I HAD A BABY IN PRISON Q&A | YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED!

[@JessicaKent]

A question I forgot to answer is ..Did I name my child. Yes. I signed the birth certificate the day she was born. She is named after my brother Michael ❤ Candle link compassionatecandleco.square.site/

[@MJ-gc3gf]

The candle link do you have it?

[@JessicaKent]

It's in the description box 🙂

[@biancasnyman25]

@@JessicaKent I can't seem to find it

[@JessicaKent]

Pinned it 🙂

[@radicalfilmz647]

Hey

[@seekingeudaimonia6884]

What people don’t realize is, after immediate physical withdrawal, there is something called, post acute withdrawal syndrome. What this means is you mentally and physically withdrawal for up to a year after stopping drugs. Which is why you aren’t supposed to date or make huge decisions for up to a year, be gentle with yourself. Not only did, Jess, suffer from Post partum depression, she was still in withdrawal, and in prison. This woman is a powerhouse to be able to stay clean throughout all of this, when drugs are so easily accessible in prison. She adapted and overcame. She is extraordinary! A true queen bee

[@Cate7451]

👑👑👑🐝🐝🐝

[@EmEm78]

From personal experience, PAWS makes it so, so hard not to relapse. It drags on and on for so long and makes you not want to be alive. To get through that is so damn hard. There needs to be more awareness surrounding PAWS, and decent treatments figured out.

[@EmEm78]

@Carrie McClure I had it badly from a Tramadol addiction too. It's hell.

[@HeatherLeiigh]

@@EmEm78 whooaa! You can get addicted to tramadol!? I neverrr knew that! Becuase technically its not what they consider a controlled substance!

[@Steph.Robinson]

@@HeatherLeiigh you can get addicted to a lot of non controlled substances, codeine is highly addictive. Also with tramadol being an opiate (morphine) it's highly addictive, I have degenerative disk disease which has caused nerve damage in my neck and I am on 3forms of morphine, diazapam and other meds to try and control the pain as it's something that is only going to get worse, it started 17 yrs ago and I'm only 38

[@madisonfritz9561]

I have absolutely nothing in common with you. I’ve never done drugs, I’ve never been to prison, and I’ve never had a kid. But you make me so happy. Your videos make my days. And I also have realized that addicts are not criminals, they are sick. And sick people need medical treatment. I’ve learned so much from your videos and I just wanted to say thank you for everything you are doing.

[@edsawarenesschannel]

I am exactly the same! I love Jess even though I have nothing in common with her

[@tonijones727]

@@edsawarenesschannel I'm a fellow zebra! I love jess and her videos too! It helps distract me when I'm in hospital for whatever stay it is and her videos kept me fighting. For whatever reason I feel like I'm being encouraged just by watching her videos and thats non related xx

[@edsawarenesschannel]

Toni Jones I feel the same! I am in hospital at the moment and KZbin is keeping me sane

[@maryernst9189]

I’m in the same boat!! Absolutely love her and her videos and never been in her shoes!!

[@clarab325]

Literally same!

[@sarahdemarrero3520]

It's absolutely crazy to me how the prison system thinks they should have the authority to go against doctor's orders. Not letting you walk, taking away your postpartum recovery tools - it's cruel and dangerous

[@Author.Noelle.Alexandria]

In the US, people behind bars have no rights, and it's disgusting! That's why prisons can, and do, disregard medical orders. This needs to go before a sane SCOTUS, not the disaster we have now, to restore basic human rights.

[@Nashwan660]

I thought the same too.

[@FlickeringEmber]

Especially in such a litigious country as America; I'd have thought they'd play things by the book in case of being sued, even if they don't actually care one bit for the inmate/patient's welfare. And I'm amazed doctors aren't allowed to overrule them either. I had also wondered why as a compromise, they couldn't give the things they took away from you to the hospital medical staff to administer eg if they took the squirty bottle away in case they thought you'd make hooch in it or something, having you use it and then hand it back to the medical staff would at least mean you'd get some of the benefits you were meant to get...

[@mlwsmp]

@@Author.Noelle.Alexandria They're all just awful. NOT A SINGLE ONE gives any shits about the human population. Only their own pockets and power. It's truly disgusting. Prisons are for profit institutions! I just can't.

[@princessaur]

And it's majority the same people who claim to be "pro-life" who will also say "shouldn't have committed a crime then" to defend treating a pregnant woman this way if she's in prison.

[@jy840]

So they don’t give you an option to terminate the pregnancy, then they proceed to not do whatever they can to ensure the baby makes it to term safely (you know, treating the mother like a regular inmate). That’s actual child endangerment on a daily basis and the fact that they get away with that is deplorable. Like actual crime against humanity being committed.

[@foreverwander0320]

Yep. I bet they consider themselves “pro life,” too.

[@AnnJo24224]

​@@foreverwander0320thanks God, the baby saved her life, she repent for her hurting others, you don't know how many died from her hand drugs

[@irisl4498]

I have a bachelor‘s in social work and I get LIVID every time I hear you say your case worker discouraged you. We are our client‘s advocates and should ALWAYS work with them to improve their lives!

