I have cervical cancer.

[@TRUTHisTRUTH70]

I'm a nurse AND a cancer survivor. One important tip to anyone: ALWAYS ask for printed copies of every test result, scan or other imaging report, and pathology report. You can also ask your hospital for copies of scans on a CD so that the next doc can view (with their own eyes) and imaging. Keep all your results together, and if you have a patient portal, download everything to your own computer so it's easily accessible for the next doc. Learning to take control of your cancer journey is not only important, but minimizes the feeling of helplessness. Keep track of the names and dates of everyone you speak to on the phone or at appointments. Wishing you all the very best, and a cancer-free outcome!

[@marissafelser-gilbert3253]

Bump

[@HannahElaineStudio]

Wow this is such good advice. Thanks for your insight and work as a nurse ❤️

[@Tomas-major]

This is such such huge advice, because I had stage 3 cervical cells twice after my last two pregnancies. This was quite advanced I had laser colonoscopy then due to another issue to do with my ovary, I had a full hysterectomy. Truthfully this was more serious than I thought at the time, but I don’t feel it was ever at a life threatening levels although at the time it was taken very seriously especially as it was creeping up to my womb. The level is so important because if it is stage 1 pre cancerous it can sometimes be a watch and wait and can sometimes clear itself,

[@Ana_Lev]

YESSSSSSS THE BEST ADVICE. A love one of mine has cancer and keeping up with data is impossible.

[@whywhywhy1266]

Thank you.

[@BeeApple-sr3db]

I had Cervical Cancer at 28 years old . I had 2 kids already and got a partial Hysterectomy. I have been Cancer free for 34 years.

[@rruiz4145]

Thank you for sharing your testimony! It brings some positive vibes for us going through it right now!

[@charali1985]

Yes indeed.

[@KrishnakrupaKrishnakrupa-ut7hp]

Stage of ur cancer ?

[@BeeApple-sr3db]

@@KrishnakrupaKrishnakrupa-ut7hp Stage 1

[@MadJak-g6r]

I'm glad u ok & u get though all trials. I just have diagnos cervical cancer stage 1.doc said need to surgery and and am scared,I did not have MRI yet..dont know what to do should I go for surgery?

[@capslovesit]

I've never felt second hand frustration this strongly before. Love you Jess

[@uadialesandra]

Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on KZbin for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤.

[@annarocha3254]

Can I just say that I started watching your videos when I was recovering from bone cancer. I'm now 30 and I have two children. Your baby videos gave me so much advice, grace, and encouragement. I am praying for you. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable thing.

[@jess_hover]

Wow thank you! This is so encouraging to hear. ❤️ So happy you are well!

[@JEX-w5h]

No this is Not Ok Not Acceptable. Your # 1 Job is to work w/ your Insurance until you have a COMPETENT Oncologist who treats you as a Cancer Patient who Needs Immediate Attention.

[@rebeccalehr7233]

So glad to hear that you recovered from the bone cancer! I know that’s a difficult diagnosis.

[@CandiceCane444]

I'm a cervical cancer survivor, now a radiation therapist, because of my own cancer walk. YOU GOT THIS! Praying for your health and strength throughout this journey! ❤

[@uadialesandra]

Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on KZbin for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤..

[@jessthoma2803]

I just watched Hank Green and Grace Helbig go through their own cancers, and they both said "If you can, make cancer your job. It really is a full-time job to manage it." Set aside as many responsibilities you can to give yourself some space to manage this. I'm so sorry our healthcare system is making this your responsibility... You are such a rock star, and you will get to the end of this! Take as much time as you need/can. We're here for you!!

[@alymj3304]

While I completely agree with the sentiment in theory, it's a lot easier to "make cancer your job" when you have enough money to not need to do an actual job. The impact of financial privilege of the experience of being sick cannot be overstated, especially somewhere like the USA where illness is expensive and financial barriers, like varying levels of health insurance coverage, limit accessibility

[@AnneliseBlackbriar]

I am so sorry the medical system has failed you so far Jess, but I'm glad to hear you have gotten back on track by advocating for yourself. I am a medical professional, and cancer is always a big deal unless the oncologist says otherwise. Sending all the prayers and good vibes your way that it is very small/ already gone, but hopefully you get some answers very soon!

