I Don't Worship WOMAN'S FEELINGS

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[@abdulrahmanhusam4347]

Muhammed has raised a fantastic point here and it's that we live our lives according to The Book and The sunnah not according to women's feelings or anyone else's feelings.

[@AK-de7jn]

Women are important in Islam. The prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cared about and considered the feelings and suggestions of his wives. I don’t know why Hijab is talking about praying to women. That’s crazy, nobody is asking that of him. I’m confused as to what the point is..

[@civildesobidience]

What is fantastic abou it? I live according to the principle that women have the same rights as men according to the constituion and civil rights of my country. I don't give a shit about your book. Your amazing book is a good excuse for prejudice against women.

[@fossilfishleg9188]

@@AK-de7jn There is no point.

[@abdulrahmanhusam4347]

@@AK-de7jn no one said anything about the importance of women or men the point is very simple we act and decide what we want to do according to the Quran and sunnah regardless of how the other person feels man or woman, people nowadays act upon "I feel, İ like" not the teachings of Islam

[@shariqusoof5649]

@@AK-de7jn You need the context of this video. This was in response to a woman who brought up how a woman feels when a man gets multiple wives. His response was that at the end of the day, we are meant to follow and prioritise the Qur’an and the sunnah above all else. And the negative stigma modern Muslim women have toward men who have multiple wives despite this practice being an established sunnah of our beloved prophet saw and his companions, is a stigma which is unreasonable and needs to be addressed within our ummah

[@dangrille5846]

It’s ridiculous and irritating to hear Muslims say “but in reality” or “in the real world “ As if ALLAH SWT Book and HIS last Messenger doesn’t cover the real world and every reality.

[@lakschu629]

never heard anyone say that, but I do believe you and its ignorance on another level

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

What truer reality is there than the Book of Allah?

[@ggx444]

⁠@@fardeenmahmud8866 the words that i speak convey a truer reality

[@momardini9248]

The quran and sunnah teach us the tadaruj or the approach in a gradual manner in order to reach the perfection of the islamic society and life, and thats why we need to have deep understanding of the reality and real world, so we can apply masalih to decide on things

[@fossilfishleg9188]

Ha ha ha as if?

[@SyedMahmud88]

"I'm not gonna prostrate to the collective hormonal and emotional status of men or women or children or anybody else." Well said.

[@Klick17]

I'd be careful with such a huge compliment akhi Al-Miqdad reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “When you see those who flatter others, throw sand in their faces.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 3002

[@SyedMahmud88]

@klick17 Jazakallahu khair Akhi for correcting my blunder. I've edited it henceforth. I must add that my previous statement was not out of flattery but rather in agreement to what Hijab said. But your point duly noted.

[@JamesSmith-ij8nj]

You prostate to a 7th century pedophile..

[@Hassan-zw9tb]

salam alaikum, what constitute as flattery, just for future notice for me. When do compliments go too far@@Klick17

[@TatiSahne]

If you hate us muslim woman so much pls just stay away from us.

[@BilalMusa278]

I took my shahada this Ramadan because Islam is cast in stone. Everything gets reference from the Quran and the Sunnah. 1400 year, nothing shakes, nothing moves. No inovation, no alteration. Islam is something you can live for and die for! La illaha ila Allah!!

[@neorock6135]

👏👏👏 That could not have been worded any better. Perfectly said!👏👏👏

[@Yasinn105]

Nothing shakes, nothing moves. Allahuakbar! ❤

[@thegentlemangwise]

Screen grabbed me this gem of a quote!

[@anonymousunknown2919]

May Allah shower his blessings upon you ❤

[@Abdul_Rafay_Pal]

Which religion you followed before becoming Muslim?

[@aaqub1937]

Mashallah How does one become this eloquent and articulate?

[@thedoublesgame9709]

Read, stick to Islamic principles and have conversation with both Muslims and non-Muslims on topics you understand and know well

[@Nothingburger90]

Training. Actually mohammed hijab has promoted a course training to speak like this.

[@mohammadalmajid6599]

@@Nothingburger90 saw a couple of them which hijab got trained in

[@fossilfishleg9188]

You become a village idiot first.

[@pessimistkai5569]

Hard work.

[@SZEditor]

We need more articulate leaders like hijab to convey the mesage of islam with authenticity

[@november4516]

I think he’s even a great role model just for men, regardless of race or religion. Too many of the male role models nowadays promote infidelity and womanising.

[@fossilfishleg9188]

He’s thick as fkn mince! Is that what articulate means nowadays?

[@dahlia1887]

You’re gay! How is he articulate? Because he’s communicating in English? What are you? Slow!

[@deborahmaycock2184]

Yeah and he needs to also say they can beat there woman and sleep with little girls just like Mohammad did who they worship ffs.And it says so in the Quren. So he can seat and dress it up all he wants its a dark evil book and it teaches his followers to be extremists against other who don't follow its view ..

[@oblivikun]

funny, this guy made very explicit comments to this ex-muslim guy called ridvan, very vulgar and sexual comments@@november4516

[@fatimachbati3]

You as a woman can be against polygyny with your husband, it's between the two of you. But do not call it a sin and demand for it to stop existing just bcus you don't like it. If Allah said it's Halal then it is. Trying to call it a sin is a sin itself "وَلَا تَقُولُوا لِمَا تَصِفُ أَلْسِنَتُكُمُ الْكَذِبَ هَٰذَا حَلَالٌ وَهَٰذَا حَرَامٌ لِّتَفْتَرُوا عَلَى اللَّهِ الْكَذِبَ ۚ إِنَّ الَّذِينَ يَفْتَرُونَ عَلَى اللَّهِ الْكَذِبَ لَا يُفْلِحُونَ"

[@redo4986]

you either accept all of it or deny all of it, no half ways in islam ارفقي الترجمة للانجليزي مع العربي حتى يكون واضح لغيره الله يعافيك

[@fatimachbati3]

@@redo4986"And do not utter falsehoods by letting your tongues declare: "This is lawful" and "That is unlawful," thus fabricating lies against Allah. Surely those who fabricate lies against Allah will never prosper." Chapter 16 verse 116

[@aishaarshadalam3412]

Yeah true. Can just ask for him to not remarry while you both are married and have that in the nikkah contract.