[@emilyward4388]

Yes!! Case workers should be your hype man to get your life together & give you tips of what you need to do. My sisters case worker was her cheerleader which was awesome in my eyes, it made my sister feel more like a human and gave her hope to change that her caseworker believed in her so much.

[@irisl4498]

Melissa Stephan I‘m not from the US but from a Country with a moderate socialist background (Austria, I live and work in the capital Vienna, which has been under a majority leftwing government for DECADES) and this is not how I‘ve seen our system work. Yes, I‘ve seen burnt out social workers, social workers who have grown more or less indifferent due to being on that job for too long, social workers having racial biases etc. But we always ALWAYS work under the premise of "if you can take care of your kid, GOOD. Amazing. How can we assure that your child‘s safety/well-being after XYZ problem(s) that came up in the past?" The political background that we work under is SO important. Strong worker’s unions are important. Voting is important.

[@kennie727]

@@irisl4498 please correct me if I’m wrong, because I want to learn more about this and this is my understanding. But does Austria’s ‘cps’ (child protection services) assist and help parents who have had a case opened against them? Like to help them keep their child, and keep that child safe happy and healthy? If that’s the case, that’s amazing, and interested about if other countries are going to start following this... I’m from Toronto Ontario, Canada (Sociallist country and federally left wing, our ‘governers’ right wing) and our CPS seems like they do whatever they can to get children away from their parents...

[@irisl4498]

@@kennie727 it strongly depends on the case. We have a general rule that is called „das gelindeste Mittel“ which means the least invasive intervention possible to secure the child’s safety should be made. If that is not enough, more drastic measures need to be taken. Which means that if there is no immediate danger, the child will remain in the family and the family will get extramural support by a social worker or a social pedagogue. If the child’s well-being is still not secured by this, the child will be taken into custody, at least for a while. There are conferences (at least) once or twice a year per case to check in of the child can return into the parents‘ custody.

[@Echo-yk1id]

I agree with you, but sometimes people are just trying to manage people's expectations and help them be realistic. This lady is an exception in a lot of cases, I'm kind of glad in a way because it seems like she worked hard to prove those people wrong. But yeah, I hope she is educating other people now that it can be done and change attitudes.

[@cm5846]

Jessica is beyond strong. She lived through the most difficult circumstances and still achieved such good things in life. She's the epitome of 'life gets better if you work for it'

[@sheenam5743]

They were not only treating you horribly, they were treating your baby horribly. Your baby should have had the best care possible which means you should have been treated properly. Teared up hearing you say your little girl saved your life, that was just amazing.

[@foreverwander0320]

I don’t think I’ll ever understand the reasoning that shackles a person to her hospital bed, right after labor, when they’re in prison for a non-violent crime. It’s cruel.

[@louisegraham157]

You committed a crime, deal with the consequences... you lose your freedom

[@juliaadkins39]

@@louisegraham157 that is absolutely not the energy we should have towards a women who just gave birth. It was a non-violent crime so there is no reason someone should be shackled to a bed and be denied walking around. I hope you never end up in a situation like that because you’d then feel differently.

[@kathrynboucher2108]

It’s unfortunately what they have to do for all prisoners in hospitals. I’m a nurse and although I don’t work in labor and delivery, I have had many patients who were prisoners. I had a patient and prisoner (also non violent) who was so sick it took 2-3 people to get him out of bed and he was still shackled to the bed or chair. I had to fight for the guards to switch the metal shackles to big plastic zipties because the patient’s legs were so severely swollen that the metal was cutting into his ankles.

[@louisegraham157]

@@juliaadkins39 Just because they’re “non violent” doesn’t mean they won’t do anything else... if you didn’t want to end up in that situation then I guess you shouldn’t have broken the law.. shame. I won’t end up in that situation because I won’t break the law, it really is that simple.

[@juliaadkins39]

@@kathrynboucher2108 that is awful :( I’m so sorry that you’ve had to see that happen but I’m so happy to hear that you fight for your patients. I don’t know what the correct answer to this all is because on one hand it can be a safety issue but they also are still just people who need help. I think reforming the prison system is a necessary thing.

[@heneedsomemilk4194]

Man i cant wait till your book comes out i really want to read it love what you stand for and your videos stay healthy and stay sober

[@bobbit5670]

When does it come out ??

[@southside.lesbian]

Yessss I can’t wait!!

[@dianad4720]

Have to comment here because I want to read the book too!

[@thenation1575]

Just to troll 'Whatever that looks like to you'- Jess' sign off

[@katie4335]

Did you have mood swings while you were pregnant with Micah

[@sarahisbell1918]

Well really it wasn’t “justifiabley so” for the nurse to treat you crappy because you were an active user and just found out you’re pregnant. They should be there to help. But they aren’t. That’s what present day you is here to help change 🤍

[@JessicaKent]

Absolutely!

[@EmEm78]

That was exactly what I was thinking. She needed support, not judgement.

