I Got My Family A Therapist *emotional*

[@bossladytalknjviplive9834]

I BELIEVE @DESHAE THIS VIDEO WAS WELL NEEDED NOT JUST FOR YOUR FAMILY BUT OTHERS ALSO. I WATCHED ALL YOU GUYS JOURNEY ON KZbin, I LOVE YALL VIDEOS BUT THIS VIDEO WAS ONE OF THE BEST AND VERY INSPIRING. I'M GLAD ALL OF USE GOT THINGS OFF YOUR CHEST. # FAMILY ALWAYS FIRST

[@bossladytalknjviplive9834]

@@jamilahcmuhammad L FOR WHAT AS LONG AS THEY GOT SOMETHING OUT OF IT THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS. NOT GOING BACK AND FOURTH GIRL BYE!

[@glowboitvworldd9076]

right🙂🖤 god bless the truth

[@bossladytalknjviplive9834]

@@glowboitvworldd9076 THANK YOU FINALLY SOMEONE WITH COMMON SINCE.

[@jamilahcmuhammad]

@@bossladytalknjviplive9834 my bad I didn’t even no I commented it was an accident literally just seeing this💀

[@jamilahcmuhammad]

@@bossladytalknjviplive9834 chill love ❤️ god bless

[@gradeabeauty09]

Mel Mel was the stern voice that Brooklyn needed. He has discipline and is mature. I love that she expressed that she needs him.

[@blupocahontas984]

That's why he left he couldn't put up with her energy smh

[@briswervo9138]

@@blupocahontas984 why are y’all blaming her because mel Mel left ? It’s not her fault. He didn’t want to be on camera that’s it and that’s all. He has expressed that multiple times.

[@JanesVIBEZ]

@@briswervo9138 true , I feel like that should respect it I understand the “that’s how we make money “ but if I don’t feel comfortable being on camera or social media, and a lot does go on , on social media . But either way they should respect it . There is nothing wrong with wanting to not be on social media n etc . I feel if they understand then he’d come around more . But they say they understand the mom says but then she says he has to do it

[@_lallaa1]

@@blupocahontas984 lmao that’s why he said he doesn’t like social media cause y’all say stuff like that when y’all don’t even know them 🤣🤣

[@blupocahontas984]

@@_lallaa1 yeah your obvious delusional 🙄 🤦‍♀️cause I never once said anything negative about mel Mel hes actually the most stable one of them all u might need to go back and read my comment again luv

[@briannanicole9988]

Deshae was being a therapist more than the actual therapist

[@gatedbeauty]

That Therapist was rubbish, maybe she's an actor

[@tracythomas7948]

Got paid for nothing… 🤦🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️

[@latayabeals8729]

I was sayin the same thing 😭😭😂

[@CRSAdvocate911]

The Therapist WAS doing her JOB. She was OBSERVING the Family dynamics. She WILL intervene LATER in the process, IF the Family allows her. NOTICE 😳 1 MAJOR component Missing⁉️ It's Deshae and Brooklyn's Dad 🏈‼️‼️⁉️ Until ISSUES with Dad are RESOLVED amicably ... the family conflicts will continue ... BUT are manageable 🙂. As for Deshae's HATE towards Step Dad AND Justin ... Deshae is the MAN ♂️ of the Family ... He's gonna BARK 🐶 at any Male that DARE steps into his "ROOTS" Home ... except "his Daddy" 🥊... Because Deshae assumed and took on the PROTECTOR Role in ABSENCE of "Biological" Dad's presence. Deshae is a GOOD MAN ♂️ ... Just don't ❌ invade the King 👑 of England's TERRITORY 🙂. Or, you'll be dealt with by the stellar Royal Army😬 Wishing everyone Peace and Happiness 💯🎵💙

[@TheHowellFamilyy]

@@CRSAdvocate911 why did you use so many emojis? Lol

[@sansemartin6359]

When Brooklyn tried to hide her face when she was trying not to cry brought me to tears because I do the same thing, I feel weird expressing how I felt I thought it was weird so I’d shove it to the back of my head I understand completely how she feel and when the littlest thing would piss me off I find myself being mad something that had passed… you just got to push through it and work on expressing yourself ❤️‍🔥

[@trinitylace1101]

Well said❤️mental health comes first

[@brown_skin_lover_queen5790]

In my personal opinion I think Brooklyn’s boyfriend has a part of the way she acts as well

[@ihatestepdads1472]

Shut up with your fking ' you can't go back in time ' sayings. No law show that you can't travel back in time.

[@simplynaii9558]

Time stamp?

[@lifeofnarcy8394]

I low key feel like Brooklyn needed this the most . It’s about time that everyone kept it real with her and told her what she needed to hear .

[@lamarjrrj]

On KZbin

[@007nursebae]

Bali is so unbothered! She getting a good nap 😴 I really enjoyed this! Great job having each other’s back guys.

[@tracythomas7948]

I was in tears with Brooklyn when you was expressing her feelings about her brother… it touch my soul when she said she feels like he took a piece of her with him that’s deep. I feel like he needs to come back home to his family they really love and miss him to their core.