[@mahmoudanabtawi]

⁠@@aishaarshadalam3412 no you can’t, the contract itself shouldn’t have a condition that denies anyone’s rights that god gave us, for example he can NOT ask you to work at all, so if you do now this is ALL yours as well.

[@aishaarshadalam3412]

@@mahmoudanabtawi I think you're very unempathetic tbh. I've seen this happen where a man has remarried and the first wife has suffered terribly. If a woman knows she can't handle that situation she should be allowed the right to leave that situation and that should be put into the nikkah contract. That's not haram. Just as Allah gives men their rights He also does not want to make life difficult for us. If you want to remarry you can, don't expect your wife to stick around though. If she isn't happy you should let her go. You have your rights to fulfill after all, who cares about your responsibility right?

[@zeusoftheaegis9038]

Hijab is truly an absolute force for the Ummah.

[@muaddib989]

Yea he could do word salad like the best of the them.

[@laughing-cat.]

@@muaddib989Everything he said was absolutely coherent. If you want to talk word salad, Jordan Peterson is your man.

[@muaddib989]

@@laughing-cat. Bruh, everything this guy says can be summed up like this “Guys this is Haram because of x, moving on…” What’s he’s doing is blabbering. And at least JP had a drug problem, what’s MH excuse?

[@abdulrahmanwaleed1852]

​@gh0st it's fine don't talk without knowledge

[@Klick17]

Brother, can I ask what the name is for since zeus is a god in greek mythology and obviously we aren't allowed to imitate disbelievers

[@hopeali]

You don't have to worship anyone's feelings but if you are a man with a wife who has certain feelings on the issue, it should matter to you. Otherwise what kind of man are you?

[@nidafatima3266]

He’s saying that you can’t consider getting a second wife cheating. Not that women’s feelings are invalid. When the Prophet ﷺ was going to marry one of his wives, she said she is hesitant to marry him because she’s a jealous woman. The Prophet ﷺ didn’t berate her, he made dua for her. He validated her feelings. This video was more about the framework. You can’t cast Islam aside and operate outside it as a Muslim and say things that go against it (like saying polygyny is cheating).

[@darkmage4050]

Oh finally someone who understands the video

[@tinkeringtim7999]

While he was speaking she said "but it feels like it", and he carried on over her. I think Hijab was right with his content but I see room for improvement in protecting her charachter while he spoke. Personally, I imagine after that point he was talking and angels were responding on her behalf, and/or that her reward for patience will come later.

[@masudsaleh5155]

​@@tinkeringtim7999😅😅😅"The problem isn't that he said "it's better to marry young". It's that he said, "women age like milk". . That's just a horrible thing to say to a woman. Why could he not approach it with care like the Prophet (saw) would?" ****** ****** ****** Oh no! Are women's feelings hurt?!!! Are they going to cry?!!! Oh heavens noo! ANYthing but that!!! Nooooooooo!!!!!! You're right. We should approach things with care like the Prophet ﷺ, like when he said, "Women are the majority in hell," and, "I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you (women)."

[@rahldraconis708]

In reality he beat her into submission while yelling at her that he was "God's" prophet till she relented

[@nidafatima3266]

@@rahldraconis708 when u can’t hate on real islam so you make up a delulu version to hate on

[@munaabdi1503]

Women should have a choice in whether or not they stay married to a man who wants more than one wife. What they usually do is go behind her back, lying to her face until she finds out on her own somehow. That’s wrong, it should be an open discussion and both need to make their own informed decision. Also, men steal from their current wife to marry the second or third. Lastly stop the ish of trying to brow beat and manipulate women into accepting this just because it’s allowed. The reality is most men have no business having a second wife when they can’t afford the first.

[@esraa5340]

Thank you. And in fact every single situation I’ve seen of polygamy this is usually how it goes unfortunately.

[@mrxdreamer58]

as if they are not sinful for that, stealing is a sin on its own, manipulation is a sin on its own

[@dodgysmum8340]

@@mrxdreamer58Shurely deceit and telling such a hurtful lie would see a just god send the offender to Hell?

[@aimensohail1725]

THANK YOU! someone said it! ' it's not sinful, it's sunnah' brother how about doing the fards ( compulsory) before jumping to the Sunnah? U want to complete Sunnah when u don't even gor your 5 daily prayers in order? And these men justify a second marriage by using Islam . HOW they get a second wife. LoL don't ask tht, we were just 'misguided' now we are going to be true follower by following the Sunnah . Hilarious

[@thechosenone2786]

Until it’s something that is beneficial for women and then women endlessly “brow beat” and manipulate men and use Islam as a reference point. Islam isn’t a buffet where you pick and choose like man made religions like Christianity. If you’re so against polygamy then make monogamy easier which you feminists are doing the opposite of. Can’t have your cake and eat it too. 😂

[@notyourhero296]

People have so much to say about this topic yet 95% of the muslim ummah dont evens practice polygyny 😂

[@farhiaadeed2227]

Very true It’s a shame how my brothers and sisters are following someone else teaching I now understand why we Muslim are struggling

[@mrmoonman384]

Back to the kitchen with you, off the internet

[@Maverick311x]

New generation does not need religion and the rules from 7th century. Its backward thinking in the age of AI. Eventually religion would be a mere namesake identify lest the practices.

[@TatiSahne]

Exactly its a shame you people follow his words instead of Allahs. Because in the quran secret second marriage is indeed haram in contradiction what Mohammed Hijab says.

[@TatiSahne]

Secret relationships are haram and never considered marriage in the quran. And polygny is always a sin itself that is only forgiven to the godfearing, because you can never be just in polygny. Listen to Allah and not to this sociopath.

[@FactsCanHurt]

@@TatiSahne Interesting, can you quote me where in the Quran this statement is made? for learning purposes

[@bobbiebrownn]

Barakallah spoken with such elegance and grace. May you become even more graceful and well spoken

[@purplelove3666]

People really make it look like having 4 wives is fard,when its sunnah and has some rules attached to it, if you dont want to be in a polygamists marriage,let the man know before marriage and if he does it while you are married ,just divorce,

[@estonian44]

that was beautiful

[@randomhuman2595]

Marrying a second wife secretely could lead to her treating her unequally compared to your public first wife. Treating wives unequally is haram.

