Husband Used a Brilliant Strategy to Discover Cheating

[@threesocksmorgan1862]

She fessed up because her whole workplace knew and the husband would have found out

[@saucewashere6994]

Bingo! Someone who felt bad for him woulda told him somehow someway

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

SPOT on I bet a Another work colleague was going to expose her. I also bet it WASN'T the 1st time she CHEATED

[@mateosalvaje9550]

Sounds like a not the first time kind of thing.

[@rytoniowendolini2793]

@@mateosalvaje9550 She needs a variety of men to be happy. Find a woman in today's world that is for 1 man only and I'd say you're a liar!

[@sybentley6675]

absofknlutely

[@edwardmcgarthwaite7771]

"He lied to me." Yeah, just like you did with the vows. 😂

[@MickeyMishra]

I don't know why Marriage even exists anymore as the vows mean absolutely nothing to women

[@jimpark8379]

"If I knew he was lying I wouldn't have cheated." No, you would definitely have cheated. You just wouldn't have told your husband about it.

[@danielustarez]

Besides, no way in hell she's cheating on him for the first time! The way she tries to talk her way out of guilt is not something a rational person do. She was about to get caught and took her chance of telling him first.

[@respectdawildo_danjones508]

Exactly

[@rob12468]

Yes you are correct. Spot on dude.

[@Supasouking]

Lmaoooooo factsssss can’t believe she actually called in told on herself lol

[@mikemullings3109]

💯

[@kebuhrogers]

I actually laughed out loud when she said "but he lied to me".

[@robertpleydell6527]

He said he would forgive her. He didn't say he would not hold her accountable and divorce her.

Great point , I bet he was thinking " Thank God I did not have a child with that demon . " THANKS FOR THE RIDE LADY ! lol

[@jamesjonnes]

He held her accountable by giving her alimony, child support, and half his stuff? That sounds more like a reward.

[@Patrickf5087]

​@@jamesjonnesshe has a job doubt alimony is on the table

[@jefflovespigs]

Well she said he said he thinks he could forgive not that he would forgive

[@Stewieftw123]

Good one consoler ;p

[@bdog1323]

I think she meant to say instead "If I knew he was lying, I would have never told him about the cheating and just kept doing it behind his back."

[@Markbell73]

Correct.

[@kingcaragious]

Ahhh, that makes sense it was just a slip of the tongue.

[@Danny_Deleto]

Never underestimate a woman's ability to tell on herself.

[@theequalizer9154]

Definitely!

[@JohnB-nk8ze]

They are like Franky the Squealer.

[@elasmojones]

meanwhile, a man will take a minor embarrassment to the grave...

[@lelandtsnyder9684]

Never underestimate a woman's ability to believe... Their own lies...

[@psychzach1588]

And still try to play victim.

[@douglasmarsh9482]

I caught on when my ex was taking her 3 cats to her father's extra house every weekend. I asked why she's taking all three and her response was, "So they can get used to it. So I said. "Don't come back." so my advise. If a wife starts taking her cat's on weekend trips......"It's time to go."

[@cortholiopezorama8879]

She was practicing that cat lady life. 😂

[@Mre-i7c]

That's not the only cat that was getting used two it

[@dipndaVic]

screen shotting this. bravo sir

[@BarefootCowboy]

He didnt lie. At the time he offered a hypothetical answer to a hypothetical question. Then it ceased to be hypothetical, and she got a reality answer.

[@Sylvine]

And he was honest. He thought he could maybe forgive her. Well, he was wrong. I said the same thing to my partner: I dont know how I would react. I think that I might be able to deal with it. But if You DONT tell me and I find out, there is 0 chance for forgiveness. I made it perfectly clear - best case scenario is a chance that our relationship will survive but suffer. So better not risk it.

[@AvroBellow]

@@Sylvine You think that you MIGHT be able to deal wih it? Trust me, you WON'T be able to deal with it because every time you look at them, you will FEEL the betrayal. Just looking at them would disgust you and you wouldn't be able to deal with that every single hour of every single day that you're with them.

[@Menstral]

Yes

[@Sylvine]

@@AvroBellow Why the fuck would I trust a random dude from the internet? I'm already a genetic dead end, with absolutely no desire to have children. Many things that most men value (being the provider, femininity and submissiveness in their partner, stuff like that) I don't care for at all. The thought of my partner engaging with another man sexually doesn't provoke an instinctive feeling of disgust in me. I'm clearly abnormal in that regard, for better or worse, so noone can say with any certainty how I'd actually react. While I do err on the side of caution because I realize that there's a world of difference between playing out a hypothetical scenario in my head and actually living through it, I've heard about what I'll totally want and how I'll feel and what I'll do all my life, and almost none of it came to pass. I've got a track record there and at some point pattern recognition kicks in.