[@yuhyuhyuhyuh7158]

He was the glue to this family’s bond it’s just Mel Mel doesn’t like affection like the rest do

[@baileyjones1930]

@@yuhyuhyuhyuh7158 yesss so true he’s not to big on the affection , well or at showing it

[@user-xw4dx6vm4x]

no yeah why was i cryin too??

[@wealthy5702]

@@yuhyuhyuhyuh7158 if you not a middle child I don’t think you would understand. The oldest and the youngest get a lot of attention and affection for obvious reasons. He just had to find himself

[@wealthy5702]

@@baileyjones1930 read above

[@cbub3765]

Deashe hit it right on the spot there mom do be actin like a friend then a mom to all her children.

[@BigDilf3]

Been saying that for forever ddg mom is the same exact way

[@RAKBOYZ100]

@@BigDilf3 what they gotta do with this get off dem nuts

[@Qb3demon]

@@BigDilf3 you don’t know her you only see her on videos

[@Qb3demon]

@@BigDilf3 what ya mom like

[@tiara891ify]

@@BigDilf3 but ddg dub and teetee don't disrespect their mom. Tanya holds her ground and they're more respectful Monique kids knows they'll walk over her. And not grown and respectful enough not to do it anyways

[@brigettepowell9730]

Deshae is a great older brother. He did a better job than the therapist.

[@MargieRose777]

I agree

[@jaylab5870]

The therapist was just the mediator

[@percycurrent4615]

No he kidnapped his baby sister and then made her little sister take the blameb

[@jordanyoung4582]

Facts

[@sophiadream9912]

He took Bali to though 😂😂😂😂

[@E1madedicc]

When Brooklyn was speaking on the smoothie situation I completely understood. I procrastinate when it comes to doing simple things like that. You don’t want people watching over your shoulder 24/7. So being in my own environment brings me comfort knowing I can independently do these things

[@tamiyafrazier517]

No same. I always get self conscious doing things around people, mainly because I know the people around me are watching me intently or even judging me. I always feel like I would do way better if I was on my own. Mind you, I'm only 15 and I'm already planning my life on my own. But I go through the same thing Brooklyn said she used to about being scared being by myself but I just hope that gets better as time goes on.

[@marieedean7981]

Sameee! Sometimes u have to remove urself from an environment you’re used to being in to actually find urself or find out things about urself

[@E1madedicc]

@Mariee Dean Yess that!!

[@kiahls]

🤍

[@jihanali841]

One thing I love about deshae is that he's a family man. He really acts like the man of his house and makes sure his sister and mother are doing what's best for them. Too many weak men these days letting anything go in their houses.

[@RRB_345]

real faxx right here

[@lamarjrrj]

He’s not in charge of his mom

[@relaxationpeace6327]

Aweee I feel like Mel Mel leaving definitely played a huge part in the family dynamic and it falling apart

[@SympNurseLife]

They did their introductions like they were in a AA meeting😂😂 and Justin eating like it's his last meal🤣🤣

[@hayathashi7986]

Lmfaoo😭😭😂😂😂

[@The.Real_dar]

Last meal 😭

[@tara-jadewilliams7051]

What’s a AA meeting

[@kisha1UP]

@@tara-jadewilliams7051 Alcoholics Anonymous

[@samanthalugo9442]

LMFAOOOOOOOOO no fr 😭😭😭

[@onebossylibra2095]

The therapist wasn't needed Deshae was the therapist I loved how everyone listened to each other without getting angry and walking off

[@melm5850]

In the beginning it was chaotic n lol Justin eating like he never ate before. I really love how you guys quickly understood each other and communicated. That’s the keys to a great relationship…communication, patience and understanding. I could really relate to Brooklyn but I hope she understands they want the best for her.

[@selahase2027]

This therapist gotta be an actress she ain’t doing it for me. Deshae directing her has me dead😂, he honestly can clearly handle his own family he didn’t really need her

[@danielledantata3455]

She just sitting there looking pretty 😂

[@YonnaRochelleTV]

ong 😂😂😂😂😂

[@saunjisharon3866]

@@danielledantata3455 omgg i was thinking the same thing 😂

[@RRB_345]

omg thank you

[@ShyShy9212]

Didn’t need her at all! Lol

[@geomyrie]

I fully agree with Deshae he seems to understand what it takes to be and adult 👍👏

[@dontrell6876]

This is all for entertainment

[@alexisreid7578]

And he's getting better looking as he get older

[@prdcj]

@@alexisreid7578 oh you trying to throw some cat at my boy?

[@Lady-Pal]

Brooklyn made me 😭

[@lamarjrrj]

Entertainment you believe everything

[@jahliaMakari]

This family right here need a reality show because babyyyyy they keep me on edge when it comes to the videos dropping ❤️✌🏽

[@lifeoffaye5008]

Child stop talking you don't know what's real , joke's.

[@taylorj7323]

They dont keep me on edge, but its the most entertaining thing on KZbin rn 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@doe209]

Facts💯

[@elizagaye6863]

@@lifeoffaye5008 Woah where did that from

[@IamJayyNicole1]

We got the same name my name jahlia🤣💙

[@edits4thepeople]

This is a good example of having a civilized conversation with your family. Big brother Deshae was dropping some knowledge. Brooklyn really seem to have a breakthrough with her feelings. Praying for healing as you guys move forward. Keep God first.💜🙏🏾

[@trin8642]

I felt Brooklyn when she said everything is about her they was on her mostly through out the whole video she's growing up & being a girl is already hard & it's always like family's always jump towards the daughter let her experience life and see for herself u can't shelter her forever !