[@amandamayfilms]

I just saw this and my heart sank 🩷 I'm so sorry Jess. I've been watching your videos and listening to your podcast for 3 years since I became a mom and you've been such a big influence & positive voice in my life. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability, and bravery in sharing this news & journey. I will be praying for you and your family as you walk through this together. 🙏🏼 Much love from Canada 🇨🇦

[@jess_hover]

Thank you so much 🥹🥹

[@chaoselemental6759]

All the Love from 🇨🇦 You’ve helped me get thru the first 8 months of motherhood, and helped me know when it was time to reach out for help. I actually shed some tears telling my partner about this video, they just came up 🤷🏻‍♀️🥺 Then I took your advice to heart, and will be looking after my uterine health better too (just had a wonky CT scan with bulky this and swollen that) - I booked a follow up PAP. Love you Jess, and all the other mothers and KZbin followers reading this. 🙏🏻❤️

[@uadialesandra]

Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on KZbin for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤..

[@valentinaplasaj8587]

Speaking pure healing over you in Jesus mighty and powerful name; rebuking all sickness, disease and imbalance in the body. We speak total restoration and anointing over your entire being. Blessing your life with new amazing health. A long happy life and a powerful impact through this.

[@ChristinaBalodimas]

Jess, I’m so sorry you’ve had to go thru all this. This is absolutely NOT how things should work. Cancer is serious, regardless of the type or stage. The fact that all these physicians and medical staff are discounting the severity of your diagnosis is disheartening. I’ve gone thru a breast cancer diagnosis and treatment the past year and have learned that you have to advocate for yourself. It’s like these medical offices and doctors think you know what to do and who to call. It’s like damnit I’ve never had cancer before, I don’t know where the hell to even start. Insurance is the biggest PITA too. I went thru a handful of appeals myself until it went to external appeals and then I got approved! Stay strong and don’t give up. You’re worth it!!

[@ladyblue9801]

I was diagnosed with cervical cancer in 2017. I completely understand how you are feeling. I ended having a hysterectomy but I kept my ovaries. I had micro invasive adenocarcinoma. My doctor didn’t know if I was going to need chemo and radiation until after I had my hysterectomy. Luckily the cancer didn’t reach my lymph nodes and I didn’t need chemo and radiation. I would join a support group for cervical cancer survivors. I found a couple of groups on Facebook. It’s good to talk to others who have or going through what you are through. I also ended up going to therapy to help my process what I had gone through.

[@MrsTurntables]

Girl I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m actually a cervical cancer survivor myself and I’m sending you tons of love and support. You GOT this. I had stage 1 and they removed a part of my cervix but enough to get the cancer but I should 🤞🏽 hopefully be able to still conceive. May you get through this will grace and ease. Don’t be afraid. You GOT this. Your oncologist will send you to get a PET scan so they can confirm where the cancer is and if it’s local or spread to lymph nodes (God willing no). This is the process they go through to stage you. You will get through this. I promise. It is the scariest thing I’ve been through so you’re not alone sister. It’s scary. You will survive this.

[@rosannasmith4203]

Jess, you and your videos singlehandly saved me when I had an unexpected pregnancy in 2019; I finally felt like I had someone to walk through motherhood with. My daughter is 4 now, and thriving, and I attribute a lot of it to you! While I can never repay that favor, know that I (and many, many others) wish you nothing but the best in your recovery, and we are sending love and hugs from around the world. ❤

[@uadialesandra]

Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on KZbin for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤..

[@oliviakamara4627]

My grandmother survived cervical cancer in her 20s after having 5 kids. She's got liver cancer now but she's in her 90s and lived up til recently cancer free. I'm praying for you

[@skylerbaker1161]

I’m usually a silent watcher on KZbin. But I wanted to say I’m currently 18 weeks pregnant with my first and even though I’ve been watching your videos for a long time your still the motherhood content I turn to. I will be praying for you often. It’s amazing how even in dark moments you still shine so bright.

[@MarsieDaugherty-b8i]

I'll tell everyone about you *MR OBALAR* coming across your KZbin channel was a blessing, I'm free from hpv, victory at last..💕

[@sally-annekusters4161]

I'm so glad I'm in Australia. So sorry you are going through this. I truly hope 🙏 this is going to be a little thing you easily overcome. Sending love. X

[@MirandaSampath]

I’m so sorry that this was your experience with an incredibly difficult diagnosis. I wish you well and thank you for sharing your experience. ❤

[@NikkiPhillippi]

Jess I am so sorry for everything you’ve had to go through with this 😣🥺 I’m praying for you and your family and I’m sending you love rn 🙏🏻🫶🏻🤍

[@tweetiebirdism]

I have never heard someone describe navigating our healthcare system so beautifully as you have. I’ve lived with a chronic Leukemia for 14 years and I have heard and experienced it all, although I’m baffled at whatever took you so long to get an appointment with an Onc, holy-moly! It IS scary and no one tells you that a class is needed for how to be a cancer patient AND advocate for yourself! I have found my cancer center social worker has been a life-saver for me.🌸

[@justineplemons7585]

You are my favorite mother. You've made me a better one. Praying and thinking for you.

