i feel like he showed his true colors on this trip, he wanted you to need him and when he saw that you didn’t and he was losing you, he put the mask back on and tried to get u back but ur smart and independent, exactly what he needs but has no idea he wants, onto the next !❤
@kimarac7894Ай бұрын
Maybe yall cycles synched sis! His had just started and was on at the beginning of the trip and went off at the end of the trip. That explains a lot! 😂😂😂 and oh yeah 🏠😂
@ajahdagoatАй бұрын
he been so fucking irritated this whole series bro. i’m glad you’re DONE w him
@Beauty777_Ай бұрын
I swear
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@ajahdagoat girl fr he was so dam stressful ugh never want to deal with a guy like him again it was so draining
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Beauty777_ fr done done
@Jaden-m2kАй бұрын
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@ajahdagoatАй бұрын
@@slimshalalove you shala wayla, i’m sorry he wasn’t accountable for how he treated you. 💖💖💖🫶🏾
@AreYouFroRealАй бұрын
I was waiting until you finished the series to comment but overall…Friend-Friend really was Opp-Opp in the end. I had said it before on a rant video(I think) but it really was more than I thought it would be….like Sheesh! Opportunists are everywhere smh Glad you’re in a better place and space, and have moved passed it. Thanks for sharing.
@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
🩷🩷🩷 💯
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@AreYouFroReal man he showed his a$$ and crazy thing about it he did some wild stuff after this omg after that I was like oh we can’t even be koo at all fr the aftermath story is coming soon
@AreYouFroRealАй бұрын
@ from the pattern you’ve explained during this series, I 100% believe that he continued to show out. Doesn’t seem like he’s someone who’s gonna change his ways anytime soon, especially if he’s getting his way... It ain’t even be all that fr. He was just supposed to reciprocate a great birthday for you smh but selfish is what selfish does 🤷🏾
@JayslyfeАй бұрын
32:11 Baby, they love to be the savior of the mess they created. 🥴 Keeps you confused and coming back.
@ablastaway3500Ай бұрын
Just for the future you can check a bag at the gate.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@ablastaway3500 really that’s good to know fr
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@ablastaway3500 do you have to pay extra?
@breanaelizette5381Ай бұрын
@@slimshala no!
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@ omg really wow 🤯 how did I not know this 🤦🏾♀️
@ablastaway3500Ай бұрын
If you have a large bag yes you do have to pay extra, you do not have t pay extra if you check a carry on bag. This of course varies depending on airlines. Spirit and frontier always charge for this feature, but if you’re in a rush this would help.
@sdot1822Ай бұрын
You have so much patience. Constantly having to compromise what you want to do & then him wanting to be Mr.knowitall then being being dead wrong wasting yall time smh
@ablastaway3500Ай бұрын
29:19 friend friend we don’t care how nice you being we still df with you!!! 🤣
@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
🩷🩷🩷 💯
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@ablastaway3500 BIG FACTS I swear he thought it was gone be peaches and cream like naw my boy your cut!!!
@kasya83Ай бұрын
Shala I loveddd this series and I appreciate you being so transparent with us about everything that took place with you and friend friend. I feel like he was so nice afterwards bc he knew deep down it wasn’t about to be the same once y’all got home. And it’s crazy how after being nice he continued to be weird towards you. It seems like he’s genuinely only around for the better good for him. He can’t have his cake and eat yours too. I’m glad your in a better space rn❤️you deserve to be treated with the same amount of genuineness you give out to others gorgeous🥰❤️ love you downnnnn
@MompreneurDiaryАй бұрын
I love the length of your hair, the curls and the way you style your hair. You give in your 20s energy. ❤🎉🥳
@Daily_JoliАй бұрын
I finally found a story teller that's where I'm froooommmmm lol lol so relatible.... congrats to you and much success..... nowwww let's hear how bruh got that place 🏚🏚🏚🏡🏡🏡❤❤❤
@Brooke-en6ksАй бұрын
Shala I loveeee your hair curly. You look so pretty girl!
