I'm A Boss & Independent Why Can't I Find a Husband!

[@tylergnosis2581]

She works long hours and pays her own bills. That's called being an adult

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

@@tylergnosis2581 only if you’re a man. If a woman does it it’s called being to masculine to find a man.

[@anthonynelson4015]

She masculine af and a no for me.

[@colihon3552]

True it's good to know but probably shouldn't lead with it. I don't think dudes should either. she'll look like she got unrealistic expectations and he will be advertising himself as a ATM. let the convo get to professions naturally. move like a ghost it will come up a half hour into the convo. don't need to be the first question 2 minutes in

[@Secko1Secko]

Exactly

[@Quakeinc14]

She wants a cookie. She's a big girl.

[@KTthaSouthernGent22]

Do you ever notice that men that work, pay their own bills, etc aren't labeled as independent , that's called being an adult.

[@nunya54]

Because men are supposed to be independent and have dependents; women are supposed to be dependent. Women want to be both or have the options (all options). They're confused and mis-reared now.

[@Raraking4796]

I’ve always wondered why so many women say that….even if you don’t pay all your bills as an adult the entire time for whatever reason most adults do their majority of things in their lives independently. I am a women and I do find that I often add more words than what’s necessary and that shit just happens with me accidentally so maybe once when we’re able to get a bank account they wanted to yell about it more but who really knows haha

[@timmytee734]

...Because they are not being controlled by husbands, but can work like every adult should! And that's the point of feminism. Thank you for your support!

[@kapothagoodfella2785]

​@@timmytee734controlled by husbands??? That is a white people problem... We want to be white so bad it's sad... The Black Woman HAS NEVER I repeat NEVER BEEN UNDER THE BLACK MANS CONTROL LIKE THAT!! WE DON'T HAVE THE POWER NOR HAVE WE EVER HAD THE POWER TO OPPRESS BLACK WOMEN!!.. Our grandmother either always worked or just held down the house because that's what was needed not because the black man said bitch you belong in the kitchen... Those were white problems...I was always a Team effort!!

[@likeisaid]

So true 💯💯

[@waynereid3433]

If I hear any woman refer to themselves as a Boss B, I’m out.

[@DarkKnight-ws3wx]

THAT PART

[@MrBigtodd]

Sick of tired of hearing it guarantee she got a bs eyelash business on line or something

[@leongrayson3578]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@TheJdb1974]

So right. Exit stage left!

[@BigU512]

A boss at your job or business doesn't make you a boss. Context matters. A real boss has influence outside of their workspace. A lady selling oranges on the side of the road is her own boss, but no one else is calling her boss.

[@BenT_bbx]

"I'm a strong, independent man" said no man ever.

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

@@BenT_bbx true enough. Men say “i’m a man. I don’t clean for myself”

[@BenT_bbx]

@@PeopleRTheProblem really? I've never heard a man utter those words.

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

@@BenT_bbx you need to get out more. Oh….that includes in writing. In the comments I’ve seen it too. But you don’t hear text so that’s my fault for not including that..

[@lunamufon]

No, y'all blacks just say you're an "alpha male" 😂😂

[@masteroogway8453]

@@lunamufon 🤣🤣 you clearly dont know what your talking about. The alpha and sigma talk is mostly use by the white redpill groups. Go look at the “alpha” male bootcamp groups. They’re ALL white

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Boss chicks do it for themselves. Boss men do it for others. You hear the mentality in how they speak. It's all self-serving. Also, her business takes up ALL her time in order to sustain her lifestyle??? Red flags. That business is catching up with bad spending habits.

[@greatthenate9864]

That comment was on the #1😊😂❤🫡✊🏾

[@Mental_Alchemist]

Bars

[@mkingadiffernce]

Boss chicks do for themselves boss man do it for others!!! This has to be the most best comment I’ve seen so far!! This is so true!!!

[@josebrown5961]

Her businesses take all her time because she doesn’t have any employees. She is the boss of herself.

