"I'm Highly Educated But Men Don't Care! I'm Still Single" | The Coffee Pod

[@ChishaZed]

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[@lb150t]

@ChishaZed At 11.53 you know that old saying, let them talk long enough... Get me 🤔.

[@shaunoffrange8122]

Men are not women men don't care about the same things women care about. The reason why women care about an educated man is because they want a man that is smart enough to protect, provide and make conversation with them. While men are not looking for a woman that can protect, provide and make conversation with them.

[@missklassy4447]

*_I think you are embarrassed by BM's poor social standing when it comes to providing_*_ Less than 12% of BM are providers when married in most large Urban cities in the US. (PEW 2020) BM has the lowest rates of providing out of all races of men including recent immigrants! *BM has always been a contributor only; until the last 10 years, BW told BM they needed to bring something to the table besides a Tip!_

[@ArcherMVMaster]

Degrees are for finding a job, not for finding a man.

[@marcusandrews3732]

Amen

[@ArmyWolves]

That's like a guy thinking, hmmm... I get so attracted to a feminine, curvy lady so I think the same should attract ladies so let me make myself curvy, well dressed and we'll groomed (without any money or status) and then wonder why ladies are not tripping over themselves to be with him... While the whole time ladies were telling him that THEY DONT WANT THAT IN A MAN . 😂😂😂😂

[@theoneandonlynophoney1864]

Ong

[@MAN-yp4mr]

Facts...

[@alinkosi2869]

BARS

[@User-uk6rk]

"Degrees can make you a valuable employee... not a valuable wife!"

[@DerekFrazier2014]

Say it again. The perfect reply to this post. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@smvgrv1624]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯👍🏾

[@PuertoRicopapi83]

Man that’s is 😮‍💨📈

[@creoleDJ]

Sometimes, a degree doesn’t even guarantee you a good employee either! 🤣🤣

[@Andy7725-o2n]

She thought her degrees was gonna give her an advantage on the dating market, eventhough it's doesn't benefit a man, and it just shows that common sense is not so common after all

[@mrbarbadosfrombirthonelove2344]

I hate hearing women saying : A real man…

[@FlipmasterFED]

Majority of those women never had a real man in their life

[@garyjay7259]

Notice that the women who always say "a real man...", they always have qualities and a personality that if a man had it, he wouldn't get respect from anyone

[@Herozonex200]

It's a shaming tactic

[@thatdude79ab]

A feeble attempt at manipulation.

[@darnelltucker9163]

The first time I hear that, I'm out.

[@jam-df4jy]

Joan Rivers said it best, “No man ever reached up a woman’s skirt looking for a diploma”.

[@CalebSpirit124]

Exactly. Then she’d say, her catch phrase .. “Can We Talk” Then walk stage or move stole up, take seat and share even more with the audience. Many truths.

[@q.t.gamingfamily]

That's actually funny lol😂

[@sonnychiba3529]

Was Joan Rivers married at the end?

[@q.t.gamingfamily]

@@sonnychiba3529 yes, he died 1987, like most♂️, he went first. She, like most wives, out lived him by several decades. She looked marvelous too. Go look for yourself. She didn't remarry after he died, and I don't blame her. She definitely marriage material as she was actually married twice. Fish one she had annulled which means he wanted to marry her so badly he committed fraud. She was so wealthy when she became a widow, she would be crazy to remarry. How you feel? Bitter? She didn't even know you. 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@CalebSpirit124]

@@sonnychiba3529 Her long marriage and its ins and outs; was apart of her act.

[@vandijk4572]

Just know that nonsense will follow when a woman says "a real man."

[@Jaeh1]

I agree! I usually start looking for red flags that disqualify her as a 'real woman'. My bad, the ADDITIONAL flags. The first was trying to shame/insult talking about a 'real man'. Last I checked, the definition of A MAN was still in tact, and unwavering. The definition of a WOMAN is under fire. Tne nerve of trying to question a man on his identity, morals, values, and worth, yet 'real women' are being questioned, shamed, and down played for being...THE REAL McCOY. SMH

[@ArmyWolves]

Yep... I mentally rolled my eyes as soon as she said that... I was thinking, "Here we go..."

[@midnightfenrir]

"the man I want to want me"

[@ShaferHart]

And of course they all do that lmao

[@vandijk4572]

@@ArmyWolves here we go with that bullshit.

[@brucewayne-ej3cx]

She still doesnt get it. Its not that we have the luxury. We just don't care about your money. Even if we're broke. Because we're not gold diggers.

[@Jaeh1]

As they say, 'Real men' don't care. Pookie and Ray Ray will milk them like a super lactating cow, get in the wind, and ALL men get blamed.

