I had a Chemical Pregnancy | Early Miscarriage | TTC journey | Destiny Phillips

[@natalieroberts6605]

I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I too miss carried at 5 weeks, and I know exactly what you mean about the nurses/doctors not believing you were pregnant in the first place.. so frustrating. But you are right, I fell pregnant 2 months later, following the miscarriage. Stay strong hun 💕

[@serenarye]

My heart is grieving for you during this time. I’m praying that you feel the presence of God around you during this time and that you’re filled with His peace, comfort & understanding. Many are the plans in a person’s heart but it’s the Lord’s purpose that prevails. There are some things in life we don’t understand and will probably never understand but we have to just choose to keep the faith and remember there is good in everything. I’m praying that you guys will conceive again soon and that this next baby will make it through the entire pregnant and after. You’re already such a great mama; never forget that

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much, truly. It's been incredibly hard and although I don't understand it we are choosing to believe that God will give us our baby when the time is right, and comments like the confirm our faith that God has our baby for us. ♥️

[@amberpojman1338]

I was in your shoes last November, frantically searching for answers to give me comfort and hope. Thank you for sharing this with us, makes you not feel so alone! 💙

[@SeLeBoCreations]

I actually found your channel after experiencing the same thing last July, and right as I was starting our TTC journey! It's such an emotional toll. Praying for you girl! Stay strong 💗🌈

[@kelleyryanvlogs]

Ugh praying for both of you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 that’s so hard but you guys are so dang strong. Praying for a beautiful full term pregnancy for both of you! 🙏🏽

[@essentiallylau]

I'm sorry for your loss. I wish you a healthy TTC journey.

[@lauranaumann695]

I stumbled upon your positive pregnancy test video recently during my two week wait. In December, I got pregnant for the first time and had a chemical pregnancy only one week after finding out. This month, I am pregnant again! Currently 5 weeks and 1 day. I had also read that you're likely to get pregnant after a chemical pregnancy and was hopeful. Just wanted to share my story and I will pray that the same happens for you ❤️

[@DestinyPhillips]

Aww Thank you so much! I love hearing success story and clinging to those for hope! I’ve heard so many and I’m just praying that we get out positive again this cycle! Congratulations on your baby!! ♥️

[@jessicamunnia5969]

This happened to us 3 times. It is devastating so I’m so sorry for your loss. My thyroid levels were way out of whack and once getting that sorted out with medication I conceived my now 19 month old son!

[@shaunnabeaudoin6533]

Did your thyroid issue come back in a blood test? I've had three miscarriages (first one at 7 wks 2 days, second one was only two days after I found out so probably around 4-5 weeks, and the third at 7 weeks 4 days). My OB ran some blood tests and said everything came back totally normal and she believes my husband and I have just had horrible luck.We're doing the progesterone treatment next time we get pregnant. Fingers crossed for this month!

[@seatedinheavenlyplaces2126]

God bless you !!! May the Lord give you grace the next time around to carry full term a healthy beautiful baby. In Jesus name amen !

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much! We are praying for God's perfect timing and having other pray for us is so special! ♥️

[@loveandfaith5163]

Amen. We had 4 chemical pregnancies last year and I'm now 4+5 weeks pregnant. Very anxious.

[@DestinyPhillips]

@@loveandfaith5163 congratulations on your sweet baby! I’m praying for a safe and healthy full term pregnancy! ♥️

[@loveandfaith5163]

@@DestinyPhillips thank you so very much hon. God bless you

[@irmaebochs-homeloans6597]

@@loveandfaith5163 Hi sweetie, I am so sorry about your miscarriages. 😢 How is it going with this one?

