This is how they manipulated you and me

I have an amazing guest in today's episode. Amen Kaur is a trauma therapist and she is digging deep into the Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni drama.
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[@Flaawsometalk]

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[@19tams67]

I just recently unsubbed from poocorned planet. I like Andy, he just hollers too much. Maybe that's just his tone of voice, but it sounds like he's yelling , and some days, I just can't listen, even my little dog gets nervous. He's good though, I'm just one that is out on my own now, after over a 20 year toxic relationship, and if it sounds close to yelling, or angry ... I am out.😊🙃 LoL I really liked this video, and what the lady had to say. She's very knowledgeable and seems to know what she's talking about. ❤️🤗❤️ Have a blessed and beautiful rest of your week. ❣️🙏

[@kathyd2595]

Thank you for doing this collab with Anen Kaur. I really appreciated her insight, and I just thoroughly enjoyed her tone and accent. I felt she was so present and healing.☮️💗

[@lilymay7171]

Hi Kjersti, I guess you know by now, but a 6mnth old Reddit post has been uncovered suggesting insider information that Blake threatened to go to NYT with an SH claim if Justin ad Sony didn’t kowtow to her whims. Big news.

[@ME-gz8yi]

I think the Times meta-data shows they got on-board the "winning horse's" smear campaign and didn't fact-check or get the other side of the story /competing narrative. They slandered this director, which doubled-down on BL's sick hazing project.

[@Sarah-gl8ki]

I'm glad you had this lady on your channel. She's so likable and informative.

[@verachocholova7078]

As Rickey Gervais said ... Just because you are offended doesn't mean your are right.

[@Lillian.Gao.]

Blake’s whole MO is believing that it does make her right! It’s impossible to reason with someone who thinks that way… Blake’s parents failed her

[@VampliFyer]

@@Lillian.Gao. maybe Blake's parent's felt the same way when it came to communicating with their daughter?

[@Lillian.Gao.]

@@VampliFyer it’s been reported by many firsthand accounts that her mom is as entitled as she is when it comes to making demands on behalf of Blake… also, Blake proudly bragged on The View about them paying the school choir director off to let her lead choir despite being unable to sing

[@VampliFyer]

@@Lillian.Gao. I don't (and won't) watch The View. Many actors have stock stories, fillers about their personal lives that are only half-truths or simply false. I have no idea how toxic both Ernie (now deceased) and Elaine may have been or (Elaine) may be now. Have you ever seen either parent interviewed or articles devoted to them? I'm only saying I don't know what to believe if it's coming from Blake. I do know that Hollywood talent managers (i.e. Elaine) have to be assertive and often somewhat manipulative to survive. Regardless: Elaine is 77 and Blake is 37. They have both had plenty of time to take stock and self-reflect. One other thing: I'm not in the habit of blaming any parent for the way one of their adult children behaves.

[@Lillian.Gao.]

@ oh they are to blame when she’s behaved this way since 18 yo… that doesn’t take away her accountability for her actions as an adult

[@samsong24]

It's all so dark and depressing. Two people went out of their way to destroy a man's life. That is sociopathic at the core base of it. They didn't care that they would destroy a man and his family.

[@dilettanter]

Yes they must have been really pissed at him (?) or them (?). Unless it was really calculating and they just didn’t care?

[@brendasmith7345]

It’s sooooo sick and most celebrities and politicians are sociopaths. It’s crazy.

[@samsong24]

@@dilettanter I think the information we have proves that they were just really in need of control.

[@reginamushi6582]

This bothered me the most! 😢

[@blah9095]

Not surprised at all because remember these two put out statement which was an “apology” for having their wedding at a plantation….honestly even then I noticed how their tone was not heartfelt at all. Taylor is also no saint because now she is trying to distance herself so that people won’t find out what she was also doing behind the scenes. She seems to have been the reason for replacing the original composer of this movie.

[@josapienza5]

The insensitivity of promoting a film about domestic violence by telling us to get girly together and buy hair products put me right off..she had a platform to help and she stood there selling herself...it's not dignified, it's not gracious or a good person Blake...it's shameful.

[@compassionandhumility]

Don't forget promoting her booze that she doesn't drink including a party drink named after a domestic abuser. Everyone knows domestic abuse and booze aren't correlated at all so it totally wasn't a wildly insensitive blunder on her part. 🙄 It must be Justin Baldoni ....Ryle-ling(I'm sorry...channeled Blake there for a moment) people up...not her own error.

[@reinasherman8009]

Exactly!!! As a survivor of DV that pissed me off so much.

[@jennydefran]

This is what people reacted to but she's too narcissistic to realize it. And then to turn around and play the victim is appalling when she didn't care one bit about the message in the story. And she blames Sony for promoting the movie this way! Im sure Sony didn't say, sell your husband's booze and your crappy haircare. Zero accountability.

[@juliegraves6949]

BL never read the book. Then made jokes about it. She lost me at the get go and RR making fun of it he lost me too. There is nothing funny about DV. Justin worked for years to produce this movie and make awareness.

[@juliegraves6949]

@@compassionandhumility BL also was mean to Princess Catherine.. while fighting cancer. BL is a mean girl there is no future for her in my opinion. Her parents raised her to be entitled, mean, etc. the list goes on. Good job mom and dad.

[@julybaby19]

It sounds to me like Blake had a pattern of behavior where if she feels someone is beneath you she treats them poorly or is dismissive. Blake was upset when Kjersti congratulated her on her little bump, but when Martha Stewart pointed out her pregnancy during her interview she was more gracious and respectful.

[@kathrynbaker7529]

She was super nice to Kelly Rippa too.

[@julybaby19]

@ so clearly Blake was being rude specifically to Kjersti not because of her awkward sense of humor, but because she viewed her less than. I think it’s safe to say we figured out her character.

[@samsong24]

YES! And I know *so* many people like this. Ellen Degeneres is also the same way. You absolutely hit the nail on the head.

[@kshort-wr6tx]

Perhaps she was just kissing up to Martha. It didn't end well. 😄

[@rogerm3708]

People like her would like to be condescending toward everyone but cowardliness prevents them from doing that

[@connieluke]

I just watched the movie a couple of weeks ago. I was STUNNED at how incongruent Blake’s promotion of the movie as a fashion showcase was with the movie’s subject matter. Blake and Blake alone damaged her reputation. With every press appearance she made she was more and more arrogant and self-important. She really rides Ryan’s coattails. She constantly referred to him as “MY husband.”

