I just found out my mom spent the $100K inheritance

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[@christianmcnally4323]

New fiance, Sue family

[@keithbreaux612]

I would not reconnect with family and cancel wedding. Fiancé has no respect for your boundaries; her behavior regarding your boundaries will only worsen after marriage.

[@kimberlyberner719]

If that money was left for you in a trust wasn't it illegal for them to take it? Even if you don't want to take legal action I would stay away from them. One day soon they will come back around with their hands out. And you need a Major chat with your fiance about boundaries

[@chancesimpson6545]

Even if he wanted to (assuming this takes place in the us), it would be too late. The statue of limitations started when he turned 18, and by the sounds of it, op is speaking from a point its too late. (Went to college and started a landscaping business found a girlfriend got to a point where marriage became a though and got married and it also sounds like he graduated from college that's at least 6 years right there.)

[@n.s.p8590]

I would also like to tell the guy to not get married to this girl if she can't even respect your wishes then what's the point

[@DavidBellers]

it is

[@koltonhenricksen4173]

Probably, but im assuming that the trust was in the parents name, and if thats the case, they can freely allocate those funds to who/whatever they wish. Its shitty that they did this, however, i doubt OP can do anything. Knowing the older generation like i do, this is pretty common. Talk to your grandparents about their wills so that you wont get screwed by greedy family.

[@mariesullivan7931]

He can take them to court.

[@Foxy-ni2lm]

Your fiance has zero respect for you

[@wj0067]

Sue them for theft... Break up with Fiance...

[@anthonyhargis6855]

Your fiance is a giant red flag. You need to call it off. She will ALWAYS go behind your back and do what she wants. You need to dump her and move on.

[@karenshort3880]

I would tell you to rethink about marrying that girl. She is a Big Red Flag. Went behind your back and talk to your family. She probably invited them to your wedding.

[@shelliblossom8953]

my words would be "did you enjoy spending time with the people who financially abuse me? did you buy some sob story about how they deserved MY MONEY? you hide this from me because you KNEW you was betraying me

[@christycarpenter1087]

Oh hell no there will be no wedding because now I can’t trust you!

[@MysteriousPickleWizard]

sue them lil bro

[@D_Red]

He should 100% break up with her.

[@regenacothren1726]

You need to get a annulment your wife is showing you she's like your family She does not respect you or care about you Get yourself a lawyer and sue your family member for your inheritance And then go no And then go contact with these people

[@FunNFluffy]

There's more to the story

[@MrGevander]

This does not feel ike a full story. No resolution. Dude had a sucky family and poor taste in women since he picked on to marry that he apparently can't trust.

[@pauladgould9218]

Nta. Leave them all, soon to be wifey, too...

[@Mommapunkin]

Where's the rest of this....half told story?

[@404genericnames]

Is there anymore to this story

[@anitabellefeuille7362]

They are your family. They should have asked before they misappropriated funds. But, money is far less important than family. They own a business, the proper treatment would have been to ask them to put their business up as collateral for a loan to cover what they have stolen. If they won’t do that. Then tell them you will have just two options. To report their crime or place a lien against their business to recover your loss. This not speaking to family is childish and unproductive. The fact that your fiancée has met them is moot. She has a right to know everything about you before you are married. Including meeting your family, however estranged they are. The fact that she kept it secret from you is troubling. Is she afraid of you for some reason? Did you forbid her from meeting them? Maybe you need to work on your own attitude.

[@katemcbride8715]

I take a different view. That she did to him exactly what his family did. Treating with disrespect. Giving favour to other family members at his expense. Going behind his back. Perpetrating more sneaky behaviour as they did. No he should not accept this kind of thing. That's not family, that's a doormat !

[@juliel5945]

Where?

[@randykincy7954]

It appears that one of OP’s sisters or his mom found this video

[@willowskeith4267]

The silence was a kindness, op could have legally gone after them for the money and likely ruined the parents buisness if they made a big enough noise about it. After all who wants to go to a store owned by known thieves? And all it cost them was 97k of OP's money, OP's respect for them and OP's love of them.

[@tekajikuyalkrul5111]

Family ain't shit, what is a family, nothing but blood relations that's all, I've had uncles who tried to kill my dad and have had a friend who literally took beat down and stabbed for me, family is nothing but a word

[@johnbell5613]

If you didn’t contact an attorney and get your money back, you never deserved it in the first place