[@PeterRuzak]

And she will still want you to pay.

[@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy]

But that's a lie though. 😄 Men care about money and why they don't want to spend their own money. 'Men are not gold diggers' is like saying lions don't hunt. 😆 Lying doesn't help.

[@christianhenry4173]

The more degrees most women have, the more entitled they think they are to being picky for a partner. These types of women with degrees don't deserve marriage if they think being high valued is with money and education alone. A high value woman is emotionally sound in who she is in her overall femininity. Proverbs 31, Is not the look of modern women today

[@robertwelch4794]

​@user-hj1nf7px4w Yup.Even if she was a billionaire she will still want you to pay.lol.Smh

[@416Mordo]

The only mf with more degrees than these modern women is arizona in the summer

[@stanleyworthy4163]

I live in Phoenix!!! But they catching up!!!!

[@Plainolcountryboy]

😂😂😂 They think a guy really gives a dump about their nine degrees in communication and speed walking

[@BreezeeGreenz]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@christianhenry4173]

Arizona is so hot, she'll melt all that make up off of women too.

[@stanleyworthy4163]

@@Plainolcountryboy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bookaloo]

They act like this is some kind of revelation. Attractive people are treated differently by everyone, not just men.

[@gmsunshine531]

I think most men are tired of the lack of femininity, bad attitudes, and competitive nature that comes with some highly educated women. Most men prefer sweet, soft, feminine, respectful, playful women who can maintain a peaceful home.

[@michaelsix9684]

we don't want educated boss babes

[@manrightchea]

I have never met an educated woman that actually remained feminine, supportive, appreciative etc. They just become men in women's bodies.

[@demetriusjames9535]

I found one just like you described! She has no degrees, though...

[@CalebSpirit124]

You expressed what we are thinking, but did not have the words. Thank you. 🙏

[@gmsunshine531]

​@@demetriusjames9535 Congratulations on finding a lady! If she has no degrees maybe she will be willing pursue it if you two agree, but if not you still have a blessing by your side. College educated women are everywhere but its difficult to find a sweet, caring woman these days. Most women today are programmed to care less about a man needs and wants. Wishing you two the best!

[@jasonthemagnificent2.0]

Don't worry ladies. Bears still want you even if you're Heavy and educated 🐻Grizzle Grizzle

[@hillbilly_delux78]

Bro, you enjoy your soft guy era, you've earned it.

[@tyreewilson2140]

😂😂

[@j.m.h.144]

Lmao😊

[@Joelcarter22]

Grizzle grizzle😂😂😂

[@vladislavmkrtychev8852]

He said Grizzle lmao! 😁😁👍👍

[@3dpressurewasherking]

"Men treated me so bad" How??? "They over looked me a lot" What???? That's not treating you bad, that's not paying you physical attention. Women lie not even knowing they're lying.

[@robertwelch4794]

She basically got in shape to drop the weight to get the Attention she was missing.Now the question now will she be able to control her ego now.

[@odog76543]

I'm glad you pointed this out, because I was thinking the same thing. Overlooking an overweight or unattractive woman equals "treating her bad"?? I guarantee you women don't think they are treating men badly by overlooking all the short, bald, nice guys.

[@TrulyHumbleUnderGOD4]

I said the same thing. Overlooking you isn’t treating you bad😂

[@goawayimbating8405]

Women lie out of habit. Remember this.

[@realbeautyness25]

WHO GIVES A SH** I'M NOT TELLING ANY OF MY FEMALE RELATIVES NOT TO GET AN EDUCATION BECAUSE MEN DON'T CARE ABOUT THAT YEAH OK ✌🏿👋🏿✈️ GO MARRY WHOMEVER OR DATE WHOMEVER HOW YOU GONNA LIVE IF THINGS DON'T WORK OUT IN YOUR MARRIAGE BECAUSE YOU CAN DO ALL THIS SH** KEEP UP YOUR LOOKS AND YOUR HUSBAND REPLACE YOU FOR A YOUNGER MODEL YEAH RIGHT HOW MANY MEN WANT WOMEN THEIR OWN AGE CUT THE SH** THEY WANT FOREVER 21'S YEAH STAY ON TOP OF YOUR HEALTH DON'T LET MEN OR KIDS STRESS YOU TO DEATH BUT THESE MEN WANT TO BE PASSPORT FELLAS ✌🏿👋🏿✈️

[@NattyJedi]

The "pleasant to be around" is key and a lot of women are not good company to be around on a consistent basis.