[@frickfrack7075]

It's also YOUR JOB in the healthcare field so be non judgemental, and only be there to HELP. Period. So many people do not belong in this field because of that very reason! I'm sober of 6 years, and I still attend an outpatient program through my medical center in my town, and let me tell you how disgusted I am to get nurses that still treat me rudely because of an addiction I had 6 years ago! And I can tell you, from that experience, how hard it was to WANT to stay sober when my nurses were still treating me like a junkie. Extremely discouraging! Thing is, you don't understand what led people to use in the beginning. It is NOT as simple as "just a choice" and that's extremely detrimental to recovering addicts. Just a choice obviously leads you to believe there was ever a choice, but there isn't. Trauma induces addiction. Not choices.

[@sarahvand3628]

@@frickfrack7075 you go girl. And yep 100% I have worked in healthcare and its amazing how many shitty ppl work there! I always looked at everyone equally. And treated them equally and with kindness. Some people even got angry over that because they had bias for one reason or another. Its really high school all over again. It should be patient focused. I would never work under such conditions again but I was very young. And they further abused that by making me do all the work even though we were equally employed and no one was superior over anyone else (unless a boss was there) I hope you are doing well xoxo

[@sarahvand3628]

Some nurses and doctors even can be JUST AWFUL

[@PenTangleify]

"You don't know how strong you are until you have no choice other than to be strong." GIRL. My journey is so different from yours but you've been such a great resource for me since getting sober and getting out of a dysfunctional life and relationship. Thank you.

[@faeriesmak]

That’s amazing! Stay strong and have a great week. I don’t know you but I am super proud of your accomplishments.

[@mackenziesmith3412]

The fact that they wouldn't even let you keep all of the care items given to you by the hospital to help you recover is absolutely disgusting. US Prisons are human rights violations

[@rachelbuster2826]

They aren't designed to be fun, good places. People go to prison for doing evil things. There are unfortunately acceptions to this but jail isn't meant to be a nice place. In any way.

[@ariankirby1604]

@@rachelbuster2826 Well that depends on what you think the point of prison is. Do you think prison is meant to punish or rehabilitate? If you look at the prison system in Sweden compared to the US, their recidivism is way down and they give inmates tons of freedom. Not being free is punishment in itself. The US actually wants to keep their inmates because it means more money. Human rights don’t need to be violated to ensure punishment.

[@Piscoandmartinis]

@@rachelbuster2826 acceptions??? Dude you deserve to go to jail just for that...

[@lostheartslostminds]

@@rachelbuster2826 I hope you end up in the wrong place at the wrong time so you learn the hard way that not all people in jail or prison are "evil" how you say.

[@juliaadkins39]

@@rachelbuster2826 Of course prisons shouldn’t be a cool fun place but to not allow someone to stand up against doctors orders and then not allow certain care items after birth is absolutely insane. Prisoners are just people who have made mistakes and bad choices. Prison should be about rehabilitation and treating them as human beings should be the start.

[@tristajones5854]

❤️❤️❤️ Have you ever considered a collaboration with mama dr Jones? Talking about your recent infertility for #3 or the prison pregnancy with her would be so amazing!

[@88SasquatchBabe]

Yess!! Honestly an interview would be sooo amazing!

[@PrettyBlueFlowers]

Oh yes this would be amazing! Would you mind if I linked this video to her on Twitter? She may see it and want to chat, it would be so cool to watch :)

[@samg873]

@@PrettyBlueFlowers she reacted to the prison video last week

[@teresahill644]

She was on an episode of mama Dr Jones briefly. She's interviewed about giving birth in prison. That's where I first saw Jessica. Love your channels your vlogs your shorts all your content is wonderful!!! Thank You for being such a good role model and source of inspiration ❤ God Bless You And Family Jessica

[@FlickeringEmber]

With the way you were treated as a prisoner, it's even more amazing that you managed to come through it so well and rehabilitated. I'm not saying we should make prisons like holiday camps but cruelty and negligence don't help inmates to heal/rehabilitate etc.

[@kyr656]

Jess, I can't remember if you've ever been asked before... Greys Anatomy; season 13 episode 10. Three surgeons went into a hospital to help a pregnant 16yr old in a women's prison. They made a point of pressing the guards to remove her leg chains and many parts your story reminded me of it. The medical team within the prison was swamped, she barely got any extra food, they were shocked that she was only allotted 24 hours with her baby... I don't know if it would be too triggering to watch, obviously it's heavily dramatized, but I bet it would make an interesting reaction video if you're comfortable! The episode stands alone- all you need to know is that 3 surgeons are headed to help an incarcerated pregnant teen.

[@mione134]

That episode really had me shook. It was realistic and thats why it really hit home.

[@kyr656]

Mione134 it’s honestly one of my favorite episodes of the show. It hit hard! They made an effort to highlight the injustices that prisoners face- it was heartbreaking. This poor 16 year old made one mistake (crime undisclosed but it was maximum security and assumed to be violent)... but she truly lost everything. She committed her crime but she’s a pregnant child, giving birth alone in prison. O u c h.

[@sophiejade1439]

This episode was so eye opening !

[@alondramulero5915]

I seen that episode too. & i really was happy that one of the surgeons were considerate with her. ❤

[@alyssaextraordinair]

There was a girl I knew in jail who turned grey with an eptotic (sp) pregnancy. She was saying she felt like she was dying. They didn’t listen and she nearly did. So sad.