[@dariandecker2400]

Oh Jess. I’ve been a silent follower since my first kiddo and I have so so valued your honest, your compassion, and your “companionship” through motherhood. This IS a big deal. I’m so sorry. Praying for helpful and compassionate doctors going forward and for the right people to surround you and support you. ❤️

[@ToniRichter11]

I’m only half way through watching and just tearing up from the insanity and incompetence of insurance companies and how this could impact your health. It impacts your mental and physical health to go through this horrible treatment. It reminds me of my c-section to prevent a NICU stay and then the hospital refusal to let me OBGYN perform the surgery and then the hospital pediatrician pushing for NICU stay and unnecessary tests and work and insurance denying claims for months and months. No. Just no. You have cancer. You need every minute to fight it. You and the entire US deserve more. Thank you for your vulnerability ❤

[@IcedCoffeeTime]

Jess 💛I am so frustrated and sorry. Thank you for sharing your (aggravating, unfair, not okay) journey navigating the healthcare and insurance system so far. I am praying for you. You're a light to so many women who are also praying and sending you love.

[@rsvpevents6780]

It sounds like she may have had Medicaid or some government sponsored insurance because I have experienced the same with Medicaid. You call the insurance to see a doctor and they give you a list of three doctors that are approved under your insurance and then you call the doctors and they say they don’t accept your insurance or the number is disconnected or the doctor isn’t accepting new patients…. Long story short, I wind up paying out of pocket for some of my medical needs just because my insurance is so confusing and crappy that I feel like I’d rather just pay a fortune and rack up debt than not be medically treated correctly.

[@nicolette8909]

How incredibly frustrating. 😔 I am so so sorry you’re not only dealing with the scary diagnosis with a lack of clarity but then a major failure of the healthcare system on top of it. I can’t imagine how difficult it has been for you to hold such uneasy half-knowledge of your own health for so long. I pray everyone can put themselves in your shoes and understand the gravity of this to help you get into someone who will be a huge supporter and advocate for you in the spots you can’t reach alone. Sending so much love and support your way and praying for healing of your mind and body ❤

[@PRt-b3i]

So sorry you are go8ng through this,I was diagnosed late 2022 surgery and chemo done already. Stage 4 ovarian total hyst. So appreciative to be inCanada! ❤❤❤

[@annschickerling5419]

I am 72, had cervical cancer at the age of 40. Had to have a full hysterectomy, tests came back fine. Sending lots of love and positive vibes 💖

[@Heatherwash]

You are such a beautiful light and this must be such an intense thing to face. I'm so so sorry! The American healthcare system is absolutely atrocious. I, along with countless others, have been absolutely tossed around. I have cried so many times having to advocate for myself between so many Drs and the insurance and then getting bills I wasn't expected. I'm so sorry. I feel for you. Our healthcare system is so so bad.

[@jaenic79]

I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. Nothing is worse than not knowing. I had my hysterectomy last year after getting diagnosed with cervical cancer. It was a 3 year long journey stemming from an abnormal pap smear when I was pregnant. You helped me so much when I became a mom, no one is tougher than a mom - you’ll get through this bump in the road. Sending you all the love!

[@MonicaBeech]

I've been following you since Wilson was a baby - I actually named my own son Wilson when he was born in 2022. I'm sending you prayers and happy thoughts and sincere hopes that our broken medical system gets its stuff together to help you jump over this hurdle and move on with your life. Keep smiling and laughing and snuggling babies. This, too, shall pass.