[@JoeBlow-tf4cc]

I make around 90 annually & once dated an attorney making between 200-300 annually. Most men would say physically, she's a 9 or 10. Once involved, I realized that outside of law, she was dumb as a box of bricks & had severe emotional issues from being abused. I felt sorry for her, but, I couldn't be her lifelong therapist & I ran faster than Usain Bolt from her. She was a slow motion bullet of depression.

[@jamesgibson3716]

Man, i feel you. Female lawyers are not as bright as one would think. I'm speaking from experience.

[@theoneandonlynophoney1864]

Maaaaaan they’re often the case

[@wisconsinlonnie4143]

I run into this all the time. Pretty women, corporate jobs, dumb as hell in real life.

[@michaelsix9684]

wow, someone that educated didn't realize she needed therapy? talk about lacking self - awareness

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

​@@michaelsix9684lacking? I've come to know for sure they're DEVOID OF self-awareness

[@frederickvalencia4976]

I make 80k with a HS diploma by getting good at my job. Blue color. I never cared about school. I meet my wife 14 years ago in my 20s now at late 30s I paid in full her masters degree in law. She gone from making 28k to 180k a year. She still plays her female role at home even though she makes x2 more than me. Because the truth us she wanted to be a lawyer and I just wanted a wife. She can do both now and she's happy 11 years together

[@KingsguardRP]

Good luck to you. Hypergamy doesnt care. Now she's surrounded by higher value men and she earns double your salary and she does her 'femimine' role... clock is ticking

[@JamaicanMeCrazy]

Happy for you.

[@brucewayne-ej3cx]

@frederickvalencia4976 hope it works out. Paying for a woman's degree is a BIG gamble but it seems to have paid off for you.

[@JamaicanMeCrazy]

@@brucewayne-ej3cx only time will tell. At least she was with him for a long time. But it can easily change. Women are women's worst enemy. Once her circle changes it so easy for her female friends to try and influence her to be hypergamous or she might find an affluent attorney in her new circle as well. I really wish him well. Edit: Holy shit how could I forget I have first hand experience with this. I supported my wife when she went to law school. We're divorced now.

[@sjc5411]

She makes twice as much as you... better stay in shape. You playing with fire.

[@tyreewilson2140]

When a woman says "degree" all i hear is "debt".

[@hillbilly_delux78]

Bingo.

[@sjc5411]

When a woman says "degree" all i hear is "blah blah blah".

[@DeCurtaRican]

That’s not necessarily the case. A lot of students graduate debt-free or with low debt.

[@sjc5411]

@@DeCurtaRican a lot do, most don't.

[@MrOfficer235]

Most woman are broke and I’m debt. That’s just facts

[@neurotechman]

Degrees dont mean nothing because when it comes to women, your money is hers and her money is only hers

[@shandysouth4212]

Men do not care about your diplomas and how much you can bench press or if you are a boss babe...ARE YOU LOYAL RESPECTFUL AND LOVING...If not hit the bricks ladies!!!!

[@eddiecampbell9663]

Speaking facts......and don't forget feminine

[@robertwelch4794]

Facts.

[@gimmieyogrits]

If I hear boss b come out their mouth I'm uninterested

[@Soloman_1800]

🎯🎯🎯

[@rocstarang5747]

I care about what they squat 😏

[@jaiibloc302]

"I Know how not to argue all the time" "I know how to say please and thank you." Sweetheart, that's called common courtesy. 🤦🏿

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

Believe me, a lot of ☕ feel like they make you a favor if they ask you for your time, not the other way around.

[@colonybud]

She knows how to do that for a tall rich man.

[@ArielGonzalez1]

A certified women classic ☕, my friend

[@damon7956]

Women are taught to expect courtesy, not extend it.

[@AbuFareedAliSabir]

A man is not looking for a provider for himself. So your education, professional accomplishments, and wealth don't mean much at all.

[@jpny.7961]

Funny what the women who lost weight mean when they say that men treated them badly before, what they mean is that men ignored them. Ignoring them is deemed bad treatment...let that sink in.

[@TrulyHumbleUnderGOD4]

Exactly

[@pierre8548]

It’s disappointing to see so many women easily and unconsciously victimized themselves based on how they feel. They be wanting guys out of their league to treat them like a bhaddie. Then complain men were bold.

[@jamesyoung187]

But isn't that what they have been telling us for a long time "leave us alone"?

[@ssjblueinfernape8524]

What’s funnier is she said that like that’s something they deal with exclusively. Its quite literally the same for men . Think about it women have a saying “men will fuck anything” 😂

[@bruh-in-I.E.]

DELUSION is a hellova DRUG (IN my Rick James Voice)

[@napolim214]

These women tried so hard to become the men they want and now can't believe those men don't want them.