[@smeshcel3025]

​@@randomhuman2595so then dont treat them unequally. Thats one of the stupidest exuses people use against polygyny. Thats like saying some people get paper cuts from using paper so we shouldnt use paper. Some people are gonna get cut because they arent being careful.

[@randomhuman2595]

@@smeshcel3025 I am not criticising polygyny as a whole, I am criticising the idea of a secret second wife. If one marriage is public but the other one is secret, then it is likely this might lead to some unequal treatment. You will have less time to spend with the secret wife and have to be much more careful where you go with her, making sure to keep her a secret.

[@smeshcel3025]

@@randomhuman2595 secret wives are the acception not the rule. If a man has to keep it secret than he isnt much of a man tbh. It should be open all the time. But i can understand him being in the west and fearing for the future of his kids but at the same time not wanting to fall into zina. Its really just being in between a rock and a hard place in the west. But that is what getting married in the west entails. Thats why it is important for us to make hijrah because there wouldnt be any legal ramifications of openly getting a second wife. But im completely against the secret marriage thinv unless ABSOLUTELY nessacary

[@iankennedy1441]

​@@randomhuman2595 its a muslim mans world😮

[@zuniamatullah6364]

But that’s the thing right? You are supposed to take a woman’s feelings into account. In that you are meant to treat them equally. And Allah Himself says that you won’t be able to do so, so just stick to one wife. Also, if a woman doesn’t want to share her husband, she has full rights to leave after he marries.

[@iymuslim]

In an Islamic court she will not be given the right to divorce her husband if he is treating her well generally. Don’t make stuff up for your own emotions. If a man provides for u, looks after u and treats u well; then decides to get another wife, u probably won’t be given any right to divorce in the shariah cos he hasn’t done anything wrong for u to divorce him for

[@zuniamatullah6364]

@@iymuslim 🤣🤣🤣🤣 no emotions here, but merely facts which from your paragraph shows you don’t have! Maybe read some history and fiqh before coming to be an embarrassing keyboard warrior😂😂😂

[@calamityreaper400]

No,they are trying to equate major sin to permissible which is wrong and sin in itself

[@ArmelCaligo]

It's funny cos most of these men wanting multiple wives aren't even that desirable to women so go on wishing lmao 💀

[@samchs222]

But your prophet could do so even marrying a 6 year old

[@mustafahasan4137]

Egyptian pride. Love from a Pakistani 🇵🇰

[@stephenwangondu3618]

She literally said "it feels like it".

[@user-ss1js3hb8w]

Well her feelings are right, because nowhere in the Quran does it say you can have secret wives and there is not a single hadith of prophet Muhammad practicing it!

[@sarahschwarz9972]

@@user-ss1js3hb8w Well he, alaihi as salatu wa salaam, didn’t ask their permission either because there was nothing to hide. Men have secret wives now because it is impossible for them to perform polygyny openly.

[@user-ss1js3hb8w]

@@sarahschwarz9972 What do you mean "Ask their permission"? Who's permission? We are not talking about permission but about having secret wives. And the truth is, that Prophet Muhammad never ever practiced it. All of his wives knew about each other. He also never said that you can lie to your wives. No authentic hadith records this. Mo Hijab is speaking lies and giving Islamophobes ammunition of more falsehood.

[@ahmedelshamandy879]

@@user-ss1js3hb8w ask any Muslim scholar… non man is required to tell his wife about the second wife unless she explicitly mentions this in the marriage “contract”…

[@ahmedelshamandy879]

@@user-ss1js3hb8w also Islam doesn’t care about women feelings in particular

[@zxctgb]

Responsibility for ones actions and knowing actions have consequences is an integral part of life, which people should be at peace with if they are doing things by the book.

[@user-yb5qz9dp5w]

Too much knowledge for them. Alhamdulilah. Clear and straight to the poiint

[@floki5182]

The thing is polygyny is involved in the nikkah contract by default unless stated otherwise. So you cant call it "cheating" when the man gets another wife, even if its behind the first wife's back, cos the man doesn't need permission from his first wife to begin with. That'd not be cheating cos he's not going against the contract to begin with. Hijab explained perfectly, the word cheating has western implications behind it and we also seem to be thinking in the same way those westerners believe it to be. So its not cheating cos nobody's breaking the marriage contract.

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Everything you said is correct except one. That is polygyny is always part of contact unless opposite is stated in contract. Only one madhab thinks wife can take away man's right of polygyny by putting it on marriage contract. But other madhabs thinks she can't cause she can't make unlawful for a man what Allah azza wajal made lawful .

[@brinjal1371]

​​@@SamirSiraj8542 makes sense. Thats not valid contract which forbids what the Creator has allowed

[@SamirSiraj8542]

@@brinjal1371 well , the contract is still valid and they are still married. But the condition isn't valid condition so man can still marry unless he follows that one madhabs strictly

[@brinjal1371]

@@SamirSiraj8542 got it

[@SKhan-tb5zk]

Questions: What if the Husband marries second and third knowing 100% the first wife won’t be happy and cause too much tension? Also what if man marries by own choice second wife and 3rd wife when he knows can’t afford the finances to provide for new wives and the children produced ?

[@m.nassirsalih4148]

I true believe like that.I feel personal feelings of men or women have no room when it clashes with the Sheria.

[@JustJess-xw5cr]

No compulsion in religion. No forced marriage. No forced polygamous marriage. Women have the right to choose not to be in a polygamous marriage.

[@Mangchi4040]

The way u r making womens feeling doesn't matter its totally ridiculous bcz of statement of pol like u nonmuslim misjudge islam

[@thechosenone2786]

They misjudge us no matter how hard you wish to lick the boots of kuffar.

[@stillwatersnightsky6533]

As a woman, love what Mr Hijab said about ppl's feelings, be it women, men and children becoming a religion. It is crazy... No wonder the west just floats around with whatever the next thing is around the corner, with no central framework of stability of thought. Well said, and dare i say thank you for being impeccable in your articulation of thoughts, something this world is losing rapidly, hence the chaos.

[@KD400_]

Facts over feelings. Emotions have taken over logic.

[@Jessicaro]

sorry but they are talking about a marriage a marriage is all about feelings. unless you want a loveless unhappy home. love and happiness should most certainly be accounted for.

