I hired a professional organizer to declutter my home and my mind is BLOWN!

Ya'll I finally did something that I've been wanting to do for such a long time. I hired a professional to help me declutter and organize the girls rooms. I have so much to share and can't wait to show you the final results. How are you doing on your decluttering journey?
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Hi! WELCOME! Thanks for stopping by! My name is Jia. Hubby’s name is Charles. Our little ones are Zara (10) and Ava (8). If you need motivation on decluttering, cleaning, organizing and just getting it done, you are in the right place. This is Real life. Real messes. Real moments. And Real love. Did I mention, I love to shop. So tons of Shop with me’s, Costco hauls, and much more. Of course on a budget, because we live a debt free life. If you need help with that, we talk about that too! As a working mom, I share what works for us. I hope to inspire, encourage, and learn. Join me on this journey!
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[@TessieDobey]

We did the exact same thing six months ago. They helped us declutter our entire house; attic to basement! Yes it cause us a mini Harvard tuition! Twenty -five bags of clutter, 17 bags of clothing and a bunch of other things we donated. How long did it taje? Three weeks and it was difficult, I cried, cursed, at the end it was worth it!

[@lauramitchell6725]

Was it an hourly rate?

[@jaynaevans5848]

@Tessie Doberman: How did you find your right person? How long did it take and how many hours did you/you all have to put in? And how did they charge… hourly?

[@jessicacruz2974]

“It’s ok to ask for help in the things that you’re not strong in” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 this realization is everything. I love this

[@suzithewitch]

As a (recovering?) People Pleaser, I'm so overjoyed to hear you're raising your girls to be strong women. Thank you!

[@ptt218]

Excellent decision! I loved my time working with an organizer. At a certain point I learned it is sometimes better to spend money to save time, than it is to spend time to save money.

[@taleesewalsh5643]

That is something I appreciate hearing. I come from a family that sacrifices time.

[@lauramitchell6725]

Was it an hourly rate?

[@ptt218]

@@lauramitchell6725 it was a 5 to 6 hour package, similar to what Jia describes in her follow up to this video.

[@lauramitchell6725]

@@ptt218 was it like $500.00 ish or am I still way off?

[@ptt218]

@@lauramitchell6725 I am in NJ. It was a few years ago but I think the package was about $1000, actually for probably 5 2 to 3 hour sessions. So about $100 an hour.

[@Purity10101]

I love how you got your kids completely involved by being their own voice in what they want to get rid of or keep! I need to step back and let mine do the same!

[@rerebrook5057]

I do this with my 7 year old. She decides what toys will be donated.

[@patriciachicco9763]

That’s awesome I’m happy for you. I asked my husband (only child) last year for that for a professional organizer to help me get organized. He said no. I’m a stay at home mom. I work two days only at his job as a receptionist. I mostly spend my days with our kids 5 and 2 both get therapy. I go through stages of depression and I go through anxiety. I probably have adhd too but never been diagnosed. I’ve been a stay at home mom for 7yrs. I told my husband last yr I wanted this to maybe help with my depression and anxiety but him AND my mother in law (we live with her, he won’t move) both cheap said why are we going to pay money when it’s going to get messy again it’s a waste of money. And she said you can do it yourself for free. I said I can’t I get overwhelmed easily and gives me anxiety and with both kids home. They said we’ll make time and just try it. My husband has made fun of me me that me cleaning up is like the construction on the streets of LA taking forever. Till this day I realize they don’t give a crap about me or my mental health. I’m happy to see you got help. That’s awesome. Proud of you.

[@noelc2]

My mom used the “slob sisters” 3x5 card system when I was little & everything was done, clean, organized - with 7 kids at the time. Then, we moved & my parents divorced (this was 30 years ago)She was never the same with cleaning. My younger sister doesn’t ever remember having a clean home, and I couldn’t usually invite friends over. It wasn’t hoarders but it was never really clean. Honestly, I think something inside her said “I cleaned & my marriage still fell apart”, so she just faces a mental block with it. I cleaned her bedroom for her for her birthday…she was so grateful she gave me a hug & said “it was really upsetting me” & she was so much happier now that I cleaned it. It’s not that she couldn’t, but it does help when someone jump starts you or just does it once in a while. It can be mentally overwhelming. She’s not depressed per se, but that area is really really hard for her…desiring to have it clean but not able to perform it. I hope you get some cleaning help & hope your family realizes how important it is. It is hard for me at times too! A clean home does mentally lift your spirits as well. My husband does almost zero housework, but when he sees I’ve had a hard day (I work PT at home) he will vacuum or do a load of dishes. It means a lot, honestly. ❤

[@patriciachicco9763]

@@noelc2 Thank you. A mess can really affect your mental health.