[@bushybwoy]

There are a lot of single, beautiful women. They're called terrible people....not all, but most.

[@tizodd6]

Don't care "that much" about a woman's degree? I don't care *AT* *ALL*

[@TrulyHumbleUnderGOD4]

😂😂😂

[@kennethsmith6367]

I care!! Because women with degrees come with a lot of debt a even worse attitude and still don’t want to share their money.

[@q.t.gamingfamily]

​@@kennethsmith6367say you're dusty without saying your dusty. The only men who care about our education are those looking for a come up. The attitude you're pushing up against is her resistance against you trying to take control over what she built. I have a friend who asked for my help in his relationship; wanted me to talk to her about the purpose household because if what I believe. Like a typical dusty, he only focused only PART of my belief. For example, using my friend's example: His (now ex) partner refused to submit, argued about him turning off unused lights, she didn't obey him at all. However: He moved into her house. He was unhoused, not her. He wasn't paying bills. He was at 50/50 when we had this discussion. They were not married and not discussing marriage, they were just roommates with occasional benefits, no plans on either side to change it into a marriage. He wants, like you, all the BENEFITS of our education that's afforded to us but you want to make NO COMMITMENT nor contribution whatsoever. We're not going to do that, sir.

[@christian6911]

I don't care if they work at Walmart as long as we are compatible and they're financially responsible.

[@GullahJack843]

I think a lot of people are overstating how much looks matter to men. Don't get me wrong, looks are very important without question. But if you're trying to become a wife, you can't JUST bring looks to the table. Are you fun to be around with? Pleasant demeanor? Feminine? Loyal? Can hold yourself accountable? Team mentality? Family oriented?Looks can get you in the door initially but if you're not bringing other important attributes to the table, we're not gonna make you a wife

[@michaelsix9684]

so true

[@manrightchea]

Exactly.

[@demetriusjames9535]

🫡

[@kennethsmith6367]

I’m not even sure I’m going to want to sleep with a beautiful headache.

[@matthewhandy3950]

FACTS ON TOP OF FACTS

[@blacksocrates1]

Water is wet. Fire is hot.

[@GameOfStripe]

Earth is Dirt

[@GameOfStripe]

@@visionforetold4568 or Wind is Thin.

[@denzel1877]

What? That's shallow, lol

[@HaidariMpa]

Volcano is solid

[@Des_Armoni]

I met a girl at a resort and the first thing she said was that she was studying to be a doctor. She assumed that would qualify her to me. I was like wow that’s very cool. Which it is. But didn’t make me more attracted to her 😂 it was actually weird because why do you think that makes my eyes get big? That only impresses loser guys man. Or guys who want help from a woman. The real men dont want your help financially we just want someone sweet, feminine, & motherly to our kids and respectful to us.

[@eskimoblack]

Women look for resources in men, men look for beauty and loyalty.

[@thegreatestmantoevrwlkthep9986]

And this is how you make a well rounded person. We are made like this, let’s all move tf on…

[@jerryjordan2482]

If Woman Makes Her Own Money 💲 she Doesn't Need Your Resources! 😂😂😂

[@eskimoblack]

@@jerryjordan2482 you say that but those own money having women would never date a McDonald's and Walmart worker but a rich man would if she was attractive

[@eskimoblack]

@@jerryjordan2482 that's cap. independent wmn don't usually date men who makes less money than them if he worked at a fast food place. . But a rich guy would date a Walmart or McDonald's girl if she is attractive. So even if she has her own money she still looks for men with resources

[@hannobaali_makendali]

When my Daughter got Her B.S. in Nursing ii told Her ii didn’t care about papers for a wall. What impressed me was accomplishing a GOAL that She set for Herself.

[@johnserosanguineous1886]

Not to mention those degrees were a waste of time. Nursing being the biggest example. All of that work and 40% of them will dip out after two years, another 60 after 5.

[@jerryjordan2482]

Does the World Need Nurses ? Yes !😮

[@hannobaali_makendali]

@@jerryjordan2482 Do Soldiers need Medics ??

[@jerryjordan2482]

@@hannobaali_makendali Yes they Do , But the Other Guy said Nursing Degrees are a Waste of Time !

[@hannobaali_makendali]

@@jerryjordan2482 In too many cases Nurses Degrees are licenses to spend and Whoe. Debtors love them.

[@Elsevenboyfriend]

KS told em 3 years ago..."I'm a PhD." Enjoy that degree buffet.

[@bruh-in-I.E.]

THAT'S A FACT, JACK!

