'I’m On My Period' | Traumatize Them Back w/ Roly

[@RolyWestYT]

I would like to let everyone know Jamie has banned me from the channel since filming this video

[@Jammidodger]

It's true

[@Doge-lb8dq]

noooo :(

[@Actuallyananimenerd]

That’s fun

[@RiniBnnuy247]

NOOOOOO!!!

[@heathercurry4451]

Oh no :(

[@HistoryandOtherStuffwithBV]

You can't spell trauma without muah. Traumuah. ~ The Click, ca. 2024

[@Kalaphant]

Let's go Click mention

[@Patr0chilles_001]

Let’s goooo clickkkkk I will be using this quote irl lol

[@YoutuberGrudge]

Tramuah *kissy noise*

[@drachenfliger1368]

I remember that one... Someday there should be a big collab between it, cluck, roly, jammie and maybe some more

[@anacsadder]

"Trauma is just negative nostalgia." Also The Click. EDIT: How deranged would a Click/Roly collab be 0_0

[@GloomyFish]

the men who get weirded out by periods remind me of kids freaking out about cooties

[@Zoey_the_Rat]

That's exactly what it is too, isn't it?

[@lucypreece7581]

nope its the same as when they get grossed out by breastfeeding. They hate dealing with the fact that a woman's body is not just for sex and that the "sexual" parts of the body have other functions that are nothing to do with sex.

[@j.j.juggernaut9709]

Because they are kids 💀

[@SilverSturm]

Well yeah. Periods are liquid cooties😂😂😂

[@AjitAdonisManilal]

I get why the cop asked what she was getting at Walmart, yes it was to ask if the person was buying and consuming alcohol but there is a reason for not just your own safety but everyone else's you can't speed on the road. You aren't just affecting your own self, what if you run over someone crossing because you're speeding or you crash into someone else's car ending the other person? There is a reason speed limits exist

[@brendaleelydon-carpenter1554]

When I was pregnant, the skin on my belly got more sensitive because it was stretched so tightly. Sometimes it even itched like crazy! But more than the physical sensitivity, there was an emotional sensitivity, I guess? At that point, there's a BABY in there, and I was NOT comfortable with randos trying to feel my belly. (Although I was sitting at a friend's house in the summer time, and her almost-3 year old came over & randomly tried to stick popcorn in my navel?! He said he was trying to give some to the baby inside of my tummy. Which was so freaking adorable.)

[@mariebourgot4949]

OMG, the 3 year old, this is just too cute for me to handle! 🥺

[@DragonMoonFNAF]

He’s a little confused but he’s got the spirit 😂

[@kibaliziosa483]

The 3 so is so cute I will cry 🥺

[@steffi7301]

Yea skin feels tight and itchy and towards the end of you put to much pressure on it I would need to pee so...

[@gothicanimegirl44]

I remember being around 4 and my aunt was pregnant with my cousin and she had me feel her belly when the baby moved and it was the craziest thing for my little kid brain

[@CaptWonky]

Hahahaha I was once challenged for leaving my desk by a colleague. He was constantly niggling at me so I loudly announced "Bob, would you like me to change my tampon out here?" His face was amazing

[@LoraLoibu]

constantly WHAT

[@haumenic]

Don’t give me any ideas….

[@haumenic]

Don’t give me any ideas….

[@katphish30]

Not all heroes wear capes

[@craZcreationz]

@LoraLoibu I think they meant gigglin*. N and g r pretty close on a keyboard

[@prageruwu69]

hey lgbt people. yesterday i saw a guy at the grocery store that i hadn't seen in a couple years. he said that i seemed way happier now, especially now that i've started taking hormones, and it was great. :)

[@alicebthegachaweirdo8378]

Aww, that’s really sweet

[@taranjk1]

+10 Whimsy +100 Joy

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

Yes

[@creacher00]

Congratulations!! That’s awesome. Also your username is funny as hell lmao

[@hiwaga7399]

Yippee! Congrats on the gender

[@garden_creature]

22:54 As awful as it is, I'm reminded of a story where a family had tragically lost their three children in an accident, and then they had triplets. They said God had given them their children back. And while I'm really happy for them, I couldn't help but wonder how those children might feel growing up and being told they were essentially replacements or reincarnations of their siblings...

[@OfficialAwkbe]

Makes me wonder if they named them the same names as their deceased siblings...

[@moxiefox2357]

@@OfficialAwkbe If I know the story correctly, I'm pretty sure those three have the same middle names as their older siblings.

[@roxyndra]

It’s Norwegian tradition, after losing a child, to give the next child of the same sex the same name. My Norwegian family does this anyway. Imagine having 21 children, 18 living to adulthood. 🙀 My great aunt was very pragmatic explaining this to me.

[@FrozenSoul010]

This reminds me of the time my dad and I were picking up tampons and pads for my sisters. We got the tampons they specifically asked for, then we started looking at pads. We were in there for like 20 minutes comparing sizes and absorbency and packs size, we very much got into it like we would buying anything else. We ended up getting a 30 pack of wingless pads with extra absorbency. That shaped how I viewed period products and similar stuff. I found it very wholesome that my dad cared so much about what he gets for my sisters.

[@laiclaro8763]

I didn't like wingless pads tho. I had they to move from the position I put them and leak multiple times. I'm glad I don't need to deal with it anymore... Anyway, it's very nice of you both to care for your sisters

[@jennyspeicker4712]

And some people have set in stone product preferences. But you were raised right. Points for dad

[@karowolkenschaufler7659]

YES! get technical about it. start nerding out about pads. 👍 thanks for this comment. that made my evening.

[@JahoonlaChalamet-m4v]

Youre a good person, especially a good brother, that I'm assuming you are (▀Ĺ̯▀ ̿)

[@hollierushby]

During both my pregnancies, I wore a top that said, "Touch the bump at your own peril" every time I went out. I hate people touching me. Yes, it feels different when your belly is stretched. It's much more sensitive and itchy. So anything touching you makes you itch. When I was very ill after having my second child, when a hysterectomy was on the cards, the doctor asked me if I was sure i wanted one aged 26 in case i lost one of my boys or if I met someone else. So I said I didn't want one, not that I could ever replace my children. Because of that doubt, I ended up getting very poorly and losing a lot of blood resulting in an emergency hysterectomy.