[@rogerelzenga4465]

@@AvroBellow she dont understand that, its a woman afterall....

[@NSResponder]

There is nothing more infuriating that a cheater calling their betrayal a "mistake". Writing the wrong date on a check is a mistake. Forgetting an anniversary is a mistake. Having sex with ANOTHER PERSON isn't a mistake, it's a deliberate action.

[@AlanThomas-hp3fn]

Not a mistake, a choice!

[@smater332000]

Also, who writes checks lol

[@disabledchatzen5276]

My mother used the phrase "shortcomings"

[@averagelibertyenjoyer3217]

"Hey I cheated on you, but you said a thing 5 years ago so it's all good right? What?! You're divorcing me?! How could this happen to me?!"

[@ArmyWolves]

*Her* : _Remember five years ago when you said if I confessed immediately to cheating you would forgive me_ ? *Him* : _Do you remember during our wedding vows when you promised to forsake all others_ ? 😎😎😎😎😎

[@25Soupy]

I know right? He didn't even remember.

[@thekingman5971]

NEVER take back a cheater. It destroys you as a man. It’s really hard to rebuild yourself after you do. Trust me. I did it once, I’ll never do it again.

[@pauldiam0nd]

😆🤣"YOU ARE MANIPULATIVE!!!!"

[@markosolo]

@@25Soupy And yet this Taylor bloke has decided it's a 'Brilliant strategy', the sort of thing you might read in a shit novel.

[@teufelhund3801]

She also said that sleeping with the coworker was a mistake, then said, "If I knew he was lying, I wouldn't have cheated." Shows that she was cognitive of the decision, and it wasn't a 'mistake' as she tried to play it off as.

[@oysterchampion8998]

I think in her woman brain the "get out of jail card" reduced her risk of loosing her hypergamy sexual strategy, which made the ex husband more attractive than other options. And when she says "wouldn't have cheated" she means "I wouldn't have taken this relationship seriously to begin with or married this guy because I might find someone better one day and being married without the get out of jail free card will give me anxiety. That's tough to get out of your mouth and all that was subconscious anyway. It's not like she used logic for any of this lol

[@VisibleEntertainer]

Some accountability eh? Never their fault.

[@SurnaturalM]

Cheating is never a mistake. It's a conscious decision.

[@teufelhund3801]

@SurnaturalM Yeah, just using her words to prove she didn't even think it was a mistake and she actively pursued that because she thought she wouldn't have any accountability.

[@anthonyparisella7224]

Master class in gaslighting, she cheated but the husband is the manipulative bad guy.

[@jimhendericks]

Not quite a master class since it was pretty obviously stupidity

[@respectdawildo_danjones508]

Pretty common actually

[@bigdaddyd7674]

Modern accountability none

[@joelsefur666]

More like gaslighting for dummies. Not exactly a masterclass when absolutely no one believes your BS. Lol

[@ArmyWolves]

Yeah... In her mind her husband betrayed her trust but her cheating was not a betrayal of trust 😒😒😒😒😒

[@willsmith8586]

The irony, she is emotionally abusing him.

[@Martin-jk2ng]

In her mind, his perceived "lying" was worse than her cheating

[@gerhardswihla1099]

He wasn't "lying"! He said he thinks he could forgive her but his emotions overturned his reasons so now it's a divorce. As a women she should understand that emotions often carry someone away. So it is as it is. 😂

[@relicpathfinder2800]

Where did anyone say he DIDN'T forgive her?

[@peteh.5142]

he didn't lie, her husband told her he "might" be able to forgive her. He didn't.

[@father-sonflightsimulator3838]

He can forgive her and still divorce her. His forgiveness doesn’t mean there won’t be consequences

[@Leglessolas]

If he hadn’t lied she wouldn’t have cheated so really her cheating was HIS fault. I used to compare modern women to children but children make honest mistakes, not intentional betrayals…

[@xNobleSavagex]

"If you ever make a mistake, just be honest with me" is a tactic I've been using for years, Why? Because a woman of virtue and high value wouldn't THINK to be unfaithful no matter what I say, that's why.

[@conservativeriot5939]

This technique also works on kids to some degree.

[@PatrickC139]

Woman: cheats Same woman: IM A VICTIM! The narcissism involved in that is such massive levels of disgust.

[@psychzach1588]

Standard woman.

[@TheUnseenKrab]

She's lucky the husband had a calm head. Some men straight up loose it and start unaliving their spouses.