[@edjohn5114]

I miss that man dearly 😢 aside from the entertainment, I truly believe that he would’ve ended up helping the black community in mass

[@ericlloyd8059]

He did

[@Proudtobemasculine323]

A Real Man Will Do What He Wants And Ignore What These Women Out Here Want

[@robertwelch4794]

When a Man in this Society put himself first he will never forget that decision.😎💪

[@robertwelch4794]

Regret

[@bruh-in-I.E.]

THAT'S A FACT, JACK!

[@leemdp8239]

men couldn't care less about that. we care about loyalty, respect, and will she cook and clean!

[@dothedanmthing]

A kind,loyal, and fit 5 is better than a hot mess.

[@thegreatestmantoevrwlkthep9986]

💯

[@phillipramsay2419]

AMEN

[@naryb2165]

The same way Men walk pass ladies with degrees for the hot chick is the same way ladies walk pass the guy driving a Ford car for the guy who is driving a Mercedes.

[@erickonassis6310]

When they say they are educated and paid, I ask how much would you contribute to the monthly bills, they say nothing thats the mans responsibility, I ask , are you giving me any of that money, no again...then whats the point in bringing up money or degrees, it doesn't help us...fellas stay single and happy

[@seeme3661]

70/30

[@erickonassis6310]

@@seeme3661 Agree 70/30...or they can pay 100 percent by themselves

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

Thank you!!, most of them don't want to contribute(due to there nature) yet complain why men don't pursue them, it takes a team to survive this economy and if she doesn't want to assist with bills then she can just be a side chick

[@Unordinary-lg4yt]

@@TopFlightSecurity415They move and parrot the social norms and ideals of 100 years ago but we’re no longer in those times. They complain about the lack of providers yet caused it by voting and stagnating the workforce.

[@bruh-in-I.E.]

THAT'S A FACT, JACK!

[@awakensoul33]

Just because you have a College Education, doesn't mean you're not brainwashed 💯💯

[@robertwelch4794]

Facts.Feminst mindset.

[@lymarie1974]

Book smart but no common sense

[@geraldg350]

Quite the opposite actually that fact that someone has a college education is a good indicator they're brainwashed.

[@pablotzuarbenisrael9916]

Guys are selfish for not wanting overweight but women can have height preference lol. Smh.

[@johnhender]

They love their double standards

[@xavierjones5076]

Most women, unless they have health issues, can control how overweight they become. Men, we have zero control over our height. Somehow that escaped women.

[@SYN4456]

Degrees are nothing but a receipt. And I say this as a college graduate.

[@Speakinurmynd]

So men rollong out the red carpet for women they're attracted to is shallow. But she admitted shes easier to get along with, with a man she's attracted to. So in other words she rolls out the red carpet for mem she finds attractive.

[@arthurwilliams7307]

Even if a woman is "successful" she is still looking for a man that is more successful than her (forget that equal crap), but men dont having a problem of dating / marrying down

[@linkV5012]

How do you have a bachelor in chemistry and do not have a job in that field?? This is a prime example why we don't care about your degrees.

[@daddyinacaddy]

Sherwin, why do you have a mask on in 2024 like a beta male

[@gr8myndmuzic]

Most modern day women have made a terrible habit out of realizing things too late 😵

[@Tre38843]

@1:08 - There it is again… “A REAL MAN…”

[@patsongbandith7757]

Men: “Here it is again. Men are looking for Fit, Feminine, Friendly, Low Body Count, and Cooperative Women.” Women: “I have a PHD.”

[@eddiecampbell9663]

R.I.P. Kevin Samuels the godfather

[@patsongbandith7757]

@@eddiecampbell9663 He gave so much, both to Men and Women. IMO, he was harsher on the Men but I believe that helped a lot of Men. When the Women were receptive to his advice/help, he was softer to them. It only got harsher when they were combative and listening to respond instead of listening to understand.

[@eddiecampbell9663]

@@patsongbandith7757 big facts that was his main calling on this earth was to help improve relationships and marriage.....I gained so much knowledge listening to him.......I liked how he broke it down pice by piece.......he literally set a blueprint.....some women refuse to acknowledge the fact that he saved alot of marriages

[@believeafricasports506]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂fuckin funny

[@jerzeygeneral87]

She always talked about how she feels about herself but not what the market thinks. Clearly the market has spoken and here we are.

[@ALT3REDB3AST]

I love educated women that do well for themselves! The problem is, that usually comes with a horrible, condescending attitude, especially if you aren't as educated or make as much as them.🤷🏾‍♂️

[@robertwelch4794]

They can,t control they're egos when they're at the finish line of ascension.

[@CalebSpirit124]

Facts. It used to mean more for the family and our community; today, it just means more for them. From their own admission.

