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@falgunipanchal912 жыл бұрын
muje. number. mill. sakta. he. bat. karni. he
@Shubham7C2 жыл бұрын
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@shaikvaheeda1906 Жыл бұрын
Please drop the number...need to talk...i don't use fb
@Starwar99421 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that his husband is insecure. Because he wanted to save the marrige
@moirangmaipaksana69072 жыл бұрын
Maybe I trust my wife but i can't let her go with any male friends without me because I love her and to escape from unwanted incidents
@cyclone84569 ай бұрын
Let her live free her life .....
@vishuk68967 ай бұрын
@@cyclone8456 then ask her to be free instead of being in relationship-- have seen faar worse situationns because of these besties.
@MohitYadav-th7fz5 ай бұрын
@@cyclone8456 tu kon hota hai bolne wala 😏😏
@Abhinav-m4o3 ай бұрын
@@cyclone8456shut up even i won't allow my wife too go out with a male friend
@GoldenPhoenix10810 күн бұрын
Also its not about your not trusting your wife but you know how mens are ! and therefore you cant let her go with other males !
@winnieito42832 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't like if my husband pick up her female friend every day. It's not abt jealousy or trust. If u spend time together with someone everyday, u will like that person. So be aware
@jayagarwal27302 жыл бұрын
It was just for a single day not everyday dude
@ramankohli4354 Жыл бұрын
Correct
@abhay089910 ай бұрын
Correct dheere dheere baat aghe badh gati h aur third person na ho to acha relationship me male ho ya female
@cyclone84569 ай бұрын
@@abhay0899 If third person aye to ap lucky ho ap jaldi Bach Gaye .....Varna samnevale ko dabake kya karoge ..... Uske mind ko badal change to nahi sakte na
@abhay08999 ай бұрын
@@cyclone8456 baat sahi h aapki lekin phir bhi yaar rista kon todna chahta h
@platinumwings8779 Жыл бұрын
To all my men reading this - Never date a woman forget marrying her who has male friends. No need to fight ; no need to marry - just walk away. Save yourself from all the drama. Mostly friend zoned guys , single guys and women you will see supporting such things. Ever found a self respecting successful man supporting this. And if you still want to fight just a question - “Does your mother has male besties ? “How would you feel if you found out your father has female bestie ?” You are smart enough to get this now
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
Fabulous answer
@Divyanshsaxena99 Жыл бұрын
This is the one answer I wanted to read
@aymanzaman5993 Жыл бұрын
I am totally 100000000000000% agree with you brother 🖤
@randomuserdamn97999 ай бұрын
Absolutely right! Same goes for women too
@srinathsatya8 ай бұрын
I totally agree with you.
@infinity_shows_149 Жыл бұрын
All the conflicts in relationships start with third persons, be it male or female. Friendships with opposite sex after marriage is mostly frustrating. And in metros cases of extra marital affairs are sky rocketing. So, it’s very obvious to be insecure of that friend who has the ability to destroy your entire relationship and mental health. My advice is to stay away with friends of opposite sex after marriage, for a peaceful life.🙂
@breakaleg6117 Жыл бұрын
Stay away with those spouse who dont trust each other.
@dragonlordskator Жыл бұрын
@@breakaleg6117 says the admin of swinger group
@ArunKumar-fo9xt Жыл бұрын
@@breakaleg6117nope boys cannot be trusted
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
@@breakaleg6117men and women aren't same. Let a woman ask for one night stand with 100 men and same for a man. See the results for yourself. The way a woman easily gets "male " friends can she get "female" ones? Which female friends pick and drops their female friends from work to home. You dont want to acknowledge simple logic ,no one can save you Better to leave such narassictic women who can't ever be satisfied. Friends my foot
@ravijeeverma8762 ай бұрын
Better don't marry@@breakaleg6117
@Richard-ib1ry2 жыл бұрын
He's insecure because her husband knows the intention of a male friend and all men are not the same
@gouravchakraborty98012 жыл бұрын
What if his wife cheats on him?
@Richard-ib1ry2 жыл бұрын
@@gouravchakraborty9801 Thats what am saying..her husband is right to be insecure
@nikhar1234tare2 жыл бұрын
Justification is like WA forward which urges girls to wear proper clothes as their father feels insecure since as per the message phone is more protected when it's in the cover
@jayshreepanday5995 Жыл бұрын
All men same
@infinity_shows_149 Жыл бұрын
Husband’s insecurity is totally justified.
@FFGaming-ow7gs Жыл бұрын
Problem is not trusting wife ..it's all about the male friend mentality
@rad42172 жыл бұрын
This husband is right he trust his wife he never accused her of an affair but told her to maintain distance with the male friend I think wife will do same
@subham99vlog Жыл бұрын
If you give more time with your male or female friend after marriage then anyone will be insecure!! And if you spend more time in that scenario then you will eventually fall in love with that person and that's when the concept of extramarital starts to play!!! It's doesn't depend on loyalty or honesty or blah blah blah.. It's a matter of human nature and hormanal changes !!
