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[@tutakuazen7910]

32:04 - 32:17 Man does this quote hit's deep. When I first heard him say this, it triggered a verse from the Bible in my head that I remember reading about. Matthew 16:26 - "What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?"

[@Coral333]

AMEN

[@Chris-iq5pr]

Mumbo jumbo

[@Noah-xn5th]

@@Chris-iq5pr Mumbo jumbo.

[@theperfectguy0998]

I just want to say from the bottom of my heart, thanks for everything you do for your community, youre changing loads of lives.

[@MLbeatss]

Agree!

[@Afonso.Goncalves]

Fully agree man

[@Godly_Improvement]

i agree, but something to remember is that he has an extension that makes it where you can't see comments, because he doesn't want the dopamine from comments like these. i too am grateful for what he has done for us, but he doesn't see our comments.

[@trilljimigoat5709]

Give jeffrey viagra!💊

[@thewarrior658]

Thank u, man, u give me hope not only in my life but also in the lives of all the young men trying to do the right thing, God bless my friend.

[@nemesisundead_6999]

Every-time I watch Hamza I am amazed that how much humanity can be in one person along compared to the whole world

[@RamosCarlos-dv5bc]

The reason why you get harder when you breathe and relax is because when you are stressed your pelvic muscles get tight and don’t allow blood to flow properly

[@AmericanVenom6]

Hello Hamza. I’ve heard so much about what the right woman should be and about all the different attachment styles, I have been improving myself for nearly 1 year now, and am now 17. Nevertheless, I still struggle on finding and identifying good quality woman with feminine energy. A video on that would be greatly appreciated

[@LostH3ro97]

Bro you are 17, calm down

[@SJTheGiant]

You are 17, you are not even a good quality man yourself yet not much of a man even. Calm down my friend

[@mission2547]

Keep going bro! Thats the energy.

[@AmericanVenom6]

I know bro, but I believe that there is progress to be made and I am ready to take the next step. Especially at this age, it is hard to find high quality woman and starting as early as possible has no downsides at least in my opinion

[@mission2547]

​@@AmericanVenom6i dont think there would be any downsides at all too.For example, I am 16 years old and I am progressing slowly in this adventure, but at the same time I am learning a lot. Sometimes I feel like I am struggling in vain, but when I focused on meditation, everything started to change very quickly. It's not like I've just started. I've been dealing with my laziness for a long time, but while trying, I gained deep knowledge and now I'm dedicating myself to stoicism and mental health.

[@sebastianrasguido]

Bro, i got so many valuable relationship insights from this video, and the video wasn’t even about relationships, please giving advice on this relationships theme. Thanks hamza

[@patrickst7327]

always breathe fully when you are stressed. how to check if your stress level is balanced. check whether both nostrils exhale the same amount. and pay attention to whether you have any tension in your body. and if you have negative thoughts, focus on your breath again. do this as much as possible and it will become easier. and when you go to sleep, use mouth tape to breathe through your nose. you sleep 100x better. and always keep yourself positive especially before sleeping. I always say that your thoughts are just like the wind. and you can use your emotions as tools. anyone can act. You see it every day on TV and Netflix, so you can do it too. Thanks hamza voor you're truth 💯💯💯

[@Goolermanecola0000]

This video so far (20 mins in) has been very good man, very grateful for you making this 👑

[@sonounbravoragazzo8069]

hi hamza, I'm 16, I've recently been in a relationship and I struggle not to be jealous or think too much about how to behave with her, how to be a better boyfriend, and this takes away a lot of mental thoughts energy from school and feom self imrpovement l. I really hope you read this comment even though I don't normally comment much. You have made my life better and I am grateful to you for that.

[@sonounbravoragazzo8069]

I feel like my mental health is getting worse because of this

[@sonounbravoragazzo8069]

​@willywonka2825 yes when I'm in the throes of emotions I would really like to leave her, in fact I overthink this decision sometimes . When I'm jealous I'm the distant one, it comes to me somehow automatically because I don't want to show my jealousy. On the other hand, she always tries to reassure me when I tell her that I'm jealous but the fact of telling her makes me afraid that she thinks I'm insecure etc. I mean I don't know if I should pretend I'm not jealous or tell her. thanks anyway for answering me brother in these moments I feel alone because I don't have many friends to talk about it with.

