I DIDN’T KNOW I WAS PREGNANT UNTIL IN ACTIVE LABOR | teen mom story time

This is my unexpected 19 & pregnant birth story!! Such a crazy day that I will never forget. Feel free to leave any questions or video ideas in the comments! Thank you for watching!
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[@Fargo.9355]

I had a similar experience, didn't know I was pregnant and gave birth in my bath tub at home. The EMT that delivered my baby boy was named Matt and he had made a comment asking what I was going to name him and that Matt was a pretty cool name, Matt with two ts. While in the hospital deciding on a name we looked up the meaning of the name Matthew, and it meant gift from God. So we named him Matthew after the EMT who delivered him. It was a perfect fit! 😊

[@keepingupwithkennedy2663]

I hope the Emt knows that 💗

[@Fargo.9355]

@@keepingupwithkennedy2663 he does! We keep in touch on Facebook and occasionally run into eachother around town. ❤️ he is the sweetest and truly helped us through such an uncertain time.

[@user-vq2ho5jn7k]

How. Theres so many symptoms and changes and you noticed none of them? like i feel like u need to be very stupid to not know youre pregnant

[@Fargo.9355]

@@user-vq2ho5jn7k wow, how sweet of you to ask. It's called a cryptic pregnancy. I had a baby already previously, so he was my second. I know what it feels like to be pregnant. I would have noticed if the symptoms were there, but they werent. I have a very light menstrual cycle regularly. During this pregnancy I still bled lightly every month as normal. I had only gained 10 pounds through the whole pregnancy and I didn't show at all until the month before giving birth when I missed my first period and just started suspecting maybe I was pregnant. When I went into labor we all thought it was a miscarriage until a full term healthy baby popped out. Every pregnancy is different. You shouldn't discourage anyone for their experience, especially one as traumatic as mine was. Thanks for your concern.

[@Fargo.9355]

@@user-vq2ho5jn7k I don't think anyone would want to intentionally bring a whole tiny human into the world completely unprepared.

[@haliejones2127]

I’m watching this while I’m 33 weeks pregnant and baby is moving soooo much. These stories absolutely blow my mind.

[@AnnaSingsChannel]

I know! I have no idea how I wouldve not known. That kid was kicking the crap out of me all night long since 20 weeks😂

[@haliejones2127]

@@AnnaSingsChannel I know!!! You know she felt the baby move even if she didn’t realize it. I just don’t think I could mistaken it for gas

[@MakeupByRandkhalil]

Sometimes the baby is oriented in a way that it kicks into the spine and not outwards.. and sometimes the placenta also blocks for the kicks and baby movements, so it is very possible not to feel the baby in some cases❤

[@charityrocks]

They have proven that babies do not move as much during unwanted pregnancies.

[@AnnaSingsChannel]

@@charityrocks My first kiddo was unplanned and he kicked like crazy

[@ninas4968]

The second my period was 2 days late I knew I was pregnant. These stories are so wild!

[@julieboice180]

Me too!

[@maccifyme]

I'm so amazed at how quickly you seemed to just accept and dive in to the situation with giving birth to a baby you didn't even know you were carrying! And to be so young and just 100 % loving that new little baby and become a mother is just so precious ❤

[@Cazzy1213]

I’m just 10 weeks pregnant and I knew straight away. I can’t imagine not even knowing right up to labour. Blows my mind!

[@findmeintime]

I'm so intrigued to hear how the conversation with the boyfriend went!

[@LisaR2392]

The way you told your story and your soft voice made a seemingly horrific traumatic situation such a beautiful thing! I feel like you handled the situation with such grace and I feel so confident that you are a GREAT mama! I can’t wait to see what you have to share with us on your channel!!

[@sssophie9292]

She handled the situation with Graycen* ;)

[@tedtod4489]

Hey everyone! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah!! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!✝️

[@KristalLuevano-fj5mv]

That's so kind of you to say that aww about her!

[@ashleylindsey8933]

A girl I went to school with got pregnant her senior year. She worked so hard for her daughter and was so excited to be a mommy. She was diagnosed with preeclampsia. The doctor did not induce her or even keep her in the hospital. He just sent her home. Her mom found her having a seizure. At the hospital, they delivered her baby. Kept mom and baby on life support. But after a few days baby passed away. And a few days later the girl passed away. They forced the doctor into retirement for his negligence. This was heartbreaking for the community.

[@beastshawnee]

So tragic.

[@quatzxice]

What a fucker. He should get jail time.

[@evelynaaspidov123]

That is horrible! No one deserves to be treated this way. No matter how young they are.

