I’ll Spare You the Details: Chapter 4: Harry the Hero, Willy the Zero

[@emv1237]

He is saying Willy is weak? Who's been whining for the last five years?

[@ptrpan61]

R I G H T!

[@muncgrl53]

Princess Royal Anne is a "spare" and she is magnificent!

[@cheeredenise]

She defined her place in the world instead of letting the title define her! He should have asked for advice from her. I can totally imagine how that nickname would get in a person’s head, but it didn’t have to.

[@KimJerome13]

I never thought of that before. You're right. She's a badass spare and rocks it out. Never complains.

[@Woodman-Spare-that-tree]

Because she had her own personal mission in life, outside of working for the monarchy, that she chose for herself and she worked for (which was to compete in the Olympics). She followed her dream and she achieved it. Harry, meanwhile, has never known what to do with himself. He loved Africa but he never had the courage to follow his own dream and move to Botswana.

[@charliekezza]

This is how a true spare should act. Love the Princess Royal ❤❤❤

[@BuntyMcB]

She is her brother’s wingman. She has his back. Diana described Harry as his brother’s wingman. If only Harry could have seen it that way.

[@gagagoose2878]

I think so far the book is a work of vengeance against William. He’s been envious of his brother his entire life and now is his chance to rewrite his life’s story more to his own liking, where he is the hero and William the coward. I would be willing to bet William was never called Willy before “Spare.”

[@ptrpan61]

Agree! I've always said harry has festered jealousy maybe even hate towards William.

[@megpaterson7613]

Harry should of married his ex girlfriend who was from Africa, from memory her name was Chelsea. She was so lovely and authentic. I think she called it off because she saw how immature and self pitying Harry was.

[@lindabaker6334]

Aloha hienz57 says hi yeah why would you want bellend to marry a beautiful authentic woman ?ruin her life make her miserable. Stay with megturd they a pair made in hell.

[@dianaroach3093]

I agree. She saw the real man and didn't like it. I'm happy for Chelsea moving on and having a family.

[@dianecampbell6912]

He went to a school full of spares. There is a multitude of second sons to titles.

[@craftilady]

His Grandmother also survived multiple assassination attempts. She met with every world leader for 70 years and never had a problem with them. And his Aunt Anne, the Princess Royal thwarted her own kidnapping attempt after at least four people had been shot! At one point when he told her to get out of the car she literally said, “not bloody likely”! This family is tough, at least the women! I don’t believe for a minute that no one told Harry how to handle life as a royal.

[@despicabledavidshort3806]

Anne reminds me of my mother and her seven sisters

[@SMRT79]

Hs great grandfather King George had to over come a debilitating stutter to give speeches and public addresses as a king when is brother abdicated - he never wanted to be king and he was horridly bullied for his speech impediment and never have we heard about King George whining about growing up! Harry is such a little twerp!

[@katect5992]

The book sounds like it's been written by an insecure 11 year old child and not a 38 year old man with a ghost writer. I love listening to you talk about it though. Top class entertainment!

[@TheHillingdon2]

He was just spoilt and not disciplined. He should have gone to Gordonstoun like his father.

[@sarahheri7027]

i actually think this would have been the best option for him. william is more academically inclined and he thrived at eton, but harry is not. he probably would have - for real, i mean - benefitted from being there, where they look at other values, too. eton is a bit of a brainy school...

[@maaiker2977]

The goal of the tabasco story was this. Translation:" me big bully, I get to harass the big guy, me better". And "I walked towards a wild animal, me more fearless than the big man". It wasn't about the story but him tooting his own horn while devalueing Marco....same goes for the Todger stories. He is tooting his own tiny little horn to feel like a big boy. Thats how small of an individual he truly is. This is a book with the target audience of 8 year old little boys.

[@cheeredenise]

🤣

[@maaiker2977]

@@marty6462 thank you. Harry is so very easy to read. Meghan too. Narcs in general. Ya gotta laugh about them really.

[@sidneybales9062]

Harry stopped too soon. He should have finished with ,”then I got on my magic carpet and rode above the trees.” I am going to guess that the entire story is fabricated.

[@michaelhutchinson1713]

In regards to Diana, I wonder if Harry really had it in for his mother. That he blames her TOO for his childhood. AND MAYBE THE PERSISTENT DOUBTS ABOUT WHO HIS FATHER IS.

[@dianaroach3093]

​@michaelhutchinson1713 Harry talks about his mother a lot. I believe he never really knew her. He was still a child. Instead of understanding how much the world loved and was grieving for Diana. Instead, he gets mad because that's HIS mother.

[@GradKat]

I don’t really understand why he’s SO bothered about press intrusion, because he’d known nothing else his whole life. It’s like the rest of us have to endure sitting in traffic jams, or queueing for a train. You might not like it much, but it’s life, it’s just the way things are.

[@lisanetgark415]

Sparry reminds me of my baby brother. We too come from a long line of strong successful people. My brother identifies as a victim when in fact he is the persecutor. I see William as the victim. I see William as pushing away the person who hurts him physically and emotionally. I believe that, like Sparry, my brother is a Sociopath. Always whining about how life has been so unfair, when he has had many blessings that he refuses to recognize. Many blessings that others would be thrilled to suffer from.

[@torijones5194]

I read an opinion from someone who finished the book. She said she felt Harry was a covert narcissist. This is different from what people think of traditionally as narcissism. Most people think malignant narcissist, but a covert narcissist is a different beast. They are insecure and self conscious. Because they lack the brashness of a malignant narcissist people fail to pick up on the hurt this person is inflicting on them. The victim will know something is off and try to seperate themselves but will be unable due to external pressure from others because no one sees the harm. The problems start when a covert narcissist is "unmaked". After you unmask a covert narcissist they make it their mission to destroy you. The person behind this theory thinks something happened at the Sandringham summit that exposed what Harry was doing to William to QEII and now KCIII. When dealing with a covert narcissist you should never unmask them but rather go low contact. The person behind the theory thinks this is what William was doing, we haven't gotten to this part yet, but apparently after William gets married he starts cutting Harry out more and more.