@TheKirinyagaАй бұрын
7:45 😫 yall forgot to drop off the luggage. Damn. Ok let me keep listening because now im stressed and I gotta see how yall got out of this
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@TheKirinyaga girl I was so mad like wtf how did I miss that step 🤦🏾♀️ but I was rushing mind all over the place I was so ready to be away from him
@kelsyjohnson540Ай бұрын
Friend friend is giving me flashbacks and PTSD. I had to pause and go off again on a few people 😅😅. So glad men like this were a phase and not a lifestyle 😂😂😂.
@babydoll6280Ай бұрын
As a mom the mvp decision would be to leave that dude to get back to your child and responsibilities on time. This is for any other young mother watching. Leave those men that sabotage your children's welfare at any point.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@babydoll6280 girl you are tripping my son was with his dad my child welfare was not being sabotaged! Stop it you need to chill! Also I don’t work at a job that be trippin off me missing days. I can do most of my work from my laptop so my responsibilities to work was still taken care of.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@babydoll6280 but yes nothing at all should come before you kids welfare.
@Lee9565-Ай бұрын
@@slimshalagirl Shay Fck this h0 ! Yk YK Dylan will never not b WELL taken care of whether if u with him or not ! Is she coo !?
@giselleromero9350Ай бұрын
Hey twiinn!!! ❤❤❤And girl when i say im the same exact way, that once im done with someone you will never get that same version of me ever again!! we can be very forgiving and understanding but once we peep your true intentions and they not pure, oh no baby its wrap 😂❤❤👏🏽🙌 love you girl❤❤❤
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@giselleromero9350 hey twiny happy Thursday I swear I be hella smiling when I see your comments like he friend 🤗
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@giselleromero9350 right like delusional a little bit but not dumb. I will give you chances but yea once I know your intentions are not good….. your done I will treat you so different like a booger eww get away 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@breanaelizette5381Ай бұрын
she said tell me what “we” did wrong …. boo boo only thing you did wrong was not leave him when he didn’t wanna wake up in the first place !!! i’m sure he would have loved to stay in vegas 😒 love you girl but this man was so diabolical it makes me mad lmao
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@breanaelizette5381 Big facts fr 🤦🏾♀️ I should have left his annoying a$$
@breanaelizette5381Ай бұрын
@@slimshala fr girl the best thing I learned how to do for myself when it comes to these men is turn my emotions off when I need to my favorite thing to do now is completely walk out of a situation I’m uncomfortable and with no explanation just doing a straight up Irish goodbye , you’re such an amazing woman, and you are such an amazing mom. I feel like a lot of the time you were parenting him without even realizing it preserve your energy, babe.!!!
@alientingz7733Ай бұрын
I would've left him in that hotel and dipped. CATCH AN UBER at this point. Meet me there because you are playing games rn
@trinn2002Ай бұрын
Happy belated birthday to your son ❤️. 🏠
@Danny-cd2qiАй бұрын
Make sure you always Check-in the night before your flight❤
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Danny-cd2qi girl I usually do but with everything going on it hella slipped my mind
@Danny-cd2qiАй бұрын
@slimshala I definitely understand how it did lol
@ophniesimilienАй бұрын
I've come to realize that when your stomach start hurting soooo bad out of nowhere and my mood been all over the place, that lil bihh Mother Nature is coming😭😭
@xo_babymoАй бұрын
Great rising beautiful❤❤❤❤ Happy Friday eve 😆😘
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@xo_babymo hey boo 😘
@kristinacaballero4760Ай бұрын
🏠🏠🏠🏠🏠 SHALAAAAA stop asking do we want the story . Yesssssss we want them all. Give us the tea
@rozedolla5979Ай бұрын
Nahh the way I was just watching a whole other video and IMMEDIATELY clicked on Shayla’s when I saw it 😭😂💕💕💕