[@jessicaholscher4097]

My husband and I aren't Disney adults, but I took him to Disneyland for his first time (I had gone once when I was 5), so it's special to us. We took my mom once, right after she had watched Frozen, which she loved more than any other Disney movie ever. She met Anna and Elsa, and she just froze and stared in awe at Anna (her favorite character) and she was unable to speak. She looked like a little kid. It was so cute. Later she was like, "That looked like her. It looked like she stepped out of the TV."

[@bitchenboutique6953]

Disney does MAGIC like nobody else.

[@roxyndra]

Would you say she was… frozen?

[@JahoonlaChalamet-m4v]

Proof that we should never lose our child spirit, even when we get older.

[@boogiebear3095]

@@roxyndralol

[@stay_curious]

22:40 at 30 my sister asked for her tubes tied, she's a single mum to two children and doesn’t want more. She was told no because "what if her future partner wants children". Her autonomy was taken away by a non exsistant male....

[@waffles3629]

Yep. I managed to get a hysterectomy in my mid 20s (that I also needed for medical reasons no less) and was told by a doctor before that (that I wasn't even asking for surgery from no less) that no doctor would do it before I was 35 with two successful pregnancies **no matter what happened during them** because my future husband might not approve. The kicker? I was holding my partners hand at the time, my partner is a trans woman and pre everything, so as far as he knew I was in a relationship with a man. But seeing as she was supporting my decision (you know, cause it's my body and therefore my choice), he assumed we'd break up. AH.

[@loztandfound2708]

Oh my goodness, I had the same - 14 years I was asking for!! Had my sterilisation 2 years ago though, I am so pleased I persisted.

[@Mara_1337]

damn, that is actually crazy hahaha I... I mean, let that sink in. It really got taken from her by a man who doesn't even exist right now. They CONSIDERED a male, somewhere in an uncertain, distant future, MORE than herself. That is actually insanity, when you put it that way... why do they think they need to be considerate towards a random person who maybe never shows up? Also, what is that fuckin question, what if HE wants childen? She clearly doesn't, so what? If he wants them, he gets to make her pregnant anyway? Even if she doesn't want to? Because CLEARLY she doesn't want to. That is disgusting. A man doesn't get to have kids, just because he alone wants them. They probably aren't even aware what they are implying here, but it's an insane reaction to just kinda say that. Of course they could think if her future partner wants kids, she might change her mind. But being persuaded into it also isn't good. And if she genuinely regrets it later, then so be it. That will be a very small amount of patients, and they had enough years to make peace with not being pregnant again, they can probably handle it. There are still other ways to go about it, in such a case. Idk, just absolute crazy... Sometimes I wish I could have a go at people saying such shit hahaha I hate when people get away with being assholes and nobody gives them a piece of their mind, the amount of times my friend got harassed at her work and I wish I could have spoken up for her...

[@WystaerMacaron]

God, horror stories like these always make me grateful I was able to get a full hysterectomy pretty young (18-20) with little resistance. The first gynecologist I saw asked for psychiatric papers confirming it was fine (which my psychiatrist claimed was illegal), and was overall very reluctant and weird about it. Dude generally made me feel uncomfortable and judged, even if it wasn't directly expressed, so I went for a different doctor. Luckily for me, I didn't have to look for long, as the second gynecologist was fully supportive, and everything was smooth sailing from here. I know now that many people aren't that lucky...

[@RosheenQuynh]

This is what I am terrified of as one who's technically still engaged 😢

[@everogersdownunder1242]

I had cis het parents. And when I randomly got my period one hot morning (we were off to the pool for the day) my mum was packing things and just asked my dad to pop to the chemist/pharmacy and buy me some tampons. She specified a brand and size so he knew exactly what to buy. My dad had often bought my mum her sanitary products when she needed them if she hadn't gotten them while shopping or dad was doing the shop. I was very lucky to have a dad who was ok with it all. He did have a wife and 2 daughters, so he just had to learn to deal with it. End of. Also, he went to important genealogical appointments with my mum when she needed the support, etc, and has done the same for me with an endocrinologist before, etc too. I had (and so did my mum and little sister) endometreosis and had surgery and my mum went through menopause at 32yo when there wasn't HRT available to help. I was born in the 80s, so you can hazard a guess at my dads era. My mum was always very open about all things to ensure we all had trust in our relationships with each other. Luckily, my dad was always on board.

[@jenromano19]

I love this! My family was very much the same. They talked openly about bodies, periods, sex (age appropriately), etc. Also, when we were little, we'd see my parents getting dressed or whatever, so that made me feel comfortable with my body, like nudity wasn't something shameful. I never felt embarrassed talking about menstruation in front of my dad or asking him to buy me pads. I also have endometriosis, so it was a frequent topic, as I got my period at 10, and I very quickly started having severe pain, very heavy bleeding, and 14 day periods, all of which led to a week of missed school every month. So, we definitely talked about it a lot, trying to figure out what to do. Anyway, yeah, to this day (I'm 40), I feel comfortable talking to my mom about sex. I think she gets more embarrassed if I do if I talk about my own sex life (which is nonexistent right now, and likely for the rest of my life, but before my husband died I would share things with her or ask her experience/opinions). So yeah, I really appreciate how open my parents always were about everything. It left me feeling like my body was normal (aside from the endo), sex was normal, etc. I think it's good for your kids to have all of their questions answered in an age appropriate way and to have open lines of communications with parents on all of these topics.

[@elirewasout]

Your poor mother! Mine is only going through it at 50+ and hasn't been able to get on HRT yet, but it's been really awful for her. At this rate I will get on it before her, and I've been trying for the about the same amount of time.

[@boogiebear3095]

I’m an 80s baby too. My older brothers always got their partners tampons and never complained about it. They told them what kind and they did it.

[@boogiebear3095]

Also endometriosis sucks, I hope that everyone suffers from it finds relief

[@elaineb7065]

Yep, I get you. Born in 1974 (April birthday) to a father born 1946 literally, & though he was as bad at emotional stuff as any Boomer, re physical stuff he was no problem. He knew what periods were, & when I felt particularly sore on my 16th birthday, he was the one who made me a hot water bottle to curl in bed round. He'd likely scoff at these manbabies who can't handle anything to do with periods

[@hyperswag506]

About the story about consent, most places in the States have Romeo-and-Juliet laws that allow for a 3-year age difference (to protect things like a relationship between a 17 and 18-year-old). Also, regardless of the ages, the girl could still file sexual harassment charges against the boy for the unsolicited nude. It's a lot more likely that the charges taken against the guy were sexual harassment. The girl is technically legally in the wrong for sending the nudes to the mom unsolicited but no jury in their right mind is going to convict her of that if it even gets to trial in the first place.