[@kseniaeverton8089]

Oh gosh... That sounds like a really hard and unhealthy situation. Getting help from professionals and support and understanding from family is healthy.

[@patriciachicco9763]

@@kseniaeverton8089 yea I agree. I think I just have to save up money and do it on my own. I few for people that have a messy home now because I know it’s not easy it’s not laziness it’s a mental health thing.

[@patriciachicco9763]

@143taina lol yup

[@user-ig8mh5nq1f]

You’re such a loving wife, person, and mom Jia. Be encouraged.

[@rebeccaoliver7977]

My mom gave me the great gift of frugality and I took it to a new level in my 30s. The day finally came when I wondered when I was going to start spending my money. That was a turning point. Learning to spend for luxuries I love was so hard at first, now I'm settling in and not holding back -- but don't ever overdo. Great step! Keep it up.

[@sct4040]

I always say, save some, spend some. I am now selling stuff and hope to be able to travel once again.

[@ABeautifulHorizonTV]

Not second-guessing what they choose to declutter is huge! I caught myself doing that today while decluttering with my kids and thought about it. So funny to hear it now in a video. So many good nuggets of wisdom in this video, Jia! 🙌

[@momofjstk]

Way to go on really starting the process and seeking help in an area where you don't feel super strong. As you exercise those decluttering muscles you will find that your shopping habits will change. I know you look for deals, but it's not really a deal when you don't really need it and it will just wind up not being used or tossed aside. I love that your girls were delighted and even purged more. I am sure they felt the weight of all the excess in their closet. You gave them a wonderful gift!!

[@rayray91764]

We took the Dave Ramsey class and taught it three times to our church. We are officially debt free this year, as our last thing we owed on (our house) finally sold. I understand your hesitancy Jia as for about 11 years we were paying off our debt while at the same time sending our son to college and graduating debt free. Those days we were happy to share a meal at McDonald's..to sacrifice for the ultimate goal and leave a wonderful legacy for our kids! It was two years ago we were going to celebrate our 25th anniversary but then Covid hit and the world shut down. Now, we're ready to celebrate and the thought of even spending 10k on our belated 25th is still very hard to swallow, but we can honestly say it was worth it and God has allowed us the finances to finally celebrate in Italy! You need to invest in yourself, your mental health, and not feel guilty to reward yourself for years of sacrifice every now and again ☺

[@MarriageMotherhood]

Congratulation! You have beautiful testimony!

[@donnastratton8397]

That's amazing! Hubby and I were able to go to Italy this past May as a combination retirement and 30 year anniversary trip. We had to reschedule twice due to Covid, but finally got to go and it was so amazing. 11 days exploring Italy was a dream come true for us and a trip of a lifetime.

[@rayray91764]

@@donnastratton8397 Oh congratulations to you two! Yes, our Italy trip will be our first trip outside of North America, and we can't wait!

[@donnastratton8397]

@@rayray91764 Soak in every moment. We took hundreds of pictures. My only regret, not taking more videos. Just video the comings and goings of people around you if you can. Just watching life on the island of Capri was a favorite of mine.

[@rayray91764]

@@donnastratton8397 Thanks for the advice!

[@janessadethrow5649]

I have had a very rough week and this morning after I got done with another round of craziness I settled down with KZbin. Then I thought to myself "What is Jia up to? It's been awhile since I watched her". Let me tell you that this video resonated with me so much! I sat here crying, just thinking about how inspiring you are. You are such a great mother, and seem like such a genuine person. Thank you for your videos. They really do help inspire others.