[@FindtherealRachel]

@connieluke I confess I haven’t watched it( just the thought of watching it makes me cringe) but i will give it a go

[@mermaidreviews4693]

Yeah I just started the book yesterday and 139 pages into the book and you tell the character did wear expensive clothes only Justin and his sister do be they have money

[@berry-1010]

Ryan is just as bad as she is. I really hope they both just go into hiding forever.😂

[@angelag9172]

If it’s true that RR is the cause of the upset on this production (following his viewing of the dailies etc) then BL may have been trying to show a commitment to Ryan and keep his ego soothed by constantly referring to him as her husband. We just don’t know what went on between BL & RR yet.

[@pearlosibu]

@@FindtherealRachelsame. O now wish I’d watched it before all this started. Be hard to watch now.

[@colleenheart]

This is the first time I have heard someone comment on what the dynamic was supposed to be like in the infamous slow dancing scene. I read the book prior to seeing the movie (unlike someone) and that was 1000% the dynamic in the relationship. Lily was VERY hesitant to fall in love with him and give into their chemistry. Ryle was very persistent in pursuing her and was pushing her to give in. That is what I saw playing out in that scene. She had to have been aware that she was supposed to be portraying discomfort and hesitation. It was a huge part of the story of their relationship. She was ACTING that out but then later claims it’s evidence of her personal discomfort? That’s seems unbelievably manipulative.

[@amandamandamands]

For sure, she was so uncomfortable that she moved her hair out of the way so that her neck could be nuzzled more easily

[@jackielehman8945]

But we need to see how it was written in the script. That will be important.

[@colleenheart]

@ I agree but I highly doubt that element of their relationship was entirely removed from the direction of the movie. Having watched the movie it was very evident that it was part of the story line and was acted out. This scene was entirely acted out with body language. Which to me showed a confident man (ACTOR) pursuing and being very attracted to a woman (ACTOR) who wasn’t quite giving into it all yet. She was trying to keep him at arms length while also struggling with falling for him. I loved the movie when I saw it and thought she acted beautifully in it. It is fascinating to me to learn all of this backstory now. I would love to know what other people that read the book thought of this dance scene.

[@pearlosibu]

@@jackielehman8945do we? 🙄

[@colleenheart]

@@pearlosibu😂

[@ilenhalogram]

I was on the plane and watched this really well done movie called “empire waist” it seemed very considerate of young women and was a empowering movie for young girls. Lo and behold the Justin Baldoni was listed as a producer. I’m like we need people like him in this buisness that actually care about people and young minds. This solidified to me that Justin is one of those people really trying to do the right thing and people like that can at times get totally bullied and mistreated by people more successful with less integrity. We need more producers like Justin and I hope that in the long run this boosts his career he is making thoughtful well done content and I’m in full support.

[@GiaSantino]

I saw Empire Waist, and felt the same way when I saw Justin’s name. I agree, I feel Justin is a good guy 😊

[@tijencarver2756]

I know Justin's family. He grew up here in Southern Oregon. He really is a wonderful person and doesn't deserve all this slander and lies. We are very proud of him. 🙏⚘️💙

[@lucyslist5119]

I would really love to watch any films that JB create in the future. Hope he can recover from this and continue to find his work meaningful

[@007nadineL]

Good to hear !!

[@klgore63]

Watched the video of Justin Baldoni with Rainn Wilson tonight from about three months ago. It was very good. They are good friends.

[@reinasherman8009]

As a survivor of DV I was pissed about the way the film was being promoted. Like it was some fun and lighthearted little movie, oh and we have themed booze too!!! Cool. Thanks. My story isnt some cutesy little tale. Alcohol made the whole situation worse too! As it does, there is even hard proof of that!

[@wildewoodvisionary]

Don’t point this out to Blake or she’ll call the next cocktail Hard Proof™️

[@Crystal-ij6jy]

I agree. As an experiencer of DV from her promotion of the movie to her performance as a victim she’s pissed me off too. That said I don’t really see the movie as a great portrayal of DV in my experience.

[@vickinator]

Agreed. I never wanted to grab my friends and wear my florals after being emotionally abused for days on end. It’s actually obscene!

[@GabrielGoods]

ABSOLUTELY! My ex wasn’t an alcoholic but he was in the MAFIA and I feared for my kids lives because he went nuts and kept on saying the kids are better off dead than coming from a divorced home.. and he would bash me in front of the kids which was the worst.. he just didn’t care.. so I would stand up after being bashed and smile and tell my kids ‘daddy is playing’ just so they weren’t traumatised. BLAKE is without doubt THE most narcissistic, nasty vapid selfish piece of crap.. making a Mockery of DV AS IF ITS A GIRLS DAY OUT.. AND THE ALCOHOL PUSHING MADE ME SICK..

[@GabrielGoods]

Oh, I feared for my own life but I didn’t matter.. my parents and kids were in danger and that upset me..

[@KingsCrossVIP]

What i love about Justin Baldoni is he is such a solid secure kind person with strong family ties and a loving support base. His personal strength and consideration for others is a beautiful armour around his heart and soul. You can see he has done a lot of work to get to that place of understanding of himself and humanity.

[@francescaderimini2931]

She named a cocktail after the abusive Protagonist! Who does that!

[@juliegraves6949]

and she jokes about the movie when Justin wanted it to be to bring awareness to DV. What a disaster she is.

[@amandamandamands]

A person who is suddenly besties with the author who released a nail polish line and wanted to release a colouring book (book was shelved due to public backlash)

[@Deb-h3n]

RR named the character in Deadpool "NicePool". Would you name an aggressor "Nicepool"???

[@observer5864]

​@Deb-h3nsacarcasm

[@NikKi-ps7hb]

Especially given that so many domestic abusers are also alcoholics, I’ve had two of them in my life. I feel so uncomfortable around drunk people because of those experiences.

[@alokinrainborn]

When I rewatch the infamous interview, and hear you say "I would!", it breaks my heart. Love ✌🏻

[@LonelyBetters]

❤

[@Flaawsometalk]

aww 💗

[@SunDecline]

Yes❤

[@observer5864]

It is heartbreaking... you want to protect her somehow

[@ros6553]

If actors and studios weren’t so powerful - and you didn’t report to anyone - then in that situation wouldn’t it be delicious to pack up your bag, stand up and politely say “no further questions” and cheerily say goodbye?

