I DIDN’T EXPECT THIS FROM MY BESTFRIEND ON MY BIRTHDAY !!!

[@Pkay263]

It’s good you blocked them. There are so called “friends” who want to take you as a fool and exploit you. Not any more. You did great!

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thanks 😊

[@user-ni1ev1zj3t]

Your a good story teller Lydia i like listening to ur stories

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thanks for listening

[@lucynn]

😅😅😅we like you talking, but not when the guest is giving their story,..so far you are doing so well, and having your own storytime is awesome. I love your storytelling skills,

[@getnakedwithlydia]

That’s an awesome feedback. Thank you 🙏

[@estherwangui8449]

Communication is important..she could have told you earlier can you treat us...then you could have decided if you will be able or not

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Exactly!

[@KennedyWafula-xj8hh]

Lydia, your story relate with almost 85%

[@sophianasiekukatampoi7824]

Looking great and glowing 💕 this year we are pushing for 100k subscribers 🎉 I really enjoy your stories, kwanza hapo umesema "wipe and go" 😂😂😂😂 Much love from the cool hills of Ngong

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you soo much and amen 🙏

[@wanjiruolive]

Communication was a miss there, they were supposed to say we are treating to your bash....friendships are tricky kusema ukweli.......and since they invited you it seemed as if wanataka kukutreat but it seemed like an ambush....but pia it was a good revelation muachane tu once and for all...

[@getnakedwithlydia]

I believe they had planned to extort me coz if it was a communication thing then they would have apologized

[@wanjiruolive]

@@getnakedwithlydia sure they didn't do that and sasa apo it was definitely an ambush. Good thing you blocked them. But lydia let me tell kuna some people who would still continue the friendship kuna abusive friendship let me tell you. I witnessed this in high school a lady was being abused na kutakanwa na the friend but aliendelea kuwa beste yake. It was hard to watch aki...narcissistic friends exist. I have not struggled with this myself but I know ziko....

[@emmyndichu8107]

Looking good and glowing much love lydia ❤❤❤

[@africangirl189]

Her face huglow mbaya 😍

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thanks 😊

[@Moratage_phyllis]

Just love how authetic u are gal❤...halafu guys nawaomba mnipitie mnifikishe 1k tu❤

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you and on it!

[@eunicemutiosammy6865]

Ndio maana tuliachana na rafiki yangu Kila saa mkikutana anataka tudisuss story za watu instead of kuiongelelea hata kama ni biashara vile tutapata pesa. I don't like that

[@getnakedwithlydia]

After a certain age, it’s draining to have such friends around you!

[@allisonogola8973]

I know people complain about Lydia talking but i think it elevates the discussion. Her questions and comments creates an opportunity for the guest to provide more details and it also becomes a conversation where we get Lydia's views and it creates a natural flow in the discussion like how 2 people would speak to each other. Guess people just like different styles.😂

[@getnakedwithlydia]

At first those were my thoughts coz I like the interviews in form of conversations rather than formal but I guess the majority wins!

[@Beautyconnoisseur02]

Similar thing happened to me on my last birthday….friends can be your secret haters.this was someone I spoke to every single day to me she was family.now am even scared of friends,weeeh!!!

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Why do they wait until the birthdays

[@rudolphharrigan1804]

Gm I totally agree with you with everything you did and I respect your decision 😊

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you 🙏

[@UMWARIALLEN]

do not trap me(us) in the dangers of a single sided story. mention their names and bring them to the show and let us hear their side of the story. Also had u refused or did not have money, what was going to happen? next time be careful with the kind of friends u make. i only forgive u/feel sorry for one reason........we learn through making mistakes, let that not happen again. I love ur energy very much, u'll go places, much love from Rwanda.

[@mosiaralucy6980]

Wee mm nakwambia nilideleteb no zote za madem ety ni best watu wameolewa but kila time ety nitumie 1k nilipe hao mala napeleka mtoi clinic niko msoto saa wanataka kila time juu mimi sina mtoi na sijaolewa sina mahali pa kupeleka ndoo zoo sasa wanataka niwaokolee kila kitu na wako na mabwana Wee niliwakati wote wakaanza kusema naringa juu nimepata tupesa kidogo wacha ikae my friends are male friends wenye wananipea advice venye ntafanya bs to expand d period

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Ai, boundaries are important especially matters money!

[@mosiaralucy6980]

@@getnakedwithlydia kabisa

[@authentic_aquarius97]

i love this storytime...first time visitor n i'll definitely come back

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you ❤️

[@pearlynina7597]

This happened to me when I was in Kenya. My own cousin...I assumed it happened to me because I live abroad so when someone comes you are expected to treat everyone. I forgave her but the next time I came...I minded my business. Now we talk ALOT but I'm NOT coming anytime soon.

[@getnakedwithlydia]

That’s using someone aki

[@majamaja8136]

When its your b-day, its you to pay the bill unless your friends make a surprise party for you !!! This is the universal rule .

[@getnakedwithlydia]

But they are the one who called me to join them or you missed that part of the video?

[@mercyobwoge8944]

Yeah I love you Lydia you are very authentic

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you 🙏

[@bossycharh]

They do say you can have twenty friends to go for party but you cannot get one to think of starting a business or can we put our mind together and start this project??""" Friends without benefit""" never allow them in your life again,, much love gurl 💕💕💕💕

[@getnakedwithlydia]

True and thank you

[@BlessingKanario]

Those are your enemies in disguise. People that can poison you .

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Literally!