[@andrewilliams6367]

@@josebrown5961ok but flip it for a seconds. Woman constantly complain that when high valued men who own or run a business are constantly “neglecting” them to run said business it’s a problem. She herself just said that she puts her business and herself as priorities over the men she dates. So why can’t men feel neglected as well? Everyone wants to feel wanted and needed. It goes both ways but women only see it one way. If she’s a “boss b” then he need to support me and if he doesn’t he’s a hater. It doesn’t or at least shouldn’t work like that.

[@lcparker1498]

If she's a boss look for an employee not a husband. If you're independent that's great news, you're a functional adult.

[@ftnrbhmwk]

@lcparker1498 Aw Man.. BARS.......

[@josebrown5961]

She has no employees, so she is not a “boss.” These “bosses” are deluded.

[@microphonefiend5177]

This lady showed a bit of why SHE IS SINGLE...

[@fyoutube9410]

As soon as she says independent boss babe, just nod and exit stage left.

[@midnightfenrir]

They say it because they need to convince themselves most of all.

[@ameliusxsmith4733]

Women don’t date for love they date for the Hope of being secured

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

Men don’t date for love, they want a roomate with benefits

[@kingsweetz82]

Facts

[@icsharpk]

That’s all these weirdos lead with. Goh & the notion those of us under 25 want an old man 🤢 lol they say it’s for the security.

[@LarryBonson]

​@@icsharpk It is for security these are the facts of life.

[@josebrown5961]

That’s how all my white female students in college were. Between the summer before my senior year and 5 years after I must have attended 10 weddings. Only one was a black couple. I had 2 of the females actually say they attended college to get their “Mrs Degree,” and both of them are still married today. Their kids are just becoming adults.

[@Bsharpnoflats]

In order to be a boss, masculine has to be present. I don't know any man who wants a masculine woman!

[@josebrown5961]

No in order to be a boss, you have to have employees. Most of these people who have multiple “businesses” are just solo operators not bosses. I myself was a boss. I led a team of 16. I had to manage and look out for all of them. That was “being a boss.”

[@CookWithStephh]

@@josebrown5961they are confusing boss with self employed

[@joannwilson9097]

​@@josebrown5961 well said Sir 💯

[@anthonyfletcher8053]

Just a fun fact. Most women who are in HIGH level businesses have higher levels of testosterone than an average woman.

[@bamfordblue6853]

Nope. Too big of a headache.

[@BROWNIEMACKCHANNEL]

There's a lot of women who have their own business and call themselves a boss. But have no employees so how does that work?

[@CookWithStephh]

Self employed lol

[@OthoWilliamsJr]

Doesn't make sense.... She needs a Dog or Cat, that's she can Command

[@Koyasi78]

That's not a business. Businesses employ other people, not just make money off them.

[@MohamedAhmed-ms9eu]

@@CookWithStephh if you're self employed you're a contractor/freelancer but not a boss. A boss literally requires having others below you who you pay and order around to do tasks.

[@Prough]

1 month into any business, IM A BOSS !

[@myklo4269]

Ladies, either you want to be a boss but struggle to find a man or be a wife but live within your means. In most cases, you can't have it all.

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

Men either you want a stay at home wife and struggle to pay bills, or a working woman and you have to wash your own underwear….you can’t have it all

[@ArionNoble]

@@PeopleRTheProblem First off, this is 2024. MACHINES do most work for you, so any of you pretending housework is that difficult sound ridiculous. My mom worked and still cooked and did laundry. Why can't you?

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

@@ArionNoble see what I mean. Your attitude makes you worse. Being a surgeon in 2024 the tech does most of the work for you also. If house work is so easy then you do it.

[@ArionNoble]

@PeopleRTheProblem I do and have most of my life. I also cook better than most of you. Do you really think men don't know how to do this? And I'm military. No one cleans better than we do. My floors are spotless and get mopped (hard wood) everyday. What are you talking about? So again, why is this so hard for all of you?

[@ArionNoble]

@@PeopleRTheProblem Apparently telling the truth means ATTITUDE to you. In the 50s, housework was difficult. You still mostly handwashed your clothes. Anyone acting like it is hard today is just lazy.

[@curtbuckmire9194]

As soon as the first woman spoke, it's single women keeping women single.

