When people cheat on you they deserve to suffer so as far as I'm concerned OP didn't do anything wrong. If anything what she did should be considered the gold standard of what a betrayed spouse should do
@PrincessQ-fj9ly Жыл бұрын
I agree. Cheaters should be taught a lesson, even if they don't learn it. And so should leeches.
@user-oh4bw6pq3f Жыл бұрын
The last commenter sounds like a doormat. It's like saying people should not be held accountable for their actions.
@PrincessQ-fj9ly Жыл бұрын
Either that or worse, they're an enabler.
@antoinettebates244 Жыл бұрын
WOW!! What a sleeze!!
@jeffdaviscapt.cabbage Жыл бұрын
Poor Evans, didn't he realize "hell knows no fury, as a woman scorned"
@julietesatchell103 Жыл бұрын
OP, you were right to tell the man about your two-time ex. The daughter was stupid to marry someone straight after a divorce. Those saying you were wrong must be a current or ex cheater, and they also got their just desert. Next time, get a prenuptial for they do wonders for your piece of mind. Also, do a will and don't tell anyone what's in it.
@stephanietaylor142 Жыл бұрын
I love how some commenters tell you they're as awful as the bad person in the story 😂
@maltemejlstrup4746 Жыл бұрын
Leave it to reddit to be filled with absolute morons
@PrincessQ-fj9ly Жыл бұрын
I guess they don't like the way Sophia AKA OP handled things. In my opinion, she did nothing wrong.
@DKDFury Жыл бұрын
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly yeah it is because those people most likely relate to the person who did wrong and think they didn't deserve that
@tyffanypoudrier6610 Жыл бұрын
He got what he deserves
@PrincessQ-fj9ly Жыл бұрын
He sure did. Serves him right.
@stevetalley5800 Жыл бұрын
That sucker got everything he deserved coming to him. She still tried to be nice to him and what does he do?! Tried to attack her. Hope he got some serious jail time!
@ryanelsbrie455 Жыл бұрын
I sympathize completely for the person in this story my mother is going through a certain dilemma my stepfather repeatedly cheated on her she's in the process of moving out and she's a head of the household so my thing is, karma will come back on you three times when they hurt someone let them learn our lessons in the only thing good coming out of it is my mother getting her own my stepfather and his lover have to move out homeless motherfukers I don't care
@MsStormyRose21 Жыл бұрын
Evans deserves everything he gets.
@jeffzeiler346 Жыл бұрын
Evans was an ethically challenged loser. OP was a strong, rational woman who got what so few of us get - justice. Bless her, her forethought, and her strength. She epitomizes what is best in us: strength of character, and a determined resolve not to be stepped on or abused. OP is a truly great human, worthy of our respect and admiration. I hope she finds real happiness and a partner worthy of her.
@PrincessQ-fj9ly Жыл бұрын
Me too. She deserves all of the happiness in the world. ❤
@robertx8020 Жыл бұрын
No sympathy for OP's ex but I do feel sorry for any future partner, of his Evan's AP as that girl sounds like a nightmare!
@mandeemorris2835 Жыл бұрын
Gaslighting heaven for the douchebag ex. Seriously if you have to ...loan...money to what boils down to a prostitute then thats not a marriage its atransaction . And tje commenter that said negotiate the amounts and to try harder at being a dormat. Shame on you an dd shame on op for buying her husbands time instead of respecting herself .
@judithjeffers7666 Жыл бұрын
OP was justified. I would have gone scorched earth on him.
@heatherbeau4759 Жыл бұрын
OP is awesome! You get back, what you out.
@GottaStayClassy Жыл бұрын
Cheating is one thing, but this guy is a bona fide greedy manipulating lecher of a douchebag. He doesn't do anything out of love, but out of self-interest alone, without remorse who gets hurt in the process. That much is obvious. Everyone can breath easy knowing he's not actually that bright and ended up in the mess of his own digging. Even if OP was a bit obsessive, let's be fair: she knew he's a menace and did what is right by her ex's new girl and her father.