[@brikay]

“…The beginning phase of people pleasing” This was a trigger for me because my Mom would constantly make me second guess myself (unintentionally). It creates insecurity on top of being passive (people pleasing). Kudos to you for paying attention to such a thing. Great video! 💖

[@tinak6776]

I appreciate your honesty and perspective. I work full time and like to have a really clean house, but I just don’t want to spend my time off mopping floors. So I lay someone to come every 2 weeks and do the deep cleaning and it so worth it.

[@anaalves3658]

Teaching your daughters to know what they like and don't like and being respectful of their decisions is so valuable to who they will turn out to be. I get my 8 year old daughter to declutter all of her things, she knows that there is a keep, maybe and goodbye pile and she has gotten really good over the years at making decisions. It is sometimes hard for me to let go of expensive unused items or sentimental items, but I have to respect her choices. Just last week she helped her 12 year old cousin do a major declutter of her wardrobe and she was brilliant at it and super encouraging and helpful to her big cousin, who did a fantastic job of letting go of clothing that she was not going to wear any more.

[@claireclaire8370]

That's awesome! Sometimes you just need to spend the money and not feel guilty about it and get some help! Nothing wrong with having your hand held through the process and being encouraged along the way! You must feel so refreshed to get rid of all that unwanted stuff! Way to get it done!

[@rosalieduffy882]

I follow The Minimal Mom channel because she decluttered 80% of her items over the past years and she started when her four kids were about ages four to eight. (Yes, four kids in five years!) You are experiencing the benefits of a simplified home! She gives tips for teaching your kids how to learn this, how to keep your inventory down, and to realize this will be an ongoing process forever because things are always coming into our home. Your decluttering muscles will get stronger and stronger.

[@drinaramirez1114]

Ghia, I’m almost halfway through the video and I just have to say IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! Hearing you say “I went through all the books.” I went through all of this or that and I can’t help but smile and feel proud of you knowing how much decision fatigue affects you. Go you Ghia!! 🎉🎉

[@sillymamacita3854]

I'm a professional home organizer and it is my dream job!! I love giving people back their spaces and peace at home. I am passionate about the difference it makes for people. So glad you did this for yourself and family!! 😁🙌❤️

[@lauramitchell6725]

May I ask what state you live in and a ballpark of your fees? Then I can quietly make a plan.😬 ( just to clarify,I’m sure that you don’t live near me,but if I could gauge your area and rates, I would know what I would have to save up for. Thanks in advance 👌

[@sillymamacita3854]

@@lauramitchell6725 Sure! I live in Oregon and I charge $150 for three hours. I also offer discounts for packages with multiple sessions. 😁 Wishing you the best! 😁🙌❤️

[@sillymamacita3854]

@@lauramitchell6725 Also, Find my Organizer is a site where you can enter your zip and it will show you local organizers in your area! 😁

[@lauramitchell6725]

@@sillymamacita3854 Thanks so much!👍🥰

[@VS-fo9py]

Jia, we would still continue to love to see your shop with mes, even if you don’t purchase every item. There were times I watched and felt you would feel guilt for leaving an item at the store and not getting it when it was on sale, but also seeing all the bags of stuff that you are releasing from house, is kind of a testament to not needing all the “stuff”. We love your commentary, so even if you don’t buy the items, I still won’t mind watching you talk about them 😊 and thank you for giving us stressed out moms the permission to call in help or the experts. A lot of us women carry a lot of the weight on our shoulders and feel less than if we can’t “do it all” but it gets overwhelming.

[@miriamhdez4900]

Gia, girl I have watched you battle the clutter for years to the point that I had to take a break from several channels including yours because it would trigger my anxiety. I turned 41 a few days ago and am now revisiting old channels that I once loved to see if they still spark joy. Girl, I have the biggest smile on my face watching your video because you are FINALLY doing something for yourself and your mental health by hiring a professional to guide you and it’s beautiful to see your personal growth. It’s crazy what turning 40 does to a woman. It’s like a rebirth of our mind and soul. Get it girl! I’m proud of you and look forward to catching up with your content that I’ve missed. Happy holidays to you and your beautiful family. 💛

[@Jo-hello]

I just turned 40, I’m hoping to implement some serious changes in my life this year and I’m excited!!!!

[@mwcmwc8768]

Wow! Once again, your wise words resonated so well with me! I understand what you’re saying completely! You have inspired me to get help as well! Thank you for making these videos. I don’t know if you realize it, but it’s sort of a ministry and allows the Lord to work through you and help others. Thank you!