[@rastazrealities]

They just don't get it until reality comes down like her menses.

[@Maelstrom8]

Exactly. The fellas and ol' girl in the cap was on it, yet that bird monopolized the conversation with stuff that wasn't even in the question. SMDH.

[@donaldpowell6725]

Facts! She didn't even answer the young lady question. The lady does want a marriage, and she doesn't know how to prioritize her career and a relationship properly. The lady on the stage practically told her to do whatever other jezebel is doing right now. Building their career having a hot girl summer all the way til their mid 30s. Than settle down once you accomplished everything you did. Poor advice.

[@shadrachwiredu956]

yessssss

[@shadrachwiredu956]

@@rastazrealities ahahahahaha

[@theharshtruth8563]

"Independent" means you don't need anyone. So why are you looking for someone then?

[@comptroller39]

Exactly

[@Koyasi78]

This is the simple question

[@timmytee734]

It means, thank to feminism, she can work and no man tells her he makes all the money! I can't believe I had to explain this!

[@Koyasi78]

@@timmytee734 which also means she don't need no one. Stop cuddling.

[@timmytee734]

@@Koyasi78 If that's all you have to offer, no. No woman wants you just for being a working dude. Unless she's a gold digger, but in that case they are doing a fair business. He wants her youth and she wants his money - perfect match. A real Woman needs an emotionally strong man who isn't afraid of a smart strong woman. But how would you know about that? You only know online images of a woman. My late husband was a real man. You little boys could only learn from him!

[@BigKeith510]

She said her job is her priority... Well who wants that???? What is her "husband" said your not my priority. That man would be all types of bad.

[@traindawg21]

She should have just stopped talking after she said that lol

[@roxannehouse4408]

OMG OMG OMG. My sweet husband wanted to be married by 19 (I was 20). He was intelligent, driven, caring and loving. We grew together. He became the first 21 year old to run that ambulance section at Fitzsimmons Army Medical Center. Amazing man!!!! Today's men...and women....big babies. It's all about me, me, me. Sad. We were married 43 years. I adored him, I miss him. But at that young age, we knew we needed to work, save and be responsible for OUR OWN FUTURE!

[@daves2822]

It's called being an adult. Independent, making your own money, and working long hours. She is the common denominator in her interactions, success and failures. No one is holding anyone back in America except themselves.

[@mkingadiffernce]

Facts they make like being a boss chick is something special it’s not.. men have been doing this for years on being a boss!!! Lmboo

[@WillieTonka]

The last time I went on a date 4 years ago, the woman I was dating asked if I owned my own house. I told her "Yes and I own my own business" and then she asked me if I was going to get married to an independent woman who owns her own house, would I sell my house to be under her roof? I told her I wouldn't marry a woman who has to constantly remind me that she is "independent" & doesn't need me so it would never be an issue in the first place. I would have left her before anything got serious. She did NOT like that answer. lol

[@JosephChandler-vd1cs]

Hahaha

[@stephanieseverinj.l3294]

I bet you she's still single and looking.

[@EbonyRivers1]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Jai64life]

​@@stephanieseverinj.l3294 And I bet he is too.

[@erwildersr]

She answered her own question when she said she is a single, independent and “didn’t want to put that aside”.

[@stephanied4863]

🎯🎯

[@smooth1234ish]

60% of her energy goes to work. 40% to the family, 30% of that goes to kids. leaves 10% for her husband. Take into account, bad moods, arguements etc. That takes 5% of his time with her. leaves him in total getting 5% of a wife. Sound good.

[@lunamufon]

What kind of math is that? 😂😂

[@ADsaGenius]

​@@lunamufon It's Accurate Mathematics from a realistic stance.

[@greyspot00]

@@lunamufon The kind you failed I guess XD

[@greyspot00]

Dang, that's a good breakdown.

[@shadrachwiredu956]

@@lunamufon hahaha

[@NYStateofMind1000]

Boss with no employees 😂 you're an adult with a financial structure

[@kevinm.8682]

Ive asked people,"Suppose you find a man who's clean cut, respectful, educated, in fact he has a master's degree, but he's a middle school teacher making low $50's. Can you get with that?" Most women have to think about it. They're leaving good men in their tracks because of an inability to submit to a good man making average money doing an important job.