[@sharoncole8249]

@Lisa netgark l also have abrother who is just like that and over the years l was fedup of been hurt by him that l stopped calling him l know thats sad but has a adult l keep my home warm kind careing you can only help someone so many times thay have to meet you half way.

[@mycatsnameiskaren8253]

My twin sister is the same. I had to do "no contact" 3 years ago while my family continues to enable her. I'm sorry you have someone like that in your life. It sure makes it vastly different.

[@mutinywxgirl]

​@@torijones5194 Oh, that's very interesting! I will have to do more research on it.

[@emv1237]

If Harry was this whining and annoying, you could see why his family didn't like him 😂

[@msamfilesenge6192]

If he had spent enough time in Africa he would have also learnt some family values because here in Africa we are also big on family and we protect our families fiercely. ❤🇿🇲

[@sarahmurphy8030]

Totally agree

[@valkyriesardo278]

All of the combat Harry describes between himself and his brother doesn't fit with the legend of the torn necklace and broken dog bowl.

[@jacksonmahr8915]

It seems unusual for a man who's almost 40 (and a father himself) to remember childish rivalries with a sibling as serious "nemesis" issues and not from a fond, even dismissive perspective of an adult. It's perhaps the mark of a mind that's never really been challenged with serious, existential problems - just years of being coddled and dwelling in the past.

[@despicabledavidshort3806]

Yea, except no kids

[@allyanderson6755]

He isn't a father in my opinion. If he is...the mother should not leave the child alone with a mind like his. Or his wifes😮😢

[@stellaallbright4750]

I'll take "more things that never happened" for $500, please.

[@sarahmurphy8030]

😂😂😂

[@Nosillamp]

Little background on Tiggy Legge-Bourke…she had been the boys’ nanny since Harry was 8 and William was 10. Diana LOATHED her (she was hired by Charles) but the boys adored her, she rushed to their sides after Diana’s death. Diana was jealous of the relationship her sons had with Tiggy and for lack of a better word tried bullying her. I loved Diana, but I think Harry has inherited some of her worst qualities.

[@PerpetuallyTori]

I was thinking the exact same thing. I love Diana and she did a number of wonderful things for people, but I recognize her failings and faults as well. I feel like Prince William is a representation of her best qualities, and unfortunately, Prince Harry is on the other end of the spectrum.

[@bnic9471]

Tiggy sued the bloomers off Diana for defamation of character.

[@baronessboomer3865]

I raised 3 rambunctious boys who often beat the crap out of each other, but would step in & kick anyone's @ss who went against any of them. There is exactly 7 years between oldest & youngest (to the day) & my youngest would jump on the biggest bully who managed to get either of the others down. Harry is absolutely spoiled, jealous and bitter and I believe has several severe mental issues (made worse by excessive dr*g use & manipulation by an evil narcissist (Me-gain). He is the hero of his own delusional mind & his memories are either twisted by his jealousy or he's just a flat out liar. He has lied repeatedly and devastatingly since he's been with her. He's Hell bent on destroying his brother, his father, & Camilla, while she's pushing vindictive, destructive lies against Catherine. These are sick & twisted people, and I don't believe 90% of what he (or she) says! Yes, he had the truly tragic loss of his Mother and it was horrible. But that was 25 years ago. Millions of people have suffered the tragic loss of a parent at a young age, but didn't have the extended loving family, money, or privileged life he has taken for granted. He was born with privilege, but that came with a cost - duty and service! A life of dedication to service. Or, he could have left to live in Africa (or anywhere he wanted) and been happy (as he's said many, many times) He would have been financially supported & could have done wonderful, important things. He chose a narcissistic, selfish Betch with an agenda & now he's her dancing puppet. He's sold out his family, his country, & his dignity all for Money. And soon, she'll dump him & move on. He just handed her her golden divorce ticket in that farrago of fiction she helped him write. My sympathy is entirely with the Royal Family. Great video, thanks Honey! 💖

[@ryohoshi8445]

So...he really loved Africa...and...moved to the US instead of Africa. Sounds about right for him 🙃

[@Nana-Sheri]

"The naughty one" seems to be the role Diana assigned to him. Weird he never figures that out.

[@s.s.6580]

Harold should've titled his book, *"Mummy and Me!"*

[@cathrinedoyle2268]

It seems that all that Haz accuses William of - is just a reflection of HIS actual feelings; he blames everyone and everything else for his negative thoughts and choices!!

[@LL-lj1kq]

Hitler said she was the most dangerous person in Europe ( hie great grandmother). Because she gave courage to the country by staying

[@Ariadne-cg4cq]

@ jaygatsby2790. The problem with Harry’s behaviour started with Diana, his mother. Right from the start he seemed to be rebellious and naughty but Diana felt that she should spoil him to compensate him for the fact that he was born second and would not become king. She was heard telling him that he could be as naughty as he liked as long as he didn’t get caught. Not the best advice for anyone and worse still for a prince. He was seen kicking bodyguards and other staff without being reprimanded by Diana so it is not surprising that he turned out as he did. Unfortunately Diana misunderstood discipline for unkindness and didn’t want to appear unkind to her children. It did not affect William who was by nature a well behavedo and obedient child but was lethal for Harry who needed very strict discipline.

[@krishnavyas313]

At every weekend William also had lunch with the Queen and prince philip, and tea with Queen mother. They groomed him well for his future role. Queen also made William promise her that he will never do drugs and smoking. She also told him to drink in limitation. William obeyed her but spoiled brat Harry didn't.

[@valkyriesardo278]

Next year, I'll be a 70 year old lady. Until recently, I played WOW for some ten years straight. World of Warcraft is a multiplayer online wargame which is very appealing to adolescent boys. They are readily identified by the things they talk about in chat, preoccupied with mommy and with sex. Listening to Harry is like reading the chat window in WOW.

