I Have Been Struggling With Low Self Esteem|Body Image|VLOG|CLIENT TRANSFORMATION|How I Take Off Ma.

[@lovethabibu6276]

You are a beautiful black queen, people here don't live communal life, in Nigeria we say hello and compliment each other all the time. I went through what you're going through right now but I'm good now.

[@anitanwalo]

Finally here!

[@mfonabasipeters7062]

Hey sweet girl 😘 You are amazing 😍 You are enough You are beautiful!!!

[@anitanwalo]

Another thing that works well is dieting and I’m not saying become a vegetarian. Eat normally but in measured portions and at the right time. You can blend oats and use as your swallow. That’s what I personally do. You won’t even notice the difference. Eliminate eba and poundo for a while or only take it every once in a while.

[@SharonDaieziey]

❤️❤️❤️

[@LolaaaTaiwo]

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[@cynthiaituen9714]

Tolu dear, you are beautiful and have a lovely body, i believe its just the relocation and change of environment stress. Keep grinding babygirl❤❤❤

[@ChinenyeAgba]

Is that what they call body dysmorphia?? Not sure but yeah, I get that feeling too atimes but I don’t dwell on it. You don’t have to allow it deny you a meal ooo.., you look tf good girl, so good👌🏼. The makeup is beautiful 😍. And I love your green shoes 🤩. Me and you both with the dogs…, I only admire from afar 🤣. Please share the name of that cleansing balm you first used and does it irritate your skin when you first apply it? Cos I’ve tried quite a few and they mostly do except miceller water 😩

[@BeeMoje]

Hahaha...its your husband's face for me, especially when you start the vlog. Well Tolu, trust me you look beautiful even when you're not glammed up. But I understand your fears, I personally don't like adding weight (I enjoy the fact that ppl see me with my 5yr old and argue with me that I'm posing with the child), so what I did since having my child in order not to add weight is, I purposely don't cook for myself or cook half portion.

[@faithokoli5975]

Babes you look absolutely beautiful!!!! And you’ve a banging body, trust me! A mom and your body still great❤️

[@Asio_Faith]

Oh Tolu sugar... sending you 🫂 babes. This too shall pass. We LOVE you and you are ENOUGH!!! Bask in that reassurance.

[@LolaaaTaiwo]

I take long runs once a while and I am actively involved in long tennis (majorly for the fit tho 😅)

[@prettypatandfamily]

Hi babes u look so good I admire u so much

[@ebhoney]

You’re beautiful the way u are 🎉🎉🎉💋💋💋💋💋the weight gain is just rest of mind 💋💋💋💋and the skin issue is just change of Weather

[@ebhoney]

Pls just Maintain this body ur fine jor 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Abi u no won make baba touch big yansh nii😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@FUNMISDELIGHT]

I might not know u physically, but I must say I enjoy your videos, and about the low self esteem, I understand how this could make u feel, but remind yourself every time that its a phase and it will pass

[@tolubants]

Thanks for the sweet words🤍

[@olubusayo2402]

Hi Tolu, I think this is happening to you because you are still adjusting to the Canadian stress. It doesn't happen with change of location alone it happens with change of status too(eg motherhood, more responsibilities, etc) I am sure you will come around. A lot of people don't understand the work most KZbinrs put into creating content and working. As far as I am concerned, You are doing well. Kudos.

[@tolubants]

Haven’t even thought about that. Thanks for the sweet words🤍

[@anitanwalo]

1 thing tho…you’re a beautiful, gorgeous African woman. You always were and you still are. Your husband and son love you like this and we do too. I know doubts come every now and then but you need to rebuild your confidence in yourself. If you feel the need to. You can establish a new work out routine and do it after work or on the weekends. You are beautiful…never think otherwise please🫂❤️

[@abimbolaogunleye7930]

You look so beautiful 🥰🥰

[@tolubants]

Thank you 😊

[@ebhoney]

And remember you can Neva be size 8 for life 💋💋ur age also add to weight 💕💕💕but you’re beautiful the way you are 😂🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@faithokoli5975]

Babes you look absolutely beautiful!!!! And you’ve a banging body, trust me! A mom and your body still great❤️