[@rr12766]

So sorry to hear this :( Sending my prayers your way

[@shaunagoralski2610]

I had a mc dec 19th (6w) and I got pregnant immediately my following cycle. I hope that you too get to join the baby train 🙏🌈

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much! We are praying for good news this month! ❤️

[@kelleyryanvlogs]

What a beautiful testimony 🤍🤍🤍 I hope she gets this same experience as well 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@irmaebochs-homeloans6597]

Wow! Amazing! I also had a mc October 2019, 5 weeks. I've been trying for two cycles, but not luck yet. Hopefully soon! :) Congratulations!!😃

[@irmaebochs-homeloans6597]

Hi Shauna, how is your pregnancy going?🙏🥰

[@shaunagoralski2610]

@@irmaebochs-homeloans6597 7w today 😊 and going for my ultrasound

[@_Q_C]

You are so strong and this is going to help so many people to hear your experience. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I had a chemical pregnancy with my first pregnancy and we conceived the cycle after. I'm currently 34 weeks. Stay hopeful and I am sending you all the love and baby dust!

[@DestinyPhillips]

Congratulations on your baby boy! And thank you for sharing your story! It helps so much and give me so much hope that we’ll conceive! I love hearing all the success stories. ♥️

[@brittanypepper1292]

I know how difficult it can be, you are definitely not alone. I also had a 4.5 week miscarriage and went through waves of emotions. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Sending you positive thoughts.

[@Sarahlane778]

Im sorry for your loss. A month Before conceiving my baby in 2018, I had a chemical pregnancy so I understand how painful it is, even so early on. Chemical pregnancies are very common,, most women have no idea they had one.. only when ttc do we most often know. But in my case I conceived my take home baby the month after, so praying you'll get your sticky one too!

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much! I’m so glad you got your baby and hopeful for ours!!

[@maddievangrinsven1545]

Just experienced the same thing at the beginning of this month. My heart goes out to you and your angel baby ♥️🥺

[@kelleyryanvlogs]

Ugh prayers to you both that day you will conceive healthy little babes and carry them to full term!

[@mizzgibbs12]

My friend just went through the same thing. I am so sorry for you loss. I am going to send your video to her. God bless and let God bless you with your rainbow baby.

[@bethanygarrison5733]

I’m so sorry to hear this! 😭 my husband and I are on our 9th cycle of trying! Baby dust to you!! 💕✨

[@kelleyryanvlogs]

Prayers to both of you for positive sticky little babes and for healthy full term pregnancies!

[@bethanygarrison5733]

@@kelleyryanvlogs thank you so much!! 🥰🥰

[@tinylocanena]

Thank you for sharing!!!!! I also went through this…. I thought it wasn’t true cause I never been pregnant…. I’m so happy you finally had your baby!!!!

[@keilacamejo6404]

This is crazy, I just went through this, I had a positive test January 13, started bleeding the 20th, went to the ER, levels came back at 11, ultrasound showed no gestational sac 😔 I know how you feel! Keep your head high & trust God! He’s in control, he will never leave you nor forsake you.

[@kayemjay194]

I'm so sorry this happened. I had a chemical 2 months ago as well. It was tough. Thank you for sharing your story, I think it'll be helpful to others ❤️

[@LymieMama]

I’m so sorry. I had a chemical pregnancy 2 years ago (a few months after a miscarriage) and conceived my rainbow the next month. Take time to process it and I hope you have a sticky baby soon! ❤️

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much for sharing that! It gives me so much hope!! ♥️

[@kelleyryanvlogs]

What a testimony mama! It’s so hard to go through losses 😭😭😭

[@mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

Wow…you’re literally describing what happened to me 2 months ago. Thank you for sharing❤️

[@adrianacarrillo8717]

I’m so sorry to hear this. I actually went thru a chemical pregnancy December 12th 😕 that was the day I was going to surprise my husband. I tested that morning & the line was lighter than all of my other positive tests. Called my OB & they had me come in to confirm pregnancy, that was the first negative I had. I was heart broken. We have been trying since July. I, like you, started researching everything I could to know more about chemical pregnancy. I know what your going thru is hard but stay strong & have faith ❤️

[@alexusturner2039]

