I don't feel like wearing this crochet...

Wonder why you never wear the beautiful crochet you create? Here's my research on why I don't and what I"m trying to do to correct it, using the 3 work wardrobe method.
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[@wildflower-spirit-creations]

I have always been drawn to the beautiful feminine even ruffly clothes but I don't feel comfortable in them . I feel comfortable and confident in classic, tailored clothes. I even crease my jeans and wear a blazer with them. I think it's because I was a teen when styles changed from sweaters and skirts to jeans and flannels. When they talk about children of the 60's or 70's they forget about the ones who were both . We went from strict dress codes to Woodstock 😂

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

That’s a great point! There was some amazing fashions then too 😍

[@janettebolin2991]

I actually think the black shawl looks perfect with the Fleetwood Mac T-shirt!

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Thanks! 😃

[@christinedarrah1219]

I struggle with this as well because my go to clothes has always been plain jeans and a t-shirt, and the items I love and want to crochet are not ones that I would wear or go with my very laid back style. So, I stick to making blankets. lol

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I get that! I have a strange (or not strange depending on your pov) but how about making a couple casual wearables out of familiar fibers? Like cotton in denim colors. Theres some really pretty ones out there! There’s also that line of jeans acrylic yarn I think from lionbrand. I feel like a hexagon cardi in denim looking yarn would be amazing! 🤩 But you can also tell me to go take a hike, I won’t be offended! 😂

[@funniful]

Interesting! My wardrobe confuses me. My brain fights between wearing what makes me happy at the moment, and what society expects me to wear . Autistic here. My happy clothes tend to be costume-y.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Hello! I totally get that....especially when I was younger, my clothing would tend to lean a little costumy. Like, enough where I still ask myself if I look like I'm wearing an outfit or a costume!! Keep at it and wear what's comfy and makes you happy!

[@sunshinecooper7590]

I also enjoy wearing costume-ish looking clothing. Have fun and be you in every way😊

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

💯

[@dianet3451]

you describe your style as rock'n'roll and feminine, listing lacey, sheer, or tulle recent purchases, and a preference for dark, long flowy items... all while wearing an (awesome) Fleetwood Mac tee .... I think it seems natural that you need a sprinkling of Stevie Nicks inspiration in your wardrobe.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Oh yeah!!!!! ❤️

[@erikaanderson3204]

I love hearing how people workshop their own fashion. It helps try to pin down my own

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I find it super helpful too, this has been a journey for me!

[@alwayslearning9272]

I personally think Stevie would approve that delicate dark green shawl for sure, can see her wearing a longer version of that on stage and spinning around! 😉

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I love that, thank you!

[@yarning4asmile]

lol I do not have the same thought process with me clothes. On the weekends I am a cotton dress gal, during the week I am a joggers and Tshirt gal. But every day I am a shawl gal. I feel I can just grab and go with them. They never match what I am wearing and for me I love that. I am more of a “comfy eclectic barf” style. 😆

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

lol You are funny....maybe your style could be Cozy, Athletic and Effortless!

[@yarning4asmile]

@@ShannonTalksYarn lol I mean I am a caretaker and homeschool mom, during the week it is an accomplishment just to get out of Pjs. 😆

[@leoniem6920]

I did a colour and style workshop in the 80s. It has been so useful for guiding my wardrobe choices. When crocheting though the creative side goes crazy and there are projects I like but wouldn't wear outside😂 I love making shawls but I'm not feminine or fussy so love to drape them in my bedroom or wear as sarong or scarf. It's all about finding your balance and identifying the elements you like about the item.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I love that!

[@bluehannah8696]

Beautiful work. I almost never wearing mine because I don’t like the texture against my skin but I love to crochet and there’s only so many afghans you can make.

[@alicewright8367]

Alternative is the word you were looking for!

[@bitameah7745]

I loke this method of decidnig your personal style. Helps to get to the heart of what you feel best in. Also, I love your outift here. Very cute

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Thank you so much!

[@SoulsJourney]

The words that came to mind when you were trying to describe your style were "youthful" "trendy" "modern". The shawl from EFA has a more "mature" feel to it. It's lovely, and elegant, but does seem more suited to someone who leans more toward "classic" style.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I couldn’t agree more! Thanks for the feedback too!

[@LyraStitchery]

@SoulsJourney oh I was thinking, "Shannon, I think when you wear your fancy shawl you feel overdressed. When you feel overdressed it makes you feel less comfortable even if it is made out of the softest yarn in the world."

[@Nightdominia]

@@LyraStitchery Like she needs to keep it for a date night/nice dinner or a wedding where a nicer shawl would be more appropriate. The materials used would also make it a "special occasion" type shawl for me.

[@julieturney2188]

Hi Shannon 😊... I've been watching your videos for the last year or so ( could be longer) this is my first comment.I just had to tell you how much I love your content. It's different, interesting and thought provoking.... You're doing a fabulous job and I'm here for it!! 😁

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Oh my gosh, thank you! I appreciate that and I appreciate you commenting too! ❤️

[@leticiameireles7373]

Omg! I totally needed this video! Definitely going to try out the three word method. I love crocheting but end up struggling a lot wearing my pieces because they usually feel so non-authentic to myself. I definitely lean more towards a classic, structured, feminine, a bit academia inspired looks and a lot of the times, I don't think it matches crochet. My pieces always feel too whimsy and boho, which is gorgeous but simply doesn't work for me. Love the video!