[@rezcellent]

They can’t help it because their brain doesn’t work properly

[@rejectionistmanifesto8836]

Remember he didn't say: Abdul, bring out the rocks, bring out the rocks. So he did forgive her 😂

[@bigjay875]

Ya forgot the REEEEE at the end

[@sterlingdennett]

When he told her, "I MIGHT be able to forgive you IF it happens ONCE", what she heard was "I get one free cheat, with NO consequences, and AUTOMATIC forgiveness!"

[@mizzamir_gaming]

She heard - I get to be caught once... no way she hasn't been smashing everything that moved up to that point

[@ToddAdams1234]

That’s why I tell/told people around me: say what you mean and mean what you say! 🤬

[@tanalson]

What he meant was:" the moment you make it happen once, that's all you need"

[@deepsmoosh810]

Had an ex who did this, may she rot not in peace

[@NicholasCampbell-c8y]

No takesies backsies 😂😂

[@YouTubeOverrated]

Theres three rings in marriage 1.The engagement ring 2.The wedding ring 3.The suffering 😢

[@dancostello4872]

This used to be one of my favourite classic jokes but for years now it's been catapulting towards reality at light speed.

[@Microphunktv-jb3kj]

feminity rings :D never go full femthanos 1. B 2. I 3. T 4. C 5. H

[@Markbell73]

This message has been approved by suffer crickets.

[@ma3stro681]

Wise men avoid unnecessary suffering by being smart enough to never marry! It’s that simple … 😎

[@lilyblagonya6329]

All true, but I have a case to make for happy marriage. Hear me out, it also involves suffering, but it's a different kind of suffering, a momentary suffering that doesn't necessarily ruin anything long term. It's the small suffering when I have to shut my mouth, or give up being right about something. It's when I have to be OK with not going on that vacation or buy the thing I want . It's easy to get over not getting my way, when I see that my husband genuinely loves me and enjoys being around me. I wouldn't trade that for being right, at the cost of our good relationship.

[@willsmith8586]

I don't think people understand​ what the spectrum of forgiveness is. I have forgiven people that i will never talk to again in my life. Forgive, forget & forward we go

[@BlazeBuds]

I forgave my ex wife for walking out on me like she did, I didn't do it for her though, I never even told her. I did it for myself because there is no point holding any hate, she is nothing to me, hate would mean I care

[@KryptKicker5]

This is the way. Let forgiveness work. But I will still hold you accountable for your actions.

[@destro47]

Classic abuser, accuse the victim of what you're doing.

[@pastorjerrykliner3162]

YUP.

[@dons_trains]

Tru dat

[@ovechkin100]

thats just narcissism.

[@ximkai8794]

Ive talked to hundreds of women about past relationships. Not a single one of them ever said they were the reason for a breakup

[@ma3stro681]

Hundreds? Are you a psychologist or something … 😂

[@ximkai8794]

@@ma3stro681 not at all. you yourself have had many opportunities to have conversations with people. its up to you to take them or not. people love talking about themselves.

[@Phillips66Geo]

I've never been so enlighten in my life about women than the invention of the internet. It has shown me how devious they have always been. Ladies keep up the good work with uploading to tiktok and YT so us men can see who you really are.

[@MickeyMishra]

It really has been a goldmine of knowledge.

[@bensteed750]

I've always said this! The only good to thing to come out of social media is how people are just so good at exposing themselves for who they really are! Pay attention and follow your intuition fellas.

[@voovvvv]

“If I knew he was lying” I would never told him 😂

[@curtisdecoste9345]

She took “If you ever cheat, please tell me right away so maybe I can forgive you” As “Hall pass to cheat” 😂 Congratulations, you played yourself.

[@Dookybootie]

I was thinking the same thing. Give an inch take a mile.

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Beautifully spoken mate SPOT on

[@thisdyingsoul76]

The key word in the statement was "maybe". He suggested he would forgive her, he never promised. 😂😂😂

[@Dookybootie]

@@thisdyingsoul76 The devil is in the details.

[@tanalson]

He forgive you for being open to him the next day you cheated. At least now he sees the real you

[@dragineeztoo61]

I find it remarkable that she so clearly remembers a conversation from a half decade ago. Obviously she considered it to be very important.

[@themondalorian9844]

My ex in which I took her V. btw this ia during the relationship the conversation 14 months later. 2015 "I messaged you I told you to be here at 5PM you are a f**king idiot blablabla etc. this is the end of the relationship its over". As I try to make amends that Il take her somwwhere better.. "Oh your just trying to control me" and this other crap. after going back and forth that time I said "fine f**k you you damn b**ch be thats on you, you won't be seeing me again!" Forward in 2020 "Hello is this (name bleeped) I just thought I would say hi and if you wanted to be friends". Me: "why are you messaging and I thought you didn't want to be more than friends". Her: "Im sorry I wont do it again". Me: "I dont know that and it doesn't look it will work out bye!" BLOCKED..