[@enigmaticalmystery4647]

​@@Jessicaro Actually you're incorrect. Marriage is about duty and commitment over selfish feelings. Love develops over time with both parties being selfless not selfish and about themselves.

[@Cutebunny11635]

@@enigmaticalmystery4647Exactly these people who say things like this are just stupid and believe in feelings rather than logic like it’s their ideology and they only follow what their emotions tell them. They do not follow what ALLAH has told them that’s why these people fail to understand Islam and are not able to properly follow their Deen because apparently they find it too difficult but that’s because they follow and believe in stupidity and jahiliyah. Their emotions control them they don’t have any control over themselves. The only thing they care about is marriage and feelings and stupidity. It’s like common sense doesn’t even exist in any of their braincells when ALLAH has stated in the Quran to use your brain and to understand what he is trying to tell you. How could the Quran touch the hearts of human beings who choose to follow stupidity and idiocracy with their own free will. It makes sense that their Iman is weak because their brains are weak. They are just stupid people by choice they know what’s right and wrong they aren’t deaf. But clearly they choose this because they want enjoyment in this dunya and have chosen their destination which is not Jannah. So it’s better to let these people be because they are stubborn and won’t change. When judgement day comes then they will regret on their own because we are not responsible for what they chose for themselves.

[@JustJess-xw5cr]

​@@enigmaticalmystery4647Both parties = 2.

[@fahr.879]

Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever says, 'Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi,' one hundred times a day, will be forgiven all his sins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea. Sahih al-Bukhari 6405

[@alndows3032]

What about a sin against the creation? Will it be just for Allah to forgive the offender and punish the one that was wronged?

[@shahataf7961]

​@@alndows3032 i was told its for the small sins

[@SthenosTV]

I am Christian and I from Nigeria but I love this guy he speaks from his heart I also feel bad when some christians argue that Mohammed is a fake prophet back and forth from both sides Muslims are our brother Christian are our acquaintance Let us come together as one and let us stop arguing about what religion is the best and what it is not We are one together is this Universe ❤

[@smeshcel3025]

We are in one world physically today but we wont end up in the same place on the day of judgement my friend. Research islam

[@senasezer422]

Thank you for this positive message, we Muslims too wish to unite with all those who believe in God :) But there can only be a single true path to God my brother :) May peace and blessings be abundant for you on both worlds.

[@SthenosTV]

@@senasezer422 Aminu 🙏to you my brother thank you for your heartfelt message. Allah biaka

[@Maverick311x]

Good words! No religion is better than the other. Every religion has flaws cos they all are man made. As humans, humanity is the best religion if we want peace.

[@senasezer422]

@@Maverick311x If a religion is man made, it is not worth following. There is the religion of God.

[@DIAMOND-77]

Thank you 💓

[@ffswhydoicare]

So moral of the story, don’t cheat just marry her

[@jamilanor653]

You nailed it brother😊

[@jordanmorris2914]

'There is no aside islam' absolutely correct and it's the hardest thing to say to Muslims now. The response is always 'yh but'... NO no no, no buts or ifs, Allah has given us guidence if you don't follow it you can't complain things aren't working

[@Mariyasheikh7868]

SubhanAllah ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ Alhamdulillah AllahuAkbar Lailahaillallah Mohammadurrasulallah ♥️ 💖 ✨

[@algambi]

Tabarakallah!

[@MotaChuza]

Polygamy being allowed irked me too in the beginning but I wasn't against it because it's the word of Allah, the all-knowing..later I got to learn the possible reasonings behind it and now I don't look at it as something unequal as I previously thought...but at the end of the day polygamy is indeed a test for women and I personally won't like to be a part of it myself...but it is not cheating or something muslim women should collectively be opposed to..

[@JustJess-xw5cr]

Why can't working women marry up to 4 husbands for charity or out of necessity?

[@XxkillerxX10]

Jazakum Allahu Kahayran, brother Mohammed. This disgusting quote “Islam aside” has been a poison in our ummah in this day and age. It’s EXTREMELY hypocritical, as if to say “Islam doesn’t matter when it comes to this”. Thank you, brother, for bringing this to light ❤️

[@muntatherrubaie5469]

No, by your Lord, they are not believers until they make you their judge in the disputes that break out between them and then do not resist what you decide and submit themselves [to you] completely. (Surat an-Nisa`: 65)

[@reedox5311]

Baraka allahu fik, thank Allah for the knowledge that he gives you.

[@user-vq9rh6ru5o]

جزاك الله خيرا أخي محمد...أحبك في الله، ونسأل الله أن يجعلك للمؤمنين إماما صالحا على الكتاب والسنة

[@yasserfathelbab1534]

Exactly my brother. Thanks for raising the point.

[@lunix3259]

I can't agree more, this is real. Women should not worship men either, act like they are their the provider because the true provider is Allah SWT. Never put yourself behind a man, put your parents first and children as Allah instruct you too.

[@baselhakim2080]

Allah instructed women to put their husbands first, before parents and children !

[@blueberrycupcake6999]

@@baselhakim2080no

[@nobodyknows490]

@@baselhakim2080nonsense

[@baselhakim2080]

@@nobodyknows490 don't care at all about your ignorant opinions.

[@nobodyknows490]

@@baselhakim2080go and worship your own desires and lust

[@Abdullah-mt9ns]

جزاك الله خيراً

[@DNAngel]

It’s wrong to say polygamy is wrong in Islam, but acting like being heartless is a virtue of Islam is also wrong. The prophet Muhammad cared a lot about how his wives felt.

[@user-wi9rp2pr8e]

Deen has no place for feelings

[@D_A-G]

Well put bro!

[@zerorepsinreserve]

Amazingly said

[@ilikedesserts]

Men seem to always ignore all the harm they do to the women. I have heard so many sad stories of women who were involved in these types of marriages and to be real: the difference between the sahaba and muslim men in 2023 is: The Sahaba cared for the women and often married multiple because they were poor while 2023 muslim men are lusting to marry more than one wife because of their desire. It's almost disgusting to witness how nowadays men are so obsessed with the thought of multiple wives. No wait, it is. The Sahabas were aware of their duty of their times and hardships, many women were in dire need of a husband because of poverty. But in the west in 2023? I don't think so. If men really cared for women all that much and thus want multiple wives so much they should take care of the single mothers who are in need of a father figure in their family. But you'll rarely find a man who marries those, because the 2023 muslim men who wants multiple wives only wants virgin obedient wives whom he can use for his lust and whom feelings he dismisses. Problem I see nowadays is that too many people nowadays always say "Allah said that, Allah allowed that", but they never ask themselves "why did Allah say that and why did he allow it?".