[@Walklikeaduck111]

You seem 😎

[@Rocsanna]

Did somebody say "Thunderfury, Blessed Blade of the Windseeker"? 😂

[@lesgensdeprovenceontlaparo6531]

How are they preoccupied with mommy? I get the sex part but 'mommy' and 'sex' in the same sentence is overly creepy.

[@Nat-lg2ks]

Perhaps he thinks Diana will rise again like Christ?

[@maxinefreeman8858]

Didn't he know that his granny was in the military. She changed the oil and did minor repairs to military vehicles. There's pictures of her doing it.

[@partlycloudy3519]

Harry lets face it was a petty jealous person . He wants to be king and thinks he should be king instead of william

[@charliewong197]

Seriously mentallt disturbed! No wonder the rf spent yrs covering up his craziness.

[@megpaterson7613]

I personally would 100% prefer to be the spare, exactly like you said, he had all the privileges as Price William without the enormous pressure’s of being the future King that Prince William has, Harry definitely got the easier end of the stick the Prince William. Prince William also lost his beautiful mum at a young age yet you don’t see him behaving like a spoilt brat, acting like a victim. Don’t get me wrong, I couldn’t (and don’t want to) imagine what it is like to loose a parent, but, there comes a time that Harry has to grow up, Princess Diana wouldn’t of wanted her death to have destroyed her boy’s future happiness for life. I honestly think if Harry had met and married someone like Princess Kate he would be a different man. Meghan is playing on Harry’s emotions and capsulising on Princess Di’s death and that makes me angry and sick. As an Australian I remember morning Princess Di’s death, as I did with Prince Philip and her Majesty, it broke my heart, but, Meghan hasn’t been bought up to respect the Monarchy, she only cares about herself and she is a predator and Harry was her target, she is using him for her own gain for fame and fortune. She was a Z class cable network actress, I personally had never heard of her prior to her relationship with Harry, he was her meal ticket because she was never going to be a successful Hollywood actress so this was her only chance for the spotlight. She 100% studied who he was prior to meeting him and knew he was a little bit broken and knew she could easily manipulate and mould him to use him 😢

[@elinstar6034]

Don't want to be mean, but I don't think anyone like Kate would contemplate marriage with someone like Harry. But he could have at least found someone kind and motherly who would have enabled his better qualities and allowed him to live a happy life.

[@erstwhile6163]

26:13 my friend worked for the Duchy of Cornwall and she was at Balmoral one time and walked into a kitchen . There was Her Majesty bent over a drawer looking for cutlery for a family picnic. She was so lovely and receptive she said. I love that story.

[@cheeredenise]

What a wonderful story!!!

[@SMRT79]

I adore this story!

[@tibouzankor1997]

Another great post! I enjoy it but am simultaneously frustrated by Hazzard’s inability to enjoy any positive experience without a huge BUT to it.

[@cheeredenise]

💯 where I’m at in my frustration with him. Every good thing has to be ruined by his sour attitude! It’s unbelievable how ungrateful he is!

[@lucyturner4923]

I laughed so hard when you were describing the tobasco story and how it didn’t make any sense. 😂

[@lindabaker6334]

Aloha hienz57 says hi yeah well she asked what was so funny about putting hot sauce in someone food? What did I miss? Not funny at all that guy saved his life walking towards a man eater like soldiers don't know how to defend themselves what the monkey? Wow threw firecrackers down the well on his friend what the monkey? He's still that mean cruel person him and that megturd gross

[@drubee7793]

Tiggy was William and Harry’s nanny when they were little and they loved her. She was brought back after Diana died to help provide a maternal figure for a while.

[@cheeredenise]

Harry writes about her throaty voice and alluring ways…which is an odd way to remember a maternal figure 🤣

[@gilltrewick5219]

@@cheeredenisebut he does the same with Diana and her Elizabeth Arden lip salve. He really does have issues.

[@cevans7285]

If i remember correctly, Diana had big issues with Tiggy, she was extremely jealous of the relationship she had with William & Harry.

[@sarahmurphy8030]

​@@cheeredenise.. Tiggy is Archies godmother

[@i.b.640]

@@cevans7285 I think she once said (before the divorce) she feared, that She herself AND Camilla would be set aside for Tiggy soon.

[@kathleenwaters1139]

Ok! Finally I can listen to a Harkle commenter without feeling like I want to yell at the screen WHAT? WHAT? NO!!!! Because you do it for me. Perfect amount of outrage and humor-plus I love the American cultural inserts Friends, movies, etc. I’m here for it!!!

[@cheeredenise]

Hooray!!!! So glad you’re with us on this wild journey through Spare!

[@jobloggs4128]

During the 'battle' with the other boys, where were the protection officers. These highly trained men let their wards high speed chase in a land drover and then allowed then to torture another injured boy and were fine with that🤔. Just said liar liar pants on fire to me

[@carriesherk9786]

I This may have already been said, but I think Meghan had a very heavy hand in this and very little is actually even true or at least grossly exaggerated!

[@debi4289]

You’re doing a great job! Thanks for reading this train wreck so that we, your viewers , don’t have to. You are very eloquent and funny! Keep up the good work and I do believe your channel will continue to grow! 😊

[@cheeredenise]

Thank you for watching, for such kind words AND for commenting!! I’m so glad you’re here with us on this rollercoaster ride!

[@charlotteetienne1371]

👍 I never wanted to read this cr@p but listening to the comments that are made out of it makes it funny !!

[@rosita1200]

I can't read it, it's great to hear someone's opinion who can, thanks

[@sharoncole8249]

@Cheere Denise Am loveing your channel l have been reading comments and you have created a wonderful channel with Super lovely subscribers. I would have never read this book but am very norsy and when l came across you today l knew l had found the right lady to listen too on my Level a no nonsense person you are also very kind and fair to harry knowing his age .well done with your channel its brilliant 😊

[@Joanna7428]

​@@sharoncole8249she's great at this isn't she? I can listen to her whilst doing the housework, I love her take on this book - have you read her revenge chapters too ?