[@kathleenlaue3578]

I'm in remission 3 years 3 months stage 1a, serous carcinoma...i experienced the journey alone during the pandemic...stay strong, hopeful , I'll be praying for you...you can do this

[@godcomplex]

Oh jess, I'm sorry our healthcare system is giving you such a hard time. Great job advocating for yourself with doctors/ insurance! What you're going through is scary and you shouldn't have to fight so hard to have your medical needs met. I've learned so much from your videos (despite not having children of my own yet) and I hope this situation is just a bump in the road of the long beautiful life you're meant to have

[@leonaxjayne]

You have given a wealth of knowledge to so many people on this app, me being one. And I just want to send my sympathies that you have been let down by the system and are going through this. We are so fortunate for the NHS here in the uk. I am so sorry the world is not showing you the urgency you deserve x

[@shetlandsheep3081]

As an early stage ovarian and uterine cancer survivor in the UK I cannot believe how crap your experience of health services and insurance was. I did have to wait for surgery but that was for clinical reasons - I had blood clots in legs and lungs caused by the tumour that had to be dealt with first! Apart from that, and a forgotten blood test which made the diagnosis during an ultrasound much more of a shock, once diagnosed everything was smooth and competent and could not fault it. I hope that your experience from now on in is smooth as silk and much much better. Xxx

[@colleencondon1991]

Jess! I am so so sorry. You deserve the opposite of the experience you are having! You are such a light in this world with the most beautiful heart and you deserve all the most beautiful, best, most amazing support and care possible ! It was just painful hearing how the care you have gotten so far has been so far away from what you give and what you deserve! I am praying for nothing but the most beautiful, best care, experiences, and outcomes from here on out. You deserve all the love in the world.

[@priyabansal9983]

I am so sorry for how frustrating all of this has been! But as a health care professional, I am grateful for you sharing this experience in this detail because we don't really see that side of it. It makes me want to do better for my patients.

[@nesslF777]

This video is gut wrenching. I can hear the anxiety, fear, and just massive amount of emotions pouring out. And I am seriously going to be praying for you tonight. You are so incredibly strong, beautiful and inspiring just all around as a woman. I am so so sorry this has been a huge pain in the butt as far as dealing with the poor communication and confusing information. It’s all a lot. God has got this, he knows every hair on your head, he knows the days before they come. You are His and He is yours. Xoxo 💗🙏🏼

[@natasajovanoska2304]

Hey Jess, I am a cervical cancer survivor and a mother. I was diagnosed when I was just 7 weeks postpartum, so it was so so hard on my body and mind. Stay strong and push through it. Cancer doesn't mean death! As for medical system failing you - consider consulting in another contry if you are open to it, private hospitals are effective and not that expensive in some parts of the world. I will pray for you. 🙏

[@Whyarecatsooocool40309]

This is the very first video I’ve seen of yours. I love that ur still trying to have a sense of humor over such a scary and serious matter.…Also you have hope. That alone will take you far. New subscriber btw!

[@taliyahbrown2364]

I’ve watched you for 5 years now since I got pregnant with my baby and you’ve helped me in more ways than you could imagine. I hope that this is easy and just a perspective change. I am praying for you and your family. Thank you for being a light for mother’s who are doing their best.

[@anngraham1778]

Wow Jessica, I was stunned to see your posting about your cancer dx. I watched your channel faithfully when my daughter was expecting our grandson, who BTW turns 4yrs this Valentine’s day. I learned so much from you which helped me be a better grandmother and mother to my daughter. I’m a retired nurse who worked for 46 yrs in the clinical setting. I will be 76yrs old in couple weeks so first, I’m giving you a great big hug , and validating your every concern. You need a patient advocate to help you navigate this mixed up health care system. Unfortunately for now you will your own best advocate. Get a notebook and get your records so they will be in one place. Make copies because you may need to hand them over at your Dr visits , or portions of them. Keep a timeline of when it started and who you talked to. What Insurance coverage denied you procedures or treatment. Time is of the essence!!! There’s no such thing as a “little bit of cancer” You are a young woman with 3 beautiful kids. I hope you meet the right Dr who does the right thing. You may need to loose your ovaries but if your cancer spreads to your ovaries you will never know till thats too late ( symptoms are hard to detect) I may be sounding harsh but I learned a long time ago to say what is true not necessarily what the patient wants to hear. Please keep us informed on this unexpected journey . I hope the comments you receive from this are positive. You need constructive support and ideas. It’s good for people to share their experiences, be kind and positive, and to the point. I will keep you and your family in my prayers,wishing you all the best!

[@VARCENO]

WOW- I can’t believe you still have energy to laugh about it, May God Bless you, and guide you during this terrifying journey. I am ABSOLUTELY APPALLED at the way you have been treated since your diagnosis. It’s awful to have so little support from the health insurance people. You would think that they would make it more feasible for you to start your treatment ASAP- that way it would be less costly in the long run. I wish you God speed on this new journey.

