Husband Who Went Viral for ‘Reasons I Love My Wife’ List Now Suspected in Her Death

[@TheManYouFear87-c1h]

The whole mirror letter was just love bombing after probably an altercation. That Is usually what it’s like.

[@ApplePie..]

Exactly. 100%

[@BoxerClover]

WOW. you're probably right. abuse, bad fight, love bomb, rinse, repeat. 😔

[@mgm8822]

100% abuser behavior.

[@omadjourney]

OMG they just overly love you the next day lol,I know all about it sadly.

[@jrelevates1574]

you are very wise

[@Truth-Teller414]

People who feel the need to display “happiness” on social media are never actually happy. I noticed that he said “reasons why I love my wife”instead of “reasons why I love you.” That tells me he wrote it for social media in the first place not her.

[@user56gghtf]

Agreed. Anyone that needs to display something for it to be reality means it's most likely fake. Reality doesn't need to be broadcasted it just is

[@Eldavide888]

What happens if one or five of the reasons for that love are no longer possible or available?

[@aaronhayden1884]

100% agreed. Great point too!

[@jillwade4586]

That is a great point!

[@Christine005]

Yes!!! This letter wasn't for her. It was for everyone that would read it.

[@notsorryyouretriggered]

If they look super happy on social media 24/7, they’re not

[@SILENTVIXXSIN]

That’s usually how it goes, not surprised at all.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

😂😂😂🎉🎉

[@gandalf8216]

If anything looks happy, it probably isn't. That's not how happiness works, and why social media is nothing anyone ever needs in their lives.

[@DarlinReal]

Say that again!

[@zerdo4725]

That makes sense because people publicly post only REAL life on all social media so if they did not post the negatives then hes guilty 😂

[@Latte-girly90]

People don’t realize that sometimes abusers show big displays of “affection”. It usually happens after a fight

[@VanillaSky-fe9ti]

I’ve witnessed this 💯💯

[@Juli-x4r]

My ex was like that too

[@Cucumberflavoredmustard]

It seems like he is gushing a little too hard.

[@master0poker84]

Normal people also make up after a fight. That’s like saying “denial is the first sign of addiction”. Well yeah, but it’s also the first sign of no addiction!

[@probrickgamer]

​@master0poker84 not like that. I have seen an abuser literally eat his own waste to prove his love. You are confusing a normal display such as grabbing a Rose on the way home from work with grand displays . The word normal and the word grand have different meanings

[@EmperorOfMan]

Every couple that feels the need to show the internet how perfect they are is overcompensating for deep dysfunction. Source : Every single family channel on youtube.

[@raquelortega2383]

I agree.

[@TheManYouFear87-c1h]

When couples share the same social media page, you know something is up.

[@TheManYouFear87-c1h]

When couples share the same social media page, you know something is up.

[@margaretlumley1648]

Absolutely correct 👍

[@SouthFloridaWoman]

For real

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

My ex tatooed my name on his neck. He did not love me - in fact, HE HATED ME WITH EVERY FIBER OF HIS BEING!!!! HE TREATED ME AWFULLY EVERYDAY FOR 5 YEARS!!!!!!!!! The tattoo was a performance for everybody on the outside. Also, he thought I'd never leave him because he had inked my name into his flesh. I LEFT HIM!!!😂 2 years, 5 months free of that demon!!!

[@florencepi]

Well done for leaving him!! I wish you the best!

[@chorizoramen93]

Women are always talking about how awful they were treated every day for years but stayed, like wtf is wrong with so many of you? And why are most dudes abusers? Humanity sucks

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

@chorizoramen93 Do yourself a favour, open a book and learn about how insidious and covertly abuse begins.

[@nurain4316]

He just want to own and control you. Not to love you. Glad you leave him.

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

@@florencepi Thank you!!!

[@ellekay4758]

these couples who flaunt on social media are the biggest joke. It's really sad.

[@crazycatlady6226]

If you have to remind yourself or anyone else that ur life is perfect, it probably isn’t delusion But don’t stop believing, delusion will helpt them believe they completely find🤣

[@RickStein-i9o]

It's become extremely dangerous for the rest of us as well.

