'I like boys, mom' After Coming Out |

[@아술-f9b]

14년전 처음 친오빠가 커밍아웃 했을때 생각이 난다. . 너무 심각하게 분위기를 잡아서 정말 큰 일이 있나 걱정했는데, " 오빠 게이야 " 소리에 오히려 안심했다는... 너무 쿨하게 받아들인 내 모습에 오빠가 더 당황했었는데... 아버지께는 돌아가시기 전까지 차마 얘기 못했지만, 다른 가족들은 자연스럽게 받아들여줘서 고마웠음. 지금은 그당시 만나던 남자친구와 미국에서 결혼해서 해마다 가족끼리 왕래하면서 행복하게 지내고 있음😊

[@믐믐-d5p]

멋진 가족이네요:(

[@sangkyukim6151]

부러울 따름이네요 이것도 정말 큰 축복인건데 ㅜㅜ

[@111_1.2]

행복하면 됐지 뭐

[@borikkori545]

와 미국에서

[@user-ng3dv3nm5r]

정말 멋있어요 .. 따숩다

[@Guyul]

이 사람들의 용기가 얼마나 대단한지 감도 안 옴. 진짜.. 존경스럽고 한편으로는 고맙고. 진짜 다들 건강하고 행복하게 살자!!

[@변우석.뽜이링]

게이들이 안좋은소리 안들으려고 남한테 뒤쳐지지 않으려고 더 열심히 사는거같음

[@아를7594]

인생 짧다. 하고싶은 거 하고 살고 사랑하고 싶은 사람 사랑하고들 살어. 곧 50살을 바라보는 나이가 되니 내가 행복한 게 최고인 것 같다. 가족이 싫어하는데 나만 행복하면 되냐고? 음...... 안될건 뭐겠어. 가족 모두의 인정, 행복까지 챙기기엔 인생이 너무 짧더라. 특히 지금 이렇게 반짝반짝 빛나는 나이는 정말 찰나같이 느껴진다. 그 시간 더 행복하게 살도록 해. 그 시간, 기억, 추억들이 앞으로 올 힘든 시간들 버티게 해줄거야. 50이 되어도 삶은 여전히 쓰리고, 두렵고 힘드니까.

[@김우주-o9j]

세상에 모든 성소수자 분들 당신들은 그냥 인간입니다 결코 일반인에 비해 모자라거나 잘못된게 아닙니다 스스로를 당당하고 소중하게 여기기 바랍니다 비록 세상이 편견을 갖고 바라보더라도 그것이 옳은것이 아님은 분명합니다

[@한애진-s5j]

자극적이지않고… 이런 프로그램…유튜브채널이 많아졌으면하네요~

[@Dumpling_jung]

성의 선호는 본인이 정하는 거라고 생각합니다. 대부분이 이래! 그러니까 이래야만해! 라고 말하는것에 갇히지말고 스스로를 가장 믿어주길! 모든 성소수자분들을 지지하고 응원합니다.

[@난나야-b9m]

내자식이 평범하게 사는게 제일 좋지만~~그보다 더 중요한건 내자식이 행복한거지!! 행복지수~~높게~~~신나게~~활짝 웃으며 살길~내새끼 꽃길인생 ♡♡♡

[@young-uq7vm]

응원합니다~우연히 남의연애2를 봤어요.넘 재밌게 봤네요~성소자에 대한 편견은 없었지만 이들과 가족들은 얼마나 맘고생했을까요~ 모두 행복했으면 합니다~예쁜사랑하세요^^

[@kororing]

항상 좋은 모습만 보여지는데, 안좋은 절박한 케이스도 많아요. 가족들하고 인연이 끊어진 집도 있고, 오히려, 그렇게 버려진 자신이 싫어 극단 선택한 사람들도 있습니다. 평범한 삶을 살고 싶지만, 살 수 없는 이들을 어쩔까요.