[@caricaturecontest7899]

Must feel great to see Blake get called out for what she is - a narcissist - after how she treated you, while you sat quiet. Looking gorgeous Kjersti 💐

[@007nadineL]

Extremely validating and I feel good for fla. It's satisfying to me.

[@denisedevoto5703]

She does look wonderful in that print top and jacket, they go great with her eye color.

[@JulietteLynne61-h4o]

And towards Princess Catherine!😡

[@caricaturecontest7899]

@@JulietteLynne61-h4o awww you noticed ❤️

[@Chan-zn7wb]

And she kept her cool and was consistent with her story when the NYT decided to smear _her_ . After hearing what they did to Little Ms Jacobs, it appears they like to do this quite a bit. 🤔 She should be your next guest, Kjersti!

[@RainyDaySprite]

Dr. Kaur helped me define a toxic relationship. When I realized the personwas mentally ill-a narcissist who could not ever change. I’ve been free from the abuse for years, thanks to the generous insight Dr. Kaur provided. She is a blessing. I’m tickled to see such good souls together in this podcast.

[@denisedevoto5703]

She is amazing. So glad you are free.❤ I have been free for 6 years.

[@Joy-qw3wm]

So glad you`re away from such toxicity and abuse.I was in such a bad relationship too yet couldn`t see what was happening infront of my eyes.They pull you in and manipulate you.Take care of yourself ,and be happy.xo

[@tansyandro]

She was hired to ACT! She took over & gave her husband, BFF, Taylor’s brother, her KIDS CREDITS. Banned the director, Justin from HIS movie & took over absolutely everything. She’s a bully & needs to be held accountable.

[@Lillian.Gao.]

I almost wish I had her audacity, but I was raised better ig (like most people were)

[@caricaturecontest7899]

We have a epic narcissist in our family, instead of calling them out my smart dad tells me to " let them reveal themselves" people know. Just a matter of time.

[@christabellelysander4392]

Oh. Some of them are so high on top, and so good at controlling their public image though 😔

[@007nadineL]

That might work but if I were you I'd be collecting evidence on The Daily

[@caricaturecontest7899]

@@christabellelysander4392 and it's genuinely insane how they can twist the narrative and be the victim when they are the aggressor

[@christabellelysander4392]

​@@caricaturecontest7899 I hear you 😔

[@SpottedTiger89]

So true...

[@simplyemily8251]

we ALREADY know what happened. Blake threatened Sony and Sony shoveled him off to the basement

[@uh0hun]

Sony is way more powerful than snake livley and ryan

[@simplyemily8251]

@ True but Blake was threatening lawsuit if she didn’t get her way so Sony folded

[@VeeNS88]

So even though Sony met all her demands, she still carried out her threats😏

[@delsi1204]

​@@VeeNS88Yes, She's a monster!

[@simplyemily8251]

@@VeeNS88 YES! I still don’t get why she did that as she made everyone do what she wanted

[@kristinlynn4564]

Posted 12 seconds ago?! Shows how fully invested I am in this!

[@Flaawsometalk]

Love it!!

[@hollandkinney1215]

Ha I got 34 seconds ago!

[@teri3998]

Ikr??😂

[@e.a.8723]

Aren't we all??? I'm living for this drama

[@karens-mv2ti]

Plus Kjersti has great thoughtful content. Love her!!

[@vavafra]

After reading his lawsuit I take back any generosity I offered to Lively that she may have misconstrued his acting as flirting. She is a truly evil and conspiring sociopath who's only goal was to take this film away from Baldoni and his company by any means possible. I feel sick seeing evidence that people like her are out there. To use sexual harassment to this end and to ruin someone's life in this way deserves jail time.

[@Chan-zn7wb]

There were teams #Whitewomentears vs team #wolfinsheepsclothing. However , I was team 'Good faith, taken as bad faith'. I hoped Justin wasn't using his feminist as a veneer as I'd thought surely, she wouldn't be so vindictive as to claim a knowingly false SH allegation towards an innocent man? Clearly, I underestimated her. 😢 There was still some ambiguity over whether he was actually in the wrong. As soon as I saw his suit against his bullies Blake and Ryan, my mouth hit the floor. That ambiguity was expunged since then. This man was telling the truth, all along. I literally had to rant to my mum that I thought she was *evil* . I'm usually a person that minces my words, but I exclaimed it with my whole chest. This situation is absolutely _horrifying_ . Just thinking about if he had no evidence nor the resources of a billionaire backer is making me feel sick to my stomach. #Whitewomentears, you won.

[@successfulperson3304]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@Canine_Mind]

Meta data on the text message image was from 10/31. The thing that makes it important is that in the NYT interview with themselves, they say that they found out after Blake made a complaint so the timeline proves that they were preparing the article before they found out. On top of that it just goes to show how long they knew about it without reaching out to the other side to check out the information, which isn’t defamation, but completely unethical of their “journalists”

[@m_christine1070]

It's frustrating when we as the audience aremore updated than the journalists .🥴

[@marianajmj]

I lost respect for The New York Times as well.

[@janem3575]

yeah, she has no problems defending her shoes and instructing JB where to stand or place his hands in other scenes. Not sure where this purity pledge act comes from.

[@amandamandamands]

It also goes against Lively's side asking for the gag order seeing as the wording is something about when other people knew about it (doesn't say published, just knew). Unless Lively's team is really trying to say that Baldoni knew about this back then they have really lost this argument. Not that I believed it to begin with.

[@carolinamyatt5934]

✊🏼

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

Justin ended up in the basement and had to keep conceding on Blake's demands during filming. While Blake was recruiting her dragons. Its obvious from the evidence Blake held most of the power in the power dynamic.

[@Cassie-pt7mt]

As the daughter of a controlling, abusive alcoholic father, in my opinion, Justin is not behaving like an abuser. However, I can't say the same about Ryan.

[@sweetiepielover1169]

Given that he improvised a slap scene and made posts on twitter trashing his baby with Blake Lively, it's very telling

[@Kymberlee_W]

@@sweetiepielover1169 what slap scene and what did he say about his own kid? I'm genuinely curious. I have never really thought much of him as an actor. His brand of humor is off-putting to me. Anyway, I haven't heard of a slap scene (which movie?) and I'm definitely not on musk's platform.