[@Gailafathersjoy]

Yes! When I see those posts on social media I will now post Molly's name on their media site saying "Hoping this isn't a Molly situation". Thank you for your comment.

[@itsinesantonio]

True !

[@jennpul1015]

My friend and her boyfriend are always posting on SM, but he has spate on her, tried to beat her several times and even pulled a machete on her.

[@RestorativeRenaissance]

I always used to find myself confused when a husband or wife would write gushing happy birthday messages on FB telling them how wonderful they were in an over the top way. I used to think “If he/she really is that great why don’t you go upstairs and tell them to their face rather than telling US online?” 😅

[@HeatherBoo916]

Real talk!

[@mstines]

Agreed!!!

[@briattnybrittany6843]

💯💯💯

[@Lyddiebits]

True. My husband never gushed, even quietly about me to anyone, not to me, not to anyone. At least he was real, he didn't even pretend to love me. I just couldn't see it for years.

[@foxyroxytm]

Lmao same!!! I have the most wonderful and healthy relationship of 9 years with my husband and we’re never written anything about one another online 😂

[@sofia7374]

The healthiest couple relationships I know rarely or never post about it to social media.

[@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s]

FACTS!!

[@SarahLittle-wk6oo]

This crap I why I quit social media a year ago. It’s all fake. And not worth wasting my time for.

[@Pink_143_6]

What’s fake about it? His wife is alive? It never happened? It sure did happen.

[@SarahLittle-wk6oo]

@@Pink_143_6 I meant the lie of peoples perfect lives on social media. not lying about her murder, silly.

[@worthy200]

💯

[@703390]

But yet here you are on KZbin 🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@meilinmart8306]

​@@703390 so yt is social media now 😂😂😂

[@davidsmnje]

If one of my daughters told me her husband was pimping them out I'd be on a plane before she could hang up the phone!

[@honeybunch5765]

Yes, and the husband will be missing!

[@narniadan]

yes but obviously something wrong with her, too! She had family to return to. She wasn't orphaned or come from streets, disadvantaged. Live by the sword , die by the sword.

[@Butterflywho]

@@narniadanull never understand having an abusive relationship unless ur the one in it. They also had a child

[@lesleyhughes3174]

🙄​@@narniadan

[@TitaniumTurbine]

@@narniadan ….. Stay in school kids.

[@Persephone_Personified]

Let’s be honest. His “list” was so generic... And if someone feels compelled to show off their emotions online, they are seeking either- A) validation B) adoration C) envy D) personal gain If something is real, like a love note, why on earth would you have to share it..? That’s so weird to me...

[@danidan9917]

Right! I get little love notes all the time from my husband hidden in places only I would be looking - and yet co-workers made a comment how he never sent me flowers to the office for my bday or valentines. Eh I don't need public displays of money = love. Instead I get his time, his joy, his attention. That's all I need.

[@aggyd9207]

​@danidan9917 that's beautiful my friend 🧡 you're very lucky

[@user56gghtf]

It's was probably a post from a Google search

[@kardaine29]

To be fair, she shared it. I think he's a twisted murdering chillimo that needs to be under the jail but facts must be facts

[@Mystique_Missy86]

​@@danidan9917 love that for y'all!

[@dustyplumbob]

“She accepts the crazy person I am.”

[@SILENTVIXXSIN]

“She’s gone to a strip club with me” How sweet, SoOooOo romantic. 🤣🤣🤣 wtf

[@jennifermarie3158]

Even his list is half about him lol

[@thedave1771]

@@SILENTVIXXSIN what’s wrong with that? It’s not my thing, but if my partner wanted to go to see some dudes (or ladies) stripping and invited me, I’d go have fun with her.

[@trollingmermaids]

​@@thedave1771 thats your personal preference ig but as a woman, when youre sexualized and objectified your whole life by men and told by many of them that men are not loyal or monogamous, etc. There is very very little desire as a woman to go to the strip club with your man. The ones who do are usually just trying to fill that "Cool Girl" role

[@kristenmahon3970]

​@@thedave1771eww 🤮

[@13madi]

When you confuse lovebombing for kind, loving words

[@BobbiGail]

It is crazy, and usually these creeps are charming on a level that makes the victim think no one would believe her (or him) if they DID come forward. About the time a person has the strength to leave, the love bombing rains down and the victim 2nd guessing herself (himself). Bc leaving is hard too. Confusing. So sad.