[@Quantum_jump2]

그게 뭐 어때서요^^ 맘편하게 사셨음 좋겠어요 행복하게 즐겁게😊

[@gi_man]

준성님 일은 남인 내가 봐도 너무 속상하다… 부모님 입장을 이해 못하는건 아닌데 그래도 내가 사랑하는 사람과 찍은 사진과 나눈 편지들이 찢어진걸 알았을 때 그 느낌이 과연 어땠을지..ㅠㅠㅠ

[@뵵븁뱝]

직접 아들 입으로 들은 것도 아니고 사진으로 접하게된거고 심지어 미자 때였으니까 다른 분들보다 충격이 크셔서 그런것도있을꺼 같음….

[@yune5597]

@@뵵븁뱝 이성애자였어도 찢었을까 싶음. 지금은 가족들과 터놓고 편하게 지내서 다행이지만

[@뵵븁뱝]

@@yune5597 이성애자였으면 찢지는 않으셨을수돈 있어도 학생때는 이성끼리 사귀는것도 싫어하는 부모님들도 있긴함…

[@낼승]

근데 개인적으론 ㅈ됐다 들켰다 가 먼저일듯.. 소중한걸 찢긴건 속상하지만 그래도 가족과의 관계도 중요해서..

[@도파민-f5h]

서로 미워하고 싸우는게 문제지, 서로 아껴주고 사랑한다는데 뭐가 문제가 되겠어요.

[@뿡빵이-q1z]

다들 좋은 사람들이 곁에 있는것 같아서 넘 다행이다. 남연 출연자들 아프지말고 행복하자🫶🏻

[@sangkyukim6151]

커밍아웃 이란거 참 쉽지않고 어렵죠 했을때 지인들이나 친구들 가족들이 완전 끊어지는게 다반사인데 그래도 받아주고 인정해 준다는게 저런것도 큰 축복입니다~~ 부럽고 부럽네요~~~

[@user-skybule]

합법화는 어렵겠지만 그래도 인식이 많이 바뀌고 있으니까 마음 다치지 않길 바랍니다ㅎㅎ 당당하게 사랑하세요 내 인생인데요 뭘 한번뿐인 내 인생

[@bigboy77dk]

I can get angry sometimes, when I think about why this has to be such a big deal? I know, that in some countries, it is almost impossible to come out. People get murdered by their own families, because it "brings disgrace"... Oh, and rejecting and murdering your own son, over something he can't help, does not?? Thats weird?? Imagine, living in fear, that your own family will KILL you, if they know, who you are?! That is crazy to me! There is no evil in being gay?

[@koyukiny]

걍 하고싶은대로 하고 사세요. 부모형제자매도 결국 내가 아닌 남임. 그 누구도 내 인생 나 대신 실아주고 나대신 아파해주고 나대신 행복해주지 않음. 부모도 결국 타인이고 브모 만족시켜주고싶다고 나 하고픈거 못하고 살면 나중에 부모 원멍하게 됨. 남 생각하느라 내 행복 놓치기엔 내 인생이 너무 짧음

[@l5nhewn6]

선우님 다른분들말에 공감을 잘해주시는 분이시네요😊

[@뱀말이]

솔직히 엄마랑 세대차이가 너무 많이 나서(늦둥이라) 엄마 돌아가시고 나면 그제서야 맘편히 누나들,친척들한테 말할듯. 속앓이가 너무 심해서 못참고 한 친구들과의 커밍아웃이 성공적으로 잘 됐어서 그나마 다행이라고 생각해. 더이상의 거짓말들을 줄일수 있으니까.

[@kimyr0919]

주변에 진짜 좋은사람들이 있구나

[@틱쳐틱쳐]

다들 평범하지않은 삶에 얼마나 힘든시간을 견뎌내왔을지 상상이안가네요. 다들 행복하시길...

