‘I’m my husband’s legs now.’: woman cares for paralysed husband for 7 years

[@愛li]

I have a neighbour whose husband was paralyzed and the wife took care of him for over 50 years. I remember she isn't liked by the husband's relatives because she's a foreigner and they thought their marriage going to be short-lived but she proved them wrong. She loved him and spent almost her entire life taking care of him until he passed away. Really respect her.

[@GeorgeMartinus]

What country are you from?

[@Cecilia-]

i cried

[@extremepacifist8719]

@@Daniel44x she spent her life taking care of the ones she loved. I see nothing wrong with that.

[@chyodaddy69]

@@Daniel44x So chyo mama wasted her chance giving birth to you. I feel bad for her. Wish she gets another chance. I can provide the seed if necessary.

[@mr.stickguy6841]

@@Daniel44x I see a bitter old maiden here

[@fshslmy4738]

This is what love looks like. It is not easy being a caregiver.

[@keekqeeq3824]

feminism calls this slavery

[@fshslmy4738]

@@keekqeeq3824 I would do the same. Do I believe in women NOT being treated as doormats? Absolutely. Women are not doormats and should not be treated less than. There is this thing of doing what is right in helping your spouse if marriage vows are taken seriously.

[@CassiaMdB]

@@keekqeeq3824 If that is true, that's one of the reasons why you can't trust feminism.

[@dahwin7]

This is called infinity of love

[@dahwin7]

@@keekqeeq3824 no . This girl is nursing her husband by her own will! Women will help someone of their own volition, it encourages more familism! Feminism tells women to be educated and independent! She can walk on his own and if someone in her family loses the ability to work in an accident! Then she can support her husband or other sick or injured members of the family! And it is possible for feminism! It is not possible for a woman who cannot work to run this maintenance!

[@rashidah8621]

What a woman, what a wife, what a mother, what a priceless gem she is . Amazing

[@pzza1097]

She is the most beautiful woman in all the universe to him. Not all wives will do what she does.

[@adityath1806]

Its like finding UFO in sky it's that difficult to find a wife who had beautiful heart

[@fiction6135]

@@adityath1806 yep it's really hard to find such person

[@sigma_z]

In this day and age, finding a life partner like this is more difficult than finding a unicorn. This is truly amazing and uplifting. I wish them ALL the best in this life.

[@smilemaker1133]

Most wives would have left him …this woman is a very rare gem.

[@ApenasUmaEstoria]

Not all wives do what she does. But some do. No husband does what she does. When the situation is reversed, men go away.

[@Kurayamiblack]

And she's still smiling and having fun doing it! Paralysis aside, this might be one of the luckiest men I've ever seen.

[@gi_nattak]

At least on camera she is!

[@y.a.p8951]

@@gi_nattak give her a credit. Did you reed ? 7 years to look after paralyzed man and upbringing his kid is no joke.

[@lizettenovelo1]

@@gi_nattak it looks genuine.

[@Ariun97]

He is

[@RespectOthers1]

Many people around the world are put in this lady’s unfortunate position but not all will choose what she is willing to do. Bless this family.🙏

[@aronlelenora9572]

❤❤❤❤

[@yangyangzico5378]

A man surely wouldn't do it but remarry 😒

[@Dale553]

​@@yangyangzico5378 There's same vid on this channel where a man(truck driver) takes care of her paralyzed wife. True love still exists, always look at the bright side🙂

[@shadowscythegaming8037]

@@yangyangzico5378 It can go both ways it's not necessarily just men

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

@@shadowscythegaming8037 It can go both ways but unfortunately men are much more likely to leave their wives (or long term girlfriends) of they become disabled. It is also common for women who get cancer to have their husband cheat on them, or leave, even with the nurse that is caring for the wife! I dislike sexism but unfortunately it is men who react like this a lot more than women.

[@jimmydishkawnt]

This is the perfect wife. The husband is the luckiest guy in the world.

[@shiningbanana693]

Minus the accident

[@slayermate07]

aside from a broken back you mean?

[@meeshterious8644]

To the wife, thank you for everything you are doing for your husband. It’s not easy but it’s definitely worth it. I lost my beloved husband almost 6 months ago now to a rare type of Cancer. He was only 38 yrs. old. We didn’t have any children. I miss him so much.

