I divorced my husband and married him again - Shazmeen Bank | Tuko Talks | Tuko TV

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[@noel3290]

Next time u invite someone in your home please offer water it’s almost free😜 lynn deserved some juice atleast

[@abcdg1995]

This rendition broke ma SOUL. People will see your success but they won't see your struggling and pain. .The relationship between fish and water makes me believe that betrayal is real when I see water participating in cooking the fish

[@abcdg1995]

MY sister's. ..NO gentleman is perfect just choose your own demon and keep pouring anointing oil on him. .. NO matter how nice your wedding day was. .. it will never make sense to those who didn't get food

[@abcdg1995]

Ok " shazmeen! I feel you dear Thank you so much for uploading this Attachment. .I really love your simple English language accent. . Being honesty is the material in a marriage

[@lillianemela6254]

Plz sister Lyn I need your help am here in Gulf(Bahrain 🇧🇭🇧🇭

[@joskyshams4758]

This is what I have learned from Mrs. Bank; 1. Abstain from sex before marriage. 2. Abortion is a sin. 3. Dating is to know each other well. 4. Divorce is not the best option for us Christians God hates divorce. 5. Marriage is work. 6. Don't talk ill of your spouse in front of your kids. 7. Forgiveness and communication is the key in marriage. 8. True love still exists. 9.Age is just a number. 10. Don't listen to negative vibe. Asante sana Lynn you are ours.

[@naomymose1866]

Love love your guide too

[@chickenjuice4000]

I agree however "age is just a number" should only be used when both are over 18, not when one person is 15 and the other is 27

[@karuragirljustus5555]

#4 what if your life is in danger?

[@Psalm_27.4]

@@karuragirljustus5555 if your life is in danger, you need to literally pray for God to protect and guide you through and out of danger. It will not be easy, but if you're serious, you will find Him to be faithful. Your danger is proof positive that your own mental intelligence is NOT sufficient, and that you need outside help. Proverbs 3:5-7 says, "5Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. 7Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil." May God's grace guide you.

[@selasiedoryn3927]

@@Psalm_27.4 lol that was what killed a 27 year old Ghanaian lady who was in an abusive marriage

[@WanjiruMuya]

Lynn looking gorgeous😍I like how she allows her guests to be vulnerable and she's always empathetic 🙏❤️keep it up girl

[@jamesnyabicha6387]

❤

[@silvestercheptumo3388]

This sounds more of a therapy than an interview... very different from the other interviews you have done. Amazing!

[@priscillahmwangi4561]

Kama unaona wanafanana na queen /wife wa Jalang'o kama mimi gonga like

[@BM.grace77]

Wowwww what a what a fascinating story! May God continue to bless more and more 😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@charlesmukasa5426]

" the grass is GREENER where you WATER it " Am grateful for being reminded about this.

[@MamaAri254]

THIS LADY IS VERY ELOQUENT.SHE CAN MAKE A GOOD PUBLIC SPEAKER.

[@lauramuller7070]

Very. True

[@maureenmuli5725]

Truuee

[@brendamachy7612]

true

[@florencewambui2165]

She's actually is

[@marygitihaable]

This video was therapeutic! I honestly didn’t want it to end. Easily one of the best interviews you’ve done! Well done!

[@eunicewairimu5015]

"he was the only person who understands me" 😂😂😅🤣a phrase of women going back to their ex!! It's good to forgive and reconcile

[@carolinekimani3696]

From this story i have learnt marriage and relationship is work you cannot retire from.

[@wanjiru-usa1]

All married people and those aspiring need to listen to this. Very educative and true advice from first hand experience. An awesome show!!!!

[@vaquera9368]

“Instead of looking at someone else’s grass, water your own grass.” “Don’t look for the perfect person, become that perfect person.”

[@wowso4]

Love that comment ❤️

[@carenonyingi6180]

Your doing a good job Lin my God bless you 🙏 wapi like za tuko family 💓❤️💞💗

[@leahanitareddig]

I love what she says toxic both parties.because mostly people learn the toxicity in a relashionship.She learned bad habits.she is very calm very empathic.