[@송희주-r7r]

다들 좋은 사람들이 곁에 있는것 같아서 넘다행이네요... 일반사람들은 욕을많이 하겠지만 전용기내서나오신거에칭찬드려요~~😊😊 화이팅 하세요

[@sophis9453]

Ahh junseong im wondering if he was 18 korean age or 18 international age ... Either way its terrifying to be in that situation and not be sure where to go the fact that he had delay his education because of it to :(

[@so_hot_jieun]

바른사람들의 느낌! 서로 오래오래 잘 지내셨으면 해요 남연2 분들 모두행복하세요 응원해요

[@shorkelili]

My heart breaks for Junseong... It's one thing to be upset, confused, or even hurt that your child has been hiding such a thing from you, but to tear up those pictures and letters? That's something unforgiveable to me. Even tho it's been 10 years since then, I'd still hold resentment that she did such a thing. Hold in your anger, try to understand your son -- don't destroy gifts and memories of his. AH... poor boy. And he said 18, but I'm assuming international age he would've only been 16/17. What a tough age to be found out and have to run away. I hope now after the show, his mother sees him living his best life and happy with his forever person Seungho. Maybe then she can open her heart and accept him.

[@safafadssc]

차라리 커밍아웃 해주면 여자들이 착각 안하고 다가가지 않고 좋지 뭐~

[@sushimar0]

such a beautifull moment from the show...you can tell after this talk how they understood each other more and better and felt comfortable with one another

[@니나노-p5c]

미공개인줄알고 후다닥 왔능데 아니라늬 ㅠㅠ

[@annmcfly]

Conversations like these are probably why they all are such a close knit of friends after the show ended.

[@kathleenaberley8752]

Isn't it sad that we, as gay people, have to 'come out'? Hetro's don't have to agonise over who they trust enough, what their reaction will be, whether they will still be loved and treated the same way, when they announce they're straight... just saying Thank you to these beautiful souls for sharing their journey. ❤

[@vigorail]

just like what junseong said in danyeol's channel. it's his mom's first time to have a son, and also his first time. people got used to just seeing male and female. and other people still doesn't fully understand sexuality. but I hope one day, everyone will be able to express their selves freely and live a happy life without the judgements. hope that this types of shows will be an eye opener to people and help them learn and know the struggles that their close friends, family members, or acquaintances always feels and experience. sending love to all. 💗

[@hju9292]

근데...다 잘생겼고 멋져요...^^

[@이선비-h1d]

20년 전에 퀴어 애즈 포크라는 드라마 보면서 제가 아이 낳아서 만약 동성애자라고 하면 무한한 지지를 해주자 라는 결심을 했었어요. 지금도 그 생각은 변함없고, 어떤 성을 사랑하든 그 자체로 존중 받는 삶이 이어지기만을 바라요. 20년 전에는 상상도 못하던 방송을 볼 수 있어서 감사하네요. 모두들 행복하시길

[@dbsksarangx3]

This was really touching and I admire all of them for their bravery. It takes a lot of courage to come out especially in a conservative country. Jeongwook and Junseong especially had it rough. It makes sense why this group formed such a strong bond even after the show ended.

[@JimFeig]

They will be disappointed if they never know the real you, they will be disappointed if they pass thinking you are single and alone. Give them time to get over it and reach the point they can be proud of you before its too late. They might find out on their own and feel disappointed you didn’t have the courage to be honest with them.

[@smile....123]

선우씨 인상 넘 좋네요. 선한 인상~^^

[@elat5374]

Listening to these confessions, the heart breaks. Why are these people rejected by their loved ones for their orientation, why society condemns them. After all, they are the same as all of us. Are they worse? What pain and fear they feel .How afraid to admit they are gay. Why is it that the first person they confide in is their friends. The worst fear is that those closest to them may reject them and not accept them. Are they to blame for being like this? Is the black man guilty that he is black? Am I guilty? that I have blue eyes and not brown ones? No, because according to them / as normal people say / they must fit into the imposed schemes. After all, they are wonderful people with open hearts who want love like all of us. and how they approach this topic, I say that probably not all of us are . I'm going crazy and I'm furious that we are not tolerant and it's hard for us people to accept that apart from hetero there are others. I wish you courage, great friends. Go through life with your head held high. Don't be ashamed of your feelings. It's not you who have the problem, it's the problem of others. To Junseong and Seongho. It's wonderful to see you together holding hands or hugging. Love is beautiful.