[@HairbyDomm]

I was in high school my first pregnancy and was later diagnosed with preeclampsia too . I kept telling my doc my feet are killing me walkin around at school because my feet were so swollen at 26 or 27 weeks preggo and he said you’re fine . Well then the headaches came so I went into the doc and boom he realized what I had and had to do a emergency c section immediately within 1-2 days because I was getting worse and worse . Thank God it was caught in time but just imagine if it wasn’t . He even said I could die or my baby could die if they wait any longer for the baby to be inside of me . Traumatic and beautiful at the same time because my 2lbs healthy preemie at the time is 14 yrs old now and striving . Praise my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ 🙏🏽. Scary at the time tho .

[@callabeth258]

That’s awful! The whole point of identifying preeclampsia is to prevent it from progressing to eclampsia like that!

[@melissas740]

Nurse here. The way you took action is so impressive. It is wonderful that you had a very supportive nursing staff and family. What a lovely name for your little sweet pea! Congratulations!💖

[@lizchurkin]

Wow what amazes me is that undeniable love that women have for their babies. You never even knew you had a baby and couldn’t even get to hold her but that deep love you had for her already… that is so beautiful 😭😭

[@EvgeniyaJZ]

Just randomly stumbled on your video and because you didn't mention it, I just want to say I hope that your boyfriend was just as excited as everyone else!! And I hope he is being a good father to your daughter now!! :)

[@bsbandjbfan4ever]

wow props to your dad for being there and being supportive

[@laurencharlotte3105]

I’m 19 weeks pregnant currently and these stories baffle me! I’ve been sick up to 6 times a day since i was 6 weeks😂🙈

[@lisabaltzer4190]

I was sick until the day I gave birth two months early. I lost almost 20 pounds and I was not overweight to begin with. Even then, because I am TINY, I had to have a forceps delivery. I looked and felt like death and was fighting infections for 8 months after having my son. I decided one child was enough for me.

[@lisabaltzer4190]

P.S. My son is now 41 years old and is a great joy to me, especially now since his father, my husband, died 2 years ago.

[@musicbkim]

​@@lisabaltzer4190 I can relate to you a little. I'm a tiny person (I buy children's cloths) & had forceps delivery with my 1st baby. Had bad tears, & Took 3months to heal & recover properly. Also had real bad nausea for many months, followed by reflux for the last several weeks. Both my babies were 7-10 days overdue though. Then 23hr labour with 1st baby & 16hr labour with 2nd. But I got a professional doula with the 2nd baby which made the world of difference. Anyway, looking at your kid, you feel like it was all worth it. 😊

[@nashnash7997]

Had morning sickness 24/7 for 42 weeks and mine moved around SO much

[@ellielynn8219]

Your parents are absolutely amazing! What a great story! Thank you for sharing. Your poor mama, she must have had the longest flight ever.

[@pattih7]

Yes, how easily they handle such a surprise, as well as Harmony! Much more gentle and calm, understanding and helpful than would have been my plight! At 72, Thinking back to in my youth , this would have been my ending! Really! You’re a very fortunate young lady! Your daughter is beautiful!🙏💜

[@jluzhnykh]

Ok how intense is that. You’ve never had a period and then you get to experience the most intense period of your life postpartum!

[@julieboice180]

Yep.

[@deniseplencner3388]

Your birth story came on my feed and my first thought was,”Come on how could you not have known?” Then I watched entire video and was very touched by your recollection of your birth. Very beautiful baby and you are very lucky to have a supportive family. God bless you and I’m sorry to have judged you🥹

[@threearrows2248]

That's crazy!! What a miracle. I've had 6 pregnancies, and I knew about every single one within a week of conceiving, even the surprises. So glad to hear everything went well with you - children are SUCH a blessing!!

[@susanbright7075]

I had 6 lost one but I knew I was pregnant the day I missed my lady time

[@hllymchll]

same! always found out at 7 dpo but somehow knew before. never had to wait for a missed period

[@elizabethsomoza7109]

I had 4 kids I was so sick I vomited every day.

[@TheMimiof7]

Congratulations on your baby ❤️. I would love to hear what her dad said. A friends daughter went to the ER with severe stomach pain at age 47 and she was told that she was in active full term labor. She had no idea she was pregnant and delivered her very first baby. I worked with two different women and they had full term pregnancies and had no idea they were pregnant.

[@GULAB58]

Do you know if she still had periods while being pregnant?

[@GULAB58]

@@TheMimiof7 ok thank you. It’s very awesome that she had a baby at 47. I love to hear stories like this.

[@Mrs.kGirlBoyd]

The crazy thing is that this happens more often than it's talked about in the medical world. My mom didn't find out she was pregnant with me until 5 months. Still had her period every month! She had her yearly checkup and the doctor told her she was pregnant 😆. She hadn't gained any weight or had any symptoms. And did I mention STILL had a full blown period every month 😅

[@tara34952]

​@@Mrs.kGirlBoydHow is it biologically possible to still have a period when you are pregnant? I thought that was impossible.

[@Mrs.kGirlBoyd]

​@@tara34952the medical world doesn't like to call them "periods", but they actually are. It's like your regular cycle. Light to heavy too light. Five to seven days or however long your period lasts. Blood clots and everything.