[@annieluhanga1229]

Shazmeen is a beautiful soul and I really love her faith and her strength. God bless you. You are so inspiring 😍😊 I had to add to my comment. And you are so wise. Wow❤ thank you for sharing your story and wisdom.

[@terryanyango9804]

My Advise to viewers ....Read Books

[@herbertmoriango8823]

She's a testimony. If she writes a book I will buy and read it. Well done guys

[@wamsufitness3217]

Tuko talks are always worth watching... I learn I get inspired I feel different after watching...also your camera man is on another level may God bless you Lyn and Tuko team 🙌🙌🙌

[@Mindful_Mm]

Who else is just looking at her hair and face? She's too gorgeous as a mom! waaa!! 😛😍

[@hildambielmasawe9467]

You're right she is wow

[@petronillakyalo6179]

yes the power of forgiveness.........the only way to go in marriage.....the grass is greener where you water.....

[@Munei_Twin]

When she said " For me it was important to end a chapter" i really felt that because studies shows that people who tend to dwell on the past regularly have a worse health than those who live in the present. Holding onto the past can lead to a chronic stress, anxiety, depression and insomnia.

[@lilianander5009]

She is so beatiful and humble. So interesting and inspirating story. May God continue to bless you and your wonderful family. Awasome you are.💞🙏🇸🇪

[@Amicus.Curiae411]

Lynn hio Hairstyle iko tops👌👌👌👌we appreciate your beautiful job as well 💕💕

[@marymayoli5873]

Once shattered and confused but now focused, intelligent and a humble blessing to many. Bravo sister!

[@sarahmbugua8200]

Lyn,this among the best interviews,very educative,Ave drawn so many lessons,love this lady,she s very humble and so spiritual,

[@roastix]

Indeed

[@marianomar7432]

Tuko never let's me down. And can I say shazmeen's hair is goals

[@charity4908]

The grass is greener where you water it...wow...

[@charity4908]

I like the green large leaves of flower plants ... back drop... lovely...

[@fatumakerie132]

Love her perception on life . Positivity rules

[@daprince6559]

in kikuyu land kwa ground mambo ni diffrent we divoce when we dont have money and reconect when pockets get bigger

[@monienjeri3042]

🤣🤣🤣 this hilarious

[@lillynjuguna3022]

Dont drag a whole community in your situation pambana na hali yako

[@e.t9996]

That's a lie . Kikyuys inspire me ... if there are people who start at -0 And hold each other to millions it's them

[@moraaontiri4082]

No problem after all pesa ni sabuni ya roho.

[@mngopa]

True story 😁😁

[@mitrah108]

I love Lynn,its amazing how easy she is to talk to,how she allows her her guests to be be vulnerable, she asks all the right questions. She seems like the kind of person who is just lovely to hang out with

[@bettykelitu5826]

Beautiful story! True love always wins. God bless this amazing couple!

[@enolelasoitameno4094]

That's great. There is always a fresh start if the first journey failed. This is an encouraging story.

[@abcdg1995]

NO one can motivate You until you motivate yourself. . If you know what I mean. .

[@jecinteranyango7421]

the best interview in 2020 good job Lynn

[@traceyking6547]

Beautiful story and inspiring, thanks for sharing Shazmeen and Lynn ❤️🙏

[@peterkebwaro4635]

Great advice on relationship, two beautiful ladies much love for you guys

[@kahuaritravel]

This is what all divorcee should enumerate

[@vaquera9368]

I agree. But, when they divorce, it’s because they have moved on like my husband who divorced me after a 26 year marriage to marry another woman he met while married to me. It’s all about the heart of the person like God says, people harden their hearts so they divorce.

[@soamesphares]

"the grass is not greener on the other side, the grass is greener where you water it" you need to be "sober" to hear this message well.

[@rebirthofaqueen4340]

I had to listen thrice to this message

[@LivebyDesignwithGraceKariuki]

this is such a powerful story! Mrs. Banks, thank you for sharing your personal journey with us. It is speaking to many about love, first for self and secondly, to those who God brings into our lives, spouse and children. Continue to inspire and influence others with your great message. I am a marriage therapist and it warms my heart to hear relationships that have been repaired. God bless you1

[@shazmeenbank1630]

This means everything. Thank you

[@waaron9913]

Thank you so much for sharing this story. Unfortunately I am in the process of divorce, but it is great to hear stories like this. Thank!