[@fredm.2699]

Women are like this 😅😅😅 all those great men who told their wives “i coukdnt have done this without you!” Entire generations of women let these words get to their heads.

[@sitka49]

It's funny how she had a lapse of memory of the conversation whilst her co- worker was putting it to her? "Maybe this is a bad idea? Oh wait I have hall pass. -I would bet this wasn't her first go around with this co-worker either - but because at the "work" party everyone knew and good chance someone would've spilled the beans. and her husband could of found out anyway ( someone may have threaten her with telling her husband too?) and she was trying to do damage control to get ahead of it.- What she was told in her story was just the tip of the iceberg.

[@GameOnline16]

trust is like a clear glass cup, once shattered, it will never be the same again no matter how you try to fix it

[@Dookybootie]

Just like Humpty Dumpty

[@Markbell73]

Yes. This is true.

[@im1who84u]

Wish I could give you more than one thumbs up.

[@cortholiopezorama8879]

Can’t unring a bell.

[@malachi0420]

Yes, its happened to me...every single relationship I've been in since highschool has ended because of the woman cheating, and i'm nearly 50yrs old now. I'm done

[@sksubterrain3424]

happens to like all men,but people hide and lie bout it. i rly think this.

[@Odinsbeard]

In this day and age I don't think a woman is capable of not cheating. Disgusts me!

[@jasonhansen8996]

Every SINGLE relationship for me also. I must have "sucker" tattooed on my head or something.

[@Drforce2311]

I cheated and he left me. Isn’t he horrible?

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Sarcasm is Strong here lol

[@knowahnosenothing4862]

@@patrioticaussiesams8581 That's the thing though she's serious.

[@DamazViccar]

Literally my ex.

[@eddrush209mph]

He's the Devil and you deserve better my sweet child 🤣

[@wealthysecrets]

He's a narcissist

[@bigtrouble5043]

My ex-wife cheated on me not once, not twice, not 5 times, but way more. After 4 more marriages she's single again. I did re-marry, my second wife is awesome, no worries about her cheating she's not just a lover, but also a best friend. We go fish, camping, anything outdoors except hunting. She's a girly girl, loves sewing, quilting, makes clothing for children and dolls, that's how she makes her fun money. She's a house wife, homemaker has the life she's always dreamed of. Of course she has me exercising, which is not my thing but a man has to do his part in keeping his wife happy. If it's exercising so be it, she goes out of her way for me too. It takes two working together and being accountable to not just each other but to God.

[@rectorkirk1158]

A divorce attorney told me. Soon you think shes cheating. She already is.

[@axiealthor2067]

Well of course he would. He profits from people thinking & doing so lmao

[@Nate-bn5kk]

Yeah, divorce attorneys are not great sources for relationship advice lol! They literally get paid for splitting people up...

[@Frostihaider]

its called marketing 😂

[@The2ndFirst]

Bro is proactive, not reactive. That's brilliant. Honestly. He let her fill in the blanks. Forgiving is not forgetting, nor does it mean not holding another accountable for their actions.

[@druw7523]

What people don’t realize is that they don’t see us as human beings with thoughts and feelings. They don’t love, at least not like we do. That’s why they can treat you so badly without any remorse.

[@fredflintstone8569]

💯

[@BradLeroy]

100% facts!

[@beardfistthegoldenone7273]

Let's see if this makes it through the filter. 👱‍♀️=👶

[@BradLeroy]

@ yes but is there a demon emoji?

[@rjbz554]

yep, read Genesis

[@gle..]

Amazing that conversation stuck with her all those years. Its like she kept it in mind as if she was given one free hall pass

[@zapcos80]

Doing something terrible on purpose, is NOT an accident. Scammers hate losing the game.

[@ihadge4664]

You guys must understand that she didn't only cheat at the work party....she knew months and months prior that she was going to eventually sleep with this co-worker. She would have been flirting with this guy at work, possibly having lunch breaks with him and maybe exchanging work emails aswell. Her cheating was not a mistake, it was premeditated. She was having an emotional affair with a coworker and sleeping with him at the work show was the final result! The most common place for women to cheat 'is at work' with a male coworker.

[@whollybraille7043]

She doesn't get it because she thinks it's just about a "mistake" - sex. But she undermined all hope of trust. In minutes, she redefined herself, their marriage, her very soul. Men don't deal with that at all.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

He gave her a free pass, but the choice to use it or not was still hers... SO SHE USED IT! I'm stealing this. Thanks.