[@momjeans9238]

I just had my third baby in September, I can't imagine being in labor and only having that time to prepare mentally for motherhood and birth. Superstar Mama!

[@user-fy5qk9eh6m]

My mom found out that she was pregnant with me being 5 months pregnant and she was shocked, as she said. Especially that my parents already had 3 kids and didn’t plan any. But when I was born the whole family was so happy, as they said)) my brothers(17 and 16 years older than me) still talking with joy and smiles on their faces when they remember me being a baby and saying how happy they were about a new member in the family

[@Mrs.kGirlBoyd]

Same with me 😂 She still had her period every month 😅. My sister's are 13 and 9 years older. I was definitely a oops 😂

[@gjesy69]

I’m a 30 year veteran OB RN, absolutely love your story, it’s so unique and awesome and love that you and your wonderful baby are well, 💛💙💛

[@Mrsjam96]

Thank you for ALL you do! From all mother’s!

[@SaysWho1013]

My son also had a spontaneous pneumothorax and had to have a chest tube. It is a horrific feeling. We were in the hospital two weeks. He is now 35 years old and is a dentist. God gives us blessings. You sound like such a wonderful sweet young woman you’re going to be a awesome mom

[@Jingasol]

I am 8 months pregnant. My belly is huge and I feel the baby every day. This kind of story is amazing.

[@momjeans9238]

My 6 week old was so wiggly when I was pregnant, totally an alien belly situation! These stories really blow my mind!

[@tedtod4489]

Hey everyone! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah!! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!✝️

[@kimwold]

Yes my belly is HUGE, i could have never noticed I wasn't pregnant, and the kicks are intense lol, I sometimes see a knee poking. I really thought this was clickbait, but she seems to be an honest person

[@hllymchll]

seriously! I get GIANT when pregnant. I could never not know 😂

[@brroookkeee]

I never believe these stories. I just can’t and that’s my thoughts. Guess it could happen ti people who don’t know their bodies or are oblivious but it doesn’t make sense

[@marisamartinez3801]

You are such a mature young lady , you rose to the challenge like a mature woman, your baby is truly blessed . Hoping the father can step up as well, for his daughter. Blessings to you and your baby girl !

[@sookie.smooth]

I was absolutely fascinated and glad you had such a beautiful supportive family. I’ve seen a few “didn’t know I was pregnant” stories, but they have usually been someone who can hide the weight as the baby grows. But if you were working out four times a week, you must have been fit with no bulging belly? My mind is blown. My curiosity screams to see a photo. Amazing! And even more surprising is that at 19 you have never had a normal period? Wow. I’ve never heard of that ever before. And the most surprising is hearing about you telling the ER personnel that there’s no way you could have been pregnant. I was justifiably worried you had been abused under the influence of a drug someone slipped you? The combination of those three are just jaw dropping. But having a beautiful baby girl on Valentine’s Day is absolutely sweet and I’m so glad your story ended on a happy note.

[@macymiller3417]

Being young probably assumed no period = no change. We don’t get sex education anymore so honestly I wouldn’t of known either.

[@annaliggins1581]

I found out I was pregnant at 19 weeks and that’s only because a friend just had this instinct. She bought the test and made me take it which came back positive 3 seconds later lol. She helped me so much with making sure I got checked out and set up with Medicaid and food stamps. I don’t know what i would have done without her. Time flew after that. My baby is 3 now

[@Stop_Infanticide]

Congratulations! I'm glad everything went well! Medicaid is such a blessing for expecting mamas and babies! ❤❤❤

[@annsmith7196]

You lucked out! HSG levels decrease drastically as pregnancy continues and can lead to negative pregnancy tests.

[@liz6cats280]

Hope someday you are no longer a burden on taxpayers, and find an actual responsible man to reproduce with.

[@annsmith7196]

@@liz6cats280 what an incredibly rude comment.

[@liz6cats280]

@@annsmith7196 Rude, no. Just the blunt truth.

[@user-nw3yg2tk7g]

Wow that is crazy to think of someone not knowing they are pregnant for that long. You seem like an amazing mom, especially considering that you became one so unexpectedly, you are super calming and loving.

[@tonyamcnamara8441]

Beautiful story!!! I also had a story too never showed was still having my cycle even lost weight. I delivered at 8 months she was 6.3 oz but perfect in every way . That was 37 years ago her dad and married a week later and are still together and went on and had 2 more beautiful children. The body is an amazing thing and praise God He was in charge!!!!

[@lisabaltzer4190]

I never looked pregnant either and lost 20 pounds and gained back 12 and walked out of the delivery room and zipped up my pre pregnancy jeans. But my son was 2 months premature and I was sick for 8 months after the birth. He is now a healthy 41 year old man with a wife and 2 children. It all worked out.