[@JG22-c5o]

@@sweetiepielover1169 Can you fill us in? What slap scene? And what did he say about his baby? 😢

[@johnsmith-ir1ne]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm a son of a narcissistic mother who keeps gaslighting us, I've now recovered. She also abused physically my dad

[@tidusjecht9143]

​@@sweetiepielover1169 What ?

[@Michael-ur5qb]

Sorry I don’t see a victim. Her throwing her weight indicates she was very sure of herself. A person who was harassed doesn’t invite their harasser to their home and hold their child. That’s a power move if anything.

[@RainyDaySprite]

I think Blake was either abused or over-praised as a child. Ryan, too. Something happened to create the monster mash they are.

[@nadeenzamora]

I'm curious about that timeline. 🤔 did she invite JB to her penthouse, AFTER, she was " feeling uncomfortable"?

[@debseitz7030]

​@@RainyDaySpritehe has said things about his dad that I think was a police officer.

[@melissareyne1900]

It’s hard to keep up I’m watching Dave Neal and pop corned Planet as well they have great coverage this channel is a new favorite

[@drockherb2073]

First, let me say I don’t believe Blake I think her and Ryan (who I actually really enjoy) set out to burn a innocent man’s life to the ground, but do we know timeline wise when he was hanging out holding the babies in regards to when she says whatever started ? Like won’t her excuse be she thought he was a good guy. That’s why he was with the family and involved, but then turned out to be bad. ?

[@fractalfemale]

So many of us have been traumatised by bullies/abusers/smear campaigns & rarely see justice. It’s cathartic to see people held accountable, especially if those who targeted us never were.

[@MarySummers-l5e]

This is why we have to keep supporting Justin! Let’s all be sure not to spend another penny on Blake and Ryan’s movies or products!

[@emmahallard1949]

​@@MarySummers-l5eso true👏🏻

[@omearak]

My cousin did this to me and it put me In such a dark place for such a long time. She made a tik tok about my mistakes mixed with lies and messaged my in-laws about it too. It was absolutely humiliating. Blake reminds me of her so so much too. These narcissists get joy from the humiliation of people they view as weaker or as threats. Also people that won’t do as they say.

[@roseharvey2664]

Great, i have been watching Dr. Amen Kaur. She gives a very clear picture of what has been going on.

[@seharsohail1051]

The pictures are even older than 16th December. The texts embedded in the article were posted around 31st october....

[@larrygraham4875]

Exactly! Thank u for saying😊

[@Loyaltee55]

I can relate with JB because I was in a situation where I was surrounded by more powerful people than me and I went along to get along, I prevailed in the end.

[@maloudelosreyes661]

Totally relate as well.. Felt like a deer cornered.. But then grew ny antlers!!!

[@maloudelosreyes661]

Justice for Justin ❤️

[@Loyaltee55]

@@maloudelosreyes661 Yes!

[@Ineedaprofilename]

They don't even have to be powerful. I've had extremely extroverted colleagues get their own way, because people just get tired of them or the boss will listen to them. Toxic work environments are not uncommon.

[@mindy1230]

Happy for you. Rooting for Justin!

[@carolineclynes1]

What a great interview with Dr Amen Kaur. Kjersti, you are leading this 'exposure of bad behaviour' with such grace and courage. Sending you much love.

[@suzanneamaral749]

Apparently the texts they embedded into the article were put in as far back as October 31, 2024

[@PaulMchugh-b3b]

Far back? It's 90 days

[@kyralindsey5885]

​@PaulMchugh-b3b which means that lively and co are the ones who colluded with the NYT

[@suzanneamaral749]

@ your point? Just showing that they had been working on it way before JB and his team knew anything about it.BL and her team were using this as a smear campaign and didn’t think JB would fight back!

[@retrogal1520]

​@@PaulMchugh-b3bYes, they had all that time to contact Justin and get his statement yet they called him at 11:00 pm (so I read) the Friday before Christmas right before the article comes out! And then they said he has yet to comment. Total smear campaign.

[@saralopez8622]

@@PaulMchugh-b3b the way this January has gone it’s been five months of January. So way “far back” is valid 😂

[@JudiL-f4v]

Thanks for asking for all the questions Kjersti! You always take care of us!❤

[@Flaawsometalk]

Thank you !!!

[@caricaturecontest7899]

I love how Kjersti is always giggling and laughing about these big-headed narcissistic celebrities 🤭

[@007nadineL]

She is a professional delight. ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@elizabethskolnick7753]

Really interesting. I appreciate that Dr. Kaur said, she, like most of us simply didn't see the abuse she was allegedly experiencing in a few minutes of a dancing sequence.

[@nicolepluscarr9406]

You’re such a good interviewer. You actively listen to your guests. And you actually let your guests speak without interrupting them or talking over each other like in other podcasts.

[@larrysimmons926]

Who in their right mind, except a narcissistic, egotistical, neurotic, control freak, would create the character Nicepool that everyone can see represented Justin. I think a reasonable person would turn off the movie, Deadpool, get a bowl of popcorn, and watch the Ryan Reynolds, Blake Lively' reality show. The character, Nicepool, served no purpose to advance the plot of the movie, Deadpool. Then, the way Deadpool and the Ladypool, who was played by Blake Lively, teamed up to abuse and get Nicepool killed off in a very symbolic manner that had nothing to do with the movie itself. Can we say if Justin watched this scene play out, would it have been traumatizing to see how he was being attacked on several unnecessary and unwarranted levels?

[@sdas8988]

Nicepool - and, specifically, the scene of him being shot to death by a firing squad led by Blake - is chilling. It shows that Ryan has violent fantasies towards Justin. I genuinely believe that he is dangerous and a psychopath.

[@LorindaSmith-vy9xh]

The last Deadpool felt like it was written by a 17 year old and one curse word after another, and the violence was off the charts stupid and very rarely was their an intellectual dialog. And I thought Nice pool did look similar to Justin only because I followed justins career so I was like a head tilt huh but also I thought why would we make fun of being nice (nice pool) anyways, that in it's self felt weird in the movie.

[@tidusjecht9143]

​@@sdas8988 I completely agree with you

[@Deb-h3n]

And if NicePool was meant to represent JB was he portrayed as the aggressor in the role? No he was ridiculed and then killed off.