[@starparodier91]

@@hyperswag506 In my state (Colorado) it’s considered fine at 17 as long as they aren’t more than 10 years older… 😬

[@dandylion2775]

Aren't close-in-age exemptions exclusive to in-person interactions? Similar to how two teenagers engaging in consensual sexual activity is legal, but two teenagers sending consensual explicit photos is illegal. This said, minor infractions are often not punished or pursued in court (due to constant overwhelm in the legal system), but speaking only on legal principle.

[@Stick_and_stone]

Yeah there's not that much of a problem sending pics consensually to anyone 1 year younger than you, not between 18 and 17 year olds just being teens executing bad ideas because it's exciting and they haven't learned yet. If it's consensual and not unwanted, though. Otherwise it's just innapropiate and can more be called sexual harassment rather than something illegal related to ages.

[@hyperswag506]

@ yeah, I don’t know. Probably?

[@armie4172]

A “Traumatize Them Back” with Jamie and Roly? I am so here for it!! This is going to be epically hilarious!

[@blaireshoe8738]

matching your eye color to your shirt's feature's eye color goes hard, cool as heck

[@shelbydownard4382]

Fun (shitty) fact about the Romeo & Juliet law in the states! The law states that a person can avoid being charged with or have a reduced punishment for having sex with a minor if certain criteria are met, like that it's consensual and that the age gap is small enough (typically no more than 3 or 4 years), but the age gap and the amount of protection just varies depending on the state. HOWEVER, certain states have an additional criteria that says the law only applies to straight couples. In 2004, Matthew Limon, an 18-year-old in Kansas, was charged for WAY more prison time just because he was gay. All of the other criteria were met, but because the relationship was gay, he was sentenced to 17 years in prison and forever registered as a sex offender, whereas if he'd had sex with an underage girl, it would've only been a few months :/

[@URFTBOUND4LIFE]

Thats because missionary sex is the only legal sex they count and they did that on purpose to punish queer youth

[@FleaÉire]

Think there should be a clause that the Romeo and Juliet law applies when both were minors when the relationship started. The sad reality is that even in clear cut cases of rape, the rapist gets off lightly. Also the whole “it can ruin a man’s life” really isn’t a thing. The victim is usually the one who is ostracised, etc. We know most rapists don’t even serve time. It’s always the victim who suffers yet again. The laws never protect the victims and like you said, if the person is different in any way, gay/trans/POC/mentally ill, etc. they get slapped with way harsher sentences than pedophiles. It’s a worldwide issue too. I’m in Ireland and we’ve seen the judges sentence weed use way more harshly than pedophiles and rapists. One case, the Garda actually caught the person looking at CSA and yet that the person is free. Supposedly he could have brought down a lot of powerful people, hence the not even a slap on the wrist. Corruption everywhere

[@FrozEnbyWolf150-b9t]

Why is it so hard for some people to learn consent vs. keeping their hands to themselves? This also applies to medical devices and mobility aids for disabled people.

[@valivali8104]

Most of them do understand consent because they respect boundaries of those they see as equals or higher; for example they just bet dog when wife is taking dog to walk but ask permission when husband is taking dog to walk.

[@D3ATH_BY_P0IS0N]

Hiiiii I’m alternative (emo specifically) and the amount of people who come up and touch my hair, outfit, accessories, and say really weird things like “have you found Jesus” or “you would be so much prettier if you dressed normal”.

[@olioIioop]

Tell them that Jesus is really good at hide and seek

[@D3ATH_BY_P0IS0N]

@ OH MY GOD I WILL

[@Patr0chilles_001]

@@olioIioopOH MY GOD I NEED TO USE THIS AS AN EMO TRANS GAY GUY THANK YOU FOR THIS IDEA

[@D3ATH_BY_P0IS0N]

@@Wendigowinder girl ask anyone in the alternative community it has happened to most of us

[@D3ATH_BY_P0IS0N]

@Patr0chilles_001 RIGHT? SUCH GOOD IDEA

[@undeadfroggo6349]

My single dad while raising me would ask every time he was getting the shopping if I needed pads/tampons, and if I did he'd ask for the old packaged to make sure he got the right ones. He once caused a big stink in the supermarket because they were out of my brand and he refused to get the wrong ones because "These are what she likes!" They actually had some and just hadn't stocked up the aisle yet, so they gave him a two for one deal. He got four. 😂

[@zikasilver1]

some people just feel so entitled to touch other people. I once wore a charm bracelet to work, and a customer reached across the cash register to grab my arm to get a better look at it. No asking, nothing. And I was like "ma'am, please don't touch me." Like, if she had asked, I would have shown her my bracelet, like I'd done for other customers. But to grab me? Noooooo!! As for traumatizing back, my roommate's brother often visited us at university, stay for a week and use up all our stuff. Including my bar of expensive acne soap. And he's one of those "icky periods!" guys that knew nothing about feminine products, and he had been told NOT to use my soap. After finding the soap half emptied after ONE of his showers, I asked him how he liked my "yeast infection soap". The look on his face!! he never touched my stuff again.

[@andreavigneault1003]

I've been pregnant four times. For me, it was very painful to be touched in the last trimester. Though I already have sensory issues, that's besides the point. Don't touch people! Jeez.

[@bambino05]

As a person who has been pregnant twice now, it does feel different, especially at that stage of pregnancy. It can be very uncomfortable, especially after a long day. The skin is itchy, it's sensitive, and easily irritated. It's horrible when randoms come over and touch you, I used to just act like they were crazy and I wasn't actually pregnant

[@sarahcoleman5269]

I wonder if the mother referring to her "feral daughter" might be thinking of the song "I am my mother's savage daughter" which was popular on TikTok for a while. It's kind of a feminist "you can't control me" declaration.

[@lucylaws5239]

This is exactly what I was thinking, I would totally find it a term of endearment if it was from my mam

[@lupessreturns]

what i was wondering is if maybe the other mom (the mom of the boy) had referred to the daughter as "feral" to the girl's mom during the complaint to the school, like "you need to get your feral daughter under control" sort of comment, and that simply didn't make it into the post because it wasn't fully relevant to the story itself?

[@The_NyxSystem]

Omg I've never been this early. I just want to thank you guys for making me feel like im able to be open as trans without feeling fear. Me and my partner watch you two together all the time to brighten our days. Thank you so much!