[@two_2oons344]

@@sonounbravoragazzo8069 the reason you are jealous is because you haven’t worked on yourself. There is nothing wrong with your loved one. Focus on improving yourself and you will feel better about yourself which will stop you from being jealous, that is stop making her your primary focus. Brother all I want is good for you. Trust me and for now just focus on being a better version of yourself, tell her that you need some time off, you need to make her understand that you still love her and you will comeback to her, but until focus on your goals. Trust me and you will see wonders.

[@sonounbravoragazzo8069]

@two_2oons344 thank you so much brother, I agree with you, the problem is that we go to the same school and then I see her practically every day. What do you mean when you say I should take time off?

[@sonounbravoragazzo8069]

​@two_2oons344 should I breakup with her bro?

[@randomvideos.5.4m35]

finally someone raise this issue.😭😭

[@emin01]

Hey Hamza, just wanted to say that I love your vids and you're like the big brother I never had. Keep up the good work!💯💪

[@Frasesdepositividad]

I did the stupidiest thing of mixing vape, alcohol weed and coke all testosterone killers

[@Afonso.Goncalves]

Thank you for all your help Hamza and for your continuous dedication, I can truly see the maturity you have just in this video, amazing and unusual advice

[@ptk6994]

Thanks for keeping me rock solid

[@beriltsumbu7426]

Make sure to always sleep before you wake up

[@eduardo_nune3s]

And in your life too guys, full accountability

[@marwanashraf8161]

thank you man you really help me understand and better myself

[@JustinBellizzi]

Stay Hard!

[@MiguelMartin-zp3fv]

I can't take you serious 🏃 Out of all the videos you choosed this one 💀

[@MythicqI]

What type of hard?

[@JustinBellizzi]

@@MiguelMartin-zp3fv ??

[@werrutkyupnext]

Stay Hard around men not women erect cock

[@MiguelMartin-zp3fv]

@@JustinBellizzi yeah what type of hard 😭

[@suviharan2039]

How to balance love and self improvement

[@lethabokarondo4270]

It's a coincidence that this video dropped after the same thing happened to me 4 hrs ago...

[@adamhehir-e5x]

i really like this style of content and i think it solves quite a big issue in the redpill space as many people end up not liking themselves being really judgmental even to people they love like their family when you learn about the trauma side and the struggles women have with this stuff to as well as a masculinity for men it makes you less judgemental and how your talking about some normal girls being nice people ,please push this more in all your content as withought it i become much more unkind in my mind

[@howisjason]

Breathe like a king, boys.

[@Musay2341]

Bro it’s been a minute since I’ve watched one of your videos and this popped up on my fyp you good man?

[@MartinPienaar-nv5ik]

My ex was very supportive and extremely attractive. I think I was faking my confidence so much and I was so much over my head. She was also my first. Now, imagine having a 1% girl in terms of looks for your first. My privates never wanted to work and the few times it did, I could not fit and I was hurting her because of size difference. This killed so much of the romance. She was very supportive, but if you are out of your league and faking everything, you will be full of anxiety.

[@fighter500mx3]

Your very lucky Man Inleast you have a girlfriend who supports you I hope you 2 are still happily together. Mine broke up with me because i couldn’t get hard at the moment and even accused me of being gay. After that she lost respect over me and our relationship didn’t last that much and after that I found out she cheated on me. It completely destroyed my mental health and confidence. Right now I’m just picking myself up from the shame and making sure I don’t make the same mistake with another women.

[@reid2006]

As the other guy said, make sure your tongue is on the roof of your mouth. But don’t press it. Swallow a few times and engage the back third of your tongue upwards.

[@Spoofers6463]

Theres sooo many people who comments on Hamza on ratio its crazy

[@xanderkt478]

Did you make a video on how to hold down a relationship?

[@gabrielascensotomas]

Watch LFA he makes videos explaining modern women and relationships.