[@Sirkanythe]

Agreed! On three different occasions I had a short-lived opportunity to date 3 different women doctors (at different times) who said I had what they're looking for but quickly change their minds saying dating a man without a college degree was beneath essentially.

[@Sneyepergirlx]

women like that are "educated", not intelligent lol I should point out, there are men that become high and mighty with success as well

[@anthonygibbons1931]

The more educated you the more I stay away. I find that the educated ones are usually feminist in my experience but I could be wrong

[@williambourque926]

You aren't wrong. Colleges in general are super left-wing for the most part because most women who are educated go get liberal degrees or science degrees and those are left-leaning schools typically. So they get indoctrinated while they are there.

[@DarryllThompson-ow7sf]

You not lying bro.

[@John_Wood_]

100%. Always avoid them because they are even more arrogant

[@damnfoolz]

You’re absolutely right.

[@thegreatestmantoevrwlkthep9986]

Men and women

[@ronp-eb9bh]

As a kid, my grandpa once told me that a man just needs peace in life, via three primary conduits: #1 - peace and quiet, #2 - a 'piece' of a good homecooked meal, and #3 - a piece of a_ _ when needed 😅. That's it. If a man gets those bare minimums, he'll happily work like a dog to provide for his wife and kids.

[@TheStrategos392]

This woman is a chameleon.

[@j.m.h.144]

I was thinking that!

[@RostovII]

Yes. If she's realizing this at that age, good knows what's she's been doing all this time.

[@CalebSpirit124]

@@RostovII And, since 15. Many do not count their teens. But, at 35 to 40 … that is 20 + being out and about.

[@ArielGonzalez1]

All of them are....

[@andrelockridge9109]

All women are chameleons. Adaptability is a part of women's nature just like hypergamy. Evolutionary biology,that is how they are wired.

[@troystephens5735]

We don’t care about their accomplishments, just like they don’t care about the things we collect. Video games, cards and etc..

[@c3servicesofatl]

Degrees aren’t worth the paper they’re printed on tbh

[@quinnh1398]

That depends. I bet you wouldn't want an MD who doesn't have that piece of paper. Or an engineer. Architect. Teachers. Counselors. Psychiatrists.

[@c3servicesofatl]

@@quinnh1398 I value experience and outcomes over paper credentials.

[@style7692]

Yea....and now they got degrees but they do hair and nails for there jobs..smdh...

[@knoble1985]

Your not sharing the money & for you to put more effort into school then your relationship in the long run is a simple pass for me.

[@Nobodyisgreat123]

​@c3servicesofatl before the experience, that doctor, nurse, teacher [my favorite profession], pharmacist, architect need that "paper "

[@CHIEFMOTORSPORTS]

WE ONLY CARE IF YOU GREW UP IN THE SAME HOUSE AS YOUR FATHER OR NOT, ITS WORTH ALOT MORE THAN ANY SCHOOL

[@CHIEFMOTORSPORTS]

GOOD SHOW

[@blacksocrates1]

Men also don't mind being "used" as long as they get what they want.

[@OldSchoolJules]

When I was talking to a co worker and told her as men we don’t really care or value degree and such in women, she was genuinely shocked. She didn’t believe me. A few months later she came back and told me she asked other men who told her the same thing.😂

[@knoble1985]

The degree of how much peace & understanding you give to me is what matters.

[@mentalfit8979]

Most ppl have degrees in fields they dont work in. Degrees are not the measure of a good woman.

[@NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s]

If a woman reaches a certain age and have not learned to understand men and relationships at a certain point it is useless to even tell them because they will not adopt the concept they will feel it isn't what they want for themselves and they may get lucky to get a guy to marry them but it won't last

[@dj4080]

My wife's degree was attractive to my mom, my dad wanted to know if she was pretty and if she can cook.

[@mrgwrap8405]

10:33 So overlooking a unattractive woman is now considered terrible bad treatment from men 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

Yup. They think they have access to you.

[@johannschultz3743]

Yes. They are entitled to attention too, but you guys just arent cooperating with their binge eating and alcoholism

[@Herozonex200]

I really hope women learned that your accomplishments isnt sexy or a turn on for us guys. I wouldnt come and say "we dont care" it's not an attractive trait to us. I told women how to attract men and they still wont listen. All you do is dress really nice, look nice, smile or wave at us, and be friendly when you speak. It's that easy.

[@robertwelch4794]

It,s like they wait till they're 40,s to get it.Smh.