@sanjukatapradhan9686 Жыл бұрын
The first thing is this is entirely a very different and rare case ....because here the husband has female friends . The second thing is that Vidit , even after knowing that Neha is married he continues to stick with her , which any man on this earth would not resist. It's not about trust a husband has on his wife , it's about that person with whom she is always found . That's it.
@shubhamjain69662 жыл бұрын
why do girls have to make every male friend a brother after marriage....was epic line 👍 👌 💛
@aashishmanwal992 жыл бұрын
he trust on girl but not his male friend becoz he better know all male are on same page
@AbhishekJejurkar.2 жыл бұрын
@@aashishmanwal99 👍
@mouryaas13102 жыл бұрын
👍
@gouravchakraborty98012 жыл бұрын
@@aashishmanwal99 Suspicion of cheating
@ahsanmalik10132 жыл бұрын
Because brother is sacred thing but stranger in the name of friend isn’t and is known to break many marriage apart.
@gregoryhouse6722 жыл бұрын
IMO, Be it husband or wife, in modern day having a HEALTHY level of insecurities (not to the extent to which portrayed in this video) is not necessarily a bad thing. Especially in modern times where loyalty has minimal value in relationship and "have trust" is a way of manipulating and cheating your partner. Blind trust and total lack of any insecurities in early part of relationship can be easily exploited. Nb: Not saying that we should be scrutinizing every step of our partner but don't throw away your self respect in fear of being called insecure!
@10ksam Жыл бұрын
Why should one doubt the other person when there is no obvious reason to do so? Wife/husband is not child to be controlled. An adult is supposed to be aware of morals and they have a character. If a person chooses to cheat on you then there is no point in being in a relationship with him/her. Trust is the foundation for any relationship to sustain.
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
@@10ksam prevention is better than cure....most of the divorces take place due to women cheating on their husband with their office mal friend....no sane partner be it a man or woman, will ever let their marriage get ruined knowingly
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
@@10ksamI'd divorce laws didn't favour women no man would give a shit. Just because of sex ratio women are getting extra attention and using it for their gain. This will come to bite you in the ass
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
@@10ksamtrust is fine . But some actions are deliberate. Why can't spouse hang out with spouse only. Why can't they get a cab? Some actions just semms disrectful and not about trust or controlling someone
@rudrakshyadav73352 жыл бұрын
I hope it doesn't end with "Aapko aapki galti hai ehsaas hua, mere liye kafi hai" Or "Yeh to mera farz hai, Maine yeh Insaniyat ke Khatir kiya" 🤣🤣
@SCubevlogs14 Жыл бұрын
I want to share my opinion that if a girl makes a male friend and gives a suggestion word like "trust," then, according to my perspective, the husband needs to make a female friend, and if the wife faces an issue and asks about it just like the husband did, we simply need the same thing as if you didn't trust. They will come to know.
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
This nijo guy nakes provocative content to get views. Every woman knows thwy dont have male friends but simps. Will any woman deop her friend like this daily to her home? She knows he's interested in her and loves the attention. Easy divorce favouring women have made them crazy
@shivanshdayal24442 жыл бұрын
We can trust our partners but how can we trust their best friend’s intentions
@ramneekknaveen87512 жыл бұрын
By getting to know them....just like parents keep an eye on their teen children to know how their friends are and if they have not fallen in a bad company
@shivanshdayal24442 жыл бұрын
@@ramneekknaveen8751 what’s wrong with it?
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
@@ramneekknaveen8751 bas yahi kaam hai husband k paas, ladki pe najar rakhe, aur ladki gair mardon se dil lagati ghoome
@dragonlordskator Жыл бұрын
@@ramneekknaveen8751biwi se shadi hui hai uske pure friend circle se nai. don't force your friendships on your husband you should realise the boundaries or else don't marry at all. if a man says he doesn't like something than don't do it
@platinumwings8779 Жыл бұрын
Bro save yourself from all the drama. Already we males have enough issues to deal with. Women with male besties are not worth dating ; forget marrying. Just walk away and find a woman who respects you and the institution of marriage.
@nellaiguy85824 ай бұрын
Niju you are right. At the wife's place of work they become friends first, Then comes the illegal affair, In the end, both of them will kill you together. Now this is what is happening with the working wife. So you work and support the family, this is what happens if you send your wife to work
@jg-yy5lr Жыл бұрын
That ending rarely happens in real life though. 😂😂😂
@infinity_shows_149 Жыл бұрын
Kisi k saath v time spend karoge… toh it will automatically generate attachment, bonding… at the cost of your married life. Jiske saath shadi hui h uske saath time spend karne me problem hoti h😂 What if the man is in regular contact with his female friends…
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
She's trying her best to have multiple fun
@des-zd6ht2 жыл бұрын
While trust is important, too much of it can harm you.
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
Blind trust is self destructive
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
Men and women can never be friends. Which woman drops her female friends daily at home. Lol thristy guys do this, cheap women love the attention and call it friendship
@discoveryourpg41672 жыл бұрын
Ask yourself do your dad have any female bestie or your mom have any male bestie then think about normalizing it
@rrsinhaartist22292 жыл бұрын
True but in some cases I'm not fully agreed.. to trust more than yourself closing your eyes is like you are betraying yourself. Because some time we loose the love one whom we trust more than ourself.