[@helloitsme9808]

Reminds me of the Watts case. Wife did a Facebook video about how her husband was the best thing that ever happened to her. He later killed her and their kids.

[@T0asterbathb0mb668]

That case is so sad. The document makes it worse seeing all those videos of her and the children and how much they loved him for him to turn around and kill all of them

[@MrYungNaz]

🙈

[@starlingswallow]

This is why my hubby and I hardly ever post about our marriage on social media. We have an amazing marriage....but that's between us ❤ we don't have to _convince the world_ of our love and its authenticity.

[@starlingswallow]

I feel so bad for Molly and her family 😢 The magnetic pull (trauma bond) that one has with their abuser is hard to break from....

[@GiGiCherry877]

Amen❣️

[@MCreedon34]

But you just did...

[@Gemini_chiks]

I dated this dude for like 4 months in 2018. Damn he told a whole different story about his late wife.

[@cw5451]

What did he say?

[@Tara_thatonegirl]

You should contact the detectives. They are looking into this in real time

[@artlover3120]

Girl, stay safe and don't trust guys on dating apps there are a lot of creeps lurking there

[@octavia1amazing]

@@Tara_thatonegirl Yes, please contact the police! This is important info.

[@animelytical8354]

Oh my

[@okaeT]

Leave your relationships off of social media. It's nobody's business. Is it not enough to just enjoy each other?

[@SendMeToTheVoid]

I think for people like this it's all a show. If you are truly content in your relationship you don't have to post it for outside validation. Of course I know there's always exceptions but I am wary of people who post like that

[@ABDresend]

i mean he's a murderous psychopath so.... yall boomers always have issues with the social media aspect over the murder and abuse aspect

[@SexAndMe]

That's what i don't understand. Why don't they enjoy each other simply? Why do they feel the need to share with complete strangers online 😅

[@halroxdynasty8683]

It's ok to share the one you love. Unfortunately, people like this use it as a manipulation or bargaining chip or something. But most people don't post this cringe about their SO.

[@britt_______________ttirb]

"The most troubled soul" why would you write that about someone??

[@Chris-tg3qy]

She is troubled because of his abuse.

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

Because he was trying to get the attention of himself.

[@Jamiet-lk8xq]

Gaslighting

[@skyebentley]

it sticks out like that word doesn’t belong in that statement for sure

[@cheeling794]

i want to know how exactly someone "passes away from a mental illness"

[@tristinrebel718]

Right?! Thank you! That threw me! What a MASSIVE RED FLAG!!!

[@Jackie-x4u]

Its a great blanket term for a psycho!

[@mlsa9520]

Leaving her family, friends, and career behind for a man was an awful decision. 99% of the time when people talk about how in love they are with their partner on social media, it's bullcrap. They are guilty of something 😮

[@45johngalt]

it was really sad, she was only a semester or two away from getting her master's and she abandoned it all because Tim was selfish.

[@Cucumberflavoredmustard]

The guy just comes off like a little rodent. They just have that "look".

[@HansumTrini]

"Rodent"?? 😂

[@KatFoxx]

He's a toe.

[@MistresstheMediator]

Lol😂

[@ChristinaFromYoutube]

Its guys that look like this that say "don't judge a book by its cover." Uh sweatie, that's where the title of the book is.

[@nicofelie]

Animal soul

[@beewest5704]

History has taught us to never trust the" my wife, my wife, my wife" guy. 😢

[@MoneyMakingMotivationClub]

😂😂 You're right!

[@franklinchinasi1226]

Social media relationships are the weakest and most deceitful.

[@Bailemos888]

WHAT A SICKO. His discription of her illness sounds very much like the one the Pastor John Paul said of his wife.