[@doodleacademy]

This is absolutely heartbreaking that you are going through this 💔 I am so sorry. Sending you hugs, prayers, and light 💛

[@ar2397]

I’m actually rarely on this channel…used to watch a lot of your vids when was pregnant etc.! And loved loved loved you have such a calm kind presence. But I believe there’s a reason I saw this today…out of all ppl. I’m so sorry you’re going through that. Medical invalidation and gaslighting is to put mildly: frustrating, and to be totally blunt-traumatic in an already vulnerable position. There were so many things you said I remember dealing with 12 years ago…& ongoing! I’m only 34 but have, I feel, lived twice that. Someone here who was misdiagnosed for 11 years as having fibromyalgia, to then after a traumatic childbirth, finding out the condition I had that had caused me unbearable pain for so many years was actually a super rare & potentially fatal chronic disease (3 in a million to be exact), getting medically invalidated for years. Told I needed to seek therapy, put on antidepressants, gaslighted (best part was a lot of this came from my own family-not all my family though). Found out typical diagnosis of Relapsing Polychondritis takes about 7+ yrs, bc doctors are taught NOT to expect RP bc it’sso rare. Over 12 years I became an expert at (trying) to advocate for myself, to struggling with invalidating my own experience to cope... It affected my husband greatly and still does. Lean into Jesus when you’re at these doctor appointments. Have somebody come WITH YOU. I rarely can…but times I have, the doctors pay better attention or are at least more civil. Out of all the doctors I’ve seen (& there are a lot of specialists this disease required to rule out other things), i can honestly say I’ve had maybe 3-4 good specialists (1 MD, 2 PA’s & The best one is my D.O.) who were actually compassionate & good listeners. i feel like it’s much more rare for MD’s to be compassionate..bc of the way they’re trained..i know there are exceptions to the rule. Just speaking as someone who’s seen literally dozens of doctors…try to become your own doctor. There’s a lot behind that statement. Tbh, if you’re looking for validation in a doctor…whichI feltI was for a whilebc I couldn’t find validation or support in my sister, parents (@one point) they understand very well now] with my experience…try to divert your efforts to Jesus* or your family who is there to love you. Learn everything you can on your own. Even if it means setting aside these other things you do, temporarily. Ask for help. Don’t be hard on yourself for the negligence of your medical team. Be hard on them-hold them accountable. Of course with kindness…but you gotta MAKE them care. Just speaking from experience…it IS a full time job dealing with illness. But with your family, friends, and Jesus…you’ll find a way Jess. Cry out to him.

[@JMJ10781]

May you know and feel His joy in this time of ‘unsettleness” and fear. Praying for you and your family. 🙏🏻✝️🕊️

[@hiimshal]

I’m sorry you haven’t been supported. You are such a lovely person and I’m adding you to my prayer list. Lots of love your way!

[@emilyelizabeth4365]

I had a cervical cancer scare recently. Waiting for results had me practically immobile. I do have a new perspective. Although I didn’t talk about this with the bravery you have. You’re incredibly tough and strong.

[@mamatofive1]

Oh Jess, I am so sorry! How frustrating the medical system is 😭 I can’t get over your positivity and laughter through this…that will carry you through! ❤

[@countrybumpkin9896]

Wow. I started watching your videos when I was pregnant with my first and now I’m on my 4th pregnancy..I haven’t watched in a while but I was like wait I need to watch this cause this is my friend. I’m so sorry and I will pray for you and especially for the comfort of your heart and for healing❤

[@jen_vg]

This breaks my heart. You are such a force of nature, and a positive influence not only on my view of how to approach motherhood but life as a whole. I've always admired the way you radiate kindness and warmth and everything you say feels like an encouraging hug. We need people like you around, so know you have all of our love through this. ❤

[@natashaw5904]

Jess I watched sooo many of your videos during my pregnancy with my daughter in 2021. I so appreciated how “real” you were with your mental health, mom challenges, and willingness to share your experiences. I HATE to hear you have cancer. I am so sorry. And that it has been a tough process with getting treatment. That sucks!!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I have had multiple family members with cancer. And it sucks no matter what stage or severity. Please try to take time for as much holistic self care as possible. All my best wishes for you in this journey. Please keep us posted as you can. ❤

[@adriennehart7453]

This is my first video of yours I have come across. I’m so sorry for all the frustration with insurance and medical providers. (I’m only halfway through the video) but I hope that you get that care and compassion you need and desire at the oncologist office. I worked oncology for 5 years as an RN. All of our team was wonderful and *normally* oncologist and the rest of the staff are angels and truly love and care for their patients!