[@harinchetan4701]

Sad to hear, hoping all is well for you.

[@meeshterious8644]

@@harinchetan4701 Thank you. 🙏🏻

[@sephora.y3935]

I am sorry for your loss

[@meeshterious8644]

@@sephora.y3935 Thank you for your kind words. It’s almost 6 months tomorrow and I am still in disbelief. It’s hurts a lot. I lost the love of my life.

[@Hotshot1989]

Someday you will be reunited with him in heaven

[@yufengxu3950]

Not many people will do this in general. All those promises made at the altar will crumble when faced with adversity. But this woman showed us how much she truly loves her husband and her marriage. She is an amazing woman ❤

[@dfreeman251]

Perfectly said, I will remember this.

[@HandmaidsTaleComingForUsAll]

Correction, not many MEN. Unlike women, men often leave women who become disabled and develop life long/terminal illnesses.

[@liamdragon5515]

@@HandmaidsTaleComingForUsAll could you site your source for this? I'm interested in the research that was done to come to this conclusion.

[@HandmaidsTaleComingForUsAll]

@@liamdragon5515 pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/

[@saltycat662]

@@liamdragon5515 It's actually true. Statistically, divorce is more likely to occur if the woman gets sick. You can easily Google this information since youtube usually frowns upon posting links.

[@kidlightning1736]

"Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife".

[@kingblade1090]

To bad it can't be said the same for men

[@irritatedanglosaxon1705]

Previous we saw how Trucker brings along his wife everywhere, now wife become his "legs", these simply meshed everyone heart. Chinese CPC are amazing

[@nubidubi23]

nah, CCP is a fascist regime

[@errantcanis5187]

P r o p o g a n d a

[@humansarecrazybeing5730]

@@errantcanis5187 says the western colonizer white supremacist thief😂😂😂

[@utsukokakari8851]

@@errantcanis5187 copium

[@ramonemiliochaconperdomo7225]

Propaganda

[@cheesecakelover6692]

He is a lucky guy.

[@orandachildren1051]

Is he though? Got paralyzed n that.

[@FBCxUNKNOWN]

This is Beautiful, I am a in-house nurse and I have a patient who is paralyzed whose wife left him right after his accident. This woman is truly a amazing person

[@kristineeee]

What ever happened to "in sickness and in health"? And I loved that you wrote "patient who is paralyzed" and not "paralyzed patient" because their disability doesn't define them as a human being. I can tell you're an amazing person yourself. Hope your patient is doing well mentally and physically.

[@23vvv]

Правильно сделала!!! Зачем давать надежду , если не способен на подвиг!!!

[@Hotshot1989]

How can someone betray there spouse like that. Unbeliveable

[@misselle1430]

@@kristineeee just yesterday I saw a comment of a woman who said she left her husband coz he was depressed. I asked her did she leave him coz he was sick or he did other things. She said just sick. I sympathised with him tbh.

[@kristineeee]

@@misselle1430 Poor guy. I hope he's doing okay.

[@sallyviserquina2658]

My mother took care of my dad when he was paralyzed because of cancer. This kind of story truly moves my heart..

[@tinainaz3830]

Such unconditional love

[@venture1701]

unconditional love so rare

[@genki2705]

Unconditional love equals stupidity. Look at how she throws her life away because of him. She deserves more than that. She deserves a normal life.

[@venture1701]

@@genki2705 she is taking care of him because she love him. She's happy taking care of him

[@antonbedoy7556]

@@genki2705 L take

[@arman_makes]

@@genki2705 What if your kid has a paralysis? Are u gonna throw him away saying ur wasting ur time and money? C'mon man, use some brain cells

[@draco2xx]

money cant buy this kind of loyalty and love, she is rare and took her vows seriously but other women wouldve left

[@leftright5596]

"It's not easy looking after him but it's worth it". What beautiful words! May Allah bless them and grant them ease and guidance

[@pinaydriver]

She's got a very positive attitude and we need more of that in this world.

[@avrilpeters]

In sickness and in health these vows are a testament to this lady, she stood by him in his hardest moment when others wouldn't

[@bewise22]

Honor for lady , absolutely finest job.