[@pearlosibu]

@Deb-h3nexactly

[@leslieacoca5876]

I appreciate your bringing such a nuanced and sophisticated expert..and I appreciate your effort to put yourself, at least partially, in Blake's (thousand dollar) shoes. I've been a practicing psychotherapist and researcher on young women and crminal offending for 20 years, and this episode taught me something.

[@eps4560]

14:25 the fact that she let him know her power position and "backers" IS proof of threat and coercion, period.

[@Catherine-k6c]

This was one of your best interviews so far! She has some great takes and it was interesting how she discussed some of your prior interviews. Can’t wait to see you on her channel!

[@Flaawsometalk]

Thank you so much. It's one of my favorites too

[@shelleygiffin4422]

I’ve been following Dr Amen Kaur’s channel. I love her professional breakdown of this ongoing saga. A fantastic guest to have on your show IMO ❤

[@user-nm1rv2bh7k]

I have been watching her also.

[@abethebabe3835]

Yes I subscribed to her a few days ago. Very insightful

[@PippyPan]

Candice Owens is connecting some ugly little dots!

[@PMahon]

I've been following her too!

[@allytrudie864]

What a terrible professional integrity she has. Speaking on people that are not her patients and that she has never treated. Real therapists with integrity would NEVER do this. Because you CAN’T.

[@Kiwi42andEverything]

Really enjoyed listening to Dr Amen Kaur.

[@ICU-r4b]

And Blake said that she was harassed on the movie set and that Justin was abusive and it was a toxic place to work.With that all that being said, why would she take her four children to work more than one time if it was that toxic there?

[@juliegraves6949]

and ask him to come meet with her while breast feeding? BL is a liar and a disaster. She and RR I believe their careers are done. Justin will end up better than ever.

[@amandamandamands]

Also why would Blake invite Justin over to her home

[@stephanieredden8861]

Great interview Kjersti. Your guest was 100% right, when she said that you handled your interview with Blake well.

[@juliettirina6829]

What an irony! Blake, an actress that is a bullying and manipulative person performed Lily, a victim of domestic violence.

[@007nadineL]

This is the biggest take away imho

[@juliettirina6829]

@007nadineL I think actresses and actors should be screened for specific characters.

[@Blueberry-u2x]

Oh !!! 💗 I am so happy to see her on your show ! Exactly what i wished for her ! She has a strong grasp of the subject matter !

[@lydia_thequeen]

Blake has really shown a side of herself I wish I had not seen. I really liked her before all this. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@karabooker8184]

Now we know! I’ve seen some of her cringe behavior in the past but she’s showing a terrible side of herself now! No coming back from this craziness!

[@22lyric]

There's LOTS of videos going back several years!

[@lydia_thequeen]

@@karabooker8184 exactly, I hadn't really ever seen the bad stuff from the past so it's all new to me.

[@janem3575]

I didn't like nor dislike her. I can't unsee what I've seen. She's filming a dancing montage scene where they're both falling in love while dancing. a kiss on the neck is fairly innocuous. I draw the line at butt and other groping / foreplay on the dance floor.

[@juliegraves6949]

never knew her tbh but definitely do not like her now.

[@maggie7317]

Wouldn’t you think that all directors From Now On would be afraid to work with lively and Reynolds? I mean, if I were director, I would be afraid that they would try to steal every project that we worked together on.

[@marianajmj]

100%

[@LemonBaked.]

Blake was planning to be a director in my opinion. That may be over too.

[@Deb-h3n]

​@@LemonBaked.Who would want her to direct them 😱

[@Roseswild79]

i was originally on BL's side. But bored, i started to listen to the other side one day. And i changed to Justins side because the facts from BL were not true, twisted, distorted, but mainly it was there was this big plan from BL to destroy and hurt JB on a level i never seen. It was this power play to destroy JB , and this mass lies and coverup that i think capture most of us , while we are watching daily as this unfold.

[@SunDecline]

Most of us who are fans of Kjersti were like, “Why did he harass someone we don’t like?” and out of obligation to victims, believed her story. Then we believed they were both weird. Now many of us still feel they’re both weird, but see Blake’s behavior as totally tone deaf and manipulative. Justin’s weirdness seems pretty harmless.

[@derangedone13]

Kudos to you for keeping an open mind and heeding the evidence. Lots of people aren't doing that and that's why what Lively and her team did to Baldoni is so cruel and malicious. The only person that orchestrated a smear campaign is Lively and her team.

[@SpottedTiger89]

As a fellow therapist, I've been careful to voice I'm a therapist when commenting and following this story. But I'm grateful for therapists like Dr. Kaur who are more public and willing to speak out on this! There are a lot of concerning behaviors from Blake and Ryan's side. I also think Justin demonstrates concerning behaviors and should be a cautionary tale for all of us to have firm boundaries and recognize when we may be falling victim to someone’s manipulative tactics.

[@sebastianellis6110]

OMG ... she mentioned Chase... love him... he is truly amazing!!

[@MountainDogMom]

This was great. Sadly we live in a narcissistic society. I am sure Hollywood and social media doesn’t help.

[@SunDecline]

The narcissists get the attention. I think that tide is going to turn soon. There’s hope. 🌟

[@Isabelmaryj]

Social media also helps us survivors find each other and share knowledge. 😊

[@MountainDogMom]

@ so true! It has helped me so much; I just mean the “influencers” and selfie-obsessed people.

[@gogogaga7441]

Kjersti, the Metadata is important because it negates the claim in BL's lawsuit that he was the one who "initiated" the smear campaign by publishing first (referring to the TMZ article and purported unorganic smears of BL, such as the re-emergence of your interview). The law clearly states that its whomever "initiated" the first campaign, not who "published" first.

[@monikadoe]

Yes, and the information about the text of the article (from the same tiktokker who raised the issue of the metadata) is that it was in a file created October 31st -- LONG before Blake filed her claims against Justin Baldoni. This is very significant for both cases Baldoni is making.

[@leannenewton1572]

​@@monikadoeIt was actually me that found the metadata in the texts in the NYT. Melanie King very kindly covered it for me because I'm not a content creator You're absolutely right, the metadata is important because in her request for protective order, Lively accuses Baldoni of leaking CRD to NYT. This proves he didn't because in October, the CRD didn't exist and was far back enough that there was no room for doubt on that. Also, the dates in the images file names could be explained by Lively and NYT as typos, the metadata in the texts are the date of embedding. That is a lot less likely to be wrong (not impossible though) 😊

[@monikadoe]

@@leannenewton1572 Kudos for such fantastic and important work!