[@hundy6521]

Dude very eye opening video thanks bruv

[@Goolermanecola0000]

I do enjoy these videos, would love more

[@miwxg]

Dont forget boys, desensitizing your brain watching porn doesn't help your case . Don't bust, restrain from lust

[@abrahamhdz1999]

26:33 is facts asf

[@adecayingskeleton3651]

This is why I'm getting bottom surgery

[@st9gyounes999]

This comment may be strange, especially for a non-Muslim. I still have not lost my virginity, and thank God, despite that, I have been addicted to pornography since the age of 13 until now, but I fight and fall a lot. Even though I watch your videos , but I feel like a failure and my mental life is shit , even though I entered the gym, I feel like myself. I was not satisfied with myself inside

[@kasparasstancikas2399]

Hello Hamza, it's winter, and many of your tribe leaders are dealing with a runny nose. We would be interested in seeing a video about it. 🤧 Like this video to keep it up! 👍

[@yhyhyhyuhyuy]

It's making me suffer man, I can still do things with it, just annoys me.

[@nathangabbard154]

Speaking facts, a lot of these truths are found in the Bible bro, read proverbs and Ecclesiastes and it will blow your mind

[@Junaid1493]

Real..

[@rahulcw_]

hey hamza my parents keep on fighting and it makes a negative impact on my mind . this time their fight got really toxic and abusive. i couldnt help but cry. my brother doesnt live here. what should i do man. love from india please help me🙏

[@Hey-Women-iam-bear-choose-me]

Ek gun Kharid le dono ko raat me.......samjha?

[@bernardtran12]

Hamza please do a video about varicocele , this is an uncompletely cure disease and many men have it

[@yggnggv3519]

He has in the past

[@xanderwindeymusic]

I’m 17 years old and I’ve been struggling with going to bed on the right time. I end up texting too many people or watching too much KZbin. What should I do?

[@Shinji_ikari_69]

Try to set boundaries with people Don't be shy to tell them "i will sleep rn" everyone tells u stuff so jus set ur boundaries with them and you'll be cool

[@prash7776]

Bro if u r 17 then just try to understand when to turn off the screen even when u feel to text them or smthg distract urself and do smthg else other than that and try to go to bed early and dt watch KZbin keep a 10am bedtiming so dat the phone changes to grayscale and then u can remind urself u have to go to bed or smthg

[@Shinji_ikari_69]

@@prash7776 yea thats too advanced , let him start with sth relatively easy bruv

[@myppissmallbut2534]

Sleep therapy. Wake up at the same time everyday, and eventually your body will sleep more to accommodate. Sleep at 1:30 AM? Wake up 7. Sleep 11:30 PM? Wake up 7. Sleep 9 pm? Wake up 7.

[@schadiel-ghorayeb479]

My first tought was " maybe she not hot enoug?"

[@Mr_magik]

Well spoken Hamza 😮

[@DIDI-yh6bq]

you should do more of these reddit videos

[@andrassbb]

whats the point of just having casual sex in a relationship? its just instant gratification no ?

[@dimitropulosproductiontv6992]

bruh... no getting intimate with your high quality girlfriend who is submissive is not exactly instant gratification

[@yggnggv3519]

@@dimitropulosproductiontv6992 Not every high quality woman ALWAYS wants or has to be subbmisive

[@yggnggv3519]

No it’s healthy

[@dimitropulosproductiontv6992]

@@yggnggv3519 wtf? XD its like you are saying to me a real man doesnt have to be dominant and strong :/ now i didnt say she has to be submissive or that she must want to be but that is what makes a woman high value

[@yggnggv3519]

@@dimitropulosproductiontv6992 not always some women like not constantly being subbmisive and obviously some men don’t constantly like being dominant now I believe that men should be dominant and women should be subbmisive yes but dosnt mean u can’t experiment I don’t mean a weak man or a masculine women coz neither of those things are good

[@ZarisVideo]

Happenes to the best

[@vasilecusarmale7322]

You need alot of sleep to get hard. Thats very important!

[@shosu]

May i ask how many times a week you're posting podcasts on spotify?