[@gethsemaneministries_7781]

What a rebuke to those who are unfaithful in their marriage. Amazing wife fulfilling her vows. Just beautiful. True love.

[@muralikishan9027]

And many people think they have problems in their life. I have no words to tell how wonderful a woman she is.

[@joshuafoong9306]

She chose to take care of his man. A marriage vow make meant not to be broken. Such an awesome relationship.

[@teejah7785]

she is a beautiful person.

[@drRusly]

I work in ER. I've seen people left their loved ones due to her / his changing physic due to illness. Many people asked for the relatives to be hospitalized nowaday because they dont wanna take care of them. I bow to her for what she has been doing

[@vamsidharmadigani5761]

Who's cutting the onions. This lady is amazing.

[@bobbybates2614]

This lady is one who really loves her husband

[@bakkwa8705]

This man really hit the jackpot when he married her . Only 2 months of marriage and such a disaster happens with a baby on the way . A lot of wives/husbands would have walk off !

[@lizettepecina997]

He made the right choice when he married her ❤

[@pedro75392]

😢 man I tear up because this woman loves ,cares and shows true meaning of life. Not material but feelings that are unexplainable to understand 😮

[@souravmandal5514]

She is a gem. A beautiful human being.

[@jmurry6695]

What a beautiful family. Husband and son are both handsome. Woman is gorgeous.

[@rarelyaccurate6252]

She's a keeper... a heart of gold.

[@lilabrat]

It’s not like he can leave her anyways

[@ruthmartinez4812]

That’s unconditional love ! Through rich or for poor, through sickness and in health…

[@squishysam]

My mom passed away from cancer 6 years ago. The doctors said there was nothing they could do for her and she was pretty much left to die. During my mom's last couple of months, I took a leave of absence from work to take care of her. I tried my best to make her as comfortable as possible in the amount of time she had left with us. It was an emotional and scary experience but I did it because she was my mom and I loved her. I would do it all over again if I had to. Even though it's been several years, I still get recurring nightmares about her and her inevitable passing. In these nightmares, she still had cancer and her end of days was approaching. I would be doing different things with her; we would be walking or having a laugh together but I would always end up crying in the dream and begging her not to leave. When I took care of her in those last few months, I witnessed her health slowly deteriorated and it's something I'll never be able to get out of my head. But as I had mentioned earlier, I'd do it all over again because I love her and I wanted her to know that.

[@VashtheStampede007]

I feel ya, man. However, you mom wouldn’t want you to be in grief for the rest of your life. She would want you to be happy. So you need to move forward, and live happily ever after as your mom had wished for you.

[@lindapullan6937]

I agree with Vash's comments. You did a wonderful thing for your mom. You spent precious time with her and took care of her when she needed you most. She wouldn't want you to grieve like this. She would want you to get on with your life and be happy. Try to remember the happy times you spent with your mom.

[@folliesofmen2628]

Despite the pain of witnessing her passing, I believe that is one of the best decisions you've made in your life, to know that she felt loved toward the end. Not making it to a loved one's deathbed is the most regretful thing one can experience. She is definitely smiling and blessing you from above.

[@malakandan249]

Hi I can relate to yur story, I also took care of my youngest sister who had cancer, it s 1 of the most rewarding things to take of yur loved one, I loved her so much, I can also do it again, after she passed away I went into deep depression till this day I cry for her ND miss her so much, she was my baby girl😭🤗

[@AC-re9ee]

Death is the beginning, she no longer has to worry about the problems of this world, she is free.

[@shellyrae777]

I definitely don’t pity her, I have extreme admiration for her. I was temporarily paralyzed and have regained motion, I know how hard it is.

[@playc5464]

Wife and mother of the year. I love her attitude and turn something negative to positive.

[@Nerfunkal]

Whew glad to see they do have a person lift in at least one area, as a Quadriplegic myself I'm always relieved because it gives longevity and ease to the caregiving for everyone. Also shout-out to all their hard work and exercise, stretching, getting pressure off skin, critical things for us. Keep on rolling! Much love from the US. 💪🏻♿

[@sleepybread4900]

She reminds me of my aunt. Hardworking and determined and cheerful

[@skygrey7237]

What a woman!! Now that’s love and dedication.