[@dorrynyabs6324]

Love will always win no matter what.Your interviewing skills are wow

[@everlynwambui5105]

THE STORY WAS SO INSPIRING . THANK YOU SHAZMEEN BANK FOR SHARING YOUR STORY. THANK YOU LYNN AND YOUR TEAM FOR THE GOOD JOB

[@tinabinega9132]

The young lady has so much wisdom. God has used her to help so so many people out there; she has no idea. How can one have a one-on-one with her?

[@Sarah-lt7ju]

Thank you Shazmeen for sharing your marriage story, quite inspiring, marriage is work, communication is key..self 😘, young people, abortion is evil, thank you for keeping your baby when you were too young. Keep talking to the world. Are you born again? Thank you

[@marthamwangi6847]

I learned so much from this lady. She is smart may God bless her and her family

[@mankadimemokone1771]

The grass is not greener on the other side but where you water it. That’s powerful. Thank you for sharing your amazing story. There is hope in love. Love is work. You are beautiful to watch and listen to.

[@graceotiende9234]

Knowing you personally, am so proud of you!

[@virginiahpeter9406]

Great family,Great and inspiring testimony. I am happy I came across this👍

[@lilianbeerda]

Thx so much Lyn,ur agd listener,wht abeautiful story,she so good.

[@esthergichuru4624]

Thanks so much Lynn for this touching interview. God bless you and your guest

[@andersonb.8902]

Smart and eloquent lady wow

[@marygathigiagithinji1425]

These interview is like a guiding n counseling to me ..., I have learned a lot especially reuniting with my Ex

[@wanjikunganga277]

Its not easy being in a relationship. Be it friendship, romance, family or work. I like the fact that she was able to rekindle hers. But what about the toxic ones. I would have liked to hear her talk about how to deal and heal from such. Many people are going through that and are not talking about it.

[@beatriceawuor3077]

Yes,yes that's totally True

[@mongiemabu]

I think she did talk a bit about toxicity. She's of the idea that it takes two for the relationship to be toxic. If you both have reach the point where you bash each other it calls for you to get help and re-evaluate the relationship and the cause of the toxicity.

[@wlkmwlkm3381]

Lyne it tepends na Bwana mwenyewe oliondoka na which stile . Kama Mimi my husband na his family they chase me away wakanifungia virago cause they have get another wife . Kwa miaka zenye nimekuwa single mother 14yrs he has marriage 7wives wakienda na watoto . Na kila jsmbo likifanyika nilazima liwe na kisababu . Cause ningali yule yule tu

[@beatriceawuor3077]

You are correct it depends wth the situation

[@estheresther8090]

Divorce is a curse once u intiate it, u will u be exprience more unless u pray and break that curse...its like any other evil spirit that follows People...keep praying for restoration...God will restore u, dont give up...God is faithful he can give someone to wipe away your tears.try to watch pst joan chege fb they do warfare prayers..u will learn alot if u follow their page

[@lydiarotich4869]

Pole

[@mswaithera5307]

He is no longer you husband ,first get that off you and see the magic.

[@wlkmwlkm3381]

@@estheresther8090 amen amen dada grace

[@noreenduke8410]

She did very well smart lady hats off to you congrats to you and your husband God bless

[@douglaswamburu2920]

Shazmeen is a gifted life coach. Listening to her story makes one feel like they’ve been listening to a psychologist or behavioural therapist. Very rich subject.

[@leahanitareddig]

Oh wow your husband is a good man to motivate and mentor a lot of men out there through his experience.

[@BM.grace77]

Ohhhh Lynn, as Tuko you guys are doing a tremendous job! Blessings upon blessings too🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@darjijayantilal2735]

Great lady 💗 that has and will inspire many broken souls .May our Almighty God bless you and your family 🙏

[@angelinemuriuki7384]

Such a beautiful story to listen to...loved her eloquence

[@yuhunammam8553]

Marriage is a journey with lots of bumps. Many people failed to understand the real meaning of marriage. Many people needs to be educated on this topic from early age. Sheenaz she explain a lot & l love that. It’s like no mom knows how to explain things to their daughters & sons

[@massiej3465]

This interview is very educative , thanks for sharing. There’s so much to takeaway.

