HUSBAND FINDS OUT HIS WIFE WAS IN HARAM RELATIONSHIP BEFORE

[@ahmedmohamed-on9lf]

It is very difficult situation. May Allah protect us from that kind of situation

[@Top1xPalestine]

Ameen suma Ameen

[@Sherif-the-Watcher]

I love Islam. I love my religion! Thank you for the daily reminders and spreading the beauty of Islam as well

[@Islam-furqan]

Allah is all forgiving!

[@NADEEMKHAN-ph8xs]

Man are not

[@manuchehrraupov2581]

@@NADEEMKHAN-ph8xs who are you to speak for men? if you aren't then it doesn't mean everybody is like you

[@arafaayubu]

These things happen especially in our corrupted times. What the sheikh is talking is actually happening. Believe it or not for one reason or the other. It depends on what country you are living. But believe it , it is therr

[@alsaifcamp]

In the hadith about the virtue of walking to Jumu`ah prayer, it was narrated from Aws ibn Aws ath-Thaqafi that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever does ghusl on Friday and cleanses himself, and sets out early, and comes close to the imam and listens and keeps quiet, for every step he takes he will have the reward of fasting and praying qiyam for one year.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 496; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Sahih al-Tirmidhi, 410.

[@AmuslimwithAopinion]

Ask the MAN if he is a virgin.

[@shamskhalif567]

no problem with this, as a matter I support this idea that one must come forward in regards of marriage bcuz now this life isn't just about me or myself, it's about us and our kids, and now one would want to build their home on pillars of lies. Period

[@condorianonegdiffsgoku]

Most likely is. Or else wouldn't be so devastated about it.

[@LabelOnline2]

The man who asked the question is a virgin

[@snowkiddprime8979]

How could a marriage get stronger after this revelation? It means no sense to me.

[@Code8564]

@@snowkiddprime8979 Exactly, don't listen to this lecture. I don't understand what's wrong with these people who give cuckold lectures.

[@Sumal2324]

Sry for my bad English grammar if it's long if you're not interested then don't read 😅 You're right my husband’s first ex wife was not a virgin she had a Zina with many men they got nikkah very early she was 16 he was 21 in Afghanistan then he left Afghanistan for a job and after 4 years he made her visa passport and she come to Saudi Arabia and first night he discovered she was not a virgin but he did not judged her he become silent he took her to makkah madina to ask Allah forgiveness and become better Muslim wife but her Akhlaq personality everything was bad then he discovered that she cheated with him multiple times in afg and messaging sending her haram pics to males then he divorced her and send her to afg like their relationship lasted 15, 20 days he says to me she was never been good wife to him she used to ghost him for 3 months in afg whenever he sends money to her or things she used to give other males he said their relationship wasn't really a relationship it was nothing He says he is good Muslim men he never did bad thing he lowered his gaze but why Allah give him bad worst wife that was his worst decision ever he regrets a lot I said it was a test thanks to Allah u found early and got divorced he is happy with me it's been 61 days since our nikkah so point is yes no marriage will last longer if a spouse did Zina in the past or does after nikkah cheater is always the cheater. Guess what His ex wife's name is same as mine🤮 but I'm older than her now I'm going to change my name.

[@moudassar5990]

Assalam aleykoum everyone , I would like to share my opinion on this subject for me zina is the worst thing a woman can do whether before marriage or even after marriage but we can react differently it depends if the woman warned us before marriage that she was no longer a virgin so it's up to you to decide if you want to marry her or not on the other hand if she doesn't warn us that she was no longer a virgin and we learn it then for me it's the worst possible betrayal and that deserves divorce, why should we, preserve ourselves for marriage if she does not do it so yes she deserves divorce except for one exception, if she was raped then it is different, praise to ALLAH and his prophet MOHAMAD SAW, there is only one advice that I can give you it is impossible to know a woman's past what she has done , the only way is to ask her directly tell her to be honest because you will know it well after the marriage if she was a virgin or not, thank you for reading it's just my opinion I speak on behalf of no one and I don't represent anyone thank you

[@lllllll-vl2uh]