[@sharongreene-monk8378]

FYI: Brooklyn , Please Understand, Growing up today isn’t easy, there’s a lot of Life Changes we all have to experience .. You have to be a strong minded person to go through your trials and tribulations .. Maybe leaving home maybe the solution to your needs .. and maybe not but if so, do it with a room mate female preferably and not with your boyfriend do it on ur own .. Paying YOUR OWN BILLS.. That how you learn to be a responsible and independent adult .. Your’ll still a young n growing ambitious young lady .. This way ur’ll have ur place n he’ll have his, and if it don’t work out you won’t have to go back home to Mom.. Bec ur’ll already settle into your place.. And don’t feel no way.. Get to no you .. Feel tht freedom of being free just doing you.. No kids !! Enjoying Life traveling seeing the World.. I hope this lil prep talk help you understand the important of finding yourself worth.. Good Luck !! Blessings 🙏🏾 Stay Safe & Healthy and remember To Always Keep GOD 1st .. ❤❤❤❤

[@alese754]

I see where Brooklyn is coming from in certain situations but I feel like she should realize that she’s lucky and be grateful that she has a family that are as aware and concerned as they are some parents or families really don’t care about the well being of the child just the money rolling through and they may take it too far but she should understand that she’s very lucky

[@minibrown6073]

I understand dat but at the same time all they rlly do is set up the camera have they ever actually sat down and talk to her off camera? We’ll never know we only know wha they give us to me it’s like they trying to understand her but they not rlly feeling wha she’s feeling dats how i see it ion.

[@kikimulanmulan1690]

Exactly I know a friend with no parents and I have a close friend who’s adopted so Brooklyn should really be aware and grateful for what she has.

[@Elnfbf]

I cried the part about melmel when Brooklyn started crying 🥲🥲😭

[@Cyrheax]

Same😭

[@EncouragedByYael]

I felt Monique when she said "she was just trying to protect her daughter because when people deal with her they have something to gain." she's just scared and loves her daughter, as well as Deshae! This family is willing and loving, may God be there Peace💞

[@Me-vq7sy]

Brooklyn is adorable. I love how she feels comfortable without makeup and doesn’t have her hair done all the time. Natural beautiful confidence.

[@vohxy5722]

she also childish as hell

[@kikijones2960]

@@vohxy5722 Lmfaoo bogus 😭

[@vohxy5722]

@@kikijones2960 deadass tho

[@aryyy8454]

@@vohxy5722 She’s a child.

[@ronajahthomas5207]

Right she’s literally only 17

[@hallemarie6957]

brooklyn needed this the most, it’s hard to hear how you need to grow and what you need to work on but it’s life💕

[@colorsbyjade3001]

I get what Brooklyn was saying! It seems like whenever Brooklyn says anything they start shutting her down. I feel this way when I’m with my family that’s why I distance myself from them. Brooklyn will eventually do the same.

[@neriahsroku9023]

yes

[@neriahsroku9023]

girls of the family can understand

[@MicYoung]

Bc she sounds impulsive and erratic and overly emotional... She doesn't want constructive criticism and can't handle feedback!

[@Rjlamar-yr3pt]

​@@MicYoungit's negative

[@AdaolisaNwude]

It's not just about distancing yourself. Personally I have gotten to a point where I stay to myself and avoid people.

[@uayee4414]

I think Justin is definitely holding in what he wants to say but he’s afraid to express himself because he doesn’t want any hate or backlash.

[@uayee4414]

@@Caljay213 what do you mean by that

[@loveliistv288]

@@Caljay213 I-

[@uayee4414]

@@loveliistv288 like huh? I’m confused, and little more confused why it got so many likes

[@baileyjones1930]

@@Caljay213 IM CRYINGGGGG 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nsymone]

@@Caljay213 💀

[@Itsdrshannonmichelle]

Justin is doing the right thing. That is family business!!

[@anthonyjones5551]

Mike need to take that lesson

[@l3gendaryz632]

Facts , dam if he do dam if he don’t

[@lola330_]

@@anthonyjones5551 It's different bc Mike lives with them & he is also with their mother, not their sibling. I'm sure Mo wants him to take some parental duties off her shoulder. I think he keeps a pretty good balance of being a parental figure while knowing boundaries & when to let things go. Just look at some of Deshae's pranks. Mike is VERY patient with all of them.

[@antoinettejohnson936]

Then he should of never Been there js

[@nishaxo]

I honestly know the stage of becoming a women that brooklyn is going through and the only way to get her to understand when she's wrong is if you can make her feel not alone ,don't blame her just relate to her like you did with the car. its kind of like a see it to believe it thing but still let her make her own choices cause we all wanna live and learn on our own. MO should definitely grow a relationship with justins mom and learn from her more on the privacy aspect with mel mel and dealing with change with brooklyn too ,y'all can really learn from each other in the smallest ways.

[@daishabrown8376]

This is needed in a lot of African American homes as well…. We don’t think that we need it but we all do with going there family problems!! I’m glad you guys got out all of the tension that was needed to be led out!! I’m so proud of u 🙏🏾😇deshae!!