[@rebecca54]

My thoughts too

[@ladonna9938]

My first thought

[@hayleyxyelyah]

I thought of her too.

[@talia_neah]

The Facebook post about her death is all i needed. The 'troubled soul' comment is not something you say after someone you love dies.

[@brendatomlinson]

Sounds like “Pastor” John-Paul Miller, when he coarsely announced Mica’s death at the end of a Sunday service.

[@leodelicious865]

Who troubled the soul if not him?😮😢

[@DreamersDisease88]

Anybody that does this kind of stuff and post it online they are the exact opposite of what they're trying to portray. Always 😂😂

[@Psychiatricnerd]

Yep they’re overcompensating.

[@irisreeeeeeeeves]

6: “she accepts the crazy person that i am.” my heart breaks for her.

[@certified_mandy]

Every. Single. Day. There is a NEW report of a man/boy killing their wife, girlfriend, sister, mom, friend. Honestly being a woman is so scary. Our biggest threat is literally men.

[@Bettersucksaul]

Majority of femicide is perpetuated by a man close to her! Usually partner or family member. Sad

[@msc8245]

Yep!!! Tons of mentally ill men that fake who they are and trap women in relationships. Once the woman tries to leave, the guy ISN'T ok with that. Same thing with men who cant get laid by women, they then take their anger out on them and kill them. Its all about THE BIOLOGICAL PSYCHOPATHY OF THE MALE AND HIS ENTITLEMENT. its sickening.

[@Killthebatman87]

so women don’t kill? sounds to me like you’re specifically searching something out to validate your biased thoughts…tons of cases of women killing lovers and children…but hey that wouldn’t go along with your agenda would it.

[@CovertCrow]

​@@Killthebatman87🙄 oh brother

[@ambereyedbabygirl]

​@@Killthebatman87not even relevent, of course it doesnt fit what theyre talking about(male on female crime)

[@TheDarstarr]

His list sounded corny & generic. I bet that was a desperate move. He is pathetic

[@grey3414]

What? The dad knows his daughter is being pimped out by her husband and did nothing????

[@45johngalt]

he did, he picked her up multiple times and brought her home and tried to get her help. As did her friends, as did I. She knew she always had a place to stay; her father kept her room exactly as she had left it. Unfortunately Tim had his claws in her and had her convinced that he would ruin her life and she chose to go back with him, time and again.

[@katybug6572]

@@45johngaltdamn.. that’s so sad 😢

[@45johngalt]

@@katybug6572 it's really tragic... Molly was my first girlfriend, we met in 2008 and we were together from 2009 to 2010. She reached out to me for help/support in August 2017. We got back together for a little while, and I befriended her husband (Tim) and tried to mediate their separation and divorce while trying to get Molly medical and legal help. Unfortunately after about a month she ghosted me and I didn't hear back from her. Tim, believing we were friends, kept me somewhat posted and then told me of her death about ten hours after it happened. I tried to convince him to tell her father but he refused. So, I took it upon myself, called her father and told him what Tim had told me. He called and had a wellness check performed and was then informed that her body was at the morgue, and then pursued to have an autopsy done. It took 9~10 months for the coroner to release their findings. During that time an investigator from the LAPD was assigned. I tried for eight months to contact them, they never answered. I left dozens of voicemails saying I had evidence and testimony to provide, as did her friends. They never returned my calls. They simply wrote her death off as an accidental overdose, which was exactly what Molly said would happen if Tim killed her. I miss her dearly, she was my first love. Ever since we met in 2008 there hasn't been a single day in which I haven't thought about her. I'm glad she isn't being forgotten and that her case is being looked into again, but, it is also frustrating that it took her husband committing another heinous crime, hurting and almost killing someone else for Molly's case to finally be looked into seriously.

[@DefiantAngel87]

​@@45johngalt I'm so sorry

[@Desertoasisstudios]

Never quit your job for some creep especially moving states . Crazy !

[@Swansong321]

creepy psycho .. just gets WORSE..these men who make a show of how lovely they are are invariably gonna be fake..but THIS is genuinely disgusting and shocking

[@Mia-es1rp]

Right seems to true more than not.