Wa alaikum Al Salam wa rahama Allah wa berekatu regarding what you said about asking the woman before marriage I don't think that is appropriate because Allah swt has gave this woman sitr and she repented and changed y would u ask her ??? And brother today science shows that there are virgin girls) women who do not bleed after having a relationship with their spouses so you might think she is not virgin though she is and u might put yourself and her in a terrible situation. I think you have to pray and beg Allah swt to bless you with a virgin wife before marriage or else it might be complicated. May Allah guide you and bless you and give you a wife from your wish

[@seekadv8066]

Wa Alaikum Salaam brother There is a way to ask the sister if she is chaste without asking her directly, so she doesn’t expose sin if she isn’t a virgin any more. Write a list of 5-10 requirements you want in a spouse and have one of the requirements as being chaste (virgin, no previous sexual partners) and that way if she sees it on the list amongst other things she can just say, “we aren’t compatible.” And she doesn’t expose sin, and you are protected from what might have been an unchaste woman.

[@moudassar5990]

@@seekadv8066 that is a really good idea brother , if i know someone in this situation i tell him to do that , thanks my brother

[@moudassar5990]

@@lllllll-vl2uh you are right brother this is inappropriate and yes now we have new technologies , anyway all you said is right and you are very kind thanks i will remember you and youre familly in my duahh

[@CedarTree-h9f]

@@moudassar5990 Always glad to see a man who admits that someone is right. It's rare nowadays.

[@rasheedaabdulhameed9327]

I love Islam because by Allah SWT mercy, your sins are concealed by Allah SWT and no one have the right to expose it. Alhamdulillah

[@wajedatabassum4430]

You should always mention the speaker.

[@AdamuMpoto-dl5dg]

Insha Allah

[@OBuBu-p8y]

I appreciate this video. Bc a man who repents after sinning is a hero! But a women?! No! If she has a sin in her past, she is dirty and her present doesn't matter (In my society). Men can repent but women? No! Men can be forgiven but women? No!!!

[@smanasalam]

Come clean before marriage. Otherwise the law should be applied equally. Having gone through the situation there is no point in continuing a marriage based on a lie.

[@user28225]

This is very sad to hear but remember Allah is All-Forgiving and anyone can repent to Him. If you walk to Allah, Allah will run to you! May Allah keep you and your family on the right path 🙏

[@FrankeNamensKarim]

Sounds like a toxic society without justice. The opposite of islam

[@CedarTree-h9f]

Brother/Sister what kind of society do you have? lol. Allah (SWT) is All-Forgiving anyone can repent to him.

[@FrankeNamensKarim]

@@CedarTree-h9f for real, it's so wrong and also it's not ok to treat women and men so different

[@aamerelhouli7125]

Forgiveness is one thing and dealing with this person down the track is nothing but a headache walk away

[@fahimredwan]

Subhan Allah

[@IssahMariam-tw4uc]

Please I want to know why we shouldn't go in Haram relationship before marriage

[@Drizzy-f7x]

Alhamduillah ❤

[@FrankeNamensKarim]

When the woman says she is still virgin but she isn't, the marriage is based on a lie and with that ut does not count. That's what I learned once. Also I just want to mention, that there doesn't have to be blood. Some women have more blood, some less, and some absolutely no blood by the first time. So please don't judge based on that alone

[@helloihi1854]

Nope everyone has blood dont like🎉😂, if you not knkw

[@naim7466]

Very sensitive human emotions,man utterly devastated,she had pleasures with other men,gave her preciousness away,some may forgive,others troublesome marriage.

[@mayg7415]

Allah has eternal forgiveness, unfortunately we humans were not created with that capability. You can forgive her and still walk away, that's also an option. Especially in cases were you have already consumated the marriage, which means she has taken your chance to experience something with another virgin like yourself. But a marriage based on lies will never be a successful. A lot end in divorce, others are together but miserable. I've seen situations were people who were previously married, divorced and remarried again start having problems due to comparisons and experiences from their past marriages. Now what of an individual who was engaged in a Haram relationship with no baraka, sometimes with different individuals etc. How traumatic would that be, and what type of baggage would they drag into their new relationships. I know of situations where married people just burst into tears upon remembering their sin. I know a woman who was dreading intimacy with her husband because it reminded her of her past sin, and she would burst into a tears. I know a guy who didn't like to be intimate with his wife because he felt she was not as good as his past Haram relationship, which also put him into despair etc. Too many tragic stories floating around for me to test those waters

[@ZahidurrahmanTahi]

I can forgive him who tried to kill me. But I never forgive that person who betrayed me.