[@MarriageMotherhood]

I pray daily that the Holy Spirit moves through us all!

[@06Joybells]

🤍 How FUN !!!!!!! I Marie Kondo’d my home. It is a continual, joyful process in terms of editing too. I’d love to see more of your professional Marie Kondo process. I listen to “Spark Joy”, and “The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up”, over and over as I work through the process.

[@SpicyChannelShoutOuts]

Gia your house is large as well, I think you should have a cleaning service come in once a month to do a deep clean as well. I watch many KZbinrs that hire cleaning services to get things done. You can even get a local decorator to help you put your master bedroom together. I think it is really important to have you and your partners personal space decorated and a space of peace as well as romance. Give the room a vibe that's just for you guys.

[@DivinevirgoFeminine]

I think this is valuable information but, I really wish we could stop saying master bedroom you instead we could say you and your husband's bedroom is a great way to describe her bedroom.

[@jtidema]

@@DivinevirgoFeminine I guess you could say the Primary Bedroom? When you label it on a drawing it does need some kind of name...

[@glendab4777]

Owner's Retreat...

[@laurabrown9943]

You could say the couple's bedroom

[@sct4040]

No to the decorator, watch the Feng shui guy on KZbin. You can do it yourself, without buying more and more décor stuff.

[@shaysey6857]

I just know this money spent is way better than that $1k on those Xmas lights. Okkkkkkur You deserve this Jia!!!

[@MarriageMotherhood]

Girl yes!

[@erikacollins4194]

I'm so glad you did this for yourself and for your family! I fully beleive that the cost for professional help in this area specifically SAVES you money. If you're unable to get there yourself, you often spend smaller amounts of money time and time again on supplies to try and do it yourself...only to find yourself doing it again the following year. Also, we overbuy because we can't find things. I'm pretty good and decluttering and organizing but I still have someone come in from time to time when I see things start to get out of hand because I KNOW letting it continue on that path will end the end, cost me money and cost me stress! I'm so very happy for you. And I TOTALLY and COMPLETELY agree with the underlying messages we send to our kids! Buy 1 thing you REALLY want instead of 17 things that you only kind of like. YOU. DESERVE. IT!

[@emilyjol978]

This video was so refreshing! I would love to hear more about your experience with a professional declutterer/organizer in the future.

[@iamsdoula]

Love those glasses

[@oldmarriedcouple1]

Oh my goodness!!! My husband, of 32 years, and I were just talking about this issue last month! We have always been frugal and still have his and mine furniture from our single days. Yes, we have been in a frugal rut. The kids have been out of the house for a couple years and we plan on making 2023 the year of us. We plan on replacing our old single days furniture with good quality pieces. We're actually really enjoying the process. I'm glad you're doing this now for yourself and not waiting till your in your 50's. :) Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours.

[@jalapenojalapeno5590]

Thank you for sharing your journey! I am 22 and just like your kiddos saying "oh but that's a lot of money" even when I've been given permission to spend! You also articulated super well, "you don't know how to not eat those beans and rice all the time." I really relate with that! I grew up with not much money, pretty frugal, always looking for the best deals. Thankfully through all of that my mom still managed to instill this in me: Don't buy something just because it's on sale, buy it because you planned to buy it already and will save some money now. Also, buying lots of cheap things actually adds up to costing more than buying one expensive thing, so invest more money in the things you will really use for a long time." She's a budgeting queen but I'm thankful she taught me to invest in things that are important.

[@donnaaddy7265]

I’m glad you’ve invested in your mental wellness! My daughter is a professional organizer and when she helps me I feel sooo much better! Less is more! It’s easier to maintain order because of everything has a “home”.

[@TraciRene]

Jia. Loved this video. Sometimes I would get stressed watching you be stressed over the decision fatigue that you experience so I'm happy you got some help. Also I LOVE seeing the change in perspective that women go through after turning 40. I think it's magical and makes me excited about getting older. As with everything, balance is always needed...even when it comes to DR because his methods aren't always the most effective for long term happiness. ❤️

[@jorinde85]

I love your reflection on how you talk to your girls about this and letting them decide. It also took me some time to learn to follow my daughter's own gut when it comes to her own clothing, and not convince her to keep things she doesn't like. The frugal mindset is also one that I struggle with and I don't want to pass on the fear of being without money to my kids, yet also foster this idea of using money to create the life you want, not just buying stuff for the instant gratification. Great video!