[@ragwortrattle8798]

Her late Majesty was normal to the extent that Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher bought her Marigold washing up gloves to protect her skin, because she was frequently washing dishes.

[@jaydee9124]

All these details from the guy who said he had memory problem. The guy that wrote this flowery nonsense must have summoning Barbara Cartland.

[@cheeredenise]

🤣

[@sarahmurphy8030]

Barbra Cartland is Diana step grandmother

[@livinglife4835]

I feel really bad for William and Pa! Harry is so mean, vindictive bully.Harry crossed the line . Not surprised family distance. Thank you for you insight and thoughtfulness.

[@SMRT79]

In the wrestling stories: sounds to me like it was Harry was the coward and William was fighting off 5 guys by himself and Harry would jump in on occasion acting like a psychopathic, scared but over-the-too diversion - like a clown car at a circus…just to be the surprise to the fight to make everyone stop in shock as they watched the little turd spin about and after a 10 second breather William would be ready to go back in to kick all their asses. Harry sounds like a coward here imho!

[@conniecatlege9476]

Tabasco sauce thing is so childish Harry really needs serious help.

[@cheeredenise]

I don’t get how that was suppose to amuse someone….

[@gilltrewick5219]

It could also be very dangerous, chilli can trigger heart problems and allergies in some. Though I know kids don’t think about those things.

[@cheeredenise]

@@gilltrewick5219 such a good point!

[@cherylhurst4390]

Poor Nick in the well, the thing that might have save that story is if Lassie came to rescue Nickie from the well. 🐾😄

[@cheeredenise]

🤣🤣

[@bnic9471]

And once Nicki was pulled from the well, he may have been deaf and blind, but he kept the family jewels, married, and produced a child. Sounds as if this poor guy was Nicholas van Kutsem.

[@sidneybales9062]

"just for the pleasure of not having the snowboarders in the way." THIS is a real skier.

[@rosita1200]

I'm English and we do express our love and hug etc... think Harry sounds like he needs over the top expression of this which is on another level.

[@Woodman-Spare-that-tree]

I’m English. The hugging thing depends very much on your social class and your generation. In my own family, nobody hugged or even held hands. My father would talk to me from 10 feet away. I never touched him , or my mother, or my sibling, or my grandma - ever. I never saw my parents touch each other. I never saw my mother touch her own mother (my grandma). We all stood or sat several feet away from each other, all the time.

[@b.m.t.h.3961]

​@Woodman-Spare-that-tree You are probably the exception though.

[@ldscancermom8413]

I am the older sister of four redheads. They were always treated specially when we went out and asked where I came from 🙄. His going off about being a ginger and how no one thought a ginger could get Meghan, like what?

[@lindabaker6334]

Aloha hienz57 says hi yeah well he's not a good looking guy at all and megturd doesn't have anyone and didn't have anyone to fight for her attention only bellend so being ginger had nothing to do with her marrying you stop trying for sympathy you a ginger she a turd so what .last picture of Archie and Lilly they were blond what the monkey?

[@rm_a972]

You really deserve more followers. Your storytelling and witty remarks are amazing. Love from the Netherlands.

[@cheeredenise]

Wow, thank you!

[@Yathome00]

The United kingdom 🇬🇧 is packed full of spares! “Second sons” is the formal term and the aristocracy is full of them. With Prince William’s children, Charlotte will be the “spare” and I highly doubt she will give two figs about that distinction

[@Cladina_Green]

I'm here for the Narcissism! I mean I hate it, but I can't look away. Thank you- happy to find the channel.

[@Cladina_Green]

I don't believe what he says about his father's parenting. There is a lot of evidence that Charles was affectionate and available. Harry is writing to support his current agenda. His credibility is destroyed as he and M are proven liars. So this is mostly a window into H's psychology- not so reliable for the historical record.

[@Cladina_Green]

Lady C says that Diana had some degree of Borderline Personality Disorder. She says the damage was done to Harry before Diana died. She wasn't a saint.

[@cheeredenise]

I have always had a lot of reservations about Diana. I understand she had a hard situation, and she was very young when she married, but at what point do you say “other people’s actions against me do not determine my reaction. I can rise above the unkindness” but she was seemingly very manipulative all while looking up under her eyelashes and begging for the public’s sympathy.

[@mariayvonnebancila6373]

Hunting stories are upsetting. Killing animals for fun?! Horrible. And Harry , even more disturbingly, seems to like killing.

[@erstwhile6163]

Harry rides into the play fights like the hero he is to save his older brother. But he sure isn’t doing it now when it really counts is he?

[@arribaficationwineho32]

HazNo HATES the press…until he LOVES them.

[@susanchurch3950]

Your commentary is hilarious and spot on!!! I appreciate your thoughts as they mirror my own about this "book". Keep up the good work.

[@cheeredenise]

Thank you for watching and commenting!!! So glad to have you with us!

[@gethisoverwith1335]

I’ve been loosely following the release of this book across KZbin, social media, and the press, but had no interest in any book review until the YT algorithm threw ur channel my way. I’ve now subscribed and will follow regularly. Your mix of dry humour and studied thoughtfulness are engaging. Thanks! BTW u remind me of the Canadian-British comedian Katherine Ryan (that’s a compliment!).

[@cheeredenise]

Oh yes! I know her! She IS funny! Thank you!!!!

[@annemoncrieff3875]

He connected to hurting ple and animals with getting or giving a laugh. How warped is that?!

[@LG-nb5ur]

Yes one of the dark triad personality traits.

[@melissawinslow7537]

From a family with a bunch of gingers apparently it is a big deal. My nephews both have beautiful red hair and have been made fun of all through school. Not sure why. I was always jealous that I didn't get the full red hair.

[@BeautifulTreasureIsland]

It’s unfortunate no one thought to redirect Harry’s aggression to a sport that taught self-awareness, good sportsmanship and self-control, such as boxing or martial arts.