[@19382q]

you're disgusting for judging the way allah made us, a woman being poor doesn't mean she needs to marry a rich man. Women want to share the richest men. The only reason it's POSSIBLE to have multiple women is cause you guys love MONEY MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE

[@El9endilo]

so basically you are saying that 2023 is not like the time of the sahabah and that sahabah married women who were in need and that's it, you are wrong islam quran and sunnah are for everytime whenever Allah allowed something to be there is no discussion if you are doing it correctly, "why did Allah say that and why did he allow it"? there are certain stuff that we cannot comprehend and our brain doesen't understand like for example "why did Allah make us pray five times a day?" we don't have to question what Allah says if we are true believers, sure ask questions gain knowledge, however if Allah allowed something there is a benefit from it and a good reason behind it. keep in mind that Allah taught us to be equal with our wives and that we will be judged by our actions towards them HOWEVER if you have a feeling in your heart about one of them and you don't be unfair (liking one more than another which is ok) then you are not judged aslong as it's in your heart.

[@El9endilo]

Allah clearly says in the quran:"It is not for a believing man or woman-when Allah and His Messenger decree a matter-to have any other choice in that matter.1 Indeed, whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has clearly gone ˹far˺ astray." (Surah al ahzab aya:36) sister DO NOT GO FAR ASTRAY.

[@SA41959]

Absolutely spot on sister!! This is the reality. They are far from the real men of the Prophet’s(pbuh) time. They keep harping on about sunnah this, sunnah that but the vast majority of them can’t even grow a beard (which is actually compulsory not a sunnah) nor do they pray in the mosques which is also compulsory. The Prophet (pbuh) said to burn the houses down of men who don’t pray in the mosques but they will conveniently overlook that. Even with multiple wives they will never emphasise that the SUNNAH of the real man Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was that he married mainly widows and even older women. If they want to implement the sunnah then do it properly and be like the Prophet and marry widows. The fact that they bleat on about virgin wives show they are disingenuous and have no real care for the sunnah. Funny how they come out of the woodworks when a “sunnah” appeals to their base desires but crawl back in when it doesn’t. Anyway multiple wives in the West isn’t commonplace or legally accepted so it’s just a pipe dream.

[@schakibmohibullah5539]

Marrying multiple women for lust is allowed. There's no evidence from Quran or Sunnah to say otherwise. And yes the men of today are not comparable to the sahaba but the same goes for women and the sahabiyat....

[@-3-D-]

It a twist of words again

[@mussharatnaaz1325]

He's right. Also I understand what the woman is trying to say though not the right choice of words I'd say. Insecurity will always be there. Islam is very practical. Instead of living in a bubble of romanticism they should make it a point during nikah as a condition (could be with terms and conditions) instead of assuming and expecting the unseen and later on falling into disputes.

[@felreizmeshinca7459]

To put it into a different perspective, it is probably the biggest trial regarding faith that a woman has to face compared to wearing a hijab.

[@saral9817]

Every woman who has true feelings for her husband will feel jealous but if she loves him and understands Islam and the way men work, she can be patient for the sake of Allah and contribute to society by being an honoured muslimah

[@subhaaffan5326]

@@saral9817 bullshit shut up. We don’t have to tolerate anything no matter how much you love him. Thank god Allah gave us the right to Khula in such circumstances. If he thinks I’m not enough then why the hell should I stay.

[@Frirkrkk92o4ii]

As always well said

[@Layth71]

Great point brother 💯

[@agostocobain2729]

I love that you’re back bro. What I mean by that is, you were getting very dramatic, and theatrical, and I’m not trying to be offensive. The Mohammad Hijab I fell in love with is this, A confident intellectual that is also very polite, but isn’t afraid of speaking his mind, but let me jus add you’ve never been afraid brother. Fear doesn’t exist in Islam, the only thing we fear is Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى Peace and love to you my brother.

[@V12509]

You don’t need to prostrate to women’s feelings to have empathy. If there’s no empathy and unity, then there’s no marriage. Being married is being in a team, not making decisions on your own. Just because women naturally love jewelry, that doesn’t mean they can put you through bankruptcy since you’re supposed to be the supplier. And I’m a guy as well, before anyone jumps into conclusions.

[@fp7614]

".... not making decisions on your own". You as the head of the household will have to answer to allah as to the direction your family went. You are the Shepard of your house. Yes, speak to your wife and ask for the view on affers that affect her, but the decision is ultimately yours to make. Grow a pair and take that responsibility head on.

[@nidafatima3266]

@@fp7614 The responsibility of her emotional, physical, and spiritual health is his since he’s the leader. He can’t take care of that without showing her compassion and understanding her. If they differ on something even after talking it through, he’s ultimately the decision maker, but being in that position requires him to keep empathy and unity.

[@V12509]

@@fp7614 I find it amusing that someone who has your profile picture is prescribing me with “Growing a pair and taking responsibility”. I bet you’re a kid, so I have to explain to you and to the others reading this: Making decisions this big on your own will only create loathing in the relationship, if your future wife is not a mop who takes any amount of disrespect from anyone, if she respects herself and is a high quality woman, if she’s not a robot, then making her resentful is the last thing you’d want. And I’m not talking about her retaliating or getting revenge from you, it’s simply a bad move to treat another human being ESPECIALLY your wife/love of your life with such selfishness. Yeah, force your wife into stuff she’s not into, how could that ever go wrong 😑 Just put yourself in her shoes for God’s sake how easy is it to do that? Say you’re the wife and your husband just pops up saying “I want another one”. You won’t accept it. Mohammed Hijab won’t accept it either. “You need to answer to Allah”. When did Allah make it obligatory to marry multiple wives 🤦‍♂️ Guy here making me feel like my wife is worshipping statues in my living room while I’m clapping for her. I swear all your keyboard warriors would be the first ones to get thrown to sleep in the staircase anyways. You all are just acting tough here like there are 20 women already lining up to be your 4 wives.