[@lulubellz]

When you talked about reinforcing and encouraging your children to make their own decisions, that really hit. It gives such a new perspective on allowing them to be autonomous with their belongings. Love it! My daughter is still under 2, but it's something I will keep in my mind as she grows. I love that. ❤️ I really need to try the Marie Kondo method myself, I watched her show, and when she explained why she follows those steps it seems like a really cleansing process for the mind, body, and soul.

[@personperson9635]

I understand what you are saying about changing your mindset on spending money. We just spent $3500 on a new mattress. We are getting older and my husband works a physically hard job. He made the point that we spend 1/3 of our life in bed, we might as well invest so we can get good quality sleep and hopefully it will last several years.

[@donnastratton8397]

Excellent point. I have always spent a little more on nice sheets for our bed because I love to be comfy when I sleep! Right now I'm in the market to replace my memory foam pillow that my daughter got me 5 years ago. Lol

[@cme2858]

Congrats Jia! I can tell how much lighter you feel. Looking forward to seeing the results of your sessions. Happy Holidays to y’all 😊

[@pathtowellnesswithmiriam1371]

Your words resonate with me. I've been working so hard to not spend money that now I spend literal months thinking of buying a certain item that I want. It's important to not just have the bare bones of what you need. It's important to enjoy life too.

[@leadavis494]

I hope Dave Ramsey or someone on his staff sees this. I often wish he would focus more on the days when it is no longer rice and beans, beans and rice but the days of living like no one else. We got there and still can't seem to live without fighting that save it all, don't spend and live with old crap. My husband keeps convincing himself that his 20 year old recliner is "just fine" while it hurts to sit in it! I am so glad you shared this! You bless us all so in your walk to discernment and being a good steward. I pray you (and we) find balance in the blessings we have.

[@MarriageMotherhood]

I completely understand. It’s like we work so hard to get to a certain point that your mind gets kind of stuck in a pattern of making every decision based on price.

[@kkgaming37]

Dave does have a “legacy” course about living after the baby steps.

[@leadavis494]

@@kkgaming37 I have to check this out! Thanks so much Jennifer Castaneda! Merry Christmas!

[@tbutler8228]

Jia, I'm so happy you shared this. I had the same struggle, but if you have the means, then you should allow yourself to splurge on certain things. I also think you transitioning to 40 is a part of it. There's something about 40 that gets you to want more, do more, and enjoy life.

[@bl4639]

I LOVE that you stated your girls are at an age where they need their own spaces. We all need some personal space, and clearing the clutter is setting such a good example for them to follow.

[@karenr.sternberg1920]

It's HUGE that you're modeling learning to asking for help when one needs it & that IS OK to do. It's not only normal, but actually a sign of strength to be able to RECOGNIZE & ACT on needing help. No judgment, shame or embarrrassment needed. Keep up your Good Work!

[@JEU4328]

I love that you recognized that you need help and hired someone to give you the help and guidance you need. You are investing in your family’s comfort, well-being and happiness, and there is nothing more important than that. ☺️

[@keeperofmyhome]

Can’t wait to see the girls’ room, and yours! Thanks for the inspiration and reminder that it’s ok to ask for help Sis! 💕

[@TheLuzy18]

I absolutely love how you describe your thought process b/c that’s exactly how I feel

[@buttonscreations]

I have never seen someone come in a clean like this, but it is something that I love doing with my friends (I can see the organization and rearranging under the piles of things that they miss being in the thick of things) but had no idea you could be certified in this as a job. I love your spaces 🥰 good job getting things taken care of, that will definitely help you relax for the Christmas season and the new year

[@SJ_Hunter]

You gave some great insight in this video, and I'm really looking forward to the girls' rooms reveal... S/N I love your glasses 🤓

[@EagleArrow]

Proud of you. By doing this, you are teaching yourself and girls to be accountable for your own stuff. It shouldn't be all on one person to declutter for many people. Daily habit to declutter and to put on your calendar to declutter each week. An hour here and an hour there really helps.