[@sarahmurphy8030]

He took it out on poor Polo pony's 😢

[@elinstar6034]

OK Big Boy!! Wow your wimpy bro Willy should be so grateful to you! Good grief.

[@gonefishing167]

I think, not 100% certain, but I think Diana was descended from either James @ or 2. I do recall that it was said that when William came to the throne he would have the most English blood since - can’t remember. As for ‘mummy being a severed branch’, no! Both William ,and maybe Harry’s , children will carry her bloodline on into the future. I think Harry doesn’t remember that much detail about his mum. He was too young to know his mother as a person. I think he’s insanely jealous of anyone who did know his mother. I also think he’s so tied up with guilt that he fobbed his mother off on the phone to go play with his cousins. That was their last phone call. Adults have problems with guilt over ‘last things’. ‘ I should have done that’ , I wish I hadn’t done that’ etc, etc. and we’re adults. He was dealing it with the emotions of a little boy on the verge of being a teenage boy. He csnt deal with his guilt ( which he doesn’t need to have) so he’s coping with by going inward snd having rage. If he has rage he doesn’t have to think about it snd - most importantly- he hasn’t grown up. He was ripe for the picking. He couldn’t see through the facade that a woman was feeding him. Wearing his mummys perfume - sick! That was the time to run and he should have run after the vanity fair article. She’s hoodwinked him, she’s convinced him his mum would love her, adore her snd his mum - best trick ever - would want Harry to protect her snd don’t let anything happen to her. She was just like his mum. Yeah right. Diana would have seen straight through her Sorry it’s so long 🙏🙏🙏👵🇦🇺

[@stephanien1113]

Cheere: You make very good points re: what cloth H is cut from. I believe it is the Spencer cloth. What I am seeing more clearly is- H has mental disorder problems. 'Normal' thoughts, insights don't apply to him. He is still EXtremely Selfish & Vengeful-but he was Not dealt a full deck and the BRF protected him all these decades past. LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!

[@elinstar6034]

Yes. And if he was not diagnosed, no wonder he keeps telling stories trying to big himself up, and getting out of it on drugs and alcohol. And no wonder, when Meghan held out the prospect of becoming a woke Superstar instead of an awkward 'spare' who couldnt fit in, he leapt at it.

[@JessieCori]

"Not the full shilling" comes to mind....borderline airhead....

[@b.m.t.h.3961]

​@@JessieCoriA couple of sandwiches short of a picnic!

[@rosita1200]

Found these videos yesterday, finding them really entertaining, especially as I can't (won't) read this book. The more I hear about both Meghan and Harry, the more I dislike them. Thanks for taking one for the team in reading this 👍

[@cheeredenise]

Thanks for watching!!! It’s much more fun to read the book this way with a group 🤣

[@jaygatsby2790]

First of all, let me say how happy I am that the KZbin algorithm showed me your channel. In a way, I'm glad I just found this now so I can binge-watch. Anyway, I was watching two psychologists talking on YT and one said, "It's not true that children as young as two years old can't be bad or have no concept of what's right and wrong because they kind of do. But it's up to the parents and that child's peers to socialize him into behaving in an unacceptable way. Parents will discipline the child when he misbehaves and his peers will refuse to play with him if he hurts them or he doesn't play by the rules. This socialization normally happens by the time the child is five years old and if that doesn't happen by five or at most, seven years old, the child will most likely to grow up to be an asshole." And the thing with Harry is, he's been indulged ALL his life because of who he is and he hasn't been disciplined either. There are stories of him riding his little motorized toy car into the shins of the Palace guards and they all had to take it. One prominent KZbinr called Lady C who is also an aristocrat and whose own children played with William and Harry, recounted that parents and their children were often wary of young Harry because he invariably picked fights with other kids. And again, no one brought him to task or ostracized him for his bad behavior because he's a Prince and the Queen's grandson. Also, he's incredibly stupid, intellectually lazy, and doesn't have a shred of empathy nor emotional intelligence. So he ends up a deeply unpleasant, supremely entitled, cruel, selfish, envious, contemptuous man.

[@evelynsalter7987]

If the deer had been shot how was his head pushed inside the carcass. I know he is a pinhead but don't think it would have fit through a bullet hole. He shows nothing but jealousy of William. All the descriptions he talks about William is in his head. William is far more buff than Harry and also taller. He will say anything to denigrate William out of jealousy.

[@JessieCori]

Pinhead😂😂😂👍👍👍

[@annemoncrieff3875]

The bloodying happened to the queen when she was a princess. She shot a deer at Balmoral and the routine is to cover the person with the blood of their first kill. So she got deer blood rubbed on her hands and face. God they r strange pple the aristocracy.

[@i.b.640]

That they are. On the other hand, some kind of ritual after you killed something is not so bad in my opinion. Make it clear you took a life and it's not a game and clay pigeons.

[@b.m.t.h.3961]

Some other peoples and cultures do this too

[@vancouvervixen4253]

The fact that you are reading this illustrious whinge festivus and shining the light in all the foolish corners WHILE SITTING IN FRONT OF THE GULAG ARCHIPELAGO has me ROLLING 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rm_a972]

😂😂😂

[@teenatomes8341]

Very much enjoying your synopsis of this “autobiography”….novel….fairy tale. You are bringing the story to life, giving us the details and saving your viewers the pain of slogging through the book ourselves! I think his mental outcome would have been much different if his story had happened 20 years later when there was more knowledge and understanding of the long term effect of childhood traumas and the stereotype concerning mental health and psychiatric care removed.

[@cheeredenise]

Thanks for the kind words!! So glad you’re enjoying the videos!! Good point…I think that if someone had taken him under their wing and let him talk and didn’t negate how negative it could feel to be thought of as “extra parts”but at the same time helped him to see the privilege in his own place in the family he wouldn’t have been left to flounder so badly. His mom dying was horrific….but many people have survived that and worse and not become the self consumed whiner Harry has become.