@prathikshshetty94582 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@renegade75652 жыл бұрын
It's not a question of trusting your partner. All males have the same intention. Period. We should not be normalising this, as it is most of relationships are in a rocky state and divorce rates are on the rise. We need to go back to our culture and traditions and stop trying to justify western beliefs.
@merlynmenezes_01062 жыл бұрын
Love, trust, care, are the vital thing in any relationship... Spouses can have male/ female friend keeping in mind their commitment and limits... Loved the content and msg...💜
@anshmittal3098 Жыл бұрын
Boys act different infront of girls You even don't know boys When i was school boys always act like a cool friend but behind always talk how they are talking to her because she is cute Same happened in my college And all these females think they know more about male than us
@gouravchakraborty98012 жыл бұрын
Not surprised with this kind of ending.
@16-akash40 Жыл бұрын
Because these are all showing us the 1%positivity by hiding 99%reality. According to them, only boys are possessive and girls are loyal.
@kannuriprashanth47282 жыл бұрын
In the same situation, if a boy has a female Friend, how does she behave. did she understand or not ?? I think she won't.. what's your answer ??
@lazydaizy87012 жыл бұрын
It's not like that if we're getting insecure for our loved ones that means we just don't trust them cause some people really have that anxiety or a fear in their mind whenever they love someone they expect a lot from them and probably don't want to loose them so that love obviously creates an insecurity in our mind it's just about feelings not always trust issues
@தேவகிருபை-வ1ச Жыл бұрын
After marriage each an every one must sacrifice themselves to their partners because male friend or female friend is not important than the relationship bond of Husband and wife .....
@rishabhchatterjee17062 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't start controlling your partner after marriage. Your spouse is as normal after marriage as she was before it, so don't make his/her life a living hell by suspecting him/her unnecessarily
@aravindnxmusic2 жыл бұрын
'normal' as before marriage? Nah, not happening in the last bastion of culture on planet earth. Once marriage is done, BOTH guy and girl should FORGET their previous lifestyle, ask forgiveness to God if they had done anything immoral, and vow that they shall stay true to their spouse after marriage and also maintain chastity.
@rishabhchatterjee17062 жыл бұрын
@@aravindnxmusic Nah nah you got that wrong by ' normal' I meant to say that they will have the same group of friends after marriage as they had before it as shown in this video. Of course, I agree with you that one should remain pure and dedicated to only one person in a romantic sense i.e. your spouse after marriage ⛲
@ravijeeverma8762 жыл бұрын
@@aravindnxmusic very good thought
@shakaibhusainsiddiqui2 жыл бұрын
@@aravindnxmusic I don't agree with you shaadi ke baad zindagi khatam nhi ho jaati
@shakaibhusainsiddiqui2 жыл бұрын
you are right
@s_sanjh2 жыл бұрын
It's not only about trust.... Insecurities in relationships are quite normal, especially if the person has been cheated on before by someone else or due to some childhood experiences. What I believe would have been better on his part was to not act so controlling by saying don't do this don't do that because in that way the girl also feels he is restricting her when she knows her intentions are right. He should rather communicate with her and explain to her and make her feel how it affects him. Because if she really cares for him, she won't do things that affects the emotional health of the partner. And also on her part, it's definitely not wrong to have male friends after marriage, but meeting the same friend again and again, especially if he's not a childhood friend, might give that guy some hope that she's interested in him. So it's better to keep a boundary until and unless the friendship bond is like very strong since they were kids or so!
@Shada123-q2d2 жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻
@ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava Жыл бұрын
Firstly, it was said in this video that Vidit and Neha are friends since college. Second, they meet regularly because they work together. And third, yes insecurities in a relationship is normal. Actually till an extent it's important, it makes the other person feel special, and that the partner do care. But if insecurity cross its limits like in this video, he was trying to make her live her life as per his wish, it makes the person feel trapped and suffocated. Trust in one another is the most basic need of any relationship. Without trust no relation would survive. I agree to your point of communication. That's the best way of really trying.
@s_sanjh Жыл бұрын
@@ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava that's the point. But you know, there have been many cases where people didn't cheat because they were loyal, but their emotions changed due to repetitive interactions with someone else. Humans are like that, no one has control about how they'd feel about someone, whether they'd start liking them or not. But whether they go for cheating or not, that's in their hands. My whole point being, persons who has a significant other, shouldn't place themselves in similar situation they earlier had with their spouse that made them fall for each other. Doesn't mean they'll stop living their life, they will talk normally, laugh etc, but spending alone time with one or the same person of the opp gender should be avoided if possible!
@ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava Жыл бұрын
@@s_sanjh Sorry but I don't agree
@s_sanjh Жыл бұрын
@@ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava yeah ofc everyone has different opinion. I put mine here🤗 It's okay to differ, but glad you're so respectful still
@Chinmay-77 Жыл бұрын
Its not about the trust on the wife. Rather husband can understand bad intentions of male friend. There is differnce between possessivenss and over possessivenss.