[@matthewwhite9643]

She still would have cheated she just wouldn't have confessed if he hadnt "lied" to her. Im proud of this man. Now all he has to do is sue her for defamation for her obvious false claims of abuse.

[@Markbell73]

I am not. He married her. These X X 's have been out of position, out of order, and undisciplined for so long. That to take the risk of marriage with any of them is a shameful, disrespectful act. You shame and disrespect yourself to do it.

[@alexinfinite7142]

​@@Markbell73😂ok bud

[@patrickriordan8617]

He never lied to her.

[@matthewwhite9643]

@@patrickriordan8617 oh I agree I was sarcastically using her words, I know that doesn't translate well via text. I put in quotes so it's a bit more obvious My bad G

[@matthewwhite9643]

@@Markbell73 fair point I for one will never get married as it's a scam. But I am proud of him for outsmarting her trifling ass though.

[@puremaledark8305]

Every single time i got cheated on; i was blamed for how i found out. "Why did you look at my phone, emails, search history. Etc etc" They LOVE that blame shift

[@im1who84u]

You violated her privacy, what were you thinking? 😮😮

[@JohnB-nk8ze]

Taylor pumping out the content like Rachel Zegler pumping out the box-office flops.

[@Microphunktv-jb3kj]

... ah it's that dumbass... the advent of social made and actors on them... exposed how dumb and uneducated actually celebrities and movie stars are... in the past.. u could see only them in movie roles and sometimes movie-related interviews... not theirp rivate stuff.. and ignorant takes on geopolitics and intellectual stuff... literally puppets.... they don't even try to hide it anymore that they use media to push ideology, instead of entertainment ... noone gives a f what a "celeb" thinks of politics or some politicians... let alone that they lecture you on morals and who to vote.... who the f in their right mind take advice or patronizing about morals from p.diddy club? like the fck.. where's the fcking epstein and p.diddy list ! stop watching evil hollywood content until it is purged of disgusting sociopaths and paedos snowwhite who is not saved by the prince, and her journey of strong independentt boss babe... every single woke movie,tv show and videogame will be a flop and burning money ... i guess it's good way to burn away money and have defflationary effect... .. america the proper roman circus biggest tv reality show of the planet

[@relicpathfinder2800]

$$$

[@doc650adventures]

😂😂😂

[@houckds16]

She said he manipulated her by telling her he would forgive her. I propose we look at it this way: he set a trap, a trap that one version of her would fall into and that the other version of her would never fall into. She made a choice to degrade her character so severely that she brought all her misery on herself.. and manipulation. The alternative, valiant version of her that respects their relationship would have never fallen into a trap, she would have gone on raising up her relationship, and flourishing with her husband never to be manipulated. She is her own worst enemy, still, looking for victimhood out of the situation.

[@nickharrow2429]

100% correct. Don't talk it out. They will give you nothing. No emotionals and Walk!

[@nickharrow2429]

How did it go with my cheating wife? She arrived home very late and I stayed up because I was worried about her. Saw a car drive by late at night so I thought, "great she ubered home". Went out to meet her, there was a car with two figures in it, went up to the window, they were kissing and he had his hand up her dress. I tapped on the window and left the crime scene. After and hour she finally came into the flat. I did all the "why's?, how could you's, what were you thinking, etc", she didn't say anything at all. Finally I told her she will never see me again. I had 3 hours sleep, packed everything I needed, and left. Stayed with my parents. Didn't claim any of my posessions and they were crap anyway. Fresh start and never saw her again. No kids so divorce went without a hitch, thankfully. She took half of not much. That was 10 years ago and I was young enough to rebuild well. My passion, like a passionate hoby, was rebuilding my wealth! She pops into my DM's with "Hey Stranger" and I know she "can't find a better man" ;) but I feel nothing for her. It took me about a year until the pain had left. I understand that's about normal for men. You have to work through your pain or you are screwed. The faster you deal with it the better. I'm with a prettier, younger model now and she's sweet and kind. My guard's always up and if something feels wrong, I follow my gut. Men have a well evolved gut-feeling mechanism and we need to use it more. Fuck that was long. Hope it helps someone.

[@Wesujin]

I did the same thing with my Ex Wife. I always reminded her that it would be 100% worse if I ever found out she was lying about something like this, and that we could talk about it if she cheated. Well what do you know, she finally copped to the truth, and I left her ass. 7 years down the drain.

[@MAGATRON-DESTROY]

At least it was only 7, it could have been much worse

[@somagai467]

My ex wife cheated on my after 5 years (as far as I know) Found FB messages to someone she was getting plowed by when I was applying for jobs in another state.

[@kylequinn1963]

And this is why young guys like me don't want to get married. The fuck is the point? If I wanna lose half my shit I'll just donate it to charity, at least it'll go to a good cause.