I'm so sorry for your loss praying for you and your family

[@alondragomez3041]

I am so sorry for you loss. I recently lost my pregnancy. This was 2 weeks ago. I had a blighted ovum. I was 7 weeks 5 days when it happened. Don’t lose hope. We will get our rainbow baby. ❤️

[@DestinyPhillips]

I am so sorry to hear that and know the pain is hard, but you are right we will get our rainbow babies! You're in my prays girl. ♥️

[@capetownchicklet14]

I appreciate that you are sharing this with us. I am 99.9% sure I just had one at the beginning of December. I had all the same implantation type symptoms and sore breasts but never got the positive before the worst cramping and bleeding I've ever had. You have every right to be upset and mourn the pregnancy. I appreciate your positive view of actually being able to conceive especially since I have PCOS and worry about that.

[@DestinyPhillips]

I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I’m praying for you and praying that you get your BFP soon! ♥️

[@capetownchicklet14]

@@DestinyPhillips thanks! You too!!

[@brittneycollette4954]

So sorry I know how it feels. I just posted my story with our miscarriage. Sending all the love, deep breathes, hope you have a little tribe that will be there for support. It’s hard.

[@ceciliaramirez8917]

Never lose hope, I had a chemical pregnancy as well and less than a week when I stopped bleeding, I ovulated and got pregnant. The next month I took a test to make sure the hcg level went down, so I was expecting a negative and to my surprise I was pregnant!❤ I am now 20 weeks along and expecting a baby boy💙

[@DestinyPhillips]

Congratulations on your baby!! I’m crossing my fingers that this is our month and we get our baby!! Thank you for your story.

[@angelarodriguez1988]

Thank you for opening your heart and sharing your experience with us. I recently just went through this myself. I was also looking for similar videos of people who have gone through this. I have never gotten pregnant in almost 14 years of marriage and had recently just gotten my first positives. I got positive tests for a few days and was so excited. Then seeing the lines going away was pretty heartbreaking and so confusing. I love your positive attitude that this experience just shows us that it can happen for us❤️ all the best to you on your journey.

[@brittanyvik1778]

💔 so sad to see this update! I am new to this TTC world. Have been trying for 3 months and I worry this will happen to me! Thank you so much for making such a detailed video. This will help a lot of women going through the same experience!

[@ishitasingh5330]

I am also trying from 3 months. And got my periods today. Now on to cycle no 4

[@brittanyvik1778]

@@ishitasingh5330 its torture. 🤞for our bfp!

[@BargainBeYOUty]

So sorry for your loss. I had a chemical pregnancy 2 weeks ago. I was so upset and was ready to just give up but now 2 weeks later we are back to trying again and hoping for a better outcome. I wish you all the best and sending baby dust your way 💕

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you, and that's the best outlook to have! We will get our babies in the perfect time! Praying for you and hoping you get your sticky baby soon! ♥️

[@karidaniellerush4378]

I just had a chemical pregnancy less than a week ago and stumbling upon this video has helped me because I’ve been so confused and hurt. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

[@DestinyPhillips]

I am so sorry that you had to go through that. It’s so hard, but I pray that next cycle, if you choose to try, will be you’re cycle!

[@karidaniellerush4378]

@@DestinyPhillips thank you so much! It was our first cycle trying when I had my chemical so we’re trying again next month ❤️

[@Libera_nos]

I’m so so sorry dear! I’ll be praying you 🙏🏼❤️

[@savannahowen3783]

I had the same experience when I went to the ER in September. I didn't even know I was until there was a substantial amount of blood. They ran tests and the doctors said "Well I don't think you are having a miscarriage, but it's still possible. To me, it was either a yes or no answer. I didn't think it was their job to sugar coat anything or save my feelings. The doctors seemed cold about the whole situation. It was very traumatizing for me. I know what you are going though, it is very difficult to deal with. I am very sorry.