[@tamairastaples7005]

i can understand things from Brooklyns POV, its very hard trying to take responsibility when you feel like all of the pressure is on you. it’s very stressful when you’re upset because ofc your gonna be on attack mode, you’re find ways to explain yourself but when nobody’s giving the other person a chance to speak, it makes it more difficult to try express yourself so you’ll get frustrated or easily annoyed you know. i feel like w/ Mel Mel to try to understand maybe why he left, you guys should get a therapist have a sit down w/ him without the cameras & try to understand why he left or why he wanted to distance himself!

[@kimberlywilliams1436]

She is so motivated she is going to always get what she wants and that's a good mindset. Her thinking skills will learn along the way as she gets older .

[@yourfavcomedians568]

She just started doing for herself.

[@theeuzu6918]

At this point i feel like they should let Brooklyn do what she wanna do and just except her back when life happens the is nothing better then learning from your own mistakes she is at that age were she thinks she knows it all so let her.

[@morghanfreeman2200]

Lmaoo you sound like my mom 🤣

[@ABBY-cb6zv]

Exactly

[@marthakomondan8229]

Deshae is a great brother, Brooklyn needs to realise he does this because he cares for her, taking the father role!! She should acknowledge how she has a great mother and brother and not take it for granted.

[@kiaasworldd]

Brooklyn is young and learning . She may not get it now but she hears y’all ! Trust me it’ll hit her later in life 💗

[@kekecampbell9538]

This is definitely what they need a therapist so they can talk things out

[@jackienhashae7891]

On Mel Mel: I think Mel Mel hurt because he was the baby of the family. Yet in the middle of his dad leaving then his mom was distracted with Deshae and his career. I remember Monique described in a video about Mel Mel being depressed and wanting to live with his dad. Fame for one child can be hard for another. I think that’s a big part of Mel mels dislike of it. Brooklyn: I think Brooklyn has been struggling because first her dad left. Then Mel Mel. She’s in and out of relationships with guys. She also really struggles with Monique, I think there is some anger and resentment. Deshae I think has had to much responsibility. He had to support his whole family as a child. He took the role of a dad and now is having a hard giving up the role now that it’s not needed.

[@missdestinydenise]

In and out? She’s had 2 relationships … she’s 17 that’s normal 😂😂😂

[@juliapires44]

i definitely agree

[@Abelowaveragegamer]

Mel Mel is older than Brooklyn.

[@lamarjrrj]

Cause she choose Dashae over them

[@lamarjrrj]

He took the role as dad well who fault is that

[@arii5032]

when brooklyn started crying i literally broke down bc she always seems so happy and i can tell she’s hurting☹️❤️

[@yourfavcomedians568]

She probably hurting but she doing it to herself.

[@Ayanniii]

You just changed the game. You don’t even know what you just did. Maybe you do, but I loved everything about this, this is what family is about! Our culture really needs to see this the dynamics of what we were taught will change. 😭

[@faithfuljamie321]

This is one of the most genuine and most beautiful thing ever , to see a family take the time out to have a discussion and invest in a therapist. I love this !🥺

[@lamarjrrj]

This is for KZbin y’all believe everything

[@SympNurseLife]

Bali had a whole nap and woke up completely refreshed after that whole session 😂😂

[@tetee1125]

😂😂😂

[@milochetteazor89]

Right 😂

[@Ashholaay]

Okay when Brooklyn started to cry talking about Mel Mel I definitely shed some tears 🥺

[@Caljay213]

She's a follower. She can't do what Mel Mel does they 2 different people. Mel has a good head on his shoulders. And brook makes decisions on how she feels. She doesn't logically think.

[@aarondaay]

Mel Mel is the middle child right? What happened to him? Haven’t seen him on this channel in years

[@Ashholaay]

@@aarondaay He’s just going to college, living out of the limelight.

[@shireeasia4146]

Me too

[@tyheerahmoore6115]

@@Ashholaay why did he leave the family though? Like why are they distant

[@riccolivoo9178]

you can tell brooklyn really loves and misses mel mel❤️ there bond can never break

[@TunchiiKashh]

Who tf ??

[@hayathashi7986]

@@TunchiiKashh wdym who?? The other brother you probably don’t watch the frost family cuz they have another brother who doesn’t live with them

[@TunchiiKashh]

@@hayathashi7986 oh yeah i been off here for a while

[@hayathashi7986]

@@TunchiiKashh oh okay

[@itslilny3108]

Its Crazy How No Matter What They Say Brooklyn Is The Problem But Everybody Wondering Why She Distancing Herself Or Want To Move Away & Get Her Own Place . Everybody Has To Learn & Grow For Themselves We All Had / Have To Do It . & It All Comes Back To The Respect Which Goes Both Ways You Have To Give Respect To Receive It . I’ve Been Watching Them For The Longest & We All See That Brooklyn Has Grown & Made So Much Progress & Growth Among Herself , Her Family & Others . I Dont Like How Everything Is About What She Did , What She Said , How She Reacted To This , How She Felt About That & Etc . Its Not Right Because They All Did Wrong & They All Hurt One Another But Yet They Only See Her “ Wrong ” Doings , Ya Ok .