[@mikeyoung490]

7 years here too man we are better off without them!

[@Greg-r5h]

Funny how she hung her hat on a convenient private conversation but binding public vow's don't get a mention. "Believe All Women" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ghostring3624]

“But you told me you’d forgive me!” “That was a moment of weakness.”

[@Greg-r5h]

She thought it was "Free Parking" but it was actually His "Get Out Jail Free" Card. Do not Pass Go do not Collect $200. She took the "Chance" and ended up the "Community Chest" !

[@relicpathfinder2800]

👍nice one👌

[@MAGATRON-DESTROY]

Best comment award 👏 🏆

[@jdc9258]

Yeah she thought it was a one-time hall pass for her as well

[@jackdurden466]

That’s genius! Love it! 👏👏👏👏

[@bdog1323]

"He told me he never meant any of it." She calls it lying or betrayal. Sort of like her lying and betrayal to her wedding vows & promises. Sounds like what a garden tool will always say.

[@rjroy8143]

Let me ask the deeper question. Did she initiate that conversation years ago, in order to "get permission"?

[@Markbell73]

Yep.

[@JasonStump-h5x]

100

[@Anonymous38572]

Bro the way you explained how women think you’re spot on! They love to bend the narrative so that they’re in the right no matter what the case, and depending if the guy is attractive or not is how they’ll respond

[@chadwick634]

A woman’s word has always been considered as Gospel until one very very important case…all hail Mr. Jonny Depp…forever and always.

[@akumabazooka9169]

That case tipped over the dominos that set off a chain reaction of channels like this one. Exposing them. All their cheating. All their bs. All their paternity fraud. The dominos that M can be victims of all this bs

[@im1who84u]

23:14 And even if they get caught lying in court, under oath, perjuring themselves...... Nothing is done to them. This is considered a serious criminal offense under any other circumstances, but not in this case, because it is a woman lying about a man. There are no criminal charges, fines, probation, or even imprisonment for her. They are not held in contempt of court and are not held accountable for lying under oath, as long as they are lying about a man.

[@chadwick634]

@ Agreed, and sadly it takes one with a money tree and exhaustive litigation just to clear the air and to expose the real truth.

[@akumabazooka9169]

@@chadwick634 that case tipped over dominos that gave men rights and the reality that we are also victims of DV.

[@digitalworms]

My ex wife when she cheated everyone in our circle went to her side! I was straight up asked what i did for her to cheat! Friends and family sided with her so watch out!

[@RottenAnimal]

I can imagine the lies this woman will tell at work when everyone knows she's getting divorced.

[@noman-s6l]

Yeah... he was abusive, manipulative.. he was a narcisist... 😂

[@im1who84u]

@@noman-s6l He is insecure, he couldn't handle a strong independent woman like myself. He felt threatened by me. He was abusive and toxic, I had to get away from him.

[@onedeep6460]

"He was an abusive manipulating narcissist!"

[@jnicemint]

Whenever a women start ‘speaking Ill ‘ of her ex, tell her u don’t wanna hear another word until u get his side of the story/version of events - FIRST.😒

[@randomsimpsonsquotes6033]

Lol, just imaging being on a date and saying this. Lmao!

[@jnicemint]

@ like hall of fame boxing referee Joe Cortez would say -“I’m firm but im fair..”

[@MG-qd6im]

Cheating = end of marriage. Well said.

[@NSResponder]

9:00 she thought she could weasel her way out of it and emotionally manipulate him.

[@paradoxxor7770]

I used to have a girlfriend, things were going good 👫🏻 Until one day, my homie told he'd seen her at a party all over another guy. They disappeared together for the rest of the night. Next time I saw her, she was the sweetest girlfriend on the planet 🌎 Laughing, smiling, dressed like a nice lovely girl. I just watched her performance, not saying anything. I gave her a cynical look 🤨 Her confusion gave way to panic & now she has a confession to make 🙏🏻 Women will lie straight to your face "I love you"

[@Aspire705]

They learned that from the best, their bad boy Chad the Serpent from back in The Garden.

[@mikeyoung490]

100% been there bro

[@claudeechols1569]

And I lie straight to their face, I love you, but only part of you.

[@Merkaba954]

The fact she kept bringing up the old conversation about cheating tells me that she 100% expected this to be forgiven and then she was going to likely cheat again and again

[@Nyeupe-Nguvu]

Caught my GF cheating. I had to go on a bid'ness trip. Told her I'd be back in X days but came back early. *_BUSTED_*

[@almostontimehero5415]

When I go weekend camping and my gf asks when I'll be back, I tell her when I walk through the door.