@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
🩷🩷🩷 Right
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@rozedolla5979 awwwww 🥹 girly I fuks with you fr that’s dope I appreciate your support fr 💚💚💚💚
@Shoty148Ай бұрын
You good people ma 😊 I've been listening to you for 4 years.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Shoty148 awww thanks love i appreciate you 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
@xo_babymoАй бұрын
Your curls always look so juicy and perfect!!!!!!!!! 😍😍😍
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@xo_babymo thanks girl the wash N go routine I do is the truth ❣️
@Shoty148Ай бұрын
Good morning love ❤ we all learn from our mistakes, we make mistakes we're not perfect 💕 I understand😊
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Shoty148 right that’s the important part learning and doing better and improving and becoming wiser 💕💕💕
@jrdn.marieeАй бұрын
It would've been nice if Enemy-Enemy was being sweet for the whole trip like you said 🙄 I just don't get it lol
@brebre6342Ай бұрын
I got duped from one of those timeshares in LA omg never again 😂😭
@Lee9565-Ай бұрын
So beautiful ilysm ! 🏡🩶
@nquan161Ай бұрын
"JUST END ALREADY" 😂😭
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@nquan161 fr cause I was just over everything dealing with him like a$$ 6 days never again 🙄😩
@sumboredchicАй бұрын
I would’ve left his ass 13:09 cause the fact that u was up early af and he wanted to stay in bed shyyyyt i would’ve been like take a uber to the cab im outta here sksksksk
@ChristLoverGirlАй бұрын
Great story time but im glad this was the end cus friend friend was stressing me out like i was there with y’all 😂😅
@nosihlekabhunganeАй бұрын
I definitely also do things for the plot 🤣🤣🏠
@Shoty148Ай бұрын
What I like for you to know, I don't judge you, we learn for our mistakes❤
@Shoty148Ай бұрын
You good people ❤
@MzDMILF10 күн бұрын
🏠 I need to know frfr. But listen. In friend friends defense, it seems like he just thought you weren’t feeling him like that; then he realized you did and decided to show his true feelings. Idk. I could be wrong
@Shoty148Ай бұрын
Keep up the good work and I'm proud of you😊
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Shoty148 awwwww thanks love💚💚
@tiaprice6497Ай бұрын
Finally early watching before work 🤍
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@tiaprice6497 I know that’s right 😘😘
@TrendyT.Ай бұрын
26:49 that was sweet of him.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@TrendyT. yea it was that’s the version of him that I liked
@IyanaLowe.Ай бұрын
You look so cute 🥰 . I love your shirt !! 💚🏚️
@themainplayaАй бұрын
🏠! This story time was goooood. Is he bipolar or maybe have BPD? But then again i done been around dudes who when i tell them i just wanna be friends they start liking me more. It’s weird
@lilibeeeee4550Ай бұрын
Oh yea we need that story 😂 🏠 🏠🏠🏠🏠🏠🏠
@sydneyrae3634Ай бұрын
the only true loss in this story was that fenti lipgloss, u dodged a bullet 🫶🏼when the trash takes itself out don’t dumpster dive haha im happy to hear you’re out of that mess
@missnitta3437Ай бұрын
Grand Rising Its Thirsty Thursday 🍷
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@missnitta3437 yes it sure can’t wait to get off work and have a dam drink 🍹
@erniecarneyАй бұрын
Im here!!! 🏡🏡
@chytaviauneayke3475Ай бұрын
Hey 💜
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@chytaviauneayke3475 hey Chy happy Thursday
@irisolazaranАй бұрын
You look like the actress from “are we there yet”
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@irisolazaran the little girl??
@irisolazaranАй бұрын
@@slimshalayess🫶🏻
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@ I thought so cause I few ppl said it to me before and I was like naw but with my hair like this I hella see it now
@ariahsavagesavageАй бұрын
Hey friend❤
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@ariahsavagesavage hey girl hey 💚
@natunfiltered2.0Ай бұрын
I feel like him doing all the right things (other than yall missing the flight) is a weird, narcissistic behavior. He’s breadcrumbing you to keep you holding onto him. But he genuinely doesn’t have your best interest.