[@mariaemad123]

جزاك اللە خیر

[@omarsaidy8775]

ALHAMDULILLAH♡AMEEN💙💚❤️AMEEN♡☆AMEEN

[@redpanther9380]

Divorce for me tbh

[@user28225]

Please remove this thumbnail, it is so Haram Astaghfirullah 😔

[@manuchehrraupov2581]

they have more knowledge than you so just shut up

[@ashfaque9700]

Scholars of Islam at earlier time said Virgin means "The women who didn't marry before" which indirectly says she didn't have a guy to have intercourse But bruh, now a days, sinning like that and didn't let your patner knows sucks a lot Like a boy who protected himself a lot for non-mehram got married to a girl who engaged in intercourse stuff with one or more guys Like ever imagine that one day if the guy to whom she had haram intercourse earlier with, comes in front of her after she got married how possibly they both will feel in front of her husband ? And let's say that the haram intercourse she had earlier, that person satisfy her nicely, but after getting married she gets satisfied but not how she used to feel earlier, so she will think of the guy again and feel upset or whatever Like, a man used to think that after getting married, he will protect her women after Allah Talah, and end up knowing that the girl have sinned multiple times in the past, like the one he wanted to protect have already allowed someone else to touch herself wow, like literally sucks yaar I just hate it I just hate it a lot very much :/((( Ah well, I hate it I just hate it, I wish Allah Talah let every person have good past and they meet each other and get married 🙂

[@aminatabangura3706]

Alhamdulillah

[@arafaayubu]

Something you forget is that the haram relationship of the woman before marriage involved a man also. And tha man possibly married a chaste woman and left this one. We should forgive past sins Allah yaalam

[@Code8564]

@@arafaayubu It's your opinion. Not everybody's.

[@arafaayubu]

You are right.

[@arafaayubu]

Who am I to have an opinion that is accepted by everybody? I am I and not everybody. This is obviuos

[@Code8564]

@@arafaayubu Who told you that your opinion is accepted by everybody huh??!

[@mayg7415]

Most virgins side with the man, and most "modern" Muslims will push forgiveness in this case, especially women because unfortunately some for them currently live that life.

[@MrGAMER-t9o]

i did not find the answer satisfying. im virgin and want my future bride to be virgin as well. as didnt had any single relationship before marriage i strongly expect from her as well. the worst part is where i live is a big city and most of them are drown with sin the universities are a place of fornication, the youngers dont really care if someone is virgin or not but i do and thats why im still single because i couldnt and cannot find someone virgin that i can truly love and devote rest of my life. as for forgiving im not that type of person when it comes to this its literally my biggest fear from a marriage so for this reason im afraid of marriage.

[@blackreaper6872]

I think if you give a chance to other person (if theyve changed their ways) and you support them when theyre vulnerable and in need of it it will certainly make the marriage stronger. The speaker is right in this regard. No one is perfect. Now if she lied about it that was wrong im not saying she isnt but her husband should give her a chance to see if things work out. And alot of brothers here are making this reason an excuse that ill also marry 4 times etc. bro it shows that deep inside thats what you want anyway(and thats fine if you can be just ) but dont use this reason an an excuse to do that. You can marry 4 times anyway if it suits you and you can be just. And for those who are saying she isnt exclusive and all that i ask the same question the speaker asked in this video bro are we innocent? Havent we done things in our lives that we arent proud of?? Do we cling on to them and stay in guilt. NO!!! ALLAH doesnt want that. HE wants us to move on without guilt especially when we have changed our ways. I know this is a very sensitive issue but still when ALLAH forgives and erases a sin who are we to judge anyone? And one more thing no one should expose his or her past sins to anyone even your spouse. That is not honesty that is stupidity. Because those sins which u tell to people they are never forgiven. And it only destroys the relationship (most of the cases). And everyone has their own opinions at the end of the day. This is just mine.