[@druidvw3960]

Cheating is not a mistake. Its a choice. Once a cheater always a cheater. Never take her back. Block Ignore Ghost Stay BIG gentlemen.

[@tomthomas9708]

"You gave me one free pass 5 years earlier, so what's the problem?"

[@ernestcharles8170]

The emotional connection for women is often broken when a man with more money and or status comes around. Amazing

[@TheEphemeralEternity]

So his strat was actually to do the same thing that women do? Telling their partners that, "it's ok to make a mistake as long as you're honest with me?" What a concept.

[@Dookybootie]

Turnabout is fair play.

[@TheEphemeralEternity]

@Dookybootie best part of it is that she calls it out as "emotionally manipulative and abusive" only because she didn't think of doing it to him first. This is how manipulative girls have always been taught to control their partners.

[@patrickdunn8918]

For those of us, who have been through it… we can all vouch for it. There is no worse feeling, than betrayal.

[@aday1637]

Wife took off and my parents diss'd me. She convinced them (which wasn't hard to do) that I was a bad man. It took years for my parents to re-connect with me. Wacky world.

[@ColKorn1965]

I wouldn't reconnect if my parents did that to me

[@tshegofatsokgoroba6753]

The man gave her a direct warning to not try that rubbish with him in a calm tone and she misread that horribly. Now she's finding out the hard way there's no redemption for being disloyal. There's nothing worse than betrayal of a man's trust. She can be assured that she won't get a chance to betray it the second time.

[@jspera4187]

"He Lied"... "He said if I cheated and told him he'd forgive me and then when I took him up on that he didn't forgive me... he left and is divorcing me...". She TOTALLY forgot the vows she made at the wedding that she lied about... specifically the ... "FORSAKING ALL OTHERS..." part. So... SHE can lie and that's not a problem. It's just HIM that is not allowed to. Nice.

[@akumabazooka9169]

We live in a matriarchy

[@BlazeBuds]

He also said maybe he would forgive her, he didn't say he definitely would

[@sainvol]

@@BlazeBuds also, that was before the marriage.

[@Eversor86]

@@sainvol Also he didn't say he won't divorce her. We can forgive, but that doesn't mean we won't divorce, we aren't doormats to stay in broken relationships.

[@robertpleydell6527]

The moral of this story is don't get married in the west.

[@ma3stro681]

Or anywhere, if you’re smart … 😎

[@mrrights5007]

If you don't want to have children you must be stupid to get married

[@parkamark]

I think he just s-tested her. 👏

[@cortholiopezorama8879]

It doesn’t qualify. This test has a correct answer.

[@lrrromicronpersei8294]

The guy in white should have just asked the guy if he was on a date and then said just so you know she’ was my wife but she’s your problem now then go home and change the locks 😂

[@YaThinKnow]

As a girlfriend she got the statement. They got married after the convo. She then made vows after the statement. As she stated, the rest is probably fiction as he has the other side of this story. Forgiveness for a girlfriend is different than a marriage vow! Everything before marriage matters, but after a lifelong vow was made it nulled out your so called hall pass.

[@micasa8421]

My ex gf cheated, when i found out she said ''fight for me'' that's when I realised it's time to go.

EXACT same thing happened to me. My ex waited a month th after the split and blame-shifted by accusing ME of being inadequate by not “ fighting” to get her back. Pure fuckery.

[@xerxesroms4062]

They cheat leave them.Once is enough for me.

[@BlazeBuds]

I tried to stay with a cheater when I was like 20 years old and nope never again, I couldn't move on from the broken trust

[@mrsouthuk]

Her level of commitment does not even register on a DBZ scanner 😂😂😂

[@ShempsWorld]

It was a test just like when a woman says, "I'm fine" when she's clearly not acting like she's fine. She failed the test.

[@patrickdunn8918]

I’m probably older than most of you here, so I will dish this out as a fact. There are people open to affairs with coworkers…. And there are those like myself who know it is a hard NEVER!! It really is that simple and straightforward. Many of us consider it a lifelong rule. I have worked with lots of women that I could’ve slept with through the decades, but never did it once. And neither should you. .. ever!

[@dochamp2]

Mistakes are in math, betrayal is a choice! No accountability from this woman.

[@warpedreflection3650]

Cheating is not a mistake. It's a deliberate action that the majority of the time damages the man/ woman being cheated on. I tell any man or woman not to put up with that sht and walk away.

[@youthanasia007]

My X tried to convince my friends that samething when she cheated on me. Funny as I did the samething as that guy and she was dumb enough to admit it. None of my friends took her side. In fact the guy she cheated with left her ass the next day. Karma is a biatch. Now she is homeless and begging anyone for help. As the late great Kevin Samuels said you cant make this ish up!