[@LG-nb5ur]

It probably also would have been different (more positive maybe) if he'd received a dose of two of tough love.

[@lwm2374]

I love your dramatic narration 🤣🤣🤣

[@kaynemccully5266]

So clever of you to think of Harry the hero, Willy the zero! Hahahahahahaha! But you know that's what he should have called his book.

[@jomarsh6449]

I really enjoy your humorous take on this gawd-awful and ridiculous book.. your quick wit and funny presentation makes it almost enjoyable!! ..and the camera adores you … and your different looks… curly haired , straight or up-do’s… you’re a natural… keep it up… as I snuggle up to retirement age, I gotta say I’m thrilled to see someone young and funny, with a brain in their head ! Keep up your great work!!!

[@cheeredenise]

Huge compliments!!! Wow!! Thank you for taking the time to be SO encouraging!!

[@renekirebornrenekireborn4777]

It's so sad to see the level of ignorance of Prince Harry to his own culture and the respect everyone else seems to have for his family but he! No family is perfect but for him to just keep sh*tting on them is so uncomfortable to watch and hard to fathom.

[@cheeredenise]

Perfectly said! No one is saying there haven’t been hard times and misunderstandings and disagreements….but to write a book about every single imagined slight?!! How incredibly self indulgent!

[@renekirebornrenekireborn4777]

@@cheeredenise also there’s a hierarchy in every family royal or not. I got all my sister’s old clothes and never complained if I got one less sausage 😂

[@cheeredenise]

@@renekirebornrenekireborn4777 🤣

[@erstwhile6163]

33:13 I think it was Markle who got in his head. Seriously. He was a flawed character ripe for manipulation at that time in his life. She saw it and she moved in. Sorry. But some people ‘fall in love’ and it possesses them. I think this happened to Harry

[@Pepper0077]

I don’t think William has ever really been anything but a big brother. Harry is searching for something and it sure shouldn’t have been Meghan. That was the worst type of person, but she knew what she was doing. Harry is so paranoid.😢

[@freyavanir2081]

Where are the ever-present bodyguards when those 4 boys (one of whom the future king) were roughhousing on a construction site, where there were shotguns around? Okay, their parents were off somewhere, but where are the bodyguards? That's why I kinda don't believe these stories. Yes, things could happen with kids left free to roam in dangerous places, but that's not Harry's reality. It reads a bit like a constructed movie to me. William is ever present and somehow completely not present in the book. Harry mentions him always; William (who conviniently will NOT share his side of the story) always agrees with Harry when H expresses an opinion or does sth (controversial or mean, more often than not) . William is jealous in situations where the younger one should actually be the jealous one, etc. But William, the person, we never get to know him. It's impossible to make your own picture of this man from the book (at least to where I've read so far). Mainly because he and their brotherly bond is so inconsistently characterized : W is a coward but at the same time he throws H upon the dog bowl; W has always a scowl when he sees his brother, but their bond is soooo strong (why? When? When did this bond develop, and how, if the older always scowled and didn't want anything to do with the younger? ); nobody wanted to talk to H about his mother, and he felt alienated because of that . Pages later W wanted to talk to him about her, but H couldn't. The "William wouldn't let me walk behind the coffin alone if the roles were reversed" clings either as a real sentiment or a bit of an agrandized statement which though needs the truth of a tight bond to stand on. A tight bond the book contradicts at every junction. William seems to be Harry's crutch (someone to put blame on, share blame with, a nemesis, an instigator, but also a coward and everything else H needs to project on him) and that's why to me he isn't present in the book and doesn't read as a real person. And I'm not saying W is a saint or hasn't done some of the things H attributes to him, but by using him as a crutch, being adamant to do no introspection at all and just externalize his problems, giving everyone especially W absolutely no benefit of the doubt and portraying him ALWAYS in the worst of lights, H has removed every possibility for me to be able to understand what can be real. This whole book reads like the first sessions of therapy, where a damaged individual ( absolutely no problem with that, we are all damaged in our own ways) is telling their grievances and externalizing everything that hurt them or contributed to problems in their life. BUT before doing the work of building introspection, taking responsibility, building acceptance (where applicable - it not always is!) for the people and situations around him, and forgiving where possible himself and others. Growing up and letting the past go, while having learned from it and became a better, stronger individual. It is sad. I'm sorry for Harry that after all this time and work that he says he has done (when and under whose counsel seems to change), he still is at this bitter point in life. That said, it doesn't excuse him. He is a grown up now - at some point, if he wants it or not, it IS time to be responsible and even if he rejects the responsibility, well other people have every right to take him into account for his own behavior. The lack of growth, responsibility, the obvious lies, the spinning of stories, the soooo obvious desire to hurt his family (either through his/their words, implications, and/or silence), the perceived attack on people who can't protect themselves by telling their side of the story (though the RF is not so completely helpless, but still in a very difficult position as it comes to sharing their piece. The individuals/stories he mentions behind closed are in such a position, though, and those just happen to be his preferred targets and closest family members.), together with the breach of other people's privacy without even a thought, humiliating stories about others and himself (which I think are there to show sincerity and build sympathy, but risk to and are turned into laighing stock),his glibness towards some important things, but pettiness regarding his own are just some of the reasons this book was a terrible idea for their reputation and frankly his own mental health . This book kinda forces him to stay in this arrested development stage of life now that he shared it with people. And imo destroyed his ties with his family, which he in his paranoia and immaturity will see as their fault. I'm so sorry for everyone involved. I hope the children (of both brothers) grow to be able to bypass all the hurts of the past and present, as Harry says to break the generational trauma. Sadly he doesn't seem to understand that it's not what he is doing, he's absolutely wallowing in it, while (as he himslef states in his book) ignoring his children in favor of it. This is a shitshow. Hope Harry and everyone can heal and grow.

[@billsgirl1981]

I think Harry never matured after his mom died….he’s still a 12 year old emotionally.