[@latesshaarnold1209]

Priorities in the gutter! That teacher may give you the sweetest, most love-filled life.

[@nele350c7]

Facts!

[@jaesontec]

That lady at the 17 mark she’s making no sense at all… she still carried resentment from choosing the wrong man smh she a red flag

[@AAJ23801]

She’s angry and single.

[@navycorpsmanveteran61]

That's Kita Rose. She never makes any sense.

[@PelicanGuy]

Kita's gonna be Kita.

[@andrewilliams6367]

Yeah I truly wish she wasn’t in this panel cause she just be talking to talk. The dark skin lady has the real mentality of a woman. She said herself “I run 3 businesses but my man will always get my time” it’s really that simple. 😂😂

[@chicityvetIckes079]

Kita gone be that way while that second guy was talking she had that wtf look yea I'm ready to argue that

[@stevenrobberts3238]

Last guy in black t-shirt was spot on. Woman in black is keeping women single. She has no clue, a pure feminist.

[@carlosmarrufo3362]

Hommie was to soft to her, strong and independent is not marriable material! All that he did was boost her ego!

[@americanoutside]

Marriage requires submission. There are not two Bosses, there's a husband and wife, but the husband is the Boss of the Marriage of the household. The wife is the Bosses secretary. Write this $hit down. It's a partnership with roles. Play yours and everything works.

[@rakakalala]

The secretary is crazy. That’s not a partnership. The husband is the CEO; the wife is the COO. Approaching a relationship in such a way that one person (man or woman) is saying, “I tell you what to do, and you write it down,” is a recipe for failure because relationships require bilateral agreements.

[@joannwilson9097]

​@@rakakalala 💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@user-it7uz6bo3u]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@emmawalters5647]

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

[@user-it7uz6bo3u]

well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@emmawalters5647]

Please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

[@user-it7uz6bo3u]

her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@user-it7uz6bo3u]

You can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@barrybaker709]

"I want a partner,not a boss"... BARS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Gchild2k6]

The guy in the red and the woman in white in the black cap were spot on. Marriage is something you have to build and work for not a switch you make.

[@jaybusa3302]

My question is. If we change the laws and if you divorce you leave with what you came in with. You get none of his and he gets none of yours would these women still want to get married? 🤔🤔🤔

[@KemTitan]

NOOOO!!!!

[@kapothagoodfella2785]

Noooope!!

[@rastazrealities]

There's no such thing as an independent being. Everyone needs someone else for success. What they mean is self-sufficient.

[@croaton07]

Yup She talks about a man's ego, but saying one is completely independent is the true definition of an ego.

[@monicaparker1299]

@@rastazrealities Absolutely!

[@ftnrbhmwk]

I wouldn't listen to anybody on that panel with no marriage ring as far as relationship advice. "Never listen to relationship advise when that person is not married" Phil Scott....... This is why I listen to Charles in Charge....

[@Jay-jb2vr]

"Single people have the best relatinoship advice"

[@ftnrbhmwk]

@@Jay-jb2vr Sir. You're just saying stuff.

[@lunamufon]

​@@Jay-jb2vr Yes, do the opposite of what they say. Single people keep you single... keep listening to them and you'll be forever lonely.

[@mkingadiffernce]

The man in the red who spoke is definitely married!!!!

[@ftnrbhmwk]

@@lunamufon BARS......

[@marquisjones1307]

Humbleness will always be attractive

[@b14m23]

I've been a manager for years and one thing I never heard from a woman is I need to work overtime to complete or just work on a project.

[@monicaparker1299]

@@b14m23 you didn't work with women. Because every educator in America does it every day.

[@b14m23]

@@monicaparker1299 I work in tech research labs with lots of deadlines and down systems. A few women not may have worked for me. They do not put in the effort most men do and when 8 hrs up they outta there. My facts.

