901]

Shukr hy mere parents ni thy ese

[@siderakhan5672]

Very beautiful my friend

[@Savage-fd5go]

Is m bht acha lesson tha, itna pressure nhe hona chahye Lkn hassan or Nadia ki acting bht buri h

[@afshanjalil4924]

Hasan phir bhi guzara krta hy nadia ko acting bilkul nahi ati