It takes 21-66 days to form a new habit. I would suggest to anyone suffering from depression or loss of feeling peace to try and start to ignore any negative thoughts for starters. Dont feed them or show them any attention as much as you possibly can. When it starts to arise fight it with a positive thought instead. The more you do this the more natural it will become.
@KishaH-h2m5 ай бұрын
Thank you, I have always been told 21 days I that was not a fact, everyone is different.
@Ditto44885 ай бұрын
Here/Hear!!
@GaryDuft-hf7vx5 ай бұрын
Its soooooo fkin hard tho!
@jonathanstremmel96544 ай бұрын
I lost my mom, my daughter my wife all within a year. I'm broken and lost. Everyday is a blur. I'm literally just following the motions everyday
@nicoleihendrickson4 ай бұрын
And call 988 if you’re struggling! 🗣️
@NickRhoades-m4fАй бұрын
I really know how to analyze body language, I've studied human behavior my entire life. At an early age I learned how to play dumb & be smart,
@dannydugger292Ай бұрын
So much free game and life advice in this clip.. Alot of the same things that my father had told me throughout my life before we lost him to cancer this passed May.. I miss our little talks where he would lace me up with some of that good ole school game while I was making us both some coffee every single morning. I could ask him anything at all, for advice for things serious, or things silly and funny, just anything.. And if he didn't know the answer then he could point me in the right direction.. There will never be another man like my father but this clip was a really good reminder of him.. I love you Pops and I'll see ya when I get there buddy. I miss you more that life.. rest easy Dad.. I love you buddy...
@helenedwards82385 күн бұрын
Silence is needed because I'm so hurt. My reflection on myself to work out my worth and to heal
@nottasheep3882Ай бұрын
Having understanding is lonely and one must have patience n rejoice
@user-cy1fo9ou2gКүн бұрын
Addiction is a lonely life. You spend most of your time feeling alone and thinking nobody understands but that's bc we don't talk about it honestly with everyone and we should. I think if more of us was honest about it to ourselves and those around us then we might have a better chance. And if society didn't push us away so hard then we would have an even better chance of recovery.
@AlanaShuping6 ай бұрын
Numb is not the word ... if i loose you thats half of my heart do you know that takes too get back. Understood.
@AlanaShuping6 ай бұрын
I said I wouldn't do this but I need you please call . I can't sleep. He is sooooo mean to me . I can't take it
@Larhonda-r4w3 ай бұрын
😢damedarealest @@AlanaShuping
@sallyfisher6023Ай бұрын
The back story part really got me!! Something I knew but wasn't accepting! Hearing this was like opening my eyes all of the way!! This message was on time!!
@chellheineman69126 ай бұрын
Let's go hello fr this shit he's speaking is self love self worth. When u really battle w your own self to learn and acknowledge ur issues trauma etc that's core deep and that shit he spoke was 💯 core deep after selfwork
@MichaelDarkcrow1519Ай бұрын
I was a firefighter for 7 years and i suffer from ptsd depression anxieties to public places crowds and people and 3 years ago i lost my oldes son and that put me into a deeper depression and the day he oassed away a part of me went with him and and during these three years its been riugh to go through everything by myself and watched friends and family walk away and tell me to learn to get over it i need to learn how to cope with it i need to move on but as a dad a father a human being how can you just wakk away and move on when i riased my sin to the age if 19 and watched his mom and docters kill him and i tried is hard to save his life and that carry with me daily and i have listen to Kevins speeches , his advice and its helped and i wished i could just set and talk with him and jaut listen. This is a man that understands life hurt pain and depression. But his words are powerful and the things he says are deep
@jaylovechilds8150Ай бұрын
You have to give it all to God, an we have to live right by God words if we want to see our love ones again just know that every one will not get into Heaven
@LilMiMiOf2Ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss.
@hatfieldmccoy0311Ай бұрын
Hey brother was a Marine Infantry Rifleman for 12 years, did 5 combat deployments, was in some of the bloodiest battles there. I have severe PTSD, TBI, I lost more friends then I care to remember, continued to loose them here, to the battles. I couldn't imagine loosing my son, but I wanted to tell you I love you brother. I don't know you, know everything you went through, but as a father and someone that struggles with things like you do, I can kinda understand what you experience, so I just wanted you to know I care about you my friend. I wish I could sit and talk to him myself. There is something special about this man, he has some power and wisdom some spend their entire life trying to find the wisdom he has. Don't know if you are native, but I see your name and I am enrolled member of the Eastern Shawnee Tribe of Oklahoma and I am finding peace by getting back involved in the old ways making connections there.