[@heykay5610]

I'm glad I watched this, the translation is different (unless im off my rocker) from the official one on the show, and it seems to be giving some more specifics to their statements.

[@anxietyattack9443]

My daughter came out as pansexual at 14. I'm old school. I had no idea what she was talking about. Once she explained it, I kept it simple in my mind that she was bi. I told my daughter, "Love is hard enough to find; love who makes you happy and live your best life. I will not always be here and as an only child, I don't want you to be alone." Gender for me is not an issue. She could fall in love with a tree. She will have my full support and I will be grandma to baby limbs.

[@nono3762]

근데 저런 이야기를 다시 하는 것도 출연자들에겐 부담이었을지도…그때 생각을 다시 한번 해야 하니까

[@user-ng3dv3nm5r]

늘 행복하게 사세요

[@반듯-one]

사람을 좋아하는데 남여가어딧겠어요 응원합니다

[@suin1727]

ㅠㅠ 어른스럽고 멋잇구먼

[@celebritye3962]

당신들의 용기에 감사해요

[@jahbrianawilliams7326]

Man, I got a little teary eyed. I feel like if we can’t connect on anything else, us gay people can definitely connect when it comes to coming out…because most of us, if not all of us can remember those intense emotions of being in the closet and having to tell the people you love WHO you love…the fear of the people that’s supposed to love you and accept you NOT accepting you all because you simply love the same gender…it’s really scary. And not every gets a happy ending when coming out. I’m relieved that my parents eventually not only accepted me, but changed how they communicated with me when it comes to women; not shying around the fact that I will end up with a woman. My heart breaks for the people that don’t get that same treatment. But I’m grateful that the gay community is like a family that accepts eachother and gives eachother the support that is missing. ❤

[@gineric1007]

As a reminder for those who fears coming out: It is not your burden to carry their choice to accept or not, what matters the most is you accepting and loving yourself enough to respect their choice and continue living your true self.

[@bgreen5234]

Thank you!, You don’t know how much your post has affected my outlook on myself and others. I needed to read this.

[@desmeisme]

I hope everyone can learn to love themselves for who they are, not hate themselves because they aren’t the person others want them to be. There’s days that will feel lonelier than others, but please know that millions of people out here in the world love and support you for who you are. You can’t change your sexuality like you can’t change your skin color. No one would purposely be something that they know would make their family dislike them/maybe even dis own them. :( I hope love finds its way into each and everyone’s life’s. People will hate but I will always send my love. Please don’t forget you ARE CARED ABOUT 🫶✨ forever and always! At least in my opinion. Thank you to all of you for being part of such a conversation and opening up.

[@seyeolkim3557]

i may have been raised by a father who hated gays and may not accept his children being one but for my future children, if i will have, i promise to accept you for whoever you are and will love you no less than the gender you are born with. i just hope that you will be happy and find our home as a place where you can breathe and be anyone you wanted to be because you deserve it.

[@a.felicity4655]

When seowoo said that our parents can't forsake us even if we're gay....I disagree with that...many people I know who are gay have been disowned by their family...in my country just two days ago, they imprisoned 67 gay men😑😔 Many of us in many part of different countries will never come out to our parents till we die...many of us will be known as the people who never got married to anyone OR better still, I would do what Dabit did, I would move to another country and never go back home then I would come out to my parents 😔 And just like minsung, I can't bear to see the disappointment in my parents face...

[@chocopie9916]

So sad to hear that😢

[@Imetwurld_]

67 or 100 ??? Is it not Nigeria you are talking about... 😢

[@Imetwurld_]

​​@@chocopie9916bro same in my country too. 100 gays were arrested some days ago because of they did a gay wedding .. I think she's from my country. It was all over news and it was embarrassing asf .