@infinity_shows_149 Жыл бұрын
This video has huge misconceptions, Divorces are on rise, extra marital affairs are skyrocketing…. Whole family is getting destroyed no a days, espin metro cities.. And this friendship with opposite gender is the main reason behind it… it creates trust issues, rocky relationships… Beware men,,and women… don’t get into this trap😊
@10ksam Жыл бұрын
In some cases, people who lack self confidence don't trust their partners. Be it a man or a woman, if that person thinks that he/she is lacking in something they may be afraid that their partner may ditch them for a better person. People with inferiority complex will have trust issues in a relationship.
@Guddubhai-j9s Жыл бұрын
You don't know about attachment If someone spend time with anyone then they will attached
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
What if she ditches her trusting partner, does he deserve it
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
Gaslight much
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
If you don't want to spend every living second with your spouse you are trash. And let's forget about the insecure spouse. Which woman has such dedicated woman friends who drop ,pick up and do all these flavours to them? Women who can't make women friends are trash and use their sexuality to attract male orbitors and then Gaslight their husband
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
Just go around and ask women to approach their best friends for a relationship and males for their female friends for a relationship. You will get your answer. People who ignore obvious difference between male and female are clueless
@skmreviewvlogs58962 жыл бұрын
Video is amazing... The actress is very good...She is a natural actress
@homosapien64142 жыл бұрын
This issue can be solved if trust develops. When there is mutual respect for each other's feelings. When there is intense bond of love. And for that to develop both husband and wife should know each other. They should know likes - dislikes of each other. And for that to happen spending quality time with each other helps. Time is most valuable thing that anyone can give to someone. Going out on vacation, showing regular love and affection , doing something special to make your partner feel valuable, helping each other in daily chores , respecting each other's family members , will surely help. Spend much of ur time with ur partner and the family members and then u won't need any outside friends or office colleagues. Kids are the greatest source of motivation and commitment. Have them early to bind u both. If possible stay with ur parents in joint family system. These things never allow us to develop even a iota of thought to get into illicit relationships.
@Shada123-q2d2 жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
What if wife is spending more time with her male partners than with her husband, will that relationship survive
@dianalayne48032 жыл бұрын
If you have insecurities about your partner being friends with any other man then you have trust issues and trust in a relationship is most important
@nishan7310 Жыл бұрын
@@mehra764 exactly
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
Reality is not insecurity. If partner choses to spend time with someone else then they don't love you. You are ignoring that this is not a friendship but persuing. Will any man/woman do these things for same gender friends? This is sexual persuasion nothing else.
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
Its not partner it's wife. Dont use light words to make marriage a joke
@JaiD04276 ай бұрын
I have seen my friend's marriage close to break, due to his wife not trusting him with a female colleague! My advise to him was: 1. Stay away from that female colleague 2. Go for marriage counseling It saved their marriage & now they are parents to a 4 yr old kid! Your comment looks good on paper - but not in real life!
@Jhon_wick032 жыл бұрын
Reject modernity embrace masculinity
@-zeusalmighty-28122 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
💯
@pvskrao11 ай бұрын
if husband moves with female friends leaving wife alone. will female allows us? no. please make video on this sir
@vlogswithadiraj2 жыл бұрын
Phele walla nijo hii sahi tha wife oor girlfriend ke male bestfriends are just shut mans . I know many peoples who left his female bestfriends because of their wife's insecurity but womens can't do it and made this a big issue . That harsh but true nowadays only man can suffer & sacrifices in indian society 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@ravijeeverma8764 ай бұрын
Don't marry if u wish to hangout with friends of opposite gender. This really sucks. There can never be a any greater trauma for a spouse to see his or her partner going merry go round with friends of opposite gender. It's not jealousy it's Hunan nature psychology which is perfectly normal
@rohinimorzaria12572 жыл бұрын
Raksha Bandhan gets expensive because we have so many brothers ☺️
@srinathsatya8 ай бұрын
Blind trust is not good.
@deepakmalviya66292 жыл бұрын
Last moments and nice and beautiful moments,cute video 🙏 and happy ending, good lessons
@Mysteryguy1231210 ай бұрын
It's not about trust or anything i guess. If they start meeting with someone else for long time then eventually the worse will happen. I have also faced it before. I was okay when she talked with her male friends, i allowed that to happen right before my eyes because i trusted her the most. But eventually she did what i never thought she would do to me. She eventually started having physical relationship with her so called friend. It broke me completely. If you really love a person then can't you just cut off other people from your contact? Can't they just be with you and forget about their so called friend. Even in this video it was only about one guy which she could have talked properly and tell that friend, i love him a lot and for the relationship with my husband we should stop talking to each other. Every problem that they were having would have been solved in an instant. Back then whenever my ex felt insecure when i was talking with someone i would tell them properly that we cannot talk now and block. Simple as that. The girl in this video really made me remember how my ex was.
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
And right after I declined her husband Facebook profile was deleted. Funny world. Infact girls only like top 10% men. Rest some are good girls who honor relationship. And some are always looking for better
@HomeSweetHome-di9yu7 ай бұрын
The moment she said : If I decided I want to leave you then nobody will be able to change my decision I recalled a women said something ki agar main chali gayi toh wapas kabhi dhundh nahi paaoge , but tumhe main dhundh loongi kyunki ek mard ke pass sirf 2 opportunity rehti hai yaa toh pyaar ke aage jhuk jaaye ya use chod de par ek Aurat ke pass 200 i completely agreed with her because ek mard ke pass koi wajah nahi hoti kisi ko dokha Dene ki par ek aurat ke pass 200.... 😮💨
@DS-eq4si Жыл бұрын
Don't blame the husband. It's very normal of him. What do you think the wife would do if the husband does the same ?