[@fridahskitchen8361]

Lynn is a very keen listener most interviewers keep inturupting the guest till it's becomes boring. Keep it up Lynn

[@JOmondi1]

Amazing story indeed. "The grass is green where you water it..!" POWERFUL INDEED!!!

[@natashamuthoni7456]

Where is the time...we live in different worlds 🌎 .congratulations for your achievements and your voice for Asian families ❤

[@youtubecommenter4069]

That's the problem. The main point is being together. Do you never sleep?

[@lomonginjmk3168]

Shazmeen, thank you v/much for the touching story. Thank you Tukotalks for hosting Shazmeen to share her story that with no doubt will inspire people.

[@petersalasia8243]

I lov it but pls Lyn go and look for her husband pls and interview him

[@shazmeenbank1630]

I know. My husband and I did one together on capital. It airs next week.

[@petersalasia8243]

@@shazmeenbank1630 ooooh I really wana see u and ur husband together coz u really make it u know the meaning of love .thank u I wish u all the best Shazmeen bank

[@maryannonalo8872]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aymanalsmare339]

@@maryannonalo8872 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@catecute.mimorr]

What a sweet talk, very educative

[@gmlsalicenanyonga]

I loved this talk so much because it's in English I always watch but sometimes I don't understand the swahili language. Interesting story thanks Lynn for hosting this beautiful intelligent lady ❤️ Much love from Uganda but currently in Rwanda.

[@johnwambua6441]

We endelea tu kunyonga

[@mysisterisafoodie]

@@johnwambua6441 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@marthakabalika595]

Alice Nanyonga, if you truly watch Tuko, l don't think Tuko has ever failed to put English subtitles! You're comment is taking us for a ride. You probably don't watch Tuko. Not a bad note.

[@highlyfavoured6789]

@@johnwambua6441 😂😂🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️

[@gmlsalicenanyonga]

@@marthakabalika595 I know subtitles they're in English but in a conversation they use both swahili and English but it's ok I always try to catch up. Thanks for the reply 😃

[@siselawinjju3979]

Very beautiful words from her,thx Lynne

[@kaykanana2700]

Great ,great.Bring her again

[@sarahm316]

Lynn you're doing an amazing job be blessed

[@maureenmuli5725]

She’s so beautiful and Eloquent 🥰

[@lizzysnest3913]

Wow!! I wish more couples with troubled marriages would have this perspective.

[@quinncordelia4902]

“A wise woman does not keep her wisdom to herself. She shares wisdom with the world, because she knows that through wisdom, many lives can be transformed.” “No one can fool a wise woman. She may look like a fool, but her mind is full of wisdom.”...keep it up Shaz❤💪

[@miriamndirangu1970]

My best tuko story ever....very informative

[@GamerZz-yk3mf]

Both ladies looking good 😍

[@neemamwongeli3841]

😭😭😭😭. Truly touched. Marriage is daily work. Filling a jar together... Give 100% together. Word..... keep doing what you do Mrs Banks. Experience is the best teacher. Thank you tuko tv for providing the platform.

[@marylyn3382]

This is too inspiring ...I love the real story

[@sarahm316]

I think this lady can be saved and receive Jesus christ the way she is talking it's like a saved person i like the way she is praising God saying she believes in God wow

[@krystynaha2455]

Everyone is saved, we were all saved , whether Catholics or SDA , or evangelists whatever, Jesus saved all of us , the only thing he left for us is to proclaim him as our lord and saviour

[@catherineimelly4229]

Not all Asians are hindus,or muslims or nubis and the rest, they have Christians too and she might be one of them.

[@sarahm316]

@@catherineimelly4229 I know nimempenda vile anakaa kutia mtu moyo na kumuonyesha ata ukianguka bado unaweza kuamka na kuendelea na safari wow.

[@sarahm316]

@@krystynaha2455 true what remains it's only to proclaim Jesus is LORD and saviour.