[@eastindian1095]

Is there any writer in this comment? I think Jungsung’s life story is lot like a movie.

[@Pyncaytokay]

I admire their courage. It must be very hard for all of them. Listening to Junseong’s struggles with his parents when he was so young makes me cry. He must be so scared and confused back then. Just want to hug him ☹️🥹

[@zealdyno7923]

Thank you for the translation ❤️

[@humanely]

Jun Seong always have story tho, he tell it like its nothing... but that must be hard, he is young, still high school, not even working , no money, fighting with his mom, runaway for months, he even said he being reckless that time, whatever happen, happened... there must be many thing did happen in those months... he became mature, he self reflect and coming out to his friends, he even said suddenly he fell good after confess to his friends that it even clear up his mind and get him going back to home... and another story that he really hate christmas ... he said he never like christmas after that year, he forgave his ex but he still cant like christmas , he choose working are better than celebrate... I hope this year christmas he can celebrate it with love ...

[@xisnothappy]

5:35 TK boy 🥹

[@sonkey777]

여자가 왜 싫어할까요 아직은 이해가 안되네요 부모님 께서도 아들을 낳았는데 생각이 여자니까..

[@고고고고고고고고고]

마지막 정욱님 인터뷰 때 노래 먼가요 ㅠ

[@АнитаАлиева-ч2с]

Я тоже рассказывала маме, что я би. Она не принимает это и всегда давила на меня. Ну думаю это естественно мы живём светско-мусульманской стране. Я больше о своей ориентации не говорю. Просто живу без отношений и всё 😊

[@심쿵두루]

생각보다 게이가 많아서 좀 놀랐어요 그들을 응원합니다❤

[@desmeisme]

Thank you for sharing 🫶 I wish you all the happiness in the world ❤️❤️

[@1ove8]

귀여워

[@황순자-g6n]

성소수자 여러분 힘내세요❤

[@spnqud1331]

I wish there's eng sub😢

[@davinialobato4492]

Puedes ver HisMan2 en iqiyi subtitulado

[@mariaalmerindareis9496]

❤❤❤

[@darinhareis9451]

Maravilhosos💕

[@mariaalmerindareis9496]

Cutie boys

[@Mint_chocolate_chip]

난 언제하지…

[@naranjitaruth]

Whats the name of the show??

[@lemmingjang1957]

man' sex party

[@bibi77lee10]

a love affair of another person

[@mariaalmerindareis9496]

Lovely

[@Nirbana]

0:54~ 1:50~

[@user-Javid-King]

무조건 커밍 하면 안됨 저런건 잘된 케이스고 가족들하고 보통 단절된케이스가 훨씬 많음 ㅇㅇ

[@lufelcuizon46]

What epi is this pls

[@HoneyYu-if8gu]

ep 5

[@kevinjimenez5382]

It is so hard to come out to our parents because we do want to disappoint them

[@darinhareis9451]

Amo

[@fi9537]

난 엄마가 너무 동성애를 너무싫어해서 내가만약 동성애자였으면 어땟을까 아닌게 다행이다 생각들더라고요 옛날사람이니 이해해야죠 뭐 사람이 완벽할수없으니

[@Tay1orS3ift]

0:32 전혀 게이치 않아요

[@wavvve300]

동성애는 죄라는걸.. 잘못된거라는걸 다 아는데 이분들만 모르는게 너무 ..안타까워요.. 부디 죽기전에 꼭 아시고 회개하고 돌이키세요 부디...

[@밍밍-v8h5t]

어이쿠야. 제가 아는 하나님은 절대 구분짓거나 단정짓지 않으셔요 갈등의 씨앗을 주지 않으셔요.

[@하히히-h7j]

미친ㅋㄱㅋㅋ

[@gkst3zip]

danii야 하나님은 없는거야

[@darinhareis9451]

Lindos💕

[@thilynguyen895]

💜

[@lenaraviolin]

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