[@seekfirst5248]

Your videos have inspired me to declutter as well. I am looking for things that I can get throw out of the house. Thank you for the inspiration. Sometimes you just need a little help to get motivated. The in-laws will just love you.

[@helsbels7686]

Yes, I love the Kon Marie method & asking for help is in no way something to feel bad about. It's a form of support and therapy to help lessen the burden on yourself ❤️

[@SK-jp2ok]

Beautiful to hear how you’ve grown! My attitude toward “stuff” has also changed over the years. Now I value space over “things”. It takes a long time to change. Love your “dream big” attitude 👏

[@atruefallenangel3]

Omgoodness yes!!! When you speak about being in a frugal mindset I swear you spoke straight to me. I was frugal (still am) to the point that I could have been on the extreme couponing show lol I did it to save money for my first home. Now that I finally own a home it’s hard to switch to quality over quantity. Also with being frugal you get into a habit of just getting things that are cheap instead of getting something that you actually like. So now I feel like I’m learning who I am & what’s my style

[@camis.1347]

Soooo glad to hear that you donated! Certain broken things like baskets will be taken, as they can be repaired or repurposed. Feels good to get organized!

[@christinedisneyqueen5746]

So happy for you Jia. You are getting what you need and want out of life. 💚

[@graceaxisa4213]

Yes, that frugal mindset is difficult to pull away from. My husband and I have worked hard to progressively pay off debts and live mortgage free. Now, we're in a position where we can buy a few luxuries and it is so difficult to justify the spend, without guilt setting in. But, we are gradually spreading our wings and enjoying some meaningful purchases. As for the decluttering, it's one of the most freeing things I've ever done. I have more to do but I am so excited about what's ahead! Thank you for this most honest and wonderful video!

[@maryannhorner1900]

Yes, yes, yes! I’m 58 and am just learning this concept. First time viewer, looking forward to watching more. 💕

[@ginaem2008]

After watching Marie Kondo on Netflix, I was inspired. Just getting rid of stuff was so freeing. Every year now I do an inventory of stuff and get rid of more, something very therapeutic about it. I’m happy for you in this organization endeavor.

[@marilu234]

I love how you teach your kids to invest in important stuff. Parents usually teach their kids to save money and to go for "a good deal" and not what is best. I am now in my twenties and am still trying to learn that I can buy a pair of jeans that is on the more expensive side because I am wearing them every single day. You can buy 3 cheep and ugly pants or you can buy one that is more expensive, but suits you best and lasts longer.

[@SpicyChannelShoutOuts]

Glad you got help because you need to see how its done so you can learn better habits. I believe you have to make your home a real home, especially during Covid and staying home and you have to really look around at the things you neglected. We had to learn to be comfortable in our personal spaces, during Covid people were cleaning, decorating, and decluttering to make their home feel good to be in. I'm still doing that as well, I'm fixing things I never got to, decorating, getting rid of things that have no purpose in my home and it has lowered my anxiety and makes me want to be home. I'm able to work at home better without seeing the things that annoy me and feeling a new energy in my home. Great job for teaching your girls how to live better, so when they live on their own they will know good habits and create a space they love.

[@susanwelch9496]

something free to me, is you give me joy. you go sweetie.

[@elisacolon5060]

This was such an inspiring video. Like you I often keep things or buy things on sale "just in case" we might need it. I sometimes feel like paying full price for something nice is a sin...LOL. I am inspired mostly by your word EXECUTE. Because like you I also just entered my 40s and I feel like I need to make changes in my life. Let's make some changes girl!!! Here's to 2023. Happy Holidays to you and your family.

[@MarriageMotherhood]

😘😘😘

[@Sjenkins-kz2et]

Oh Gosh how I wish your videos decluttering your house were numbered so I could watch them step by step! Lol! Love these and Congratulations on organizing the things that bring you joy!