[@edmunddantes7097]

There are all kinds of guys out there. Some great, some vile and everything in between. The same goes for women. Be selective about who you date and don't ignore red flags.

[@AlisonBeautifulSavage]

I know right? Sometimes I come across it on social media, massive red flag always

[@margaretlumley1648]

Absolutely. Whenever I meet anyone who seems exceptionally 'nice', I wonder what they are really up to! 😢

[@dl30wpb]

What about the low IQ women that believe it's real

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

I never trust big gestures of love on the internet.

[@lili19393]

@@annabethsmith-kingsley2079 had to learn it the hard way

[@vlad-igor]

Please never GO BACK to an abuser. Once you're far away. It's over. & done with.

[@Josephine.2408]

Actions speak louder than words.

[@user-oz7nw9sq7y]

These poor women don’t realize they are with a narcissistic/sociopath until it is too late! The danger is when they want to leave. These dangerous men do “love bomb” initially until the woman is addicted to it and then the abuse begins. The intermittent reinforcement is very addictive.

[@jan70007]

Exactly true!!!

[@timelyferry]

This is why parents shud love their kids and not abuse them.

[@nicolehall2177]

Anyone that’s writes on a mirror is a lunatic

[@k_j_n1242]

💯💯💯🤣

[@leodelicious865]

Never lied. Like why?

[@NathanielStobbs]

That's usually something you see in a horror movie 😂

[@mrskelly7566]

His eyes are too far apart

[@KEOSHAANEILIA]

I didn’t think that anything on this could make me chuckle cause this whole thing isn’t funny. But yeah…agreed.

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

Lmaaaaaoooooo damn

[@mrskelly7566]

@KEOSHAANEILIA don't ever trust someone who's eyes are that far apart

[@KatFoxx]

Sanpuku eyes

[@mwenyasampa]

I had to check the video again. 😂😂😂

[@lencicollier6492]

Yet ANOTHER reason “why”… 8 out of 10 women chose… “a bear in the woods” 😒

[@veronica5lmaa]

"She accepts the crazy person I am" REDFLAG

[@BOSTON1999]

It's those ones u gotta watch out for

[@nomudnolotus4410]

The more effort someone feels the need to put into proving to the world how nice/compassionate/loving etc. they are, the less I trust them.

[@bfabbigcoinsgl1341]

It is everyone you have to watch out for.

[@AlisonBeautifulSavage]

100%!

Those ones?? *this one OR those

[@BOSTON1999]

Those

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

Stay single ladies. 😂😂

[@Shannon-gr7rm]

Molly should have gone on and got that masters degree.

[@irenemartinez6152]

I agree! 😅 it's safer nowadays!

[@thruthemotions]

Yes ma'am😅💯

[@lilithd5220]

I mean OP anon at this point this is the best advice because more and more women are being unalived by their partners. Like no joke. 😢 Even single women are starting to strap up.

[@RA-fb1mk]

The problem is being a pick-me. A woman who values herself will not drop her whole life for a guy.

[@SILENTVIXXSIN]

It’s always those types of couples who post their relationships online that have THE most skeletons in their closets. ☠️ 🎻

[@45johngalt]

I agree with you. I'll just say this though, Molly was really into photography, it was one of her biggest hobbies, so naturally she posted a lot of photos. When her and I were together, which was years before she met Tim, we would go on road trips and vacations fairly often, and she always took photos and posted them. Although it wasn't nearly as often or constant as it was when she was with Tim.

[@NocturnalNagatoro]

Ran to the comments & we're all thinking the same thing- dude was abusive towards her, and that sweet list was an apology.

[@jessicaderosa9625]

My ex who was phisically abusive was sending everyone i know letters telling he love me so much.

[@sixcentsmedia]

Guaranteed it had something to do with his low self-esteem due to him balding early in life.

[@michaelfsolis]

😂

[@vincedidiana5781]

You’re right. He looks like a lightly treaded, worn out tire. Vile, vile “man”

[@Danxious]

And now he will ballzing

[@LadyAngela678]

🎯

[@shirl974]

😂😂😂

[@SnowTiger45]

The was the most confusing story I've heard in a long time if not ever.