[@user-daddy.aniq69]

Please hamza make video on relationship

[@golddon3388]

One like for the title 👏👍

[@Drakenkum-f6e]

Hey guys , i needed some advice I am a 16 year old boy and i have a girlfriend, for which i am really serious about, we have promised to marry each other and stuff, i know this sounds cringe to most of you but this is the truth. I have been on self improvement after watching hamza, i have failed at no fap alot of times but i am on it. Unintentionally i think i have hurt her, she doesn't want me anymore like she used to, and i have to constantly give her time to make her feel good, she loves me i know, she has gone thru alot for me, i want the attraction back that she had from me in the starting, she is physically attracted by me, i am not some jacked gym guy , but i am not skinny fat , fat , or skinny i am lean , i have some good chest muscles, i can do more than 30 push ups in a row, we have fought alot too , and we even fought to the point that we broke up but we both came back the same day after few hours. Please tell me how to make her happy, (we dont have much time together as we both our students, so we only get to spend time at noon in our ccg , and at night in chats)

[@jakestar1979]

Thanks for the video But my bro I really wanna join adonis school but PayPal is banned in my country can you add crypto to the payment methods please 🙏 ❤

[@NF_1]

🫵💪

[@r0hannn_]

Hamza.. Please post a video about " WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU STOP MASTURBATING TODAY?? " Because it's a positive intended video. Please if you can 🙏

[@ZionU0]

I showed up on the video🥷🥲 Thank you! Hamza!

[@hamza.69_77]

Where is the summaru guy😔

[@ΓιωργοςΚαφουσιας-ε3ε]

MAKE SURE TO PUT YOUR TONGUE ON THE TOP OF YOUR MOUTH WHILE WATCHING THIS!!!!!!

[@sjjdbfnbgbxx9920]

why

[@telerakki69]

Its just my natural tongue position at this point because ive been mewing for so long

[@LxstScythe]

Thank you bro MEW GUYS

[@xanderwindeymusic]

I’m proud to say that this, mewing has become my normal tongue position! Stop reading the comments now

[@kirbylepsychopat6345]

​@@sjjdbfnbgbxx9920 it's called mewing you will get a gigachad jaw

[@fiat_ow7876]

Quitting porn will solve half of ED cases.

[@SexyBurrito219]

How long does it take?

[@Delilah_Nguyen]

A woman watching this and couldn't agree more! This man is wise and true to this core ❤👏 🙌

[@willvrtist]

I actually respect that Hamza doesnt just follow thr red pill shit and actually looks at the entire situation, breaks it down to its root and gives all the advice he can. This video doesnt apply to me yet coz I haven't physically dated yet nevermind done the deed 😂 but this makes people feel less weird about sex and helps guys and girls feel more alike in their struggles so thats really interesting

[@thedaggonator]

Adonis is such a good guy. Hes just everywhere when Jeffrey needs him. Hes like the voice in those old 50s era psa's.

[@simonlindstrom2041]

I have been in the exact situation as the guy from reddit, it happened around 7 times. It happened because I was always stressing about my performance and how long I would last. Eventually I just realised there wasn't actually anything to be stressed out by and the problem went away.

[@anisvalimbe5480]

Please, how did you do to just realize it? How do you do to calm yourself down and finally just get it up eventually?

[@regorajczi]

@@anisvalimbe5480hey, late reply here, hope it finds you. I’ve been there: couldn’t get it up about 10 times with 3 different girls. Absolutely disgusting feeling. Eventually - meaning 2-4 years passed - within focusing on my work, my calling, my mission I realized that my passion is way more important than sex. Sex is wonderful and when you get there after a day of fulfilled work, there is really not a reason to worry about. Finding a good, understanding girl is the bigger challenge, but if you believe in spiritual/religious stuff - you’ll attract the right girl when you are ready. So really just stop worrying. I was 17 when first happened and took me 5 years to cure it. Don’t feel the need to rush, discover yourself - who you really are, what matters to you and what ambitious goals you have for your life. I hope this helps, cheers

[@samuelrichardson4451]

Porn ruined my life so much

[@raynesispearl2650]