[@alysongimello2944]

🤔 makes sense

[@charlotteetienne1371]

Hi from France! Well it is very nice to hear your bright comments on this. As I can tell by the titles of the books behind you, you’re well educated and this explains that 👍👍👍 For all the staff working in palaces, so much if not all of this, doesn’t make much sense… have a great Tuesday!! 😘

[@cheeredenise]

A big welcome to Charlotte Etienne from France!!!! Thank you for commenting and supporting the channel all the way from Europe! So glad to have you!!

[@charlotteetienne1371]

@@cheeredenise 😘😘😘

[@leslieduffy1434]

Thanks for doing this in a comedic, incisive way!! Very entertaining. Les from South Africa .

[@cheeredenise]

Sooo glad your enjoying these videos! So glad to have you!!

[@someonesgranny5387]

Hey! Discovered you today... now having to catch up on the videos so far. To be honest I have been getting mixed up and I've watched a few twice!🙄😂 And laughed again! You are doing a great job...you are a natural. Love from Scotland.

[@cheeredenise]

Love from Scotland!! ♥️I am LOVING hearing from friends in the British Isles!!!! So glad you’re here on this crazy journey with us!!

[@slyb7193]

It sounds to me as though he had snippet memories during his psychedelic "therapy" sessions...that is why at times he sounds like "maybe" this happened. And then those bizarre memories were taken, spun into this weird book...

[@rm_a972]

Agree, you can also see very different versions from the truth, especially with mental problems.

[@amandasoileau3217]

I saw a character breakdown of Harry's House of Horrors. I don't recall specific numbers; except for one, presumably, very important person in Harry's life. He of course mentioned William the most, followed by "Meg", Mummy and Archie. Strangely, he cites the name Lilibet (Lili) only ONCE! I'm not going to read this book (so grateful that you are), but I'm curious if this is factual, or even close to it. If it is anywhere near accurate, then it seems Harry devalues his spare, precisely as he "purports" his family has treated him... less than, just a SPARE I hope this is not the case; however, serving as an example of perpetual victimhood is also not a strong argument to make for how to raise mentally and emotionally healthy children. I hope, for his daughter's sake, that he can rise above his own deeply disturbed view of himself. Meghan being a jealous competitor of her own daughter, in almost every aspect imaginable, is in itself, easy to imagine. I hope that Harry can rise to champion on behalf of his daughter. I've always questioned WHY Meghan was so quick to have a child with Harry. Twice divorced and almost 40 with no children... seems like she wasn't on any path toward motherhood; or at the least, being very cautious and selective. Of course, that's how we, as women, should be... nothing wrong with that. However, less than a year into this ROYAL LEGAL UNION and 💥 BOOM, baby #1! What a gold-digging, opportunistic social climber. Harry was one, of only a handful of eligible men, whose mere existence mandates excessive and abundant wealth, prestige and status. Having his child would guarantee that for LIFE. Even if he came to recognize the misery tethered to this woman, like an arm or a foot, and chose to amputate her from his life... a ROYAL CHILD will keep her connected to vast wealth, prestige and proximity to power... FOREVER. Those titles are her LIFELINE. I think that Meek Malleable Harry is the only person on the planet who doesn't get that.

[@cheeredenise]

Fantastic comment!! Thank yo for adding to the conversation! I honestly never thought about how quickly she got pregnant but you are SO right…that is extremely dodgy to say the least 🤣

[@bluediamond4502]

Well if you believe she was actually pregnant? I don’t. 💎

[@amandasoileau3217]

@Blue Diamond I have questions regarding the pregnancy too, but until "proven" otherwise, I won't deny a woman her experience, or right to experience, motherhood as she claims it to be. I know women, even a close friend, who used a surrogate; however, that doesn't diminish the ability to be an incredible mother or parent. It also doesn't dilute the bloodline, bc DNA isn't intrauterine. Even putting aside shared DNA, parents who adopt are just as loving, bonded and capable of exceptional parenting. I'm just hesitant to maligne a woman's claim to motherhood... even this self absorbed, vile, dishonest, social climber. I maybe totally wrong, but I'd think that the British Royal Family, would have proof of paternity, prior to bestowing titles, even upon the lowest ranking members. The blood lineage goes back thousands of years. I can't imagine they'd forego that to appease Meghan. They're just one tragic family vacation away from Archie being the heir to the thrown... I would hope that, if not the family, themselves, that parliament would have the authority to verify paternity. Hopefully there is some apparatus in place to protect Britain from royal impostors. Then again, look at what one of their very own, their blood, is doing to denigrate, and indeed destroy, the monarchy. So, who knows. My point was that, regardless of whether she used a surrogate or not, she has royal offspring, and SHE will benefit from that, far beyond our understanding of GREAT, for the rest of her life... with or without pathetic Harry Winsor. I don't put anything past these 2 psycho grifters. Sounds like you don't either!!

[@SMRT79]

@@amandasoileau3217I won’t ever trash a woman for needing a surrogate or infertility - my issue is her wearing the moonbump and faking the pregnancy. That’s what angers me - just be honest about it and that it’s her egg and his sperm and therefore their DNA, they had a chance to be a rep for people who suffer from infertility or use/need surrogates and instead she chose to lie and diminish those very important issues. Catherine had horrid sickness with all three pregnancies - so meghan and Harry’s ridiculous labor story is a slap in the face to Catherine as well as all women who have experienced labor including surrogates and their honest supporters. There are parents who use surrogates and provide support and care the entire time, and attend every appointment and interact with the carrier the entire time and therefore experience many aspects of pregnancy just be acknowledging that surrogates role in their lives. In something as significant as monarchies based on DNA/bloodlines then surrogates wouldn’t invalidate that childs birthright if the parents DNA is there - but adoption would. Meghan and Harry being deceptive is the root issue and in these modern times, they tout bringing to the monarchy. Then they should have not lied as they did.