[@CeeWorld69]

That lady on the stage is trying her ABSOLUTE HARDEST, to keep EVERY woman single!!! That’s CLEARLY her mission!!! 😂🤣😆 Misery loves company

[@MidTierVillain]

I don’t understand why she was being so combative, looking to one up the men, as if it’s a personal attack towards herself. That was quite strange, and very unnecessary

[@CeeWorld69]

@@MidTierVillain she’s the modern BW, all she knows is combative 😂

[@splouffy]

Remember, you're not the boss at home. You're the boss at work.

[@TFIGBassPlayer]

When a man goes to work' he has a boss. He doesn't want a boss when he is at home and wants to relax!

[@FlatbushKidd]

Calling yourself a boss is pretty much the reason why you cant find a man. Ladies with this mentality need to hold this L.

[@ItzBigBlakk]

Kita mindset is always geared toward the worst men

[@mkingadiffernce]

Who is kita

[@ItzBigBlakk]

@@mkingadiffernce the 2nd woman

[@johnmoore4714]

Kita plays to the crowd 🙄

[@72defender]

Men want three things: 1. Femininity 2. Peace 3. Love Black women seldom offer either!

[@househeadspeakz]

The woman on the panel all in Black is the reason why Black women are still single and will remain so. She is pretty much telling young women it is okay not to prioritize a relationship and that they have time. We know that is FALSE!!! All I will say is if a woman tells me she's a strong, independent, Boos Bae and her business takes presence over trying to build a connection with me, she will never see or hear from me again. That's a waste of MY TIME!!!

[@Sportstop300]

The issue is not that they are independent strong women, it is when they shove that idea in your throat every time they introduce themselves

[@The_Darius_King]

The first woman that spoke shouldn't be up there giving advice whatsoever.

[@chicityvetIckes079]

Kita Rose lol

[@TheRealKnightRaider]

Kita gives the worst advice out of everyone there!!

[@johnmoore4714]

Exactly 💯

[@sinistavoicez]

The 1st dude framed it in a way that stroked the woman's ego, hence it was accepted. The 2nd dude framed it in a way where the woman had to take responsibility and do something. Hence scrunchy face

[@mkingadiffernce]

That’s why the 2nd man is married and the first man is not

[@theblerdcave9753]

So many woman in denial it’s sad

[@mauricewilliams3478]

The majority of boss chicks are still looking for a husband. Ask Vivica Fox she will tell you lol

[@DGonz0-]

That last comment: "why don't you lift him up"... Women do do this, but only for the man they know that looks great and know they can't have otherwise... then the dude cheats.

[@77sl33zy77]

Ol’ girl talking bout being led to hell is always applying her personal experience to EVERY experience. Imagine coming home to that ish everyday 🥲

[@BigDrill305]

Wanting a man to prioritize you and you don’t want to prioritize him is crazy work.

[@PelicanGuy]

You made a great point, Charles: no one wants to build together. Many men want that, but too many women don't want to work with a man and make a life together. They think her money is her money and the man's money is for her.

[@kennethsmith6367]

A lot of men aren’t trying to build together anymore either. The idea that we built something that these flacky women can destroy if they get bored or decided that someone else is better , doesn’t work for a lot of men anymore.

[@bigreg4096]

All these boss chicks with no employees. Just ride around your city and see how many black businesses owned by women that you can walk into and purchase something with employees

[@AAJ23801]

How many black women own actual business you can walk into? 😂😂

[@kennethsmith6367]

@@AAJ23801Hair Saloon’s and…🤷🏾‍♂️?

[@lindseycrittendon7883]

I'm an engineer, and I became one with my husband's blessing. I don't understand when women say that men are always intimidated by a woman's success. It's just not true. I haven't met a man yet that actually has an issue with a woman successful in her career. What I have seen are plenty of men that don't want to be treated like subordinate employees in their own home by a reactive, micromanaging boss instead of being treated like someone's lover and partner. All of these women bring up their careers as if they are personality traits, and they come straight out of the gate telling men they don't need men while asking men to need them.

[@DLShoulders29]

Why is it we never press these “independent “ women on what it is they do and how much money they actually make? Being a boss with no employees is not really a boss; you’re just managing your own time as a consultant, typically on government contracts.