I have always been someone trying to be better. And I have conquered some of the most lethal shits. But it took me a long long time. These days I'm grinding in gym and yes I do it even on days that I feel lazy. Consistency is challenging but possible. And these videos and information and content, this environment in YT just boosts ur capability to tackle the challenges related to Consistency and Self development arc. I also like going hard on myself and sometimes tell myself to stop being a btch or im thrash rn and gotta be better and all. And those are the kind of things that Hamza tells out loud towards his viewers. I love that reality check as well. Just another doze of some motivation booster.❤🎉

[@Randommie]

I’m the exact same brother ❤️❤️

[@raynesispearl2650]

@@Randommie we shall be better

[@Civilliam]

Ay man this hits hard(no pun intended) I was about to get wicked, some may seem devious and peculiar! But yea woodjamin was not working as i was overstressing the situation. She is a very attractive lady and my woodjamin could not get hard. My head was a mess and it kept me up for days. We sorted it and she was very respectful and understood. Hope everyone gets through this problem, it can truly truly mess you up

[@itachi_uchiha6550]

Yo Hamza, I'm 16 Years old and I've been eating about 5-9 eggs a day for quite a while now. But now my parents have noticed it and they were quite angry because according to some "German health website" you should only eat a maximum of 4 eggs a week. Do you have any advice?

[@anuragsingh4498]

Don’t eat too many yolks tho. That must be it

[@itachi_uchiha6550]

@@anuragsingh4498 aight, thanks for responding

[@abuqadr629]

Hahah, hab dasselbe erlebt. Mit 20 Jahren und wenn man sich die eier selber kaufen kann, ist das aber nichtmehr so n großes hindernis. Keine ahnung bro, vllt einfacg ma fragen woher sie das denn haben. Sagen dass du dich damit besser fühlst etc.

[@abuqadr629]

​@@anuragsingh4498u sure tho? Thats where the power is actually. The rest of the egg is basically just proteine.

[@thezombros2607]

Ask them about the “study” That showed the information about eggs

[@jaysoproductions7186]

MAKE SURE YOU'RE BREATHING FULLY LADS!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Cam-re9pi]

I feel like something people don’t bring up enough is making sure you just get the right amount of food and water into your body every day. I had this problem with my girl for a while and thought it was so many different things. When I finally just started eating three meals a day and drinking 80 oz of water a day this problem completely disappeared. It got to the point where even if I wasn’t in the mood he would still get hard. I highly recommend trying this before any supplements or exercises.

[@Someone42527]

Remember fornication is wrong, the only moral place to have sex is in a healthy monogamous marriage

[@danielmccarthy78]

This changed my life

[@lucabomba69]

You didnt even watch the video

[@ashwinsreejith4949]

Nigga this video is 45 min and u saw it in 2 mins?

[@addz360deo]

​@@lucabomba69fr

[@slothniel8881]

@@lucabomba69he’s baiting u

[@JcGainz]

I’m sorry hamza I have to remove notification these titles getting to deep. If my parent see this they gonna be like what you watching lol

[@valentinocapra6844]

Hamza, I would love to see a whole day in your life since I am trying to make a daily routine and perhaps yours may help me. Always grateful for your videos and the impact they have on my life.

[@jjdd4307]

Stop promoting sex and start promoting celibacy.

[@alphabet1416]

Hamza.....I am trying no fap. But once every 8 or 9 days I am getting Nightfall which fucks up my sleeping quality. What should I do?

[@shashwat5788]

You can try some things up avoid this: 1. Sleeping on your back to avoid friction 2. Do not drink water before going to bed and empty your bladder before sleeping. 3. Place a pillow between your pegs while sleeping. 4. Washing your feet with cold water before sleeping. 5. Meditate everyday to better clear your mind from the lusty thoughts. 6. Optional- sleep naked or on the floor(never done this but people on r/semenretention give this advice)

[@warrior9923]

Absolutely CORRECT!!! Thanks for covering this topic buddy 💯🙏🏽👊🏽

[@shrektheswampless6102]

asking questions is so useful for every aspect in life

[@MilAS829]

Damn honestly im loving this newer- reaction kind of style that you've implemented

[@xanderwindeymusic]

I’m making music and I’m thinking of conveying the message of self improvements in this music. Is that a good idea?