[@annikabjornson998]

The joy on your face when you talk about your daughter is everything.

[@samanthagrace8874]

@MamaDoctorJones should do an interview with you (if you wanted), she reacts to the show “I didn’t know I was pregnant”, but you experienced it in real life!

[@willmariegirona2911]

I agree! I hope @MamaDoctorJones sees this

[@emilieloveskiwi]

This was also one of my first thoughts!

[@bupechipalo5950]

Yes please

[@ParkourPianist]

I second that! I would love to see what @mamadoctorjones would have to say.

[@angelawagner7538]

Congratulations. She is so beautiful.

[@lizscott6911]

After having 4 babies, I find this amazing. What a shock.

[@albin2232]

You must be a remarkably healthy person to get to full-term silently. You look like you are. Your calm and warm personality will make you a great mother 😊👍Best wishes to you and Graycen ❤️

[@katherine7444]

The opposite in fact. 19 years old and never had a menstrual cycle is not remarkably healthy. And then to go through pregnancy symptoms and not realize something is different means she was not healthy in her day to day life

[@meaganclarke4007]

@@katherine7444how do you figure? Lol

[@sophiej9346]

@@meaganclarke4007her hormones werent doing their job to change her body or cause any noticeable difference

[@sophiej9346]

@@meaganclarke4007normal pregnancy symptoms are a sign that youre body is doing what its supposed to, but she didnt have noticeable symptoms

[@ericagoehring1089]

Wow! I have five kids, and the kicks felt like my ribs were breaking. Your little girl must have been so chill in there! 😄 Congratulations!

[@VictorianVillageOnMain]

I've had three kids and not one kick in the ribs. I couldn't even do kick counts because I couldn't tell the difference between a gas bubble and a kick

[@jessicaely2521]

I didn't know I was pregnant until I was 5 months along. I was getting sharp pain in my ribs every so often. It felt like I was being kicked in the ribs. I went to the hospital and found out I was pregnant.

[@mamoyoT]

Depends on position of placenta. Anterior or Posterior. Mothers with anterior placentas often do not feel kicks.

[@sindirodriguez1030]

Wow, amazing! My mom passed away from eclampsia and she did not know she was pregnant! So happy for you and your daughter ☺️💞 God bless you both!

[@LRAinCA]

So sorry about your mom! ❤

[@keynat9755]

Wow! This is terrible. I'm so sorry. Did she pass during the birthing process or during recovery?

[@BarnFresh]

Can you imagine your Mum being stuck on a plain desperate to get home to her baby girl having a baby !! You did so well dealing with the shock and shes beautiful x

[@Yhvh_lover]

I always wished I’d have a pregnancy kinda like that, where I didn’t know until delivering and having a healthy wonderful outcome. My first pregnancy at 18 was not a secret from my body, I was violently ill for months 24/7 I could barely drink water, eating was a NO everything came back up, no sleep as I had midnight sickness not morning. We lost our little girl one day her heart stopped and they couldn’t explain why. It’s been 9 years and still no rainbow blessing, I married my high school sweet heart so we’ve been hoping my body allows us another opportunity. I “Hope” next time I won’t get so ill, if it ever happens for us❤️ 12 years in love, we are ready to share it with a beloved baby!

[@756Nichols]

Sending 🫂 X

[@debbiesparks471]

God bless you and open your womb.

[@e3exposed144]

Based on my experience and research...the best person for this is Jesus ...so tell him thank you and then prepare...Congratulations ma'am and enjoy every moment of it ...remember who did it when asked ...that's alll. I thank the heavens for you and wish you well

[@Ilikefrogs..]

This is heartbreaking. Hope you and partner healed from that experience.

[@GingerThereforeNoSoul]

Same, I had been diagnosed with hyperemesis gravidarum, I had to have picc lines, even a feeding tube placed....with all 3 pregnancies. After my last, I had my tubes removed because I was absolutely unable to handle another. Unfortunately, if you've been diagnosed with it once, the chances are higher, you'll experience it again.

[@bj.s.7687]

Goes to show how calm and instinctive labor can be when people aren’t making it a big and scary thing. The instinctive hot showers, bath.. all things people use as tools during labor for pain management!

[@lydialutz]

LOL, I needed a doula for that. My instinct told me to stay on the toilet and go nowhere else, even though I knew better and had known I was pregnant. I wasn't getting off that toilet until my doula told me I had to do some other stuff LOL

[@flavialm1]

My grandmother was 17 when she had my father, her instinct almost made my father bein born at the toilet, luckily her mother realized what was going on, told her to go rest and called the midwife.

[@BexsBoxofConfusion]

@@lydialutz actually the toilet is a great place to labor on because it's very natural and helps baby descend into the pelvis, and many people labor in positions like that over the world! I know people have been encouraged to sit on the toilet to progress labor haha

[@roxysharpcurvz]

Labor can look a lot of different ways. I think it's a mistake to assume that because it can be so calm and relatively manageable for some, that it's that way for everyone, every time. I've had 4 babies and every one of my labors was different! It's not just women freaking out over nothing that makes labor painful, scary, or stressful.