[@Bambadiaries]

Justin is right it’s is a family business Justin is very respectful for sure his opinion is not needed

[@Chrryunique]

Y’all need more than one session 😭😭 this was wel needed

[@randysanchez8335]

Man I wish I was their therapist, I got so much to say about each of them that they have to work on

[@charityskidd]

Listennnn

[@angelhamilton8446]

I swear cause that therapist needs some more training or something

[@lamarjrrj]

Right

[@LUCAS-nl3qy]

I’ll be real they need to let Brooklyn make her mistakes she’ll learn from them it’s like a kid touching a stove they get hurt and they understand not to do it again

[@radiashahall2163]

💯

[@reneeprice9133]

True

[@theellisfamilyvlogs2639]

@Donice Gardener i agree its like sometimes kids dnt understand that certain actions can result in u losing ur life and u dnt get a second chance. I wish them all well

[@hopej6614]

@Donice Gardener no it’s the simple fact that it’s not that serious. It’s a camera . She has the money . I’m sure they waste money daily but they blowing it up.

[@j0rdanaj]

Nah but if u can help to not let the kid get burn at all thats better

[@giannibobbitt6409]

Brooklyn reminds me sometimes that it’s ok to cry and express how you feel 🤍

[@Carrfitness]

I watched this and reflect on my family. We were at this point in life. It broke our family and me especially because being a family oriented person all you want is unity. I’m glad God rebuild that structure, he was our therapist. 💕🤞🏾🥺. Thank you for this

[@mbnvee7025]

when brook started crying about melmel I cried with her.

[@richardharvey5064]

He’ll yeah I even went back to go look at the old video’s.. I have feeling he bout appear in video

[@mbnvee7025]

@@richardharvey5064 he was there for thanksgiving back in November

[@unknownvacuumartist4264]

Me too

[@maci3x._]

Time stamp?

[@unknownvacuumartist4264]

@@maci3x._ 23:16

[@YBFG0DiVA]

I love this family so much. I recently started following you, Deshae, when you went to go see your former teacher. I caught a liking for you and your family. I love that you decided to do this with the family. Therapy is so necessary. I feel like the communication was so there in this session and everyone was heard. I love that there’s still so much respect for Mike and Justin who are brought into the family. I think y’all should give Brooklyn a chance to really be her own person and heard. She means well and seems to have great intentions. She knows right from wrong. She knows what will disappoint you and your mom and that alone will make her think before abruptly making spontaneous decisions. But this for a start was dope.

[@rawtruth2017]

Him going to see a former teach is how I came across his channel this was the second video for me....

[@arinika90]

I thought this was another skit, but when Brooklyn started crying talking about her brother, I cried 🥺 and knew it was real

[@serena_bee]

Brooklyn clearly has a lot of growing and maturity to go through. Even when she speaks, it’s not clearly put across. Their is a lot of breaks. I’m not Saying that it’s a bad thing but It gets better with growth. I think social media has a part to play in terms of making these kids feel ohh at this age I gotta do this or that. Kids today need to slow down a bit bro. Listen more. Take advice.

[@maryammaragan]

bro what most of the time we lie abt why we wanna move out we just wanna be alone get away from our family srsly u know how toxic black homes can be at times

[@KaylynnSimone]

Right!

[@Saintclutch1]

Facts very true

[@almightyrico7594]

This is hilarious but sad and real af at the same time. Prayers to the frost family I really hope y’all make it right cause family is everything and watching y’all throughout the years is like I’m part of the family too. 🙏🏽

[@jashay91]

Monique definitely should be respected and appreciate more by all her kids she put them in possession periodt and gave them life the disrespect has to stop. Deshae is very smart he joke a lot but he takes from his dad they tell the truth. Brooklyn enjoy what you have and your life and learn the easy way not the hard way.

[@unknown_bandit9329]

💯

[@smoovereakdaplug7241]

I love the fact that, y’all had got a therapist to help y’all out with everything. That fr made my day fasho because some families that go thru things, they won’t get help and they will just let things get worse but I am happy that y’all had went and got the therapy session and I am happy that it works and I am glad to see everybody getting along and back on good terms again. Deshae I mess with you bro frfr and I am happy and proud of y’all man and god is going to keep blessing you and your family fasho bro✊🏾💪🏽💯💯👌🏾🙏🏾

[@BELLAALLURE860]

15 mins in and it seems like a Brooklyn intervention. They relying on Justin too much for answers. They want him to take responsibility for Brooklyn's behave or actions. They focused on the wrong person. Honestly, if she earned the money and spending it on perfecting her craft, there shouldn't be an issue. It's her money and she spending on something valuable. I agree with Deshae with the lack of parenting. Seem like Brooklyn wanted to call her mom a hater..lol Control and communication seems to be the main issues here. After they mentioned stealing Bali, I no longer took the conversation serious. Deshae doesn't take anything serious. Brooklyn energy doesn't matches their, which is probably why she isn't happy in the home. Wait how old is Mel? He has his own apartment that Mo's paying for and he doesn't want to contribute..lol wow Basically what Mel has (his own space and distance from the family) Brooklyn wants. If they let Mel live on his own at a young age they are being hypocrites. Mo really left that young boy in a house alone, with no parental guidance. Crazy!! Deshae bought all that equipment and never used it. Hypocrite!!