@sobhitgiri3993 Жыл бұрын
@@mehra764 uski marji hai bey. usey agar rakhna hai male frnds woh rakhe. kyun bey lawde uski dosti tudwana chahta hai
@harshat86847 ай бұрын
Why can't girls just leave a friend for their important relation with husband, if wife of that male friend says to leave her he will do it next minute, girls need to understand the boundaries...
@leelak82143 ай бұрын
THIS IS THE WAY HOW A WOMEN MANIPULATES U
@gopalsinghrawat4016 Жыл бұрын
लड़का एक दूसरे लड़के की सोच और उसकी मंशा के बारे मैं बहोत अच्छी तरह जानता है फिर भी वो अपनी पत्नी पर भरोसा करके उसे दूसरे पूरूष मित्रो के साथ या लड़को के साथ जाने दे और अगर उसकी पत्नी के साथ कूछ भी गलत हो गया तो उसका जिम्मेदार कौन होगा लड़की के साथ कूछ भी गलत होने के बाद यह भरोसा विश्वास यह सब किसी काम नहीं आते और हर पती के मन मैं यह भी डर होता है की अगर पत्नी के साथ कोई जबरदस्ती करने की कोशिश करता है तो वो अपनी रक्षा नहीं कर पायेगी
@nehankitsrivastava40202 жыл бұрын
Reality yhi hai that no male frnds matter after so called marriage...
@35abhishekneman42 жыл бұрын
Baat ladki pe bharose ki nahi hai. Saamne waale ladkeke intention ka bharosa nahi hai. Aur waisebhi ladkome patience ki kami hoti hai.
@imrrai10 ай бұрын
But because of marriage we must not forget those people who were there in our life before our marriage. We just need to set proper boundaries to avoid issues.
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
@@imrraiask these so called friends whether they want to sleep with you , you will get your answer. Do women have such women friends who do them these favours like picking up droppings off? Treating to lunch? You can't forget your friends but meet only with your spouse. Your spouse comes first. Only they are of same gender then it's no problem
@imrrai9 ай бұрын
@@Terahydron I agree with you. I am not married yet but I do have a male bestie. We both have already set our boundaries and he is quite respectful about that. So I trust him. But one day when I have a boyfriend or husband, I would definitely like to introduce him to them as he has been with me as a support during my worst days. I would definitely not hide anything from my future bf or spouse. But the thing is that I want them to trust me and my friends. Even after I tell them everything but still they choose to suspect me, it will mean that my bf or spouse must be insecure. And I am not that type of girl who would keep friends with benefits. So trust is also another factor.
@mehra7646 ай бұрын
@@imrraiget ready to be scolded by husband
@sbntravel16446 ай бұрын
In 90% cases people trust but partner cheats, Trust is the weakest word in this world. Husband or wife should both should know their friends it’s not that one fine day we see lots of chats on their phones with people we don’t even heard from them and when we ask they say they all are friends. It hurts
@deepakk34342 жыл бұрын
So from this video you are teaching girls to have boyfriends after marriage? Is it a very noble idea? Actually after marriage girl should not be alone with any other man, this is our Indian culture. Don't bring western culture and dilute it.
@aravindnxmusic2 жыл бұрын
Yea you are right. God has given a Husband for you to love and care for, why do you even need another male companion?
@Honeybear04882 жыл бұрын
Western culture doesn’t condone either. It’s just that in partners there should be trust . If you constantly doubt and suspect your partner as to make them feel suffocated , what do you expect ??
@deepakk34342 жыл бұрын
@@Honeybear0488 Right. But in this video the husband is not just falsely suspecting that she is with other man, She is actually associating with other man which is not good and the husband is correct in saying it to her that she should not do that. He is actually protecting her.
@shakaibhusainsiddiqui2 жыл бұрын
you are wrong
@aayushgupta81493 ай бұрын
Kaisi soch hai apki , thu hai
@aish00722 жыл бұрын
Amazing content ❤❤💯💯
@Ayush-on7oh4 ай бұрын
Don't think too much bro, If i have female friends then what is problem in addressing them as my sisters , It will not hamper my jokes with them , It will not hamper my boundaries with them, It will not hamper my bond with them, We will still share gifts , We will still party , We will still help each other. Now it should be other way round as well , If she have male friends then what will change if she make them her brother , I know her intentions are pure but if her male friends reject in case their intentions are just pack of garbages.
@Usmanghani063 Жыл бұрын
Wife's thinking absolutely wrong because our culture is not allow such a kind of liberty.
@ankitasaxena97242 жыл бұрын
Well just reverse the genders what if the husband goes out with another girl ? Will the wife be okay with it 🙂
@35abhishekneman42 жыл бұрын
Baat ladki pe bharosa hone ki nahi hai. Saamne waale ladkeke intention ka bharosa nahi hai. Waisebhi ladkome patience ki kami hoti hai.