@nimisilverbird1239 Жыл бұрын
Nta. Evan got what he had coming. Op saved that girl. Even if the girl is annoyingly snobbish and demanding she didn't deserve to be taken advantage of. Ppl saying op should have left quietly. No. Out the using loser.
@PrincessQ-fj9ly Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree. I don't blame people for just wanting to leave quietly(I do too when I feel betrayed), but when I see a selfish jerk taking advantage of someone else as I'm leaving, the gloves come off.
@nimisilverbird1239 Жыл бұрын
@PrincessQ-fj9ly I dated a really bad guy. But he also could be very charming. He could sell bbq chicken to lady wearing white gloves. But he was also abusive. I didn't bad mouth him. I did tell a couple other girls to be cautious. Each didn't listen and found out for themselves. Each later when seeing me said you did try to warn us. But bc I didn't throw fits they thought I was just being jealous. Far from it. Try finding your backbone and using it to stand between your cheating ex and the girl he cheated with.
@karenturner7556 Жыл бұрын
😂😂I like the way she snatched his wallet and left😂😂
@andreavanhoof6047Ай бұрын
Me too! How could Ashley marry someone right after the divorce? She is such an entitled brat? How could Evans justify his cheating by gaslighting OP that she was emotionally cheating with a gay man? OP was right to warn Ashely's father because he still remembers her and that he has a good head on his shoulders! The father also tried to reason with Ashley but he she was too stubborn and stupid!
@dianecheney4141 Жыл бұрын
Well, it’s not shrimp in the curtain Rod evil, but close
@dianecheney4141 Жыл бұрын
If you keep giving him money, why does he have to work?
@DaWhiteWolffie Жыл бұрын
I agree with that one commenter, he's totally a Narc.
@PrincessQ-fj9ly Жыл бұрын
Me too. Definitely sounds like a narcissist.
@andreavanhoof6047 Жыл бұрын
I despise the holier than thou commentator that claims that OP is as bad as Evan which is not true! He reaped his own karma!
@PrincessQ-fj9ly Жыл бұрын
OP was right in how she handled things. I'm glad she dumped Evans and warned Ashley's parents about him. 😊 I don't know why a comment or two Sophia AKA OP chewed her out. I guess they don't like the way Sophia AKA OP handled things. 乁( •_• )ㄏ In my opinion, she did nothing wrong. I don't blame people for just wanting to leave quietly(I do too when I feel betrayed), but when I see a selfish jerk taking advantage of someone else as I'm leaving, the gloves come off. I love how bitchy karma has been to Evans. 😂 He deserves everything he got. Serves him right. I hope OP finds a new love. She deserves all of the happiness in the world. ❤
@vanessacallahan35156 ай бұрын
If you know someone is a thief wouldn’t you warn others? Same thing OP did.
@BJ-pv4dp Жыл бұрын
Im with you Mr. Reddito
@gailboyd3585 Жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT
@lynnechapman6204 Жыл бұрын
Karma came a running to help him.
@danavalenzuela1885 Жыл бұрын
OP is a girl’s girl. She tried to warn the daughter and good job watching out for your previous client
@rossconnelly6660 Жыл бұрын
A last meal before the big house
@JanetMcDevitt Жыл бұрын
do not lend him money
@dianecheney4141 Жыл бұрын
Hope her daddy does a pre nup
@ediemurray1692 Жыл бұрын
Ty
@marysmith-ps7uj Жыл бұрын
The second commenter is off base. Hubby is a narcissist.
@andreavanhoof6047 Жыл бұрын
The second commentator sounds like a holier than thou idiot who is overlooking the fact that OPs husband does not want to communicate in a healthy way!
@JanetMcDevitt Жыл бұрын
he is cheating
@ytubesuxshite4497 Жыл бұрын
So ue is acting like a normal woman and it throws up flags huh.....dont get me wrong, i believe that so ething is going on but i would say the same thing for a woman too... The difference is he "borrows" money from her however if it were rolls reversed she would just expect him to give her the money.