[@lydialutz]

@@BexsBoxofConfusion oh I know. It's not that my sitting on the toilet was bad, just that it wasn't good to be the ONLY thing I was doing. Having my husband and doula encourage me to do other things also helped my pain subside.

[@christineo7930]

Girl, you totally made me cry! What a story! ❤️ You’re lucky to have such amazing parents!

[@ajandmitchgallop]

I still can't comprehend how this is possible!!! SUCH a blessing 😍😍😍😍

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Amazing story!!! I wish TLC was still doing "I didn't know I was pregnant" because your story is perfect for that show. Would love Mama Doctor Jones to react as well!!! Congrats on your beautiful baby girl ♥

[@pearlkelly6337]

Love mama Jones

[@cgorial]

You’re going to be a great mom. The way you handled everything with strength and grace is beautiful. God gave this precious baby girl to the right mama. God bless 🙏

[@mis5949]

I only ovulated twice a year and I was very vigilant on making sure I wasn’t pregnant. My husband and I married young and started trying to have a baby as soon as we married. I never wanted to get pregnant and not know. I had a sil who was told she would never get pregnant who got pregnant didn’t know it. She found out at end of Feb and due the first week in June. She did end up drinking a lot one day in January. So this is why I always took tests. I have pcos and heart shaped uterus and was told that it was a blessing I got pregnant and carried them to term. 3 healthy girls.

[@mahadewiiii]

As a mum of 3 this story is so crazy! To be fair for my 2 first pregnancies my partner knew I was pregnant before I did as I never kept track of my periods and pregnancy wasn’t on my mind at the time. But to get to labour without knowing is just insane!😮 Your parents handled it really well under the circumstances! So glad they were supportive ❤

[@nontetheleloncube3847]

I am 20weeks pregnant and am emotional right now I have tears in my eyes. It amazing how these little beings change you ❤

[@bq552]

Support system is so crucial for these type of pregnancies (young or unplanned). God has you both in His hand.

[@quirkyCourtney]

What an amazing story! And the sweetness and gentleness in the way you tell it is touching.

[@susansmith493]

There's nothing even remotely "sweet" about including everyone except the father.

[@zzskal]

@@susansmith493Chill out Susan, Ur commenting under every nice comment. Maybe she doesn’t want to talk about him to her audience or the father didn’t want anything to do with the child. Don’t just assume.

[@susansmith493]

@@zzskal Don't assume he didn't.

[@quirkyCourtney]

Have you seen her other videos? She (and the father) explain in greater detail. To be honest, it's really none of anyone's business. It's an incredible story about an unplanned pregnancy and how it was handled and reacted to. I doubt I'd be able to respond with the same gentleness and kindness as this young woman if I were in her shoes. You are acting like a true bully and you're making yourself look really pathetic because of your mean and unkind comments/harassment. I feel sorry for you. @@susansmith493

[@Vanessa-tf2kl]

She's so incredible for taking the news so well and just loving the baby right away❤

[@rebeccawolf3196]

Oh my goodness! You have been the most stress a woman can go through! And the whole time not knowing! Mama Dr Jones says that labor is the most intense pain and if you didn't know you were pregnant, you probably thought you were dying! Thanks for sharing your incredible story. Sounds like everything happened at just the right times! I love the name you chose! So sweet.

[@deirdrawilson3269]

If you are/were sexually active and they ask if it’s possible you are pregnant, the answer is yes, even if you don’t think you are.

[@AllAboutAndrew444]

She said she never got her period before so she never thought she could get pregnant

[@deirdrawilson3269]

I don’t believe she said she couldn’t get pregnant.

[@Socialling]

how many people who've never had a period (sign of no ovulation/menstrual cycle/immature reproductive system) still get pregnant?? that you know of? Esp at 19? @@deirdrawilson3269

[@francesbale1409]

i guess potentially she hadn't had sex recently and had no idea she was pregnant no signs of it, no period to judge it on, then yeah you probs would think nah theres no chance.

[@daniby9894]

​@francesbale1409 OK... but when you're young and not overweight and in a few months your belly becomes huge and oval and swallen and the protuberance starts right underneath your breasts... either you're having gastrointestinal issues or you're pregnant! Not to mention that babies moves and kicks and you know those you not only feel, but you see the movement so visibly and that there's something living inside of you that's moving.