[@DestinyPhillips]

Oh my gosh! I am so sorry you had to do that! No one should ever have to go through that. I’m praying for you and that you get your sticky baby soon! ♥️

[@savannahowen3783]

It taught me to advocate for myself! I will not let snooty doctors talk down on me or ever let them make me out to be crazy. I hope you get to experience a full term and healthy pregnancy very soon. I know that I will vlog every step of the way once I am. Much love

[@emileetaylor8089]

So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and sending lots of love. May God bless you with a beautiful healthy baby! 💙💗🙏🏻

[@kamrynpeterson5460]

Praying for you! So sorry for your loss.

[@keyskingdom2152]

Im so sorry you went through this! I just went through a miscarriage , i went to the emergency room alone one night in severe pain , bleeding , going from being very cold to sweating badly and was throwing up non stop. I went there in fear of the baby i tried so hard to stop throwing up because i thought at least keep what i ate down for the baby but it wasnt working out for me. I took a shower before i left an passed out in the bathtub an had a huge bruise on my knee from falling. I went to the hospital in complete fear this was my first baby an i am only 22 but i was so ready!! When i first went i was told i had a cyst an was put on antibiotics but everyone but the dr. told me do not take those turned out we had a chemical pregnancy ... I was born one pound an i developed crohns disease which was very active an i had a bad episode due to the pregnancy but i couldnt get it to stop i tried. Its a battle within myself an its extremely frustrating. Went days not eating sometimes because i didnt want to wake up sick in the morning due to my sickness nothing worked an killed me even more knowing this was part of the reason i lost my little one. It hurt having to tell my love ones im no longer pregnant meanwhile my brothers all have had kids first try. At first i felt so defeated as well It hurts but i will never give up. I will forever cherish the little changes i had an the happiness the pregnancy gave me. My hcg levels were dropping an that's when in my heart i kinda knew but didnt want to believe it. God is good and i will get my little one when my time is right i truly hope. I thought it was my fault because my boyfriend has a daughter already so i felt less of a women in a way but someone close to me talk to me an this is common an its not my fault. I will try again once i get the okay from my dr. Fingers crossed🤞☺ 🌈

[@nicolamorton1458]

I am so sorry for your loss. Keep you head up and dont give up hope x

[@becomingthelefevres1769]

Thank you so much for sharing and being vulnerable. I am so sorry that this happened. I also believe I experienced a chemical this month and can definitely related to all the emotions and feelings that it causes. Sending positive thoughts your way. 💕

[@Perkatronictrcular]

I’m so sorry to hear this. ☹️💔 In regards to the studies you speak of in this video about women conceiving quite quickly after having a chemical pregnancy. My sister had a chemical pregnancy one month and got pregnant the month after with a healthy beautiful baby boy. You’ll get there. ❤️❤️

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much! I love hearing all the success stories because they give me so much hope. I feel like I’ve read a million and just pray that we’re as lucky! It helps so much to hear!

[@smileykailee]

My heart goes out to you and your husband ❤️ I know exactly how you feel. My husband and I tried for 6 months, got pregnant and miscarried at 6.5 weeks. But, on the second month after the miscarriage, we got pregnant again. Hang in there. If you ever need to talk to someone, feel free to reach out!

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much!! ♥️

[@michellemetanad7299]

I had a mc back in July and haven’t had a bfp since 🥺

[@myreality5959]

I literally feel you since my blood test came back negative they thought I just wasn't ever pregnant. And Ive have 4 chemical pregnancies just had my last one this month. And doctors just don't seem to acknowledge it I dont know I haven't made it past 4 weeks

[@colsoncolson7453]

I know it doesn’t seem like it right now when feelings are so raw and feeling despair. But look at it this way , at least you got pregnant. And now you know you can. So many don’t ever even get a positive. Hang in there,. You will become pregnant soon again.