@authorSnehaNarayanan2 жыл бұрын
Whether she is ok or not ok is not the issue, the thing is as partners we cannot control or tell our partner with whom they can talk . Regarding your question, Yes , feeling jealousy is normal, but acting on it and getting angry on your partner or stopping her from going out with her friends, is not Normal. If you feel insecure and jealous, then take therapy and work on your attachment style. And this is for both genders
@anshmittal3098 Жыл бұрын
@@authorSnehaNarayanan this video is stupid which is trying to show things in black and white manner Most of the yines when their is best freinds of opposite gender one thing i hqve seen common is dusre partner ka kat raha hota aaj kal Yeah cheez situation to situation badalti hai
@SayanNandaАй бұрын
@@authorSnehaNarayanani want your future husband to have a female bestie
@pratimapreet9952 Жыл бұрын
I don't know a married girl should have male friends or not yeah i m not much agree to have a male friend bcoz sometimes it may be a trouble to trust on some stranger.. But in my case its very different.. I m a housewife nd well educated. My husband goes to duty everyday, he works with women or girls nd they ask him to take them to their home. I know everything but never feel insecure but but but if I talk with stranger in front of my husband he abuse me if I want to do job then he forbid bcoz he thinks there would be male person.. Even he does not like that I talk with any male person even shopkeeper vegetable seller renters or anybody why??? It means he does not trust me thats it. We women trust our husband too much they used to go outside for their work nd meet every type of girls married unmarried but we have no problem but why man thinks opposite. Pliz don't take my comment in wrong I cant hold my hand to explain my....
@yoginagowda7410 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@anshmittal3098 Жыл бұрын
Don't think ir it happens with you than other male is doing because of that You even Don't know why male say that
@pratimapreet9952 Жыл бұрын
@Arjun haa stri dharm or purush dharm uska kya?? Me stri hu isliye jarurat padne par v kisi male se bat ni kar sakti even kisi function me v participate ni kar sakti? Sabji tak apni marji se ni kharid sakti. Apni pasand se ghar k paint or colour ko v ni chun sakti. Public place pe muskura v dun to mere character pe sawal hota h. 24 ghante ghoonghat me rahne ko shtri dharm kahte h aap? Me feminism ki bat ni karti lekin arjun bhai purush ka v kuch dharm hota h aap kisi ladki se shadi karte h to usey wo har samman milna chahiye jiska adhikar h usey. Galti pe thappad marne or gali dene se behtar h pyar se samjhaye, samaj or pariwar me uska apman n kare majak n bnaye. Kahne k liye bahut kuch h lekin chodiye shtri dharm hi yad aayega aapko or purush or pati dharm ni yad aayega. Sita ko ravan ki najar lag gyi lekin raam ne v dhobi ki bat pe sita ko ghar se nikaal diya. Krishna ne draupadi ki lajja bachai or uske patiyo ne bhari shabha me usko bech diya.. Mat kariye shtri dharm ki bat
@16-akash40 Жыл бұрын
Point is not all wives are like you and not all husbands are not like your husband. Most of the metro cities have high inclination of extra marital affairs. Especially people like you and short videos like these show 5%of positivity and ignore 95% of reality. Yeah in your case you are right and ur husband is wrong. But trust me it is reverse in most of the cases.
@anshmittal3098 Жыл бұрын
@@pratimapreet9952 thing that you don't undertsand you are talking about extreme Your case is extreme here we are talking about can they be bestfriend Or friends whom they hang out with on daily basis and which qre friends in your personal life not about office work or daily work Dont generalise what your husband do Your husband has problem not all man in the world
@hariniakula22729 ай бұрын
sometimes friends also have a bad intention in that time also husband encourage to go with him
@PriyaPriya-nb5bt Жыл бұрын
Husband shi h bilkul jha pyar hota wha sakh hota hi h.mere husband bhi always apne office ke friend log ke sth ghoomna party krte h.aur mai akele bore .always unke dost sth enjoy.jbki mai itni beautiful tb bhi wo apne dost log sth busy mujhe bhi insecure feel hoti h jealous hoti h
@abhay089910 ай бұрын
Trust ki baat nhi h baat h male friends ki intention ki 😢
@ashapurnadas37482 жыл бұрын
Over possessiveness creates over control and that kills a relationship
@dindian3717 Жыл бұрын
Prevention is better than cure
@abhay089910 ай бұрын
@@dindian3717yes😂
@Terahydron9 ай бұрын
Cheap women who can't be satisfied shouldn't marry to take advantage of marriage. Stay single and have as many friends you want
@sushilbiswas6722 жыл бұрын
You all giving dialogues that men don't have to control their wives etc etc.. You all tell me if that man was always going with any girl then her wife what would have said to him? So tell me why man has to treat his woman friend like her sister after marriage???