[@king-gv3bk]

This is what real love is. if you really love someone, you stay by their side, through thick and thin, no matter what. You love the person for who they are, and not for their physical appearance.

[@wheresthepudding946]

This is what an angel looks like at work.

[@patrisha7487]

What a wife and mother! She is a phenomenal role model for their son💗

[@MM-st6vu]

That’s simply wonderful. Many people in her situation would simply give up, or seek outside help.

[@sz5263]

Most Chinese people don’t want free handouts if they could help it. This is a virtue that is sorely missing in some societies for abled bodies.

[@MM-st6vu]

@@sz5263 Very true. I was sole caregiver for my mother who was also paralyzed.

[@Flipzkizz26]

I admire her love and devotion to her husband.

[@user-np3qw1ze3b]

This man is truly blessed by having supportive wife & son by his side through tough time in sickness.

[@junidani1491]

She is really an amazing woman Bless her family

[@user-uh6xc1wg1e]

This what we call True love in sickness and in health the woman still love this man and she never be leave her husband.

[@rbt-0007]

It takes an incredible amount of willpower to care for someone that long, and in this case, we’ve witnessed true love.

[@explorefishworld9621]

First of all, hats off to you great lady. in this materialistic world, it is hard to find people like you. thanks to be an example for rest of us.

[@tarlkelly7941]

My mom was a double leg amputy I had the honor To be her home health care provider from age 12 to 15 when she passed away Thank you for everything you taught me the only thing that I wish I could change All the things that I thought was important at the time They weren't time with you was everything I love you Barbara ann Kelly

[@misselle1430]

You were just a child. Am sure you're mum paid no attention to that.

[@theacartwright2504]

In sickness and in health...really admire this

[@Im-Blackheart]

He got his divine partner Such a lucky guy its rare to see such unconditional love 😻

[@Alex_Master_Mariner]

Man is still alive! Power of love makes wonder!

[@pathlifetv3134]

A remarkable love of a wife that a husband can cherish that is much more preciuos than money, gold or material treasure.

[@kingpin22s]

Bro.... now THAT is genuine love. Even though that was tough luck for him, he was blessed with that angel of a wife. I hope eventually he recovers. Even if it's just a little. Golden lady though. 🙏

[@leenuhh_]

It might not be easy and must be tiring but the fact she's still smiling, having fun with him, being at his side and looking at him with loving eyes; she's a real keeper. Actually, it might not be tiring since it probably feels like they're enjoying every moment of each other's company, alongside their son.

[@nickyranking398]

All I can say, I respect you, that's hard work and dedication. Blessings

[@mylifealive1983]

No words to describe this wonderful lady" she has the biggest heart and soul i have seen, taking care of a spouse is not an easy task, my respect and prayers to the family for a continued recovery happiness prosperity and most of all Love 💗... Greetings from Long Beach California.

[@ImJonasCortez]

You dropped this 👑

[@Winninghan]

Love, devotion, perseverance, positivity: words that come to mind seeing what this otherwise ordinary woman is doing. Then it occurs to me that she has this purpose in her life that makes it all so meaningful. Not a lofty purpose by most standards perhaps, but one fully deserving of respect and admiration.

[@joannamsimuko6912]

He found the right woman! Wow!

[@carrieliu8689]

What an incredible woman! A hard-working woman who stood by her man no matter what!! She is courageous, kind and bubbly. Very admirable in many ways!

[@worldofwonder.subforasub3209]

This is what you call ‘true love’

[@winscaser4008]

this man found A GEM.💎😍😍

[@gardy4390]

You can't buy or wish for something like this only real love ❤️ can do this .She is definitely a great human being. ❤️

[@PhilemonChan]

That's inspiring. It's challenging to look after a person with disabilities. Not an easy task as it requires a great deal of love, patience and strength. Wish them the best of life.

[@Goalsold]

You're a wonderful and caring wife to your husband. You inspired me so much.

[@dnice374]

Bless this woman and all like her. THIS is what humanity needs, not the rampant greed that is literally going to doom us all

[@blondyManny]

Blessed be the man who's got that wife nowadays💖

[@linette_xox]

Their relationship is so cute

[@AkashRoy-np8id]

A wife that is one out of million.