[@carolwildman7523]

Really

[@kaelarose9351]

My cousin who is now 4 is adopted and his birth mother had him in prison. Hearing your story breaks my heart thinking about what she most likely went through.

[@haileybellmore1687]

As a social worker I'm so sorry no one helped you fight for your daughter. I worked with addicts who had gone to prison and lost their kids and always encouraged them to fight and work for their children. I was always trying to be there #1 supporter as my job im there no matter what to help them no matter what. I'm so glad you're in a better situation

[@ari-tw5vx]

Ugh, you are such an Inspiration. I lost my child to CPS and after a year I got her back. It's such a lonely feeling, I couldn't imagine how you felt.. You bring tears to my eyes every time you talk about this. You are courageous and even more for sharing your life online. 💜

[@lynncrf]

So happy you got your child back!

[@shawneef269]

I lost my child also from being born talks positive and I'm happy to say that I've got him back and closed my case on October 2nd so I totally relate to you thank you for sharing

[@ari-tw5vx]

@@shawneef269 thatd amazing! Congrats, I'm proud of you 💜 it's not easy at all!

[@laurenmorgan881]

I learned quickly, CPS isn't there o help U as they claim. Don't tell them shit unless asked. Talking to much, and agreeing to do whatever only makes them more liable to keep messing with U, and take ur kid. I only spoke when spoken to by my rude caseworker, and even than I was short and very to the point. She didn't care about me, wasn't my friend, wasn't there to help, only doing her job.

[@ari-tw5vx]

@@laurenmorgan881 I agree and disagree. Some, but few social works actually want to help. Definitely know your rights!

[@amandacastro1783]

I never knew inmates couldn’t chose whether or not to keep a pregnancy. I strongly believe this should be changed. This sounds like a huge problem.

[@mag-narwhal]

I agree like is it more expensive? And an that's 1less child who dosent need care

[@madysonrene1812]

you can’t force someone to have an abortion.

[@mollyarmatomcdaniel6146]

@@madysonrene1812 of course not, but forcing them to stay pregnant is just as cruel. everyone should be given a CHOICE.

[@juliaadkins39]

@@madysonrene1812 That is the point exactly! You can not force someone to stay pregnant. That’s just cruel

[@theragi2387]

I love that she had the heart to fight for her baby even in prison with people discouraging her.

[@carolgardner5116]

YOU ARE ONE STRONG LADY....just wanting your daughter back gave you the strength to fight, look now how precious she is, she will always be your saving grace...Bless you for all you went through...could not imagine....Bless your whole family.(HUGS)...YES YOUR BOOK CAN,T WAIT

[@KiKianaKi]

Would you ever want to do a video with the foster parents? I’d love to get their side of the story and what it was like watching you fight your case from their perspective

[@sarahvand3628]

Omg that would be so cool

[@amandaholley8068]

We have had 3 inmates at the local jail who have died of medical neglect over the last 2 years. Thank you for sharing Micah and Riley with us. They are so precious with the cutest personalities!

[@ally5222]

This is terrifying because going to the bathroom is SO important after delivery. If you have a full bladder it can off set your uterus not allowing it to contract and you can hemorrhage. That correctional officer should be fired, I’m so sorry that happened

[@blakethekilljoy]

Ikr, in normal hospitals they dont let you leave or do much of anything until they see you "go" so why tf should this be any different?? So inhumane.

[@sheilarough236]

You are so blessed that you turned your life around and gained custody of your child. My nephew & 2 older nieces were adopted out of foster care by my sister. Their biological mother couldn’t/wouldn’t fight her addictions to get back her children and her addictions eventually took her life.

[@piavanheijningen-dsouza2501]

I just had my little boy 7 weeks ago; your story is so moving and inspiring, youre incredible because you worked to turn your life around. Children are the biggest motivators.

[@taylercornelius9011]

I wanted to say something in regards to the nurses. I worked as a corrections nurse and it was horrible, the corrections officers and the nurses I worked with were so horrible to me due to the fact I treated inmates like people. I was "too nice" so they ran me off and I ended up getting fired for "insighting a riot" no joke. Such bs that they literally tell u to treat the inmates like shit. So maybe some of the nurses were forced to act that way but thats y I was not cut out for it

[@JessicaKent]

I know they do that..ive seen so many good officers and nurses ran off. Ty for your kindness! ❤❤❤

[@mefford67]

*I am heartsick over the death of a black man in jail due to a perforated ulcer. He BEGGED for help, passed out repeatedly, was ashen and extremely sweaty and the CHARGE NURSE refused to even take his vitals! As a former first responder I am LIVID!* 😡

[@emilygraham2460]

that's why my mom left. She was a nurse at the county jail and she said it was horrible- always getting put down because she was actually nice to other human beings. Inmates did something wrong, but they aren't any less human because of it. Thank you for being so nice

[@sybilwohadlo]

When I was pregnant in Michigan prison I was in a unit for the elderly and pregnant. So there was like maybe 20 pregnant wemon at most times. Was it the same for you. I had a spinal headache from crying so hard on the way back to the prison after I had the baby. No pain meds. Worst pain ever

[@josielorraine8017]

Yes-they treat pregnant women terribly in jail. It’s awful...they don’t want pregnant women as it costs too much money it’s horrible 😭 I got sober August 21, 2011...being a mom truly is the best. 💜

[@meahdahlgren5875]

❤❤

[@snoozyq9576]

Im so glad there are people like you brave enough to share. I had no idea how truly bad things were for mothers in prison. Just unimaginable.