@_YuvrajSingh_.2 ай бұрын
See it's not like that we don't trust our partner we do lekin har mard jaanta hai ek ladka ek ladki se dosti tab hi banayega jab usko usse kuch mil rahe hai aur relationship mein insecure hona sahi hai jisse ki apko apne relationship pe kitna trust hai pata chal jata hai and ek aur baat for all the girls here agar tumhare partner ko tumhare male friends se insecure feel kar raha hai toh apne male friend ko block kar do aur agar tumhe uske female friends se insecure feel ho raha hai toh just go and tell him aur har mard janta hai ki dusre bande ki intention kya hai because all men are not same kisi ko mera pov acha nahin laga ho toh I am literally sorry ❤❤
@jairajrai798010 ай бұрын
Ending can be in many ways
@ashishpatil35797 ай бұрын
Last movement may sidaa divos paper daltaa................use milnaa bhi band aur office bhi band
@indirajithravanan6421 Жыл бұрын
Bestie's are always ruin relationship
@TitanXx6212 жыл бұрын
We trust our husband/wife... But not the people around.. So do everything to save your marriage, remember your vows you made... Marriage requires sacrifices of both... Thank you 💑💑
@MyTechniqueWorks2 жыл бұрын
I personally feel women should not have male friends once they get married that is
@yoginagowda7410 Жыл бұрын
Why??
@MyTechniqueWorks Жыл бұрын
@@yoginagowda7410 because chances of affairs increase if too much attachment
@kyunireenaSutapa Жыл бұрын
Yeah bro abandon all your friends after marriage girls if leaving your parents wasn't enough 🤡
@MyTechniqueWorks Жыл бұрын
@@kyunireenaSutapa you know why old times were best? Because women stayed inside. Now if they outside affairs happening, independence happening, then more separations happening go look at divorce rates
@kyunireenaSutapa Жыл бұрын
@@MyTechniqueWorks yeah cause that time woman wasn't able to find their man cheating outside lol 🤡
@tanvigupta63482 жыл бұрын
Nice video 🙏🙏🙏🌈🌈🤞✊✊✊hats off u nijo sir and ur team
@jyotiranjan29922 жыл бұрын
Kaash ladkiyaan aisi hoti.
@manmohankarwal96262 жыл бұрын
After marriage ladki ki life mein koi v male friend hona hi nhi chahiye
@shakaibhusainsiddiqui2 жыл бұрын
galat keh rahe hain aap
@-zeusalmighty-28122 жыл бұрын
@@shakaibhusainsiddiqui Kiu bhai
@upriserinternationallegend2082 жыл бұрын
Aur male ki life mein koi female nhi
@shakaibhusainsiddiqui Жыл бұрын
@@-zeusalmighty-2812 kyuki shaadi ke baad life khatam nhi hojati
@-zeusalmighty-2812 Жыл бұрын
@@shakaibhusainsiddiqui to male friends kiu shaadi k bad?
@desiavlogswithamit90877 ай бұрын
Trust ek issue nahi hai you can trust your wife but not an another person who is that close to your wife
@indirajithravanan6421 Жыл бұрын
All relationship breaks by worst besties
@samkitjain91512 жыл бұрын
Nijo bhai har video ke end me sahi nikalte hai, ye kya ho gaya
@avishekchakraborty5477 Жыл бұрын
i just came here to read the comment section 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@shivshalu26912 жыл бұрын
Hmm mere toh insecurity s rista hi khtm h es topic bolu hi ky mujh p koi trust n krta male bestie bcz i m sports person
@SunShine-br8bp Жыл бұрын
Many husbands trusting and not questioning their wife's but many are cheating by seeing this how can a husband be quite without questioning
@vlogswithadiraj2 жыл бұрын
Nahi nahi pehele walla nijo sahi tha 🤟🤟🤟🤟
@leelak82143 ай бұрын
THIS KIND KF WRITING/ DIRECTON LEADS CRIME STORIES EPISODES?
@srinathsatyaАй бұрын
That is why single gender schools and colleges are always safe and good. They also help to focus on career and education and also avoids many kind of distractions and future problems.
@kevinfed668 Жыл бұрын
Neha is pretty and attractive. What's her real name ?
@amitkumar-dn7zv Жыл бұрын
Larka kisi ek larki se jiwan bhar pyar krta hai...pyar Dil se krta hai ...larki tbtk aapke sath hai jbtk ki usko apse best nahi mil jata .... Larki ko change hone me second vi nahi lgta
@azharsharif66638 ай бұрын
She is wrong ... husband is only important
@vijithadsan81692 жыл бұрын
Checking the wife's handbag is very bad manners. Husband has no right to read wife's belongings or bags. Will not help for a healthy harmonious atmosphere.
@gouravchakraborty98012 жыл бұрын
What if she's cheating on him?
@angryskullman83452 жыл бұрын
Then wife also doesnt have rights to check husband's phone or laptop. Women ☕️
@aravindnxmusic2 жыл бұрын
Wrong. Husband has all rights on his wife's personal things. And wife too has same rights on husband's personal life.
@vijithadsan81692 жыл бұрын
@@aravindnxmusic It is not healthy to check each other's belongings. The most important ingredients for a happy marriage are, love, trust and respect. Not keeping tabs.