[@ktcooki276]

Yup!! I was commenting and listening..but failed lol! I got lost!😂

[@45johngalt]

you don't even know the half of it... Also the London times got the timeline of events somewhat incorrect. I was a friend of Molly's, a former boyfriend, she reached out to me in August of 2017 after having run away from Tim. Anyway, yea... Took me two years to even try and process what happened. So many unanswered questions.

[@Psychiatricnerd]

Yeah around 1:30 it could convoluted. Had to listen like 3 times.

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

Never tell your abuser youre leaving. Why don't people understand this. I left town while he was away, went to a completely different city and didnt give him my address. If someone is that narcissistic they won't let you leave

[@h0rriphic]

What a monster.

[@chelseyhurd]

That guy looks JUST like my ex husband. Weird. I left him because he was abusive & I knew he’d kill me eventually

[@karlhans6678]

did you survive?

[@NathanielStobbs]

​@@karlhans6678no I don't think she made it alive. I believe her mom posted this comment for her.

[@DrDrea-ey4oj]

And y'all wonder why we choose the bear 😂

[@PotatoCheeks]

Speak for yourself.

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

🎯

[@byrdie1111]

when ppl feel the need to convince others that they r great husband or great wife is a red flag 4 me

[@IMHip2]

Are there any men on this planet who do not abuse women? We exist, we have feelings, we experienced pain. We are not here for you.

[@Hatbox948]

I haven't met one yet.

[@grundgesetzart.1463]

@@IMHip2 yes my two male best Friends. Never "abused" me, were always there for me. The man-bashing here is sickening.

[@SandraG-e7f]

Haven't met one yet. Even the "nicest" guy has some misogynistic thoughts. Just my experience unfortunately. Even my dad who genuinely loves and cares for me has looked at me differently and treated me differently than my brother, simply because I'm a female.

[@Killthebatman87]

@@SandraG-e7foh poor you…you got treated differently 😂

[@mellosings6180]

There are traces of Misogyny in all men. They have to work hard to remove it. It’s a process.

[@psyoperator]

Brah just started a new list... 'Reason I offed my wife'

[@shannonhunt3079]

Hahaha, for real.

[@lisabrightly]

You mean to tell me that people who put everything out there to try and impress everyone are phony!? No! Shocking! RIP to the victim.

[@mel...s]

We still gone compare ourselves to the lives of ppl on social media even though we know better

[@patienceacheampong9542]

Showing off your relationship on social media is a sign of unhappiness in the relationship.

[@hexagonproductions2019]

Anyone who saw that post and honestly thought “Kindest husband in America” is remarkably naive and impressionable.

[@PoppyCorn144]

And this is why I’m deeply suspicious of people who feel the need to make public declarations. Public statements of love and adoration are cringey and performative.

[@labelledujour5855]

Period.👏🏿

[@artbygilik]

And everyone is cheering them on how they are inspirational and they are so happy for them.

[@lalakuma9]

It's always guys that constantly mention their wives that end up betraying their wives.

[@MsTery-ul7pw]

He used "crazy" twice describing himself in his "sweet" message to his wife. Red flag!

[@KittyeMills-Scott]

Lesson:When a man writes on a mirror,RUN,cause he's nuts!💯🎯😑Thanks,Jesse.👍

[@bettyk9771]

@@KittyeMills-Scott the fact that it’s erasable should say something.

[@saladfingers.]

Why does he look like he's 12 and 30 all at the same time.

[@heatherbukowski2102]

legit can't trust no man smh

[@DallasJustin]

NONE!!

[@Goldnuggetrudolph]

He did the whole switcheroo thing, "gotcha! You dead." The mirror thing is very serial killer-like

[@makamurphy]

This happy life social media frenzy is so fake... live your real life

[@ktcooki276]

I did notice two of the top reasons mention his "craziness"!!

[@5percent_95isLost]

Its always the one's who do the most who end up doing the most in the worst way

[@henrymcmiller2527]

The family should have been adamant about having her buried, instead of having her cremated. So sad.