@mormoney615Ай бұрын
❤🏡🏡
@crystallopez7223Ай бұрын
🖤
@xo_babymoАй бұрын
🏡🏠
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@xo_babymo thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
@LivinglifewiththekellysАй бұрын
🏠
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Livinglifewiththekellys thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
@flyhighgoddess8111Ай бұрын
🏚️ tell me the tea Shala lol
@aijahduhhАй бұрын
🏠🏠🏠👏🏽💙
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@aijahduhh thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
@CharityakaceceАй бұрын
🏠😙🍷
@heckintired2203Ай бұрын
earlyy 🎉❤
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@heckintired2203 ayeeee 🫶🏽 thanks for tuning in love
@shesbrixАй бұрын
🏡🏡🏡
@sheiskadeja1198Ай бұрын
🏠 🏠🏠🏠
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@sheiskadeja1198 thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
@JadeAdeboАй бұрын
her cognitive bias is showing, but Ashley handled that well.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@JadeAdebo lol babe who is Ashley?
@MahoganyReeАй бұрын
🏠 🏡
@shatucker4489Ай бұрын
🏡🏡🏡🏡🏡🏡🏡
@MunchkinsMotivationАй бұрын
Didn't check in 😂
@RenaeeeАй бұрын
🏠🏠🏠🏠
@hellrell92481Ай бұрын
This why I hate spirit flights
@IAMNASARAАй бұрын
🏡
@kaymonea1905Ай бұрын
🏡🏠🏡🏠🏡🏠🏡🏠🏡🏠🏡
@jamekanichols3732Ай бұрын
🏘
@Nada349Ай бұрын
🏠🏡🏘️🏚️
@niya7368Ай бұрын
friend friend rlly must’ve hated you because wtf?? Like why are you behaving this way on somebody birthday…
@pawtaski9112Ай бұрын
Ayee I’m first ✨
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@pawtaski9112 I know that’s right ❣️
@laurenguld1854Ай бұрын
As soon as u post I can’t wait to watch your videos!!! Realest bitch out here! Ima vibe you a vibe ❤❤❤❤❤❤ happy holidays to you and your son! I hope you get everything you want!!!
@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
🩷🩷🩷 I left my signature emoji at the beginning of this video. When I came back to put the 🏠 emoji KZbin had made my initial comment disappear. I kept checking back and they did it twice before the video ended. So hers extra. 🩷🩷🩷
@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
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@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
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@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@nubianprincess9216 what wow that’s crazy idk what it is but they always doing something yt be really tripping fr
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@nubianprincess9216 but as always thanks for tuning in and show love 💞💞
@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
@@slimshala 🩷🩷🩷 I will be double checking from now on.
@marainagreen2249Ай бұрын
Glad that this series is over. Not cause it wasn't entertaining, because it really was. Just glad to see the end of u going through this unnecessary bs with this🥷🏾
@ebbfrench9943Ай бұрын
They always try to start acting nice once they know they f'd up 🙄 please leave this ninja in 2024 🚷
@sashaoliver5414Ай бұрын
🏠🏡
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@sashaoliver5414 thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
@MariLebeauxАй бұрын
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@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@MariLebeaux thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
@tooblessedtobestressed5908Ай бұрын
🏡🏠🏘️
@deverauxshawnta8684Ай бұрын
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@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@deverauxshawnta8684 thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
@deverauxshawnta8684Ай бұрын
@slimshala you're welcome, love your content
@grounded.goddessАй бұрын
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@audreyflorence5720Ай бұрын
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@BhaddieC_2514 күн бұрын
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@behindthepoemАй бұрын
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@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@behindthepoem thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
@Miyaamiyaa1Ай бұрын
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@alientingz7733Ай бұрын
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@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@alientingz7733 thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽
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@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@kells0815 thanks for tuning in and watching till the end 🫶🏽