[@leasanders9295]

Sweet, Jessica ❤️ My husband is a year into his cancer diagnosis.I share that to say first hand cancer is scary. I am so sorry you and your family have to walk thru this. I’m sorry your medical journey has been so ridiculous with the communication and personnel mishaps. I have put you on my prayer list and will keep you there. You are not alone. ❤

[@shaynasmiley]

Hi Jess, your videos really helped me when I was a first time mom. They made me feel really seen and comforted. I am so sorry you're going through this both health wise and because of the insurance situation. That is horrible. Thank you for sharing. Praying for your recovery and strength in dealing with all the health care craziness.

[@carolpowell4766]

I’m sorry for this experience and sad that it’s happening to you & everyone else this happens to. As a nurse & someone who has worked for an insurance company-my advice is to always ask for a Case Manager or Nurse Navigator from your insurance company and/or local Cancer Center/Oncologist etc. they will save you time, improve communication between all the provider teams & you, and help expedite services.

[@davisholman8149]

I am so sorry. 50 years ago, our family lived in Aviano, Italy where my father was stationed in the Air Force. My mother had some female issues & her Italian OB/Gyn told her this. He wished EVERY woman would get a total hysterectomy after having their children. He believed they were not needed organs & did not want ANY families to lose their wife/Mom to cervical/uterine/ovarian cancer. That is what my mom told my sister & I & we both got hysterectomies and we’re glad we did. No more heavy periods - yippee.

[@fullermoments]

I am seeing this 2 wks after it posted ...hoping (what I refer to as) "the crazy train" of mismanagement of your records/appts is finally straighted out. Empathy is powerful...it is a medicine for the soul when someone is going through life altering situations. As a survivor I total get it. For the reasons you mentioned I literally request a copy of ALL my test and scans etc. I pray things are moving along smoother and you are well on the way to getting the answers you need. ❤

[@sarahlevy5035]

Oh my gosh! I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I can’t believe Gods timing with your release of this video though. I’m going in for a LEEP procedure on Friday and everybody keeps telling me it’s no big deal and probably nothing and I just want somebody to acknowledge the fact that I have every right to be afraid because these things are scary. Again I’m so sorry that you’re going through this and I’ll be praying for you and your family!

[@jillianc8524]

Oh noooo. I was just telling my friends about how much I’ve loved your videos for years (I am in my 20s and not a mom but find you super comforting). You are such a shiny, incredible person and I am sending you and the entire family lots of hugs and positivity❤️❤️We all love you so much.

[@bri2252]

Your voice is a wake up call to many. Thank you for sharing.

[@bonniebeingbonnie001]

New sub. I found out I have cervical cancer 5 months ago and an on my second chemo treatment now. Stage 3. Wishing all the best for you.

[@MegaTelenovela]

You are so calm collected and positive. I'm in shock how well you have taken this information and how unprofessional the system is where you live. I'm praying for clarity and recovery for you 🙏🏼💖

[@racheldoherty]

Oh Jess my heart is bleeding for you and your family. I saw your thumbnail and wanted to vomit bc you are just such a ray of sunshine and a safe space on the internet. I feel it in my bones that you are going to be ok. I am so so utterly sorry you have to deal with this. Please keep us updated when you are ready and have more information. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@chiloveisintheair]

I’m so sorry about this Jess. Please document everything you go through, you don’t have to share but document everything!! This is an issue so many people, especially women go through. Im really rooting for you and I’m so sorry the system is so broken. I used to work in healthcare and I’m so familiar with the system

[@ukingly]

Wow this is shocking! I thank goodness for the NHS here in England, it has its floors but super greatful to have it. I wish you a speedy recovery x

[@Sierranite]

I’m a physician ( USA and other countries) also post early stage cancer. Most doctors in the USA have zero understanding of the experience of being a patient. That translates into their lack of empathy. They should all need to be a patient at some point in their career to see what it is like on the other side. The lack of communication amongst different offices is a uniquely American phenomenon. One absolutely has to take charge of one’s own health since nobody else will do that and certainly not the doctors.

[@jdavidson2233]

A few years ago I was really struggling and going through a hard phase in life. One thing that gave me hope was watching your videos. Now in this phase of your life, I will be here with prayer, cheering you on! I hope you can feel the love and prayers I am sending.