[@yggnggv3519]

If u want

[@lieven4307]

this is creepy bc there are much things that are way too acurate

[@unrealPolar1k]

1 eat healthy be healthy dont overthink and dont watch porn

[@AzhaanEbrahim]

Great episode Hamza really think nowadays it's more important listen to right people on a topic because so easy give advice but never stop learning because learning is superpower when is cultivated.

[@Gio-kx7el]

I’m so happy to discover Hamza’s channel early, I’m 17 years right now and in a relationship which gets better and better each month. Thank you

[@i_am_janaa]

comment for the algorithm 🗣️

[@thabompala6524]

Hamza “Breathe fully“ Ahmed..mad respect bro as always

[@MotivationforSucces-pt9rj]

This is so true i wasnt getting hard and ofc i couldnt breath of the anxiousness when i got calm and breathed properly it started to grow without hesitation

[@zeusor]

you get erections from mental stimulation only? or you still need physical one? and for how long did you need to change your breathing habits?

[@LBH12]

Only real OG's can like this 😉

[@TMunigala]

Has anyone who’s had this issue used this breathing technique to success? I’m having the same issue - I stay hard for oral, but go soft when initiating sex

[@koelewoe3918]

How are u doing now?

[@gabrielascensotomas]

Holy shi what's that's song? 0:44

[@meowraiu2]

you have to make a video about conflict management in a relationship hamza.

[@toosheet8493]

wished i would have heard this sooner..

[@susanrana6022]

I’m really grateful for the videos I get to watch from you hamza. #respect 💯

[@BernardW-ld4kj]

Pretty good stuff, I just realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's crazy! Although what he previously talked about was pretty decent, it was difficult to follow, I just go'ogled the latest by Mario Volpstein, it's so much simpler and potent now!

[@noillaxe9918]

DONT FORGET TO BREATHE FULLY WHILE WATCHING THIS VIDEO!!!!

[@bigsam1036]

What does it do?

[@Aurora-bv1ys]

@@bigsam1036 keeps you alive

[@Stender_]

YOU BETTER BE BREATHING FULLY WHILE LEARNING FROM THIS VIDEO

[@abbashyder2803]

YES BRO I REALIZED NOW HOW BAD MY BREATHING IS SO YES I WILL BREATHE LIKE ADONISSSSS THANKS FOR THE REMINDER BRO!

[@hustllezfrr]

that makes me lightheaded

[@kammanpl450]

SO BREATHE SLOWLY@@hustllezfrr

[@hustllezfrr]

@@kammanpl450 Why breathe deeply anyways? It annoys the shit out of others.

[@BondTheOGYT]

Happy thanksgiving to all Americans

[@kubersx4420]

I know that it's the least important part of the video but that Jeffrey and Adonis edit at the beginning was funny as hell XD . If someone is new to this channel , it's easier to entertain them for sure

[@cnasr9992]

Hey Hamza As someone who is in self improvement, it is hard to find a high quality girl, I thought that before making a video on how to treat your partner, maybe make a video on how to find the high quality partner who helps you improve in your daily life? I would really benefit from that

[@wodzimierzbiay3464]

first i have to get to the part when a girl takes of my pants....

[@PedroSilva-tk7in]

Dudes this belly thing is real, I used to have urges to vomit too, but I didn’t cure it like this. I chose to establish a better connection with the girl and sex compatibility is also true. Usually u have second thoughts or u can’t trust this girl fully, u shouldn’t have sex with her if u can’t trust her or her past. Connect with her talk with her if this continues and she is worth it, she will calm u down and she won’t force u to have sex, things will be chill.

[@BernardF-wc9fe]

You're right, I just realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's crazy! Although what he previously talked about was pretty decent, it was difficult to follow, I just go'ogled the latest by Mario Volpstein, it's so much simpler and potent now!

[@juann1948]

I had the sameproblem with my exgirlfriend, it happened twice, then we broke up and we didnt have the chance to do it, i feel so bad, i really wanted to do it with her