[@fp7614]

@@V12509 I have the picture that I do because I found it amusing a while back. For you to use that as a way to pass judgement and dismiss what I say because 'I'm a kid' rather than just focus on what I've said is a characteristic befitting a person who has not grown a pair yet. Don't fixate on the semantics. If you read what I said, " if it affects her then speak to your wife " this is on everything not just a 2nd/ 3rd/4th marriage, but again it is not her decision to make with regards to whether a man gets a second wife. You say put yourself in your wife's shoes and that if I was her I wouldn't want my husband to get a second wife. Firstly, I ain't a woman and will never be, I'm a man I can't put myself in her shoes because you are asking me to understand a woman's emotions, impossible. They sometimes don't even understand their own emotions. Secondly, why wouldn't you be questioned by Allah if he has given you a halal avenue to meet your desires and you choose not to but as a result you struggle to lower your gaze or worse fall into greater haram because "my wife's feelings " matter more to me than my akhirah. Thirdly, Islam isn't about what I like and don't like, we hear and we obey. As a Muslim you have submitted to Allah and acknowledge him as the all knowing, so everything he has said, he has said for a reason. Accept it. You speak as though the default position of Islam is monogamy when it isn't, surah nisa states "marry 2,3 or four and if you cannot do justice then marry 1". The surah does not say marry 1 see how you get along then ask her permission. Once again grow a pair. Allah made you a male so become a man.

[@mrmoonman384]

@@fp7614 prophet Mohammed loves licking balls

[@sheebadsulthana]

I agree that women’s or anyone else’s feelings should not be placed above the religion of Islam. However, when it comes to a marriage, each party’s concerns and challenges do need to be taken into consideration. Etiquette and courtesy dictate it. Do you really think a man can stay married to his first wife after getting a second without any prior notice? Possible, but not probable. If marrying to satisfy a man’s sexual desire is allowed, so is divorcing to alleviate a woman’s mental/spiritual harm because of a life-altering event. Good if she stays, but the option to leave is allowed. Sheikh Aseem-al-Hakeem also says this in cases where the wife cannot tolerate it and it affects her self and her responsibility towards the family. Hypothetically, even if a wife divorcing if the husband remarries is not allowed, what can the husband do if the wife wants to leave but is unable to, and so shuts her whole being down? You can only force and impose for so long. After a while, even fear will not make an impact. Men don’t have to agree with women, sure, but at least attempt to acknowledge the tremendous challenge of the situation? It would go a long way. If the roles were reversed, and a wife was allowed to have multiple husbands upto 4, and your wife didn’t feel the need to run you through it before marrying the next man she desires - would you say “Ah, but my feelings don’t matter when compared to the religion”? We know the religion comes first. But would you really simplify it so pragmatically if it was you facing this challenge? A little empathy helps. Honestly, I agree with almost everything Hijab said. But the way the caption is framed - that’s a little disappointing. It seems like it has been designed to create maximum controversial impact. At the end of the day, polygamy is okay. Monogamy is okay. Just communicate clearly from the get go, what either party’s expectations are in the marriage. I am sure there are women who would want to be part of a polygamous marriage, just as I am sure there are women who like all the love and attention to themselves in a monogamous marriage. Just don’t impose it on an unsuspecting woman and use the sunnah card. It’s really not that hard. Allah has okayed mutton too. Doesn’t mean I have to eat it if I don’t like it. At a time when Muslims are being attacked from outside forces, let’s be kinder to each other. Brothers and sisters alike. Let some semblance of peace prevail instead of this constant controversial back and forth. It’s exhausting, don’t you think? ✨🤗 We are the same species.. women’s ability to feel more acutely does not warrant men’s dismissal of women. You are more than your muscle and we are more than our feelings.

[@cxncien]

Yeah, i expect you to not ignore men who complain about their insufferable wives who want them to provide a lot for them. Keep that same level of understanding👍

[@sheebadsulthana]

@@cxncien I have no problem conceding. But also, interesting how your mind works. Competition and comparison all over again. Relevant much. :)

[@mayah223]

Well said!

[@kulsoom2788]

@sheebasulthana1325 this was the best way one could put it, thankyouu for putting it out here

[@sumaiyaahmad4184]

Well said

[@vee-bp8zz]

Love is considerate ( consider each other's feelings, does not want its own ( not selfish) , God idea of love

[@irfanullah.11]

Sartaj be like what is he talking about ☻︎

[@ABH996]

يزم يسعد دينك ❤ يا رب التقي فيك قبل مماتي

[@razer0072073]

When he said woman's feelings 😂😂😂

[@Babycake.]

hes getting a bit too comfortable by attempting to clickbait off of feminine rajul lool

[@servantofthemerciful3511]

​​@@Babycake.It's imraatun not rajulun sister. Rajulun means man in Arabic

[@masudsaleh5155]

​@@Babycake.😅😅😅😅"The problem isn't that he said "it's better to marry young". It's that he said, "women age like milk". That's just a horrible thing to say to a woman. Why could he not approach it with care like the Prophet (saw) would?" ****** ****** ****** Oh no! Are women's feelings hurt?!!! Are they going to cry?!!! Oh heavens noo! ANYthing but that!!! Nooooooooo!!!!!! You're right. We should approach things with care like the Prophet ﷺ, like when he said, "Women are the majority in hell," and, "I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you (women)."

[@zuhasbekillin3461]

😂

[@user-nl6ru6zm1i]

صلو علی نبی (ص) ماشاءالله. بارک الله فیک. سبحان الله. الله اکبر. الحمدلله. استغفرالله. سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظیم

[@fouzalvi9722]

Excellent point...it's about time a man said that out loud

[@turalmirzaliev1232]

As a Jew Islam is the closest thing to Judaism and its allowed to jews to pray in mosques and Muslims to pray in synagogues.

[@kalajari1749]

Yes. Jews are our closest brothers. However unfortunately many jews are zionists and we are against that. But the true, non zionist, orthodox jews, we consider our brothers of another religion. Salam/Shalom

[@masudsaleh5155]

No

[@JamesSmith-ij8nj]

Can a non muslim pray in Aqsa Mosque? Non muslim can't even go through the door!