[@steveh1121]

You’re emotionally manipulating me because you won’t let me emotionally manipulate you😂

[@nowblack7363]

Yes he has forgiven her but he has also chosen to walk away.

[@bengherasim9286]

No woman your husband is not "abusive" YOU woman cheated and now you gotta face those deciding consequences

[@BradLeroy]

I absolutely never believe a woman anymore.

[@justchris5834]

"you want forgiveness? Get religion."

[@CLIFFLIX]

These are NOT problems that only "modern women" display. No,...these exact style of things that these women do today?....have been documented since the days of the Bible. This stuff has been happening and has been COMMON for 2000+ years. This stuff is absolutely not new or modern in any way.

[@liarwithagun]

The difference is now our society celebrate and encourages it, and makes trying to prevent it considered evil/illegal. But yes, women and men have been doing this same crap since the dawn of humanity. Its why old attitudes towards women were the way they were, and why dudes who went off to war would sometimes put chastity belts on their wives.

[@samrapheal1828]

Correctamondo....since dirt was invented!

[@robertmaybeth3434]

Once a cheater, always a cheater! This woman chose to interpret her husband's "I guess I could forgive you once" as a Get out of jail free card. I have no sympathy for a rattle-snake like this, she's finally revealed her true face after hiding it for so long. "He lied to me!" she says! Meanwhile she's shown she has no morals, no loyalty and no character. Besides which by that point he's probably just about fed up with taking her shit, anyway. So it actually WAS a "Get out of jail free" card, just for him, though!

[@hexadecimal5236]

14:00 My ex cheated on me with my ex best friend and told all of our friends and family that she did it because I was cheating on her, except I wasn't. And then some her friends outed that she already cheated at a party with them and the whole friend group turned against her as well. To this day, the women in my family still sides with her, which is why I basically don't talk to them.

[@samrapheal1828]

The HIVE will be abided by. Nothing less.

[@wdeemarwdeemar8739]

You let her control the narrative you always have to the first to tell everyone if you give them a moment they will get into victim mode. You get proof you show proof to the mail man your barber everyone you know and everyone she knows. The truth doesn’t matter never has never will. When you get hit you have to hit back harder and smarter.

[@JeramyLaboy-b8g]

This is by far one of the best videos I’ve seen explaining damage control from a narcissist pov. I thank you for this, 4 months ago this happened to me and I lost friends because of it, but deep down something kept telling me once I kept getting the silent treatment and my boundaries weren’t being respected, new sub forsure can’t wait for more content thank you

[@robertpleydell6527]

The guy was right to shut himself off emotionally. She may been the love of his life on the day of the wedding but on the day of the divorce she is his enemy.

[@jmanj3917]

22:00 I wouldn't be surprised to learn that, after he left her, she spread the word that he was physically abusive toward her as well, BUT without actually Saying it outright. Just lead everyone to that conclusion without specifically saying it. Ask me how I know...

[@zapcos80]

How did the man lie? He told his wife to tell the truth to him. Modern women need to start being emotionally responsible.

[@samrapheal1828]

Jesus will return first.....

[@kingcosworth2643]

Yeah right

[@msteele0]

Remember - She's the victim.

[@Peacemaker-er3tl]

No woman, no cry.

[@reidbronson6358]

HE'S ABUSING HER ??? IN WHAT UNIVERSE IS HE ABUSING HER ???

[@Eversor86]

Doesn't allow her a free pass on cheating, and now she needs to use her single still working brain cell to concoct some bizarre story that makes him the bad guy and her a victim?

[@kingcosworth2643]

The Western universe

[@metoo7557]

So when he 'lied', that's bad... but her marriage vows when she lied? Free Pass. Women logic. She's more concerned with him 'lying' then her own betrayal.

[@ma3stro681]

They have no morals, no integrity and no shame. This needs to change big time …

[@RichardGeist-s7w]

She cheated with a co-worker at the company Christmas party. That probably took place in a bathroom, no protection used, and was planned on short notice because the spouse either couldn't make it, or wasn't invited. She truly does "belong to the street".

[@scarab36319ify]

Narcissists can't take responsibility and will blame the victim. Textbook case

[@williamcarl4200]

The police should try this tactic with the crooks. "Come in and tell us all about it." We can forgive you."

[@kingcosworth2643]

They do, and it works

[@pauljanetzke]

The standard in the US you are thinking of is "based on the preponderance of the evidence" as opposed to "beyond a reasonable doubt."

[@michaelf7093]

He manipulated her into honesty. He didn't manipulate her into infidelity. He promised to forgive her. He didn't promise to stay married to her.