[@katheryne-bois]

For the touching part, damn I feel this so bad! I work as a Cashier at a McDonald’s, at the Drive-Tru window, and I get so many customers trying to flirt at me, and it’s really common to have some of them while I’m handing back their money, they try discreetly to caress my hands in a way they think I won’t notice it, but I totally know what they’re trying to do! Really creepy!

[@DoomMan9874]

Yeah right

[@julsdemers4740]

...that is terrifyingly creepy, i'd be scared to ever be alone in that situation 😢

[@jessicaholscher4097]

5:11 Plus, more Disney adults just means more money, so Disney will do anything to keep them coming back. It's not like Disney is going to side with the mom and argue in favor of limiting their audience and profit. So many people really don't understand that corporations don't care about individual feelings. They care about the majority feeling so they can reach as many customers.

[@take_your_heart]

0:28 I love how you can clearly tell Jamie had to cut out them just dying of laughter from Roly's joke.

[@ShanRenxin]

I've only heard of one instance where a man was getting a vasectomy and the nurse (a woman) asked him "Why? Don't you want kids?", and he responded with "No. Got 'em." So it does happen, but much, much more rarely.

[@Mara_1337]

But it seems to have ended at that. The problem is, when women get asked that, it never ends with just an "ok, fair enough". There's always some "but..." 🙄

[@kristiwinkle5686]

I started advocating to get my tubes tied when I was 18. Finally convinced a doctor to do it at 20. As I was in the operating room waiting for the anesthesiologist, one of the nurses said to me, "There's still time to change your mind, a future husband could have kids" I about punched her but instead told her that I wanted to actually live my life and not potentially die from trying to have a fictional man's child.

[@foxgh0st-yt]

I am a nonbinary trans masc parent who was pregnant and for me no, the tummy isn't like more sensitive or anything while pregnant. But it still just feels like a weird invasion of space and inappropriate to rub a stranger's belly. Someone did that to me once while I was pregnant, didn't even say hi or anything just came over and touched me, and then said "when are you due?" and I just said "what the fuck are you talking about? I'm not pregnant" and she backed away REAL fucking fast.

[@IHeartGameplay]

My dad has a thing against tampons and stuff and I asked him why because it is an excessive thing like almost childish his reactions. He said its disgusting and it's the same as someone talking about poop and it's unhygienic and just unacceptable on every level. I asked him if he knew how kids were made and he gave me this look and just said that it doesn't matter what the purpose of menstration is, he's not there talking about taking a shit every single month and we should know it is the same. So yeah, they just think it's gross. It's childish but like I guess it makes sense. If you never mature past the age of 12.

[@cewla3348]

if about half (correct me if im wrong) of the population took a painful shit for several days straight every month, would he find it socially acceptable to talk about it?

[@digitaldeathsquid3448]

Also, like, parents have to deal with the gargantuan amounts of poop babies generate (most parents, at least). And that's before said babies grow up somewhat and then you have to toilet-train them! Just say you're grossed out by the concept of blood coming out of a vagina so we can call you a child.

[@Mara_1337]

people DO talk about taking dumps, tho hahaha And even if it's not in a stupid bro way of "yo, Imma take a fat dump" kinda way, which sure, can be gross, people might talk about not feeling well bc they are constipated or have some medical issue with their bowels, and there are ways to talk about that neutrally and factually. And then it should be the same for periods. Some people aren't comfortable with potty talk in general, or don't have potty humour and such. Ok fine, but it should always be possible to talk about bodily issues or needs in at least a sober manner...

[@IHeartGameplay]

@Mara_1337 Yep. I've had this exact conversation with him before. It just says "it's different" and won't budge.

[@AjitAdonisManilal]

It is kind of disgusting especially if you're like me and squeamish about blood, organs (i found it hard in zoology in college because it involved dissecting things) and germs/microbes/bacteria (huge phobia of microbes).Just because it exists doesn't mean everyone wants to see it or is ok with seeing it. I wouldn't do to a surgery theater in a hospital and i don't go to gorey horror movies because i don't like blood and gore. Not everyone is okay with it and that should be ok too.

[@mikeywentz]

omg!! i didn't know rolly was a gynaecologist! hes very skilled

[@quackerduck17]

I've had three pregnancies. Physically nothing felt different for me, but psychologically I felt very protective of not accidentally bumping myself and that would definitely extend to not having randos touch me, caress-style or otherwise!

[@jenniferhof9448]

I've dealt with both the person touching my pregnant belly without asking and the question about why I was getting my tubes tied at 26. The lady who I dealt with while pregnant actually came up from behind me, wrapped her arms around my belly from behind and said "How's our little mommy, today?" I was so repulsed! I pulled away from her as best as I could and told her that I'm not her "little mommy" and to never touch me again. I only knew who she was because she frequented the store that my husband at the time worked at. Then, when I was getting my tubes tied after dealing with several miscarriages and having one amazing child, I had to deal with not one, but three different people (not the doctor) asking me if that was what I truly wanted and what if I wanted more kids later. I wish that I had the strength to tell them that I just couldn't take the grief of losing more children through miscarriage and putting my body through all that stress. But sadly, I just told them that yes, I was sure. Oh! I almost forgot - I got asked the "when are you due" question too after I hadn't lost the baby weight that I gained when I had my living child. I was able to come back with "Oh, I'm not. I'm just fat" that time.

[@olivinemage4233]

Regarding Romeo & Juliet laws, it veries wildly from state to state. For example, in many states the R/J laws allow for something like a max age gap of a freshman dating a senior scenario, so four years, as long as the senior is younger than 19 and within 4 years birthdate to their partner, the state will generally not get involved. But that only applies to fully consenting couples. If there's any funny business regarding consent or a pattern of predatory behavior or explicit images, then that often goes beyond R/J laws, and the 18yo can be prosecuted as an adult. But that's only one scenario. There are states with no R/J laws, or states with lower/higher ages of consent (16, 17, or 18). It really depends on the state.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

Yes, you are 100% correct, it does vary from state to state. Where I am, the age of consent is 16 but if the person is 16 or 17, their partner can't be more than 3 years older than them, if they are unmarried. Obviously they can't be with someone that's under 16 at all. I think it's a good thing to have a little extra layer of protection. However, a child can get married at 16 to an adult of any age and there is no legal protection in those cases.

[@briankuhn_]

In certain states they also take sexual orientation into consideration when deciding age of consent laws and sentencing guidelines because I guess some states are bigoted and still in the stone ages.