[@samanthaorologio6866]

OHHHH MY GOODNESS!!! In the picture she’s looking right at your face!!!! (Even though she couldn’t actually see yet) I’ve been planning my comment this whole time watching and I just exploded seeing the picture of your meeting her in her little nicu bed. So special preeclampsia is extremely difficult. On the whole lot. I’m so happy y’all made it through. I’ve never even seen you before but I’m so glad this popped up in my feed!! I’ve ALWAYS wondered and been mind blown about the feeling of NOT AT ALL knowing you’re pregnant and then having all the things happen that lead to a baby the very next day. One day no baby, one day whole baby. So wild. And I give so much credit and respect to parents who experience that and step up just like a parent who prepared for months choosing the baby every single day. There’s some real honor in that and I love all parents of the world! Beautiful name. Like I don’t looove most names I see out there but this one is extremely adorable and unique special cute awesome precious. Yes. All the things.

[@sallygard63]

Such a lovely story filled with surprise, shock and then pure happiness ! You mentioned that you were FaceTiming your boyfriend the day before you gave birth …. then you don’t mention him anymore … or his reaction to suddenly becoming a parent. Hope things are ok with you guys? 🤞🥰

[@missakialexandria]

My guess is he's not the father is why. She was probably dating a diff guy 9 months prior. I bet that's why she doesn't mention it.

[@iamrileyclark]

Wait so you had no bump at all!? I always find these stories so incredible... my baby bump SHOWS. congrats to you mama!!!

[@Yummi_913]

About not having periods: have you ever been tested for Turner Syndrome? It's just a simple blood draw and then they karyotype the sample in the lab. I would assume (if you test positive) that you would have a mosaicism variant, since you were able to get pregnant. My youngest daughter had it and I was told she would never have a period without hormone therapy.

[@runsusierun80]

So this needs to be an Amazon prime ad! I mean this would be a great partnership. Never has two day shipping been more convenient. 😂❤️

[@user-vz7ey2qy2j]

When did you tell the father? I noticed he wasn't part of your story. I can't imagine how many emotions a young person would have being told she was about to deliver a baby with no warning. Congrats on your daughter!

[@missakialexandria]

I'm guessing she'd probably broken up w him and had a diff bf by the time of the birth, otherwise she would've mentioned him

[@brubie535]

@@missakialexandria what a stupid assumption

[@opulentmissopal1123]

@@missakialexandria I kinda thought about this too. Like...did she tell her current boyfriend? Did the boyfriend stick around? Imo, she should at least let the baby's father know that she exists, whether they are together or not, he deserves to know.

[@beastshawnee]

@@opulentmissopal1123 But it’s nonya bizness. Or Mine. It’s HER life! You’re just guessing anyway.

[@donnapoppewagner2332]

I am glad that all turned out well for you, daughter and family. My confusion is that when you were asked if you could be pregnant you adamantly answered no. If any female is sexually active the only true reply to that question is possibly yes, regardless if no cycles ever occured, especially if it was a known issue to you. More to this story to be told hopefully.

[@Becksss-pw1eo]

Pregnancy could never go unnoticed for me, my babies are always super active and all up in my ribs! It’s very uncomfortable toward the end. Definitely couldn’t miss it lol. Idk how you didn’t feel the baby moving, these stories are so interesting!

[@boltonsrus1]

Graycen is adorable! Wow, that’s a Valentines Day you won’t forget!

[@9_in_the_afternoon]

Oh my goodness, Graycen Love -> 'Grace and love', what a sweet name! May her life always be blessed with both. Congratulations on your little one. It sounds like you handled a traumatising situation incredibly bravely; I hope you're getting all the support you need & you're looking after yourself x

[@HAppytobeHer]

This is such an incredible story, my first baby was due on Valentine’s Day too-will always be a special time in my life

[@apocalypticlove]

I found out I was pregnant at 15 weeks and I only found out because I decided to take a random test just because I felt a little funny every time I ate gluten. It was very strange and I had no other symptoms. I was working out hard and losing weight in a boot camp so I had no indication and I have PCOS so I always had irregular periods. I also started showing pretty late in my third trimester and my son didn’t move around much. It does happen!

[@Zhimal]

The way you and your family handled the situation is amazing! Kudos to yall.💘

[@RT-xf9rq]

Wow! Thank you for sharing! I'm from Madison & have family that went to Whitewater. Hits close to home. Your personality is contagious. Congratulations! 🎉 What a whirlwind & yet a huge blessing, perfectname!😊 I'm sorry you had to go through all of that but thank God she is okay & you are okay!❤ Being a Mom is so much responsibility & yet the most wonderful thing❤

[@blairmitteis8129]

What a sweet story, Harmony!!! I had my son two weeks before my 20th birthday, he is now 2 and I am due with baby #2 in March!! I look forward to watching more of your videos in the future as you seem like an amazing mother and person!!! Blessings to you and Graycen!!!!!

[@honorcollins6962]

What a crazy story! What about Grayson’s dad? How did he react to the news? Is he involved?

[@flamingogirl57]

My cousin had the same thing happen !! It's not as uncommon as we learned later ! Lilly is a beautiful young woman now ! God bless you and your precious baby girl !!