[@Impalass396]

^x2 I've had a lawncare business for over 20 years and I have never said, "I'm a boss." I just say I have a lawn service. Having my own business is not a flex, ego stroke, or a belittling of others. These fefails lead with dumb 💩 that they heard from pookies and Tyrones. No respectable man has ever said "I'm a boss." And if he does, I guarantee he is not respected by his peers/employees. Saying you're a boss is the equivalent of saying you're an asshole

[@robherringjr5018]

I find it funny when they call themselves independent, but when the check roll up on the table, there's no Independence shown or when buying things because my money is first and her money is non-existent😅😅😅 most of the time

[@joannwilson9097]

But who asked who out on the date ???? If the woman asks the guy out then she should pay same goes for the guy that's proper etiquette 101 to me and a lot of people unless they agree to go dutch and not too many women and I'm a woman saying this don't want to go dutch on a dinner date with a man which shouldn't be a big deal but a conversation should be addressed about it first to avoid things from going left

[@robherringjr5018]

@@joannwilson9097 first off women in most cases don't ask guys out or if they do they try not to pay. Who's really coming to the date honest compared to dishonest in most cases if you're real with yourself you would know the real answer

[@joannwilson9097]

@@robherringjr5018 ok but you can't speak for every woman just like I can't speak for every man but at least give me credit for this I did say most women and not too many women would say the things that I'm saying yes I'm all the way honest with myself and yes I've took guys out to dinner paid for the bill and the tip but I'm the MINORITY though which is a lot of you guys ignore & overlook but since y'all attract so many low vibrational women it would make sense for you to say that but we're out here Sir

[@alittlegoesalongway1242]

Straight crickets when he said being a boss comes with responsibility! 😂

[@NezD]

Homegirl in Prt 3 is ATROCIOUS. All that dude next to her had say is “listen t this woman next to me, interrupting, cursing, getting worked up.” This is the future of you Boss Chicks!

[@roberttaylor1295]

I’ve been watching your content and I must say keep doing what you’re doing Charles

[@harleminthebuildn9234]

WOMAN THINK THAT THEY CAN HAVE IT ALL: KEVIN R. SAMUELS

[@joannhess6670]

I worked and supported my husband as he went to school and bettered himself. We lived on my receptionist salary of under $10 an hour for several years and yes, there were definitely times we ate a lot of bean burritos and bologna sandwiches at the end of the month. But we both always had our eyes on our future - together. I could see how hard he worked and saw his dedication to building a better life for BOTH of us. Once he got his masters he got a great job that allowed me to stay at home and care for him, our babies, and our home. We’ve been married for twenty four years and I still light up when I see him. Investing my time, loyalty, and deduction to him was the best thing I could have ever done with my life. It’s so strange to me how these women ask men for answers or advice and then just argue with them when they get it.

[@KTthaSouthernGent22]

I am not doubting that good women don't exist but a lot of them don't listen.

[@drew63215]

Like Mike Tyson said "Your Mother loves you for YOUR survival. A woman loves you for HER survival". If someone breaks into your house...who has to go see about it. Put yourself in harm's way for her to survive. They want you to walk on the street side so you can protect her, while you get killed and she moves on to the next man.

[@ECO473]

The boss chick answered her own question.

[@dynasty4851]

I'm glad I wasn't in that room lol made my head hurt just listening 😂😂😂

[@DarkKnight-ws3wx]

What do i look like putting up with a boss I can't stand everyday only to come home to a woman who thinks she's going to boss me around GTFOH

[@Thanksforwatching1975]

I'm an independent man... Goodness that sounds wack😂😂😂

[@BigDrill305]

🤣🤣🤣 Here’s another one. I will be masculine for the right woman. 🤣🤣🤣

[@zerofuqs]

The part that was glossed over in the video addressed is that she wants a man to marry her without being her priority. She wants marriage without being a wife

[@Ilikemonk]

I would never understand why women always assume men are intimidated by them because they make money own a business what happens if you never water your grass it dies the same is for a relationship if you don't nourish it dies so you make time for what is important

[@registame2878]

If you are a strong/independent/boss woman… why are you looking for a man…

[@mkingadiffernce]

Right

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

They seem to be the man they want.