[@KittyxKult]

I work in social work in family preservation and do a lot of reunification and I love seeing mothers who fight like hell to get custody back and end up as such great moms (dads, too!)

[@rachelleswain1034]

As someone who has family that went through something similar im really proud of you for getting your life together and regaining custody and trying to be a good mom. Not all users have the will to do that even when they have the motivation and love their kids.

[@klaramihalikova]

I can´t wait till she is older (like in teen years) and she gets to see all the videos you made about her and how you always say that she saved you and made you want to live :,)

[@mackenziecrowell5721]

Your story/experience is both sad and inspiring. I almost cried hearing you talk, but I can hear it in your voice how proud you are of yourself to fight and to stay strong. I'm so happy that you have full custody of Micah and living with your family

[@Ctejera]

I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my first baby and I was in full blown tears watching this, so heartbreaking 💔 Thank you for sharing!

[@brandonhyden6484]

JESSICA I AM A SINGLE FATHER JUST MY ONE AND ONLY CHILD , I HAVE A DAUGHTER WHOS NOW SIX AND UNFORNATELY JER MOTHER WALKED AWAY FROM BOTH OF US WHEN MY BABY WAS 8 MONTHS OLD BECAUSE ARE RELATIONSHIP DIDNT WORK OUT SO SHE LEFT US BOTH FROM A PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL STAND POINT AS WELL AS NEVER GIVING ME A SINGLE DOLLAR TORWARDS SUPPORTING OUR BABY . I DO HAVE FULL CUSTODY OF MY BABY BUT WHEN HER BIOLOGICAL MOTHER LEFT I ALWAYS LEFT THE DOOR OPEN OR LINES IF COMMUNICATION FOR A SOBER MOTHER TO BE A PART OF BEAUTIFUL ANGLES LIFE , BUT MY BABY IS WORKING ON 7 YEARS OLD NOW AND NO PHONE CALLS , BIRTHDAY CARDS , CHRISTMAS GIFTS , NOTHING , WITCH IS OKAY BECAUSE I HAVE A MOTHER , FATHER AND SISTER WHO ARE THE MOST AMAZING FAMILY EVER !!! MY DAUGHTER IS THE REASON IM STILL ALIVE AND SHE HAS A WONDERFUL LIFE . YES ITS HARD SOMETIMES TO RAISE A DAUGHTER BUT ITS WORTH EVERY SECOND , SHE IS MY WHOLE WORLD AND GODS GIFT.

[@pinkbot]

You are so strong and doing what's best for your daughter and that is so admirable. I wish you nothing but the best with your daughter, you're truly God's son!

[@lexislanda4117]

WHY ARE YOU YELLING

[@alondramulero5915]

❤❤❤

[@catieq5270]

Not every woman wants to be a mother and that’s okay. She at least gave you you’re most precious gift, your daughter.

[@lexyruse603]

@@catieq5270 I don't think that's okay. Regardless if she wanted to be a mother or not she layed down and had a baby. She should at the very LEAST be held financially responsible for her daughter like fathers are expected to be.

[@platanous]

i'm an aspiring social worker (fourth year student!) and i am unbelievably sad to hear that they were so negative towards your situation. I understand that we need to be as honest as possible, but we also need to inspire hope. Best wishes💖

[@kdcounseling]

Your quote about not knowing how strong you are until strong is your only option is so accurate ! Thanks for sharing Jessica,

[@heatherbaldwin2099]

I can't imagine being treated in such an inhumane way, having your child taken from you, and not having post partum depression.

[@NekoArts]

Why is it against regulations to keep an ultrasound photo? That doesn't make any sense.. Well, a lot of things don't make any sense, tbh. But a photo? Were they afraid that you'd give the other inmates or corrections officers papercuts?

[@JessicaKent]

That jail specifically didn't allow inmates to have pictures

[@sarahvand3628]

Well that just sucks

[@FlickeringEmber]

Thanks for asking. I was wondering too. Shocking.

[@foreverwander0320]

The cruelty is the point, my guess. 😕

[@jamiewestman7822]

My guess is it’s all or nothing and since some photos could be used inappropriately they just say no photos in general. This also protects that persons photos- because if someone else was denied my guess is that wouldn’t go over well with the person who got to keep the photo. 🤷‍♀️

[@heatherhuggins5888]

You are such a beautiful person. I’m so glad you were able to recognize that and give yourself the love you deserve. This video has renewed my conviction to keep pushing for rehabilitation over punishment. The prison system in this country needs to change.

[@theagray617]

Just discovered your channel and I think you’re incredible so proud that you turned your life around I wish you the best for the future

[@vanessadetherage8794]

I’m 20 weeks pregnant and on probation. I got a call Monday from her threatening to violate me because she didn’t get my voicemail telling her my change of address. I had to print off my call logs proving I called and left her a message. So scary this could have been my reality. You’re so brave I couldn’t imagine!!