[@coolpantcate2327]

aw man i thought i was the only one struggling with this... i love crocheting with colorful yarns but i usually only wear black or very dark colors. I've been thinking about integrating more color into my wardrobe but i just dont feel that comfortable in that (yet?) But the 3 word method sounds really interesting, might look more into that!

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

lol, you are definitely not the only one!!! Keep investigating and I bet things will start coming together soon for you!

[@Amy-vx9lz]

Both shawls are beautiful and look great on you!

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Thank you!!!! 😊

[@LyraStitchery]

I would have to say at the moment that my three words are: Vintage/Retro - I am rebuilding my wardrobe and focusing on the late 1920s, 1930s, and early 1940s. With other pieces that catch my fancy. Quirky - okay I have a 1940s dress pattern and I am making it with a pink/blue pinstripe fabric. But the quirky part is I found this crochet shawl pattern by Cotton and Whiskers that looks like a flamingo. So the body and wing are across my back and one shoulder. And the head is draped over my other shoulder. It is crocheted so it looks like two layers of wings. And the head does have a beak and safety eye. I also have another shawl pattern from the same company that is a peacock. For my third word I am like you and will have to say feminine. While I enjoy my jeans and exercise shorts (I don't know what else to call them. They have the sweat wicking fabric). I prefer dresses and skirts. I didn't know this was a thing but your video is definitely giving me things to think about.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Your wardrobe always sounds so fun! I bet quirky is a great representation! Thanks for sharing!

[@LyraStitchery]

@@ShannonTalksYarn I think tomorrow I am going to have my husband get my sewing machine. It is on the top shelf of my craft space. So I can actually start making these items. I have the materials. I am just a procrastinator.

[@JeannieGrayKnits]

Wow! This made So much sense to me. When I pull out my fall/winter clothes in a few days, I'm going to rewatch this video and purge accordingly. Thank you!

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Glad it was helpful!

[@luciewager7359]

Hi Shannon, My biggest problem is I’m attracted to colors that look awful on me. So, i usually give my sweaters and other wearables away to family or donate them. I enjoy working with beautiful colors and styles even though i can’t wear them🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

That cracked me up, it’s so easy to be attracted to the “wrong” colors!! I get it!

[@amrose250]

Another good “food for thought “ video that got me thinking. My three words would be - comfort, boho, and natural.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I love that!

[@nickinatita]

Just me, but I'd absolutely wear either of those shawls with graphic tees. But you do have to feel comfortable in what you're wearing. Just thought I'd put it out there, in case it allows you to consider that option, make them more versatile😊

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I'm thinking if I pair the green one with all black I'll feel more comfortable....Thanks for the feedback!

[@nickinatita]

@@ShannonTalksYarn my pleasure😊

[@joannunemaker6332]

I go for comfort myself. I enjoyed this video. 😊❤

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Yes!!! Thank you!

[@Jessd85]

I've made so many things that I don't end up wearing myself because it ended up not working for me. I usually give those to close friends/family or I will put it in the blessing box outside of a local church downtown.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

at least you get to bless someone else with your project!

[@justdi3347]

Hi Shannon! I just love your chats, they are soft and stylish. You are a different kind of crochet channel and very comforting to listen to. I agree. I have made many things but was not comfortable wearing them, so they sat for a bit, then gave them away. I, like one of the comments was born in the 60’s (1962 to be exact) but did my self expression fashion in the 70’s. I was a little of both, wanted girlie but not too girlie. And now as I’ve “grown up” 😉, want comfort without flashy, edgy but not over the top. I like your style and love wearing skirts with tshirts. I’m trying to lean a bit more to the cropped style without being too short. Thank you for your delightful chat. 😊

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Thank you for your kind words and support! Sounds like we have similar style! I used to think cropped was awful but it's really grown on me....That being said, not the kind of cropped where my skin is on display lol!

[@justdi3347]

@@ShannonTalksYarnAbsolutely, same here… I don’t even want to look at my belly hahahaha ❤️🦋

[@kaytiej8311]

Thank you for this video! Excellent principles to think on and use to develop a usable but satisfying wardrobe. Really helpful. Made it so easy to discover my style. Thank you! I noticed you used "edgy" a lot when describing your aspirations but was surprised when you didn't choose it as your second word.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

You’re welcome! I totally realized that when I was editing the video lol 😂 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@skeinofadifferentcolor2090]

I find myself routinely going through a destash of my finished objects because I will buy this fabulous yarn, I will make it into something gorgeous, but then I just won't wear it hardly ever. I can count on one hand the amount of pieces I gravitate towards routinely. I know that I keep a couple of them every time I go through a destash because of the sentimentality behind the yarn, such as a crochet cotton cardigan I made seven years ago that I've only worn a handful of times but I keep it because it was my very first crochet garment. I will say, it is nice looking in my closet and seeing all these beautiful things I have made, it definitely inspires me. So if we're nothing else I keep them because of the inspiration aspect.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

That’s a great idea! I love it!