[@Heavnsangel79]

I am a cancer survivor and a nurse practitioner. 🙏🏽Prayers Going Up for You. Please advocate aggressively for yourself. ❤

[@Moniquenicole17]

I’m really sorry to hear about the issues you’re having with the medical system, that is so frustrating! I know someone who had blood clots in their leg and they had to wait two weeks for insurance to approve them to see a specialist! You would think blood clots, and cancer would be an urgent situation. Glad to hear you were able to see a new dr, hopefully things start moving a long quicker!

[@ashleya9680]

Make sure before going under they all know not to take your ovaries! I saw another video where they almost took someone else’s and it was written on the surgery board, but everywhere else said do not remove! Sending you best wishes for recovery!

[@francescadavid5628]

I have watched your videos and enjoyed your podcast for the last 4 years since finding out I was pregnant and hearing this was as though a good friend was telling me. After having an odd pap and follow up several years ago I always request a pap every year and the OB always seems to think it unnecessary! I don’t understand why they want to wait for something to be really wrong rather than just keep checking and catch things early. I’m sorry for your rollercoaster experience so far and I’m hoping 2024 is less complicated! I’ll be keeping you and your family in my prayers.

[@megjones7098]

Geeeeeesh that must be so frustrating having to wait for answers like that! I’m so sorry Jess, you will be in my prayers.

[@TheEcinuehenders]

My heart sank reading the title. Praying that God opens doors for you to get the treatment you need and deserve. Sending you love 💕🙏🏽✨

[@SuzieqNC2606]

Bless your heart! Your OBGYN should have found a doctor that was on your insurance plan and faxed over your referral and records. So sorry you are going through all of this. Praying doors will open, so you can get your treatments and surgery done fast. You don’t mess around with cervical cancer. Time is of the essence here. Praying your cancer has not spread and that they found it early. Praying you will be cancer free after treatment and surgery. God bless you!

[@maddigan13]

Hi Jess, I sent a message on the FB group with some information I've learned through my journey with cancer but just want to say youre doing amazing. This must be such a shock and an emotional roller coaster and im so sorry you're having to navigate this. Unfortunately the hospitals often have no bedside manner and can be pretty awful to deal with at times. Thankfully i didnt need to deal with insurance in thd UK which sounds like an added and unnecessary challenge to an already stressful situation. I hope youll find support from other areas (mine were friends and a wonderful reflexologist trained in treating cancer patients who checked in with me, listened to me and just gave me a sense of calm and care i didnt get through the hospital). In fact many times i felt fighting the hospital was worse than fighting the disease and it was exhausting and anxiety inducing. Being a mom was what i really struggled with. The guilt of wanting to be there for my young son but not being completely in control of that. I learned a lot of unfortunatw truths about the cancer industry during my research which made it difficult to navigate the best ways forward. But i achieved PCR and am healthy and well 2 years on and im sure you will have just as positive an outcome. I just want to say youre strong, you matter, your feelings matter and never stop advocating for yourself ❤

[@danielleotten5219]

Ugh I am so sorry you’re going through all this. As a former oncology nurse who is now taking time to be home with my babies, this is disheartening to hear. You have every right to feel frustrated with the system and the care that you’ve so far received. I truly hope you get in to see an oncologist soon because unfortunately that is the only way you’ll get the answers you need in regard to staging and potential progression. Sending prayers and well wishes your way ❤

[@brookseverson8969]

Jess. I’m so so sorry for the go around. It just feels wrong! I am praying right now for divine appointments in the medical field . That you would feel held by God and advocated for going forward. Thank you for all the ways you encourage us all. Praying for the same encouragement for you

[@timelesscollective]

Covering you in prayer Jess! You are loved ❤

[@rochellengonga9860]

Oh Jessica, what a frustrating experience. Thank you so much for sharing with us in such a brave, transparent and honest way. I admire this so much about you and your videos are always such an encouragement to me, so thank you 🤍 praying for you and your family 🙏🏾

[@MarsieDaugherty-b8i]

I'll tell everyone about you *MR OBALAR* coming across your KZbin channel was a blessing,,I'm free from hpv, victory at last

[@brittney1043]

My goodness I am so sorry And yes this is scary especially when you don't know anything and just want answers my thoughts and prayers are with you. It's okay to feel sad and scared just take everyday as it comes one step at a time. And be around those who will show you love and support!