[@kopykat232002]

How many employees she manage…If she says none.. Then she is not a boss

[@ftnrbhmwk]

She literally cut him off in the middle of a sentence. Red Flag.... "Go buy a dog"...Kevin Samuels

[@kingsweetz82]

Facts

[@donharris8846]

Ladies, you can be a single independent boss until you’re 40, at your own risk. Good luck finding “him” at 45 after you’re done bossing

[@Teewayne]

She wants you to be the best version of a man, she has ever met in her life, THEN she wants you to be #3 or #4 in her life behind her career, kids, and friends? And before I forget your money is "OUR MONEY" and my money is "MY MONEY" because I'm a BOSS CHICK????

[@seanmiller8690]

Man the look you gave at 9:17 was hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@christopherhanford8021]

If I was not married to the unicorn that I am married to there's no way I would get married today

[@curtbuckmire9194]

You do know that unicorns don't exist? The mere fact that you're married, shows that there are men and women in society that are marriage material.

[@voltshocker09]

​@curtbuckmire9194 You do understand the concept of saying marrying a unicorn. It's a fictional beast, but the story behind it is it being an extremely rare creature to find which is the same thing being said to those finding a wife.

[@curtbuckmire9194]

@@voltshocker09 I do understand the concept.

[@IronKore]

You are blessed sir. Work hard and keep her right. Also, if you're in the west, guard her mind

[@nikes4444]

@@curtbuckmire9194are you sure ?

[@kingkai7010]

Notifications STAY on whether I’m at work or home the video gone be playing imma background the knowledge I gain from your videos will never be under appreciated

[@Serconley]

She wants to be married just don’t want to do spend any time with them.

[@midcharles7989]

“People don’t want to build with each other no more” It’s that simple, but the realest thing

[@openmindchannel1978]

As a black man with a strong mindset, I don't get disrupted by a woman saying she is a boss babe as long as she has a positive attitude.. But,I have yet to hear any woman saying such things in person..

[@rozzey1321]

The problem with the woman talking up on stage is that she gives horrible advice because all she does is try to empower women. No one is downing women, so there is no need to always make it a man vs. women thing. 2. How do you expect women to get men if you're always giving women advice to battle men ? She can very well be an independent woman and a boss chick, but she is not looking for a job she is looking for a man. A man is not looking for all your accolades when he dates you. That's why he can date a CEO or a woman working the drive thru at McDonald's. A man is looking for a mate, a partner, someone he can share his life with. So he needs to know what type of personality you have over what's in your bank account. He needs to know are you friendly and feminine. What are things you like to do in your free time. Independence and bossy are job references. The woman on the stage needs to understand trying to stand firm on bull crap that doesn't mean nothing will not get you a man, so stop giving lame advice. Try giving advice teaching a woman to work with a man. What man is looking for a woman who is always coming up against him. Do you think expressing dominance while dating a man will make him stay? No, you're leading yourself to a life of loneliness. Love each other for who each other is not for what each other has. I tested my girl one day, and I told her I'm falling on hard times and I'm not gone have it like i use to we will need to cut back or you can go and find a better man. My girl said baby if you think im going to leave you, you're crazy. Your the best man I've ever had money will not make me leave you. If you say we will need to cut back, then that's what we will do, but I will never leave you. A tear ran down my eye she wiped it and kissed me money and Independence will not buy real love. So why look for a man if you're not looking to build something real ? Be careful to the advice you choose to listen to because it can be the reason your successful in something and the reason you fail at something as well.

[@zell8301]

Boss B= Going to work like any responsible adult. Most women who say they're a Boss B works your regular 9-5 & does hair on the side.

[@AAJ23801]

😂

[@AAJ23801]

Or make candles or own an online boutique.

[@SIMPicide]

think u need to add in the OF and sugar hustles

[@gurukid08]

I'm not attracted to women who call themselves a "boss". That's a red flag for me.