[@vickicoleman2474]

A. I love your t-shirt B. I have the Luna pattern and seeing yours prompted me to pull it out of my file. So pretty. I can see why you like the Fiber Spider best-it even looks more comfortable and casual.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Yeah, they are both great! But in different ways 😀 And thanks!!!

[@Leilonni]

Hi Shannon, I always think our talks are so interesting. I always learn from you. It makes me think, and I like that. Thanks, Shannon! Hugs 🤗.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Hugs to you too Leilonni!!! I hope you're doing well

[@chipmunkwarcry]

This was super helpful to think about. Thanks for the video :D

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

You're so welcome!

[@janismadigan6178]

Hi Shannon. I agree with you. I like both shawls for just the reasons you said. You've helped me decide to get rid of something that I've been hanging onto for no good reason! Have a great day!

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Glad I could help! ❤️

[@theyarngoeson]

Great topic! And, really interesting, I'll definitely be giving my wardrobe a going through for Fall and Winter. For me Spring is like "winter-esque" but lighter versions. And, Summer is always just laid-back easy stuff.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I love that!

[@kaitlinannwright24]

These are great tips!! I'll have to research the three word method and try it out!

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I’d love to know what you come up with!

[@kalenreichert]

This is great advice! Thank you! I was thinking about your video as I walked across campus today, feeling confident in my crochet top over my long dress. I think my three words are very close to yours: comfort, whimsical, and feminine. Fit and match are also important. I’ve made many multicolored tops and sweaters because I want to use up odd balls of yarn only to find that the items don’t fit as well as I’d hoped, or they just don’t match much in my wardrobe, or they stretched too much after the first wear and wash, etc. Since starting to make things for myself (5 years ago), and then trying to shop my stash as much as possible during 2020 and 2021, I’m now trying to be more intentional with what I make, making things that will fit better, match more, and hold up to washing (in a delicates mesh bag).

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I love your choice of words!

[@kalenreichert]

@@ShannonTalksYarn Thank you!

[@cocoscrochet6380]

Hi Shannon 🤗 this was awesome! Hmm 🤔 three words…I think we could easily share a wardrobe! 🥰🧶🤩

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Hello my Friend! We totally could! Off topic, but I thought of you last night. We were watching the Australia edition of the show Alone and a contestant said "done and dusted" and I shouted at my husband "Litsa says that!"

[@cocoscrochet6380]

@@ShannonTalksYarn 🤣🤣🤣

[@allthingsvalerie]

great tips. I'm going to check out the videos you recomended. Both shawls are beautiful.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Thank you, I appreciate it!

[@karenbailey3493]

Interesting topic and gives me food for thought. Thanks for giving us your thoughts and insight!

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

And thank you for watching!

[@ynh1989]

I love your outfit!😍

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Thank you! 😊

[@daniellea2]

SO incredibly helpful! Thank you. I appreciate the links/resources as well. I'm a new subscriber and I really enjoy your content!

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

Hello and welcome! I appreciate you checking out my channel! I'm glad you liked the video!

[@stealthwarrior5768]

I won't make anything I don't feel I'm happy to wear anymore.

[@SewardWriter]

My three words: comfy, easy, black. I live in tees and denim. While I can BE elegant, it's like pulling teeth to get me there. Fourth word: modest-ish. I want to be as covered as weather allows. I live in the Armpit of the South, Oklahoma, so many days that means shorts and a tank top, even well into winter.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I think those are great choices! And I get the heat and humidity too! While it’s so cold here in IA in the winter, out summer is almost unbearable (but it is short lol)

[@Ash.MessArt]

Not me currently working on a sweater that I already know is gonna be too bright, too bulky, and too boxy 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

oh nooooo!

[@naowright9308]

Disregard this if someone said this, or if you just know it would not work. Could you wear your brown tule skirt, a black top, black combat style boots, and the first shawl?

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I love that idea!

[@Jessd85]

This isn't related to this video, but what's your favorite cotton yarn to make cloths with...if you make them? I use Lily Sugar'n cream and it pills up and fades so bad when washed and dried.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I have some I love this cotton from hobby lobby I’m going to try out and I think next time I order from knit picks, I’ll pick up some of their dishy cotton. I don’t have a go-to cotton at the moment!

[@RobinClayborne]

Boho style is your style.

[@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx]

I avoid using all sorts of makes unless I can wear them gently. They feel too precious for me. I don’t want to have to wash them.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

That is totally understandable!! That's why I won't even make some items......like crochet shorts!!!!!

[@vaiciciaku]

I think it might also be about the color. I like your personality and your channel, but your color choices are foreign to me. Its absolutely alright, because we are different people and like different things. But I do like the scarf color that you do not like, so I guess it belongs to a different color pool and its not your pool.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I think you're right, color can make a huge difference in how comfortable we feel in something!

[@GitchaGoat]

My words would be Gypsy, 70s style and Feminine. I love your Luna shawl but wouldn’t feel comfortable in the black one.

[@ShannonTalksYarn]

I love that!!!