@shawnnolder9927 күн бұрын
I am sorry you had to go through or deal with that. Hopefully your mentally & spiritually get your peace in the future or have worked on it.
@Terry-s4h26 күн бұрын
God won't help. You can take control and stand up. I've been through similar pain.
@JoannRoman-y8u2 ай бұрын
Getting better everyday 🫡one love og
@HumbleSavageGang6 ай бұрын
You can have the biggest family & friend base & still feel alone in the world.
@DRO3Y6 ай бұрын
Facts, that would come down to self love. If you are feeling this way it is time to find yourself again and love it.
@kensimmons4575 ай бұрын
U said a mouthful
@KaSandraV-uf9os26 күн бұрын
Its a hard place to get out of when you been in that space for so long then that shame n guilt come in i have been feeling so many emotions at once lately and after being numb for so long its rough
@ajoseph12027 күн бұрын
Once you understand the mind u become more tolerate and kind understanding
@NasirTalib-h7o2 ай бұрын
The streets at birth and a heart attack at 36 showed me a lesson through a heart attack and the heart attack showed me who is real and who is not real. One real friend died and two held on and hold on knowing I have a heart condition and not promised a second.
@AshleyBaughn-p7e3 күн бұрын
I have sobriety date of 12-3-21. I have overcome alot of demons my drug of choice was h3roin and m3th. With a little over 3 years clean im currently struggling with severe depression and i guess a sense of failure to my kids. Although i have gotten full custody 2 years ago the one thingi cant shake is the first thing they taughtus in recovery is that we MUST learn to forgive ourselves for the damage we have created. Please anyone striggling with depression or mental health seek help. Without a strong mental health ANY AND ALL demons will break that one missing spot of armor. Please pray for my family and i while i struggle with this.
@kaitlynbentrup5217Күн бұрын
❤ I love you girl you are loved I feel your pain and suffering I feel ur hurt I’m going through the same addiction but I been fighting it my whole life back and forth but this time it’s brought a whole lot of pain and suffering most days everyday i crying to god to give me the strength to get up and fight another day
@christiransonnet21035 ай бұрын
I listen to one of these every day before I start my morning 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@h-quotes5 ай бұрын
🙌🏽
@lolitalaylo6 ай бұрын
I wish I could learn to be like this. I want to be at peace and not hurt and angry any more. I have a big heart that is a blessing and a curse . I'm depressed and don't know how to not be
@DRO3Y6 ай бұрын
It has to stem from somewhere. Sometimes we need to slow down and really think what is making me this way. It's ok to be a little lost at first when trying to find are self. It is a process that needs to be brought to light.
@NicoleWynn-tp4k38special6 ай бұрын
Hi love, I pray things get better for you. I've been struggling with depression for a little while now. I have found that Prozac works really well for my symptoms most of the time. I do have more good days since starting this medication than bad I have to admit. But unfortunately life never takes a recess and things happen sometimes that get to me sometimes but the Prozac has really helped me. Way more than Abilify did.
@ianroberts38035 ай бұрын
No meds Meditation
@forgiveme-y9s5 ай бұрын
God's plan
@JaredBuckley-q9n4 ай бұрын
Yea. Millions of dollars. U can find peace in being alone
@RaymondTorres.49ersАй бұрын
Thats true forgive those who don't forgive you because you will be free and wont fill regret if something happens to them.also it helps you move on and fill free from drama
@TerriMartinez-w5x2 күн бұрын
I really needed to hear this at this very moment. It's amazing
@lilMissBoss-SLS7fs7h2a9l2a17 күн бұрын
So true .. life can be so hard when ya rise ❤❤
@ShortyG-y3gАй бұрын
1000 is equal to the equivalent of the thing to come and be thanks for the inspire G
@nevermind8081Ай бұрын
😢 i needed to hear this
@MistHawk-662 ай бұрын
That’s very straight!!love it !! Much love 🩵🙏🏼
@AaronMfsohnrey-p7hАй бұрын
yo i needed this vid at this moment thank you every word spoken hit my soul hard yall just saved a life with this vid much respect and thanks
@unclesdamaddy6 ай бұрын
I don't know peace , I want to know peace, as I'm alone in the dark well the shadows move.