[@yanadubai826]

How wouldnt you know you are pregnant? These stories truly blow my mind!

[@elliechewny6924]

Mom: “you have a really high pain tolerance.” *you not noticing any symptoms your entire pregnancy* 😂 you’re a champion.

[@vickygdillon]

An awesome nurse is such a gift when you are in the hospital...

[@Dehartcar]

Your dad is an Angel! 😢❤

[@realsabrina9362]

She wasn't raised right.🙄

[@pearlkelly6337]

​@@realsabrina9362how come

[@deserabailey8500]

Your parents seem absolutely amazing! Wow. Kudos to them for keeping their cool and both being by your side! So glad your mom made it!!! CONGRATS!!! How did your Boyfriend handle the news??

[@ellielynn8219]

I want to know about the boyfriend too. But I’m guessing she left that part out on purpose. 😞 What supportive parents! They’re amazing!

[@kyliebrannon6843]

What an amazing story, Harmony! I’m so glad that the both of you are alright and living a happy and healthy life. She is so precious!

[@harmonyblaim]

thank you soo much, kylie!!!

[@lisamariebasile2685]

It's so strange to me that the parents didn't press the no period issue for urgent testing by age 19, or that she wouldn't see her stomach growing or breast's changing. I know there were "little symptoms," but I'm wondering if maybe we need to be educating girls more on what to look for? It just really doesn't make sense to me. Please help me understand.

[@BlueMaroonAnimations]

We are naming our son Grayson, he is due in a month

[@judyhoffman1359]

Bless you, and thanks for sharing your wonderful story, and pls.keep us up to date! Have fun with your baby 👶 !

[@mamaduefield8034]

My sons name is Greyson Michael born 9.15.2022 😊

[@reneeca5696]

Praise God! His hand was on you both the entire time!💕

[@2listening1]

Harmony, you’re the sweetest young lady ever! Graycen has the luckiest grandparents in the world! 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛 Love and prayers always!

[@Rivracost3]

I'm confused why her boyfriend is not mentioned.

[@raisingswayneys]

I’m obsessed with these, “didn’t know I was pregnant” stories. She’s such a miracle! Congratulations! We need help with baby names too, I just posted a video on KZbin of baby names we like! Please help us pick a name for our baby girl!

[@donitadurham-mack3118]

Congratulations can't imagine how that would feel your so strong for getting through that and not losing your mind !!

[@voiceofthebeloved5532]

Wow what a beautiful story and gift from God . She came on Valentine’s Day. You carry so much peace in your Voice. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@butterfly32812]

How on earth did you not show? Lol especially with Graycen being over 7lbs! Congratulations on your beautiful little Angel!

[@avacichock7843]

I didn’t know I was pregnant until the 2nd trimester. Absolutely no signs/symptoms so I can relate. If I hadn’t gone in to the doctor to do some blood work it probably would have gone on longer with me having no idea

[@sierraforever2954]

The fact that you didn’t have periods are more of a testament that she truly is a miracle

[@schulteq]

Imagine your first video getting 200k+ views! Congrats to you and baby, can’t imagine having a baby right now (I’m the same age!) so kudos to you for being so strong and an amazing momma

[@TheCerealluvr]

HOW did you not feel the baby kick? I started feeling him or her around at around 15 weeks. I'm 29 weeks now and he/she doesn't stop kicking, squirming, rolling, punching. Anyway, what a cool and wild story. I love that you loved your baby from the very first time hearing the heartbeat.

[@livelongandprospermary8796]

Same kinda thing happened to my moms friend (before I was born/was a fetus). She thought her labor was food poisoning and had a baby in the toilet. Baby was happy and healthy and is now almost 30. No signs of any issues from lack of prenatal care. Idk if mom wasn’t a drinker or if baby got lucky or what…mom never even showed (just a VERY slight lower belly pouch). It’s called a cryptic pregnancy!

[@elizabethhamilton8388]

What a precious blessing and gift from God! I’m so glad that you kept your baby. Praying that you have a wonderful future raising her. You seem to have a lot of family support and that is a wonderful thing. Hugs from the southeast coast of Florida😎🦩🌞🦩😎

[@alyssaboyle6465]

Praise God everything worked out okay. He makes such beautiful people with his awesome power.

[@veroniquecastel9582]

Get off the drugs 😂 god is made up

[@LittleDaisyBug]

What a beautiful baby girl!!! Your video made my day!! Thank you so much for sharing your story and your precious little one with all of us!! 🎀 🩷👣🎀

[@samanthasams9330]

This is very common in my family for women to not know, we don’t grow much belly wise or any symptoms we still have heavy periods. But this is rare in other family’s. My mom was negative pregnancy test for 9 months with me.

[@ambersicherman7787]

It would worry me if my daughters didn't come to me for period advice before 19. I'm surprised your mom didn't insist on a quick doctor's trip to get that checked out!!! But so happy everything worked out for you and baby girl!