[@SMRT79]

@@amandasoileau3217throne

[@kitkat3548]

The blinding rage Harry is describing ia frightening. Not uncommon, but surely too physical and unruly. However,he did try to protect his brother, who was more well-behaved, as far as I understand. 🫠 At least some good point to Harry - by his words, he didn't hesitate to stand by his brother. That's a sign of, well, brotherly love and bravery.

[@gracie65girl21]

I came late to the party but I’m finally here!! I’m listening to you read the real Diana and I’m waiting for the next release. I found this and I am literally listening nonstop. I couldn’t stomach reading the book but I am so glad that you’re sharing this because you are wonderful at what you do. I’ve just recently had to start doing dialysis 3 times a week with up to four hours in a chair and I spend them with you😊 Please know that you are a blessing to many people. Have a wonderful weekend and I look forward to uncovering your take on this book.

[@Dodobird28]

Cheers 🥂 send you to everyone you are so awesome help me get through tough times you make me laugh with you’re sense or humor you’re so so intelligent well spoken and just over all delightful ❤❤❤❤

[@samanthaplotkin3501]

I’m sure someone has told you this already but in the UK having red hair - being a “ginger” dates back to the English hating the Irish and the Scottish and their Catholicism- I dated an Irish guy while I lived there and it really messed him up. It’s a cultural bullying with cruel origins. I know it seems like no big deal to us but in the UK it is a real thing. I really enjoy listening to you read! Keep it up!

[@user-qp7zc9cp3b]

He loved African because he could feel superior

[@kassandrarodriguez8057]

I’m many years older than my sister and I was never the type of sister that said mean things to younger one probably because of the age gap. But recently i find out that my sister remembers that i never spent time with her, which is very untrue. She was just too young to remember. And when she got old enough to remember things, I was already out of the house and in the military. My mom had to straighten her out and tell her many stories of when we used to spend time together and the things we did.

[@MsGracie69]

You’re simply so entertaining and I love the way you explain and reason all of it.😂 You’re awesome! ❤

[@cheeredenise]

Thank you so much!!

[@ruthf6035]

So glad i found your channel. Thank you for the wonderful review. I hurt from laughing so hard

[@cheeredenise]

So glad you’re enjoying the videos! Wow! Hurt from laughing! That might be the best compliment I’ve gotten yet 🤣 so glad to have you with us on this journey through Spare!

[@user-rk1ie8lh4l]

Regarding the Tabasco sauce, this is also the man that said W & C thought the Natzi uniform was hilarious.

[@marcie6902]

Thanks for this channel. You’re saving us from having to read the book or hear his voice!!😂

[@cheeredenise]

My pleasure! 🤣

[@moonsong9472]

Cheere, you are fantastic at what you do. I just love watching your antics whilst unravelling this saga. Excellent!

[@cheeredenise]

Thank you!! I’m so glad you’re enjoying the videos!!!!

[@fidelogos7098]

The British seem to have a particular issue with red hair. They joke about it, make fun of it, and for the most part, consider it unattractive. I myself think James Norton, Eddie Redmayne, Benedict Cumberbatch and Damian Lewis are very attractive with red hair!

[@cheeredenise]

Some of the prettiest hair I have ever seen was red hair. All the girls I’ve known with red hair also seemed to have twice as much as anyone else. It’s always so thick and enviable! I just can’t understand the stigma!

[@krishnavyas313]

​@@cheeredenise Redhead girls don't get hate as redhead boys.

[@greerstirling9665]

Nick at the bottom of a well lol😆😝

[@happytoday333]

The story about the four boys, the van cutsem brother's, and the 'killing one another ', he definitely includes that because the footage exists of harry and William playing with those brothers and Charles is sitting on the stairs. They are kicking the football ⚽️ . And next minute harry starts crying and goes over to Charles, Charles comforts him and takes him inside. We all saw kids who did that or were the kid that cried. Undoubtedly he included that story because that footage exists and he is incapable of dealing with his sookiness.

[@shelleykeith5645]

I’ve read Revenge and am enjoying your reviews. I decided to take a break from Revenge and view Spare(I refused to buy that book) so I am enjoying these reviews. Thanks for taking the hit for us so you can do these videos. Love your channel and keep these coming.

[@kate2create738]

Been binge watching some of your videos and want to congratulate you for hitting 1K subscribers! So far I am enjoying what you are bringing into the convent, you have input that definitely gives everyone a pause of how Harry could have and should have redirected his life. At this point I consider myself a Megxiteer, with that a lot of the blame has been put on Markle’s shoulders, but this book proves how much control Harry had over a lot of the blunders this couple have made together. Harry is what I consider a man child, Peter Pan syndrome, he has demonstrated he is a stunted 12/13 year old and refuses to grasp the predicament he put himself and everyone else to. The scary part is how much together this couple is pushing tyranny onto not just the UK but the US, and how many people with power are giving them the platform to encourage this!

[@cheeredenise]

Thanks for the congrats and also I agree with everything you said about Meghan’s responsibility vs Harry. I used to think it was a lot more one sided.

[@ardrasundberg8273]

Thank u for having read this book. I would not hv been able to put up with it……but your interpretation is perfect!!

[@trinapowell4436]

The Tudor Dynasty was full of gingers, including one of the greatest monarchs in English history Elizabeth I. After she lost most of her hair at age 29 due to a bout of severe smallpox she wore red wigs. THAT is the confidence needed by a ruler.

[@janebaker4912]

This sounds just like my teenage diary. I'd always write myself as a hero 😂

[@katpleroux7756]

Harry by his own words was not thinking about his mom all the time. He blocked it all out. So, he would not remember all these little thoughts he had all those years ago anyway. Its a load of horse s*** for the book to keep inluding his Mom who everybody loves.

[@lesgensdeprovenceontlaparo6531]

For me, Harry and his wife have 'shone a light' on Diana's true character. When Harry says that his wife is just like his mother, we should listen to him. I have reviewed my opinion of Diana since these two started their Worldwide Privacy Tour. The layers have well and truly been peeled back. I say Charles was the real victim of that marriage.