@shakaibhusainsiddiqui2 жыл бұрын
@@aravindnxmusic no you are wrong
@mohitdedha6804 ай бұрын
Haha kya video bhani ha friend ho he nhi sakta yrr
@sunildadasokapasekapase585 Жыл бұрын
girl is wrong yar😢❤
@indrajsr01Ай бұрын
Males minds are different... if your GF or wife is sharing her quality time with another male, then.. you are not her priority, but you are her option. Just come out of that relationship. In this video, it has not been shown whether that male friend is married or not, and if married, how his wife will react to the situation...
@andysmudge48492 жыл бұрын
1 year later: Husband comes home unexpected (Opens the door) (Neha, Vidit cuddling on bed) Neha: Nijo, you are home!! Nijo: Neha, what's happening here!! (Shocked Neha covers herself with sheets, meanwhile Vidit jumps out of bed searching for his underwear) Neha: It's not what it looks like Nijo, please let me explain Nijo: How can you do this to me, Neha? Neha: Please Nijo, forgive me, it's a mistake Nijo: I thought you loved me Neha: I love you Nijo, it's a stupid mistake. This means nothing. Nijo: I loved you. I trusted you. I can't.... I can't.... (Stutters for words) Neha: Please Nijo, listen to me, I'm... Nijo: Neha, please stop for fkin sake, I'm... I'm.... out of here... Neha: Please Nijo, don't leave... Please .... (Pachtaoge song playing in the background) Please believe in your heart, if you feel like she's cheating, there's a great chance that she might be cheating...
@shaminipushparaj53822 жыл бұрын
Hope you don't get married...I have male friends and I know my limits and let them know what they limit is..I'm a working women..I Have get together to attend office party, functions. If my husband had to doubt like this my wife would have turned into hell ...if she was actually cheating she wouldn't have let him know about his friend in first place
@andysmudge48492 жыл бұрын
@@shaminipushparaj5382 Your male friends might not be attractive enough for you. I have many female friends who are married and going for vacations with my other male colleagues in the name of "business trip". A working woman these days, looks at marriage as some kinda freakin deal. Well, not taking males out of equation btw.
@aravindnxmusic2 жыл бұрын
@@shaminipushparaj5382 she told her husband about her male friend because she probably thought he was 'liberal' enough to accept the concept of a married woman traveling alone with another man who is not her husband. Well, she is lucky if her husband is OK with it, but if he isn't, she must not continue her free relationship with other men. First purushanukku puriya vechutu apram avarukku okay na friendship continue panlam thappe illa. But oru nalla wife, purushanukku pudikala na endha guys koodavum close relationship vechukave maataa.
@shaminipushparaj53822 жыл бұрын
@@aravindnxmusic I agree to it..I was just responding to toxic mindset of the above person..look at the script..it so rubbish
@mehra7646 ай бұрын
@@shaminipushparaj5382you have control but your male friends doesn't have any😂😂 ask them
@pankajaraosurabhi6524 Жыл бұрын
Very few people understand the friendship with opposite gender...!
@JOJO_THE_PROGRAMMER Жыл бұрын
No, no man is interested to being as friend of any girl, I bet if a girl is ugly and fat then no-one would be interested in her
@leelak82143 ай бұрын
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@biswajitdas6426 Жыл бұрын
It's wrong , a male gets insecured for his partner not because , he dob't trust his partner. Because , he don't trust her male friends. What if , that so called male best friend spike any drinks & takes the advantage of the wife ? Who is gonna be punished them ? Who is gonna hurt then ? It's the husband right ? Not that cheap male best friend. So , if you need a male best friend even after marraige , you are not ready for that relationship. A marraige is not just a relationship , it's also a huge responsibility.
@prashanticandy2 жыл бұрын
Amazing content 👍👍
@shwetabisht64222 жыл бұрын
Nice👍
@user-tn2fd1mr8o2 жыл бұрын
Her husband acts as if he can't have any female friend
@muznimuhammed5852 жыл бұрын
Don't keep cottonwool near the fire.dont take such a drama like this hereafter.male friends may be only in office life not in real life.if any body things we have to keep male or female friends in our personal life, definitely you will loosing all your happiness in your personal, family and married life.
@tusharbaheti16482 жыл бұрын
dikkat trust ki nai h sb launde harami hote h by default.... isliye married ldkiya bhee jldi bharosha krke fass jati h
@SajidKhan-yy5cc11 ай бұрын
औरत को हमेशा डर लगा रहना चाहिए की उसका हसबैंड उसको छोड़ कर चला जायेगा तभी हसबैंड वाइफ का रिश्ता अच्छा चलता है 😁
@rohanmakam9350 Жыл бұрын
According to the logic of wife then husband should make only female friends and roam with them
@ankita35582 жыл бұрын
Video is very good but Kitne male iss video se kuch sikhenge, shayad koi bhi nahi
@35abhishekneman42 жыл бұрын
Baat ladki pe bharosa hone ki nahi hai. Saamne waale ladkeke intention ka bharosa nahi hai. Waisebhi ladkome patience ki kami hoti hai.
@16-akash40 Жыл бұрын
Oh how many of you will learn if they switch genders? It is not about doubting her. It is about insecurity about her female friend. If he don't like his wife, why would he roam all the city for his wife. Why can't he think about ignoring her?
@pawankumarrao638Ай бұрын
Rather than asking trust from husband. First stop running behind male friend 😂😂😂😂😂. Dont give waste advise.