[@NaiyasWorld]

BRO YOU JUST WENT IN🤣🤣🤣

[@natasha7406]

Factsss!!

[@morieonnalynn8795]

i like you ! you get it

[@TinaOmar]

YOU ATE

[@bblaccck15]

Dayum you got time todya

[@chelseag6252]

Finally a therapist video, allot goes on throughout this family. It’s very much needed❤️

[@brendapowell6645]

Session was pretty good. All points was for sure valid and needed. Brooklyn wants to grow individually and feels like her own space would be a good choice for her mental. I don't agree on making impulsive decisions on temporary feelings. Like just because her and her mom is going at it at the moment. Mo needed to put her foot down a long time ago. The reason she is feeling like they don't listen is because she's a friend-mom. Deshae was really level headed in this session, that boy growing 👏

[@riondrumz8399]

I respect this video so much. Everyone is coping and dealing in their own way but the key of all of this is the communication amongst each other, if y’all could listen and hear each other out a little bit better then that could be the first little steps……relationship, family, friends we gotta learn how to say I apologize for how I hurt you in this certain situation and just accept it after telling your side and when you express yourself let it be known that it was never an intention of yours to hurt that person but simply you just wanted the best for them or needed them to understand where you were coming from and your point of view on things. Everybody can agree that most of the topics that were shared and expressed in this video was mainly happened and rooted from emotion. Sometimes we escalate things and blame the other party for a misunderstanding that we realize after the fact! Also y’all should have a session off camera with just deshae, mo, Mel Mel, and Brooklyn to rekindle things in that area and find out ways that y’all can get him into being on camera without sparking tensions to where he’s just like I don’t want to all the time maybe get him on camera in family sports challenges or mukbangs….yk something that he’s into and give him a heads up, yk hey Mel Mel I think this would be cool and fun for us to do as a family……there is a way for everything to be done you just have to understand both sides and stop going at each other’s necks and work as a team. Then talk to him about what y’all could do to get him out to LA more or y’all could go visit him more. It’s all about knowing what you have….literally y’all are a family and no matter what any of y’all go through whether it be breakups, depression, venting…..please realize that y’all are family and that’s all y’all need at the end of the day when everyone else has turned their backs on you because family gon ride, and family always comes back together no matter how many times they bump heads there is still a deep love somewhere that will forever be trapped in your heart. Remember that y’all all will definitely need a safe space and shoulder to cry on when all else fails and every body leaves you to rot and collect dust your FAMILY is going to dust you off and bring the brand new out of you!!

[@millah_knows_b3st]

even through some videos were jokes, its a real issue that this family have to fix. so I hope if they stick with this therapist that she's just taking notes and absorbing how they communicate to be able to break down how to fix it in different sessions. like dont always be fixed on one person, and set rules for communication, and give them things they can practice on etc...

[@Dramafree2266]

Right she has a good dude . Better then the girls deshae date or her moms bf

[@serena_bee]

It’s hard on Mo, I felt her pain as she spoke concerning Mel Mel. Parents really do want the best for us and their really isn’t a book guiding them on how to do parenting. Their methods vary and and they really do their best.

[@shantiealexander3057]

Brooklyn tlking abt her brother brought tears to my eyes😭😭🥺🥺🥺i love this family frl frl

[@dejapatino]

Y’all have to know that the,therapist wants to get to know everyone it’s her first time she’s meeting everyone ,she getting to know everyone .Of course Deshae is invested in his family doing good .We have to remember he wants what’s best for his family and he wants his family together , so yes he will makes sense when he was speaking because he’s old enough to look at the situation from a different point of view and make sense of it.He also wants his family to be together which is what a family is about,but this is just my perspective of seeing things but everyone always has a different way of seeing things.

[@yashedaeccleston2370]

In every video brooklyn "I'm almost 18"😅you still young girl, you'll eventually get your freedom sweetie. Frost family💕miss y'all happy videos together

[@seph-ora]

She never says her age when she was 16 she would say I’m almost 17

[@romainemontrelle9632]

She needs to slow down

[@michelled.6001]

I think this session helped, and I commend Deshae for arranging it and the family participating. But. I don't understand why Brooklyn needs to move on her own so fast. When I was her age I was preoccupied by senior year activities and preparing for college. I also don't understand why these kids can just do whatever they want. Mel Mel simply left when he felt like leaving and it was just okay, he got his own house. Mo still pays all his bills but he tells her how sh!t is gonna go. Brooklyn just gets up and leaves too, but she gets a car. Etc. Monique just wrings her hands and says she can't do anything with her kids. Deshae is the only one that at least waited until he was 18 and had graduated high school to move out, and he listens. I don't understand what happened with Mel and Brook, like I literally don't get it. I am your mom and I pay all your bills, and you're a minor, but you get to tell me what's what and you don't have to do anything I say or have any responsibility to the family. You just do whatever you want on my dime, cuss in my presence, and disregard my wishes or advice unless you want to listen. Am I missing something? Because I am baffled.. 😳

[@kekemarie-rn8cc]

Right being 18 doesn’t change nothing ur mentality still the same u still the same person u were the day before ur bday. It’s just legally different things and consequences. There 22 year olds that are grown but not mentally grown

[@yashedaeccleston2370]

@@kekemarie-rn8cc exactly am 22 and when I was her age I had the same mindset like her, but I guess when she get older she will definitely understand what her mom and deshae was tryna tell her. Honestly she need to stop rushing to grow up and enjoy her young life.