[@AstronomicalJelly]

ehhh 14 and 18 still feels like too much of an age gap

[@briankuhn_]

@ yeah at that age it’s creepy but at 60 and 64 it’s not so cringe… and please don’t think I’m defending kiddy diddlers, I’m just pointing out the flawed logic here. A 4 year age difference is only creepy when you’re younger.

[@URFTBOUND4LIFE]

​@@briankuhn_IMO nobody should date anyone two years older or younger when in their teens to avoid inappropriate relationships and avoid getting taken advantage of. Then when you're 25 , 3 years older /younger should be the standard. 28+ date how ever old you feel most comfortable with but don't date anyone under 28.

[@sunshinesquares]

Speaking of men and period products: My dad bought me the big box of tampons from Sam’s Club. When he put that box in my hands and looked me straight in the eye…I just gained so much more respect for him. He’s a good man and has raised us all well. I am very lucky.

[@beeee3722]

My favorite part of collabs with these two are watching the chaotic endings, where Roly has lost all control and Jamie has a constant surprise/confused/laughing expression. It never gets old. 😂

[@mariebourgot4949]

^^

[@Thesunmaid]

I have traumatized 3 guys at 3 different jobs with periods. For some reason some male supervisors seem to not understand the whole stomach troubles you get with them. Sadly for them I have really no shame about things. I explain there are 3 things a woman does in the bathroom at work and I am enough of an asshole that I will happily describe all the excruciating details if they reallllly want to know so badly. After each of those conversations they never bothered me again about it.

[@waffles3629]

Nice, I've done similar. Including 10th grade when I was the only afab student in my tech class. One classmate who really didn't like me (because I got better grades than him, like dude, try turning in your work, that might help) decided to very loudly singsong 🎶"I know what's wrong with Waffles"🎶. Now he was wrong, because I was just in a bad mood because I'd been kept up way past my bedtime finishing my homework, since the time I should've spent on my homework was spent being screamed at over my sheer incompetence and stupidity...for getting a 99% on a test. So needless to say I was totally out of fcks, and replied totally deadpan "no, that was last week". Dead silence for a few seconds, then my teacher burst out laughing. Annoying classmate didn't speak to me for weeks, it was great. Even now when I haven't had a uterus for a few years I will still do stuff like this. Though the best I'd ever been privy to was a woman standing up to idiots who were mocking me about my cramps (I needed narcotics to control them, there's a reason my uterus was evicted), and telling them that compared to childbirth and "the biggest kidney stones I'd ever seen" by a surgeon, that her cramps were worse than both. Because her cramps were so bad she didn't realize she was in labor until she was crowning. She mistook contractions for gas and ended up giving birth at home, alone, during a blizzard, less than five minutes after realizing she was in labor.

[@cedardryad]

When i went to get my tubes tied i had actually brought my kids with me to the initial consultation bc i had no one to watch them for me. The doctor also asked me, "what happens if one of them dies" i looked him straight in the face and said, "one less mouth to feed". Lucky for me my kids understand my dark humor, but to even ask that with the kids in the room. You just made them think about their mortality.

[@morinomajou]

Not to mention telling the kids to their faces that he thinks their parents should see them as replaceable! It’s a fucked up mentality in general, but saying it IN FRONT OF THE KIDS is on a whole other level omg

[@shadowshifter5348]

The Romeo and Juliet laws are meant to protect people that engage in sexual activities between the ages of 14-17 as long as they are within 3 years of each other and both consent and understand what they are doing. For example, my boyfriend is 2.5 years younger than me and we have been together since we were both minors. We weren't sexually active at the time, but if we were, the Romeo and Juliet laws would have protected us until I turned 18. I'm asexual so we haven't been intimate in that way during our 6 years together, but him and our partner were after he turned 18 (he is the youngest).

[@DragonMoonFNAF]

Interesting, I known practically nothing about Romeo and Juliet laws, thanks for the info!

[@Mara_1337]

I suppose you are speaking from a USA pov? I wonder if it's the same in all states, bc I read generally the age of consent is sometimes 17 and sometimes 18. So what if the older partner turns 18, and the other one is e.g. 16. Does that 3 years rule still apply until the youngest one is 18? Would be a bit strange otherwise, if you were able to do stuff before. In my experience, US americans on the internet react VERY touchy to anything under 18, so I am surprised you are saying this goes as low as 14. I think I saw someone else mention the Romeo and Juliet law starting with 16 (and only for straights...). 14 is also the age where I am from (Austria). But here, it is legal in general, starting 14. Not anything monetised, of course. And obviously consensual and without any dependency realtionship and so on. And the 3 years rule applies for 13 y/os. If I'm honest, in practice it is rarely so, that a 14 y/o has some sort of relationship with someone more than 3 years older. So it probably wouldn't make much of a difference, but I think the way you described it, with a max age gap of 3 years for a 14-17 y/o seems reasonable enough.

[@mackenziemaybarraclough1207]

I don't understand why men get so grossed out by periods but I do think it is sometimes the fault of schools. At school, we had a few lessons where the girls and boys were split up. The girls learnt about the menstrual cycle and periods and the boys learnt about male puberty. We never learnt what the other gender learnt. But also, that's no reason to be grossed out or squeamish about it. My grandad bought my mum her first pads and tampons and my dad still buys me period products when I need them with no qualms at all. I also have no doubt that my boyfriend would buy me some if I asked. Grow up, boys, and do better.

[@animeluchia5405]

You know, interestingly enough, while the elementary school I went to *did* separate boys and girls, when I went to middle school the year after, our science class that year was biology (as in, we take different types of sciences for different grade levels), and our teacher fully said “look, we’re just focusing on the biology part of sexual reproduction, I’m not here to talk to you about safe sex,” or something to that effect and boys and girls alike were learning about the vagina and ovaries and fallopian tubes and ovum and even where the cl** is located. We were learning about all parts of both feminine and masculine anatomy. I think that was how it was approached again in my freshman year of high school, no splitting of the sexes. At the very least it seems the learning of biology seems to be getting a bit better. I even went on to complain to my mom growing up when she yelled at me to take out the bathroom trash when I was on my period because my brothers shouldn’t have to see that shiz, even though it was my oldest younger brother’s (I’m the oldest child) job to do the trash. Every time I’d respond to her with “they need to get used to it for when they have girlfriends and they have their periods,” fully unwilling to shield my brothers from the fact that periods are gross and messy and bloody, and they’ll just have to deal when their future girlfriends are on their period and making a mess off the toilet and trash can. I hope my brothers are better men for it really… and I *really* hope my stubbornness didn’t traumatize them, and only desensitized them to the aftermath of periods…

[@morinomajou]

My school’s approach to it was weird: they taught all of us about periods/AFAB puberty, but then separated us so that only the AMAB kids learned what was going to happen to them during puberty. And the way periods especially were taught to us was in this very shamey way (lots of focus on making it seem like gross body horror stuff, as well as the whole ‘it means you’re becoming a woman!’ line which is a hell of a thing to be told when you’re 11), almost like they were actively encouraging the boys to pick on us for it. Which they did. A lot.