[@mibbzx1493]

Imagine going 40k in debts just to be told “i don’t care” 😬

[@nothgiel84]

A woman with a Degree only means she is MORE DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH...thts it

[@averageamericandad1801]

Nobody cares my parents just had their 50th Wedding anniversary..... Nobody asked about my mother's career.... It was a huge party and not once did I hear somebody mention my mother's career because nobody cares.... 0:50

[@FaithMuzic]

Attraction is apart of it but not the full scope. If you can’t hold a conversation, no manners, potty mouth, no type of Spiritual awareness meekness, temperance and understanding then some men are like “ nah I’m good. The degree is attractive but it won’t keep a man.

[@bboystance1670]

Let's look at it like this, if you have an umbrella but only want to use my umbrella when it rains, why would I care that you have an umbrella?

[@detrmichi]

Looser, moochers and leeches, isn't that most women.

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

Yep😂😂

[@amorizz5579]

She forgot to mention that average looking women also need to stay in their lane. She sounds like a woman who was rejected by a successful man who was also physically attractive. IF she's looking for a husband she should focus on successful men who can look past the fact that she is not the top 10% in looks...just my opinion.

[@Michd0417]

That’s harsh. Shes pretty but probably just not pretty to you.

[@amorizz5579]

@@Michd0417 The fact that she is "pretty" is why I made my comment. The reason she's complaining is probably because she wants someone out of her league. There are plenty of average men who would gladly date or even marry her.

[@dredey1971]

Her grandmother tried to teach her. They reject the lessons, even from their loved ones.

[@bruh-in-I.E.]

THAT'S A FACT, JACK!

[@genovasquez8361]

She literally says if she is not attracted she doesnt give the guy the time of day. so men just suppose to settle when she doesnt.

[@bstech9358]

I was going to comment the same. You said it first

[@genovasquez8361]

@@bstech9358 please comment they need to see this ish... Idk I'm gonna stop calling them delusional because that's not it. It's another word I'm gonna call them

[@lilboybluenotes7042]

Logically this is simple IF women were honest about why they care about degrees. They want a man with status and money. Now why would a man care about the status a woman has in society? How does that help the relationship? Why would a man care about money you don’t intend to spend on him? This didn’t rocket science.

[@DB-sg8ic]

Most of those times, those degrees are veto power to a man’s authority over her. She can divorce and move on to the next one.

[@manrightchea]

That's all they are. A way to try to see you as less as of the leader. Women are selfish. They don't care about family and they don't care about the man. Vast majority don't. They want their assets to be expendable on things they want to buy, but they don't want to have to be there to support anything. Which is why most women will not marry. Most are not wife material.

[@CalebSpirit124]

And, eventually she’ll lace her income, child support (s), and your alimony; into her dream home. But no loving husband, to share it with. Only quiet visitors, while her children or grands are asleep.

[@i-yell-a-lot4906]

NOT HER SAYING MEN ARE "SHALLOW" WHILE I GOT REJECTED BY THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN MY WHOLE LIFE FOR BEING 5 FOOT 6 INCHES. 💀

[@robertwelch4794]

Facts King🤣🤣🤣

[@supersayin1]

Lmao 🤣 Facts!! But the men are Shallow! 😂

[@MrFreeman0179]

Billionaire Bernie Ecclestone is as tall as me and he's much shorter than his much younger wife

[@cidaelmccaskill5448]

This is like watching someone finally realize that they're playing the game wrong, only to play it wrong in a different way 😂

[@curtisallen597]

I don't care what you have. Can you be my peace.

[@eddiecampbell9663]

Right a degree is not going to help her be your peace or be cooroperative

[@worldwithreason]

What women sell us : ....I have multiple degrees, hold a lofty career position and salary, have been proposed to previously with a bodycount. She has no desire for children only seeking a partnership. What Man buy : I'm more interested in that friendly young shy counter girl over there. Best of luck to you. Mam

[@metalhead5707]

Men see a woman’s degree the same as a closet full of shoes; it’s great for her but how will it benefit the guy she’s with?

[@AlexisLexLexi]

A degree can elevate you in your career path and you can earn more money. If you value your woman’s contributions to a household, that degree can benefit you both.

[@jamesgibson3716]

​@@AlexisLexLexi ok but how specifically can it benefit a man? Especially if the woman is not feminine and easy to deal with.

[@njpme]

​@@AlexisLexLexishe's going to expect you to pay for everything anyways, so?

[@seeme3661]

​@@njpmenot all

[@style7692]

And women still don't get it.. and we are telling you in your face ...eyes wide open shut

[@poppa1050]

Right or wrong, men don’t care about your degrees or income. We acknowledge it, but it doesn’t change how we move whatsoever. Men realize early on that they have to produce REGARDLESS of what “She” does.