[@jadarose3370]

I'm by no means making light of these horrific crimes, but it's always Florida. That state is overloaded with people doing very bad things.

[@aggyd9207]

Im so confused. Is he the same guy convicted of the kidnapping of the 16 yr old? How could he then marry and off his wife if he was convicted and sentenced to life? Was the kidnapping after the murder? This story was poorly time lined.

[@branchlimbs]

@@aggyd9207 the kidnapping was years later.

[@45johngalt]

yea; it's confusing how they formatted it. Basically, Molly and Tim were married, she died in December 2017 under suspect circumstances, but the LAPD just wrote it off as an accidental drug overdose. Last year, her husband and his new girlfriend kidnapped a girl from Texas and held her prisoner for six weeks. This past spring, he pled guilty, about a month or two ago he was sentenced to life in prison plus 90 years. because of this recent case, people are now looking back at Molly's death through a different lense. to be clear, I knew Molly personally, she's an ex girlfriend of mine, we were together years before she met Tim. Both of them ended up reaching out to me in 2017, first Tim contacted me trying to get help for Molly, and then eight months later Molly reached out to me after having run away from Tim, seeking support and help.. I befriended tim and tried to mediate their separation and divorce, while trying to get Molly legal and medical help. Things went off the rails after a month or two and I lost contact with Molly. Then one day I hear from Tim telling me she had died. I was the one who contacted her father to tell him as Tim refused to do so.

[@cheeling794]

​@@45johngaltwhat a thing for you to go through. I'm sorry

[@45johngalt]

@@cheeling794 it was hard, the hardest thing I've gone through in life. And I feel for her father, he tried to help as much as he could, she was his only child. It took me two years to even start to get over it.

[@Psychiatricnerd]

Yeah it was confusing. It sounds like after she was dead he got a girlfriend and kidnapped the 16 year old in conjunction with his girlfriend. Then he got prison time. So he’s already locked up.

[@loretta_3843]

I just don't understand some people and what makes them tick. Holding a 16 year old for 6 weeks? That poor girl must have felt so alone and helpless.

[@kevin6293]

Tim Pool, how could you??

[@JamesWalters007]

The beanie wig 🙆‍♂ 😆

[@krys___]

We need to stop trusting the ones who are overly dramatic in their expression of “love” are going to be our heros or have our best interest at heart. It’s the small things. Look for someone that thinks of the small things without expectations or praise, that is the characteristics of a genuine person.

[@jan70007]

THIS IS SO TRUE!!!! Thank you for this advice🙏🏼

[@grapesofwrath1984]

Another proof of how fake most stuff are in social media.

[@Venus-gn5oi]

Nevervleave everything behind for a man.

[@R37ARD3D]

He looks exactly like the other guy who murdered his influencer gf Brian Laundrie RIP Gabbie Petito

[@beng4647]

The list is a huge tell.

[@MrsK976]

Narcissist

[@missadventure3397]

I now know never to trust those happy couples vying their unending love for each other on social media. It always turns out to be the total opposite.

[@nc2933]

He was punching way above his weight with her.

[@zerdo4725]

Not really because she went back to him numerous times

[@45johngalt]

@@zerdo4725 she went back to him because he locked her out of her bank accounts and constantly threatened to blackmail her and ruin her life. it was a really messed up situation and the media barely knows the half of it

[@zerdo4725]

@45johngalt sure and you must have the inside scoop that no one knows about Lmao🤣 no. She could have gone to her family and the police easily.

[@45johngalt]

@@zerdo4725 I do have the inside scoop... I was the one who told her father she had died. Molly was my first gf, we met in 2008 and were together from 2009 to 2010, she reached out to me in August 2017 for help, four months before her death. I tried to get her medical and legal help and tried to help her divorce Tim.

[@45johngalt]

​@@zerdo4725 Molly was my first girlfriend, we met in 2008 and we were together from 2009 to 2010. In August of 2017, four months before her death, she reached out to me for help/support. I befriended Tim and tried to mediate their divorce while trying to get Molly medical and legal help. if you had read the London times article this video is quoting, you would see her father mentioned that it was a former boyfriend who reached out to him and told him that Molly had died. Her husband Tim refused to tell him, so I took it upon myself.