[@lynncrf]

Wow. The POs over in the US just seem to be power trippers rather than people who help you to rehabilitate!

[@maryernst9189]

Glad you had a way to prove it at least! Good luck in pregnancy!

[@vanessadetherage8794]

lynncrf they are!! I had to beg her not to put me in jail because I have s hyperemesis gravidarum (where you throw up your entire pregnancy) so I’m in the hospital weekly. I was so thankful. But yes she is a btch!

[@lynncrf]

@@vanessadetherage8794 Gosh I am so sorry. Especially considering the horror of HG. You poor mite.

[@vanessadetherage8794]

lynncrf yes it’s been terrible 😭 but as long as she’s healthy I’m happy 🥰 but this will def be my first and LAST pregnancy loll

[@Annie-ec7sb]

As a person from a side who doesn't know you personally or have any impact on your life.. I just wanted to say - I so proud of how far you have come and how strong have you become! 💚

[@DarkbutNotsinister]

IKR?? I was tingly-thrilled when they did their new house tour. How am I so proud & happy for a total stranger?? Such positive vibes from anyone are welcome in my life, even if it’s via KZbin.

[@jessbairstow2267]

It’s so great to see someone who has made mistakes in the life use their experience to help other people. You are such an inspiration to so many young woman keep up The great work 💛

[@LifesPeachy321]

*I'm glad to see you are happy and healthy!*

[@michellebarney2527]

I’ve never been to prison or struggled with addiction in my life, but I found your channel like a year ago and I’ve been watching you since. You’re so amazing and inspiring and I hope you know that! ❤️

[@shannonaber1768]

Thank you for taking the time to answer these questions. This couldn’t have been easy to do.

[@hades5697]

When you desperately want something, it itself is enough to keep you going.

[@katielikescoffee1292]

you are amazing!! i started watching your channel to try to understand why my aunt got addicted to H and why she didn’t stop until she overdosed and passed away. Thank you for giving awareness to why people are addicts and the dangers of being one. You have taught me a lot❤️❤️

[@Jaelily319]

Girl your videos have honestly been playing on repeat for me lately. Going through some stuff and your videos are really helping me out and helping me take a look at my life and choices I’ve made. ❤️

[@JessicaKent]

Hope everything gets better!!!! ❤❤

[@AmandaPaige71]

Hang in there just for today! No matter how shitty it gets, it ALWAYS gets better!!

[@Jaelily319]

Amanda Paige Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@rebeccadelbridge2998]

Wishing you all the best. It's never too late to make different choices. I know from experience. It's not easy, and often 'two steps forward, one step back' but it's worth it. At 46 years old, my life is finally coming together, slowly. Xx

[@lenam2114]

It’s so crazy how different prison is in the States compared to here in Germany. Absolutely insane..

[@jessicaely2521]

You can't judge every single prison in the US just by one person's comments. There are prisons out there that want mothers to raise their children in prison (if they don't have someone to do it outside of prison). There are prisons that have inmates train and raise dogs that were rescued. There are zillions of other programs that not every prison system has. A good chunk of our prison system is owned by a private company. It seems the private prisons are more likely to have programs for prisoners.

[@jessicaely2521]

I should say though that majority of prisons need to reformed.

[@jamiewestman7822]

@@jessicaely2521 what!!!!! You mean private sector is better than government funded? Lol ( sarcasm) because I believe- of course anything run in the private sector is gonna yield better results. Why? Because a business owner cares about the business! And they can implement these great programs like the dog rescue program! (not entirely sure how I feel about raising a child in prison) but overall yeah I feel like we could have more private sector prisons and facilities.

[@vickysmile23]

@@jessicaely2521 Ok but private prisons are kind of like fucked up. They make money from keeping people locked up as much as possible. They are required to always be full to almost the maximum of their capacity or they get fined. Basically they benefit form keeping many people locked up for a long time and from high recidivism rates

[@Megha486]

Why is it so hard for C.os to be a bit kind and considerate to inmates that are pregnant omg I'll cry. You're super strong Jessica ❤️

[@Sharki_V]

Your story is so amazing to hear. I used to use drugs also, was arrested 3 times in 2010, the last time being on October 14 2010. I was in jail for 3 months (2 different jails because I was out on bond in a different county). I didn't have my twins until 2015. But even still to this day I get anxiety about doing anything wrong (even if I don't realize it) because I don't want to lose my kids. You are so strong and I'm so happy to hear that you fought so hard and got your daughter back! There really is hope after darkness.

[@lilly-id7js]

people like you and videos like this are exactly what we need to prove that prison reform is completely necessary...the way we let people live in these conditions is absolutely disgusting and criminal in itself. so proud of you and anyone else who makes it out of these situations.

[@bonniehowell9206]

Never give up fighting for your child(ren)! I was told the same thing. It was a a fight from the beginning and I remember after first reading the requirements to regain custody bursting in tears because I thought it wasn't possible. 4 years later I look back on that moment and can't believe how far I have come. I couldn't imagine that fight while incarcerated and it shows how determine you have to be. Proud of you!