[@elizabethcamacho615]

Wow what an amazing wife, hats off to her!

[@salwatmuslima6522]

He married a gem

[@sherring7074]

Amazing family. Wedding vows include in sickness and health. May the future show lots of improvement and progress. The wife is so pretty and supportive.

[@ThaMobstarr]

Man that's a MVP wife!!! So much devotion to her husband and their marriage for so many years! You see here that true love is a decision you make, aside from the romantic stuff that flies by.

[@shonnaherrera8066]

Ohhhh my goodness!! This put tears to my eyes in how dedicated she is to her husband! Usually the partner leaves for another when things like this happens. I'm so impressed with the wife's genuine love for her family!! I love how strong hearted she is and teaching her little boy to be of help and dedicated!! I loved this video!! This is truly a blessed and happy family!! ❤️❤️

[@thegoodguynotmanneyofthem.3762]

wat a beautiful woman you are you made my eyes tears .and wat a beautiful son you both goth.love to you all from us in New zealand.

[@QuakerRaze]

This is living proof that shows all Chinese people are caring and supportive of each other. She is a true representation of the Chinese people and it makes me and everyone proud to be a Chinese.

[@shqip_sumejja]

I agree we are all proud to be shqip🇦🇱🤝🇨🇳👍

[@zeth479]

Thank you for the lovely sentiment. Though I'm not sure if "all" Chinese are caring haha...

[@Bianca21702]

This is just not true by any means.

[@supreme0497]

All? Don't over exaggerate

[@johnnygu9451]

Perfect example of true love and loyalty

[@kkakdugiman]

This is truly and absolutely incredible to watch this. This woman is so devoted to her husband even he had an accident and left him paralyze. Very touching to see this. I hope I do have a wife one day (when that happens) who will be with me and take care of me as well.

[@trietriethe1andonly56]

This is unconditional love for someone,such a beautiful thing

[@micheleroyce4177]

She is a beautiful soul. May the three of them have a wonderful life with plenty of travel. Thank you. This has made my day!

[@rosanneb2821]

Mannnn. This made me emotional. What a lovely family!

[@CHEVYCAMARO4GEN]

This is exactly what a relationship is all about, wish I had one

[@gregi787]

This reminds me of one video, same story but opposite and ironic as well the accident happen shortly after they got married. The husband is a traveling truck driver for a living and since no one can watch his paralyze wife. He took her along where he goes, taking care of her every day needs. you can just imagine the hassle but years and years passed and he still taking care of her. Such beautiful couple.

[@redmisamuel7065]

This is what is called a marriage vow, faithful in health and sickness together. love your partner with all your heart and soul and body. Previously a husband who took care of his paralyzed wife and took her on every trip in his truck. woman or man, they are able to convey the sincerity of their love to their partner.

[@NightlifePunjabi]

Huge Respect for such Women

[@willcookmakeup]

What an incredible trio. They're so lucky to have each other

[@divinepayton1696]

That's a real wife that's beautiful. What a real one. Now that's a role model

[@JD1459]

This wife will be gifted with eternal life.

[@k.sokmikzeomic]

Women are incredible when they love you

[@alabdoussihassane1711]

That's what we call a real lady🙏

[@_____1826]

This make me cry...mI wish i can get a wife like her who will love unconditionally

[@solutionguy18]

whole world should learn from her about being positivity in life.

[@frankiesaenz9808]

That's real love, she actually looks like she enjoys caring for him

[@suryahadiwinatas2932]

This is reverse of story a driver husband that take care his disabled wife Either way, I love them ☺️

[@ragsoh]

This is what I call absolute devotion!

[@planb8368]

This woman has my highest respect for this. Most people in her position will chose to leave their partners and I completely understand their decision

[@Haerinx87]

She gets paid money to be his carer, and she gets lots of money from these daily videos she uploads......

[@machaon7300]

@@Haerinx87 she's obviously not doing it for money and before streaming its unlikely they were getting enough to get by...

[@planb8368]

@@Haerinx87 it's life. You gotta do what you gotta do. It's either making these videos or a divorce and leave him to his fate. Both aren't exactly a fun decision

[@dominiquejohnson5234]

This woman is amazing, im speechless.