[@DinosaurNick]

People not only lose manners and common sense when you're different they forget how words work too when pronouns are mentioned. The number of times people grammared wrong... "If you don't want to call me they/them just use my name." "That wouldn't make any sense! Imagining me saying Deadname, is Deadname hungry?" "You know you can still use 'you' right? They/them is for talking about me, not to me..." "Then why do you care? You won't be there to hear it." Me: listening to the wrong pronouns everytime I'm mentioned while I'm in the room.

[@HumbleWooper]

Plus "you" is also a pronoun. These "get rid of pronouns" people keep forgetting there's plenty of pronouns we use every day that AREN'T used to indicate a gender. I. You. Me. We. Us. They (plural). All pronouns.

[@DinosaurNick]

@HumbleWooper exactly

[@RosemaryAmey]

20:21 I have been pregnant. A touch to the belly felt exactly the same as when I was not pregnant.

[@endlessquarantine7504]

Thanks because i immediately came looking for someone’s reply to the question

[@francesturnbull3230]

Completely different for me my skin stretched very thin to the extent it spilt just above my belly button during my first. So people touching could actually hurt with me

[@Leena79]

I admire people who can give a quick response like this to jerks they encounter. I usually just lose my ability to speak if someone does stuff like this. I think it's considered harassement and a form of SA to send unsolicited adult pics to people, regardless of the age of the sender / recipient.

[@skeletonwarlock5741]

24:58 to be fair i would also take feral as a compliment and my biggest compliment ever received is a comparison to slenderman

[@Syd468]

The conversation about age gaps really hit for me. In the same month that I turned 19, I married someone who was 43. And at first the gap wasn’t hugely an issue- in my mind anyway- but over time as I matured obviously things didn’t work out. 3 kids later. Almost 30 now and I can’t imagine… Can’t Imagine… being attracted to anyone under 25…

[@sliferwiththeblueeyes]

We love unhinged Roly traumatizing Jamie lmaoooo

[@annabrown3337]

20:24 yeah I was only 19 when pregnant so a lot of older women did almost while 'pitying' what I had to come (1. No pity needed, was married and planned baby and we were both healthy. 2. Acting worried around 1st time mum is not effing helpful!) Skin can be sore, itchy and sensitive especially with some conditions (like cholestasis)

[@OscarLangleySoryu]

If Disney were for kids it wouldn’t have to be so meticulously themed. It wouldn’t have to have the highest standards in everything like they do. It’s for all ages. Parents who are mad about childless at Disney are massive hypocrites because they’re enjoying it themselves. Having kids doesn’t make you one! If it’s for kids sit outside while they do the rides. You don’t go on the slides at the playground do you

[@prageruwu69]

the people who think disney stuff is solely for kids have never felt joy in their entire lives.

[@AstronomicalJelly]

i get what you're saying but just because something is for kids doesn't mean it can't have a lot of effort put into it or have high standards. kids also have standards

[@OscarLangleySoryu]

@ no no. I don’t argue standards of quality. I argue standards of an advanced level of playets

[@samos4924]

But even if it is for kids, the company has been around for over 100 years. People have been born, lived to a ripe old age, and died in that time. And anyway, Disney owns things like Deadpool now, which is 100% not for kids.

[@miniscenesgb]

You two are hilarious together. Smart alternative guys, so cool and special. love you both! I'm a straight cis woman of 58, and I so get you two. Vive la diference!

[@cjwilson-hansen684]

I feel like men that have sisters are a bit less squeamish. I tell my partner when it’s happening just so they understand why I’m more restless, grumpy and avoiding some foods

[@starparodier91]

Yup, my fiancé is the only boy and has three sisters. It doesn’t bother him at all.

[@AstronomicalJelly]

my brother is growing up with 5 women around him, he'll definitely get used to it lol

[@LilacBoi]

Always so excited to see this duo, u guys r always able to put a smile on my face

[@Waffle_Falffle]

14:14 I don’t have a good relationship with my dad (divorced and at the time single) but one day a have years ago I had started my period and bled through my pants at school, so eventually my dad picked me up and brought me home. After he dropped me off at home he went to the store and got me some pads and a box of chocolate. It’s one of the good memories I have with him. :]

[@anissajoan]

Romeo & Juliet laws exist in at least some states but consent from both parties is part of the law.

[@mrsoph28]

My mum’s had 4 c-sections, during her last pregnancy even us kids didn’t touch her lower belly because we knew as 5 - 12 year olds that mums belly was quite sensitive from when we were all cut out of it. The thought of a stranger just going and touching someone without knowing if they have a scar that’s incredibly uncomfortable on its own is weird, it’s just weird to touch someone without their consent.

[@arjc5714]

Just assume in the US that the law is always “it depends on where you are”. There are absolutely Romeo-Juliet laws in many states, and there are many states where the age of consent is around 16 (including mine). It’s 18 in California, where lots of media is made, so that may be why the perception is that it’s universal. Even things like “the legal drinking age in the US is 21” varies from state to state in terms of: can your family purchase alcohol for a minor in the home? At a restaurant? So it may be legal for a 16 year old to have wine with dinner in one state but not another.

[@VeryUpsetSpaghetti]

I love how this video was uploaded at pretty much the same time I got my period. . . . Help. There are no pads. Aaaaaaaa

[@necr0marker]

@@VeryUpsetSpaghetti praying for you😭😭🙏hope you find some

[@Sarcastic_Lemons]

😭 SAME. ALSO ON THE PERIOD AND ITS SNOWING OUTSIDE SO I CANT GO BUY MORE PADSSSSS (like a lotta lotta snow, Midwest sucks)

[@DragonMoonFNAF]

That happened to me yesterday 😅

[@AstronomicalJelly]

eyyyy i got my period too twinsies

[@jessicaholscher4097]

21:52 In the late 80s, my aunt was in her mid 20s and had two kids and didn't want more. She had to go to several doctors until she could find one who would tie her tubes because they said she was "so young and might went more."

[@John_Weiss]

Ugh, I _hate_ that women have not and continue not to be able to control their own bodies. It's infuriating and disgusting.