[@laina_loves_jesus7613]

This is amazing and God was with you the entire time! I love these stories. Your so beautiful on the inside and out! May God continue to bless you and your family!

[@realsabrina9362]

How is she beautiful living in sin and having sex poutside of marriage.....?!🙄🤮

[@Linskili]

One of my classmates years ago told us that her mother didn't know that she was pregnant with one of her sisters until labor. She herself was still a kid (around 6 to 8) that time and neither her nor the rest of the family could tell her mother was pregnant. The human body and stories like these are so fascinating!

[@taramatheis1451]

Graycen is adorable - what an amazing story! You are a lovely woman and I'm sure a wonderful mama! ❤ Congratulations! 🎉

[@Claireannette77]

You were randomly recommended to me, and I love this!!! I haven’t finished it yet🥹🥺

[@mrslawrence333]

This is so beautiful! The way you tell your story is heartfelt and gentle and very well spoken. I loved getting to listen in on your introduction to life with your precious new daughter! All the best blessings!

[@cheryllee8717]

What an experience! You did so well through it all. As I was listening I kept wondering about the baby's father.....did anyone call him to come to the hospital? I hope he is supportive.

[@TheLazyDumpling]

Hello :) you can actually see him in her other videos. I was curious about it too.

[@sianprice7210]

I was wondering about the father too. CONGRATULATIONS 🥳🥳🥳 Graycen is gorgeous and she is long. ❤❤❤❤

[@karissaskirmont]

Me three, thought it was odd that she didn't mention him at all.

[@pinacoloda226]

This happened to my 14-year-old daughter. She had terrible pains,rushed her to emergency, and all I remember is hearing the doctor say " I see the head "! I didn't realize this could happen, (not knowing you're pregnant) till it happened to my daughter. She was a big girl at the time so I thought she was just gaining more weight. Well happy ending,healthy baby girl💓

[@Mrs.kGirlBoyd]

14!!!🤔🤨😒

[@veroniquecastel9582]

Children having babies is tragic. How sad.

[@deannab8890]

14?!? Where were the parents that allowed a 14yo to be sexually active?

[@Minkfang]

⁠@@deannab8890gross comment. Teens will be teens, most teens aren’t comfortable discussing these things with their parents. The parents are uncomfortable and immediately dismissive and ANGRY

[@deannab8890]

@@Minkfang No, but where are they having these sexual encounters? At school? On the bus home from school? Most parents are aware of their child’s whereabouts and what adult is supervising when they cannot. This is failed parenting.

[@PolinaM13]

I strongly feel like we should pay more attention to educating and talking to our kids about this kind of stuff. If you're having sex you should be seeing a gynaecologist at least yearly, but honestly it's better to go even before that once you hit puberty. And especially if you're 15-16 or older and haven't started menstruating. But congratulations on that sweet baby of yours!

[@gingerladelle4192]

Would you believe they're suggesting that you shouldn't have your first PAP until your 21? I about fell over when I saw a video about it. A Mom had set up an appointment for her daughter at 17 and she was informed they don't do it those appointments. Other young women had commented if they hadn't had it done early they would of died. Most of us had our first exam between 15-18. The Mom in the video I seen was as shocked as I was. The amount of women who survived because of early detection is incredible.

[@dawggirl]

Thank you so much for saying this. Of course it's great that the baby is healthy, and obviously this family has tremendous resources and privilege to obtain everything a baby needs in one weekend. But that is not always going to be the case. Basic reproductive health information and education seemed to be completely absent. I find that very sad.

[@nightlydrugs6927]

I’ve been scrolling for a LONG TIME to see this comment. Ffs everyone’s all “Omg what a miracle” when it’s actually a tragedy if she didn’t understand having sex could get her pregnant, regardless of all the weirdness with her cycle. I’m just glad she was 19 with supportive parents instead of 11-13 with Uber religious parents who kicked her out or something. And of course that everyone is healthy. We have to do something about sex Ed in this country Jesus Christ!

[@mrs.elentz2336]

This was randomly recommended.... I thought, hmm.... this is going to be interesting!!! I heard you say "Whitewater" too and I'm watching this just 10min from Whitewater, Wisconsin (I live outside of Johnson Creek, spend much of my time in Fort Atkinson).... are you in Whitewater, WI too?!?! Incredible story, I could never imagine going through this!!!!! I'm also 34, I have birthed 2 children (my husband and I have 5 all together!). Even now, I could not imagine going through this!! Graycen Love is so beautiful.... I adore her name!! ❤️ My youngest was born 2/20/2021, she spent a week in Meriter NICU and her name is Gracelynn. I now subscribed, I'm excited to see and follow you and Graycen's journey!!!!! 💕

[@cherylvaughan944]

I just can’t make myself believe these stories.