[@chicspeaks]

I love this Chisha!!😀❤My 2 sisters and I were told this very same message while we were being raised from young girls to women. A woman's beauty is her currency and a man's value is based on his finances. I don't make the rules, I'm just aware of them and share them with others who care to receive advise from a 43 y/o married woman of 20 years and mother of 3 kids created with my husband. 🤷🏽‍♀

[@TheDanster4]

Not everyone is blessed in the genetic lottery. If you don't get pursued then what?

[@toshmon12345]

We don't care 🙅🏾‍♂️

[@malonblinkz5942]

People need to understand that Men think differently and women think differently. Both genders have different mindset

[@thesteambox856]

I can still remember the silence when K.S. would ask the women what the man they desired wanted in a woman. They literally had never given a thought about the men they wanted. Most couldn't even answer the question. Grown women looking for a 1% man.

[@Donmecca415]

Sent this to my coworker that’s single & loves to tell men on the 1st date about her degrees. I’ve told her no man was ever turned on by her multiple degrees. She seen the video & text me.. this girl don’t know what she’s talking about. If a man wants me to go to the gym, I’ll lose weight by losing the man.. CiCi, if you’re seeing this. Your cat days are here.

[@JimmyBurkley]

😅😂😅😂 even when a man is a Dr he don't care if his wife educated

[@dudedude5247]

Alot of women honestly don't get that it isn't up to them to set the standard of what men find attractive. The lady mentioned being smart and funny as her main attributes but that may be insufficient to her prospects. Preference is a right that we all share equally and should be regarded as such. It's simple but women complicate it with disregard. If you aren't capable of being what you're needed to be then you aren't needed at all.

[@nicknisis]

I love the little "drizzle drizzle" insert!!! 😂😂😂

[@monkeysage6447]

Women will always hide from taking accountability being overlooked is getting "treated bad"? At the same time I bet she overlooked "treated guys bad" also because of a physician appearance. So she saying men treated her "badly" because the men she wanted didn't want her!?🤔🤨

[@FlipmasterFED]

All I care about... How much debt you got? You got degree and masters i just hear debt

[@silkshirt17witdajhericurl80]

Major Debt.! Lol 😂

[@posttay]

I got a full ride to college love and worked through grad school to pay for my Masters.

[@waichui2988]

They should remember Joan Rivers' famous saying: "No man ever reaches into a woman's dress searching for a degree."

[@LayingInAMeadow]

Aw, my husband has always called his dream girl❤😊

[@Michd0417]

We can’t overly simplify it, a lot of relationships today do need a two income household to enjoy and live the life both people want. Nothing wrong with this. What matters is she also a good person in other areas and are they compatible overall. People who are right for each other just know.

[@toneblanco880]

Men care about PEACE.

[@williejohnson5172]

14:12 I like this young lady. She's learning. Not quite there yet but she's learning. The most eyeopening thing she said is that her grandmother of 94 is still getting hit on by men and she finds that crazy. She would understand if she had her grandmother's spirit and acceptance of men. That reinforced, IMO, her saying that men she's not interested in she gives the stank face and attitude. Now she didn't say that but notice she changed temperamental to subtle. It finally hit her that the men she was actually interested in dismissed her almost immediately because she was leading with the degree. She is now pivoting, and least strategically, but that disdain of men and stank attitude can't just be turned on and off by will. It's become part of her personality and will take several months if not years to change. What is sad is her grandmother was obviously telling her this and she still couldn't /doesn't understand it.

[@fredwilliams3089]

No, we damn sure don’t. Fix me dinner, see to the kids, keep the house in order, and break me off something on the regular. I’ll take care of everything else. It’s that simple. 🤷🏾

[@debtfree_2024]

we don't care about the degrees or the "earnings potential" attached to them, we do care about that 6-figure student loan debt that will become the problem of her male counterpart when she decides to stop working (which won't be any of us)

[@MrLuckytrucker21]

Fit, Feminine, Friendly, we don't care if you have degrees or just a high school diploma!

[@medavi081]

The three F’s, love it!

[@alinkosi2869]

I’ve never understood why women thought men would care about their income or degrees if they don’t even like going 50/50…. We not even talking about women doing breadwinner responsibilities. Kevin Samuels would ask the women how much financial responsibility does she want in the relationship. Most of their answers were 30% or less! So why would men care about their money when they are only covering a minority of the bills.

[@Jblaze2k9]

Not ALL WOMEN, just 98% of them

[@georgemburu4177]

Be feminine and respectful. Men care about respect more than love!!!

[@bigt1114]

Degrees.. ...equal HIGH ass student loan Debt!.

[@davidmelton6387]

I was waiting on this reply because this is what I was always thinking.