[@monikadoe]

@@leannenewton1572 I thought Justin Baldoni's lawyers would have looked into the metadata, but guess they didn't until YOU pointed it out!!! Bravo to you! They are now amending their complaint against the NYTimes based on your research and the information sharing it prompted. That is amazing!! And again, kudos for asking the right questions!!!!

[@leannenewton1572]

@@monikadoe Awe thank you, it still feels insane that it's even happening. I feel so sad for Baldoni, he's literally the nicest man alive. And I'm angry with her. This really could have helped DV survivors if it had been done how it was intended to be. I'm proud I was able to (with support from other content creators who made it public) make a difference. It was emailed to Bryan Freedman before anything got shared publicly 😀

[@noelleb.3643]

I had just read this morning in the comments of someone hoping you would interview Dr. Kaur and omg so glad you guys did this! Love both of your insights, sending support and love

[@sallydealy3970]

Thank you for all of your refreshing videos!❤

[@Flaawsometalk]

Thank you so much!

[@paulamorris3138]

Colleen hoover regrets selling the rights. AFTER the book got more popular BECAUSE there was gonna be a movie. I think the Reynolds sold her a deal.. get Justin OUT and take his rights. Then boom they pay more for the second book movie rights and they ALL MAKE BANK.

[@minshewsdad]

I love that you pulled in an expert! I think it’s important to be aware how mental health has become more apparent now that our society is talking and accepting of our childhood and genetic predispositions. Throwing around narcissist and toxic is all too easy. Having a disorder takes many hours of observation and paperwork. Personally , i believe we all carry narcissistic tendencies even for us ‘empaths’ and highly sensitive folk. It seems like Blake is simply a product of her environment. I love that y’all touched on entitlement because her reactions may be a projection of how deeply (or lack of depth) she is capable of feeling some of those deeper, darker emotions. She likely struggles internally like the rest of us. Unfortunately, her actions and lack of understanding a world outside of Hollywood and likely privilege, is backfiring. All of these conversations are important. I appreciate your perspective and have enjoyed listening to you and your guests.

[@Trenchant468]

Been saying all along that the reason this has captured the attention of the public is because all of us have been, minimally, bullied in the workplace or at home, if not subjected to ruinous circumstances, such as those it appears JB is suffering now.

[@christinem7711]

Loved this guest!! Was so interesting and she seems very knowledgeable. Would love to see more guests like this! ❤🎉

[@caricaturecontest7899]

I have watched Chase Hughes and The Behavior Panel since the covid started! Love the nod to him! He's amazing

[@whiteheart6827]

I also did to, until I saw a video about him and how the whole origin of his career is lie and how he tried to sell a book on how to "bag chicks" to selling supplements that sucked. I know don;t place to much faith in anything he say's.

[@caricaturecontest7899]

@whiteheart6827 ya, I saw that too. However true that video is, I've learn from the behavior panel, Chases videos have so many helpful hints, so many cues to see if people are lying, tips on how to be more confident, tips on being more productive and following an exercise regime. Bottom line is he's helped me in life, the other guy hasn't. Just shared negativity. That's my take.

[@caricaturecontest7899]

@@whiteheart6827 you can't discount other things you've learned from him and all the enjoyable content just because someone tried to smear him. That guy that tried to smear him was kind of a joke. He could definitely take some tips from Chase on how to be more confident and sell himself LOL. Actually he should read the book on how to get a chic, because he's (shocker) single

[@Jess-o3t]

Thank you Kjersti for having her as a guest! She was wonderful! I have had a narcissistic person in my life and wow what she said rang true!

[@mindy1230]

I really appreciated Dr. Amens fairness in giving her opinions. My Mom is a Narcissist and I have done a lot of self development trauma work also. Shadow work etc. Because early on, I recognized certain patterns in Blake Lively I went on to watch many more. I know that I am biased but tried hard to keep a critical mind and really do believe she is a Narcissist. The way she talks on and on while people next to hercare visably uncomfortable. The way she feels that she can belt out anything, blurting inappropriately and behave carelessly or recklessly, but expects others to be very very careful or she will punish them...is a pattern it seems. Punitive characteristics. Like, saying she was "fat shamed " yet openly mocking Baldoni about his nose. Its one set of rules for you, another for me. The threats that she made during production. The list goes on and on. I view Ryan more as an enabler but I could be wrong there. Time will tell !

[@xara6945]

Can we look into Hugh and Ryan's bromance? Is it fishy how they gush about each other more than how they describe their respective spouses??

[@JoC-l2h]

Fakeness personified.

[@MsMinnow8]

As an Aussie I'm furious with Hugh Jackman. Vom vom. 🤮

[@msaijay1153]

Hughie isn't married

[@PurpleAlize]

🏌🏿

[@perfumetherapie]

I saw this PR lady suggesting Sutton is a beard for HJ. And as I write this I’m realizing that if HJ had a thing for any dude…who would it be? 🤔😲

[@juanita-dark]

Yes! I was hoping someone would reference Dr Kaur's work. Her vids have been very illuminating.

[@BeKindBeFree]

❤❤ Dr Kaur is SO insightful and articulate. Wonderful interview!

[@maferdash]

Wow this woman is amazing communicator! As well as you Kjersti. But its the way she talks, the very interesting professional information and content, the clear way she speaks and the cherry of the top, the British accent! One of the best interviews Kjersti, thanks so much once again for bringing great guests on your channels! Greetings from Germany ❤

[@nicolebmarsh]

I’ve been binge watching Dr. Amen Kaur’s videos as well! I lover her take on this whole situation.

[@KingdomOfLegends]

I like how you collaborate with all these you tubers that have good insight and experience. The meta data was about the amount of time they gave Baldoni's team to respond, when they have known about everything way in advanced so they had enough time to collaborate with everyone they accused (you) and could have given Baldoni's team time to respond. They made it look/sound like the article suddenly happen so there wasn't time to get to everyone. That is why everyone is calling out the Meta Data.

[@lindahaney1779]

The thing that informed me was she allowed (or wanted?) her husband to step in and take care of her business. She’s a grown woman who knows the entertainment industry from childhood. Why would she allow Ryan to rewrite scenes, call shots, get people fired, etc? It supposed to be her movie, not his.