[@brendascally116]

Different stages in life bring different goals, different priorities, different needs. Variety is the spice of life. For me, now, nothing is coming into the house that I do not know how to multiply the continued use of something. Recycle, upcycle, buy nothing group, etc... the hardest part in decluttering is where does it all go? Baby steps. Start in one corner of the room, but just strt ;)

[@bettydoerksen2224]

So much that hit home for me! Good for you to let your girls make their own decisions. With your explanation I realized that I was totally “trained” as a people pleaser and making decisions for myself is so hard. I’ve been working on it and have made some progress, but it’s so hard. I’m sure your girls feel good to be able to make your own decisions.

[@christinec112]

You are so positive and encouraging! Please keep sharing your message. 🥰

[@amyk6403]

The opening statement of this video is the story of my life! You're such a good mom for being able to see the "clutter enabler" in yourself.

[@donnastratton8397]

Jia I am so happy for you!! What an inspiring video. Whatever you spent to get help with decluttering, it was worth every penny for you! Much more so than spending a thousand dollars for outside Christmas lights. Don't get me wrong, I love outside Christmas lights and would love to have them too, but it's for such a short time and mostly to look good for the neighbors. Lol. I can't wait to see more of your journey and can't wait to see the girls' new rooms. You've inspired me to get my butt in gear after Christmas and finish what I started a couple years ago when my dad passed away. We cleaned out their house and a lot of their junk made its way to my home to reside with our junk. And I need to be more brutal in getting rid of most of it. My husband is super sentimental and wants to keep every scrap of paper our grown kids ever owned. And I'm like, Nope! We cannot keep everything. MERRY CHRISTMAS to you and your family from East Tennessee. ❤

[@melissahartsfield6289]

You have really spoken to me and inspired me today! I never think about doing something like this for myself/family. I only have one kiddo and she accumulates so much 'stuff'..... pictures, books, toys, clothes.... and the list goes on! This will be my goal by the end of the year... it's going down! Thanks for this video! I needed to hear that I am not the only one struggling with this.

[@mecedeiz]

So happy for you!! This video was very much needed, I needed to hear all the words you spoke!! Very inspiring!!! I always struggle with delayed gratification. So thank you for sharing your life and experiences it really helps ❤

[@bettyf8457]

Girl, yes! Very inspiring to continue my own decluttering journey. Very happy for you as you continue yours! Thank you, Jia, for another great video! Happy decluttering!

[@LissaRick]

WOW! This is incredibly eye opening! Thank you so much for sharing your experience here for all of us!

[@BackroadMoney]

I love this message! You are so on point, after paying off debt it becomes hard to spend money. You have to relearn all over again.

[@ceciliavallejos9887]

A pat in the back!!! busy mom only has 24 hrs a day, Problem is the mind races with a million things for the family, and only two hands to think, process execute the work and finally dispose to donate, dump or pass it on to someone else in the family. Kuddos to you for the effort!

[@Ally-oh]

That's awesome. Good for you getting it done and doing it for you and your family!

[@sharonadams2858]

I hope that you realize how powerful your words of transparency were! You are definitely executing your talent and gift in inspiring and Motivating other women! Thank you for sharing your experience with bringing someone in to help declutter etc. There was EXELENCE in your humbling testimony! You are not playing about your goals for 2023 and that's an encouragement for me personally! Again, thank you so much!

[@DebM122]

Hiring help is an extremely wonderful gift to give yourself and family. People don’t always think about the mental health issues attached with decluttering. I’m thinking of hiring someone because it won’t be a struggle but pure joy to have a knowledgeable person helping me. Great video and new subscriber here. Thank you.

[@cack121]

This vid was AWESOME. So happy for you. I hope you share a LOT more of this journey. Thrilled to see how much you removed from you home. You will be so much better for it

[@DB-fx5oo]

I’ve been working with a professional organizer as well and I love it! I trust her and it’s wonderful not having to come up with all the ideas and decisions on my own. Loved this video!

[@shamirahamilton5699]

Amazing ! So happy for you! Freeing up all that space in your mind !!!

[@cubbymombudgeting8027]

Jia, I have followed you from day one! You deserve this...enjoy the transformation and give yourself a pat on the back for the grace you so deserve ❤️ PS and you gave us that budget template for free with no strings attached! May you and your Beautiful family always be Blessed and Highly Favored...Jay from NJ now from GA.

[@cherlynwagner6927]

This is so encouraging! I relate in so many ways. And I totally do that with my kids (changing their minds on items they didn't want from a purge) - you are sooooo right! Thank you for that perspective.