[@muntatherrubaie5469]

When Allah and His Messenger have decided something, no believing man or woman has a choice about [following or not following] it. Anyone who disobeys Allah and His Messenger is clearly misguided. (Surat al-Ahzab: 36)

[@user-bi3xn8dj7y]

Wheres the link bro you gotta start linking the videos you are making Into these shorts granted if they ant posted yet but if they are link it my bro would love to see them 💪🏼

[@OmegaChad_7]

Link kzbin.info/www/bejne/g4O9n5KGipqao9U

[@marokkiadekar4730]

Im a woman and agree with the brother 100%

[@S1NX]

When bro speaks ....we listen 👂

[@jonjo8104]

Well said brother

[@razakhan23465]

Please link the full video. We have no context

[@hamzanemer4014]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/g4O9n5KGipqao9U

[@iansimpson2088]

Live under the laws of the country you have chosen to live in. Use the language of the country you have chosen to live in.

[@nessness4893]

In the sunna, prophet Muhammed sws on his death bed asked the permission of his wives to stay with his other wives Aisha ra, by fear of not being just. This is what an example of what our nabi set for us.

[@bilalmateen1983]

Which program / event is this from? Is there a full video?

[@hajiamalgu7599]

Prophet Muhammad asked that we should be kind to our wives. That includes acknowledging your wife's feelings and being kind in how you handle them.

[@sleeptherapy4811]

And he also asked you to be obedient to your husband and not to roam around the town.

[@hajiamalgu7599]

@@sleeptherapy4811 eeeerrrr... okay,

[@stinger4712]

Kind to them does not equate to defining morality from their feelings. If we did then polygyny would be immoral

[@JustJess-xw5cr]

​@@stinger4712It's not about the morality of polygamy. It's about someone's personal choice to be or not be in a polygamous marriage.

[@JustJess-xw5cr]

​@@stinger4712Polygamous marriage should not be forced on a woman who doesn't want that for her married life.

[@elitebutdumb]

A man especially husband HAS to address the emotional and psychological side of his wife whereas a woman HAS to be there for his sexual needs. Mohammed Hijab needs to check his basics again. The above complements a successful marriage.

[@moa.2274]

Reminded me of iggy azaleas concert in ksa when she asked People to bow down to her

[@secretsquirrel6124]

When someone says with respect they have no respect

[@simasoumi5551]

But why r u sitting face to face wirh women and discussing intimate subjects...i wonder if u would allow ur wives to do that, with stranger men SobhanaAllah..

[@kay07949]

Akhlaq is the spirit of Islam and this entails taking into consideration of others feelings and using Hikmah.. if Islam if reduced to Fiqh it will become like judaism.

[@123ascary]

OG has spoken 💪💪💪🤲

[@fFIeXi]

If the feeling of your wife in this matter don't matter to you well as a wife your's won't matter too take your segond wife you can call it first cauz I'll be gone simple.. God didn't force women to stay and live miserable if they can't accept it is there right to demand the divorce.. also I think in the beginning is important to be honest and let her know if it something you will maybe want in the future cauz if you lie and say never I just want one than turn around one day do that to her I think that's very foul also egoistic because you've take away her choice in that matter and opportunity for to have a partner who Carry the same views as her so just be honest there's many other women who don't have a issues with it..

[@kezjones8206]

Something about this man and his delivery I always find so depressing. I always have a ‘stop the world, I want to get off’ feeling when I hear him :-(

[@JustJess-xw5cr]

It is narcissism. It can tie a gut into knots.

[@armandnieuwendam6787]

Mohammed Hijab is always very quick with his mouth, also his pro-aggressive attitude is very unpleasant. To this day, all kinds of artifacts and the like are found during excavations. Anything that literally refers to Israel and the Jewish people, early Christianity etcetera. Nothing but also nothing about Islam and so called prophet Muhammad is found. However, entire libraries have been written about Jesus, including by historians. In the Old Testament, Jesus was announced several times, thousands of years before Jesus was even born. Even that Jesus had to die on the wood and the like is clearly described. Muhammad has literally been underexposed. In part, it is because Western scholars have long believed that Islam had arisen and grown in the full light of history. Islamic stories about the life of Muhammad. Roughly the biography that Ibn Ishaq wrote around 760, the Sirat Rasul Allah or The Life of God's Prophet. Unsurprisingly, important information is missing from the Qur'an, while the Torah, as well as the Old and New Testaments, is so much recorded. Islam, through the Qur'an, has to make an effort to interpret so many passages. There is only one God, that is the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. The Jesus as Islam describes it is not the real Jezus, also Allah is not the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. It has to do with Faith and not with religion. Many don't see this important difference. Muhammad only one man, a mortal, is impossible to compare with Jesus. Jesus is only one prophet in the Qur'an. Jesus spoke words of God, of salvation, of Eternity Is the only one who could say: I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life. And no one comes to God (Abba the Heavenly Father) except through Me. Jesus' message was based on Love, Hope and Forgiveness and even loving your enemies. No revenge, shairia or the sword and honor feuds. Or Sharia "Islamic law" Not a loveless religious man's work. Only believe in Him Yeshua Hamashiach Jesus Christ. The Qur'an is considered to be the first work of prose in Arabic literature and has had a major influence on the literary development of Arabic. However, the Word, the Torah and Bible are mainly inspired by God's Spirit, Jesus Himself and the true prophets. Mathematically sharp and clearly described, the foreshadowings of the Old Testament refer cristal clearly to the New, about what has happened, what is happening today and what is to come in detail. Everyone needs Jesus as Redeemer, Savior, and Finisher. No, mind you, no other Name than Jesus, Yeshua Hamashiach. By faith in Him man is justified and saved. Only faith and no religion, tradition, culture, man's work or so calked own good works. That doesn't cut anyone, only Jesus Christ is the Way, the Answer. choose today whom you will serve, all who have accepted Jesus have the power to be a child of God, which is different from being a mere creature. He who seeks will find, and he who knocks,... It will be opened. Even if there was no writing. God is Sovereign and Almighty. He... God works in man and not the other way around. If God does not build His House, the laborers toil in vain. Everyone needs Jesus, The Jews, the Muslims, the Christians, the Buddhists, the Hindus, the pagans, the so-called intellectuals and teachers, gurus, shamans, even MohammedHijab, in short, without Jesus one is lost forever. God makes the times go faster so that no flesh may be lost and one may be saved. Many people live in fear and uncertainty, will I make it and so on, often because of religion, because of cultural things, bondage, tradition, human laws and rules, manipulation. Nothing but also nothing to do with the True Faith that Jesus speaks of While Jesus has the Answer and gives it. It is always first and foremost about a personal conviction inspired by God and entering into a relationship with Him. All who labor and are heavy laden, come to me, says Jesus, "my yoke is easy."