@Chosen1x1x16 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ
@forecast-ti5nb6 ай бұрын
Loyalty is a cover-up for love
@Ditto44885 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@shawnbrockman62714 ай бұрын
Yes great voice man... Speak the truth... Okok !! 100
@shawnbrockman62714 ай бұрын
@@Chosen1x1x1🎉🎉
@CharlesCarter4205 ай бұрын
I’m so proud of Kevin man. Alhamdulillah thank you God for the opportunity to struggle
@jlbj19786 ай бұрын
My Crossroads: "It seems I never move forward...I never look back...I might as well go left with my heart...Because nothing is ever Right."
@Ditto44885 ай бұрын
Stay strong, I believe better days are coming... ❤️
@cunpredictable45 ай бұрын
That back story gets me every-time! ❤❤❤❤❤
@peeheemuhuh801618 күн бұрын
Not a bad way to view life today. I am one person going through it but this is MY life, my struggle. Nobody else has the responsibility of changing life for me. Learn patience & your options suddenly expand. Plan 5 years down the road & work on strengthening your mind & heart in unison. That’s when miracles happen. You be LIVING now. All of a sudden the volume goes down, peace and quiet goes up.
@annbunch78Ай бұрын
You are truely a blessing to the world. The beautiful things that you got inside you tells stories I ain’t never told. Thank u for your inspiration.
@danyellereal108Ай бұрын
You the truth!!! ❤
@CarmelitaBabineauxАй бұрын
Wise words love it 🙏🏾✨♥️💯
@ElectricWarriorTarot3 ай бұрын
Much love and respect. Always keeping it 💯.
@ManikingSalinas-s9m14 күн бұрын
Dang Kevin Gates you're the man bro .. knowledge nid power ... your brain is a weapon use it or it'll use you I love this . Make some more music.. we need the king rappers back ..
@andreacastillo49910 күн бұрын
❤❤so much wisdom!❤❤
@VictoriaElizabeth-t8i22 күн бұрын
I live by that shit "play dumb and be smart"
@LekeshaMccarter2 ай бұрын
Love u Gates❤️❤️❤️
@SandyMarroquin-u6g3 ай бұрын
I love this! You are fo sho one best motivational speaker I'd ever rather be motivated by involving reality and pain and life battles and addictions and habits and experiences
@Xjanessa3 ай бұрын
Wow felt that wise man
@RoseCreech-e3k6 ай бұрын
Much much love
@ashleycertified82666 ай бұрын
This is #DEEP yet #Factual
@nottasheep3882Ай бұрын
My family is pulling away from me cause my understanding has alienated me n created distance
@natashabiggins839716 күн бұрын
Nah, it takes one moment. One decision, one action to change you. That's facts because that's how I have survived thos long. Let them believe u weak,but it takes one thought and that one action from that thought to prove n e body wrong. STAY solo. hurt people hurt people and most people , visible or not, will be hurting, waiting to pass that hurt onto someone else believing that it gonna eventually make them happy. When in reality we are the masters of our own minds, only the strong survive ypu feel me?
@Ohtako-m6b5 ай бұрын
I appreciate you sharing the positivity of one's inner self.
@danielappenzeller52942 ай бұрын
Beautiful!
@sandrastevens3749Ай бұрын
Facts people .our young generation I just don't know
@raymonddotson4505Ай бұрын
10000 over 10000!!!!!!!!
@DesireeObremski-e7q4 күн бұрын
There is a God i can assure you...I was with God and Jesus before he made jesus flesh...before he even made the earth...I will never forget our talk we had and what jesus said
@KateDaley-o8o2 ай бұрын
Story of my life ❤ great words need to be heard
@keleshiaharris57Ай бұрын
❤❤❤him
@KantKasper2 ай бұрын
I'm built for this......that mentality just changed my whole outlook on life. I gotta stop self hating an feeling like i did something wrong to deserve the life I was given. I was given this life cuz someone had to live it and I can handle it. Fucking love kevin he always straightens out my thoughts.