[@griselleisara3799]

Jia. I have been watching you since the beginning. I think I wrote every chance I got. Girl. You need to declutter. I’m glad it’s finally happening. You will feel so much better. The energy in your home 🏡 changes. It feels lighter. Believe me. If I could afford an organizer. I will do it❤️

[@immastarrrr15]

Love this mindset shift! Good for you Jia!

[@NJHeart2Heart]

Just watched this video as a declutterer. Loved your comments about Ramsey and financial work but also about being willing to spend money on something of true value. Kudos for you for ALL you've been doing to improve your life and that of your family!

[@madeleine1138]

You are so wise when you say decluttering will always be something you do and not a final destination. I finally admitted that to myself after years of asking myself why can't I keep things more tidy all the time. Accepted me as is and do my best.

[@2348523]

I’m here for it! I can’t wait to start back decluttering during winter break 💕

[@shaunaferguson6102]

Oh my this is my first video of yours and I'm an immediate subscriber! ❤️ All you said rings so true to me! We've been on a similar journey and now it's time to bring our home together! Can't wait to see more of your content!

[@jenniferrobison1345]

I want to say thanks for the great video and encouragement on decluttering. Today I spent about 4 hours in the master bedroom closet and drawers!!! 4 bags in my trunk to donate and a lg bag of trash 😃. Still have a shelf and shoes. Another day, I’m exhausted!! Feels great.

[@annedon776]

Outstanding! Great words to start the New Year! Thank you.

[@Purity10101]

Great video! I can totally understand and relate with the being frugal- but it sounds like you made a very wise and effective INVESTMENT into your home, your family life, and overall well being in hiring a professional declutterer!

[@conniepleasantnails]

Great job, decluttering is something I do all year long and I love it. I feel organized within my home and I feel like I make far better choices when it comes to bringing in new things. My furnishing are nicer, buy my wardrobe reflects my life which is very casual. I purchase almost everything on sale but I look for the best quality I can afford. I declutter my computer (emails & apps), I also declutter paperwork, kitchen, bathroom, my makeup drawer & our closets. We do live minimal but things can still build up just no so much anymore. I love watching THE KARLA PROJECT, here on youtube and her approach is always a nice reminder there are lots of people out there like me who prefer a simpler life. Congratulations on all of your hard work and I’m sure you whole family will join your journey to maintain everything once you get it all together. It also makes the way for the things you really want to come to you. ❤😊

[@altovissmith5807]

🎉🎉 way to go Jia!! This video just made my day! So inspirational in soooo many ways. ❤

[@dreacormier5111]

Gia this is so awesome! I’ve been your subscriber for some years now. I started my minimalism journey last year. My husband thought I was joking when I said I wanted a cleaning service to come clean our house for my Mother’s Day gift! I will definitely be bringing this up again to him next year.

[@amandarodriguez1752]

By far this is the best decluttering video i've seen. Great tips about getting your mental state to a place to take action.

[@sharonheller6565]

Congrats to you. I hope this process works for your life moving forward.

[@damarisarts9489]

This is the video I needed to see! Thank you for sharing your journey. Prayers for strength to finish your projects.

[@celticlassie]

Loved that you hired someone to help. I feel like I need one to really get into decluttering my things. I grew up in a house where anything that could be useful was saved. Have a short with holes in it? Don’t throw it out save it for rags. I feel like I’ve become a pack rat over the years and definitely feel overwhelmed like you do when I need to go through and really purge.

[@marykaydestiny8422]

You are not alone my sister ❤️🙏🏽 Grant yourself grace & celebrate small wins each day 😘

[@KISSmartie]

Jia, I am SO happy you did this for yourself!! This waa absolutely money well spent! Congratulations!

[@ybutcher5040]

Bravo! So much wisdom in this video from finance to parenting to self care!!! Love this!

[@sc-bj2fs]

I'm so happy you posted video! My mom suggested I declutter, but I didn't want to. Now,I'm ready to too after watching your video. Thanks for the motivation!

[@kTorres007]

Right on! Hit the nail on the head with being frugal then finding the transition to having the ability to spend on the finer things in life. New subie! From Tucson AZ ❣️