[@kerrinichols-mu6qu]

She is always the loudest in the room but sounds angry and alone and she is a single mom to so ladies do not take advice from Mrs angry

[@tbbigrocker149]

That's MS Angry

[@johnmoore4714]

Kita plays to the crowd. She doesn't belong on stage with trip and kitty and Mike.

[@elvingallard7255]

If a woman wants to get married she should get married in her 20s. Most men don't want older baby mommas for wives.

[@giornogiovanni5655]

The boss women can stay by themselves. There is no positive expression of the boss babe. They are the representation of the worst behaved men that they can find. My wife's friend married her husband when he was a broke college student and supported him financially for nearly 10 years as he studied and trained to become a surgeon. Once he started working, she became a housewife - one who switched from being an accountant to getting up at 5 am, making his breakfast and lunch from scratch every day due to some food restrictions in his diet.

[@traceymiller6700]

Tripp, I love how you made your point. You are absolutely correct and is needed in our community. Note; he said do it for the man that deserves it❤

[@ejtullis]

She's only interested in the benefits of marriage, not being a wife. Like she said, she's a boss "managing her business." If she add "wifey" to her stock portfolio, she can easily claim unhappiness and cash her wifey stocks with a 100% ROI without any monetary requirements. In some cases, the cash payments are in perpetuity. She's only mad bc the stocks she wants (a man) don't think she's a good investment.

[@Godsend77]

Boss nothing. She doesn’t want a husband, she wants a wife. BW needs to stop screaming “independent” and marriage at the same time. Marriage is interdependent in every aspect

[@CalebSpirit124]

Facts. Be all you want to be. Follow your American dreams. But, save all of that bravado, for your lady friends, that might be attracted, to all that testosterone. Marriage ? Why is it a sin, for a lady to be 130 pounds or less; demure, Spiritual. Longing to build with a man, at 18 to 25; not 35 to 40 ?? Or, worse. Stop.

[@Unbothered92]

Be a boss and independent by your lonesome. You can tell none of em are down to be submissive in the relationship, cant have 2 at the top.

[@TopJazzCat]

Yep. As Voddie Baucham said on this subject, "Anything with two heads is a monster. You either kill it or charge people to come see it."

[@ladyk7317]

That's a great way of thinking help put your Husband in a position to run your business or help him get a business so you can focus on being a Wife & mother 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💋

[@russellallen5088]

I make my own money and I am doing basic adult things like all men have all their life but don't need to keep bringing it up. A marriage is the priority, that man will be a priority but that attitude lets you know you are expendable.

[@gregorybrown9216]

May be quick to say I don't need you.

[@barrybaker709]

Your comment on pouring into wrong person is so on point 👍🏾

[@ArionNoble]

I'm not dealing with a MODERN 304. I would rather be alone. You have to go to another country to find a wife now.

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

You have to go to another country to buy a wife. I’m married. No 304 here. Maybe you’re not worth a non-304

[@ArionNoble]

@@PeopleRTheProblem I'm a combat veteran and surgeon in Texas with no kids. No offense, but most of you are 304s today. Average or below while thinking you are better than most.

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

@@ArionNoble when you say most of you, who are you referring to? And your attitude makes you worse than any 304

[@RAPSNINO]

​@@ArionNoble Facts!

[@SIMPicide]

@PeopleRTheProblem Great how you "un-PC'd" the use of find vs. buy. You're absolutely right, the cost of a US wife is just too high anymore.

[@midigee]

Your career can't be your endgame. It should be the stepping stone.

[@charlesgarland1195]

The world is crazy my brotha.

[@PeopleRTheProblem]

The world is what we made it

[@nicoli-thenextup9866]

12:46 - notice how they all was like nah 😂but that’s the reason they end up alone

[@williambeasley2368]

I'm a living testimony my girl started my business for me and now we are starting her business that's way bigger together.

[@conniesteph]

Men are in love, women are in business, dont do it guys. Do not get married, it only benefits women, you WILL have to pay her to leave!

[@intellygent-alienking5651]

Never take relationship advice from women unless they are married. The second woman who spoke is an exception.

[@AviMarie21]

Listen to her is what’s going to keep women single….