@AlmightyhtcАй бұрын
Medical Music 🎶🎵... Bread Winners Association..it's a lifestyle. Stay peaceful and uplifted.
@JacobFlores-v1e5 ай бұрын
Good words ❤loveed your knowledge and wisdom of each word explain you sound like a badass sponsor
@JanaHardie6 ай бұрын
I love it brother.
@Idkididntdoit6 ай бұрын
You can trick your mind, you can't trick your heart ❤
@Dominosofintranetzftmetradome5 ай бұрын
You can only trick your mind for so long
@EnigmaGoddess22Ай бұрын
0:00 🎉
@namelbrunson126928 күн бұрын
🎉amen
@PhillipWhaling5 ай бұрын
Real fuckin talk. Allah be w you. Grow
@Baby-v7r6 ай бұрын
Just go Kevin. Baby is over it.
@HeatherLandis-e4h5 ай бұрын
I Remember Everything..?This Life And Our Last.. And In Each Lifetime You Try To Take Me Out And In Each Lifetime You Fail. You can't try to take something out that is part of your mission. OHH.. YOU FIRGOT
@melissagee483014 күн бұрын
I felt this!
@frominspiredtoinspiring2258Ай бұрын
Wow. This here, are some of THE Most Powerful things I’ve heard in a long time. A reminder in a sense of just what and who tf I am🙏🏽🙌🏽🪽💪🏽💯 Wow. Thank you. So much for this. And I pray everyone gets this same realization of just what and who tf YOU truly are💯💪🏽🙌🏽🪽 I love your souls ❤️🪽🙏🏽
@Idkididntdoit6 ай бұрын
Thank You Kevin 🎉❤😊
@stonedViking3045 ай бұрын
Kevin Gates goin change a life with this 1… Hell I can’t even lie right now my life’s alil fucked n I needed to hear some this personally
@SirenFannin5 ай бұрын
Already!!!
@CarmelitaBabineauxАй бұрын
Love it 🙏🏾✨♥️
@latonyawynn5583 ай бұрын
I love this
@falinchris42 ай бұрын
love this
@Thatone10013 ай бұрын
Speak ❤
@frankpenajr3096 ай бұрын
I worked at the aria in Las Vegas. I remember meeting Kevin gates. Really cool brotha. Wish I could have gotten more words from him but he was being rushed by his company.
@alexbishop2586 ай бұрын
Chuuurch 🙌
@TonyWheeler-jr9gb6 ай бұрын
He one of them
@Leesa13034 күн бұрын
❤ you keep goin boo...
@NicoAssaya-lq6ho6 ай бұрын
Kevin Gate is bigger ❤
@latoya71426 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@deeottey82436 ай бұрын
&kevin gates I absolutely luv you you overcame so much and I feel so much of your pain even those we the opposite sex and race your words hit hard I feel them all I’ve ever known was pain seeing niched everyday of ma life and never asked no one for anything hustled the way I needed to to survive I have no regrets everyday I’m becoming a better me and your story I can relate to in a female way but most don’t know the pain someone cares who is truly loyal and luvs with no explanations not many lie is thank you for. Being an inspiration
@twinsugar38866 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@sethsmith28255 ай бұрын
Damn g going thru it G tryna see tomorrow homie needed to hear this gracias,, respect from Down South Demon town lil Listo homes 575
@abbyatkins27982 ай бұрын
Cheaper to b myself ❤
@BackwoodsGarageАй бұрын
Amen 🙏
@p.t482Ай бұрын
Dammit Boi
@JenniferRider-d9x5 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@KristiePrivetteАй бұрын
Kevin this is "Ma Kris"I sent you partial poetry maybe 20yrs ago and you asked me for coffee.Kevin I got some Expresso for you now!! My Son and his best 😢 station in Washington state with a producer that doesn't know what to do w😢 such talent. 4:22
@MommaC-215 ай бұрын
Tapped in because I thought this was some Kevin gates, it’s just Gates dropping bars but a different way 💯 he’s way to wise 😍😍😍😍
@Doughboi235 ай бұрын
Big General Gates 🌟👑🪖
@jennmarie87596 ай бұрын
Awesome Kevin Gates!!!!! 🔥💯🔥🙏🔥❤️🔥
@MistHawk-662 ай бұрын
This song is straight ay dumb b smart ! It peace within you
@anwhatriseabove565Күн бұрын
💔 to ❤
@SteveTanner-k5k7 күн бұрын
Real .. dawg
@Stra8Forward-k2r4 ай бұрын
The only problem I have with this is an unknown fact about me is, I’m only not even a whole year away from having a bachelor in psychology, and to become a licensed drug And substance abuse, counselor counselor, I agree with everything he said about being used. It makes us question any and everything in our life. It is easy to become manipulated in matter how intelligent you are, nor educated or uneducated you may be all of that goes out the window where love is involved love makes you blind love makes us make excuses good and bad love makes us do things good and bad love can make you reckless love can make you loyal love! We can love somebody based off an experience that gives us a feeling that does not become a good indicator for what love is that is actually unconditional it doesn’t matter what you do to