[@kylieparkinson6387]

Kjersti you are such a good interviewer with your ability to allow people to speak but also keeping a great flow. Dr Amen Kaur is exceptional. Thank you for introducing her to me.

[@Flaawsometalk]

Thank you. What a wonderful compliment.

[@mageriver3388]

Just discovered Dr Kaur this week! Happy to see her and learn more!

[@mageriver3388]

“Our focus is our currency.”

[@JosannaMonik]

I can't say if Blake is a narcissist, but I saw her make fun of Justin's nose and that's not okay in any context.

[@007nadineL]

It was tone deaf and mean imho

[@Deb-h3n]

His nose is fine. Men shouldn't have small noses. His is a perfect nose for his face. He's handsome as he is.

[@mariavergara2909]

Agree 100% she didn't understand the audience. Saw the movie and it didn't feel like a movie about DV. It felt more like a romantic movie and the editing was weird to me and now i know that was her edit version now i want to see his version to see if i would feel more it was about DV.

[@jackielehman8945]

Neither did he tho... sorry but the movie was not great.

[@jackielehman8945]

I havnt read the book, but from what the author has said, that was what she wanted for the movie, that it was more about the character of Lily, not about DV, but her experience of it and how she goes through it.

[@SecondChances06]

I know what started for me was the PR for the movie was so bad and I know as a DV and SA survivor it was just mortifying seeing how she was treated it. I think it made many of us feel unseen except for Justin he truly was trying to make sure the message wasn’t getting lost and that meant so much to so many of us. Then when she tried to accuse him of something so bad but getting caught in manipulation and lies that really made me very angry. I know I have a strong sense of justice and that’s definitely another reason I’m so invested in this whole thing. If in the end he truly is innocent which I think he is justice needs to be served and with false allegations I personally think she should do time because she is trying to ruin his and his family’s lives.

[@DawnDavidson]

Agreed, but I think we will be lucky to get the truth, and her being subject to ANY consequences whatsoever. It took literally millions of dollars and 6+ years for Johnny Depp to get his life back. I hope that JB can prevail.

[@sabrinebaba77]

The meta data from the embedded text shows they were created October 31st, 2024

[@greatestever247]

Thissss 👆🏻👆🏻 Didn’t they also name it ‘Smear Baldoni’?

[@mamamichellegist]

@@greatestever247yes they did!!!

[@tarotherbologycrystals3565]

@@greatestever247 100%

[@Chan-zn7wb]

YES! I was hoping Dr Amen Kaur would speak on your platform! 🎉

[@jmn1811hk]

What hasn’t been talked enough is intention. Why did BL tell JB about how she “never” got credited for her creative input in her previous movies/tv show? This is master manipulation 101. She knew enough abt him for her husband to mock JB’s being a nice guy. So I think, she knew what buttons to push, things to say to disarm JB in a way that he would not just let her in, but actively include her to participate in the movie making process. Throughout the process, I think she realized her power over him and grew increasingly emboldened. When she complained of a “hostile” working environment, that could be true - in her own mind. Which is that she didn’t get EVERYTHING her own way at the moment she demanded them. It was really uncomfortable listening to JB’s voicemail to BL. I know some commentators on KZbin described it as grovelling. But that’s based on them looking at it through their own lense. We have to be fair to JB and think abt the kind of person he is. Watching his previous projects, there’s no denying he is super invested in creating a supportive and nurturing environment. He has a pattern that can be easily seen. Maybe ppl don’t believe his level of niceness but that’s their issue, not JB’s. A lot of ppl are now blaming RR as the mastermind. But if BL knows how to manipulate JB, who is to say she didn’t manipulate her husband to go up in arms for her and get even with JB? As she described it RR is after all one of her dragons. And perhaps, all these other ppl doing her bidding are her dragons too now. Human relationship is never clear cut as we would like to think. Often they are so complicated and intertwined that it is hard for a regular person’s brain to cope. A person can be one way on their own but become somebody else when in the company of another person. RR could be the instigator but could also be the enabler. CH was tone deaf enough to have released a colouring book as part of a marketing tool for her book but cancelled that when faced with backlash. So imagine when CH met her “most favourite actress” BL. Suddenly, CH had someone powerful and influential to align with her vision for her book. This cld explain why CH was more than ok with BL letting loose her wardrobe choices on the character Lily. But at the forefront, we should all take into account that BL is an ACTOR complaining about her experience WHILE acting. She said it herself before, she’s no method actor and knows just to “act as herself in a given situation”. This is exactly what she did in this film. She acted as herself in as character and in a situation she clearly has none the emotional depth for and the experience to know how to handle - professionally. BL has the right to be whatever kind of person she wants to but professionally? Studio execs, directors and producers - take note.

[@stephanieroth6472]

I think during the making of the movie BL was trying to keep up TS. Seeing TS success with her Tour , constantly in the news with TK. RR also making Deadpool and I also believe ScarJo was a Director in a new movie that was produced by Wayfarer- Justin!

[@derangedone13]

I said this in another comment, but I am going to repeat it here. I think people like the Candace Owens theory because it allows them to have their cake and eat it too. Justin gets to be the victim, but so does Blake. A man still has to play the part of the villain that way so it's more palatable.

[@jmn1811hk]

@ Doesn’t that make it more bizarre that in her own mind SHE is the khaleesi and TS is her pet dragon 😅 At the end of her text, BL pretty much said to JB - if you do as I say and what I want, these dragons of mine will be at your service too.

[@vanessasalomon9058]

Interesting!!!

[@jmn1811hk]

@ I don’t really understand your comment so correct me if I got it wrong. CO has many theories that I don’t know which one you mean. To your remark, I don’t see how Justin is acting the victim by defending himself against other ppl’s serious accusations that undermine not just his personal but esp his professional credibility. I don’t think JB was blameless in the way he navigated thru his dealings with BL. But we don’t learn and become better unless we are tested. I hope JB has learned lessons in establishing better boundaries for himself personally and professionally. Being nice, like being good, can be a shallow thing to aspire to when there’s not enough integrity in the mix.

[@chloelucky3883]

Love Dr. Amen Kaur, she is very insightful and wise. Her insights into social media and conspiracy theories was spot on. Another point about the grandiose and entitled behavior of people was extremely interesting.