[@ILoveYou-rv3pd]

I’m 40 and considering going to Disneyworld, because we could never afford vacations when I was growing up. It would probably kill my whole day, if someone told me that I didn’t deserve to be there or must be a pervert, because I’m childless and gay.

[@The1stPurpleCat]

12:38 - My brothers are cis. I’m AFAB and genderfluid. We were watching something on the TV. There’s an ad for pads. I have two brothers, but mainly I was talking to the one. Tiger says “Is that’s a DIAPER???” (said in a laughing disgust(?) way) Me: … no? Tiger: Then what is it then??? Me: Well, females, one week a month, have blood coming out of them down there. It it extremely painful, sometimes feeling like someone is stabbing you and kicking you in the abdomen as hard as possible. Some people compare it to a guy getting kicked down there. Tiger: oh… Me: So that’s why we want chocolate and ice cream and heating pads and stuff. Sometimes it hurts so bad we can’t walk. But anyway, we have blood coming out down there. We can’t hold it like pee. It just goes when it wants during that week. So we can either have a pad of cotton to pick it up by sticking it up there, or lining the underwear. But they have toxins and stuff, so they are also poisoning us, but there’s not any other options. Tiger: Then why aren’t you guys wearing diapers??? (asked as if saying “why can’t y’all wear diapers if it would help and comfort you during possible extreme pain AND it wouldn’t poison you???” in actual caring way) Me: Good point. Probably cause people see diapers as for babies and periods as things we can’t speak about. Tiger: oh 😕 Welp, people failed teaching my brothers about periods. I know I didn’t explain it the best nor did I give them all the important information, but at LEAST I told them to take care of people in their lives who are on their period AND helped Tiger to realize “wow, that is sad that women have to deal with that, and I hate that it’s ‘unspeakable’ despite being normal, and I hate that we haven’t progressed in helping women with periods.”

[@SuperJJParker]

How old was tiger during this?

[@The1stPurpleCat]

@ I’m younger than both my brothers. They’re both about 26. I’d like to point out though… how was he supposed to learn? His parents? Public school? Internet? I don’t see it as his fault for not knowing as much as I taught him.

[@SuperJJParker]

@@The1stPurpleCat So he was in his twenties when this happened? I would seriously question the upbringing of a male in his twenties who had no idea what periods were.

[@AutisticTea]

Being uncomfortable about someone buying tampons, is the same as being uncomfortable if they said they bought toilet paper

[@amberdawn868]

After hearing that story of a pregnant woman being touched by a stranger, I'm tempted to run down to the thrift and find a "Don't Touch the Belly" shirt to wear for the rest of my pregnancy lol

[@Picklemick33]

7:16 "ouu a broad daddy"😭😭🤣

[@terwashere]

I've popped out 3 babies. Big pregnant belly didn't feel super sensitive to the touch, however I was more focused on the internal pressure to give it much thought: the muscles and ligaments were much more sore than my skin, although it was itchy. Thankfully I didn't get unwanted touching. During my last pregnancy, it was fun when people would ask my 2 kids if they were excited for the new baby... and telling them they weren't getting a sibling: I was a surrogate (for a lovely gay couple). I wouldn't say they would be "traumatized" but hopefully they'd refrain from making assumptions so readily in the future.

[@morfy42]

Two of my favorite creators, sorry to hear you've been banned Roly.

[@URFTBOUND4LIFE]

In case nobody mentioned it, in the US it would be illegal regardless because anyone 18 and older sending nude pics to a minor is illegal and could lead to the older party to be charged with sending pornography to a minor. While Romeo and Juliet laws protect 18 year olds when it comes to romantic/physical activity within those who are within age of consent laws but it doesn't protect them against sexting/recording it and this is to crack down on CP. Hope this clears up things.

[@luxtobeyou]

Yeah I'm like 99% percent sure it would end up being a "corruption of a minor" charge, whether it was an explicit image of themselves, a nsfw video from the internet, etc

[@kaianderson97]

i grew up having long red hair and as a young child i used to have random people coming up to me in public and touching my hair/ asking whoever i was with if it was my natural colour. people are weird af

[@kaine1053]

Romeo and Juliette law only applies to kids that are both over 16 and dating prior to one turning 18.

[@Necrophyllis.]

But think of the old perverts. :(

[@VexRavenhardt]

Roly's shirt is a 10/10. I'm gonna try to find one online.

[@Black.Cat_therian]

My dad's a single father, and he use to buy my period things. W dad.

[@chrisholds1]

The Click occasionally does a "traumatize the back" video, too.

[@SnickerDoodleBug05]

That's because the click is an amazing human being

[@theartisticgremlin728]

23:59 the Romeo and Juliet Law is mainly used for sexual consent between couples in which either both are minors or one of them is a minor, in other sense; you can date each other without pissing off the law. My mother's brother had a high school sweetheart (and they both started dating when they were 17 years of age) and when he finally turned 18, his girlfriend's parents called the police on him for dating a minor. In which what saved him from getting arrested was photo date proofs, I don't know if the R+J law saved him but yeah.

[@ferninthehouse]

i thought romeo and juliet laws are for when the two people are 1-2 years apart. if they were both 17 when they started dating then it wouldn't apply, nor would it be breaking the law either.

[@lazmanonearth]

The age of consent in the US varies by state but is generally 16-18. However, showing/sending pornography *to a minor* is a felony regardless of the offender's age.

[@Farfarellos]

24:00 Consent laws vary a lot by state. In mine last I knew the range was from 13-15 consent is valid up to a 2yr gap not below 13, 16 goes up to 5yrs not below 14, 17 to 7yrs not below 15. Marriage age laws are even wilder. A lot of states still haven’t caught up to tech with the laws on nudes/video. There are cases ranging from dismissal for “kids being kids” to parents being charged with cp because the kids phone was under the parent’s name

[@JoULove]

I hate airports and airport people so much, I'm glad I don't travel a lot anymore

[@ajwinberg]

As someone who has been pregnant and absolutely hated the experience and is never planning on being pregnant ever again, I can tell you that by 5 months pregnant ypu don not want to be touched by anyone, or at least I did. I didnt even sleep in the same bed as my husband because it was so uncomfortable, and i couldn't get any sleep. Do to complications, my son was born 5 weeks early and even though he was in the NICU for a little while, I was so happy to not be pregnant anymore. I am sure that thete are women out there who didnt experience pregnancy like I did, but for me, it was the worste thing to happen to me ever, and I wanted the baby. It wasn't like my husband and I weren't trying for kids because we were.