[@madisonmonroe4788]

Everyone expresses their self differently if you have been watching them from day one Brooklyn has matured a lot there’s a lot that still needs to happen and a lot of growing there’s people that’s grown that still haven’t dun what she has accomplished age doesn’t mean anything if she says she’s ready for her own place let her see how it is to really live and cope without help . Everyone has emotions everyone deals with them differently

[@chantaycross4180]

My thing is like .. mike thinks mo isn’t strong enough to handle her own problems.. like if she’s getting threatened or someone is putting there hands on her then yeah you jump in but other than that he should back up and let her handle her problems.. mo is a grown woman she knows how to deal with her problems unless she asks for help … mike is just making the whole situation bigger than it has to be .. and he lowkey gets angry a lot .. he says he’s chill but he’s not .. and wanting to protect them is great but controlling them and thinking you run everything now just because your dating there mom is crazy … and I agree with deshae when he said that he thinks Mike is in his moms ear because he kind of is … like it really doesn’t have that much to do with you .. like it probably have few parts to do with you but it’s there family bruh not yours.. and I was exited about Mike coming in the family but now I just feels like there’s more problems than before.. and to be honest you don’t kick out your child no matter how disrespectful they were Monique.. and that was disappointing that Monique is just letting this happen…and y’all need to let Brooklyn grow she’s not an adult yet but she ..will be 18

[@millieclairr]

You can tell Mo was bothered when Mike said he brought structure. He was like unintentionally coming for her parenting and you can tell she shut down hearing that. And when Brooklyn started crying I started crying too😭 because you can really tell she was hurt. I’m happy Justin is there for her.

[@naetagirl3355]

I do feel like they attack Brooklyn with a lot, but they’re not noticing that she such a motivational person even when she’s not tryin. Her video when she went to look at apartments I watched it. I’m 17 too and I turn 18 in 2 months. She motivated me to go look at apartments and that exactly what I did. And even though she did buy the car even her having a car at 17 it makes me wanna go look for a car and get a car. She motivates me to want to be more and more independent not sayin I’m not but that’s why I watch her. No telling how many other people she’s motivating.

[@whoisshak4211]

Brooklyn take it one day at a time and don't rush to go on your own because out there is not a easy road your family want what is best for you and want you to be happy.

[@AbigailFatuma]

DESHAE ALWAYS DO STUFF TO MAKE HIS FAMILY BETTER!

[@Ashholaay]

I absolutely understand what Brooklyn is saying about environment but it does start with yourself.

[@graciaaloma86]

Yes, but if YOU change and the environment isn’t bringing you any happiness or any positive energy, then… . You can change Yourself, but if the environment is actually affecting your mental negatively then you have to try to put yourself into another environment to actually see if it’s you or something else, you know? Like how she was saying she’ll have ideas and her mom always have something negative to say, like the couple channel, that gets tiring and makes you not to be around the person.

[@itssierra1040]

@@graciaaloma86 exactly

[@Ashholaay]

@@graciaaloma86 Trust me, I completely understand what she means. My environment my entire life has been negative and discouraging but I had to force myself to keep my mind right. A different environment is like the icing on a cake you can make from scratch.

[@syd5831]

She just wanna be independent and I feel like she’s growing and she needs to see the world on her own they won’t be able to keep protecting her all the time out implement the things in her that would lead her in the right path. But they gotta accept that she’s getting older and have an open mind about everything.

[@AdaolisaNwude]

The fact that your own people can be negative speaks volumes. Brooklyn is an amazing person because if that was me and everyone was treating me that way on camera, I would have walked away because there is so much a person can take...because when you hear your people say they hate you that hurts

[@chawandswatkins9885]

Brooklyn done made me cry, I love her

[@iammiraclekiara]

I honestly love this! My family has been falling apart a lot and if we were able to do this and have someone come help us that would make me so happy. ♥️ keep going!

[@briannabee9926]

honestly feel the same way about my family too. we need intervention too

[@wealthy5702]

Get it done girl! Life is too short! Get a trustworthy Christian counsellor who can help and also pray with y’all

[@iammiraclekiara]

My family is STUBBORN I don’t even think we all can sit in the same room anymore. It’s unfortunate but I will try everything until it’s right!

[@serena_bee]

Brooklyn does feel attacked, and I can relate to that because I was that way when things didn’t go my way or make sense to me when I was younger. But your mom wants the best for you, No doesn’t mean fail it’s for your protection. It’s best to listen and weigh wise words in your quiet moments. I also get what Deshae is saying about Justin, as a partner it is also your responsibility to put in your two cents don’t say it’s not your family so u can’t speak upon it. Advice Brooklyn, don’t be afraid. I love u guys and I really do want to see you guys prosper. 🙏🏽❣️

[@UnghettoMathieu]

“just a couch & a TV” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@metrohussein784]

Tv on the floor too😂

[@dejonae.xo_]

😂😂😂😂

[@nazjai9333]

Its brooklyn thinking shes grown at 17 for me lmaoo I was the exact same way, I’m 24 now & all I can do is laugh at my past self

[@lalacuttino2960]

This right here !!