me you could want to kill me in in Christ eyes we are supposed to still love correct? When you really love somebody so deeply, they can actually do anything to you good or bad right or wrong and you love them no different that is unconditional love!! I always thought that I loved every single person that I said those words to or their neighbor that I love everybody and if there was a difference between a spouse, a child and mother, father friend, and they’re so is in my eyes, there’s levels of loyalty, and then there’s a level of love you’re supposed to have for yourself that is supposed to be called respect I can love you unconditionally but you respect for me does not say that you love me the same it doesn’t matter how much body language I could study of yours. I can know you like the back of my own hand and tell you what your next move is going to be and all along, knowing what you’re about to do to me that is not good not walk away why because I love you, but the levels of disrespect become greater and greater and greater creating self doubt self-worth lack of all of these things before you know it you don’t know who you are you don’t trust anybody you can’t even believe with your Knowledge. has shown you in the past you can’t believe your feelings you can’t believe your education, and you cannot rely on what other people are telling you because it’s all distorted by the societies definition of right and wrong loyalty. Love all of that every single one of those things psychology only tells us peoples character flaws and traits. It doesn’t tell us what to do, or how to cope with genetic. qualities that one will possess because it’s inevitable. You are what you’re made of sometimes your environment triggers something that a different environment could’ve kept suppressed, but in the end it is up to us to create boundaries. My tolerance might be completely different from yours. Therefore psychology could never prepare me for the pain I might endure. If I decide to love somebody or take a chance on somebody because I see something good that you don’t see well, studying who they are. I think that it’s just a form of manipulation Tactic at the end of the day. And when you start knowing one’s mind and how to predict or redirect their actions, then you were messing with fire because you were then playing mind control, causing a person to be an authentic and if not handled correctly and carefully it will become non-organic y’all didn’t have a fake person that you created and it can very well backfire often does so be careful. How much knowledge do you know about an individual not saying that getting to know who you’re with as a Partner is not incredibly important because it’s very well necessary, but to study who you’re with to try to control a situation or scenario is unrealistic and kind of inhumane and before you know it, you’ll be stuck with a non-realistic relationship that you created not you and your partner share so you gotta be careful with ones mind I laughing joke and say you know people often don’t know who they’re creating life with when they have a child I don’t get to know that other individual well enough would you should study is that person’s parents to find out what kind of offspring they have to find out who you are then procreating with as well as your own parents and that’ll tell you what kind of child she might end up with
@RyanEmerson-e6h2 ай бұрын
This shit is 🔥 🔥 🔥
@JasonJones-v5l6 ай бұрын
4:22 I want you to believe when I tell you this I was just having a conversation with my creator when I have faith, then my God creator energy source for me, it's Jesus Christ about all that was just spoke in this video I believe God used. This message to keep me from killing myself.Thank you for being who you are and putting this message o may m I always be blessed and your family.Please never stop putting this out there.Thank you
@SirenFannin5 ай бұрын
That was basically my words to really literally it was spoken from Jesus Christ our Lord God from his lips from his wisdom who won the believe in Jesus Christ our Lord God the one that he spoke for the one that he has in mind of Peace yes yes yes please love joy and happiness Galatians chapter 5 verse 22 I've been reading it and now I finally understand he just made it so simple and I'm so glad I didn't kill myself because then we wouldn't get the blessings we deserve because we shouldn't give up because that's given up on him because we are all Christ Jesus in our hearts if we truly believe in him we are a part of his body