[@dance31115]

Jessica, you are such an inspiration to me. I am biochemistry premed major with a sociology minor who is especially interested in criminal support. I hope someday I can be an OB/GYN and help treat women in prison. I want to advocate for mothers who are imprisoned and try to help women like you have a better experience. The way our system treats those who are sick and hurting is just plain unfair. I am sorry for everything you go through. I can only hope we can make it better in the future

[@DeannaMarina]

Man some of this makes me soo angry about how they treated you during & after your pregnancy!!! This needs to be fixed. The whole system needs to be fixed. Btw i admire your strength to not take pain pills after labor. I myself am a recovering addict and i was using before pregnancy (not consistently it really was a once or twice a week thing) not during pregnancy, but when i gave birth they gave me them pain meds and i was happy. And that’s where my addiction really took off. I’ve been though 2 custody battles with my sons paternal grandparents. It was messed up and a long story but i won. I got clean and i got him back ❤️

[@ellens9100]

Those case workers who told you, you would fail... dont deserve to be case workers. Thats really unfair how they treated you with the goals you were working towards.

[@marybelle]

It is so true that you never know the strength you have until you really need it. I have been diagnosed with ptsd from my daughters birth. I don't even understand how I made it though it all most of the time. My body took over and my brain blocked a lot of it out I guess. I am so grateful all of the time that Micah saved your life. Love you 🥰

[@justmartine]

Just found your channel through this video. I'm a forensic psychology undergraduate and I'm working on getting my child advocacy certificate. One of my final projects this past year was about the termination of parental rights, so I read a lot of research about women who lost parental rights and weren't even told about the hearings because they were incarcerated. So glad that didn't happen to you and sorry you went through the fears of it happening to you. You're absolutely slaying now, go you! Sending love to you and your family!

[@konstantina_mantzouni]

The phrase "she's the reason I'm alive today" hit so hard So happy you exist, honestly! Hope your whole family is strong and healthy and I'm so happy I'm able to watch your videos, you give me so much strength 🙏🏻❤️

[@izzabelladieteman9344]

Wow this made me cry. I’m a mother and I can’t imagine what you’ve been through. You are so so strong.

[@catie7466]

i cannot believe you had to give birth chained to a bed and was left there for 2 days not able to walk. if you dont wanna sue them can i please sue them for you bc that makes me so angry im shaking rn.

[@kristingallo2158]

She's lucky that baby survived at all. The rate she was going without incarcerating her neither probably would have survived.

[@bookishlyinclined2972]

That’s disgusting and so dehumanising. 🤦‍♀️

[@catie7466]

@@kristingallo2158 yes she acknowledges in her video that going to prison ultimately saved her and her baby and that she deserved to be there for breaking the law. however, i think chaining a woman to a bed while she's giving birth and not letting her walk is not only cruel and inhumane, but also very dangerous medically. giving birth is one of the most intense things our bodies can go through and not being cared for properly like that could have killed jess.

[@rayraypeace9589]

You’ve really put things into perspective for me and changed my way of thinking. I remember sharing a county jail intake cell with a girl who had just found out she was pregnant that day after she got arrested in a drg bust. Now I hate how judgmental I was. Of course I wasn’t ugly towards her. I’m pretty sure she was going through withdrawals, and I was only in there for a few hours, so we didn’t exactly get chatty. I do wish that I had tried to be more comforting to her now though.

[@jessicafox222]

That isn't dramatic Jess, the idea of not ever seeing your baby again is terrifying!

[@niamhdafroggy9169]

I love how you are open and so comfortable telling your story it’s so inspiring 💛💛

[@Lisasanti1]

You’re an inspiration for so many. I’ve never been an addict, or spent time in jail/prison, but I love watching your channel. I know how proud you are, for the hard work YOU did, to change your life for the better. I wish you the very best in life. Your family is adorable.

[@Rtytanicj]

I’m so beyond proud of you. We love Micah. She’s such a wonderful little human. 💜

[@ashc1928]

Literally cried watching this. I’m so proud of you for getting through that difficult time

[@daniellemerry3079]

Thankyou for talking so candidly about post partum depression, I was so confused and scared during my first year after having my little girl - just was not myself and didn't understand why - I'm from the UK and the attitude in my town is kind of 'keep your business your business' so things like that really aren't spoken about and it wasnt until recently I actually realised what I was going through and how fucking badass I am for dealing with that shit silently and only just now feeling like I am making it to the other side almost 4 years later. Things like this need to be normalised so women can get the help they need ❤️

[@beeingalive]

I would really love to hear Riley’s birth story!!! Hearing you give the few tidbits in here made me tear up. I’m so grateful you got to experience birth again on your own terms and I love getting to see you feel triumphant over your hardships. Thanks for sharing, mama ❤️

[@vrazalico455]

I have heard your story on the channel of a docter and i cried, i am so proud of you and getting your daughter back!