[@rudolphharrigan1804]

I am watching you from ST.THOMAS US Virgin Island thumbs up beautiful sister and yes Happy New year 🎉 😊

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thanks

[@Winnie-i5j]

Hey Lydia, could you share or do one video for your skin care routine. You really have a fair good skin

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Hello. I share on my instagram @lydiawanjiru.ke

[@yvonnemakori9869]

I have subscribed..... Love your content and personality

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you 🙏

[@WinnieOpiyo-i5r]

Your friends should spoil you.I have a friend who will Even choose the venue of her choice just for you to spoil her,and remember it's your birthday.

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Ikr! 😬

[@At.254]

Since they are the ones that suggested for party thing,they would have treated the birthday queen.Thank God you ended the friendship🤍

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thanks 🙏

[@user-ss9yq5lh1s]

Their are the one to treat you not you to treat them but that one is bad ambush

[@getnakedwithlydia]

That was a planned ambush!

[@naomichebet3844]

That's my girl keep going darling

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you 🙏

[@gloriaveela9372]

first of all you are my birthday mate....yaaaaay i am glad i have stumbled onyour page...

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Awww 😍

[@familyhour351]

Friends are a throw!

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Unfortunately

[@pearlynina7597]

Pole my dear. They were wrong to ambush you like that.

[@getnakedwithlydia]

That’s a whole extortion ambush!

[@rosierosita.7235]

We make it clear before we sit and feast

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Exactly!

[@maryandenga1440]

Hi Lydia, looking good and glowing as always....I really love your story telling skills. As for your friends...if I was in your shoes ningesema kila mtu alipe bill yake...kwani they didn't know they where jobless before convincing you to go party with them?

[@getnakedwithlydia]

The audacity!

[@user-pr4rd9jg1n]

It was so wrong of them to do that they consume what they don't have n plan on someone's pocket

[@Miaravibes]

Team Lydia plz nipitieni plz 🙏🙏🙏

[@getnakedwithlydia]

ASAP!

[@ngigehellen6307]

Napenda your stories

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you 🙏

[@africangirl189]

Unanibambanga ukisema " iti" " it "😂

[@getnakedwithlydia]

😂😂😂

[@diorineatuti]

No wonder I don't have a friend and I don't think I can have one

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Some are really nice but it requires a lot of dedication for the friendship to work!

[@xoxomacx2539]

You should have only paid for your quarter share sat there as cool as a cucumber, requested your Uber and when it arrives you stand up majestically say bye and swing those hips out of there then block for life. They can start washing dishes for their share. Nonsense.

[@getnakedwithlydia]

I just wanted to be out peacefully!

[@rachelbretta4183]

That is me but hope one day i will tell my story... you are just so awesome gal and i love every story you bring.

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Thank you 🙏

[@abibanancyvibesandthrills]

That's very bad ,I would do the same ,that's how I keep off from people.Hata umefanya nikajam ,

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Mimi nilijam karibu nipasuke 🤦‍♀️

[@dianahjemutai6218]

For me am friendless i don't know if am the problem ama

[@getnakedwithlydia]

As you grow older you realize you can’t settle for the sake of belonging!

[@hildahchelagat3647]

Pia mm aki...😢😢 Am alone ..not even a single one I

[@carrymm6066]

Me too😮

[@africangirllynn4696]

New subbie

[@BlessingKanario]

Greedy Friends

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Tell me about it!

[@fridahmiriti39]

Waaaa. No words

[@getnakedwithlydia]

😂😂😂

[@rastagirl758]

Mimi singelipa bill

[@getnakedwithlydia]

I just wanted to go 😞

[@elsiendichu8559]

Ngaiii haki those were not friends

[@getnakedwithlydia]

I learnt the hard way!

[@mwihakimuthoni8922]

Weeh that was character development.kama ni mimi l would have paid my share and live the 3 share to sort themselves how can u eat and drink and u cannot affort? It was nice you blocked them that's what they deserved

[@getnakedwithlydia]

I just wanted to get it done and live!

[@JoyKimathi-i6f]

I think I would have done the same

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Heh! It was a lot!

[@luciewain254]

Nipitieni Guy s

[@getnakedwithlydia]

💯

[@lydiahodhiambo5748]

😢❤

[@carolotolo7490]

If it were me i could have paid what im support to pay and leave wajipange

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Weeeh, I just wanted to go!

[@judybeautiful88]

Hey babe gal

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Hey 💕

[@estherwangui8449]

What if you didn't have the cash?waaa

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Imagine 😩

[@sharlyn-f8m]

Me ningesplit into 4 na nlipe bills zangu wajinga wachonge viazi kwani ni kesho

[@getnakedwithlydia]

I just wanted to go 😞

[@joelamenya8737]

She paid half of the bill and it was your birthday, you are complaining for nothing

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Ok. Thanks for the feedback!

[@lydiahodhiambo5748]

You are suppose to be treated

[@getnakedwithlydia]

Exactly my point too!

[@JudyGikanga]

lydia kindly know ur best freind is ur best enemy.the decision u made was the best. wishing u all the best i really love ur stories.

[@judywairioko3984]

But why do you expect them to come looking for you in person when you already blocked them altogether?😅 IMO from your stories, your "friends" might have wronged you, but you mention/follow "unwritten friendship rules" that you didn't inform them about. I like your stories and the authenticity nevertheless.

[@getnakedwithlydia]

That’s why I corrected myself immediately by saying either way they can’t get hold of me and also it’s not a friendship I would want to cultivate again!