[@TwentyTwo_22_]

Firstly, I am so sorry you have received this diagnosis and had such a stressful experience with trying to get treatment. I am sending you much love and praying for a full recovery for you. I am listening to you with such shock by your treatment from the healthcare providers and especially your insurance provider. I know it takes energy, but I hope you make official complaints as how you have been treated is not right. Thank you for everything, sending you much love. What a horrible shock for you and your loved ones. Please know you are loved and your kind energy is appreciated and needed in this world. xxxx

[@majav.9268]

I have never commented but watched for years. Sending big virutal hugs to you and your family. You are important ❤️

[@barbarameehan113]

I am so sorry that you are going through all this. I was dx. with endometrial cancer just recently. My team is great. So sad that your experience is so difficult. Bless you.

[@jennig3057]

Ohhhhhhh Jessica you sweet sweet beautiful soul.... im praying for you, as are many of the other commentors. This sounds scary as hell and youre putting on a very brave face!! We'll pray for you and your family and your cervix ❤

[@invisibleprincess7665]

I work for an insurance company and this is SO frustrating to hear. It sounds like the type of plan you have requires referrals for a lot of things. I would call your insurance carrier to see if they have a case manager for oncology patients to help you due to the difficulty you are had in coordinating your own care. It doesn’t hurt to ask. I’m so sorry you’re going thru this as early detection is always encouraged but like you said , it’s he’s not to feel like you’re being penalized for it and set aside as “not a big deal”. Hang in there and keep advocating for yourself. You’re doing great and you are a model in patience with this process. **Squeeze hugs to you**

[@ValerySherina]

Jess, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I wish it's nothing and they already scraped it off. You are an amazing beautiful soul. I'm really hoping you'll get answers in a timely manner.

[@sarahfisher3457]

Praying praying praying for you. I can only imagine how upside down you are feeling right now. You will overcome this. Sending love

[@carolgoovaerts6503]

You are soooo full of kindness and compassion. So brave. Cancer is so scary what ever "faze" its at. Sending love and strength.

[@Withme-k3e]

Iam so sorry to hear this I started following you when I gave birth to my son and my depression was high.your vedio helped me a lot you are such inspiring women my prayers for you

[@asash_]

I’m praying for you. May the Lord give you peace and strength. 🙏🏾🙏🏾”So do not fear for i am with you. Do not be dismayed for i am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. i will uphold you with my righteous right hand”

[@hilaryb1993]

Aw Jess, I am so sorry, friend. I am praying for you so fiercely right now. Thank you for sharing and I will be praying for you.

[@RekikA]

I am sorry you are going through this, i can only imagine how hard this must be. God be with you 🙏 ❤ sending you love and healing

[@natecheverri3440]

Praying for you Jess!! Been here since you started this channel! I’ve seen your faithfulness in your walk with the Lord! He will continue to walk by your side. This did not took Him by surprise. ❤

[@AbiBloomUK]

I am so sorry to hear this and so sorry to hear the slow speed you’re receiving help in. This is unacceptable. I was diagnosed with CIN4 (precancerous cells) and told it was a matter of months before I had ‘official’ cervical cancer. This was after my very first smear which I didn’t avoid and went to right away as a ripe early 20 year old. Had a lot of my cervix removed and told “we think we got everything, come back in 5 years” like what!? I was also told I might need a hysterectomy and might not be able to have kids etc etc but it all worked out in the end. The difference to me is I need surgeries during pregnancy to put something in place to keep my cervix closed when pregnant and it’s now ‘incompetent’ and I nearly had my son at 22 weeks. I’ll be thinking about you lots ❤

[@erinfagan405]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We’re all here for you ❤

[@bethanykuntz6640]

Our God is mighty and able! Praying for you and your family. Much love from Canada ❤.

[@morningmom6]

I am just so sorry that you are going through this. 11 years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I thought they would send me to an Oncologist right away, but they didn't. They said the Oncologist couldn't help me until after surgery and biopsy was done. That is when they would know what type of breast cancer I had and what stage it was. Once the Oncologist had that information (plus blood work, other testing, etc) we would decide on a plan regarding radiation and chemo. I hope this helps you!

[@cross5063]

Jess I've been watching you since before I had children and now I have two. We all love and support you so much ❤

[@laurawilliams6981]

Good grief!! I am so sorry you went through all of that!!! I had cancer a few years ago and can’t imagine going through all of that on top of the scary journey of cancer. Praying for you Jess! Praying God will heal your body and help work out every detail. 🩷