[@caitlynkeller2956]

I wish my mother would have fought for me as hard as you have fought for Micah. You are a light

[@cleosworld9096]

Jess I'm so in love with u and not in a creepy sexual way but in a respectful friendly way. U r an inspiration to me and I wish I found u alot sooner than this. You r a rockstar.

[@sandracordova9376]

The only reason I’m okay with being up at 6:30 am is for your videos💕

[@lindseydawes7719]

Thanks for the link girl I love trying to help small/local business :) thanks for all you do Jess !

[@purplevolution]

ugh Jess I just cannot believe what you have gone through in your life... you are remarkable. you give me strength.

[@kellymartin5248]

I really resonate w what you said about not being given an option, you have to survive the hardships in front of you. Or you dont. Strong or death. Eventually we realize it was our choices that put us in those tough situations, and we are made to be stronger and fight for those who dont have the strength we have found.

[@taragold6457]

I know once your book comes out I’m gonna be so intrigued I probably won’t be able to put it down. I love reading auto biographies and your life story is so interesting and inspiring

[@annjohnson6193]

Since you had substance abuse problems, going to prison may have saved your life as well as your baby’s life. You’re a beautiful young woman. I’m so glad you’re doing well today.

[@MOpO87]

I’m currently pregnant at 19 weeks and I’ve just stumbled upon your videos today and I’m already your biggest fan and I love your stories.

[@MaisieKennedy48]

regardless of your circumstances, those guards and nurses should have supported you. you are a pregnant person in prison the situation is already stressful. you never know how important support can be for some people

[@madslynn9433]

Amen

[@petahoee8281]

Micah and Riley* are such lucky babies to have a mother that loves them like you do... You're one of the strongest people that i know of

[@katherineanne88]

Thank you so much for sharing this. You are amazing - the epitome of resilience. I hope you have lots of support, and access to counselling etc. A chance to focus on you & heal! I’m a social worker & your story reminds me how important it is to work for change in our justice system. Thank you.

[@amstel5468]

Been watching for about a week. I like your vibe girl. Glad I stumbled upon your channel..

[@kendrabennett7476]

I’m so glad to have stumbled across Jessica’s videos. I have been in a relationship with a recovering addict for almost 3 years. There’s definitely a stigma and shamefully, one that I once contributed to.

[@meganpetitto]

You had me on tears when you were talking about Micah being the reason you're here today. ❤️

[@brookekuhlmann8021]

That quote you made: you will never truly know how strong you are, until being strong 💪 is your only option!! My number #1 quote in addiction.... my number one quote to live by!! I never truly knew how strong I was until I got clean and sober!! 4-1/2 yrs+ and trying to never look behind me!! 😉 being clean, I have my beautiful baby girl (6yrs old), my significant other (whom has been there thru thick n thin), and my entire family’s love an support!! Very thankful for the life I’ve granted myself again!!

[@amandaurbina7163]

I am a former cocaine addict and my little girl saved my life!!!!!!!!!! Instantly subscribed, you are so strong!!!!!!!!

[@denishabailey3105]

Totally different lives. But my daughter saved my life too. I was an alcoholic and severely depressed and suicidal and shes my angel my saving grace.

[@jenniferhernandez9194]

I just started watching your videos, but I respect you for how you’ve changed your life around and your mindset. You’ve done things but you’ve realized where you messed up and fought for what was important. Keep it up!

[@pambeyers7744]

You beautiful person. U deserve a good life. I'm just so proud of you. Your such a kind person. Stay that way and Ull be fine.

[@suhanndee]

Jess, I’m pregnant right now and can’t even begin to imagine doing it in prison. You are one of the STRONGEST women alive and you inspire me so much. Love you!!!!!!!!

[@sarahdemarrero3520]

Right?! I'm 34 weeks tomorrow and in awe that she did this in prison!

[@JessicaKent]

Congratulations on your upcoming bundle of joy!!! ❤❤❤

[@bubblezzxxd15]

Same! I couldn't imagine having pregnancy symptoms and no way to help yourself. It's terrifying! I'm very glad I saw this though, I've been very worried about becoming a mom. Jess is showing me how much love your child can inspire in you. I'm very grateful for that

[@VibeWithGiGi]

@@sarahdemarrero3520 crazy. I’m 34 weeks tomorrow and watching this.

[@aliciaq2050]

Thank you for being so open! You’re so strong and your will power and determination to fight for Micah is amazing!

[@emilyengel6556]

I smile while I watch this because I know one day your sweet little girl is going to be going through a hard time and she will watch this video of you almost in tears. Saying how much she means to you and how she saved your life and she will know she is loved. You don't know it yet but posting things like this helps people stay alive and one day it could help ur little girl know how much she is loved and we all need that

[@rosemadison]

I think it's so beautiful that your baby saved your life!!! thank you for sharing your story with us!!

[@laurenchmielewski7274]

So I’m a RN , taken care of a lot of prisoner patients at my hospital. We have a policy on when and where they can walk out of the room due to security . However, we walked all our prisoner patients in the late evening daily (after visiting hours of the doc ordered it ) usually down a designated hallway with 2 guards as it helps them heal ( as you mentioned). We also made sure they were out of bed for meals too. I’m surprised if this hospital is where the prison has births they don’t have policies like this in place on that unit.