[@frenchitaaki7357]

She is indeed an amazing guest! I thoroughly enjoyed her insights. And I did learn. She has such a pragmatic way of explaining things! Thank you - This was fascinating.

[@Flaawsometalk]

Yes, right? I love her too

[@jeszszsz352]

Yes very pragmatic take

[@awestdickenberg]

What a great conversation! ❤ Thank you so much ☺️.

[@Bsfan-d9d]

That was a great point about sometimes we humans interrupt things so differently. A very compassionate way of thinking about her.

[@jackielehman8945]

Thank goodness for this expert, finnally a reasonable voice in the room.

[@BenStrickland-fj4bc]

Shame on Colleen Hoover if she was getting into bed with the Reynolds. I'm sick of the lack of integrity all over this. She loved Justin, where is she now?

[@julybaby19]

Follow both of you!! So happy for this collab 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@healingflowpractice]

I really enjoyed and appreciated this interview with Dr. Amen Kaur. She brought a very balanced and nuanced perspective including having the humility and curiosity to recognize and acknowledge there's still so much we don't know - AND also, given what we do know and have seen so far, the evidence seems to support Justin Baldoni's side. I also appreciated how she consistently emphasized and reiterated that context matters which again seems to further support Justin Baldoni's side as the documentations that his team have provided help to recontextualize messages and claims that had been seemingly and intentionally stripped of their meaning and significance.

[@chriskennison3471]

What an awesome lady. Loved listening to that. We all know and assume the general consensus of the subject matter, but hearing it explained in a deeper fashion, was enlightening.

[@elysianfields8461]

Kjersti this was an excellent interview! Really enjoyed my time spent! Informative, but also fun! Thank you ladies! ❣️

[@Flaawsometalk]

Thank you!!

[@HeretoWatchandEnjoytheTea]

Only the manipulators, the manipulated (people focusing on how she may have been feeling rather than her lies that debunked her story), and those who don't care enough to look into the case can't see who the manipulator is. One person apologizes for things other people do (Justin, the empath) and the other won't apologize for anything she does and keeps looking for a fall guy (Blake, the narcissist). That voicemail was hard to listen to. As someone who has experience with narcissists, I cringed at that voice note he sent her. He was twisting himself into a pretzel to stroke her ego and get back on her good side. The sad thing is instead of seeing her texts for the pure manipulation they were, he felt bad for her and apologized on behalf of the other directors. Sounds to me that the other directors correctly identified her as a narcissist and handled her appropriately. I am not victim blaming, but he really did fall right into her hands. Hopefully, he deals with narcissists better in the future, because he made a lot of mistakes with her. Gray rock Narcissists as much as possible and never feed their supply. Never stroke their ego or they will turn you into a flying monkey via triangulation as she did with so many people in this case with her smear campaign.

[@MariaMaria-jn8cx]

Blake and Ryan seem to be one in the same... They most probably feed off eachother.

[@seanalynch4710]

I think everyone gives Blake lively to much credit! As if she’s smart or she must be insecure or she must be being abused by Ryan R. Truly I think she is just rude and entitled with a bad personality. There are people like that and it doesn’t mean they had to have a pre requisite to why they acted like this. She is just a Rude B who gets away with things. It’s that simple I think.

[@mymai5859]

Exactly 💯 %

[@amandamandamands]

I totally agree especially when there are people going all the way back to high school saying that she was a mean girl. Her father obviously coddled her as he paid for her to keep her spot on choir as she missed enough that she would normally be kicked off. There are people saying what happened in high school doesn't matter to them because people change those people are ignoring that people from high school onwards are coming out with similar stories. She hasn't changed, she is the classic high school mean girl and because of being a nepo baby she got away with the bad behaviour on set until she was a big enough name that people just excuse it anyway. If she wasn't a nepo she wouldn't have booked another job with that attitude as a child actor and wouldn't have gotten her first big break.

[@derangedone13]

I think people like the Candace Owens theory because it allows them to have their cake and eat it too. Justin gets to be the victim, but so does Blake. A man still has to play the part of the villain that way so it's more palatable.

[@JohannaQuinn-yd6wf]

That was Amazing! Thank You ✌️💚

[@MultiCowgirl22]

Thank you!!! Nice to meet you Dr. Amen. Very good analysis ❤

[@starryeye3482]

I don't follow Candace Owen but her latest video about a Reddit post that knew this Blake/Justin saga was going to happen and a snippet of an interview where the composer for Deadpool talking about receiving a call from Blake to do a score for her film at the last minute and firing the previous composer is unbelievable! Also Colleen Hoover's level of involvement in this is interesting. Goodness so hard to not follow all this drama!

[@sherriegiroux9646]

Two points about metadata. The dates go back to SEPT . Next Blakes team said B filed first. Makes BIG difference 😮

[@GiaSantino]

Thank you so much for this video. I was not familiar with Dr. A. Kaur, I will definitely check out her videos. Kjersti, please keep producing this good content ❤

[@Flaawsometalk]

Thank you. She is really great

[@LaporteNadine]

I have been following her and she is very good! Thank you to bring her on your chanel.

[@dramenkaur]

Thank you so much for having me on your channel

[@Flaawsometalk]

It was such a pleasure !!!

[@sherylwright737]

Thanks for getting professional experts to help us understand the trauma and hurt caused by narcissists

[@AzothDee]

Amazing guest. And Chase whom she mentions is so intelligent, him and Spidey break down human behavior.

[@gigi05-w8t]

Wonderful host!

[@missbrains7281]

Candace Owen has a detailed, thorough, analysis of all this including information going back to 2023!! Her timeline is amazing

[@SunDecline]

I take Candace Owen’s opinion with a grain of salt. It’s entertaining, though.

[@alluringbliss4165]

@@SunDecline She had more than an opinion. She dug deep and found more posts regarding the planned lawsuit.

[@jgwents]

Meh

[@martinmcphee526]

Candace is getting the straight dope. All the Hollywood reporters are playing catch-up and exposing themselves by trying to contain the story. Lots of Sklenars out there trying to decide who the winners will be so they can lick scrot

[@mayarodriguezsrensen6904]

Great interview and discussion!

[@m..a3531]

i love doctor Amen Kaur!!!❤And Kjersti of course! Awesome collab 🙏

[@Flaawsometalk]

Aww, thanks! You're the best!