[@gracenjiru1409]

@@catherineimelly4229 jesus does not exist

[@annwairimukagiri7259]

Being back to your husband is very sweet. It happens to me too.

[@blandinamnyinga8318]

same here

[@carolinemwangi8248]

I am also inn

[@wlkmwlkm3381]

Warimu na ikiwa ameoa very many wives wakienda na watoi unaeza uka do na mimi ndio first wife, mara anataka kuongea nao cause they have his kids . Or ifike wakati hao watoto warejeshe mama yao Kwa boma . Ni heri nibaki tu single my dear

[@keeleymorgan8678]

@@wlkmwlkm3381 stay single giki ni kiumbani,if he had one wife and kids and they separate and he comes back that is something different but now ni hapa na pale na kule eeeerish,you're more worth...

[@shazmeenbank1630]

Wow I am so happy

[@athanasioswasswakitenda7955]

That's the message others please , always think twice be4 you act.

[@jennyrhein3031]

Inspired by this real talk. I do believe in unmisused Freedom especially for career and taking breaks when things escalate and solve them when things calm. Communication is the Key.

[@ruthnjoroge6314]

Thankyou so much Lyn for bringing this wonderful person to share some life nuggets. We need more of this. I've learnt so much in less than an hour.

[@ireenhassan3101]

Am not gonna lie, i feel just by watching this i just feel that i had therapy that i truly needed and know i feel so enlightened..

[@twakiranaomi8154]

Lynn did the Rwandan lady get her child

[@glanceexperience]

For sure...I am wondering too

[@beatriceawuor3077]

Thank you,I'm eager to know that too.May Lyn ngugi make this follow up up please

[@shikandaemelda3328]

Wondering too hyo kesi ilipotea tu

[@nellywanyanja81]

Aki tuambiwe kulienda aje

[@ThePrime_CS]

Awaiting this Lynnnnnn!!!

[@flani_91]

Bwana dis chick is beautiful,,am listening lakini niko zangu

[@liliankimani9524]

Fantastic woman, Shazmeen Bank. I like your insight, courage and change of heart. You are awesome. May you help a million others.

[@shazmeenbank1630]

Inshallah, I know this is my journey to do so

[@maureenjagona8138]

Tuko, you guys have such beautiful and touching stories. I learn so much from you guys. Big up Lynn. This lady is so strong, wise and mature for her age.

[@lilyamondi9285]

My love for you Lynn....Barakiwa ushangae

[@magimagi234]

As someone who got a baby at 18, I totally relate. I'm a better person now.

[@catherinehamilton4099]

Much respect you chose to keep that baby I am spontaneous and a flush would have been the easy way out. Now a 30yrs old man and an 18yr old...🙆🏾‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@alixnabea6401]

Nakwambia hadi Lynn amepata accent kwa hii interview...

[@mbuguagatungo6337]

So much to learn from this. Relationships are sure something that really require time and investment. I love the fact she is sincere to the fact that there wasn't time to experience the love and now they're ENJOYING IT. As a man I have learnt so much from this and I have taken notes. Thank you Lynn there's so much learning from this story.

[@nathanming8524]

I totally agree as well 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@janenguru6723]

Such a beautiful story and sweet..Lynn a timely Interview offering so much knowledge, kudos ❤️

[@linetvisenwa4134]

Thanks so much Lyne for good job . Such an inspiration.

[@lanniesworld2458]

Lynn you are a beautiful inside in out♥️🇵🇭 ,this is a encouraging story ,watching from the Philippines Godbless you !!!

[@specialmumkenya]

This is so powerful and eye opening

[@sarahsain2708]

Wow.Watching from America and I'm in the process of divorcing my husband and yesterday he proposed to me to marry him immediately after the divorce.I even got a protective order against him n surrendered his CCW....Good morning from here kenya.

[@babatasha-belle7469]

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@deniswafula3847]

Say hi to americans more so Mr Trump

[@sarahsain2708]

@@deniswafula3847 Americans yes Trump hapana.Wakoyana kabisa.Omusiru.Oriena Yaya?

[@deniswafula3847]

@@sarahsain2708 ulirudil uniambie nikungoje airport

[@sarahsain2708]

@@deniswafula3847 lol.No.Maybe next year.