[@latronqui]

I had my second baby two months ago. For me, yes, it does get more and more sensitive as the skin keeps stretching. And I'm very happy that nobody tried to stop me when I said I wanted my tubes tied when they took the second baby out via C-section (I requested it months before). They even offered to cut the tubes off instead because keeping them could increase the risk of cancer.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎉 Also, what a way to start the year with chaotic cousin energy 😂

[@arynnsprague9494]

I love when you and Roly collab, the energy is fantastic :)

[@ThistlesForEyes]

We need to have shirts that say "Don't touch this" which will be funny because of the song, and relatable because of COURSE don't touch someone without their permission. Or "I'm pregnant, not an animal at a petting zoo", or better yet "If you think this is a baby, you clearly haven't watched Alien."

[@lorifiedler13]

Love these. I remember reading about a stranger who put her hand on a pregnant woman's belly. The pregnant Wan put her hand on the strangers breast. The stranger was shocked, shocked I tell you. Stranger - what are you doing? Pregnant - oh, I thought we were inappropriately touching each other. Traumatize them back.

[@realfingertrouble]

I was 23 when I met my partner who was 50. I was with him for 27 years until he died last year. It's not always a power thing, although it wasn't totally level playing field in my case as there were some issues, it wasn't something I was blind to, or was coerced into. Age gap relationships do happen...the problem is when you get older people who JUST date 'chicken' or 'barely legal' folks.

[@Insertia_Nameia]

When I was pregnant with my kids my abdomen wasn't really more sensitive exactly, I just tended to be slightly more hyper aware. Especially once I was several months along. But I think it was more of an instinctual/mental thing from like wanting to protect that area more than the rest of me. After I gave birth, it was sensitive due to the normal pain of your uterus contracting, but that hyper vigilance was gone.

[@aj32769]

Yes! The thing about being overly touchy when someone stands out is so uncomfortable. I used to have waist length hair and people would grab it at work all the time. It’s highly invasive and inappropriate

[@thomasdjonesn]

"If you haven't heard of Roly - " "DIE!" 😂😂😂😂 I had to stop to catch my breath "These people live in a world that they've created for themselves" 💯

[@Dexy83]

"Obviously, there are transmen" Ya think, Jamie? 😂😂😂

[@princeleefelix]

Roly is just Jamie's intrusive thoughts😭

[@GrzmotOfficial]

0:20 I had no idea Roly was a gynecologist! I know who I’m going to after bottom surgery! Lmao 😂

[@ThatOnePencilCase55]

Watching this video a day after coming out to my parents... yaaayy... Look it could be worse they didn't disown me or anything so it's fine

[@grimmer-rd1mm]

Real. Ive been there lol. Things get better.

[@AceOfAros314]

I never understood people sending n00des, even consensually, because you never know where that picture could be leaked in the future. And the ‘close ups’ (specifically of amab parts) are so HIDEOUS like why would you ever think that’s a good idea? Granted this is coming from my very ace POV, but all of the straight women I’ve known are also not a fan of those pics, so just why…

[@prageruwu69]

i mean, the straight women who don't like them tend to think that way due to the pictures being sent constantly and without consent.

[@vaughnhaney7020]

I don't find them hideous, so long as they're clean and stuff. Seems kinda sexist to say it's just AMAB parts that're hideous like that too. They're just body parts. You don't have to like them obviously but you don't have to insult the anatomy of specifically one half of the people

[@Giuliana-w1f]

As long as you don't show your face or tattoos, you know the risks, and it's mutually consensual, it's fine

[@cewla3348]

@@vaughnhaney7020 people can have an aestethic preference of anything over anything. Why are you trying to shame them for disliking how something looks?

[@AstronomicalJelly]

@@vaughnhaney7020 sexism is not applicable to men

[@nathryl03]

This is your regular reminder that you're all awesome, beautiful and valid little peaches/spuds, just the way you are ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Love you all ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Stay safe everyone and remember that there are people out here that love you 💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@goldcat3512]

When I was pregnant people kept telling me about you know that lady they knew who fell on some Ice outside her apartment and lost her baby when she was 6 months into her pregnancy(I was 6 months pregnant when they told me this story and it was cold and icy outside). Then someone told me about someone who had her baby at 27 weeks (when I was pregnant at 27 weeks) whose baby had significant difficulties with their breathing and almost died and had to stay in the hospital for months upon months. Yeah I kind of didn't like being told about the worst possible outcome to pregnancies when I was at that exact moment in my pregnancy. I don't get why people do this. .. To me this is kind of messed up, I still get that some people are just trying to process their own issues or something...

[@MaridoDoFelps]

I sometimes have a hard time understanding british english, but oh god is Roly even harder to understand lmao He speaks so quickly! But I love listening to you both to practice my english

[@arson_the_birb]

Wow roly has a secret career

[@KylaFuller]

They see it as touching the baby instead of touching you, even though the baby is inside of you, which is honestly more disrespectful

[@anthonycory2116]

24:00 In the US the age of consent changes from state to state ranging from 16-18. But passing any noods of a minor under 18 at all is illegal by federal law Regardless of age of consent we have a nether set of laws that allows exceptions for carnal relationships between minors that are withing 2 or 3 years apart. So it is always legal for a 17 yo to be with an 18 yo but not necessarily a 17 yo to be with a 21 yo. All that being said the crime committed here was he sent it to someone under 18 and in the US if you mail text or message over the Internet, explicit content to anyone under 18 then it's considered being inappropriate with a minor. When dealing with online stuff federal law applies instead of state law.

[@wychoda_net__splin]

I can't with those people without any boundaries in their heads touching everyone. Like I can understand the urge to touch (wanna touch curly hair), but even asking feels super weird

[@funishmenttime]

So glad Jammi discovered this subreddit 😂 r/traumatizethemback is pure gold

[@massomouse1556]

Roly's like the caffeine(read coffee/tea) stain that doesn't come out of the mug.

[@tobyatlas6480]

Grew up with two single parents, and, in my case my dad was much better with my period than my mom. He lived with cis women his whole life, and was no stranger to heating pads and stuff. He gave me most of my knowledge of my period, whereas my mother was more of a "figure it out yourself, tough it out" parent. And when I came to the understanding that I was experiencing dysphoria buying products, he started buying them for me. Shoutout to my dad and his ally behavior.

[@squidpile]

I was wondering “I wonder when there’ll be a new Jamie collab” and would you look at that, a new Jamie collab