[@Tia_Aliyah]

💯💯

[@lifewithkix2890]

Well she’s just gonna have live and learn that’s what life’s about she will eventually look bck and think the same thing

[@lamarjrrj]

Girl that’s you not her

[@nazjai9333]

@@lamarjrrj 17 is not grown lmao dont matter who it is.

[@1summerrayy]

Brooklyn with this “almost 18” 😂😂

[@krevers7436]

Istgggg😭

[@superwisewomenmaga9727]

When she get there she'll see but if she's matured you know and move the right way she'll definitely be successful as her growth go

[@sharredavidson712]

The funny thing is she have been saying this a month after turning 17😅😅

[@slimtina]

Girl it’s so freaking aggravating because I don’t want to hear my 9 yr old saying this in the future 🤣🤣🤣🙄🙄

[@kamsyheaven]

That’s what I said 😭😭

[@Elnfbf]

This therapist looks like an actress 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@najmoabdulle5564]

Big facts man loool

[@hayathashi7986]

Fr

[@Elnfbf]

Still entertaining and the family issues are real so imma watch. Most the issues were around Brooklyn 😭😭

[@Elnfbf]

How they roasting each other during the session 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@queensfamily1449]

Fr

[@malik20221]

WOW Brooklyn made me cry. I don't remember the last time I ever cried for real.

[@tinkofficial6740]

Omg same

[@nenecoltrane4260]

Brooklynnnn🥺they really made me cry talking about Mel Mel cause I been realized that she missed her brother but I also remember me being 17 and trying to find my way in the world. I’m really praying Brooklyn continues to grow within herself without losing her inner beauty and strength. I have all the faith in her cause I know how strong she is❤️‼️🥺

[@melanietorres6497]

bali is so calm, i love how she just falls asleep on her own.

[@Vina_559]

Brooklyn made me cry🙁💞 im so proud of this family and what they have come to and am happy for what they have to come in the future

[@pkg9804]

Y’all rely on Justin too much to discipline Brooklyn. He is not her father , why get on him because she wants to spend 3k on a camera? . Blaming him for her actions, depending on him to tell her no when she don’t even listen to her mom when its y’all who raised her that way

[@missdestinydenise]

Exactly!!!!

[@corshashanbria]

Because she relys on him.

[@yourfavcomedians568]

They asked for his help because she listen to him over her mom.

[@misswick3d]

@@yourfavcomedians568 & that’s when he need to step in and tell her about herself about relying on him to make her choices.

[@kashanawhidby1159]

Its cool to see the family utilizing therapy to work through their issues. God bless!

[@bigenergy369]

I feel De'shae he worked hard to put his family on and provide so they can have the things they have. Justin that's your lady at the end of the day you should make sure she's making the right decisions. Mo deserve way more respect then she gets from Brooklyn! Brooklyn if I was you I would not try to rush out the house it's big space and that gives you time to really save your young. Know that your mom will never steal you wrong she just wants what's best for you! ❤️ Don't rap your life around a relationship. Mike get the structure going that's most important.

[@Trose.6]

Brooklyn and I are very similar. However i feel like, if her family know how she is & that she always wants to do things her way then they should let her. There’s certain people that don’t learn from people telling them and instead need to go through experiences themselves. If things go wrong, be there and support her but a person with a mentality such as Brooklyn needs freedom but support when that freedom backfired etc

[@dreevans9194]

Not how y’all ganging up on Brooklyn, and I applaud Justin for sitting there💪🏽

[@lolmaria9374]

Brooklyn made me cry😭

[@janetmatutu5797]

Brooklyn low-key tried to manipulate the whole "I'm not your family" situation. Justine just be catching stray bullets and it's sad bro

[@dashaskingdom6146]

I loved this video bc I used to be just like Brooklyn such as holding my emotions in and everything like that,, love the growth stay blessed💯❤️❤️

[@Hillaryscofi]

Deshea is just too Amazing, family First

[@followingdeonna6259]

This was great! Mel Mel you are so loved and missed! I hope they can respect his wishes and visit and not record as much around him. I love the Frost Gang!!! Wish you so much success!! ❤️

[@mylifesamilly]

Y’all just need to let Brooklyn grow. Y’all are giving her good advice on adult life and when a pre adult (about to turn 18) most times they can’t wait to be on their own and think life is a cake walk. Just let her experience life and learn how to win and lose on her own. I was in her situation and now that I’m older, I see exactly what my mother was saying to me. Just support her on her journey.

[@Elnfbf]

Yhh they need to let her make her own mistakes. They can advice but they can’t control her

[@ashleymariecoleman7158]

Look at Bali’s Face it’s priceless! They put her to sleep 😴 Much prayers for healing & reconciliation for you and your family ✨🙏💕❤️💗

[@nkosi232]

LoL she just watching the family tea 🍵 ✨

[@alondravelasco4694]

Love this . This is awesome. Definitely everyone needs someone to talk to about things from time to time. ❤ great job for being smart and helping your family out. 👏

[@aminadieng503]

Their love for each other really shows. Hopefully y’all will be alright❤️