[@RatherShaista-hn6zq]

Uff english u are really good nd great person

[@RatherShaista-hn6zq]

Jis k Seth aap ki shadi hogi voh lucky hogi

[@chemicalforce4553]

If I were to be accused for a past relationship. I would gladly accept it. But all the past mistakes are not the same degree as this one. Nobody is perfect. But dont compare something that is not within the context of it. If a person restrained his nafs for his legally married wife in the future. Is it so wrong to expect the same from his wife? Of course, a man will feel broken after this.

[@mhm2689]

no problem but im gonna marry multiples wifes ! if u re not exclusive either am i .

[@loomismusic2170]

It's a choice that 95% women in the world make intentionally, and then they repent, they do it again, they repent again, they get forgiven .It was never a mistake, it was always a choice. They always chose to do haram, they always chose to cheat, they always chose to hurt their husband.

[@Spartan-knight]

But what if we do relationship before marriage and(planning for future) is this allowed?

[@bahradinfaruk8703]

You must make nikaa

[@Spartan-knight]

@@bahradinfaruk8703 nikaa is agreement between a boy and girl right?

[@Spartan-knight]

@@bahradinfaruk8703 I don't have gf rn, I broke up with that one cheater(but I said it because that one is like me maybe we be friends or NO!)

[@MSAHNWN5EMNSSSAKY]

No it is not allowed the only way you can have physical relationship is marriage

[@Spartan-knight]

@@MSAHNWN5EMNSSSAKY ok 🤷‍♂️

[@sakibulhasansojib8987]

Brothers and sisters be careful of such Islamic yt channels. Hooking Thumbnails with girl, sexual stuff aren’t looking at them Haram? They also runs add. Clearly not doing for the sake of Allah. Fear allah.

[@Explainer4YOU]

but it is not fair , that i will remain virgin and avoid other's even if i want and then after marrige i found out that my wife has done it , so is it fair? no it's not , i tolerated myself and did't let anyone touch me and then i find that i and my wife is not same , she enjoyed her self and let other used her and now will i be the one to face her ? even if she say it was a mistake , no it was not , alowing someone don't make it mistake , i will rather end my life or just wait for my death at worst if i can't break the marrige ,

[@madnimalek9282]

What's in the thumbnail 🤧😔

[@Ramesh.Abdur.Rahman]

Fear Allah ‎سبحانه وتعالى in putting such thumbnails

[@moiniqbal786]

It does not matter past is past

[@bomberman6812]

Everything done today is based on the past

[@Code8564]

The marriage is becoming very dangerous because of such kind of bit ches existing in our community.

[@AmuslimwithAopinion]

@@Code8564 what about the men, and what kind of person calls women bitches. I doubt anyone want to marry a person who swears and thinks dirty of them.

[@amirayusuuffarah7212]

Stop using insults and keep your tongue and fingers clean. You keep writing comments with the word b*ch*s not okay. Women are not the word you say they are. Respect woman. The one that birthed you is a woman

[@LALEHTV]

I dead nead subscribers 😢

[@Code8564]

Unsubscribed

[@shuaybsattar8545]

Nah she used and expired ima leave INSTANTLY male with relationships with multiple people are not the same If a women is polygamous that is revolting a male is okay

[@amirayusuuffarah7212]

Delusional

[@Code8564]

Please don't listen to this lecture.

[@syedarehanabanu360]

Why?

[@all_about_women]

Through this lecture only many depressed people get hope in there life..

[@Code8564]

I would better go for pros ti tution rather than marrying some random bit ch in our community.

[@jhangirakhter5848]

THIS MARRIAGE IS DOOMED FROM THE VERY BEGINNING,IT WILL END IN A REAL DISASTER,POSSIBLY WITH ONE OR TWO TOTALLY INNOCENT CHILDREN BECOMING THE UNWILLING VICTIMS.I HAVE SEEN IT HAPPENING MORE THAN ONCE.DIVORCE IS THE ONLY MOST SENSIBLE THING TO DO IN THIS SITUATION