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much! That’s what we’re trying to remind ourselves! ♥️

[@nyaradzoshumba3765]

I am so sotry for your loss experienced this ,this week and cldnt find any videos of wxperiences like yours . Stay strong

[@cag13angel]

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

[@ConnectWithKittu]

sorry for your loss stay strong and healthy stay in touch

[@sofiamarth8525]

Awwwww I’m so sorry to hear about your loss May god be with you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@cherriebels929]

Im so sorry for your loss 🙏

[@HQuags]

Thank you for sharing your journey. Sending baby dust 💖

[@pearlmedina1845]

Sorry for your loss...God bless you

[@claudia_b03]

I had a MC in June. I was bout 6 weeks. I start bleeding and went to urgent care and my levels were at 9 and then 2 days later they were at 4 . But hopefully we get our babies soon. Baby dust ❤️

[@sarahgray7373]

Sending my prayers to you girl❤️❤️ thank you for covering this . There are not many videos on this explaining this information bc this happened to me back in July and it was so hard I didn’t understand it at all 😭 Have you tried the “easy at home” ovulation and pregnancy tests on Amazon? They are like 15$ and they have great reviews ! Best of luck to you on your TTC journey ❤️

[@DestinyPhillips]

Yes! That is what we use to track our cycle! ♥️

[@InnerBeauty]

I am having a chemical right now too for the 3rd time 😔 Im devastated.

[@rr12766]

So sorry x how many dpo are you?

[@DestinyPhillips]

I am so sorry to hear this is and my heart goes out to you, it hurts so bad but I pray that you get your sticky baby soon! ♥️

[@chelseajohnson3204]

Keep your head up! Gods got this

[@yosilifestyle4314]

So sorry for your loss.

[@lifewithdeedee3392]

Awwww man☹ so sorry to hear this. I'm ttc too via IVF follow my journey too

[@lisamugavero4946]

I just had my first known chemical pregnancy after 3 healthy pregnancies last week. I was in shock! But I had a feeling something was wrong because I had very strong positives on 6 tests. 2 YES + tests, 2 obvious positives in first response and 2 positives on a cvs brand. And they got lighter and lighter and week later got my period(regular period- no pain) I even got pregnant in my first cycle I was so bummed! Trying again this month!

[@DestinyPhillips]

I am so sorry you went through that! It’s heartbreaking and confusing, but I’m praying that you the next month is successful for you! ♥️

[@tiffanykeenon55]

Sorry for your loss

[@davezar1720]

I didn’t even see a positive on the last test tbh. Praying you’ll get your bfp soon 💙💙

[@michellemetanad7299]

I saw it

[@exploringespadrilles6803]

Praying for you❤

[@NateVlog1]

Yooo massive like right here ! 💪🏻

[@alyssaadley7093]

I am so sorry 🥺 I am ALSO TTC and it is so exhausting mentally 🥺 if you ever want to talk lmk!! I feel that so much! I’m a new subbie btw! You’re so strong for even videoing this!! I can’t talk ab any of my TTC journey in my vlogs 🥺❤️

[@DestinyPhillips]

Thank you so much! It is so hard but our time is coming! God has our baby and when the time is perfect he'll bless us, that's what I keep telling myself. Baby dust to you! ♥️

[@nanuamitha93]

My 💖 to you .. very soon you will see positive result❤️

[@miriamgrozescu3740]

I had a chemical pregnancy too... 4 days os happynes and after that the horrible bleeding... 6 cycles of that... I hope this month worked... 5 dpo already 🤞🥺

[@aleesharenea8565]

awe I'm so sorry I hope you get your rainbow baby🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@DestinyPhillips]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Praying that you get your rainbow baby. You're time in going to come! ♥️

[@serenahawkes2878]

So sorry ❤️

[@nicsinger18]

Oh no so sad to see this 💔 I went through this in October and it’s the hardest thing to go through and accept. Xxx

[@DestinyPhillips]

I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. I'm praying for you and praying that you get a sticky baby ♥️

[@nicsinger18]

we fell pregnant again 2 weeks after our chemical pregnancy hun 💜 apparently after a miscarriage your at your most fertile for your next cycle according to our doctor. I’m 14 weeks now a few times at the beginning it looked like we were going through the same thing again but (I started bleeding at 6 weeks) we have our sticky baby and you will have yours too 💜 as you said ttc is a journey you go on and it’s very difficult and hard but you will have your sweet rainbow baby 🌈 xxx

[@DestinyPhillips]

@@nicsinger18 That's what I've read, and we're praying that's the case for us! Thank you for telling me that because I am holding on to all the success stories that I have been seeing!