[@thechosenone2786]

Truth hurts when it’s staring you in the face.

[@JustJess-xw5cr]

@@thechosenone2786 Oh, yes, truth hurts. Lies and manipulation hurt more, though.

[@kezjones8206]

@@thechosenone2786 and complete wallies are a bit painful too

[@thesunnahguy]

Amazing Masha’Allah, well said

[@fayrouzkamel9836]

Brief, accurate and true statement

[@randallfe]

So in turn. Your wife’s feelings doesn’t matter. And men can do what they want once it’s in accordance to Islam

[@MohammedAhmed-yu3kb]

YES, we follow ISLAM not somebody's feelings.

[@lilyrosesoul0077]

Especially if its a woman. Men's feelings and ego take precedence ?

[@randallfe]

@@MohammedAhmed-yu3kb Islam doesn’t say you have to get one tho.

[@yoyosnepai3808]

Not this, nor that. If you want the best example as muslims, we look to the life of the Prophet Muhammad pbuh and follow his example. You find the middle ground of balancing the feelings of your wife/wives while also not allowing the balancing act to become a detriment to your faith as a Muslim. Its extremely hard to do of course, hence why marrying multiple woman isn't for everyone. But its definitely doable with the right intentions, wisdom, having the qualities of a true Muslim, and being clear and upfront about it from the start. Because simply put, not everyone can handle that sort of relationship. So we ask Allah swt to make us Muslim men who are capable of being just, wise, kind and compassionate with our women, and to make our women god fearing, kind hearted, appreciative and understanding to our Muslim men. All while both remain steady on the path that Allah swt has laid out for us... Ameen

[@SaceedAbul]

And within the bounds of Islam women can do whatever they want. We only care if Allah swt is happy

[@AfshanNadeem-pu1bi]

I am a women and feel privileged to have been shown the light of Islam.

[@Corrosive_Acid]

That's sad. This religion is way too misogynistic.

[@ebo5246]

you blew it when you added sunnah

[@nabeelahmad_]

MashaAllah superbly said ❤

[@raaid85]

what makes hijab think he is such a catch for multiple wives? what a strange desire ti have and hising behind religion. as much as i enjoy u and follow.u, this is one thing i find weird about u

[@nimfall]

Nothing bad in having sex with multiple woman even after 1 st marriage

[@shadowmere3587]

can someone give me a link for this convo?

[@theultimateknight7356]

seconding this. i can't find it

[@OmegaChad_7]

Link kzbin.info/www/bejne/g4O9n5KGipqao9U

[@equityjustice2695]

Yeah where it at? 😮

[@Naija_mimo]

Thats fine but when she leaves let her in peace because you dont expect her to follow the mans feelings and ego religion

[@matthoffman6962]

100% but at the same time the Quran tells you, you have to treat all wife’s equally and give them love, care attention, keep them happy and provide for them. I don’t know too many men who can actually do that without going against that.

[@hanaeelkholti7168]

If polygamy is halal do does the divorce! If the wife cannot handle that she can divorce easy solution 😊

[@SaceedAbul]

Honestly yeah. People make things complex

[@sheriff2.0]

Whats the full video called?

[@hamzanemer4014]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/g4O9n5KGipqao9U

[@OmegaChad_7]

Link kzbin.info/www/bejne/g4O9n5KGipqao9U

[@InfamousFreeze21]

Speak the truth my brother 👍

[@punchfrank3676]

this bro aura like the second andrew tate, no need so hard to be tough bro, just advice for you MH and all andrew tate outhere, humble is best.

[@RockyRumbles]

Lol too funny

[@raekareem707]

*reason **#145** to not EVER get married and die a virgin*

[@kalajari1749]

Yikes

[@svtcarat6386]

True.

[@KalosOG174]

100 percent agree as a Muslim i dont ever think outside of Islam every single thing we do it should be in accordance to Islam

[@siriussaracen8371]

Beautifully said.

[@Muhmineen]

I didn't see the full video, but cheating I.e fornicating is haram. Unless he has done Niqah and made that woman his wife, it is haram. If he's texting or sleeping with his 2nd 3rd or 4th wife it isn't cheating. Obviously that's clear. And of course in all circumstances the 1st wife can choose to request a divorce and leave him if he does display behaviour that isn't compatible to her way of life.

[@senasezer422]

Easy peasy. Thank you.

[@maximumovermuslim6337]

Bro this wasn't the topic at all

[@TheVeryAwesemeMe]

@@maximumovermuslim6337 what was the topic? Give us the link will you?

[@soupricemf1260]

Thats damn right

[@sharminisunique1259]

Well said i m not gonna follow the religion of women or someone else feelings 👏🏻

[@realtruth2870]

What is this dude talking about? Simple English was used, but he is gaslighting the facts. Regarding the word cheating and puts it only at women. This brother needs to be very careful. The accountability will be on him on the day of judgement if he is leading people astray.

[@razakhan23465]

He's not talking about infidelity. Apparently, the other guy said Islam aside, he feels like taking a second wife is cheating. And Mohammed Hijab said infidelity is infidelity and this is not infidelity and you cannot equate the two just because of a woman's feelings.

[@kenkaneki9138]

Dude I dont think you know what you just wrote or even watched the short. Where did he say cheating is only at women? She said she feels that having a second wife is cheating when in Islam its completely halal to do so. Cheating means infidelity so she is implying that the man is committing a major sin but the Quran says it halal and not a sin. I dont think she knew the implications of her words tbh.

[@SaceedAbul]

Cheating would imply a breach of contract. Islam defines the contract. To say islam aside is like saying putting the whole situation aside. It’s illogical

[@amania1795]

I wish there were more people like you who’d recognize this bullshit