[@gigiarmany]

Yeah..over the top public displays of affection are usually a cover for abuse behind closed doors, because how could he / she possibly?..another thing I absolutely despise is public marriage proposals, all that pressure means he's probably hiding something, you'll find out after the wedding👀😵😒

[@lauriedefelice8132]

Another narcissist

[@mamazannie6060]

There seems to be a correlation between this constant sugary posturing on the Internet and people getting merked.

[@cocoa_bean_queen]

Another reason I believe ABSOLUTELY nothing humans say unless their actions GENUINELY match and spirit align. 🙂‍↔️✌🏾

[@jan70007]

Exactly!!!

[@tonythedonluciano]

It's not love, its obsession. Huge difference!

[@Bearlyontime]

What's truly tragic in cases like this is, no matter how much education one has around domestic violence, red flags, warnings etc...partners seem to think things will get better or change. Then they end up dead. Unfortunately this will never end because many just ignore the obvious and won't get help.

[@jan70007]

VERY TRUE!!!🙏🏼

[@JessicaBlaze89]

The "perfect" couples are always the ones to end up in situations like this.

[@honestyisadyingvirtue]

First. I don't believe for a second he wrote that list. But this is what happens when people feel the need to display happiness and perfection in their lives. Those are the ones that are usually covering up something that is the opposite.

[@vincedidiana5781]

@honestyisadyingvirtue. Absolutely. When I was younger, my mom would often sayc “Why not get married? So and so are soooooo happy!” I’d always tell her that’s what people portray. Im sure some may be, but never judge a book by its cover. We never know what’s going on.

[@SILENTVIXXSIN]

@@vincedidiana5781 some people want to be judged by the cover of the book, they just don’t want you to read through the pages 🤣 fake world it’s discouraging. Only going to get worse as time goes on from what I’ve seen over the years.

[@NewAccountWhoDis]

I think I'm overly cynical. I automatically assume abuse when I see couples oversharing their "loving" relationships online.

[@LulaMaximeMorales]

"Same here. For me, it has become a 'law': the more someone displays a character trait on social media, the more they lack it."

[@naninolovyou6388]

If he got LIFE, how was he OUT of prison to reoffend?

[@barbarella.artist]

He wasn’t - the murder happened in 2017 He then got a new girlfriend and him and that girlfriend kidnapped 16 year old years later ..

[@abcdefghi9]

This world is filled with twists and turns and shocking suprises

[@Di_777]

"15 Reasons Why I Love My Wife" Never trust a man lol I learned this when I saw a man cry because his wife had breast cancer... He took care of her and worried for her. I thought wow that man really loves her... but once his wife recovered he was flirting with his EX online. Never trust a man's "love" 😂

[@Myster-Man-Channel]

It always be like this. Dont trust what u see online. Focus on your own relationships

[@confidentminaj]

Typical narcissist do everything right so that the ppl around him think he’s a great guy..Narcissist really care about how others see them.Behind closed doors their terrible unless hes a covert narcissist where he hides it from everyone then when someone’s figured them out their either playing the victim or they snap out

[@lesliecas2695]

Molly's family and friends seem to be useless. They have all this information and take no action.

[@45johngalt]

and I myself tried for 8 months to contact the investigator assigned to her case, they never answered. I left dozens of voicemails saying I had evidence to provide and so did her friends. The investigator never got back to me.

[@MPPG663]

They didn't care about her at all.

[@MPPG663]

They didn't care about her at all.

[@45johngalt]

@@MPPG663 the LAPD certainly didn't. They don't even want to bother with the paperwork. Unless your a celebrity or ultra rich, they don't give a damn.

[@chaneywilliams5426]

My ex did this too and cheated on me the next day😢

[@Katfall2012]

Why do all these gross looking dudes get these gorgeous women and ruin them😭

[@Ivy285]

@@Katfall2012 Great question!

[@xJR0G15x]

Perception precedes the truth until the truth is revealed.

[@Whisperer-th3wk]

This is why I don't believe people on the internet