[@nicsinger18]

I just knew when I went through it all I looked up was getting pregnant after chemical pregnancy. I would cling to any kind of hope out there and it’s what got me through it ❤️ sending you lots of hugs and baby prayers xxx

[@nonowaah_ashknani3503]

I had the same 6 wks of pregnancy. i feel the same

[@Lisa4910]

I'm so sorry Hon 😭😭

[@aleesharenea8565]

So sorry😔

[@littlemrs.fabulous9432]

I guess I’ll have to look up what a chemical pregnancy is...I’m pregnant and have no clue what a chemical pregnancy is 🤷‍♀️ Ok so it’s a miscarriage. I had went through a miscarriage at 7 weeks. But now I’m having a sugar rainbow baby 33 weeks!

[@DestinyPhillips]

Yay! Congratulations!! Hopefully we’ll get our baby soon! ♥️♥️

[@Ms.SimoneRenee]

first repsponse gives false postives i hate it does this to people.

[@rr12766]

When is a woman safe from a chemical pregnancy? 6 weeks?

[@aleesharenea8565]

When she can get her first ultrasound I believe because the first couple weeks of pregnancy your hcg should double every 2 days and a way to know is taking pregnancy test seeing if the lines get darker and also get blood hcg test.

[@rr12766]

@@aleesharenea8565 ooh OK, here in the UK our first scans are at 12 weeks. Which feels like such a long scary wait 😭

[@DestinyPhillips]

@@rr12766 I could be wrong but from what I read a chemical pregnancy is anything before 5 weeks, but at 5 weeks the baby gets a heart beat and then at that time it is just considered a miscarriage, but doctors say that you are generally safe from a miscarriage in general at 12 weeks.

[@savannahwaters2245]

❤️

[@malakzadaskkhanbeshakiampa7958]

Ohooooo so sad sister my country Pakistan my name is sabiya so nice vedios

[@amemalette9657]

💞💞💞💞

[@Bri-wc4ib]

Aw I'm so sorry. God bless you!! Thanks for sharing your story. Feel free to discount this - but I've heard of a few people who have found success with conceiving and having a healthy pregnancy with the Dynamic Neural Retraining System (www.retrainingthebrain.com). It helps calm the stress center/fight or flight center in your brain, which can help your hormones and whole body function more properly. I'm doing it right now to help calm and heal my body as I work towards pregnancy. It's helping more than anything I've ever tried with my anxiety and other things. I hope you can fulfill your dream of pregnancy. You are beautiful!! Don't give up - it can still totally happen!!! 💗💕💗🙏🙏🙏

[@CreateCuddle]

This is why people shouldn't take pregnancy tests until their period is late!

[@FloridaGalFishing]

Why

[@CreateCuddle]

@@FloridaGalFishing because chemical pregnancies are when people take tests too early, detect a small amount of HCG, and then get their usual period days later. It's a pregnancy that shouldn't be caught because if that person didn't test before their missed period, they would have got their period and not known anything different. The pregnancy test companies are making a fortune on desperate people taking multiple pregnancy tests each cycle way too early... And it's unfortunate that doing that catches these *very* early pregnancies that are unable to continue for whatever reason. The body is smart and ends it before it was even supposed to be discovered.

[@FloridaGalFishing]

@@CreateCuddle ah makes sense thank you

[@molly1339]

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️